Katya Zamolodchikova Toxic Masculinity and Sexual Violence

Katya shares her thoughts and personal experience with sexual violence.

[@amygdala9679]

This human is so unbelievably kind and smart and compassionate. Everytime, I am baffled how he puts things into words and talks so openly. What happened to him was not okay. What happpens to men and women all over the world is not okay. No matter the circumstances - rape is not okay. There's so much I wish I could talk to him about. But if there is one thing I would want him to know, it's what is written on his shirt: "I love you so much"

[@gloomyghosty]

i agree with everything you said

[@_.mlik_]

it’s so nice to hear her talk without being interrupted 😭😭😭😭

[@heretomakeitclear4194]

Trixie reading this: ◼️👄◼️

[@kerbalSpaceForce]

@@heretomakeitclear4194 omggggg

[@lukessa7477]

I-

[@themillar2858]

READ FOR FILTH

[@fargo3342]

Bird noises

[@tammiedodgers2984]

There needs to be more discussion about toxic masculinity, I'm so thankful that Katya is speaking up about it.

[@TheSpaceman332211]

I disagree. Ever since we started moaning about men acting like men (their natural behaviour) it has opened a can of worms. Their confidence, resilience and mental health has gone downhill big time. It's good for them to be strong, masculine & full of testosterone. It's makes coping with life easier.

[@oliviavanallen9935]

We also need to talk more about toxic femininity.

[@abderraoufselmani]

@@oliviavanallen9935 social toxic femininity.

[@marieantoinette4816]

@@TheSpaceman332211 I agree. Men are afraid to be men now and it saddens me

[@tabbymoonshine5986]

Men aren’t afraid to be men 😂 they are terrified of being held accountable for deeply damaging behaviors that we have constructed and allowed to be framed as ‘masculine’.

[@cassidyholmes1353]

The most intelligent, kind, and pure human. Thank you for speaking out and helping others. Our world needs to change; love you katya

[@RoLee705]

I love how she started by asking the chat how to hide the chat. 😂

[@llllll4077]

I love how he’s pouring out his soul AND BELCHING.

[@QuinnCBeauty]

whilst eating fried pickles

[@JocoloLP]

0:40 I'm fully convinced that the full sentence would have been "I don't wanna get sidetracked and I have the attention span of a goldfish" But we got sidetracked LOL

[@peterlosingwendy7]

I want- no NEED- a book exclusively written by Katya. I'm continually amazed by her wisdom and ability to articulate issues without it sounding preachy.

[@mar35962]

YES

[@rowan4308]

10.57 "I don't have any tattoos" haha if you could see yourself now.

[@eternalconfusion6226]

yeah he put up with the pain for the sake of the aesthetics and self expression.. like wow

[@Donyalicious]

@@eternalconfusion6226 i thought he said he got them while he was either relapsing or psychotic or something and didn't feel a single one of them

[@eternalconfusion6226]

@@Donyalicious interesting information... although it raises a few questions about the tattoo artist's work ethics. Well at least he was spared that pain... And I hope now he likes them and feels that they express his personality.

[@bgen8889]

i’m so happy he talked about this i’m very late but this makes people like me who didn’t get assaulted in a movie type of way feel validated because no MEANS NO NO MATTER WHAT and so many other things mean no as well ugh it makes me so sick and i hate that Brian had to experience it :(

[@oysterhunter276]

He's so thoughtful and compassionate...

[@addangel]

oh my gods this spoke straight to my heart. could I admire Brian any more than I already do? his intelligence and emotional maturity seem to be never ending.

[@phoebejones8572]

This made me so angry I’m literally on the verge of crying.

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

his story made my whole body tense up :( i wanna hug him for hours

[@franzliszt8090]

this is so relevant today. oh my god

[@websurfer8041]

katya has such a kind soul. her and courtney have to be my fave queens, i respect both of them so much for always speaking out to help others.

[@gloom0259]

The fact that this has to be discussed is disappointing and scary as hell..

[@heather_857]

Still important for the conversation to be had, It is very disappointing though.

[@gloom0259]

@@heather_857 most definitely. I hope these conversations are had more among parents and children in a healthy manner so we don’t have people disrespecting others, especially during sexual acts.

[@beatrizvalentimcaria9280]

so sad to know that we’re still having those conversations today and so many people just cannot listen and try to understand

[@s_.777]

i could listen to katya talk about anything, she is seriously so smart

[@jeanbean921]

Sweetest human being I swear💕

[@twigthewonderk1d]

this made me so sad, too many people have been through these similar experiences and it's so gross. i just wish no one ever had to go through this.

[@batbabe1507]

I will love this human being until the day I die. Katya

[@isabeladarosa813]

he deserves the world❤

[@morganbabineaux5550]

i didnt think i could have any more love and respect for this man but wow, r e s p e c t

[@paperseatbelt]

Too many of us experience this. And too many of us never talk about it. This really is so important to talk about. ❤️

[@wolfmoon9816]

Its only getting worse This disposable sex and being used as sex toy and being instantly expected as a traumatised person to instantly have sex without any sort of effort or support or even friendship with that scumbag person its so sick and I am beyond traumatised

[@GlitterNGlueGuns94]

I really enjoy listening to katya talk. Very calming and casual.

[@CZ4E]

So intelligent & every word carefully spoken

[@vanshikakar1501]

We've got some real talks here Appreciate Katya for his honesty and purity💓

[@darcyadelle]

I love you Katya. Thank you for this.

[@penguinworm]

Katya is so introspective and kind

[@jimmytwo3998]

Very intelligent , honest and helpful . Thankyou that really helped to solidify my values around sex xxx

[@insanusorbis1684]

he's so fucking right

[@Chibihugs]

I love you, Katya! You are an amazing, inspiring human being! HUGS

[@lkcullen1918]

how am I *just now* seeing this what the heck

[@SusanDelgado1177]

i could listen to Katya read the phone book

[@monikavec]

this is so important. all the love.

[@JojoOttey]

Your on it !!..We All need to take control of our selves ...

[@daniellesoy]

this was awesome!

[@demondownpour4908]

Thank you katya.

[@gabrielkolim]

Such an important conversation!!

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

ugh i love katya so much pls

[@clementine9810]

i love him. what a wonderful human being

[@ashandspirit9736]

Understand and relate to so much in this without sharing my horror stories. Such a wise and relatable person.

[@JacobSnell1998]

I love him so much. I really do.

[@thepouletbrothers4711]

I fucking love Brian ❤️

[@inayahcee3131]

I love him so much.

[@pickybitch2707]

I love her so much and she is so right xxx

[@OoohWeeeDoe]

Goddamn this was super good! She is absolutely right!

[@cynthiathomas857]

I love this Katya.

[@faithpattison767]

I love this beautiful person

[@Cplm92017]

"I don't have any tattoos" Well that sure changed!

[@alexjohn1202]

i love him sm

[@danaekoloka9819]

Truest words

[@a.b3748]

Relatable

[@RainHavok1111]

love ya Brian! Aka Katya

[@brittlynwoods3314]

Yep. This happens way to often especially in the women community 😪

[@zanicuhz2219]

I would’ve started crying

[@mar35962]

isnt she the prettiest and the most amazing human to exist

[@Cplm92017]

I fkn love her

[@MrMountainchris]

Hurt people hurt people.

[@harshumadhu22]

Katya for president!... Of the world.. whatever..

[@cultofdisbelief]

Adore Strangers with Candy!

[@Cplm92017]

He said 'hit it and compassionate quit it'

[@lornamiller1991]

😍

[@bulletsxdame]

"I don't have any tattoos..." didn't age well.

[@lola.cruz916]

Omg that's awful😢

[@persassyjackson1688]

💖

[@keeleysmith911]

“fried pickles”

[@Cplm92017]

Crunk n Lit n Turnt 😂

[@lailaalmasalkhi3151]

MULAN!!

[@dansuduhast1051]

"I dont have any tattoos"???? Wait what ?

[@carriegemin5226]

Try CBQ method program to help quit smoking after 20 years I was able to quit smoking with this program

[@patricktrainor4959]

10:10

[@nope_no_nunya.]

2:06

[@michaeljacksin9367]

loves in need of love today

[@GaryCrew437]

Something for the Droolies in the home audience complaining: Watch Untouchable Jimmy Savile sexually abused children and adults Gary Glitter was arrested

[@mirotiny]

10:51 the 69 tattoos on his body: ❓👄❓

[@Emjolein]

Fried pickles

[@alexandrajablon4190]

MULAN😩

[@GaryCrew437]

More stuff for the Droolies in the home audience complaining: News of the World was gone Watch Doctor Who Confidential Go to War

[@sooddthisman]

send samara ,,,evil comments will disappear ...mmwhahahah..

[@brittanycrowe9167]

Awful 😣

[@kyramainer3315]

« Blue balls »

[@casseyanzio2568]

Omg. 10 mins to get to the point. A long way to get to the point. Definitely a story teller.

[@neu_dae]

the whole video was the point.

[@Stefanbites85]

UGH so vulgar

[@garateaser]

Yes, Brain/Katya is right