Kawg Sib Uv. 9/6/2022

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Kuv lov mlog koj zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwas li lawm os mi viv ncaus aww 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@yausncokojmusibsimxyoojxyo9833]

Nrog koj zoo siab os niam laus

[@douayang2163]

Niam tsev Sony ces yog koj nawb > Niam tsev.

[@hmongsiabzoo]

I’m sorry but it’s not your sister in law’s or your parents job to support you after you divorced your husband. After divorcing your spouse you need to be on your own, don’t expect a free ride from your sister in law’s. You need to support yourself and don’t be a burden to your families. I don’t understand some people expect a hand out and want other people to discipline your children. It’s selfish of you thinking just because you’re their baby sister you expect everything free. Lesson learned stand on your own two feet.

[@H2HReading]

💯

[@KajKajSiab]

👍

[@dongdick1730]

So true...agree with you

[@tkmobile2166]

ລໍ

[@panhialee8588]

Right!!!

[@ShouaTojsiab]

You don’t divorce and expect to be treated like before you got married by your siblings. You now come with a package deal. Idk why people divorced with children would go live with families; too much conflicts. You’re lucky your husband came and took you back. Most men would’ve moved on. Happy for you and thanks for sharing your story.

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Your children are a reflection of you as a parent. Koj tsis paub qhuab whia koj tej menyuam kom paub cai ces kawg nraug luag ntxub.

[@maryly09]

Wow, your brothers are willing to pay for your rent? That's more than beyond blessed. Like someone said, u now come with baggage so u can't expect your family to still treat u like a spoiled princess. I think you've been spoiled too much in your younger yrs so their treatments to u seem harsh, but that's the reality for most of people.

[@undercoveralias4012]

$100 each is nothing. lol

[@Lotus-og6if]

@@undercoveralias4012 some unloving siblings will make you sign a promissory note for a petty $100. When you are in need of help really bad, $20 is a blessing. Agreed that her baggage and issue is not her brother and sil’s problem. Gotta put on the big girl pant and be a mother to the kids she created instead of expecting freebies time after time. As she is doing nothing to help them but expect endless help from them?

[@tlee0909]

$100 in the 80’s is a lot she is just selfish to complain

[@douatho220]

Ua tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg muab lo hais qhia rau peb txhua tu ntxhais hmoob kawm ua lub siab ntev.

[@HmongGuitarPlayer]

Everybody is a family therapist in here. Very qualified

[@pajlee3167]

Yog kawg os me viv ncaus aw tu siab tshaj plaw li os mog .

[@JRxwb]

Your brother’s words are true but it was hurtful to hear them. If your husband still loves you and the kids than go back and hope for the best. Work together and could a life together. Good luck to you both 🍀🙏

[@pagpaulxyooj8662]

Tu tu siab kawg li os lub neej txhais yim neeg rov los nrog niam thiab txiv nyab nis nyob lawv yeej hlub g tau yus tej menyuam os 😥

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

nej cov muam thiab cov ntxhais nej paub lawm los pos, koj cov nus hais yog lawm koj tsis txhob tu siab rau koj cov nyab thiab cov nus lawv os mog,

[@nanglee3252]

nrog kj tu siab heev os mes viv ncau aw ua ib siab mu hlub koj tu txiv thiab cov me nyuam nawb

[@pailor2296]

Tus me ntxhai nrog koj zoo siab ua koj rov qab los ua tau ib lub neej zoo zoo lawm vim yog koj cov nyab ntxub koj cov me nyuam koj thiaj rov yuav tus txiv hnub no koj thiaj muaj neej zoo yog li yuav tau tsaug rau koj tus Nyab nawb

[@amym.y.3]

Honestly I don't blame your nyab for feeling the way she does. I'm glad you and your husband were able to work things out.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

I think these parents and brothers are selfish!! If you love your daughter you should love your grandchildren the same. I’m so blessed to have wonderful parents that love my children more than they ever love me. To the sister of this story, you can’t depend on anyone after divorce. You have to be able to take care of yourself and your children s best of wish

[@lexapiscesdragonfly]

Good story. Being human we make mistakes and yes we have to forgive.

[@jackstar254]

Beautiful story. Love, forgive, and grow.

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Nej cov mom DEV tsis muaj siab los???….👏👏👏👏

[@mna1993]

Tu2 siab kawg lis os.

[@naiher9485]

.may. vaj. kj. yog zag txim li kod. kvqhua thiab paub kj. ntse heev kg kiag. lm nawj. mog

[@yinglor8962]

yog kawg nkaus peb ua neej nyob ces txhob hais qub lus..zam txim..sib uv .. 3 lub ntsiab lus no tseem ceeb heev rau hauv peb yim neej

[@TheLynierose]

Can’t be a mother & good wife… go work lady, it your job to take care those kids… u just one lazy person expect other to take care and love…

[@MyConfessions]

I'm sorry but if I was your sister in law, I would be frustrated too. You and your kids went back to live with your parents, not working, that's more mouths to feed with only 2 income in the household. Not only that, you didnt descipline your kids, what kids would just break uncooked eggs and not eat them? That's super frustrating. Txhob pob tshaj! Yog kuv cov menyuam ua li, kuv yeej npau taws ib yam nkaus.

[@minili837]

Sad story. Brothers should have been there for her.

[@chaiihurr4145]

I wish you the best of luck but I'll be honest, no one owes you anything regardless your relationship with them. This is why we need to teach our kids independency because when we keep enabling and spoiling them, it's easy for them to think that only the universe revolves only around them.

[@sombunman5551]

Koj txawj xav heev ua tau yog kawg lawd .

[@BNP-HAWJ]

Remember you can’t blame others! Remember that their spouse are not your siblings!

[@kaciewanh1986]

Yeap! You learned a huge lesson to change your life. You're not a baby girl anymore, you're a mother of 4 children.

[@kuab50]

Tus meniam tsev hmoob zoo kawg li uas koj rov qab mus rau koj tus qub txiv nawv mog, sim neej no yuav tsi muaj ib tus tus yuav hais rau koj tias rov los juv yuav hloov txhua yam ua zoo rau koj hauv lub ntiajteb lawm mog, tus txiv neej tom ntej luas tsuas hais tias sib uv nyob lawm xwb yog koj tsi ua zoo rau luas yeej tsi ua zoo rau koj li tus qub.

[@victoriahlivaaj]

ohyo, pab tsis tau os. cov poj niam pheej tos noj luag tes ces zoo li no xwb tiag, mus tsis txog twg

[@AprilMay.2023]

Sorry but you need to watch and discipline your kids. It's okay to have your family help you out but you need to do your job as a mother, you have to do your role and learn to become independent. Also, what more do you want from your siblings? I mean they tried to rent you a place, that's hard to come by now. I think you asked too much and your parents shouldn't enable you. Your brother is right. You don't work and stay at home, why do your parents need to move in with you? They could come over when you gave birth, but not move in. I can see why your sisters in law are frustrated.

[@saykaomee]

What's wrong with getting a job and living on your own with your kids? Being pregnant is not a handicap, you can still help out around the house, be a mother and work to support you and your children.

[@Loves_GodSR]

Hmmmm....yeah.... I agree with a lot of comments in here. Once you're divorced with children, you MUST learn to stand on your own 2 feet. And only depend on family when absolutely needed. I'm glad your husband came back to get you. May your love thrive.

[@QaibT]

Niam ntsuab teev lov luv tias vaub tsuab yog lus mong leeg jhos peb hmong dawb mas peb tias vuab ntsuab no but nyob ntawm koj nyiam hais..

[@manhthangmanhthang9910]

Niam tshuab teev kv sav xas ib zaj tuaj thiab e ua cas thiaj xas taus o lov

[@Koashiii]

Divorcee is a bad name? Why? We don’t get married with the intention to get divorce later. Divorce happens. Divorcee was a bad name for you because you were the typical stay at home wife who wasn’t educated and didn’t work; depended on your husband so when shit happen and you became a divorcee you couldn’t stand on your own two feet. Don’t blame your unfortunates on being a divorcee.

[@qaibhmongvaj]

Good story. 😢

[@tseemhlubtseemnco]

Ua tsis taus niam independent tsis taus thov txhob ua nkauj fa los ua lwm tus leg os. Tsis hais koj los kuv li ua ntej yuav ua nkauj fa mas yuav tsum ua taus niam nawb. Yog ua tsis taus niam mas yuav tsum nyoo xwb tus txiv xwb nawb.

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

The last baby in the family always got priority treatment from the rest of all her/his siblings but they didn’t learned any great lessons in life from young. My baby sister was a trouble makers she lied everything about me to my mom, I got beaten up from mom every time when I was a child, even now that baby sister still trying to steps over me but I stand my ground, tell her to back off! Since you’re were too spoiled by everyone, you expect your husband spoiled you the same but it’s not going to happen since your are the lady in the house, sounds like you were treated by spoiled brat’s not grown from the reality to enduring any hardships from the get go in life. Hope you had learned a great lesson, be a better person from the experience you went through sister.

[@lisvaj7375]

I think you’ve been to spoil and got a reality check. I tell all my sisters and sils, once you’re married your free ride with me comes to an end 😂. Welcome to reality.

[@maimoua1371]

Your think you're life will treat the same all life time woman .tos luag tias kom txhob hlub2 menyuam dhau cai tsam lawv g paub ua lawv lub neej it's real .zoo qhov koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj ces you are lucky woman

[@khouher5412]

thaum yus tej nyab tej nus hlub hlub yus tsis txhais tau hais tias yus yuav sau nra mus nrog lawv nyob txog ntua thaum lawv dlhuav thiab ntxub yus thiab qhia kiag hais tias kom yus tawm es yus mam paub. kuv mloog xwb zoo li kuv twb pab koj cov nyab cov nus meem txom koj lawm thiab

[@ดวงพรแซ่ลี-ภ8ส]

ชอบมากติดตามตลอด

[@lovelykellies2908]

That's why you never depend on "family" after a divorce.. especially you come with packages, it will be a living hell.. regardless the children are good or not. Best be on your own..

[@Hmong664]

Why are your kids so annoying? You need to teach them! I have kids and no one would dare break eggs for fun!

[@a2dazgod539]

There are limits to forgiveness lady. Never forget that

[@zedpcomputer4805]

Yeej yog li koj tus txiv thiab koj tus nus hais lawm os yog tias koj mus ua nyab es koj muaj ib tug muam ho los zoo li koj los tej zaum koj yeej yuav hlub tsis taus thiab os es koj txhob tu siab rau koj cov nyab cov nus thiab

[@thojlisloos.2540]

Hai dua tshiab li no ma peb thiaj li paub mloog thiaj li nkag siab zoo ho.

[@nkaujhmoobchannel8223]

Lawv aw,,,, tos nej cov me nyuam txhoj puab swj siab los vim nej twb tsis hais li os me nyuam txhoj puab li cas los nej ua ntsej muag lag dig ntsiag to xwb yeej tsis nte me nyuam ib los li lawv thiaj li ua cov me nyuam tsis paub cai!

[@userhlubyuamkev]

Ncaws npas yeej ok sav tsuav txhob ua Phaib thiab tham hluas nkauj

[@cindyxiong7606]

It is your fault. Wow you only think of yourself.

[@yunothoj]

When you would not share custody with ur ex-husband that exposed and confirmed ur selfishness. U need to learn how to grow up. Adulting is not easy, it's nobody's responsibility but ur's. Relationships change just like seasons change. Don't expect the family u once knew and ur relationships to remain the same.

[@pkcyang2910]

I can not forgive an adulterous. That is the ultimate betrayal in a marriage. You can say forgive but can't forget. I will always feel disgusted and resentful towards my spouse who cheated out of our marriage.

[@m1ssvu3]

The question is do you want to be the old generation Hmong girls or the new Hmong generation to be independent never wait for a man. Work and learn how to drive.

[@kayang1123]

Koj yeej tsis zoo. Txhob mus hais koj nyab nus kiag..

[@kerlee7536]

Es ua cas ua neeg nyob ho yuav ruam ua luaj es ho tos sib nrauj tag to man hloov ho tsis hloov T haum tseem nyob ua ke txhob cia T xog qhov sib nrauj zoo dua

[@leelaiyah789]

Twb ua2 niam es koj tus txiv kam lees ua txhua tam kom koj rov qab tamsi koj xav tias koj ua2 niam no ces ua kom taus niam kiag tsis txhob tab kaum luag lwm tus. Hos yog ua tsis tau niam ces nyob twj ywm. You are very self centred always wanting to be spoiled!

[@hlubkojforever1901]

You adviced us to forgive our husbands even if he cheated as long as he said “sorry”…. you must be crazy.

[@user-or3gk5it6u]

Tu siab kawg li os yu mu yuav txiv lm yu tej nu luag yeej g hlub yu lawm os

[@kingofall9262]

You’re no longer a child. You came back with a package. Your nyab probably feel obligated to care for your kid.

[@hmooblor1]

You are a good wife…who was able to learn and forgive.

[@kayingsaeyoung5543]

Nyob Zoo os May do you know a lady named Nkauj Lug Channel from KZbin channel

[@สร้อยทิพย์สมบัติรักษา]

Zoo siab nrog koj os sister

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Being baby of the family made you a spoiled brat...when you faced reality of life, it was hard for you to endure. I hope you the best with your 2nd chances at marriage.

[@sunnygirl973]

Before you run away, make sur you have a job, money and house or appartement where to live !

[@janievee279]

This is third time listening this story to this part 🙄

[@zetunai1375]

Can you ask your husband why he cheated when rich and stable? I heard too many stories like this and I want to know why and what is going on to make them make that decision?

[@semicharmedlife]

When there's a tragedy involving couples in our Hmong community we judge the couple and say they should have said something. When a wife leaves her husband. The family does not accept her and her children. She feels stuck and obligated to stay in a toxic marriage. The problem is us. Hmong people siab me me and cannot help anyone.

[@teesong8503]

Aye her family tried their best but how long can u take care of an adult, her kids and ur own family

[@chouathao2122]

too much lectures.

[@User-h6t6s]

I will said this to you sister. Your brother and sister in law love you, but there love is not a true love. A true love doesn’t come in good time or bad time. It come all the time especially on your lower and suffering time. They said they love you but to me they can only love you when you can love them too. Sorry what you gone through.

[@redfish3204]

this story must be from the city of Stockton, CA. That is where they play soccer and gamble later in the 80, 90 and probably still doing it now!

[@hlubforlife]

The good old days. Hehe 😂

[@vangthao007]

I was one of them. The good old day.

[@amazinggrace8136]

It’s called savings and an emergency fund people. Don’t act like a victim bc you spent all your money.

[@scha4945]

So sad. This is why us women need to be independent. Your brothers and SILs I hope they have to through what you go through. It is times like these that they should support you. It is okay for them to teach and discipline your children like their own but to just hating your kids is wrong. And for you if you go back stay with your parents brothers you should be opened for them discipline your kids, but only if they treat your children as their own. Your brothers don’t love you, remember what he said to you brothers and SIL say, don’t count on them and go to then anymore. They don’t love you. If and when ever they need your help, only do what you can and remember they don’t love you.

[@maileexiong6927]

Wow this story is messed up. Her husband cheated on her. She’s pregnant with a bunch of kids and struggling. She should be getting help from her family. Some woman get really sick when they are pregnant like myself. I would vomit constantly until there was nothing left but blood. They should be there to help support her and get her back on her feet and help her become independent. It’s not easy raising that many kids by yourself. She was only there for five months and they already hate her. That’s not love at all. It’s sad she had to go back to her cheating husband. That’s why so many woman can’t leave when it’s bad because they don’t have a support system. Thankfully he ended up changing in this story.

[@Lisa_X5]

Tej zaum koj yeej nkees dhau qhov nkees es luag thiaj li ntxub ua luaj thiab mas. Koj cov menyuam los yeej txhoj tshaj plaws li thiab. If you live with someone and you don’t want people to discipline them when they’re naughty, get out, go find your own place!