Hello Counselor - B1A4, Dal Shabet! (2014.02.10)

[@Alva13elieve]

The wife's concern about her husband being too nice really broke my heart. Not just because she has it rough with him but because of how cruel people can be, taking advantage of someone so nice and dare I say naive. Ugh I feel so bad for her and I hope that they can work through this together.

[@Zuuuputri]

For the first concern, believe me that having a cheerful mom like that is good. At least for me. I love seeing my mom being happy. I love seeing her smile and i think it is time for her to enjoy her life since she suffered a lot to raise me up. My mom likes to sing too but i would have stop her if she sings and dance in the public. And for the second concern, that husband is too kind i wanna cry because i felt so sorry for him. I used to be like him but after a bad incident happened to me, i stop being so nice. So i hope that the guy will change too. Fighting! The third concern, i cried. For real. When the girlfriend told that she lacks of affection. Kind of understand her. I don't think what she's doing is wrong but unni, don't do it always okay? You can stop the habit, fighting! Last but not least, the fourth concern. I've a friend who's having the same concern. People though that her father is cheating on her mother. But she never take that as a serious matter. She laughs whenever she heard that. I believe that the girl will get used to it. Forget about others and live your life because you only live once. Btw, his father looks like 2am seulong. I'm sorry if i'm mistaken. Just my opinion. P/s: I'm sorry for the bad grammar. English is not my first language. Still learning ^^

[@liltunwin]

Yeah I think many can identify somewhat with the guy in the 2nd concern, though he is on the more extreme side of being nice. I assume though, that he is changing because their debt has considerably reduced. Notice I said "is changing" because he probably did something out of pity for others again recently that made the wife write this concern.

[@dessywee]

The first concern with that girl and her mother that dances. That girl doesn't look full Korean. She looks mixed. She's so gorgeous!!!

[@1991justforfun]

is that a fucking joke? she looks like jim carrey from the 'mask'

[@dessywee]

1991justforfun well, we do have our own opinion on others. Good to know btw, good to know!

[@DTinaj]

I thought so too until I saw the video when she was in 8th grade. Eye lid surgery.

[@1004-l2u]

shes pretty but her problem was nothing

[@baphomet345]

DTinaj Yes I noticed that too, she's defo not mixed but the double eyelid surgery made her look like one, even though i have to admit with or without the surgery she looked beautiful either way.

[@gwen6937]

"Didnt you go to Busan yet?" xD ohh Baro

[@eynjuhlteeh]

BARO IS TOO HANDSOME. THAT IS A CONCERN. lol

[@aishaali7745]

LOOOOLLLLLLLL U MADE MY DAYY :')

[@gogoyo3256]

omg yes jinyoung too

[@pluffvi5380]

ALL OF B1A4 MEMBER IS HEHE

[@TheSkillz3000]

Baro was so pissed about the 2nd concern, u could see it all in his face, it was so funny, he was about to snap. Really hilarious when YeongJa had to tell Baro to close his fucking mouth, omg. Baro was about to slob over himself.

[@poofyowl]

Wow, the last concern. I was surprised too when they were walking together. But I guess it's also because the dad and daughter looked really affectionate when they had their arms around each other when walking so it did look couplely. But her dad does look young, I think perhaps the form fitting dress shirt and jeans? He looks like a cross between Seulong and Jung Kyung Ho (Sooyoung's bf hehehe ^^) The daughter has a really cute/pretty face btw, her features are so harmonious. It's interesting cuz even when I was her age, I wasn't so affectionate with my dad like that... :o They are pretty touchy feely.

[@poofyowl]

***** Sure or some parents and children are more friendly and affectionate in interactions compared to others.

[@shaincontrerascofre4449]

i am 22 and i still kiss my mom on the lips my brother who is 24 does it too :D

[@poofyowl]

Shain Contreras Wow, interesting to see different narratives/experiences. :)

[@Water_melon_slice]

its insane how much younger koreans look compared to americans

[@matsumotosuri]

Well, Asians in general look younger compared to Caucasians. It's in our genes.

[@andresil8330]

That's probably because of their diet, is really balanced a full of nutrients. But funny thing is that korean woman look good untill their 40's but after the 50's they don't look younger, but older.Must be the effect of menopause or something.

[@alyogagames]

Mmmm not really "Americans" maybe more so just Caucasians in general not America in general.

[@RockyRadiation]

Plastic sugery in korea is normal though

[@Water_melon_slice]

The reason I said America is because not only do I live here, but also because of the poor diet that most Americans have which is reflected in their body as they age

[@cityhunterlover1]

The first concern is not even a concern for me...I understand that it must be difficult when you hear people saying that your mother is weird but well, people are stupid. The society is so rigid that when something go out of the ordinary, they are peeing their pants. Just let people enjoy life. She may be a little extreme some time but it's better to have a cheerful mother than a too occupied one or a mother who doesn't care about her children. just let her be happy and stop caring about what the society say.

[@jaggerjacks8795]

I agree, the mother has pretty special qualities and seems quite sincere which is very hard to be. Most of us hide behind facades daily because we are scared of rejection.

[@cityhunterlover1]

I agree with you, everything is about being accepted. The society had forged a mould and it tries to force everyone to fit in it despite our different shapes.

[@baphomet345]

Yeah the daughter should let her mother do what she wants, but yeah i do understand her feelings as a daughter myself, no matter what i don't want strangers judging my mother in a bad way or want to hear them calling my mother mentally unstable or weird, i think the daughter has no right to stop her mother from dancing and the mother has no right to forcefully use her daughter as a back up dancer for her benefit, i hope this was really the last time.

[@vern6793]

I live with a family like that I find that concern a bit ridiculous. My entire family does that i don't care. It's not a big deal. I dance along with them.

[@ryyanelzahi9061]

HopeToTheEnd5 she have the right to dance but she doesn't have the right to force her daughter too dance too , when the daughter refuse to dance withe her she act so childish and call her daughter betrayer ، what kind of mother tell her daughter not to go to school cand make her dance instade ?

[@awsomo4000ness]

That first mom is me in the future

[@doona7400]

same

[@heartshapedsoul]

I'm not a Dal Shabet fan, and I never really liked Subin. But she seems really sweet and caring.

[@annaalisaca8905]

I really like it that Baro is so interactive and is also concerned to the guest's problems. Jin young oppa should interact more!

[@ericahe1783]

I totally understand the last concern! I walked into a supermarket with my dad once and he had his arm around me and suddenly a complete stranger came up to my dad and asked him if he was ashamed to be with a girl so much younger then him! He got so mad and asked why he couldnt show affection to his daughter in public? Its really rude and annoying!

[@thangs1216]

I wish the whole b1a4 team came

[@leiispeaking8463]

"i was never misunderstood~" uwaaaaahh~ with jinyoung's straight face.. cutee~

[@xiumingchen5746]

omg the two girls from dal shabet are so pretty

[@debn6013]

How's it a concern dat ur mother loves to sing and dance? Stupid concern! Shes full of life, dancing and singing relieves stress, fun stuff! I'm d same. If am her daughter, will dance wit her all d time! I used to do dat wit my mum, miss it soo much! STOP COMPLAINING AND LET UR MOTHER LIVE HER LIFE!!!!!! LOVE U BARO! SOOOOO CUTE!

[@vinR14]

It's good that the mother is full of life, but there's a time and place for everything. It's good to enjoy life but dancing on the street and in the subway is just weird especially if there are people around. I don't think the daughter would object if the mother wants her to help her in the contest if she doesn't have other things to do such as school. I'd say the same about the boyfriend who doesn't want his gf to keep on playing with his nipples. Its not a problem if it is don in private place.

[@yanping0404runs2]

It's not that big of a concern that her mom is crazy over singing and dancing, what's bigger is that her mother drags her daughter along to the competitions as a backdancer which she actually dreads going for... like 50-60 times?! It's just....

[@liltunwin]

What you're saying is very ignorance. You are under the assumption that because you like to dance with your mother and therefore who ever doesn't is stupid, hence the "stupid concern". The mother is living her life, very enjoyable at that and it's great. However she isn't just living her life, she is living the daughter's life too. That, is where the concern is.

[@debn6013]

first of all it's 'ignorant'. by d way dat girl is 22 now so shes old enough to say no to her mother if she doesn't want to dance or sing! her concern is stupid to me bcos if her mother stops to dance or sing, wat else has she got??? if d woman loves to sing and dance leave her alone if you don't want to join or go along wit it, then say NO mum. Simple!!!! Just like its simple to say, if u dont like wat i wrote, dats ur problem! not everyone would.

[@liltunwin]

First of all don't pick on someone's grammar when yours is just as bad. "dat" instead of that, shes instead of she's, bcos instead of because. Don't you feel any shame at all? Like I'm literally laughing out of pity for your broken self-righteousness. Also, your argument went from "stop complaining" to "she should say stop". I hope you understand that are two exclusive arguments. And for the record, if you did listen to the concern, which you didn't because you clearly missed it. If you did, you would have heard the part where the daughter wouldn't go along with the mother and the mother would call the daughter with names.

[@happyheartslee]

both parents look young! wow!

[@nouje]

OMG that man!!!! He's soooo nice. I feel really bad for them. I hope they pay off all their debts soon and live and better life and he will say 'no' to things.... Wow...

[@cesslinaquintana673]

I can understand the last girls concern. When my baby brother was born I was going to be turning 14. Before my mom was to be discharged I was rocking my new born brother in the hospital rocking chair when the nurse came in when she went to my dad and was telling him some of the medicine my mom would have to take then she came up to me and started showing me my mothers prescription slips.... my dad and I looked at each other and then stared at her. Before she could finish my dad said, "Um... that's not my wife.... that's my daughter." Needless to say she was really embarrassed and so were we!

[@azazleue]

A single word could change everything

[@misscutiemah]

for the guy with the pervy girl, I say invest in bandaids! protect yourself! lolz

[@flowerlight]

Its sad that people take advantage of such kindness. Thankyou for subbing and sharing for us to watch Kbs ^^

[@b1a4baroyah79]

I was expecting B1A4 to dance "Lonely" ;-;

[@jexicaa]

...cause then it could relate to me.

[@deki6210]

+jex.icaa lol SAME

[@samuelarredondosister5053]

B1A4Baroyah they always give the girls preference over the male idols .

[@jul2447]

I think it wasn't released yet at that time

[@1991Malika]

Speechless at the second concern.. :(

[@babyyneekyy]

The young looking dad kind of reminds me of Ryeowook. Am I the only one who sees the slight resemblance???

[@yeongji07]

Is it just me or does the father of the fourth concern look like an older and skinnier version of Seulong from 2AM? On the side note, I hope the husband of last week's winner keeps his promise and be considerate towards his wife.

[@SHINeeWorldgal]

For the daughter-father concern, I can relate to it somehow. Despite me being 16, I still act like a baby in front of my brother (who is around 23 years older) and people tend to misunderstand us whenever we hug or hold hands in public. I think people just tend to judge others the moment they think something we are doing is inappropriate in their eyes. But differently, my brother and I don't really bother to listen to whatever they say since it is a waste to get their hurtful words into our heads when they only see us on the street once or twice. I hope the daughter and father can go out without worrying so much about other people's comments because caring too much about their comments will make them drift apart and it is worse to see that. :D I love their strong family bond though~

[@ishtarmelissa6899]

***** can i have your brother ? you guys seem to have such a good relantionship, I envy you !! I have two brothers but we're not that close

[@SHINeeWorldgal]

Ishtar Mélissa hehe. Don't be envy. Try to get close with your brothers. I guess it is because of the age difference so we just technically become close. :)

[@ishtarmelissa6899]

***** yep i guess it's because we're from different generations :p i want a twin then !

[@SHINeeWorldgal]

Ishtar Mélissa hahaha! xD twin eh? xD

[@ishtarmelissa6899]

***** if i had a twin there would be no age difference and we would be really close right ? i envy you twins and triplets around the world :3 by the way do you watch the return of superman ( it's a korean show )

[@yanping0404runs2]

Best show ever.

[@rooowtwx]

Sometimes I think this is a pretty awesome show in a way that it shows people how certain families or individuals live in certain ways and whether it really is some concern which works against social norms, etc. Like the dancing mother, she does act "weird" yet if we are ready to accept that behaviour when we see it in public, then it doesn't become a concern. I guess if we're ready to accept some condition or situation with an open heart, there are a lot of things which are acceptable (and also there are certain that we do not accept). Thank you KBS for uploading this show with subs

[@ayana_e]

I hope the husband of the lady that won on today's show will change. He can't be helping others when he can't even help his poor wife. Now they are paying debts, when they both should be enjoying that money doing things that they like. :(

[@jaggerjacks8795]

Yeah :/, it's a shame this world is not so innocent. The husband seemed really sweet and caring, but devastatingly naive. It upsets me that people would take advantage of a guy like him, of all.

[@Psycomantis1]

That last family is so pretty.

[@allmyown5531]

Why do I have to wait a week?! I love 'Hello'!

[@lilfir2309]

That's one beautiful dad and daughter relationship. Teared.

[@illyGalSloth]

I strive to be as confident as the mother in the first concern. I envy her confidence >.

[@ulNag]

the 4th concern bring me to tears.. I'm not close with my father and it hurts me when I see dad and daughter can walk and holding hand in public places. But it hurts me more when dad and daughter close but can show it in public places..

[@anneqert2]

Omg I can totelly understand the last concern. I was 19 when me and my dad went shopping for dresses to a wedding. Then this shop-lady came and said: "Aw congratulations u look so good together. When is the wedding" This isn' the first time. Before when I was under 16 everyone thought he was my older brother. From that age till now everyone thought my dad was my boyfriend. Now I'am 21 and thnx god my dad grew a beard. He looks way older because of that. U can not believe how frustrated one can get -.-

[@deercute]

jinyoung is so attractive >

[@ToriChan84]

B1A4....!!!! I Love it~~~

[@mikkakeke]

B1A4!!! Kyaaaa~ jinyoung looked cute♥ ROFL at Baro's story...when his two members touch their cheeks and chin! Thats not a concern...That's Just adorable^-^

[@issatangomez4123]

Dont get embarassed Be proud of your mother She can sing and dance so well..

[@padianih]

Please invite 2NE1! It will going to be more havoc and fun..love from Malaysia.

[@puki140]

alot of the problems people send in are only a problem cuz they obsess too much about what the people will think or talk about them ! who cares !! just live your life without caring too much what other people think about you !! I got over a lot of insecurities when I started thinking that way

[@OtakuMoustache13]

Yes, like the first and last "concerns".

[@MyKpopThought]

Yes! I was thinking the exact same thing. If people cared less what others think about them, the world would be a better place.

[@candycanenee]

in a way, they can't help it because of society's pressures but seriously, that is the best way to live...to not care much about what others say and what other people think. the mother was fun to be with! my mom is like that too and yes, it can be embarrassing but I'd rather join my mom being weird than judge her for it and send it to TV like it's a big thing.

[@nasimalshoq]

the 4th concern, i also have the same experience but with my mom, people always thought she was my YOUNGER sister not my old one. LOL

[@tonimaitland6526]

i can relate to the last concern because when ever i am with my father people think that we are a couple and even when i call him dad. That made me not wanting to be in public with him, but i said forget about them am with my dad so i shouldn't care what people think, and that made me more relaxed and happy.

[@miserymelody100]

Lol I CAN relate to the first story. My mom dances whenever she hears a song. It'd be one thing if she dances good but she doesn't and she seriously believes she dances good despite the many MANY times I've told her she doesn't.

[@nayu7267]

in this episode, the prize money will actually help the winner solve their problem. sometimes it really won't.

[@LizzyPham1225]

i want to see more BARO

[@aylinrocha15]

The girl in the nipple concern. Is so pretty (lol nipple concern)

[@justahuman9273]

+Aylin Rocha your picture :3.. it's pretty too xD

[@katherineloz01]

the guy at 0:44:11 hes concern is really adorable but it looks paintful but he looks really adorable too!!

[@taralee4996]

I like the mom in the first concern!!

[@mahimamandava5294]

is it just me who claps along when everyone in the show is also clapping?

[@Alva13elieve]

I find it funny how Shinwoo annoys Baro when he is being all touchy. Lol Shinwoo likes to touch but he doesn't like being touched XD

[@dharshkwon]

im crying from laughing at the 3rd concern.... HAHAHAHHAHAHA! :')

[@enigerlee0525]

Wow that dad looks really young!! Even though i stare at him and think his 40 years old, i still couldn't think of him as 40.

[@ilhan691]

The girl in the third concern is so pretty! LOL so cute

[@shellygraham5042]

The dancing mom and I could be best friends! Go Mom!!!!

[@Evilmakne]

Dal Shabet♥ Nice episode

[@ichibimintae]

Thank you KBS ^w^

[@LilyStylo]

Kind of can relate to the last concern. My dad is 50 but he looks young as if he could be in the thirties. Every time we go out together, I'll always frequently call him "Dad" loudly so that people around us can hear.

[@loveya23able]

I want that kind of relaitionship with my dad too....but not that extend where holding hands in public and stuff i find it awkward....O.o

[@alyogagames]

I think since she barely even gets to be affectionate with her dad she's missed out on holding hands as a little kid like you do when you're very young. It's weird yah since shes in 9th grade now. Seems Koreans are way too critical and are not sensitive to certain things like in her case :/

[@Anaida32]

The dad that look young reminds me of Sid from Ice Age! I couldn't get over that the whole time!

[@seraphicfae]

baro is so adorable he was copying subin shaking her head when she was expressing how she heard their songs im-

[@limshi-nee7015]

I agree with the 3rd concern. I am only 12 but I am 165cm tall. Plus, I have a mature face and I don't smile that much.My father is just a bit higher from me and we always held hands and hug each other's waist as DAUGHTER-FATHER relationship when we were shopping. It was okay for me when I am 7-10years old but not when I grow taller and taller. Slowly, we look like couple. Sometimes it hurts when people say, "A girl, huh??". It really hurt and it seems like I am a 3rd party. I hate it very much and it makes me feel like I want to grow taller than all the men in my family.

[@ayo_itsme7011]

Love subins hair 😊😍

[@heartsrob74]

I don't understand how the man in the second concern still has good credit! Anyway, thanks for the subs, KBS World.

[@issatangomez4123]

Live your life the way you want..

[@buckheadgirl2012]

The couple for concern 3 were adorable.

[@giahantong7948]

5th concern: i teared up a bit, sometimes it happened to me too, my mom tells me not to stay too near w/ my dad anymore, i grew to love him more, i want to go back to that time where i was daddy's girl..

[@warriorwolfehh]

B1A4!

[@mhirang4199]

I nearly cried while watching the 2nd concern, it was really sad. I can't say that I feel his wife's pain but I kinda felt it right away after listening to her initial concerns, I nearly broke into tears. I know he wants to give because of his pity and his good nature but he needs to stop. He's getting played with by the cruelty of the world. I wish them the best.

[@jaggerjacks8795]

Ugh, yes... exactly. "by the cruelty of the world." It was really heartbreaking that there are people out there, who would really take advantage of someone like him. They both deserve better, but are struggling...

[@oxvkox]

Dalshabet and b1a4 together again..

[@hoseokandsansblackgf4676]

Subin looks like a giant dancing next to Woohee XD I love Dal Shabet

[@PhineaBlue]

Wow, the couple and their friends from the 3rd concern are all so good looking! o.O

[@JasmineTranxo]

I have the same concern with the 4th one,it's really frustrating

[@theanaa95]

OMG! My two favourite groups are together ♡

[@monica-td1oi]

around 32:13...about helping dogs and cats, thats AMAZING!!! how can people think thats a bad thing? i know its not good to say yes to everything, but helping poor and innocent animals isnt one of the bad things.

[@for.tax.reasons]

monica I don't think anyone was saying it's bad to adopt strays they were concerned about him adding the financial stress of pets to a home that is always so deeply in dept.

[@missmouse483]

I'm 21. No matter what I'm wearing, how my hair is styled, how mature I sound I get mistaken for younger. I work and lots of people ask me how old I am, concerned that a minor is working! I'm CONSTANTLY mistaken for 12/13. Restaurants are annoying to go to because they give me crayons and paper so I can draw and a kids menu to look at. When I'm out with my younger sisters I feel like a little girl :/ They're aged 17 and 19. I'm treated like the youngest out of the two. When a waiter comes to take an order they look at THEM asking what I want to eat! They also think they are the ones paying for the meal!

[@jaggerjacks8795]

Awwwh, it's okay. But try to look at it in a good way, imagine how young you'll look when you're older too compared to your siblings/friends! :P It may be annoying now, but this problem might blossom into a gift in the future. :D

[@jazzypantz6412]

I'm 12 and look 16. People keep thinking I'm old and tell me to stop acting childish. It's sad that I can't be like my age anymore.

[@san_shine0768]

The young dad reminds me of Namgoong Min a little bit.

[@alexisle7053]

whoa the mom in the first concern is really look alike Suga, especially when she smiles. That's exactly the face Suga made when he danced sexy dance on Weekly Idols. Her daughter is pretty. Man, i love her long hair ;)

[@linanguyen1754]

Baro is a very good actor

[@buckheadgirl2012]

The couple with the 2nd concern were a cute couple. I hope they stay together.

[@kewlgal143]

Never thought i would say this, but thank god my dad looks his age! Haha xP

[@AJ-qp5wc]

finding random vids of B1A4 😊😍

[@wuxia931]

Woohee so cute 3♥♥

[@popgirl77]

I can relate to the last concern..People say I'm my dad's wife and my mom is my sister x.x I teared up alot watching this episode

[@bundamanda]

i kinda envy the last concern, i wish i was that close to my dad....

[@jessikavieira4899]

OMG! KISS&CRY AT THE END

[@Elizabeth83500]

Ever since Hello Baby, Jinyoung has been my 2nd favourite in B1A4. He's so good looking but he looks kinda like Lee Joon here. I ain't mad though. lol.

[@3l0390]

The daughter in the dad concern looks quite mature for her age too..

[@jessikavieira4899]

Dal Shabet fighting

[@motomoto2236]

My aunt is exactly like the mom who likes to dance and sing everywhere and I freaking love her. I don't see how this is a problem. I mean you shouldn't force people to dance and sing if they don't want to but if someone does want to dance, unless it's stripping or something insane, let them do it. They're not hurting anyone.

[@silvervixen007]

yeah agree! it can be very refreshing at times 😋😋

[@Munirah-jc9nh]

true

[@lordoftehnoob]

The second concern is a serious one, her wife seems to have suffered a lot due to her husband lack of restrain on lending money. Its okay if you don't have a wife and you owe some money but when you do have one, try not to make them suffer along with you. I hope i would not do that to my wife, a good husband would not make a wife cry because of his actions. Its just too cruel too see someone suffer because of your own foolishness

[@acommenter1255]

true. she should leave him

[@strawberrieproject]

I totally understand the daughter. When I was in school, a lot of people didn't my dad was my biological father because he was so light skin. As I got older and was with my father, people will tell hi, his wife is beautiful. He looks young for his age but I thought (in my opinion ) that he at least looks old enough to be my father. Plus we look a whole lot a like.

[@LanNguyen-iu3oe]

one of my favorite episodes thus far

[@otakusteffy]

So much to say, but I'll just say that I loved, all the concerns were unique and it was funny, it just made my day >w

[@KawaiiAi7]

The last concern really...I can identify with that because people always mistaken my mom as my older sister. but my case isnt as bad as the concern. im glad the wife won this week though!

[@kdrhlbby]

Am I the only one who think that the audiences are always the same?

[@missmarsism]

one day, few episode recording, i guess.

[@shazanamn5119]

zafee lee how can they do multiple recording in a day. a recording like this may ended in 8 hours. only the editing makes it less.

[@missmarsism]

it is, btw.

[@itzsquishy4596]

zafee lee Haha? Seriously? The audience arent all the same, some were different because of the family that has concern will be different. And its seriously crazy if 1 day few recording =.= 1 episode with 3 concern actually took at least 6 hour, the editer cut some part away because it will be tiring for us to see.

[@IwishIwasasharpieIWIWAS]

... Since I was about 17 to about last year (I'm almost 21 now..) people started giving my dad and I weird looks.. So I can relate to Jeongyun's concern.. it's awkward, and you feel like you're doing something wrong, when clearly you're just being misjudged. Thus I instinctively just called him "dad" or brought up a story about a sibling or something about his wife without thinking "Oh, wait, people are looking at us again" ... it goes without saying, My dad looked pretty young, but it still irked me when people thought we were dating... Even when he's out with my, one year older, older brother people think they're brothers, or even that my BROTHER is the older one... sigh... I'm glad that my dad still has it, but people need to stop prejudging people who hangout together...>,>"

[@abzime]

I started crying at the second concern. So sad T.T