Yamkela Grey akho choice mntase kunzima!! Thankyou for watching 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️
@sm18315 жыл бұрын
"Ndiyagowa ingase ndizikakele" wow this really made my day😂😂😂😂
@ntokozozwane86655 жыл бұрын
Yoh. I relate so much - umntu afike athethe iIntentions zeRelationships but acts completely different to what he says. You give them the benefit of the doubt, he treats you like shit then you leave then he begs you to come back😒 only to fuck with you all over again. Jonga, it gets better girl❤️ just keep on letting it all out uzoba right☺️💕
@faithsibiya1395 жыл бұрын
Guys if I could I'd hug everyone of you at once, nale igowayo kule-video 😊 throwing ❤ nje everywhere 😙😘
@nomfundobhengu14085 жыл бұрын
Trust your gut feeling babes, it would never lead you astray. also, nobody that truly loves you will go a day without communicating with you.
@mphomoletsane61495 жыл бұрын
Please allow yourself to feel my girl, don't give yourself a time limit on ugowa mabhabha. I'm currently in a similar situation as you. I love the girl and all but the reason why I stopped speaking to her and even blocked her for night once was that she cant communicate like an adult and say listen I know i said such and such but i cant anymore because of A B C! If you gonna act like a child I'm gonna treat you accordingly. she then went on to play dumb as if she doesn't know what the issue is (pissed me off further) I then led her to see where the problem is cause she was acting as if it's something else was the problem and gave a half ass apology for something surrounding the issue I then decided to voice note cause she was not getting it fully and was making excuses. she then responded with a basic ass "ok", to me that's a fuckoff! as much as i love her I can't take that disrespect, we'll speak now if she ever decides to be serious shame. I love my peace so I'm not someone who's gonna talk too much when annoyed but if something really bothers me I'll let you know but I'm not gonna repeat myself over and over like im talking to usana eliding' ukhunjuzwa. I don't know if this will help but best of luck nomntu wakho wethu. Ps. I enjoyed and connected with the video however it's tacky wearing hats indoors all the best in the future.
@keketsooarabilekomane8845 жыл бұрын
You are LEGIT MY FAVOURITE KZbinR
@jesss80605 жыл бұрын
YHO mnatas enkosi. I am at home ndiborekile. I don't know what to do with myself. Kubi. You have no idea how happy seeing that you posted just made me feel. I was serious about you posting everyday njalo
@sanelisiwe.yolandamagwents94655 жыл бұрын
Gal yhoop bawo these guyz are savage.mara siya Gowo sonke gal
@tshinakahomulele21975 жыл бұрын
Treat him the way he treats you ,nawe you must go MIA on him .
@i.mkwanazi80905 жыл бұрын
Keep it moving Sis. I’ve been in a similar situation... this ain’t it, he’s not for you. You’re gorgeous and all kinds of a snack, you don’t need the mind games.
@cindymthethwa99265 жыл бұрын
Firstly thanks for sharing this shows how real n genuine you are.. Its life babes i hope you find closure n move on you are soo beautiful neva doubt yoself Move on babes he's a lier n he will damage you
@thinamgedesi17345 жыл бұрын
Mntase you don’t deserve this , you are too genuine ❤️❤️ know you not alone , things will get better .
@misswora37685 жыл бұрын
Please more English or subtitles love ! I am missing 75% of the video I am just confused 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Firstly I love you and I just love how legit you are.. Hun mna nawe siyafana, i always force the truth out of a guy, these idiots make us feel like we are not good enough sibe sizama our best to make them happy.. This is why i'm single guys, i've come to learn that the hardest thing about being in a relationship is always worrying about the other person's happiness.. You just don't know whether you are doing it right or wrong or what to do to make sure they are 100s with you, ngoba kaloku we avoiding those heartbreaks, you just never know, unless you get someone who truly appreciates you.. Mntase make him tell what the hell his problem is, tell him to be honest you will be able to take it, trust me you will feel better afterwards. I just hate how men have a way of controlling our emotions nxa.
@VickyVeeJonas5 жыл бұрын
DJ Sweety On Your Screen it’s so hard to even talk about such things cause when I’m bringing the topic up “oh you are trying to fight” “stop with the negative energy “ 😩😩 at this point I’m just confused and ndine anger because I can’t even raise something up without him thinking I’m fighting
@samirasamee6095 жыл бұрын
@@VickyVeeJonas Oh kodwa sthandwa he guit trips you.. and im going the same as in ngoku, asibahle guys for le nonsense.. the love we have for them makes us forget our worth, we feel like they are worth the pain kanti they are not! Only time will decide what we do with them cause kunzima ukuzikhethela, we've fallen too deep.
@mphomoletsane61495 жыл бұрын
@@VickyVeeJonas Jonga nono tell him you don't wanna fight but you also can't just act as if everything is ok, we are adults who are mature enough to resolve issues without having to fight, we need to understand each other and if you wanna be with someone who is gonna act like everything is ok he has the wrong girl I hope my 2cents can help
@princessmazantsi83285 жыл бұрын
You’re right you shouldnt have to doubt anything. And to be honest, uyaqhelwa . But you love him so anything we say won’t matter you should make the right decision for yourself (most likely not to cos you like uGuy) lmao. But you’re me. I get you. Trying to see the good in him when he is actually bein very selfish is another toxic thing. I feel like it’s out there he’s taking you for a poes you see it but you don’t want to accept it. Ba awumlahli ke atleast try getting a distraction nyana (hard when you’re a lover, I know) but it works. And really stop asking him nomcenga rha.
@mokgadimalapane68695 жыл бұрын
I have been there sana, run for your life. Such situations will break and damage you for life.
@yonelatutu27885 жыл бұрын
First things first mntase, DO NOT allow yourself ba mawustreswe ngumntu odibana naye apha ekapa esantini. Rha sies now he's gonna think ba he's got some kind of hold over you (even if he does... ayimfuni wethu). Also umhle and you're still young and umhle man.❤ kupha lonto out of your system sogqiba ubangene🔥🌹 Yhu amadoda🚽
@ntokozozwane86655 жыл бұрын
A whole narcissist. Leave girl. It doesn’t get better if you stay. You will constantly go back and forth senselessly.
@tshegofatsomotshegwa37195 жыл бұрын
If a man wants to be with you his intentions will always be clear. And he will be sensitive to the things that hurt you. Your worth sooo much more pack your things and go babes♥️ The are people out there who know what love is and haiii they can love iyoooo. You saw the red flags and went in anyway (like the rest of us🙄) take the lesson and remember it for next time. Trust yourself May the good Lord give you a very clear direction and heal your heart♥️
@lifatukwayi5 жыл бұрын
He's even taken your glow... ha.a maarn, hinton uzi'stress.a kangaka for umjita... ayispani tuu
@lwazimcnite48515 жыл бұрын
Yesss girl, mnna nawe siya fana shem, it’s hard to love someone who is not that into you. Sinenkani
@yenziwendaba58705 жыл бұрын
Giiiiiiiirl we must be dating the same guy. Lawd....! i feel you 110%
@michellem49285 жыл бұрын
Same guy hon
@kamohelomotsoeneng55995 жыл бұрын
"intliziyo yam iyabhobhoza". i fucken felt that
@1that_o4 жыл бұрын
“When someone else shows you what you want in a guy, you never really want the guy you want that specific person that treats you like shit” 😩🙆🏾♀️ I hate the fact that I relate to this
@kamogelo_doing_the_most53255 жыл бұрын
I now know how to speak Xhosa a lil bcoz of Vicky... Thanks babe
@38864able5 жыл бұрын
Standwa kuthini uGowa... You are wonderful Lolo don't let Santana adlale Nga we💞
@ntokozomagwaza6015 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the exact same mgowo😭😭I always make excuses for him too.
@Dollykgakishe5 жыл бұрын
"Tell me something bad about him" 😂😂😂😂😂 you are me and I am you
@tebuboo5 жыл бұрын
Its tough babe and especially when your heart is starting to betray you and go all in...just have a conversation with him and find out why he's being so ghostly.
@agodirwekokoro35525 жыл бұрын
Can you please at least put English subtitles because we can't understand some things you are saying
@VickyVeeJonas5 жыл бұрын
Agodirwe Kokoroi promise from now on I’ll make sure I add titles🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️ I’m sorry
@mapulemalope77314 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I’m so sorry for laughing ....
@Ezethu_Z5 жыл бұрын
Gowa mtase and bounce back. We will keep you in our prayers❤ Love love you ❤❤
@MyTestimony_5 жыл бұрын
Myeke mntase. Yitya imali nje qha wena and don't get your feelings too involved. He's gonna hurt you if you let him get to you. If igama lakhe ngu Prince hayke ngumqundu lowo mntase.
@jesss80605 жыл бұрын
I will definitely keep you in my prayers xo
@asemahlebooi90075 жыл бұрын
Umhle nyani mntase for ugezelwa sisbbanxa sendoda. I hope you are better now❤
@SheKingLifestyle5 жыл бұрын
Legit advice; go through it to get through it.
@lifatukwayi5 жыл бұрын
I'm 16, and i already know this 😂
@leemzamo17365 жыл бұрын
Siyafana vicky 😭 im actually waiting for people to comment ndibone solutions
@khanya70005 жыл бұрын
Exact reason I don't want to date anymore 😭😭 trust issues zam
@yonelasihlangula46805 жыл бұрын
Uyandi motivator girl , thanks ngale video i was in a mist of deciding about irelationship yam , i just found idea of what to do from this video , i have decided .love you Vicky
@yeyethungoma49325 жыл бұрын
“Ingaske ndizikakele” seeeent me🤣🤣 sending you my love
@sash_makana5 жыл бұрын
I died too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@_bronleooo5 жыл бұрын
I’m Sorry Sis 😭😭’ You Got Me Crying As Well Because Wow ! I’m Also Going Through The Most . But Stay Strong ❤️❤️
@reabetswemokholoane38935 жыл бұрын
Guys what does ndiyagowa mean....im tswana and i try zulu nyana which makes it nyana bearable to try and understand Xhosa but idk what that means shem
@abongileebenezer40475 жыл бұрын
Sorry there's no direct translation its a slang used when one is hurting/ f**d up/confused...etc...
@osamu35265 жыл бұрын
Leave this guy babe he’s gona hurt you,being confused about where you stand with someone is a red flag.
@VickyVeeJonas5 жыл бұрын
starfie chun a huge one!!
@jesss80605 жыл бұрын
Mntase I can tell from the way you are describing this dude that he is a xhosa mans. veske umyeke mntasekhaya, xhosa dudes are too much
@phumy31975 жыл бұрын
Narcissistic personality knows no tribe. Stop this Xhosa nonsense, every one can be a narcissist NAWE lo
@letsgobunnies83995 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU so much hle , you made me fell in love with xhosa language sana
@lesegophaahla40995 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel because I'm also like that and I'm going through the same situation as you.
@simthandilepreciousmayekis9345 жыл бұрын
Yho I relate to this so much Vicky. And I understand because I’m just like you but from what I’ve learnt if kubamandi kuphindi kungabikhomandi ibe yilo cycle yeka lo-relationship ibanguwe isidenge and shame this is emotional abuse.
@bekezelawilliams26405 жыл бұрын
I feel you gal, I've been through that, ndiyihambile lendlela, i lost interest inlove, i decided to be single but not single single 😂 uyaqonda. Don't stress much wen time goes on everything will be fine, it took me 4yrs to heal, guess what she called me recently she wanna come back, hawu ngeke phela
@isabelthele5 жыл бұрын
Ube right sthandwa sam.....Keo rata 2much
@nomcebodlamini72795 жыл бұрын
Same here😭😭😭 You will be okay❤❤
@avykap5 жыл бұрын
Love and light nono, love and light ❤️❤️❤️
@nthabie87045 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh we have so much in common it’s scary
@Chwaitamanase293 жыл бұрын
Your story times kill me 😂😂😂 I found you at a perfect time
@tumelomothiba2655 жыл бұрын
Umhle still sana naxa ugowa but umhle
@YolokaziChagi5 жыл бұрын
'for lento uba zibhalwe Khayelitsha ndizazitya ke sana' yhuuuu andahleka
@yonelatutu27885 жыл бұрын
Im not even done watching the video but sana im in solidarity😓
@Nikiwe_mostlybooks4 жыл бұрын
ngaske ndizkakele ndiyaxoka 😂😂😂😂 yhu ha a sesihleka ngoku sakthandi wish you would post more apha klo 2020
@zandimeme1655 жыл бұрын
He’s probably married or in a very serious relationship
@thembisilegaorekwe13524 жыл бұрын
funny how I’m watching this video exactly a year ago today.(17th of July).
@SK-kr7du5 жыл бұрын
Hayi ungade ubenentliziyo ebuhlungu ude uzikakele 😂😂😂...hayi bbe those cookies are so yummy 😋and I know taste buds are different
@sesethuhalimana94785 жыл бұрын
I laughed too hard at that😂
@SK-kr7du5 жыл бұрын
Sesethu Halimana 😂😂😂
@Becomingliba5 жыл бұрын
Ndiyakuvaaaa👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ugowaaaaaaa is not the way sana lordttt knows bawo🚶🏾♂️
@AnelisaDlongolo5 жыл бұрын
"They really nice but zitasta ngathi yisanti" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@siwezamajolamanana84485 жыл бұрын
Sending love and light❤💛
@masiem81964 жыл бұрын
Haibo we on 50k subs already haibo andqaphelanga 🤗
@asivezweni32915 жыл бұрын
I get that you're going through some stuff but the last part about the ''Roggebaai Place'' killed me 😂😂
@lelethuluu93205 жыл бұрын
Mntasekhaya... This will probably sound harsh and insensitive and njan njani wethu but ke... PHUMA APHO! Fine. If you want to know why he's doing what he's doing, you can ask him, chances are uhleli engazuk'xelela bikhozi kalok men are...men. Ask him and if he tries to guilt trip athi Bana uyalwa, yilwa ke qha sisi bikhoz ziiemotions zakho ezi. Your whole emotional health. Yhuu ha.a. And if he still doesn't give you what you want, what you deserve, hamba bhabha. Kuzobabuhlungu. You'll go, but zabaright sthandwa ❤️.
@Ms_Mbali5 жыл бұрын
Ok so you baby girl is beautiful! ofcourse uzogowa ngoku but trust me you will let go of him. He is clearly a waste of time whatever is causing his behavior is really not your problem you just work on moving on.
@kiakhanya74605 жыл бұрын
Please tag the place you’re staying at if it’s a hotel or Airbnb
@NtokozoBee5 жыл бұрын
Please make a video of how hard it is to find real love as an influencer.
@chuchugatya3235 жыл бұрын
UbeRight Sam sthandwa Sam 😭❤️... It gets better with time. Uyadika bcs uyahlekisa at the same time so awusizeleki ncam😂😂
Ow yin my Vicky Vee andisathandi xa igowa kanje😂😂😂😅😅😆😆😆😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤
@NateBrown9395 жыл бұрын
We are always asking her to speak in English or at least put up subtitles but she is obviously not about our lives. Can someone please tell me what "ndiyagowa" means.
@mphomakhetha3115 жыл бұрын
Sis siyagowa Sonke , nami andikho right . Asi bayeke
@WomenShelterOrganisation5 жыл бұрын
The realest ❤....kuyadlula mtase🤞♥️🤗
@cnehmthethwa11335 жыл бұрын
Damn...i feel u... N i love u...
@AIDigitalDiscoveryChannel5 жыл бұрын
Askies ey...we've all been there .Huge RED FLAGS...don't ignore them.This guy is just not that into you. Its only gonna get worse.Myeke...he is not worth your tears.
@nkgutlisenglegodi46674 жыл бұрын
Hi Vicky How are you? I just love how real you are And you are very gorgeous
Lol. Awugezi!! Zingade zibeyi Santi. As for you gowa mntase ,uzoba right ekugqibeleni.. ndibuya apho MNA kqala Sana. Izogqitha
@Dollykgakishe5 жыл бұрын
Ao bathong now my heart hurts 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@ayandasijadu32135 жыл бұрын
You is me I am you.. I tell you❤️
@amandangqonga80695 жыл бұрын
"I ngaske ndizk*kele" lol got me
@nomvuzotee5 жыл бұрын
vicky kodwa uthi ukhagela i stovu even if u r sad😁😁😅😅u still funny boo😍love that
@muofhedolly21825 жыл бұрын
girl ur too much babe😂😂😂😍😍😍😍 i love your vibe let's gowa
@lindinkosi35675 жыл бұрын
He is Xhosa ryt
@hamidakabudula27895 жыл бұрын
Vee❤ my Fav
@OrianeVansy5 жыл бұрын
I’m watching rn😂
@VickyVeeJonas5 жыл бұрын
Oriane Vansy Thankyou babe😭😭😭😭😩 sagowi
@allthingkyliejenner5 жыл бұрын
ill be keeping you in my prayers🌹from zishie💞
@VickyVeeJonas5 жыл бұрын
Zizipho Zembetha Thankyou so much I appreciate you😍😍😍😭😩❤️
@Her_face245 жыл бұрын
😹😹 "ingase ndiz'kakele"
@tohnemhlongo26105 жыл бұрын
Imagine that pain,having guys you know that are so good to you,so are much even better to your man but because you respect what you have with him, and he doesn't appreaciate that...but the moment you slowly move away from him thats when he realises your worth...I'm going through that too Vee I heart you for real babe
@mirandazwane21915 жыл бұрын
If he can stay 3 days without talking to you he's clearly not that into you and umuhle gqithi uba ungamosha ixesha lakho nomntu ongazazi uba ufuna ntoni😩😩😩.
@zaneledaniso15565 жыл бұрын
Gowa mna self, my relationship ended ngo April but ndsaGowa.😫😭