Keep Your Struggles to Yourself- No One Cares

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@ExoticalsUnited 2 ай бұрын

Yes ! Some people only ask you questions because they’re comparing themselves to you. this is why I started keeping secrets .

@MikoShitzu 2 ай бұрын

That's so sad people have to stoop that low. Have to stay silent and mute 🤐

@MMMC-z8y 2 ай бұрын

Not only do they not care they're glad it's not them!

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

@@MMMC-z8y exactly 👍🏾

@bibizolele 2 ай бұрын

I totally get what you are saying. Why tell someone about a struggle they won't help you fix? You just making your struggles gossip at this point.

@arolinek8698 2 ай бұрын

This comment just altered my brain chemistry because yeah….you’re 100% correct. This makes so much sense. I need to STFU lmao!

@Mantoa_R91 Ай бұрын

Whew I’m learning and will never do this again

@CyrusIsnt Ай бұрын

You should not expect random people to fix you. They have enough to deal with themselves

@CreolePearls_ 2 ай бұрын

Never ever share your plans prematurely ‼️People will check in on you to see if you are actually making progress. Always strive for progression in life do not soak in setbacks. No one wants to associated with the have nots and those with a broke mindset.

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

@@CreolePearls_ 💯

@lmusima3275 2 ай бұрын

This is why I cut off social media and stopped posting on WhatsApp. I’m more focused on making progress in other areas of life than people pleasing or over sharing

@707tich 2 ай бұрын

Girl I deleted IG 2months ago it’s been sooo bliss 😍👌🏾

@Vavavoum-gr8 2 ай бұрын

Am learning to stop posting on WhatsApp. I don’t exist on social media

@BestversionofKP 2 ай бұрын

Same

@Fsteezysk8z 2 ай бұрын

@@Vavavoum-gr8same

@BriHendrixx 2 ай бұрын

I think the people that don’t care outweighs those who do. So yeah, I’ve learned it’s best to just get a diary.

@AndreaPortley 2 ай бұрын

I’ve learned to gatekeep my gifts, talents, and abilities from GOD! People are so envious and despicable, I can’t trust my own kinfolks! I’ve stopped sharing everything personal and only share quotes and videos from other content creators!!!

@BeautiDon 2 ай бұрын

A smart way to move!

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

@@AndreaPortley I support this 💕

@SirenFoxx 2 ай бұрын

to touch on the “disenfranchised BW” comment. I notice People compete with blk women. Even when we have “less” than them. They see how resilient we are and rise above the crap, and it Hurts their ego, because they expect blk girls to stay at the bottom.

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

@@SirenFoxx bingo 💯

@BeautiDon 2 ай бұрын

I really appreciate you for this video. We have to carry ourselves like a Princess dont let them know what you have been through or wear it. It's just a bad look and not feminine

@lovegooey-y3x 2 ай бұрын

100% now I only vent to AI or my journal, and if I am struggling and need to reach out to someone, I only reach out once I’ve figured out what it is I need from them or if I know for certain they can assist me … even if people ask me how I am, the answer is always ‘I’ve never been happier’

@ExoticHoodooDebutante 2 ай бұрын

Yes. I've spotted the patterns of purely strategic associations / relationships. They have a habit of making assumptions about a position they were never in. Very monolithic. I stay far away from people who cry to the general public instead of seeking help from someone qualified.

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

@@ExoticHoodooDebutante they suck the energy out of the room

@tootsiee_roll 2 ай бұрын

On god keep your issues to yourself. No one gives a real sht and everyone has issues and they’re just going to either compare/down play your issue or literally won’t help.

@slxochae8317 2 ай бұрын

A limiting belief among certain Black people is the the only way to get ahead is to shame and guilt trip people in power into opening doors for them. They take on the disadvantaged label because the empowered one would require them to take personal responsibility and not just rely on empathy from those they seek help from. It leads to an inferiority complex hard to deprogram from. I’m glad you are calling it out on a micro level.

@Osas-e3w 2 ай бұрын

So well said !

@Ms.MD7 2 ай бұрын

The NO one cares got me 💯💯💯 no cap! A lot of fake outrage out here esp. in the "communitah". It may sound harsh but it's the truth that is needed to be said.

@TheExoticBrownSkin 2 ай бұрын

Powerful message!

@TheBlackExotical 2 ай бұрын

💕

@SB-gq7fp 2 ай бұрын

This is excellent advice. Thank you for this

@happinessisharmony4522 2 ай бұрын

I love your honesty❤

@kantik2118 Ай бұрын

The only case people will "care" about you or your situation, is when you work for them and they benefit from you. In this case, they will "help you". This is the only case they will help you. If they don't get anything from you, they won't help you. Why would they? Even when they get something from you (labor, free therapy or a skill), they will try to trick you into doing it for free for them. And even when they help you and get something from you, they do it not because they genuinely care about you, but they just wanna be the good samaritan. So you might as well tell nothing about you, because they absolutely don't care. In the best case, they will repeat it around them. And in the worst case, they will use it against you to tarnish your reputation.

@bellaerica 2 ай бұрын

Could you do a video about energy transfer that you spoke about ?

@SuMonCheri Ай бұрын

Your struggle and pain makes people feel better about themselves. Some actually enjoy it as if struggle is a indicator that you deserve what you got, again creating a false sense of superiority in people's sick minds and evil spirits. Your pain and struggle means in their minds: oh I am smarter I've made better choices than her, especially when you've been the center of attention and voice of reason and wisdom for soo long...people get bored😂omg the smallest fall you can do is like you killled someone because they are sick of your existence and you always coming up with ideas and solutions. They celebrate your 'fall' to smooth their mediocre self soothing ego-centric delusional thinking: you are not all that, you are not better than me 😂😂😂