Demi Lovato- I Hate You Don't Leave me [Lyric Video]

[@rishib8244]

This is so soft, in a way. Everyone just demonizes BPD, so it's such a big comfort when the pain we go through is spoken for

[@siapaaku6763]

i think most broken people would love Demi Lovato. All of her songs are so meaningful. its way too beauitiful.

[@dankydankdae]

Prakiti Mudita YOUR COMMENT ACTUALLY HAS ME IN TEARS READING IT BECAUSE DAMN IT HIT ME HARD BECAUSE I LOVE DEMI SO MUCH AND ALL HER MUSIC

[@jamesnassetta8010]

honey yes I am broken but Demi helps me

[@anjalimanglaklimbu4644]

Am broken so hard And I love demi Coz her every song is related to my life and so touching songs 😭😭😔😔😔

[@alihayman3834]

same here

[@otakuarianatormom5094]

Yes agree 100%

[@dudeski7373]

I was just diagnosed with BPD and everything all makes so much sense now

[@roxzarlovato5014]

dudeski7373 same

[@Fancy681]

Im fully aware that i have BPD but i dont see a psychiatrist until the 6th. Im scared for my husband being near me... but i dont want him to leave me. I have hurt him so much... I just want to know why i do it and how to stop it :(

[@agustinamansur5665]

@@Fancy681 oh, that's hard :( I hope your psychiatrist can help you :)

[@raeezatjiramba8693]

what is BPD?

[@raeezatjiramba8693]

nevermind just googled it...

[@Seven-vu3md]

Just recently got diagnosed with Borderline disorder and it perfectly explains how I feel every day. Just remember, everyone with a mental disorder, if you have depression, bipolar, schizophrenia, borderline or whatever, we're strong guys, we have to stick together and accept our mental illness even if it's hard, we'll make it and we're loved, even if you are alone atm, we, who understand you, we love you as you are even we can't love ourselves, we still do love you cuz we know what you're going through, stay strong❤️

[@brittanysmart3507]

I have bpd. Thank you.

[@Xanniebyte]

Great now I’m crying but thanks so much

[@지우-r9y]

bye i was about to same the same. the worst thing is that i feel like this with ANYONE

[@danitharos5906]

Yes

[@Yorki537]

I have depression, bipolarity, borderline, eating disorders, attention deficit, cyberadiction, alcoholism and arachnophobia

[@lilgothbaby0021]

I have borderline personality disorder and I’ve never been able to describe what it’s like to people until this song

[@jessicasuzanne___]

I have bipolar and this song really resonates with me

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Taylor swift “blank space “ is spot on

[@christinamurrell5995]

This is the name of a book on BPD. I read it 15 yrs ago in a physch hospital. It was given to me to help understand my disorder. Demi sings it beautifully!!! Deff a huge fan of her..her music...and her brutal honesty. Kudos.

[@danitharos5906]

Yes

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Read “girl interrupted “

[@Quiznackle]

My therapist keeps recommending that book to me, I thought the name was familiar...

[@looking_for_abbyy9724]

@@QuiznackleI’m reading it now!

[@RinInReverse]

I have BPD and this song is so unbelievably relatable, props to Demi

[@JustmeNici]

I just wish I could send this to the old friends I pushed away before I even knew what BPD was

[@aviahneff6627]

Me too....

[@mindcontrol4314]

same for me

[@harleymanifesto1907]

As a struggling mom of 3 with not one family member or true friend I pray I do good by them. Please. I need. To break this pain.

[@Yorki537]

But why not?

[@JustmeNici]

@@Yorki537 because that's rude. I hurt those people, it's been years. They now have a life without me.

[@cassiemott6125]

You can hear the pain in her voice

[@deliacarrion8125]

Yessss😫

[@whitneyabbott2920]

You guys realize this song is about borderline personality disorder? And not a break up? My sister has the disorder and she introduced me to demi when I was ten, when this song came out and she read demia inspiration for it she fell into tears

[@whitneyabbott2920]

No that's a different disorder she wrote this about BPD . border line personality disorder

[@icedmocha5264]

Whitney Abbott i think it's up to interpretation. It can be interpreted as a break up song as well.

[@whitneyabbott2920]

Um no no I'd say that her interview explaining it would say its not at all.

[@icedmocha5264]

Whitney Abbott yes it's up to interpretation. Demi probably thought of something else when she was writing it but that's the awesome thing about language. It can be interpreted in multiple ways and have different meanings to people.

[@whitneyabbott2920]

Demi wrote it about BPD . this song is about BPD. That's what she wrote it about, that's the meaning of the song. Its how it feels to be BPD . if your reading into it more then what it actually is it's just because you have relationship issues. 💁

[@larissabarbaruli]

This song's the most relatable song ever written for any borderline out there :(

[@brittanyc9956]

The struggle of borderline personality disorder. This song saids exactly what its like to have this disease.

[@aQuayQuay]

people who relate this to a guy don't feel bad that you do. Even if this song is about BPD, everyone has to find some way to connect to a song before they fall in love with it and however you do that doesn't matter!! knowing the real meaning behind the song just makes it more interesting to contrast with your connection :)

[@TigerNinja1991]

for the 15 thousandth time. it's both. it's both....She is a creative artist so she uses the guy type situation to make the point about BPD. Dang...

[@aQuayQuay]

+Kelsey Miller (Kam) cool

[@alihayman3834]

it's most likely about something else but she has bipolar disorder not BPD.

[@jaymeselijah]

Ali Hayman the two are very similar. A lot of people with BPD first get misdiagnosed with bipolar (myself included)

[@alexismuckel4670]

aQuayQuay I relate towards this song within my relationship and I have bpd... I think that was her main goal with this song but it’s okay to relate in more ways than just this.

[@taliaperry5701]

Life as a boarder line. I love this song. Glad there is a better understanding of it these days. Keep fighting guys! I'm with you ❤️

[@alihayman3834]

*border

[@Blake-vi2zi]

November 2019 I was diagnosed with BPD. This song makes me feel more validated, like I'm not alone.

[@danitharos5906]

Yes.. demi ❤🙏

[@Patricia-kg8ve]

Crying. This is beautiful and never gets old

[@alexisjenningsvlogs4251]

Patty ikr

[@grodd1687]

I have BPD... This song is me and my husband all the way.... No matter how many times I yell and scream when i have my panic attacks he still stays with me....

[@aviahneff6627]

That's so amazing. You are so lucky, he must be such a gentleman 💙

[@mariane704]

One of the best songs she's written it's so raw. She and this song deserved so much more

[@lc4806]

I feel for anyone with this illness. I will. Always believe this as the reason my marriage ended. My soon to be ex wife has it, I tried my hardest to help her, to help us, but it was never enough and it was not me that HD to do the work, it was her, all the rages, the love me one days, hate me the next, the hateful things done and said, I guess it all just became too. Much. A part of me will always love her.... Its literally caught between heaven and hell.

[@Cat-99999]

Me too...

[@kathygraham1037]

I'm with a man that I truely believe is my soul mate..I love him with all my heart but his BPD is killing me..I don't know how much more I can take.

[@Yorki537]

As a BPD person, I can tell you that YOUR mental health is first, it's gonna hurt tooo much the person you love, but in personal, I would prefer a person leave me, than hurting that person every single day❤❤❤

[@flowerpower2726]

I had to leave a girl, too. It’s fucking tragic and heartbreaking. And after 6 years I’m demonized and forgotten.

[@corpsefiend_]

@@flowerpower2726how’d you do it man. I’m sitting here destroyed and half dead because of her and it’s just too much I feel like I’m gonna fucking die

[@pikachugoth2]

I was just diagnosed with BPD. This song makes so much sense to me now.

[@sabrynleigh9328]

this one got me. Been diagnosed with BPD for a year and this is too real

[@dankydankdae]

Honestly this is why I'm so obsessed with her after being a fan for 2 months, because she makes songs like this that relate to people like me, going through so much shit in love and have problems mentally and broken and trying to get stronger just like her. I can relate to so many of her songs it's scary and I love demi so fucking much she makes me wanna still go through with life just to meet her one day

[@Yorki537]

I know you will

[@destinynicole3438]

ive always related to this song her unbroken album is the one album i feel her pain, literally. ive been through relationships just like the one shes talking about because im always "in and out of my head". it sometimes sucks being bipolar. caint ever feel good for a long time

[@KarlaMartinez-gl7mr]

Destiny Nicole when did this song come out? Why am I just now discovering it?!

[@alihayman3834]

same and ditto to the last line

[@amyp.575]

No one feels good for a long time.. and no one feels as good as when you feel good

[@Beauty_Diaries_456]

This song is on the deluxe DEMI album

[@thaisrozatto9206]

She doesn't talk about a relationship in this song, she talks about the borderline personality disorder. Someone who has it, like me, feels like this with everyone, lovers, friends, family, it's about how our lives is, not about a relationship in specific.

[@RubyCarapia_1002403]

just found this song in 2016 me: where the fuk has this song been all my life!!!!

[@marthaescalante9908]

same

[@RubyCarapia_1002403]

+Martha Escalante yaaas

[@author1014]

Yea

[@khalilchoudhury2483]

SAME

[@shivjagath7290]

MEH 2

[@michaelb1050]

Wow, this song hit me hard. My wife, who left me, I believe is an undiagnosed BPD. She actually said some of the words in this song to me. She has now split be as all bad and won't talk to me. She hates me and it kills me inside. She has made false accusations about me and did a smear campaign on my. My god, it kills me inside.

[@corilittell8650]

I am so sorry to hear about that, I understand, my girlfriend split on me, it was completely out of nowhere and she hasn't talked to me for a few months now. I feel like I'm fucking broken, I just want this to be over already because I know she'll come around, I've seen her do it many times before. Shortly before her splitting we were talking about moving into together and marriage and kids, I still love her so fucking much and would take her back immediately, people in my life keep asking how I could, it's very simple to me, she has boderline she is not borderline. In sickness and in health.

[@krissylynnhoran1160]

Michael B as someone with BPD relationships are extremely hard we don’t always understand our own self or have very many ppl that do understand us everyday sucks I’m sorry she left maybe one day she’ll be back if it’s ment to to it will be

[@flowerpower2726]

Sounds like strong NPD traits as well.

[@flowerpower2726]

@@corilittell8650 I hoped you moved on. Not worth it.

[@GabbyAmezcua]

I remember listening to this song like 6 years ago not knowing what BPD was and couldn’t really relate, but now I can. I was diagnosed with BPD last hear

[@gabrielle7088]

I have always had a difficult time expressing how I feel but this song did it perfectly

[@SheLady00]

Hey, yeah yeah I hate you, don’t leave me I feel like I can’t breathe Just hold me, don’t touch me And I want you to love me But I need you to trust me Stay with me, set me free But I can’t back down No, I can’t deny That I’m staying now ‘Cause I can’t decide Confused and scared I am terrified of you I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain I hate you, don’t leave me I hate you, don’t leave me ‘Cause I love when you kiss me I’m in pieces, you complete me But I can’t back down No, I can’t deny That I’m staying now ‘Cause I can’t decide Confused and scared I am terrified of you I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain, no I’m addicted to the madness I’m a daughter of the sadness I’ve been here too many times before Been abandoned and I’m scared now I can’t handle another fall out I’m fragile, just washed upon the shore They forget me, don’t see me When they love me, they leave me I admit I’m in and out of my head Don’t listen to a single word I’ve said Just hear me out before you run away ‘Cause I can’t take this pain No, I can’t take this pain I hate you, don’t leave me I hate you, please love me

[@chianalowe5725]

+SheLady00 you dont need the lyrics its on the screen. to be honest that was a waste of your time

[@itsgrey1482]

+chiana lowe LOL

[@CarlieScott00]

Songs have a meaning to the songwriter, but a different meaning for everyone else. I don't think Demi Lovato cares what your meaning is, she's probably happy to make music that can help with any situation

[@mandyjaster8100]

Demi cares about every meaning, because she cares about her fans and she loves the lovatics. She doesn't write songs just for herself, she writes them to help people!

[@Yorki537]

Actually Demi has borderline, sooo

[@mandyjaster8100]

Some people are thinking, just people with problems hear Demi Lovato because her songs are helping in dark times. But that isn't completely true! I know, she's an inspiration and she helps in sad times, but I'm fine. Not only when you hear demi and she's your role model doesn't mean that you've been hurt, because I'm not. I love her because her actions, her voice, her messages in the songs are so beautiful!!! To everyone who read this: Have a nice day, keep doing what you love and have fun, no matter what you're doing!

[@loveevol5045]

This song is complicated yet so easy to understand when you've gone through it. Back and forth, unsure what to do, feeling like you're ready to run when all you want to do is stay. It's messed up, that's for sure.

[@CaseZapor]

I can't believe I am just now hearing this song! I LOVE IT! I recently found out from my psychiatrist that I am borderline. Hearing someone sing about it makes me feel seen and heard.

[@ericastreisslberger2087]

I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and this song is so relatable to someone with BPD, also there is a book called I hate you don’t leave me

[@alismoran777]

Thank you Demi for creating a song that sings to BPD. ♥️

[@yousraslaoui9889]

Demi Lovato is underrated She is extemely talented and is a an Incredible songwriter

[@thedomestics129]

Being bpd, this really helps... alot. I haven't found a single song that describes it and at the same time gives me goosebumps. I feel like this is an easy way to explain to my family

[@Jpc-mh1tp]

This use to be my favorite song. I wish she released this & Nightingale.

[@itsgrey1482]

She released nightingale.

[@ourgiftisLOVE]

Wow!!!... She has grown so much vocally. Listening to "Still have me" and then this song?... Woooow.... When your vocals get better as you grow instead of getting worse, you know you're 100% legit.

[@happypiano4810]

This is eerily similar to how I feel and act near favorite people. I love this song.

[@stephendunnegarcia4030]

There’s a way to make life better. Don’t quit, grow in your discomfort, don’t just live in it.

[@nikolaisandbeck6951]

I got diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder, this song really hits home.

[@agustinamansur5665]

I don't know if I have borderline personality disorder, but this song applies to me sooo much! I'd dedicate this masterpiece to all my friends. They are mean to me one day, and the next day they are nice to me. I wanna talk to them one day, and the next day I don't. I've always been this way. It's awful not to know whether I wanna stay with them or leave.

[@rainysharky]

This song just randomly popped into my head after 8 years, I literally haven't listened to this song in years and I'm so glad I came back to it

[@danitharos5906]

Me too

[@kaseylee1D]

this song reminds me of my siblings. i never see them & they don't make an effort to have a relationship with me. i put on a mask of hatred for them but really i just want to be loved & accepted by them.

[@itsgrey1482]

This song is about BPD.

[@annynewme8175]

+Back Ops Destiny True it (probably) is, but that does not take away artistic licences..to interpret it for everyone how they relate it for themselves.

[@annynewme8175]

+kasey lee I don't know, but maybe try pulling down this mask? They might act scared and confused, I would think, but I guess they would appreciate it to know that you actually at least like them..?

[@staceystewart4736]

Exactly how I feel

[@haileycouture5596]

This song speaks so much to my BPD relationship. It’s hard, but I’ll work through it!

[@user-ll4be2ym2v]

For me this song connects to me. You have been hurt before so you are scared to move forward with someone. But you also really like this person at the same time.

[@zombiecore22quinnsunset9]

This song is just to relatable..I hate that I relate to it butcI lovecthe fact that someone understands the feeling of hating but needing someone

[@savagegarcia1978]

A lot of men would never understand how a woman feels when they are hurting from a toxic relationship, Men should have patience and understanding woman's feeling. Much love for this song ❤🤟

[@chrysalis711]

I feel so seen by this. Most people make us out to be monsters, dangerous and scary. This is just beautiful

[@m.rivera1467]

This song is so amazing! It's so perfect for people who have bpd, I hate having it,

[@jaciemariee9758]

I have bpd this song hit home...

[@alyaachannel1007]

This song explains everything about BPD. We are strong enough to fight! Keep fighting

[@tamartheurer4202]

I needed this song. It’s taken 9 years to find 😭😭 Demi just got so much support from me.

[@nicoletti345]

This should be on the US version of the album i would buy it for me and all my friends

[@erikkoski7736]

it's on the target edition

[@timdowen76]

Being borderline, this song is spot on. Our emotions are chaos . Simply chaos.

[@mackenziea7394]

I used to listen to this song in high school and it got through a lot and then i was later diagnosed with bipolar

[@ankakuzeyyuksel2240]

This song exactly explains my relationships and the way i feel about my friends . İ love this song and the lyrics .

[@dianaisncutie9852]

omg. That song describes my feelings. I was seachring for that type of songs. I am struggeling and I do not know what to do and this song helps me. I do not feel so alone anymore

[@rainofimagination9552]

Wow I couldn't listen to this song without cryingZ this literally describes my situation right now! I love this song. I love how also in this song she balanced her yelling. Though all her other songs are beautiful and literally HEART FEELING! ❤️❤️❤️🎧I love this wow.

[@kaylanelson1395]

I've always liked Demi but this song is the one that made me fall in love with her work!! This song is my life and not just with boys or trusting people but just normal everyday things that should be easy like making friends and going to school.

[@klein8424]

When I was diagnosed with BPD, I was so happy, didn't know what was that, when I knew, finally understood everything. I felt proud and strong, really strong. One year later, I feel I'm tired, I can live like this, I can, but I don't want to... I'm not just tired, but bored and hopeless. There's nothing that can rid this pain off.

[@Birdsofuhfeather]

This iconic bop

[@DeAnnlove]

I've struggled my whole life from mental illness!! It truly stole my life.. This song 🎵 truly explains me♡ If you suffer like me, I'm so sorry!! As hard as it is, keep fighting!! Especially when you don't want to!! You mean something, your life is worth living!! Even when people judge you!! Remember they couldn't deal with half the shit We're dealt!! ):(

[@danitharos5906]

Me too.. demi ❤🙏

[@ayanacrawford3113]

I know this song is about her struggle with BPD, but I relate so much to this song when thinking of my first. “They forget me, don’t see me. When they love me, they leave me... I hate you, don’t leave me. I hate you, please love me.” He was a piece of shit but at the end of the day, I miss him & I wish him nothing but happiness because it’s what I’ve found. But there are times when I wonder and really question if he was worth it.

[@bernadetteblue897]

How can she hack my brain? Did she just sing what I'm feeling right now!!! Ohhhh God!!

[@SureshPatel-sm1hb]

Always with you Ponni.

[@tonymarsh8671]

When i first heard this i was hooked listened to it over and over

[@NoelaAjet]

Omg so touchable 😢

[@enchantedpropaganda]

Ending a 2 year relationship that was rocky during our last weeks had left me in anger, confusion and hurt, so this song hits close to home.

[@keithadams6321]

Total BPD ! I love this woman , because I relate to her on so many levels, from bipolar, BPD ,substance abuse the list goes on

[@agustinamansur5665]

This is the first song i know that applies to me so much! Thanks for writing this, Demi :) it's the best song ever! Xox 💋❤

[@fatimaalmawed2439]

How much I love this song ❤️❤️❤️❤️ these words are the best

[@isabelleaura4777]

Tbh... My PTSD~ This reminds me of my trauma. Gold of a women with a Beautiful Soul. Interpreted by alot, but she's beautiful. Broken to be a masterpiece, in some eyes but never broken. Sometimes stained glass is hard to break. Stay strong~ Keep Stronger!

[@Lyii9]

Its 2019 and its been so many months, if not years since the last time i listrned to this song and i still know all the freaking words i cant believe i am even crying. Oh demi you break me

[@alaskaelizabeth2321]

Demi managed to write a while sing on a symptom. It's called splitting / all or nothing. One of the common characteristics of this symptom is literally "I hate you don't leave me" so after that research I had to listen to this song, naturally.

[@stephanieliu5251]

The last 3 words of this song: pure gold.

[@queenphoenix1133]

Ive always loved this song but now I relate so hard.

[@girlsdanceforever23]

I'm listening to this song on repeat sooo goood

[@danacopeland4737]

This hurts to listen to because it relates to me... Because I feel like nobody loves me, but then I feel like I matter.

[@joyceltamayo1769]

Omg ,is this my life story ,I just hear it for the first time🥹and I do love it so much💕

[@alexanderwolf7198]

I will never leave you

[@陳澈-h8f]

Alexander Wolf I hope somebody said that and practically did it to me

[@GeminiDream8476]

BPD warriors, I love you. We are so strong! 💗💖💗

[@cjizzle55]

I really wanna hear this song live

[@agustinamansur5665]

Demi went from "I hate you, don't leave me" to "I'm way too good at goodbyes". I'm so proud of her ❤

[@agustinamansur5665]

my favorite song of hers!!!

[@zielonybarbarzynca8180]

Bpd anthem, definitely

[@ilovellys]

I wanna cry so sad

[@jamesnassetta8010]

this song is me because I'm so scared to get close to anyone because so many people have left me I feel so fucked up i hate feeling scared

[@jamesnassetta8010]

I feel a lone

[@itsLunaxo]

Same

[@Caterpillar120]

ive had borderline for last 5 years and i never had came pass a song that relates with my bpd and this song explains how i feel everday

[@frooteemango4685]

The first time I heard this song was on a game called Lbp 2. I would come to play levels and this song would play alot, I love this :'(

[@ilovellys]

officially addicted

[@mrswoods710]

As a borderline person- this song holds my soul so tight.

[@jankamichalovova7990]

Beautiful, I love it ❤❤❤

[@agustinamansur5665]

This song hits me hard, every word of it. I should learn that people are temporary.

[@animalistic234]

My life described in one song, especially now smh😤😒

[@insfiringtimes7942]

I know this song is about BPD but you can interpret this in other ways too. This song reminds me of my anxiety and Depression. I admit I'm in and out of my head. Don't listen to a single word I've sad. Just hear me out. Before you run away. Cuz I can't take this pain. I hate you don't leave me. I hate you please love me. These lines remind me of how I push people away yet I'm screaming for help.

[@agustinamansur5665]

Boderliners also have depression and anxiety.

[@collapsingwavefunction_.3356]

When and where did she release this song??? I've been a fan of Demi's for years and have never heard of it until now!

[@collapsingwavefunction_.3356]

Hrmmm... I'm gonna need Spotify to do better with things like this...

[@RubyCarapia_1002403]

+Bri-Z Ari K same

[@dudeski7373]

Bri-Z Ari K we’ll legally, Spotify can’t put it on there because Target owns the rights to this song, as it was only released for the Target Exclusive version of DEMI

[@bookim2264]

dudeski7373 is on DEMI (Deluxe version) now :)

[@janiceroque3961]

A post on Facebook about BPD brought me here. Kinda makes sense tbh, I can see the connections

[@Chlorp_420]

I was diagnosed yesterday they’ve been trying to figure it out for years... and finally relieved to be diagnosed but I’m so scared and this is messing with my head

[@theaudreyfam3274]

I can’t live with this pain it hits me

[@tristan9620]

The feels 😶