She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
@fenixleonor6 ай бұрын
Kelly is indeed a good singer and my childwood, a young girl that made history with her talent, because of her we have this beautiful memories 💚
@destinixshakur4 ай бұрын
I did not know she wrote this.
@tannobrand18 күн бұрын
I’m a man in my mid 50’s in 2024…was in my mid 30’s with two young kids after a very hard divorce in 2001. I love music. But I never really followed American Idol all that much at the time. Yet, I was quite aware of who Clarkson was. Just by sheer marketing of the program in season one & her the winner, etc. But I can say without a doubt…Kelly’s vocals are most definitely in the Top 5 of any professional female singer/artist of all time. Not even a question. The best ever?🤔. Certainly she is arguably in that conversation. Regardless, she’s one of my top female vocalists. For my ears.
@gostarmusic Жыл бұрын
The person reading this comment: I wish you much success, love, health and happiness! ❤️😍😂
@roselyncastaneda-qi5rx Жыл бұрын
Thanks, in sha allah ganun din sau😊
@leviticursss Жыл бұрын
Thnx u too babee ❤
@chanqiuyuee Жыл бұрын
You too
@leehyacinth6013 Жыл бұрын
😢 much needed. Thank you
@dozzer009 Жыл бұрын
♥️
@GraveTypeBed11 ай бұрын
I Don't know if it's on purpose, but the sound of triumph, and then sobering sadness is really indicative of the feelings you get after living through a neglectful relationship. Truly amazing and relatable.
@PunkWhatever-j7n5 ай бұрын
Growing up listening to this, you think shes singing about an ex lover. Listening as an adult you realize shes singing about her mom, and the mistakes she made that affected her daughter in big ways. This song is for all the sons and daughters who were never allowed to be children, because they had to be parents to their parents. ❤❤❤ I understand now
@caithlyn15104 ай бұрын
stap im crying
@thesurviving43593 ай бұрын
I agree. I was living this song and now I am also making the same mistake to my own kids, i play this song reminding myself to stop the cycle.
@donjackson69623 ай бұрын
The video of this song shows her mother/parents
@mangoeverse29302 ай бұрын
yesss i agree
@angelalevine94Ай бұрын
It can really go both ways, of any relationship
@ayashaqra8599 Жыл бұрын
I'm leaving this comment here so after a month or a year when someone likes it, I get reminded of this song❤
@ladyk8459 Жыл бұрын
Hy
@sososodada Жыл бұрын
I remind you about this fantastic song)))
@msu2358 Жыл бұрын
Its sooo hurt😢😢😢😢 im in pain while listening this song😢😢😢😢😢
@Candyyyyland Жыл бұрын
@@msu2358. I’m so sorry. You’ll get thru it. Ik u can. Keep going ur doing great ❤❤❤
@alissaharris8035 Жыл бұрын
❤
@brianabrijmohan38357 ай бұрын
This is a tribute to my parents. Thanking you for scarring me so deeply.
@lifeisbannanas7 ай бұрын
And leaving me forever wounded.
@StephanieMT11 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my mother, thank god she been dead since 2020 and i can start to heal slowly. And my family can.
@childofgod73078 ай бұрын
Forgive her it’s the key. I’m trying to perfect what I’m preaching.
@AlaLucille-4ever7 ай бұрын
🥹
@CassiePass-gs2gz21 күн бұрын
My mom died in 2013 and im very angry with her she passed when I was 16 she left me with her babies 😔
@LastOfUs1238 ай бұрын
“I cannot cry because I know it’s weakness in your eyes” that hit me so hard-😭
@parislatta91 Жыл бұрын
This song makes me so grateful for my Dad 👨 ♥️
@ettaetta4399 ай бұрын
I'm glad you got positive feelings from this song. I don't have a good dad, and I always want people with good dads to appreciate theirs.
@BeanKally Жыл бұрын
Sad to say I relate to this song :’( “Because of you I’m ashamed of my life because it’s empty”
@danielamckee5435 Жыл бұрын
Yep! It's amazing how triggering this son is and how it can bring us to this place of being ashamed, emply and utterly alone in seconds. Even if we have had the opportunity to process all the events that provoked these feelings... which is my case. Yep I am right there with you.
@joshuamoran8716 Жыл бұрын
My Baby's mother took her away, and I'm ashamed she doesn't know who I am.
@tarapunch5059 Жыл бұрын
Same
@carolsc40665 ай бұрын
TGPlum I'm ashamed of my life because its empty
@aichabellala9120 Жыл бұрын
I listened to that song years and years and I learned to let go all the pain the anger the loneliness all the depression and I lived
@jessicaromanos2756 Жыл бұрын
It took 46 years and Kelly Clarkson to show me what I'm really mad about..... I never know how to deal with what my dad did. Just don't wait 46 years to work out those issues
@tisa37bokun57 Жыл бұрын
I forgot how strong this song hits
@theresamartin28824 ай бұрын
My oldest daughter taught me a very good lesson in life I am a 24year Cancer survivor and due to my illness she took on my roll as a Mother. It wasn't her job but now we deal with some resentment she helped me along the way and has always been my rock and we're still on this journey together we've got this and I love you Stephanie Gerlach Beach❤❤❤❤❤
@marlenerodriguez40878 ай бұрын
😢😢😢my daughter sent this song,my mom never loved me & I’ve always been overprotective of my kids,I was strict bt I want to say I’m srry to my kids if I ever made u feel afraid!!that’s how I feel cuz of my mom.May God heal us!! I love u Sunshine ❤❤😢😢😢😢mama
@littIefairyАй бұрын
Please make sure to apologise to them. My parents never did, despite the abuse they inflicted upon me. And I've always wanted an apology. I hope you've done that since you wrote this comment. Sending love and healing your way
@summeralanni172 Жыл бұрын
I feel this song is close to me as if it tells the story of my life😢
@Adam10494 Жыл бұрын
Holy shit same..
@piusecweru84233 ай бұрын
Who is listening in 2024
@deya_bandrui2 ай бұрын
Me 😊
@deya_bandrui2 ай бұрын
But I like to change the words now
@Yadanar-o8kАй бұрын
Me😊
@AnaLuizaOliveiradaSilva-j3dАй бұрын
Eu com certeza❤
@lorriewhitley703919 күн бұрын
My Mother left me afraid, my husband left me for another, I hope I didn't leave my son afraid like I was, there is hope and love on the other side, take that leap of faith
@tonistallkamp8256 Жыл бұрын
Devoted to the kids that saw too much
@lorriewhitley703912 күн бұрын
My prayer is i didn't leave him afraid
@yaboigamerdouji75732 ай бұрын
Never in my life has a song exposed me. I needed this
@princesssunshine7559 Жыл бұрын
I didn't know Kelly Clarkson wrote a song about how my mom makes me feel.
@Adam10494 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow I'm sorry please don't be sad. 😞❤
@lamissdeinglesclasesperson72210 ай бұрын
I got the same bad experience in my live with my mom,so I figure how you feeling
@mondlindlovu75388 ай бұрын
I'm genuinely sorry❤
@insecurebutlovely8 ай бұрын
Same
@childofgod73078 ай бұрын
Forgive her. It’s the key to our healing, may peace be with you.
@toplikedtiktoks5882 Жыл бұрын
Only broken family knows😭🥺💔
@Adam1049410 ай бұрын
Oh shit especially broken family
@Themis336 ай бұрын
Written for all the people whose mothers ruined their lives. 😢
@Furiafelina5 ай бұрын
Well, I need the father version.
@Themis335 ай бұрын
@@Furiafelina songs can be whatever you interpret them as. Sending hugs
@CrystalMartinez-e9x4 ай бұрын
*fathers* for me anyways 😢
@peaceandlove97502 ай бұрын
It's both spirm doner and egg doner for me
@Ckcmp13Ай бұрын
My dad..
@CareyHarris-zg5pm Жыл бұрын
Good morning 🌞🌄 beautiful picture 🖼️😍 of a Day 💐🌞. I love you all.I just love because love dwells in me. No matter what I do ❤️😭 I am so clear on this uncloudy day I am his and he is mine. Thank you God for the beginnings and the beautiful endings. God let me rise each morning and remember not to forget your love and abiding peace with in my soul.
@alfredodian9040 Жыл бұрын
this song and numb by linkin park reminds me a lot about my teenage life. i heard both song around that time, just like it because the music is nice later found out about the lyric. growing up in abusive house, not loving parents gave me depression till i became adult. now 33yo im still not ready for any kind of relationship. im afraid i would turn just like my parents
@lifeisbannanas Жыл бұрын
Same story my friend
@Nuclear_Games78 Жыл бұрын
I was hurt very badly as a young boy by someone I trusted deeply and now I can't even sleep in the dark without being afraid of something terrible happening
@rhionadaffodil7520 Жыл бұрын
If you could just restart your childhood.. And erase those "because of you" experiences... Maybe it would create a new person in me.. Confident, happy and successful person... 💔😢 Because of you... A very sad song.. Childhood trauma greatly affects a persons personality, choices, and relationships..
@lifeisbannanas Жыл бұрын
Childhood trauma affects you for a lifetime. You spend your entire adulthood dealing with the pain from your childhood.
@isaiasaguiar832511 ай бұрын
@@lifeisbannanasI feel that 💯
@freywatson7527 ай бұрын
Spot on😢😢
@mangoeverse29302 ай бұрын
honestly, i feel like as i grow up its been getting worse 😭😭
@Letso_RamotlhabiАй бұрын
"Because of you i find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me"😭😭😭
@jewelfaithsnyder7454 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this song to my life * because of you, I learned to play on the safe side so I don’t get hurt…* Pretty song!❤😊
@hayupnatapsilugannissob5 ай бұрын
This song reminds me of my parents and our broken home. Though we're still complete but I can always feel it, the pain of not letting go. I still remember, ma, when you told me that you're only staying for us-your children.
@EtheRenard Жыл бұрын
A song I can easily imagine my overprotective mother in. Please, mom, let me fail, let me learn, let me live my life, let me be myself, I'm 26...
@thelast5171 Жыл бұрын
Hhhhhhhhhh
@saraclayton7331 Жыл бұрын
I wish my mom cared about me. I would give anything for her to be “to much” in my life.
@xanscraftstudio Жыл бұрын
I can absolutely relate
@maddypeiffer9446 Жыл бұрын
just block her
@chrissy138 Жыл бұрын
@saraclayton7331 don't invalidate her story. It can be suffocating when you don't have personal space. Thats not healthy relationship believe me,it's pretty damn toxic.
@CassiePass-gs2gz19 күн бұрын
I didn't know this song was about her mom now that I listen to her words it reminds me of the relationship me and my mom had she passed in 2013 and tbh im glad she was to much to deal with. I love her dearly but she leaned to much on her small kids to make her happy
@lourdesmaria14887 ай бұрын
Love You,Music❤
@EthelPesole-pj4wp9 ай бұрын
Only music heals my broken hearted,,,, it calms my heartaches every time I hear my fav song,, ❤
@MissyAmber89 Жыл бұрын
so this song came out in really early 2000's, i could look it up but too high. anyhow.... i thought it was about a boyfriend, for like 20 years. (i was a tween and teen 2001-2008, besides the point!) so i relistened to it, and omg it's about her dad. and i have been on a big healing journey with all these CPTSD repressed memories and dear lords. i'm crying, it describes everything i subconsciously felt to a big T
@Kim-ok5tn8 ай бұрын
I was 6 when it came out at it was clearly it was about her parents because I felt exactly the same way about mine at the time.
@MissyAmber898 ай бұрын
@Kim-ok5tn sadly at the time, I didn't see how bad my parents were. It was after the rose colored glasses came off only last year, I finally see what it's about
@Kim-ok5tn8 ай бұрын
@@MissyAmber89 they probably weren't that bad then
@ILikeBigCatsAndICannotLie7 ай бұрын
This is about the person who raised me ❤️🩹
@ecsantos466 күн бұрын
This is for you Happy Heart. Is ment for you 😢 November 2024
@adikoffi670Ай бұрын
Who is 2024?
@christinegalloza3967 Жыл бұрын
This song hits me in all aspects, I guess I’m really broken…
@SuperMusic194 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations for introducing our musical mate! great
@kassiepatterson6221 Жыл бұрын
I relate to this song so much
@duzinlabhutia2055 Жыл бұрын
Having an absent parent is really difficult, when the other parent just passed away 😞
@ingridtanner7304 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe I let someone hurt me as bad as you did, and I'm afraid and that is not right, I am a strong woman😢😢
@Alyssa_Ramos_3 ай бұрын
When you know what this song is really about, it hits so different omg... For those who don't know, it's about her dad who left her
@vittoriogigliarano243922 күн бұрын
Voce spettacolare ❤canzone stupenda ❤un grande abbraccio affettuoso dall' Italia ❤❤❤
@julianashabo5705 Жыл бұрын
Thank oh my Lord . Father ❤🙏🙏🙏
@LisaHiggins-h2r12 күн бұрын
2:26 😊 thank you 😊
@NycoleIdris11 ай бұрын
Merry Christmas Mama ❤
@MelchorRamos-kx7ng7 күн бұрын
I like this very much❤❤❤
@kendallerr234 Жыл бұрын
Idk what happened to us💔 we were okay back then, Papa. Years passed but until now I’m still not healed.
@TheXenogias Жыл бұрын
Hope you’re doing better these days
@WAM36013 ай бұрын
The lyrics of this song are sad and true 💯 It makes one very emotional when memories come 'flooding' back 😭
@iriskoni1017 ай бұрын
Still here in 2024 ❤
@AidaAbao-qd2su19 күн бұрын
Oh my god beautiful song❤️🥰
@vorontsovwriter Жыл бұрын
Simple and one time great melody! Thanks
@evelynhermedalla5287 Жыл бұрын
I love this song. Ngayon ko lang nalaman ang title BECAUSE OF YOU....
Growing up with a toxic mother not understanding what you did? Why she’s so angry at you? Then realizing it was never really me but her taking out all her past trauma on me. Now as an adult I’m having to deal with it. Learning to cope differently and end the cycle. To be a better person. ❤
@mangoeverse29302 ай бұрын
no literally me!!! i wish she could suck up her pride and apologize to me, I'm not an adult yet but I'm almost an adult and I've always struggled with the relationship I had with my mom.
@TeaghanNewell Жыл бұрын
I can relate to every word of this song 😓
@IngridTanner6 ай бұрын
Love this song, I've learned the hard way to not let anyone get to close to me. 🙏😇😥🙏😇
@christoferrbethea3488 Жыл бұрын
I love this melody
@JimsonLuguna4 ай бұрын
Ang galing mo po Sir Denis. Ang linaw ng boses at pagkabigkas❤ keep it up po Sir.
@BeautifulMess24063 ай бұрын
My father cheated on my mother a few months after I graduated college. I always told myself I'd get in a relationship after finishing my studies. I never did. I don't think I ever can. I don't think I can ever allow myself to be vulnerable in front of anyone. I don't think I can ever let anyone in. I'm almost 30. I'll probably be alone forever. Kelly was right. Later on you'll realize how empty your life has been, being too careful. You'll realize time has passed and you have yet to build any meaningful relationship because you can't trust anyone.
@samanthaferreira09 Жыл бұрын
This song is beautiful so much 🥺♥️
@MyrnaPlacer7 ай бұрын
npaka smart ni papajoms walang kapaguran..tuwang tuwa c bb carl habang pinapanood c papa Joms 🥰💛⭐💛 pang tanggal stress ang jomcarl team forever solid 💛💛💛
@foxskye91952 ай бұрын
Just started singing this after years of not hearing it.
@20misscherry7 ай бұрын
This song perfectly depicts being raised by a narcissistic parent or even worse by 2 narcissisting parents at the same time! 💔💔💔
@imarealselenator Жыл бұрын
I would die to listen your lyrics cause your lyrics just hits different!
@CalisthenicsWorldview6 ай бұрын
This song hits hard. Wow
@jasonlou2013S7 ай бұрын
This song is for a girl I never talked to but in fact I like her before. She was in my high school in 2010. But I never have encouragement to say hi to her
@jameswells2826 Жыл бұрын
I Love This Song So Much
@CharleneGunville7 ай бұрын
Because of you, I don't know how to let anyone else in. Because of you, I am afraid
@Mars2Point0 Жыл бұрын
How could someone willingly recreate life into this world
@claasicclassic2757 Жыл бұрын
real how could you
@forestings Жыл бұрын
exactly
@claasicclassic2757 Жыл бұрын
@@forestings ❤
@LucyQ-ew6zp Жыл бұрын
What's the problem with doing it if we then raise our kids doing the best we can? No matter how painful/hard it can be sometimes, life is still the miraculous thing we have, so why wouldn't we want to give it to other human beings?
@lifeisbannanas10 ай бұрын
Right? With how evil and cruel this world is.
@josebro352 Жыл бұрын
I didn't come from a broken home or dysfunctional childhood but I remember this song used to always play at the beach house I used to live in and I still miss it there. Sometimes places never leave us.
@Adam1049410 ай бұрын
Thats kind of sad but everyone goes through shit man stay strong
@josebro35210 ай бұрын
@@Adam10494 Thank you! 👍
@dagmarrosa2343 Жыл бұрын
Phenomenal lyrics, melody and the voice is perfect and sweet!🥰🔥🔥🔥
@lorriewhitley70392 ай бұрын
I hope he, my son doesn't feel afraid like i did, i pray my mistakes never lead him to never believe in true love, all it takes is letting go and having a leap of faith, ,i want to leave you in good hands with someone that loves you
@lorriewhitley703924 күн бұрын
I think I got him there, he just needs to let that guard down, I never meant for him to feel that way, not all marriages are bad, I just want him to be happy and feel secure. I won't always be there, so I want to leave him in good hands, but I trust his own judgment as well 😮
@killersmilevlogs66574 ай бұрын
I'm here again and again
@suprithasuresh4620 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry
@Maybe393611 ай бұрын
This song reminds me of the movie "A Look From Paradise"
@A-D-A-R-S-H Жыл бұрын
7clouds love by heart and india 🇮🇳❤️❤️
@EmerieRamirez7 күн бұрын
2024, everyone?
@katherineknapp4370 Жыл бұрын
I know a couple of people who need to hear this.
@SAOAMv Жыл бұрын
Amazing song.
@danielamckee5435 Жыл бұрын
It is amazing how triggering this song is! Wow. Just amazing... how the little girl inside me, who's parents did so much harm comes up and takes control...
@Mmmvlogs-lq3jzАй бұрын
Remind me❤
@jayb_ltl838 ай бұрын
This song goes out to my father who is made multiple attempts on my life and 😢 I think he may succeed. Please say prayer 🙏.
@leviiiiiiiiiiii33 Жыл бұрын
Thanx for this amzing song❤
@jerrytowns50973 ай бұрын
Hi hope youre doing well, forgive others thru Jesus and press on in higher realms of goodness!!
@chrismaeannbusmeon5938 Жыл бұрын
Love this song😚
@artiepov5126 ай бұрын
I wish my dad knows English so that i can send him this. Love the dude, he loves me too, so much.. But with the way that it's painful and limiting. Love you dad!
@FarahA27 Жыл бұрын
I came here because I was abused by my former coworkers at my two former daycare centers. I don't know why I still think of them, I'm trying so hard to get rid of them but they have verbally abused me. And the worst part is that they never apologized. When I called them out for it, they were either in denial, "forgot," or claimed that we made up (which I barely recall at all).
@Kim-ok5tn8 ай бұрын
Grow a backbone
@random_videosPH4 ай бұрын
Sobrang ganda ng kanta. 🥹😢❤️
@SzilviaFarkas-dg2zrАй бұрын
It feels like this song written about my life. 💔
@avant-garde2005 Жыл бұрын
Your channel keeps uploading nice songs. I get relaxed all the time listening to them. Keep it up please🙌
@amec403122 күн бұрын
They are genius ❤
@justinm.110 ай бұрын
@2:50 Kelly rarely sings this line during her live concerts