KEN READS | EPISODE 41: HE BROKEUP WITH ME IN THE CAR AND DROVE ME TO THE AIRPORT

[@chiaraA.]

Wow. Penelope really kept her cool staying in a random hotel and getting on a flight from some random airport. She really dodged a bullet and dodged ruining her LIFE.

[@DobermanDanK9]

Transference is a brutal thing to see as the person just discarded and having to see it daily (if you live near each other) is soul crushing.

[@tarkov_6]

Yeaa, abandoning you in a random place should show you how much someone cares and qualifies for instant no contact

[@utalorenz8680]

They use drugs to be able to process and endure their feelings. Mine was well functioning when he drank but not so much when he was sober. It's tragic, as it makes you feel that the drugs reveil their genuine, beautiful self, buried deep inside of them.

[@Infernapeclosecombat]

My avoidant 😢 emotionally unavailable used his dog since day one to avoid pretty much anything

[@SherriFlemming]

Interesting.

[@anoncspan4129]

Same thing here, except "she" and "cat!" Best of luck.

[@confused_plant6539]

Been considering sending a letter for ages - this is very close to my experience 🙃

[@ShopgirlNY182]

I couldn’t even get my avoidant ex to even acknowledge me on social media.

[@sararowe1939]

Same. When I asked to take our first selfie, he asked me "what are you going to do with it?" and I felt the need to reassure him that I wouldn't post it or tag him. Never posted a single photo of us - he should have been beyond excited to show me off 😓 I don't think he told anyone about me, and I figure now that I was just the latest gf or relationship that didn't last, and he didn't want people asking how it was going when it was inevitably going to end like they all do

[@ShopgirlNY182]

@ I’m sorry to hear that. I totally understand. I was pretty proud to show him off and I even posted I love this guy and he never even commented back to my post, but he had no problem commenting to the bartender at his fave bar that he loves her with two heart emojis. When I called him out on how this was hurtful he told me I was reading too much into it and how he hates social media.

[@SherriFlemming]

The secretiveness and compartementalizing. Being blocked from their social media is another one.

[@RainFall-wz2yp]

I try so hard to focus on the video and I cannot. I just can't. I can barely breathe through the pain I'm feeling. It's like a 999-trillion pound weight on top of my chest. I am breathless in my agony. My soul is raped. I am tormented and tortured by grief and sorrow. The rape of my soul is ceaseless and impossible to run from, it goes with me everywhere. I am trapped in hell. Aching and dying for Bryan and the illusions he provided. I could weep and wail forever and ever for how much I ache for him and how much I miss the fantasy we shared.

[@AllenTolbert-ld9ms]

@@RainFall-wz2yp Get real help or stop trying to have a relationship you can still date but be upfront about what you want in a relationship with who you are dating 🙏❤️❤️

[@kimberlykelly2068]

Ketamine for PTSD

[@karacollacott7056]

Santa Barbara is nowhere near San Diego…it’s literally 4 hours and 4 counties away. Why didn’t she ask him to meet her half way in LA for dinner vs jumping into a whole whirlwind weekend on his terms after not having seen him in years? That just seems like a recipe for getting love bombed

[@77maanno]

I wonder if anyone here knows if it’s a common thing for FAs to start dating someone you know after they friendzoned you? I just get this weird feeling this might be not so much about this woman, but about his need to either push me further away or to even make me jealous or to test me. Mostly I believe in the first factor. But then again it could be just a coincidence. Maybe she’s just a perfect match for him and he can’t resist. Even though when he told me he did expect for me to get angry with him.

[@sapnapandey5922]

Good morning from India ❤