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[@pauladyer255]

A life with Leo sounds exhausting. Good luck with that.

[@Yanaschantell]

😂

[@SergWisdom]

Thank you Paula and what was exhausting

[@AminahMight]

A truly insufferable man.

[@love_reka_8877]

He’s your common podcaster guy 🙄 red pill MGTOW BS

[@jasminebrown9365]

He’s the definition of DRAINING 😵‍💫

[@CHill-ew3nk]

Leo does come off as a future cult leader.

[@amazinglyazlin5761]

Leo talks in circles when answering the questions. He’s a walking red flag🚩🚩🚩

[@shamanlee111]

Exactly! looking for someone who's not judgmental while judging every little thing about the opposite sex

[@melodyslist5433]

So basically, he’s saying that he’s the only one that can have a spiritual provider, but the woman can’t be spiritual

[@tasherT]

@@melodyslist5433and she can only work for him but not getting paid. And … cater to him. He wants a servant

[@AJ-jw6yp]

By the end of his interview, I was genuinely afraid! He doesn't want a woman, he wants servitude. Women are NOT safe with him. He gives serious fatal attraction vibes.

[@SergWisdom]

Judging is not building something in your heart about them, you can still point out the flaws that don’t work to help other people

[@aroukapenn]

All I hear from Leo is *"I, I , I and ME, ME, ME"* Who the hell *DUMB ENOUGH* to sign up for this OPPRESSION!!!" And on top of that, you *DON'T EVEN GET A DAMN ALLOWANCE to save for *GET OUT OF DODGE* cause you gon need it!!!

[@SergWisdom]

@aroukapenn A wife leans on her husband he’s the leader so it’s better to not be involved with men who don’t do this because it will never work

[@sdbai]

Agreed. He's out of his rabbit ssa mind. I hope no one signs up for this mess.

[@SergWisdom]

@sdbai what did I say that you disagree with and why

[@sdbai]

@@SergWisdom All I heard was how this "relationship" would be beneficial for you. The woman would have to be your wife, produce and mother your children, work (for free, at that) in your business, have to possibly deal with other women, have sex at your leisure, put her emotions/feelings to the side, etc, just to say she has a man who pays the bills??! Relationships are mutually exclusive. Yes there are times one person may benefit more than the other but that controlling nonsense you spewed. Naaahhh. And my dad was a provider and my mom stayed home to care for the kids but their relationship benefited them both. What you're asking for is purely one sided.

[@SergWisdom]

@@sdbai you don’t believe in obeying your husband

[@chantelvenessa]

Yes fostering is a job. My mum was a foster parent and it's a full time job with weekly pay. The worst part was when the kids had to leave but we loved it.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Sure is!! it shall not be minimized!!!

[@missjoy6685]

Leo is going through Divorce Hurt and trying to red pill his way through social media to deal with it. Lord, help him 😳

[@Roccofan]

What did he say that you disagreed with?

[@GETBIG4WARD]

Many red pill men are married don’t get it twisted 😅😅😅there are levels some can be very very extreme some aren’t that extreme 🤷🏿‍♂️many red pill men watch with their wives

[@Matthew7.7]

Basically he wants a traditional relationship. It’s really that simple.

[@SergWisdom]

@missjoy6685 any disagreements with what I said, we may not be aware of what a wife really is

[@Roccofan]

@@Matthew7.7 He wants beyond a traditional relationship. He wants muslim dynamic without himself being held to the standards and accountability of a muslim man practicing his faith. He’s, for lack of a better term, a “modern man”.

[@murieltillman9554]

He claims to make $80,000 . Wants no less than 5 boys, no matter how many babies his wife has to have to get his 5 boys. Wants all his children homeschooled, wants his wife to not work and at the same time, work for him with the dogs, make sure she's up early enough to cook for him after he comes back from his early morning run, and if she doesn't have 5 boys, he will go have them by someone else, etc, etc, etc. What IS in it for HER? Does she even get to sleep??? He's giving STRUGGLE LOVE all day long and only considers his wants and needs. He only considers a woman necessary to be his employee, to make HIS dreams come to fruition and as a depository for his spoim. There he is. Have at it.

[@murieltillman9554]

This guy has been lobotomized! Besides him trying to get more followers for his content, there is just SOOO much to unwrap here, I won't make any more comments. This guy has exhausted me! Dayammmn.

[@sweetjanejonez]

Disgusting.

[@SergWisdom]

I don’t know about the struggle love thing, but I know it’s better to raise kids in a two parent household in poor into them time education and letting them see you be the example of what they should be then it is to be rich and lost

[@murieltillman9554]

@HusbandAdvice You don't describe a two parent household at all. You describe "I want. I want. I need. Me. Me. Me." THAT is all about YOU, YOU, YOU. And if it doesn't roll your direction for whatever reason, YOU give YOURSELF license to change it up, regardless of the others involved, wife, children, or whoever. The only thing to your credit is the fact that you put your unwavering selfish desires out there for everyone to hear/see.

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Not only is he ignorant, controlling/mentally & emotionally abusive but clearly can’t financially plan. He talking all this mess and 80k is no where near enough to support him, a wife and one child. Lmaoooo that is NOT a leader or a man. He cannot financially lead his family on a unrealistic plan. But weak minded woman WILL sign up for this. He damn near admitted he’d r**pe his wife. Smh.

[@cookielafoo3848]

Leo sounds like a controlling abuser. Also full shade 80k can’t afford 1 kid let alone 5. Be weary of men that don’t see you as an equal. This man wants a pet.

[@demetriusjames9535]

That is definitely not true! A family with 1 child can sustain off of an $80k salary.

[@SergWisdom]

Who said I make 80 K I said over 80 K

[@AminahMight]

He wants one of them dogs he be walking.

[@SergWisdom]

All jokes aside I’m standing on principles that are key to relationship success men are the leaders are they not men a wife’s desire should be to her husband should it not?

[@demetriusjames9535]

These modern Western women have no idea what a husband's role is, brother...

[@ThirdEyeWize]

There was absolutely NO REASON to give Leo that much airtime!!!!!!

[@love_reka_8877]

He was dry & boring

[@DB-tv9jp]

He didn’t say nothing wrong you hoes just love chaos & he ain’t going for it & you don’t like it! Gtfoh complaining bum

[@DB-tv9jp]

@@love_reka_8877and you broke & still working what’s the issue mad because your daddy wasn’t there so you hate men oh wow

[@BePresent333]

I think it was her way of protecting the women who watch her show. Maybe unraveling his thought process would ward sensible women away.

[@buttalovebae]

Dang Leo 😂 He's the perfect example why some women are choosing to be childless and to live happy alone.

[@SergWisdom]

@Buttalovebae and you’re basing that off of what in particular what did I say that you disagree with that wasn’t logical

[@arryvul]

Leo doesn't have a lot of experience with women OBVIOUSLY! There WILL be women who will bury any emotional support JUST to be kept🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Black_beene91]

😂😂😂😂

[@Rocanala]

The type to watch FnF clips for dating tips🤔

[@SergWisdom]

@arryvul emotions are in narrow net combined with other emotions and thoughts I’m simply teaching something you’re not aware of emotions will cause you to judge for sure which is playing God

[@arryvul]

@HusbandAdvice at the end of the day this "advice" will never be universal. It's a couple by couple situation🤷🏿 I didn't see you as a bad guy, they're YOUR desires.

[@SergWisdom]

@arryvul this is the order of life tho right man should be the head of there family’s ruling over the woman with godslove right?

[@meababy5409]

Leo is a narcissist. He is not a natural born woman nor a doctor but somehow he knows how the female hormone works and no a lot of times are hormones can be very imbalanced and out of control he needs to get over himself

[@SergWisdom]

That word, narcissist, what is that?

[@DB-tv9jp]

Awww responding just like a child with insults are you mad because Leo is not a bum & you can’t control him? Y’all women hate men who do good for themselves & know there worth because he’s not broke & you can’t control him with loose roast beef sandwich you got down there 😂😂😂

[@SergWisdom]

@@DB-tv9jp to be honest with you 99% of the women who are commenting don’t have any love at all just hate and this is just another example men be mindful of this these type of women want their way in relationships

[@honeysway]

The best Leo will get is a immigrant who barely speaks English

[@EnnizeO]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Rocanala]

He’ll happy that that if he can have total control 😕

[@reepa5399]

That's better then 98% of the woman who come on the show that are overweight and/or single mothers

[@demetriusjames9535]

@@reepa5399 Definitely better than 99.99999% of them!

[@AminahMight]

Or someone with a learning disability.

[@BrotherAkin]

The Leos of the world are the result of them having social media personalities fill in as father figures in their lives.

[@yattab4590]

Leo lost me early with the whole “women need to be able to control their emotions at all times” 🤔🤔He kept talking and it got worse!! 😳😳She gotta work for YOU and her pay is raising your kids while you out running dogs because it’s fun for YOU?? 🤡🤡🤡

[@wandabennett-gould1005]

He was nothing but one contradiction after another. He said his deal breaker was a woman who had to be healthy. He later said he would eat unhealthy. I don't think the woman he's looking for is looking for him

[@love_reka_8877]

😂😂😂

[@kamribriana9410]

Kendra … it’s “liable”. You’re not LIABLE for who people meet. Not “reliable” 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@GameOver-cg3jx]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 She's slow

[@superkalafragilistic8289]

What she really means is that she is not viable, not capable, not dependable, she is also not relatable for whom you meet.

[@sweetjanejonez]

And she's a journalist 🙄

[@chantelvenessa]

Nah she's right! She's both not liable or reliable. Don't take her word for it lol

[@coachk8999]

I told her this a year ago, she don't listen! LIABLE!

[@EricaBunker]

Leo doesn’t want a woman who is spiritual, but Leo doesn’t have a denomination and leans on his “spiritual provider”?! Red Pill math!😂 Leo wants a woman he can break down and control, even down to her emotions… while trying to call that “leading”.

[@fantasyvsreality1013]

Thank you for saying it.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Are you single no kids?

[@AJ-jw6yp]

The "mother wound" is strong in Leo! That man needs help before he ends up in jail and some poor woman six feet under.

[@EricaBunker]

@@Rashaadthegr8 I was married for 27 years, 3 kids SAME FATHER (because I know that’s important to y’all! 😂), divorced, and currently engaged to be married again.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@EricaBunker nah too many kids.lol. kids and baby daddies matter.lol. why you got a divorce after 27 years?

[@VisionPoet]

Homie can't find one woman to give him what he wants, but he thinks he's gonna find an additional? Redpill grifters got them in a chokehold.

[@saundra_janae]

You’re not retired if you you’re made to work for your spouse’s business. You just have a different job.

[@SergWisdom]

I agree with this

[@TNel-cz1zp]

@@SergWisdom it’s clear that your intention and mindset is correct in the sense of wanting women to no longer use emotions as a crutch or a barrier to them progressing forward and overcoming, and the spiritual comment vs an actual relationship with God is spot on. However this can be observed as borderline controlling and narcissistic. How are you showing grace and patience here? Unity and understanding of your future wife so you both can overcome and succeed?

[@SergWisdom]

@@TNel-cz1zp i’m aware that the people that used to rebel find me controlling and narcissistic but it’s coming from evil people who don’t have any love at all in displaying it in the comment section and my grace impatience with them is clear you can see it I replied to almost every comment

[@RobtomiArt]

LEO is the most mellow schizophrenic I've ever seen and I'm a psych nurse. No lie

[@askpam9558]

Yes, yes and yes again

[@deborahday1786]

Whew. Wow.

[@Gloriusblooms]

Is he serious?

[@shayshay12171980]

Leo is Dee-Lu-Lu 😂

[@lisaaaaaa6652]

Leo sees women as tools and a means to an end. To him, a woman is not a person who deserves to have hopes, dreams, wishes, and desires; unless it’s all centered around him. He gives traditional values a bad name. A man can have traditional values, AND still see value in taking interest in the woman’s desires.

[@SergWisdom]

@lisaaaaaa6652 do you believe in God does it say that a wife’s desire should be to her husband and not her own does it say she is to be ruled over? Does it say her nature is controlling and she would want all those things that you’re mentioning but you’re supposed to follow your husband as a helpmet?

[@crissytyson2355]

jasmines smile is contagious

[@veronicawhite3826]

She's beautiful❤❤❤❤

[@MonaLisa-cm5xt]

This male caller said that once you give him your body, he’ll give you money?🚩🚩 He sounds like a trick🤣🤣

[@rosewatersweettea]

Or he’ll call you a hoe for giving it up, keep his money and repeat with another silly goose 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SergWisdom]

Think about it , you’re supposed to be married before you have sex when you’re married, you should have access to his resources giving your body is the highest form of marriage

[@california_grown]

He’s looking for a prostitute.

[@LondonLady24]

Leo is a major red flag. He essentially wants to break a woman down. These type of men don’t want the women that want them. They want to break confident women down rather than picking the pick me style of women.

[@Roccofan]

Do you think all men that want a traditional wife want to control her? Do you think that a man that wants a woman that views him as the leader of the home is controlling? If so then declare yourself non-traditional and go find your husband if you haven’t already.

[@SergWisdom]

@Londonlady24 I’m open to hearing one red flag so I can learn what I’m doing wrong

[@Roccofan]

@@SergWisdom You want the traditional dynamic of a muslim man, but you don’t want to be held to the strictures of that faith that provide men with that level of authority in their dealings with women. You need to take a seat and fully flesh out your ideas, wants, and beliefs. You’re all over the place with your thoughts and your inability to articulate those desires shows the immaturity of those beliefs.

[@virtualconnect111]

YES! This is why he can't date a "spiritual woman" because they know themselves and cannot be manipulated

[@Roccofan]

@@virtualconnect111 He doesn’t mean spiritual in her beliefs, but her mindset. You can be pro-black and “hotep”, but everyone knows there is a certain connotation that comes with being “hotep” that goes beyond simply loving and wanting the best for black people. Women that make being “spiritual” part of their personality can be problematic.

[@thecorequeen2916]

Does Leo know the definition of emotions? Emotions: a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others

[@rubyoverstreet1596]

I can’t believe he is really serious!!

[@ChynaMonroe-u7b]

80k isn’t enough for taking care of wife and say three kids... He should look for a serious relationship later on when he gets that business and bank account up 🆗😕....

[@SergWisdom]

What makes you assume that I make 80 K I said over 80 K let’s just say I make 120k what makes you presume that I will stay at that rate?

[@kinkykurlskulturecyndi8780]

I agree it's not enough for that family size especially here in Dallas. Maybe the natural, not of the world thing he mentioned would be less costly but even materials and growing food is expensive!

[@quanyin1556]

Hell 1 or 2 kids barely making it with 80k

[@kyrramcmichael8830]

Cynthia is a blessing ❤ I hope she finds love again

[@sweetchicago4047]

When you let ppl talk they tell on themselves... he is projecting.... he needs to heal first.. i like kendra thought what he was desiring wasnt bad until he said the thing about having those children by any means necessary.. issa big no because post partums a thing, complications are a thing, and other things. .. i truly hope he breaks for himself. Its clear his mother screwed him up. I always say a mother is responsible for their sons heart and a father is responsible for what he does

[@Roccofan]

Leo is a great example of having good intentions, but bad articulation. This is why fathers teaching and modeling these things for their sons is the best way. Women need to marry before they carry so that young men aren’t getting less than fully formed ideas about women and masculinity from “the streets”. Marry before you carry.

[@SergWisdom]

@Roccofan The articulation” here’s one thing I noticed for us as men we speak with deception example men will say they want a partnership, but men are meant to be leaders and dictators so we’re either lying or have yet become a man to know

[@leejudah649]

I agree that Leo has good potential and could truly benefit from a circle of acceptable male mentors. It’s understandable how one might end up at an extreme position due in part to social media echo chambers. I feel if he truly is seeking to be a better man, leader and potential father/husband he will modify some of his standards and be able to truly a love a woman into submission. He is right to acknowledge “the order” of things.

[@summer_jay7636]

I agree. He is on the right track but his delivery is bad. He also needs to get his faith in order. No woman can get behind a leader that is a lukewarm Christian-budist-Muslim

[@SergWisdom]

Men and women that are focused on delivery words of affirmation people. Those people are easily deceived. I’m speaking poorly intentionally trust me I know how to be a devil and manipulate, but I choose to operate differently in peace, but saying it with my chest.

[@Roccofan]

@@SergWisdom This reply just proves the point. Sadly, it degrades the “good intentions” part of my original post. You said nothing in this reply. Brother, you sound like an In Living Color skit. _If you’d allow me to expose my colon, I would elucidate the axiomatic truths of what I’m trying to convincicate to you._ Go back to the lab.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Ways to improve the show 1. 15 min cap on guests. 2. have them put their IG on the screen.

[@And1one757]

The pace of the show have slowed way down... with the money asking questions and etc... the pace was great before hand... maybe some adjustments will be made

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@And1one757 we can only hope show

[@Roccofan]

@@And1one757 I like the questions, they give different perspectives that Kendra doesn’t always provide.

[@And1one757]

@@Roccofan i dont mind the questions its a good element to the show... kind of like nfl refs looking at instant replay, yes do it but it shouldnt take so long is drastically slows down the pace of the game

[@thecorequeen2916]

Leo sat up here and repeatedly mentioned people being judgemental while proceeding to judge EVERYBODY 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@aroukapenn]

I'mma *PASS* on Leo!!! I'm sorely too *INDEPENDENT-MINDED* to be Leo's mate. Hopefully, he finds him a *SUPER-TRADITIONAL* because his views are a bit *ETREME/XCESSIVE!!*

[@lovelyphoenix4363]

I get some of Leo’s points however I think it is essential for both parents to raise the children. This is what creates the balance for them as they grow and mature. My mother was a stay at home mom and although we were well taken care of I never desired this for myself. I always knew I would be a working mom. Either way it’s extremely hard but I don’t feel like children raised by a stay at home mom vs a working mom determines the success of the child. Raising children TOGETHER and creating a healthy life of balance and happiness is what will have an impact on that child’s future. Hope he finds his future wife.

[@bellbattle1898]

Thank you Kendra for setting Leo straight 🙏

[@wyteriawilson4007]

I pray no one hits Leo up. Please seek mentorship and counsel. He is twisting the Bible.

[@SergWisdom]

What part of Bible did I twist? Just curious

[@bellbattle1898]

Wyter Yes

[@SMonique00]

LEO, what world are you living in sir? 😂 you are crazy

[@SergWisdom]

@Smonique00 definitely not this one. There’s no love everybody is using the evil in them to justify against the order of things

[@MonaLisa-cm5xt]

It’s funny when the male caller received pushback from the super chats for the delusional things he’s said, he wants to call those people “emotional” but he spent almost an hour complaining and trying to dictate how a woman should conduct herself in a relationship. This is why people don’t take y’all seriously as a group. Can’t feel sorry for any woman that hits this dude up afterwards the things that he’s just said tonight.

[@meloran2571]

the show is majority female guests. for every one delusional man there are roughly 8 baby mums with 25 kids. just go to the videos section. you should feel sorry for all the women losing sleep in the queue waiting to come on with their wishlist 😂

[@1deonlucas9]

Nothing he said was delusional. And women ARE SUPPOSED to be submissive to their husband. So this man dictating how a woman should be in a marriage was extremely accurate. Modern hyenas like you believe that women are beyond reproach and need no system, order, and structure. YOU, LIKE MOST MODERN HYENA WOMEN, ARE OUT OF ORDER.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

He talked to much as he matures he is going to learn why most older guys are quiet 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@pro-muffins2721]

🎉yes this is not real journalism! He wants what he wants. All these other fake women accounts have nothing but hate for a black successful man. If half these women talked to their boss I’m sure his mindset would be aligned with this guy standards. Kendra got in her emotions honestly! How can you determine the emotions of an online chat community. Wow. 😯 I thought Kendra was a godly woman.

[@demetriusjames9535]

Horoscopes and sage! How on earth did you get "Godly" from thst? 🥹 ​@pro-muffins2721

[@Unique.Brown.Sugar.]

Cynthia was a great vibe. Unfortunate that it abruptly ended but glad she came back. She's an awesome person for her line of work in being a foster parent. Leo made my head hurt. I learned a lot with this delulu man! Over an hour unnecessarily on this man. Jasmine was a breath of fresh air. She's beautiful and I enjoyed her energy! Amazing and contagious smile and laughter! Good job on the weight loss as well, girl! Amanda's face had me feeling bad that I couldn't hear her LOL. She had that puppy face.

[@barberchris6981]

$80,000 ain't enough to keep your woman home let alone have 5 boys too. Dude sounds ignorant

[@Angeliz225]

Leo exhausted 😩 me ! Yessss Kendra read him for filth in the classiest way!

[@georgialouisew4152]

Who raised this young man? Where does this type of thinking come from? Because to say if your wife can’t give you all 5 kids you want, you will get them from someone else? You don’t need a wife you need a therapist.

[@SergWisdom]

I understand that women want to control how relationships are ran but that’s out of order demand is supposed to dictate and the woman is supposed to submit I’m not getting that wrong, especially for the people that believe in God or the Bible

[@lizaodom5948]

The women represented the show excellently tonight! Wish them ALL Love, Peace and Happiness ❤❤!! Great job Sisters!!

[@capturedbyshelly]

You want the wife to work for YOU , put aside her dreams to work for YOU, be a housewife for YOU, raise and be a teacher to the children for YOU, and you said work FOR YOU not even WITH YOU there's a difference, and she doesn't get a percentage of the company, OR GET PAID and you are married to her. Bare in mind you don't want her to work or have her own money, Sir you need to compromise, it's not all about YOU, you have to want your wife to be happy also. Look at it from a different perspective, she has to give up her dreams to please YOU and she doesn't even get anything in return, not even a cheque or an allowance. Also, she isn't working for you then if she doesn't get paid she is a volunteer to your business that she doesn't even get a percentage of, sorry sir respectfully that selfish. Since you want to quote scriptures: Proverbs 24 says: She makes and SELLS linen garments and supplies belts to the merchants. Proverbs 31 says: Give her the REWARD for what she does, and let her works praise her in the city gates.

[@SpiritSoPoetic]

Men do not understand, a woman is not going to be able to invest in you and your dreams and your vision, and be her best, healthiest version of herself! That already breaks u into many different pieces! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SpiritSoPoetic]

Most women who serve a man and his purpose are only a shell of themselves

[@Rashaadthegr8]

what? You basically said most women aren't wives but we all know this.

[@And1one757]

​@Rashaadthegr8 its wild when they say stuff like that, but eyy 🤷‍♂️ is what it is... thats like a man saying i cant provide for my women and child and invest in my dreams or be the healthiest version of himself... that would sound absolutely ludicrous like im trying to be independent of them

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@And1one757 smh it's a crazy world we dating in.

[@kevinlee9929]

What you said makes absolutely no sense

[@wjones1216]

He know a lot about a woman to not have one.

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

Say it Loud😂😂😂

[@SergWisdom]

@wjones1216 we are getting the women as men, but the women are not interested in being ruled over men are doing their jobs to make them comfortable with laying but they’re not comfortable with submission

[@EnnizeO]

Leo is a walking red flag!!!!!

[@Blaqmench]

I strongly disagree with you about Leo! @Eninize

[@SergWisdom]

@Ennize0 I made myself clear, so that way the woman that agrees that she has a place as a woman that is not equal to me, but in submission to me, she knows what she’s getting herself into versus the man who tries to deceive, and says he doesn’t want that men are created to rule over the woman he may not say it because he wants sex but eventually you will find out that he doesn’t honor you

[@roseflowers6425]

Kendra u look so cute tonight 😍 I like this hairstyle on you make up is lovey watching the replay

[@GradyBrown-i3m]

Never be ashamed or allowing anyone to shame you about a honest job or career especially if it’s pleasing to God. I work as a doorman for 9yrs and additional 8yrs working with children from broken 😞 homes 🏡 but I allowed no one even a attractive female that I had interest in telling me what I did for living was not sufficient. For women whom think like that yeah as for me I told them to move on

[@SergWisdom]

I agree. I think the people in particular the women are more concerned with obeying their husband, they want control.

[@TheStandard81Podcast]

Kendra, I after a few minutes of Leo talking he couldn’t have been raised with a father. Everything he said sounded delusional. 😂😂😂

[@catonyx2092]

Okkkkkkk Jasmine!!!! Yaaaaasssss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Beautiful inside & out!!!!

[@Roccofan]

1:15:49 Jasmine: Am I the only one that thinks that she was in Atlanta and was married to a gay man for ten years and isn’t saying it because she views it as a failure on her part? The way she said she was competing with “something” she couldn’t give him was really weird. 😮

[@stardustbunnny]

YUP, I peeped that too. I immediately thought the other person is either a man or trans.

[@piscespisces6]

She was actually married to a woman but I don’t think she felt comfortable revealing that info. Don’t ask how I know.

[@Roccofan]

@@piscespisces6 She wasted pretty much all of her best child bearing years being married to a woman and now she wants a husband and father for her children? Sad.

[@RobtomiArt]

Yeah I caught that too. I was just sure she was going to say DL brother 😮

[@FrankieG-x5h]

According to jasmine, you’re only a “real man” if you can lift an obese woman.

[@wtvhthis2336]

Yeahhh depending on where you live 80k is not cutting it with the amount of kids he wants plus himself plus a home and a women

[@demetriusjames9535]

Only for the lifestyle that modern women require...

[@wtvhthis2336]

@@demetriusjames9535this was honestly an ignorant and unnecessary comment.but you go on and have a great day

[@aspenirvin610]

#1- Leo doesn't make enough money in this economy for what he us asking. #2-it does sound exhausting and controlling. She's supposed to work for him, bare and tend to 5+ kids, take care of the home in terms of cooking/cleaning, sex on demand, sex on demand. Leo is handsome but confused Muslim/Israelite, not spiritual but spiritual.

[@kevjones72]

Leo, much respect, they mad that you have standards... I have them too and females hate it when you're successful with standards but you lost me towards the end brotha

[@pro-muffins2721]

❤bro he is on one of the best mindsets ever. He kept everything open with true standards. I stand with him on them standards. I’m very intentional and open minded too but I’m not fearful of these women emotions. I got a proven track record of knowing what I bring and value. Keep it strong LEO!

[@demetriusjames9535]

Don't ever give up your standards! Always know and remember your worth as a man!

[@obibuaku]

80k is successful to you? And he wants at least 5 kids 😮 poverty is in his near future

[@itsSimmonds]

Kev is dumb

[@melodyslist5433]

Leo wants a servant. Been there done that and ran real fast. I wish I would help a man build a business and I don’t have any ownership or compensation.

[@Roccofan]

You’re his wife. By virtue of that title you’re entitled to part ownership. If you want a sex contract, then say that.

[@SergWisdom]

I think this is why it’s important for men to value purity because once a woman has given herself, she gives the next man a little less

[@Da3Hound]

​@@SergWisdomif women valued purity in men then men would be deemed completely worhtless, most men have more bodies than the morgue on average

[@sssscat]

This man wants a Nara Smith on a Burger King budget. 80,000 is not enough to take care of a stay at home wife and children. He also has no leadership, and poor communication. He is indeed spiritual asking for a non spiritual woman. He is picking and choosing between doctrines, which is manupulation.

[@JaysRandomnessChannel]

80K IS enough to do all that...y'all just so used to F'king off money that you don't know how 😂

[@meloran2571]

sounds like you're just bitter. you may not agree with his ideas, but he clearly expressed his views, kept his composure, and communicated well. 80k isn't enough but women expect a man making 100k to pay their bills, pay for trips, and be financially savvy at the same time. make that make sense.

[@mznaturallyfit]

A woman who is about her family can make anything work. And if she's resourceful, she can naturally acquire and save. There's no need to impress the world.

[@TheEzwider88]

Most of y’all women talking junk about Leo probably gone be single FOREVER.. 👀

[@cookielafoo3848]

@@JaysRandomnessChannel80k is enough for 7 people?! Wtf are you talking about? The cost of living for a single person in California is 90k. Even in Alabama you’re going to need more money. Y’all are delusional.

[@lov3rbox]

I could not relate to Leo's ideas on alot of things. However, I applaud his calm demeanor and composure. That is admirable in a man.

[@deborahday1786]

He’s mentally and emotionally off. That’s not admirable. A lot of psychopaths have calm demeanors.

[@crystallatoya3476]

Cynthia was amazing. I pray she finds someone that has her heart and passion.

[@rosewatersweettea]

Please no more answering 20 questions and arguing with guests trying to change their mind, I understand diving into a statement but these people aren’t here to date YOU Kendra, don’t take the dumb crap they say personally. Maybe the live comments should be off since it’s taking away from the dating aspect of the show.

[@amaenthrall6744]

Well I appreciate Kendra asking in-depth questions and giving responses. It reveals more and more about the guests

[@SergWisdom]

I think she did a great job. Honestly, I had fun.

[@KeepWatchin5.56]

nah kendra is fine. the probing allows the facade to fall

[@LTgoBirds]

I think the social aspect of social media is a key differentiator between this and TV. The “real-time” feedback makes the show engaging IMO.

[@rosewatersweettea]

@@amaenthrall6744It’s taking away to much time between each guest and the majority of the question are just mocking the guests looks and standards. One question is far different than 6.

[@carleeb2344]

Why can’t Kendra see that he doesn’t sound like a provider but a person who wants to dominate control and put down a woman.

[@SergWisdom]

And you’re basing that off what

[@GoinHam10Four]

Its sad that so many people want to get married AND DON'T understand that whether you or your spouse makes the money it's BOTH of your money after thr marriage starts smh.

[@SergWisdom]

Like I said, in the video, the man should go out and make the money in the woman should prioritize the children. Is that not right?

[@GoinHam10Four]

@@SergWisdom it was actually a general comment for all the people that worry about HER or HIS money when they want to be married. It's a union not a competition. Too many people on their high horse or subscribing to silly ideals that point to independence instead of interdependence.

[@KLABICKHAM]

I agree, and that's how my husband and I run our household, but a lot of people don't. They're married but keep their finances separate. 🫤

[@sheilalamar2819]

I knew he was A Narcissist! I was trying to give him a chance. Leo is a No!!!!!!!

[@ladyajohnrose3274]

That is exactly what I said. Everything is about what he wants.

[@judykanene5326]

Leo, Leo, Leo... How can you say you will retire her then at the same time say she will work for you for no pay, then say you are the provider? Funny as heck 😂😂😂

[@fredpayne1581]

Now I see why we are so messed up in our community Single women keep women single!!!!!!!

[@SergWisdom]

Agreed

[@quanyin1556]

4B

[@SpiritSoPoetic]

Men who “study” women’s behaviors👀 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@SergWisdom]

Are you saying single mothers are red flag because in that dynamic, the boy is not only studying his mom but becoming his mom

[@melodyslist5433]

Leo does not understand the divine nature of a woman. He does not understand what over emotional is. He probably couldn’t even handle those days when women just need to cry. He’s rigid as all get out. There is a certain type of woman for him though.

[@SergWisdom]

You’re saying a woman’s nature is good? A man nor a woman’s nature is good. Where did you get that from? Watch this chat?

[@quanyin1556]

He don’t want her to talk to him about her emotions wow

[@murieltillman9554]

I lied! Last comment. This guy keeps harping on "women being emotional". He is so unaware of self, he doesn't even realize he demonstrates his emotions. 😒

[@SergWisdom]

Interesting where did I demonstrate emotions?

[@murieltillman9554]

@HusbandAdvice Sir, please realize men have emotions as well as women. I have no time stamp of the various times you displayed and made statements borne of emotions, but one instance stands out at this time. Kendra asked something along the lines of how were you going to guarantee you produce male babies and you smiled and were almost excited to say, "It's a secret!", and on from there. As I've stated before, please seek guidance from a REAL grown man. There has to be at least one in your circle, somewhere. This thing you're on is disaster. And I truly believe everyone should have the opportunity to be happy...as long as they're not making someone else's life a living hell!

[@Honeyworkit]

I let Leo live until he said sex on demand. After that he showed how low level he actually is.

[@SergWisdom]

@Honeyworkit my intentions were to not deceive. Most men are trying to deceive, which is a feminine nature now about the sex on demand. Should a wife that once monogamy feel like sex is a chore?

[@KLABICKHAM]

Right, because nothing in a relationship should be a demand.

[@Honeyworkit]

@@SergWisdom Words have meaning Leo! You didn’t say “I want a wife who puts in effort to maintain an amazing sex life.” Or, “I want a wife who doesn’t view sex as a chore.” You said, “I want sex on demand,” which means you want sex based on your terms, regardless of how she would feel. “On demand” implies an immediate action regardless of prior circumstances. Women aren’t holes piping hot & ready for you to stick your penis into. They are human beings experiencing every emotion & feeling you do. If you actually started looking at women as true helpmates, you wouldn’t say something so callous. You wouldn’t demand your male coworkers to do anything for you on demand-you would ask for their help & hope they would willingly do so to accomplish the same goal. Why not treat the woman who bears your children & takes care of your home the same respect? Like I said, I didn’t disagree with everything you said, but towards the end your points became more & more self-centered & I don’t think you’d make for a truly helpful partner. I think your view on emotions is so jaded that it makes you seem detached. A man’s greatest strength, in my humble opinion, is being able to show compassion & understanding. I did not get that from you at all based on this interview. Either way, good luck in love! I hope you find the wife you’re looking for!

[@jtFacts77]

After Kendra speech on "being emotional", she is now on my ALL TIME list of BEST AND GREATEST, Black/African American people. She verbalized exaclty how I feel.

[@vanessaomoka5224]

She really did

[@ella.o.8685]

Leo is seeing a woman as an object for his needs. It takes two to tango. It takes two people mutually working together for a relationship to flourish. A man and woman should take up their role but there should be consideration, understanding, love for each other.

[@nuksallaeay4796]

Idk! As extreme as he sounds.... I agree with his logic but I also gotta admit as woman who have literally lived "the life" he is telling you blatantly he wants you to serve him! Your needs/wants... thoughts or whatever will NOT be considered! 🤷🏿‍♀️🚩🚩🚩

[@JAYWIL01]

He didn't articulate it well, but I agree with his logic. I think he needs to seek out some men as mentors that have been married for at least ten years.

[@SergWisdom]

Women in men who like articulation tend to be the ones getting deceived. I’m not here to deceive. I’m here to love that’s honesty, commitment, duty submission.

[@JaysRandomnessChannel]

Kendra you lied to us. You said that your app would be open to all in April. I'm ready to find my baby momma with eleven and a half kids!! Wassup?!!

[@jCo1]

Dannnng lol she didn't say April 1st, she just said the month of April.😄 It's just now the 4th and there are 30 days in the month lol. Now if it was May 1st and you couldn't get past creating a profile, thennnnnn we could say something lol, but at least the app is on the App store and Google play 😅

[@sweetjanejonez]

Idk why people would go on there. It will be more of the same trash we see here and the general trash of online dating. Her app will be no different. There's no way to vet these people. Now, if you're looking to date a BM or psycho have at it. If you want quality, I suggest dating IRL. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@JAYWIL01]

​@@jCo1 We need access to those baby mommas right NOW!!! 😂

[@JaysRandomnessChannel]

​@@sweetjanejonezlol I was just joking 😂

[@austonkidd8401]

Leo krazy as hell 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Rated_Fenty]

Like my granny says crazy as a bed bug

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

He never smiled....

[@Akaiza_Zerzay]

...? What if the woman who hits leo up totally agrees with everything nuance he wants but is 313lbs and built like a tea kettle ? ...? U goin in leo ? 😂😂😂

[@quanyin1556]

😂😆😂🌪️🤣😂😂🤣🤣😆😆☝️🎯

[@TheIndianSpice]

I am Indian and in my opinion this man is horrible ! My dad never treated my mom like that!

[@SergWisdom]

Treated your mom like what? What did I say that you disagree with your mother didn’t obey your father he didn’t rule in his house.

[@doggidoggi2728]

Like a worthless slave ​@@SergWisdom

[@TruthFLA]

Leo has more growing to do. He is getting close to the right path. He is just not on it yet. He needs a mentor. Luckily for Leo he doesn't have children yet. Also lucky for Leo he's a man and thus has some additional time to figure this out. Best wishes to you Leo

[@Blaqmench]

Leo highlights how Masculine/Independent the mindset of today's 2024 WOMEN! #Leo = Inexperienced Alpha Man! #MostWomen = Hypergamist

[@SergWisdom]

Interesting I think you get it

[@pro-muffins2721]

Wow Kendra!!! now this is not real journalism. You’re questioning this humble man about what he wants and tries to convince that he isn’t making sense because he said spiritual. Wow. This is a tale tale sign that we men can’t even be intentional in what we want for our own family. Brother may god bless you and dont let the rift raft harm you. I believe that it was just shocking to her but Bible says be not of this world. Stay intentional and humble brother we need standard and not old women in their 40’s Blessings. 🎉

[@demetriusjames9535]

The hypocrisy and hypergamy are the only real things about this show. All of these women who come on seeking "God-fearing" is a total lack of respect for The Most High!

[@pro-muffins2721]

@@demetriusjames9535 yes sir Kendra not understanding that men that are good with money don’t need a relationship based off money. We want a relationship based upon facts and faith. She was not giving this guy the love and honor that he deserves and he was very solid in his response. I’m in Dallas too. hopefully he keeps seeking!

[@crystallatoya3476]

Leo just learned from a cult and they had a “How To Be An Alpha Man” retreat and now he’s the spokesperson and want people to know he finally learned how to be an alpha man.

[@shamanlee111]

Leo is trying to control your life! If you do anything wrong he will kick you out, with your daughters 🤨. He is pathetic

[@Blaqmench]

@shamanlee Leo trying to find a Wife.....You need to take a course on "How to be a Helpmate" 🤨

[@LaHoward.T00]

Good Leo, don’t be discouraged she out there.

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

Leo is a walking contradiction....i thought he said he eats healthy but then said when the women cant anticipate his needs he eats waffle house and steaks

[@SergWisdom]

To clear that up cause you definitely made that up. If my woman is cooking for me, I’m eating the same thing every single day because I don’t eat for taste, but without a woman I’m eating out every day pretty much definitely appreciate a woman who can cook nothing wrong with that I don’t think

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

@HusbandAdvice if you eat healthy it doesn't matter if someone is cooking for you or if you're eating out. What you allow in your diet is ultimately your decision. Eating out is no reason to deviate from eating healthy

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

@HusbandAdvice there's nothing wrong with a woman that can cook, everyone woman can and should learn to cook in this day and age of KZbin.

[@SergWisdom]

@@ElaynaAlexander-z5r hahaha

[@SergWisdom]

@@ElaynaAlexander-z5r agreed with this

[@valeska8630]

This is the god fearing provider all the women are asking for lol . The comments just prove most women don’t want that lifestyle

[@paulamaia953]

Leo wants to be a cult leader 😮nothing but a manipulator,he will ask you for a second wife as soon you get married 😂

[@SergWisdom]

It’s within a man’s right to care for his family and have an abundance of kids

[@trb294]

The comments warned me but Leo just started and I am already over him

[@SergWisdom]

Do you have any disagreements with what I said

[@SoGorgeous7]

I don’t want her to work. I want her to work for me.

[@fredpayne1581]

Peace to the Goddess What we have in our community there's respect for the man because that's his prerogative!!!!

[@SergWisdom]

@fredpayne1581 a man that refers to a woman as a goddess does not love her, and more than likely is deceiving her with words which is easy because she’s the weaker vessel be a man and give her honesty also be kind and have no anger

[@craigjoyner9857]

Bro essentially said “if her womb cannot produce more children, Imma go have some more children.” Can’t see how that’s a loving relationship arrangement for a woman. If the woman and the man discuss and agree to do something alternate, to have more children, that’s a different situation. Ladies, if you call dude, make sure your expectations are clear, else you gonna be on a lifetime special episode.

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

News flash no one can anticipate your needs, you have to tell them

[@ClassNeverOutdated]

if you study someone you get to know their schedule and how they do things hence anticipating your mates needs

[@JustAnotherLpn]

There should be a time limit. That way more ppl can get through.

[@Matthew7.7]

Nothing wrong with LEO. It’s you modern women who shy away from catering to a man and being a traditional wife. He wants a traditional relationship, it’s just that simple.

[@Blaqmench]

@matthew7.7 Leo needs a Latino wife or traditional southern wife!

[@SergWisdom]

For sure, cultured women

[@kimah62379]

The guy Leo has a youtube page called husband advice but he's not a husband. So confusing. He's just all over the place. Doesn't want a spiritual woman but considers himself spiritual. Also makes a lot of generalizations not based on facts, "alot of people this, most women that". 🤔

[@SergWisdom]

If you didn’t understand what I was saying, you should seek to understand not to jump off a cliff with thoughts on me I can help you understand that God is a spirit I trust in God I’m not spiritual because those people tend to be self-righteous

[@SergWisdom]

I hope that helps

[@luckydeegirl]

Jasmine seem like a delightful young lady with realistic expectations. I wish her all the best

[@ishapeach]

Leo is on the spectrum. Some of them have no emotions or know of empathy

[@JAYWIL01]

No problems with that man. He's just a traditional man who needs a mentor.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

@@JAYWIL01I agree nothing wrong with that man only moderns hate what he said and he does need a older mentor nothing wrong with that either but he seems ok to me lol

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

​@@JAYWIL01..if you say so

[@jb3702]

Something is for sure off

[@SergWisdom]

This comment is actually for the men replying to this post. We gotta stop gossiping, and assuming that I’m not carried by other men how did you even come up with that thought? If you have any disagreements, let me know.

[@douglasanderson5516]

Would have loved to know how long his last relationship or relationships lasted!!

[@SergWisdom]

My relationships normally last 3 to 5 years

[@yanou4u]

I love Jasmine. I wish her the best.

[@RobtomiArt]

Haldol...Prolixin...Risperdal...etc. Let's get LEO medicated please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Calm does not equal SANE

[@deborahday1786]

Exactly.