FATHER MEETS HIS ADULT SON FOR THE FIRST TIME #EMOTIONAL +SURPRISE part 3

Father meets his adult son for the first time should read : Nigerian father meets his ADULT American son for the first time! This is PART 3 of the vlogs about my fathers visit to the USA. + A major surprise I did not expect!
I am sorry it has taken so long to finally edit and upload this. I have so much more footage to share with you so look out for more. It has just been a challenge trying to find the time and energy since I started a new job assignment- Medicine is kicking my butt ! (-:
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[@MizJWat]

The "WAY" the Dad "LOOKED" at the Mom when she came in was like a little boy being INSTANTLY smitten with a beautiful girl. I FELT that energy.... I think he IMMEDIATELY went back in time to the place that was once THEM....so nice to see...the HEART never lies...even when you want it to.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

very true (- " Thanks for watching !

[@TheBLACKboard65]

Your mother is extremely gracious. To have a husband and still wind up having to take care of 3 children by herself, and then to know he's started another family. Wow!

[@danielopara2025]

Your good Nigerian daughter we are all proud of . As a Nigerian l got very emotional seeing your parents holding hands sitting down. They still love each other. Thank you our sister for making this happen because life is short and we need to forget and forgive.

[@hope_4a38]

Your mum are dad are still comfortable holding hands sitting on the same sofa, first love never dies anyone agree?

[@happydemwell9199]

Wonderful story

[@nellykoffi4141]

Yes true

[@fatimafonah9344]

Is good to see them both. I like your story very much.

[@gardensteps]

Olusegun, and you know, he probably still thinks of her, in a very loving way, as his wife. Unless she's remarried of course. That's Nigerian way. I got tired of correcting my in-laws that I'm no longer their wife. I even changed my name back to my maiden name.....but they still think I'm their wife, simply because I never remarried.

[@maryandrew3324]

Joy J nope. Even though you remarried they'd still call you "our wife", that's how we are.

[@irenedarkwah6329]

Watching this Vlog made me so emotional. As an adult I recognise the situation your parents were in at the time. As an African I understand the tremendous amount of pressure your Dad was going through from his family. I especially love and appreciate you for forgiving him and making that day possible because it was needed for complete healing from all sides. Your Mum? All I can say is she is a very strong woman. I respect her greatly for coming, God bless her! As for your brother who wouldn't come, he'll have a better understanding moving forward as a father. Forgiveness heals!!! Oh, Your children are very accommodating and well mannered. Your husband? He is the best!!!

[@elsiecruz8537]

Why did habiba mom leave her husband?

[@dammygrace3708]

That old man want to cry ,he is just holding it hard

[@sankofax8082]

he actually cried lol... they cut the tape, when he started squeezing face... 😂

[@DrHeartMatters]

This fist time seeing his son has to be emotionally moving.

[@horlicks3920]

That old man? Wouldve sounded nicer to not reference his age.

[@purplegal05]

There was so much healing in this video. I am Nigerian-American too and my dad has never been very emotional towards us, very cold. I wonder if one day he will break down those barriers and give me a real hug one day.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Awww. *virtual hug* Thank you for watching!

[@Queensheba10]

Your father struggling to hold back his tears made me cry. Thanks for sharing your family's reunion and path to forgiveness with the world.

[@kemiwusi6989]

Made me cry!

[@slysteel7227]

Yes

[@Vee_K96]

He was speechless

[@tunjiadegbite1697]

9 33. pin 22

[@segunogunsola5822]

I don't know where the onion is coming from 😭😭

[@EyaYorubaTV]

Believe me, the two love birds are still madly in love. Just hiding under the garb of maturity and history-induced caution. She still loves him and he loves her.. This is lovely.

[@EyaYorubaTV]

@@lesleenbarbour-jack6136 In the absolute.

[@ibrahimuzair08]

its lovely..so rare these days!

[@goddyrichie4185]

Yes they are still in love with each other....the thing is some times the Nigerian culture Makes most nigerians just bend towards th will of their families back home.......C'mon this man has 2 wonderful kids with this woman...irrespective of the fact that they are no longer together...you can feel the emotion and ofcause there would alot if memory coming up.....it doesnt matter whether your white black blue yellow skinned...all that matters is love...once there is love years might go by..but you will always have that love englued in your hearts

[@dolapoishola1542]

i know right so cute

[@kemi5872]

Hello vinnie

[@Jaylove777]

Ok I am here crying!! Hurting for the broken relationships, the power of forgiveness and that true love never really dies. For a Hausa man to cry...very deep! Thanks for getting your mom to come down and being the peace maker. Your parents still love each other. Your mom is so gorgeous! I can only imagine the emotions they both felt at that meeting.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank You for your comment and watching ! God Bless

[@maureenburrell5452]

Woooow. The Nigerian. Culture. Popping

[@zanne__imonluamen]

I'm Nigerian and I have been following your story. I just want to say that watching this video made me tear up especially when your brother surprised you with your mum. I could see that your dad was sooooo happy to see her. I totally agree with you, your dad should have kept in touch with the children even though he was no longer with your mum but we thank God for bringing you all together again and I really hope your other brother can find it in his heart to forgive your father. I just think your dad was a victim of cultural beliefs. As a Nigerian, culture is one thing that is taken seriously especially with the northerners where your dad is from. Let's say he went after your mum and fought for her love back and lived in new York with you guys, he would be assumed to be a weak man by people due to this "cultural beliefs " that we have. I hope we(Africans) can learn to put behind some things that doesn't blend with the world we live in today. OMG I am already writing too much😀. I'm just sooooo happy for you and this made me so emotional I had to comment. Looking forward to your next vlog.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for your kind words and insight !

[@zanne__imonluamen]

@@Kenton-Habiba you welcome dear

[@mimidoobeautynyikor1170]

imonluamen Suzie you said everything I wanted to say. I wish the entire family the very best moving forward

[@zanne__imonluamen]

@@mimidoobeautynyikor1170 yes dear

[@adaorahi]

Why would he leave a country he loved, that he had all due privileges to relocate to a country that will make him automatically a second class citizen. Doesn't make sense at all. I don't even believe that his father, an educated Northerner will allow you marry at a young age. You were a privileged kid that attended FGC in Nigeria. You are far from the truth about early the marriage. That's usually for the very poor and uneducated. I believe your Father would've sent to you abroad for the best education, if need be. That's what such men usually do. All the same, I am happy that you put your differences and reunited as a family. This is a very emotional video too.

[@mtemdlamini5107]

Oh my God when daddy hugged your brother I started crying because he was holding his tears so bad & African man don't cry in the presence of their kids❤️🇸🇿

[@mimidoobeautynyikor1170]

Mtem Dlamini yes I could see it too, for a Nigerian man, he cried

[@nathifella]

Indvodza ayikhali. He still loves his wife and kids.

[@mtemdlamini5107]

Nathie Dlamini wu Nathi,wangiphendvula ngelulwimi lami. Ucinisile Nkhosi🇸🇿❤️

[@patomene5074]

True love never dies. Your parent are still in love with each other.

[@DrHeartMatters]

I* agree.

[@joseph9531]

Mama and daughter look like sisters!

[@DrHeartMatters]

Habiba talks too much. She didn't even give her parents any private time to talk. After 25 years I know she was excited.She and her brother look very much like their mother which may mke her father feel emotional. They do not look anything like the father.

[@adepojupeace5541]

@@DrHeartMatters you don’t know what happens behind camera hun,don’t just jump into conclusion ! Do you think they didn’t talk?

[@chm4477]

Habiba, I am very happy to see, your Dad and Mum together with your brother. In 1985 your mum hired me as a private tutor to teach you Mathematics in Sokoto Nigeria. It is a great surprise that I now see my teenager student as a mum. I am even more happy to see my boss your mum. Congratulations Habiba. This is great!!

[@FikiNom]

Amazingly small world

[@swagzgeneral8606]

Tell us how she left

[@nasroddinusman9879]

Dad is Muslim and you guys become Christians.??

[@victoriousjc9979]

@@@nasroddinusman9879 - And your point is? Sometimes I wonder the planet where you fanatics fell from. A family is celebrating a re-union and all you could quickly observe was the religious difference between the father and his children? If only you knew how Islamism has RAVAGED Northern Nigeria you will be ashamed to bring up Islam to this conversation. From Zamfara to Katsina to Sokoto, banditry is the order of the day.

[@michellehubbard8865]

Nasroddin Usman Judaism, Christianity & Islam (created in that order) are all religions of the Old Testament. They are more alike than different. Take a World religions course.

[@hanniewangari6908]

When I grow up I wonna have a daughter like you Peacemaker! Unifier! Angel! A gem!

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you dear! May God bless you !

[@haroonomar7806]

I agree , she is special . Good for her . I ask Allah to help her

[@titaadams]

Me too

[@kamal171]

Yes absolutely beautiful and unsweet

[@nanagladys582]

Bless your Heart Habiba.. Good to make Peace .Life is Incredible. AllAH Give U A Wonderful Husband...& Family..Amine..

[@baguduak]

I and many conservative Muslim northern Nigerians understand exactly what the man feels. He really loves them but there's something that really hurts him and he may not voice out. That feeling was visible most apparently as he set eyes on Bashir - that made him shed tears. The reality he sees and he feels he can't change really hurts him. That reality, I believe is his biggest regret. That he could have been there to make his best effort to shape the reality before him.

[@abode409]

I know exactly what you mean. I saw that as well.

[@iljasiljas3312]

i feel for him.. As a muslim i hope that never happiens to me.

[@nimohashi6594]

@@iljasiljas3312 and pray for him that Allah guid them insha Allah I feel sorry for haji.

[@iljasiljas3312]

@@nimohashi6594 insallah. me to wallahi. i hope he stays strong. life is a test

[@alvinman8]

@ABDY SOMALIhis is from my town and the same tribe hausa, that is reason I refuse to marry any European woman because anything can happen.

[@alhajikamara3445]

your story is educated for many of us who are going through family pain thanks for this theraphy.

[@andrinapowell2558]

Mom and dad meeting up again gave me all the feels. I could tell he was holding back a lot of emotions. Sending love from a fellow Jamaican.

[@KINGDOMDAUGHTER]

Jamaican mommy, strong Queen. I am Jamaican and I can relate to your mama. She raised three strong children and remain faithful in to her vows, no matter the years of being apart and he remarried and she didn't. A strong Jamaican Nubian Queen

[@carolibrahim5814]

Some people were saying your brother was disrespectful to your father. I think your brother and your father looked at each other in a way to say , this is my father this is my son. How do We Talk to each other. Let them have their time together just the two of them no camera no one watching. Much time has passed let them know who they are

[@juzme37]

Exactly!!😍

[@Th3lite]

Agreed.

[@janetday5431]

Her brother is so loving, he would never disrespect his father. He is a beautiful person!

[@Lade.A1]

Dad was certainly about to steal a kiss ❤️

[@marynanfuka2216]

Hahahaha i saw that too Hahahaa

[@juzme37]

😂😂😂

[@maimunadawaki2903]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mimidoobeautynyikor1170]

Lade__ _ thought I was the only one that noticed that 😘

[@Th3lite]

I saw that.

[@2co1s]

Everything about you speaks about “peacemaking” you are a peace maker I just subscribed

[@jotu_lupele9731]

I totally agree with you. @ Habiba, kudos to you. You have just fulfilled one of the Almighty creator's mandate for your life, which is to be the strong link that holds that (your) family together. Everyone in your family will adore you for this and we on the outside looking in also do. Peace and blessings to you all. And a very big "thank you" to your mum for her role in bringing this full circle both for you, your dad and especially for herself.

[@susanmuthoni1167]

Yes she is😍💕

[@dovevision2199]

There were millions of words in that hug of your mom and dad. Dad was speeeeeechhlessss as in speechless. That was priceless. These are pure victims of a culture...thank God for you.

[@angelicakweku5293]

May God bless you Habiba.Culture is a bitch. As a Nigerian, even though am a Christian. I understand where your dad is coming from. Am glad you all have forgiven him.God bless your mom your hubby , children and your brothers. One love! Very emotional!

[@issacmacthompson5732]

Good job Habiba! You look like your father

[@antoinette1874]

I crieeeeed, smiled, screamed and everything in between while watching this.I don't know their story but one thing for sure is there's no doubt that your mum is the love of his life!!!! This is just so beautiful, OMG! I'm so emotional

[@maggiealf4474]

Forgiveness is the best thing in our life

[@Vee_K96]

Finally I find a fellow Kenyan supporter here

[@joycedellimore8242]

Daddy's eyes start sparkling and got so soft. His smile never ceased. He giggles and looks alive like a young man again ❤

[@jackpotwinner8486]

This video randomly popped up in my recommendations and I’m glad it did. We must forgive our fathers as their generation were raised to not show any emotion in life. I commend you for bringing your family together and may God bless you all.

[@priscaooko4626]

This is a lesson for Some african men.. Treat your wives right.. Happy Réunion.

[@juzme37]

True,they only realise when its too late.

[@slysteel7227]

Don't judge

[@user-qc5yo8bn6x]

He don't treat them bad. He just making choice. But The wife love western cultur und...

[@priscaooko4626]

@@user-qc5yo8bn6x anyway i understand your point but no its clear the Man treated the woman Bad.Thats why she is still bitter with him. Honestly treat your wife right and she will be submissive to you. But who am i to judge

[@minoo1984]

iamkrazybonez actually she said that her father was aggressive and did not listen to her mother. He made his wife give birth in Nigeria even though she was scared and wanted to give birth in the UK. He also wanted them to move to areas in northern Nigeria that she was not comfortable with. His wife and kids were secondary to his wants and desires

[@shirleydixon7319]

This is one of the BEST VIDEOS I've seen on KZbin....so glad you guys got together.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you !

[@ngoziokorafor7703]

If there was an award for that, this should definitely win it.

[@gracemaryannan9504]

@@ngoziokorafor7703I totally agree with you

[@amandamilo3454]

Ngozi Okorafor I concur!

[@frigatedeck464]

​@@amandamilo3454 I agree

[@donydeyamoah2443]

I used to have so much against my dad because of all the years he did not bother to see my sister n i or even call us when we were actually leaving in the same country. but since i became a parent myself i realized how easy it is to make mistakes sometimes and he has been such a good grandpa. We all make mistakes.Your father made me cry. For an African man to cry before his children it means a lot. Thank you for forgiving him.u gave him the best gift ever.may the Lord bless your family.

[@adaezeokereke9318]

Oh my God!! Shed tears when I saw your mum And then when your parents hugged!!!

[@renataharewood1297]

Look at that hug your father gave your mother😊

[@migf27]

Your dad was really really emotional when he saw and hugged your brother.

[@juzme37]

I cried too😭😭

[@believegb3691]

migf27 I felt bad that he did not hold his dad for much longer, he's like he didn't care. It's sad

[@migf27]

@@believegb3691 hopefully things will or have gotten better. Bashier at least showed up but had reasons for not warming up to his dad immediately. His older brother did not for his own reasons. We thank God that while they are all alive, the initiative to begin healing has started.

[@juzme37]

@@believegb3691 i think Bashir needs time to warm up.i am very sure their next meeting will be better than this.

[@believegb3691]

migf27 Yes I really hope he gets to give his dad a chance and enjoy him while he's still alive. The big brother, well I don't really know what his problem is but you only get one father. Their dad was not a criminal or something, was he? I can see their dad and mum still have some type of connection so I don't think he was monster! The whole thing is just sad!

[@MsFrevrysPoetry]

Your Mother is a whole mood!!! She is very beautiful!!! You have a beautiful family.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

So sweet , thank you!

[@carrotts123]

Your father still loves your mother 💝

[@claribelngundu2204]

Ur mom is sooo beautiful and u are her carbon copy. Ur mom is one in a million to hv come after everything. That just shows the ❤ of ur family is in the right place. Ur Dad almost lost it. it was as if he fell in love all over again with her. I love u for doing this God bless u all with long life and more opportunities to get together. Loooove u all

[@sweetcelia411]

When are you guys coming to Nigeria it will mean a lot to your Dad.

[@Azlite74]

Didn't mean to cry again, but hey, your Dad's emotions were too hard to ignore. Your brother did get you real good lol! From what you said, I think your dad was a victim of a culture at a time and place. However, that does not excuse neglecting his children. It's a good thing you have shed the load of unforgiveness for your self. Wishing you all the best of 2019 and the future. Ps: One of your dad's gift to your mum appears like a real gold jewelry set. Really nice.

[@barbaraadams7166]

Azlite74 z

[@amakaobehi9258]

Those were real pure gold!

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[@zainababdulmajeed9931]

Yes, Their dad was a victim of culture and their mum never adjusted... A lot of it I'm sure was centred around patriarchy... Knowing that in a typical Hausa home at that time the oldest male called the shots on everyone's affairs... It has changed a lot now... And there are a lot men that went abroad to study and came back with foreign wives and a lot of them stayed... Till date! It's so sad their mum had a tough experience that made her leave... She looks so beautiful after all these years... She's precious😍😍😍

[@mimidoobeautynyikor1170]

Azlite74 yes it’s a set of real gold jewelry, I have one like it but it’s way smaller

[@florafola5186]

Wow your mum came. You are identical sisters. Happy family reunion

[@SentimentalCrab]

This video was worth staying up until nearly 3:00 a.m. to watch it all, and we thoroughly enjoyed every moment. It was very heart touching. Every family has stories marked by trials, pitfalls, and jubilation. No matter the outcome or logistics, once created, a family is a family. I appreciate your more in depth explanation of how your family came to be. I’m honestly one of those viewers who thought your mom took the kids and left your dad. My being married cross culturally and more specifically to someone of your dad’s ethnic group, affords me an edge in understanding the “why”. Oftentimes the pressures of cultural conformity result in broken families. I’ve witnessed it many times. Hopefully your brothers will open up. I wish you all well going forward. Thanks for letting us share in this moment.

[@elizabethspace3081]

Wow I cried when your mum and dad hugged themselves the love is still there and it’s so emotional for me too. Habiba I love the fact the your mom got him a gift that was so sweet of her

[@attangi]

oluwatosin awoloa I tried dating a northerner once. I realized that they don’t like showing emotions. They see it as a sign of weakness. I guess that’s how he is.

[@juzme37]

@@attangi same here am from Kenya 🇰🇪 i was dating a Guy( Father to my boys) from Mauritania tribe (sonninke) We fell apart cos of the cultural differences😢.

[@marilynseptember21]

Similar situation with you. My mum is still actively asking me to check regular contact with my father. It was my sister (half sister) who traced my dad when I turned 40. But I am close to my dad (step father) and my own father is like a complete stranger to me. I live in UK but my parents live in US. This has helped me a lot. Next time I go to US, I will make an effort to stop off to see my father and maybe his kids (half brother and sister) they reached out to me on Facebook but I politely declined. Even my step mum wanted to see me (I understand she is separated from my father) Thanks you for sharing. Nagode. (Sorry your dolls creep me out) Love the group pictures with African clothes. Hope your kids learn about their hausa culture. I am Igbo but my mum refused to teach me so can't even speak. I plan to learn Igbo and learn more about my culture. By the way I see your red tomato sauce....very Nigerian. Your husband is cool. I hope your son answers question with sounds orally....I am glad your daughter watched the movie with your dad, one cannot become a movie director and not know Sidney Poitier. Sorry this is a long comment I got carried away. God bless you and your family.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for taking the time to watch our vlog and comment in such detail! God Bless you too xoxo

[@egopat15]

It broke my heart. The man hugged his ex-wife so tight. It felt real and like it said it all, why did we break up? Holding hands was precious.

[@zipporahannan4844]

Woa I Like the way You train Your children, thats wonderful

[@bibibabs6571]

Sister..Am so proud of you. Forgiveness is key. Your dad is a great man too. Your mom is so beautiful and am glad that everyone is at peace...

[@joekabbz82kambo26]

Love never dies, God bless you for bringing your family back together it's really emotional and full of love

[@dijah214]

Can't believe that I just cried when ur dad saw ur brother feeling so emotional

[@DrBella]

I wish your brother came because time has gone so much and he might regret it later, everyone played their part and time has flown by so much that the blame game isn’t necessary anymore. There should never be a time where forgiveness isn’t an option between you and your next of kin. Sending you and your beautiful family so much love and abundant blessings ♥️😭

[@MsMoalli]

They really still love each other.

[@nasratadebago893]

Alhaji wanted to cry when he saw his 1st son over 30 years ago it was a happy reunion God bless you as you guys forgiven him.

[@opeoluwaprincess322]

Forgive him? Did he run away with the children?

[@amandafenfang7121]

You really look like your mum . And I must say that you really did a great job here

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you

[@daintyflygirl4va]

Is her mama frm Nigeria also?Beautiful family.Jst try to forgive him and learn to love him more.We only live once.

[@oluakinwale4485]

Your dad is still very much in love with your mother. Tears in my eyes

[@mary18203]

OMG ! This two still love each other. 😢😢 it make me cry.

[@heleni9244]

Your children are very well brought up. They are helping around the house so much. I think your upbringing in Nigeria helped influenced how you have brought them up. Very proud of you.

[@maureenn.canhandula2381]

Very proud of the well behavior children!Am happy for you!

[@mimidoobeautynyikor1170]

Helen I I noticed the children’s behavior too, it’s so Nigerian. You brought them up the right way and you should be very proud.

[@VivianHarry]

Your dad wiill be so happy he made this trip its been worthwhile!..'very happy for your family

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you dear !

[@Steph_Said]

Let's revisit this lovely video. Your Dad couldn't take his eyes off your Mom!💜💜

[@gloryamen8842]

My beloveth sister, am from Nigeria. When I saw your story of you meeting you dad after 25 years. I said to myself let me see what's up. Since watching you and your sad, am so happy with and for you. I love you girl. I left Nigeria 29 years ago but my dad died in 2005. I live in Holland. I wish I could see my dad again. Spend the best time you can with him ok. Love you sis

[@jareya]

You’re such a good person Habiba, it shines through you. Despite all the hurt and pain of the past which cannot be erased or forgotten, the forgiveness you’ve shown is great.

[@shemthompson6766]

😭 when he saw your mom,he was holding back his tears omgosh

[@DeeBus8]

😲😲😲😲😱😱😱😱😱😱😫😫😫😫😫 REAL talk I’m soooooo happy your mum made it!! Nigerian men act so tough but have the biggest hearts. The silents from your dad said a lot. Sometimes in life things just happen. Your mum is very strong and courageous. New subby right here!! Hope to see more of your parents ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dorisfiga4153]

Hi Habiba you look a lot like your mommy. My husband is Nigerian and we have 3kids.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thanks for watching! Are you American ? curious where you are watching us from?

[@dorisfiga4153]

Habiba,no am a Belizean from the Caribbean but we live Mexico City, so watching from Mexico!!

[@olydnk5270]

More like the Dad I would say

[@chariotwofilthy8374]

Gm edagdwg thanks for sharing this story of what happens when you have family in another world God bless you to be able to have a 💯 life with family God is always around pray changes everything and people linda j peace

[@fleurb1287]

Hi Habiba, I subcribed to your channel in 2017. I usually don't comment, BUT this video is a must ! What an amazing family reunion ! I shed a few tears actually...so lovely to see all these emotions. I love your work and your talent ! You are such an inspiration. Many blessings on 2019 !!

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@olasunbooluwatuyi1627]

You're such a nice lady with a good heart. I love your moves , God bless you and your family.

[@tocatocaboca30]

I love how you say , "daddy" . You are such an incredible woman.

[@ipsilonia]

17:21 the "it's deep" comment got me right in the heart. i've been loving this so much, habiba! the ups and downs and uncomfortable and beautiful moments of family and heritage and culture... it's so so so relatable, and so few people talk about this, let alone film it and share it. thank you for both

[@christinayusuf7257]

Habiba, your dad is still in love with your mom and he got emotional when he saw Bashir after so many years. I really enjoyed watching this video. I almost cried.

[@princeaghamiogie7154]

We all make mistake. Nevertheless, it's great to see a family reunion.

[@xenawarriorkween3274]

OMG Habiba so we’ve come full circle! I can’t believe how long I’ve been watching. These were the first videos of yours and I haven’t stopped since. I hope you don’t mind me saying but it seems your parents truly loved each other so deeply. Your family is so precious 😍😍😍

[@zigizagano]

You have such a good heart Habiba. I'm Nigerian too and I can tell you the your Dad was a victim of our culture, especially the Northern part which is very conservative. It would have been 'shameful' for him to follow your mom to the US. He would have been the joke of his town. Times have changed now but some people still hold on to those believes.

[@christieatuh]

Time has not changed those traditions in Northern Nigeria, maybe the southern part which is largely Chriatian

[@Aro_Gidigba]

@@christieatuh time has not changed those cultural norms in all of Nigeria. The North is just more conservative, I'm Yoruba myself and I can speak of a number of my uncles who have a similar story and had to rebuild a relationship with long lost now adult children and know of many from different parts of Nigeria. I feel for the father the years after his family left him without notice would have brought shame and scorn his way especially given he is the eldest son from a large family and from all I can deduce her father came from a conservative and affluent family cause only wealthy northerners went to barewa at the time just like Kings college. It's the sad story, even as a young man in my mid thirties with friends marrying women of diverse cultures and families with different norms I've witnessed conflicts that arise from the difference.

[@ruthfakorede]

Very true

[@adaorahi]

Exactly

[@druscillanamusubo4700]

I said your dad still loved her the fact that he brought all those gifts for her. Oh my God, men act funny, but when they grow they remember the past and by then it's too late.....he could not stop looking at her..

[@juzme37]

Absolutely!

[@esbizzze]

My Dad same!!! He died saying the biggest mistake of his life was not treating my Mom well. My Mom was divorced from him for 30 years when he died. She came and held his hand in the hospital. She handled all of his funeral arrangements with great respect. She did it for her children.

[@juliusoyawiri8904]

my dad showed hatred for us and our mum right from when we were still very young, he had other wives he loved them and their children, now my mum is the only surviving wife and he is now looking up to us to take care of him. Men should be careful how they treat wife(s) and children, you can never tell the ones that you would have to depend on when you are old

[@lifewithzee8807]

Ma shaa Allah! I was in tears . So happy for you guys. Mum is so beautiful.

[@mariee9772]

I felt so happy that your mom came✨✨✨so emotional

[@mariammomodu1658]

I got so emotional watching the reunion video especially when your mom arrived. I'm happy you took this step and you feel better about it. Most father's especially up north aren't as affectionate and our society didn't really help back then so your father only did what he thought was best. I'm glad he has accepted his mistake and things are better for everyone. I wish you the best. And yes I have subscribed to your channel after wiping my tears...

[@nancyasare87]

Ahi Abiba.i,m proud of your mum she's a lady I thought she will not come but made it. I'm proud of you all for showing your Dad that you love. him..

[@nanagladys582]

Ouahou..Mum so Beautiful...No wonder she is A Winner..Bless you MAMA..For the LOVE of your Children..So PROUD of YOU..ALL.. God is Good All the Time. AMINE

[@ayodelefasehun]

I am glad for your family reunion.Your mum made the right decision bringing you to the USA.

[@adesuwaaliu9502]

This is the most beautiful and the most emotional family reunion I have ever seen! Habiba, you have a heart of gold! Your mom is so sweet and beautiful! You are blessed 😍❤️

[@ami5824]

I am very proud of you Habiba, thank Almighty Allah for you to see him again. I am happy for you once again

[@Tboss0311]

see me smiling ear to ear like its my family .. lol happy for you guys! with love from Nigeria

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for watching!

[@Tboss0311]

@@Kenton-Habiba Always a pleasure

[@misumobo]

These videos of you all reconnecting with your father are soo touching. Your dad seems genuinely regretful that he missed out on you and your siblings growing up. He nearly cried seeing Bashir. I was soo happy to see your mother in the car. I was in tears watching this video.

[@IoveYAHUAH]

After all these years, you can still see the love between them two💞

[@efaea]

I am happy that your mum relaxed and flowed in conversation with the husband at the end. Both still love each other.

[@jenniferward5216]

This made me cry seeing two people who loved each other so much and had part for logical reasons. They can be comfortable in each others presence. True love never dies.

[@albertsheriff3698]

TO BE HONEST AM PROUD OF YOU, YOU HAVE SHOW TO THE WORLD THE REAL BLOOD OF AN AFRICAN FLOWS IN YOU, YOU ARE A GOOD MONDAY.

[@jamilaabdullahi7784]

I could not control my tears of happiness....ma shaa Allah what a beautiful family reunion❤😍

[@Ola-kh6ss]

I think your mom and dad are still in love,great video.👍❤️💕

[@mkvlogs2625]

I paused and cried when Mom appeared then subscribed and now commenting.... Thank you lots peace maker

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for watching and we appreciate your comment! God bless you.

[@carlajordon4540]

I don't think your dad ever got over your mom, he looks like he still loves her like the day he met her,, you all look alike your mom is beautiful

[@blessingakpobarimbea1059]

Wow, sis this Amazing I'm Nigeria too I love the family reunion, and love what your Dad did too, he actually bought some clothes for her thank you sis

[@princeaghamiogie7154]

I shed tears when your mom was zipping your the vest your mom bought him after which they hugged each other

[@ImeUdo-ObongMesoEx]

Quite emotional when I watched your brother hug your dad. The BOND between a Nigerian man and his first son cannot be expressed in words especially if they've been apart for like a generation...( 30 years is NOT a short time oh) and meeting his first love WOW!! From your story, Habiba, you dad really loved your mum..but circumstances and from my opinion and your story, some cultural, some his personal maybe character issues ( and I know because I live in Nigeria and was raised at the time you were kids in Southern Nigeria) he made some kind of sacrifices from her..but..well..this would make a good movie!! I hope Mariam could come up with a script based on this, like "series" about this one time in her life which we would watch in NETFLIX or even better in a global African platform like IROKO TV..

[@gloryamen8842]

I love how your mother surprise your dad. You still can see the love on his eyes when he saw your mother. That's a man to you if a woman walked out of a man life. The feelings are always there. I will love them to come back together again and be happy with each other. The love is not over yet

[@EC4400]

Your daughter is so beautiful. I hope she knows it and walks in her strength. She is Stunning.

[@akeem1221]

Habiba you are a strong clean hearted woman, besides that I can see you are close to your dad. Keep up that spirit.

[@mattiewilliams1138]

Lady I am bawling in 2023…….family is Everything no matter what!!!!!

[@carolarnold9372]

I know this is a 4 year old video however I'm sitting here bawling my eyes out at your mom showing up. It was obvious when you picked your dad up he wanted to see her. He was so surprised and omg that first hug said it all. Imma continue watching this is so awesome.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Awww thank you ! Yes this is one of 7 videos filmed when my father visited the USA

[@kechnjike9834]

You channel is one of the best on KZbin, so happy with the reunion, you are an awesome daughter

[@chrissy7717]

I’m not crying 😢you are ! 😭😭😭 what a wonderful surprise.. full circle moments are the best..once again beautiful family ❤️

[@angelamorrison8788]

His your grand parents from Jamaica

[@charityijomah-conrad31]

Believe me! I have never commented on a youtube video before. I am so so soaked in tear of Joy. I am a true African woman from the Ibo Tribe. Dr. Habiba, you are a true Ada (first Daughter) there is a God-given virtue to every first daughter and yours is in full doze. May God bless you and yours. You are amazing.

[@Kenton-Habiba]

Thank you for your kind comment!

[@etsout]

That was wonderful. I was so shocked when your mom got out of the vehicle. I know she was glad she decided to come. Your brother that did not come looks exactly like your dad.