Kevin Samuels Wannabe GETS DESTROYED. "Why Dont Women Cook & Clean Anymore?"

[@AbaNPreach]

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[@Roland_Duson]

Women having work dominate their life is the frame of mind that's addressed by the question.

[@jasonBGI]

A fresh L for each of these weirdos.

[@tiffanykim2773]

@@Roland_Duson eh???

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

This man's podcast was average at best.

[@XXXTentaclez]

life is so alone and the colors monochrome

[@damnedifido1062]

Let’s be real. Every adult, man or woman, should know how to cook and clean. Especially if you live by yourself

[@nancerod7193]

Regardless if you live on your own or not that’s something everyone should learn & know how to do.

[@itsnotjayboi]

@@nancerod7193 by default

[@TheJarlath9]

for real man like the fuck' my mom told me an adults needs to be able to cook and do your own shit

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

I live by myself but I'm in the process of learning how to cook sometimes it takes small steps but it is worth it in the end.

[@dominicsanders9599]

Agreed

[@Swaggattack71]

It’s crazy to me to expect a woman to work full time then come home and cater to you 😭 if you want a “traditional woman” why is she working?

[@kwameofori8947]

As we say in the UK, "innit"

[@itsJosii]

i think its the same thing as women wanting a 1% top earning man whos 6ft tall but is also emotionally vulnerable because lets be real most men will never even touch 100k

[@starobviously4956]

@@itsJosii want ≠ should

[@itsJosii]

@@starobviously4956 oh i know i was just saying

[@LooseHangNail]

This is actually very simple to answer. Woman don't have stressful jobs unless your talking about the exceptions and even during those exceptions they sit around on their phones in the AC. What's the percentage of woman that are building roofs? Working 16 hours in hot summer suns? Brick layers? There's a REASON why woman are paid less because they CHOOSE cushion jobs. So if THEIR husband is working 16 hours in the sun while you work 7 behind a fucking desk YOU as a WIFE AND WOMAN have ZERO excuses as to why you cook your man a meal to come home to. It's absolutely funny how everyone is fighting the exceptions but not the majority.

[@Escalusfr]

"I want a woman who can cook and clean" That's fair. Giving her the means of doing so is fair too. Goes both ways, simple as

[@user-nw8tg1pg9y]

Exactly. I cook all our meals, I do all the grocery shopping, clean, laundry, run errands, etc. But I don’t work right now. When I finish Law school, we’ll be able to hire a house manager, but for now, it’s my job.

[@gringgles2633]

yeah people try to imitate kevin samuels without realize the messages he speeks what he says is he tells women that if you wan't a man that wil provide for you 100% you haveto bring something to the table ie cooking and cleaning or not being fat with 3 kids for 2 different baby daddies. KS isn;t saying women should be cooking and cleaning for some deadbeat bum

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

What a coincidence! I want a man who can cook and clean, because a) it's NOT MY JOB to clean up behind you, and 2) I like to be cooked for, too.

[@gabrielmeth4844]

@@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds Are you going to say this to your children? The reason men ask about cooking and cleaning is because you need to be able to do it for HIS CHILDREN, lazy, selfish trash.

[@_LadyLuciana]

@@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds The best comment 👏🏻👏🏻

[@HomeBizTaxLady]

This took me out! That man said we got bills and kids, we don’t have time for roles. 🤣🤣 I screamed when I saw this. This was a real husband. It takes a team!

[@gyver471]

That man’s oppressed and doesn’t even know it. He’s been tricked to think this is normal.

[@tymikawelsh9367]

​@@gyver471 welcome to reality

[@tpk1412]

​@@gyver471 oppressed 😂😂 because responsibilities are split 50/50 😂😂😂 the delusion is delusioning

[@gyver471]

@@tpk1412 they aren’t split 50/50 guarantee she isn’t paying 50% of the bills.

[@tpk1412]

@@gyver471 i said responsibilities, not bills. bills are only a single responsibility among many that need to be managed within the household to keep it functional. but keep viewing your woman as a thing that serves you rather than another human being...im sure that wont end with you dying alone in a government-run facility 😂😂🤣

[@verb0ze]

This conversation ended when he said he's been married for 20 years. Dude asking the questions probably doesn't even have a gf.

[@grantpaisley9012]

Yup. Thought the same thing

[@jazdj04]

They usually dont

[@cmonson1]

Not really. For starter most people don't start having kids 10 years into marriage, so it's probably safe to assume they have two teenaged children. So his beta self doesn't have the kids trained to do the simple chores? I've been washing clothes since I was like 7 years old. Half the house work should already be getting done. The dude is typical liberal, spouting off bull hockey about about being white? Dude was a clown point blank, standing up for him is just sad. Only reason he called is because he's male feminist and he thought he was go show this "misogynist" what's up, and just ended up looking like a clown.

[@BLKGURU]

Do you have a gf since you wanna talk about me?

[@jd2792]

@@cmonson1 let me guss your another incel

[@beccf.s.8012]

I was a wife for 20 years and never understood why if I worked and made more than my husband while also pursuing an education, I still had to come home to cook (only the menu my ex husband wanted) and clean everyday. Saturdays I was cleaning all day and doing laundry too. One day I told him to learn how to cook and I remember he said, " it's not like you cook all day everyday" I realized I was still under his expectations as his mom would cook the 3 meals BECAUSE SHE WAS A STAY AT HOME WIFE. So I was supposed to get 3 meals ready for this man while working, taking care of the house, kids and furthering my education. I'm so happy kids grew up and I am single LOL 😅 I divorced and I live alone and I do whatever I want when I want to. Some men really have very crazy expectations and don't see us as human beings as Aba mentioned. I am done with all of it. Kevin Samuels used to say, " buy a dog and die alone" like it's a bad thing. B*tch I got two dogs LOL

[@marilynseptember21]

KS died without a wife taking care of him, he and men like him will be the ones complaining yet do nothing to support the women in their live. The woman who was present when he died will go on to live a long life. I am nobody's maid or servant - some of these men are not bring in the income to support the home and still have high expectations - oh yeah, pay the cleaner to come in and a cook to come in, let's see how much you have left in your pocket after.

[@terickastidbits2342]

@@marilynseptember21 Kevin Samuels wasn’t looking for a wife. The women who called in had huge expectations of men that they themselves couldn’t meet so his advice was to lower your expectations or die alone for women who didn’t want to die alone. If you happy being alone, or have the man you want KS advice wouldn’t apply to you because you wouldn’t have called in to the show to begin with

[@truestdude]

@@terickastidbits2342 that part

[@truestdude]

@@marilynseptember21 Kevin died in the arms of a beautiful woman who cared about him. & that's more than what can be said about the women out here who act as if he did something wrong while he was here. Men are ok wt being alone. That's bc unlike many women in 2022 we know the difference between being alone & being lonely. They are not the same

[@callilove8378]

Here for this!! Dogs love us 💜💜

[@CarltonPhillupBanx]

Statement: Women should be able to cook and clean. Correction: Adults, whether men or woman should know how to cook and clean. Period.

[@yohnjates]

You said the same thing twice. No correction. Women are adults.

[@Cevichelicious]

@@yohnjates I don't think he was trying to say women aren't adults. Here was just saying everyone should do it

[@Mountainlion118]

@@yohnjates He's saying everyone should be able to cook and clean. Because both men and women are adults. How do you not get that?

[@Divine1Right]

No you're missing the point; men want to wife women who know how to cook and clean...and are actually willing to do it. Men look for markers and signs in a woman that she's going to be a good mother. Men are not looking for an 'equal partner' who will act just like the man in the relationship. Generally speaking, obviously.

[@Mountainlion118]

@@Divine1Right That literally dose not change what he said.

[@piw5142]

If you want a woman who will cook and clean, then it's logical for her to be a stay home spouse. As a result you have to be prepared to not only take care of the household but her as well. That means giving her money for food, things around the house, as well as giving HER money to buy whatever she needs for herself. But many people want women who cook and clean while they don't even have enough money to take care of themselves.

[@International-BlackMan]

These whole Alpha movement thing is becoming toxic and unrealistic. I work, my wife works. She cooks most of the times, and when she's tired I cook. When our kids were little, she and I both changed diapers and bath the kids. Life is about balance. The most Alpha thing you can do is raise, protect and provide for your kids.

[@ExeErdna]

These alphas are simply a mirror of those "I do bad by myself" chicks from the 90s and wild rad feminist on tiktok. They talk crazy but with no years on them, no real talking to people in good faith. Clearly no understanding, it's all "this gender needs do what I say do period"

[@Mastikator]

Always was toxic and unrealistic. Started out as a misunderstanding of wolves, the scientist that wrote the book has debunked it.

[@lousosa199]

The thing is mist men aren't demanding their woman to cook and clean everyday. This here is a parody

[@International-BlackMan]

@@lousosa199 lol! I hope so. My Father was a Captain in the Army and my Mom was a housewife. She did most of the cooking and cleaning, but every ones in a while my Dad would cook for everybody.

[@International-BlackMan]

@@MastikatorI've been seeing some low income men beating their chest and demanding a woman should submit, what's there to submit to? I work two jobs, my Wife works too, so we help each other out with kids and home stuff. It's team work. These so called Alpha males and Alpha Females are just a bunch of passive aggressive insecure people, that knows nothing about relationships.

[@shadowhauntjoker8501]

I learned to cook and clean young, mainly because my grandmother wanted me to be prepared in case i lived on my own. When people ask about it, I'm just like, don't you? If you live alone, you gonna wear the same nasty clothes and eat fast food everyday? One guy even told me how he sick of his gf not cooking after she gets off from work. She worked as a nurse in a hospital, he worked at a fast food place. she had to do 10-16 hr days during 2020, and he only did 4 hr days. I asked why he can't cook, and once he went on his, "I shouldn't have to" speech, I just tuned him out. Next day, he saw a post I did for a dinner (meatloaf, potatoes, string beans, and biscuits) and dude wanted to know if my woman made more. Once he heard I did it, he wanted to tell me I shouldn't had. Told him, I'm hungry, I will cook. It's not the point whose role it is, at the end of the day, you need to learn these things, they're handy skills. The dude lives with his parents now, his now ex is with someone who works near the hospital she works at.

[@MusMasi]

yeah well sounds like Dudes parents may have failed in raising him, or that stuff is all on him, But I feel bad for his parents if hes staying there and is not even helping with cooking and cleaning. but maybe thats their fault?

[@aymenelhadi9826]

SAE1ß

[@goodguy...badrep.]

This is exactly why I don't understand adult women who don't cook or clean...do they hire a chef and a maid then?

[@aniyamarie8370]

I’m convinced men like the one you encountered are simply lazy. We’re way past the gendered roles because the economy has evolved. No one can live on their own and when there’s more than one party under a roof, basic tasks shouldn’t fall on one person who’s got individual tasks of their own that can drain them. That guy is gonna have a revolving door of women who won’t tolerate his bs.

[@pelosuelto70]

It's guys like this that get divorced and will be alone for the rest of their lives. And they should be.

[@prosperousk5477]

That Kevin Samuels wannabe is truly emotionally unintelligent. It’s sad that these people exist in today’s society. Much respect to that husband!

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Lol.

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Kevin samuels from wish

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

That's why this redpill "high-value man/woman" talk is a load of bull. Edit; okay let me say this, The idea of the red pill isn't stupid just like the idea of feminism isn't stupid its just the extremist, the misogynistic side has been problematic its evolved from teaching men how to have a goal, a better career, dress, self confidence etc to just He-man woman haters club.

[@categoricamente1753]

And this is why the redpill is a dangerous thing. Most mgtow channels warn people about the dangers of the redpill rage and losing yourself in a character that says all the problems in modern world is caused by women. Keven samuels argument was never this low iq BS...hope this guy is forgotten...

[@Cuunke]

Copycats have always existed and will continue to be a thing

[@leena5875]

My mom is a nurse and makes more than my dad while doing ALL the cooking, cleaning, and laundry (he can’t even flush the toilet). Additionally she primarily raised me and my siblings with the help of my grandma and was the most invested in our school and personal lives. My dad is essentially a stranger who comes home early sits on his phone and watches tv and my mom works long shifts and comes home to housework along with assigned work from home on patients. It got to the point where my dad was so lazy you had to beg him to fix things or do “manly” housework that my mom would just do. It’s so funny these men think women are incapable of physical labor. My mom and i (a female) ended up learning how to and retiling our basement by ourselves with heavy tiles

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

Kudos to you and your mom, but that’s a damned shame!

[@kebabell3729]

Yea married single mothers is what they dont talk about enough

[@projectRaMan]

Ever wonder how she found herself in that situation?

[@nooneinparticular3468]

Ever wonder why more women are checking out of being married at all? ​@@projectRaMan

[@Ehrill942]

​@@projectRaMan but you don't ask why this man does less than he should, typical

[@Lilpeach523]

People want a traditional partner; without being a traditional partner. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@MoMagnus93]

Facts

[@Love-yp2fj]

Most men are traditional. It’s not like the role of modern men is that different

[@Token333]

Exactly

[@greent16]

@@Love-yp2fj Really? You can afford a stay at home wife and a couple of kids on your salary?

[@Adhara740]

@@Love-yp2fj no most men today are not.. most can’t even describe what a traditional man is.

[@a.g3322]

If you want your women to cook and clean every day , make sure you have enough money so she don't have to work full time. But some of them are not ready for this conversation and wanna blame "modern women" all day long

[@truthprevails4386]

@Jack Wrath nah. thanks for the chuckle tho.

[@I-own-your-feelings]

Bingo. Gotta pay to play

[@OMGitsTerasu]

Here's the thing. When you tell her that you want to let her stay home, why does she fight that by saying "I won't ever let a man take food from my mouth" ? So now, you're forced to go against your comfort and work. Forced by your own admission. You don't want a man to have financial control over you, whereas men don't want to exert financial control over a woman. So now that we figured that out, I will most definitely fix my own food. But see, don't ask me to do stuff for you if you can't do for me.

[@vante2129]

@@OMGitsTerasu It goes back to one thing women wanting men to stay traditional but aren't traditional themselves and they love talking about back in the day but failed to realize those women back then understood the role of a housewife. Not now though some women think that they should be provided for without having to or care about the man needs long as she's happy doesn't matter what he wants men should just be eager and willing to deal with whatever. Think about it I mean it's perfectly ok for a woman to say she won't deal with a guy who's "short" and that's fine it's her preference but a man can't say he's not into women with children or big women that's wrong he's judging her based on her appearance without getting to know her.

[@janeeyx5672]

Right! This economy is no joke

[@joseph-fernando-piano]

I've talked to many single guys around my age (early 30s) who act like it's a badge of honour that they refuse to learn to cook for themselves... and I'm like, congratulations on being too incompetent to feed yourself anything but ramen and crappy frozen dinners?...

[@abigailelizabeth4729]

😂

[@cmonson1]

lol... What kinda lames you talking too? Even dudes talk the talk can do their own cooking.

[@salaciousBastard]

That's funny. I don't know any guys under the age of 50 who don't now how to cook. And most of the ones I know over 50 know how, so who have you been talking to?

[@kinghere29]

actually many of the women can't cook either, guy's need cooking skills because it's not guaranteed you will find a woman that can cook and 2 people eating out everyday gets expensive quickly

[@Nic-xr1og]

I know way more guys who can cook my age than women. Women around me are all lazy and entitled. They expect all the perks with none of the work.

[@robertjackson3779]

I was talking to a Mexican women and she has 6 young kids and a husband. She work 45 to 50hrs weekly. Her husband expect her to come home and maintain the home. I could see the stress in her face and how tired she was telling me. I felt bad for her.

[@iamimperfectionperfected4]

That sucks. I have seen it I am Mexican and nope I ain't doing it!

[@sidewinder9258]

Damn.

[@mexican4721]

Yeah all Mexican mothers teach is to do it all and if we don’t we lazy lol

[@Yanina-ls1gy]

Mexicans are amongst the worst but...she allows it.

[@sgnibble1]

That sounds like a nightmare. That man is dead weight on her

[@kcl6627]

Why is it so hard to be logical? If one partner works full time, the other takes care of the household chores. If both work full time, both split chores. If one works full time, and the other part time, the part timer does more of the chores, but most likely will need a little help with chores too. This isn't really that hard. If you expect to be in a traditional relationship, you must give the woman the ability to be the traditional woman. Have these talks before you start dating seriously. We all have choices, and choices have consequences regardless.

[@aysepersona4194]

Yes , but once kids come into the game it’s different. Kids+ household are much more intense than a 40h job. I don’t have any kids, but I’ve experienced it from loved ones and with younger siblings.

[@arkcantoscreampsnpc7274]

@@aysepersona4194 that’s would be true if you could support a family on a 40 hr workweek. Which most can’t If you can support a full family on one person doing 40 hrs a week you are already out of the zone most people are in Most people who support a household on their own work 2 jobs or 60+ hour work weeks

[@kurosaki0001000]

Common funking sense. This is it people

[@kurosaki0001000]

@@aysepersona4194 if you find it hard handling one kid. Stop right there

[@darkest_magnum]

On point. That's love and common sense.

[@AbsFabbs]

Look y’all. I am a stay at home mom. I cook I clean AND I look lean…lol!! That being said I STILL need help around the house. Think about it. Even if it is my job even I deserve a break. So on the weekends he does dishes and helps anywhere else I may be lacking. We work as a team and appreciate what we BOTH contribute. The only reason he makes enough to support us is because I worked for the first 10 years of marriage while he was building his career. Teamwork makes the dream work!!

[@bloodevilfiend]

God Bless You & Your Marriage

[@AbsFabbs]

@@bloodevilfiend thank you for the those kind words.

[@British_Cocoa]

A housewife is a full time job especially when you have children!!

[@kjaerdian7864]

Go Team! 🙌🙌

[@Alexis_005]

Even stay at home moms need a break. I’m guilt tripped every time I ask for my husband to put the kids to sleep or watch them while I have lunch with my mom. He actually had said- don’t you enjoy spending all your time with them? Like I’m a bad mom for wanting time for myself 🤨

[@EverySingleJay]

"Aren't you tired everyday when you get home from work?" *insanely awkward silence* Me: *cringes silently from secondhand embarrassment for the guy*

[@davinj4806]

Dude I almost turned the video off...that shit hurt MY feelings

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

😂😂😂

[@libraalibaba]

What kind of work do you do my guy.

[@davinj4806]

@Jack Wrath how ur content better? U ain't got no videos This...probably should get the infamous pin of doom...

[@Rieky22]

He couldn’t process a woman being tired 😂😂😂

[@OC_]

"I want a woman that doesn't sleep around" But you sleep around. "I want a woman that cooks and cleans for me" But the she still has to work. Let's keep our demands in line with reality please.

[@oziomaezemenaka1100]

📌

[@kimjones1007]

👏

[@FatalS420]

Well, I don't want a woman that sleeps around. That is reality.

[@OC_]

@@FatalS420 that's completely fine, but do you qualify for such a woman?

[@FatalS420]

@@OC_ lol what? No man wants a 304.

[@Nah-ah]

Can we all agree that as adults we should at least know how to cook at least 2 maybe 3 types of meals, and AT LEAST know how keep a home tidy?! It’s a no brainer! You as an individual should know how to do this for yourself so when you get into a relationship and one of you is traditional while you’re not, your S/O can also trust that you can take over when he/she needs a break. This is what my husband and I do but I usually do most of the cooking/chores… AND he can step in when I’m feeling a little wiped out and help in the home. Been doing this for 17 yrs! We help each other where we can and where it’s needed. This is how your family survives and your kids see how important it is to see mum and dad help each other which means parents will have more valuable time with each other when sh*ts taken care of efficiently. Just my thoughts

[@heathermcdonough8401]

At least 2?? That does not seem like enough to me 😂 but people really need to know how to take care of themselves for real tho

[@reinaldomartinez13]

I'd say a solid 10 would be cool

[@deasyastarr]

AND also take into consideration that life happens. People get sick, accidents occur; what if something happens to the wife and she’s down for a while or God forbid for the rest of her life? Is the husband not supposed to know how to cook and clean so that they don’t starve or live in filth? Or does he dump her and find another woman to take her place? The second option seems like what a lot of these guys that spew the ignorance displayed in this video would opt for unfortunately.

[@thefruityking6722]

@@deasyastarr We don't live in the wild dude.

[@deasyastarr]

@@thefruityking6722 please explain how what I said that would imply that we live in the wild?

[@jamesgennaro9679]

I've been with the same woman for over 12 years, we both work. We both do the cooking, cleaning, and yard work. A healthy relationship is about working together in all parts of life.

[@malimal4972]

Glad that's working out for you. Just seems like y'all are both independent in the relationship. Relationships are about interdependence not independence. My fiancé needs me to do things and i need her to do things or our lives are drastically changed forever

[@jasontater]

@@malimal4972 sounds like you’ve got a relationship that makes sense. I’m tired of everybody saying that they are all doing their own thing in the relationship. Tbh it just sounds like a lot of these people in these “relationships” are just roommates not husband/boyfriend and wife/girlfriend.

[@malimal4972]

@@jasontater yeah i think those type of relationships don't have the best success rates as neither feels as though they need each other , my fiancé and I both feel like we need each other to get bye . We need each other for opposite things though

[@jasontater]

@@malimal4972 well said, Seems like you’ve got a healthy mindset and relationship. I wish you the best in your relationship.

[@devotheambivert9875]

@@malimal4972 yea

[@ms.helpmeet4753]

Cooking and cleaning is a basic responsibility. Trying to force a woman to do it just because she is a woman is crazy if you also make her work to pay significant bills. I'm so happy to see logical rational men like A&P step up to help people with this simple understanding.

[@iknowthiswontwork]

How dare men expect traditional gender roles! So sexist! But you still expect me to protect you right?

[@kathleenking47]

Especially if they're taught this in basic training in military

[@mrpotatorocks]

Yet they never pay 50/50 rent it's more like 70/30... most woman with dads in the house always get it easy cas they are daddy's girl, they work part time job while still using dads credit card for food and other expenses like festivals, get to use dads car when ever they want, save all the money they make and get 100% school payed off and living expenses payed for all cas they are daddy's girl, when they get out of uni they want a dude that makes over a 100k at like 25 years old, they think that these dudes will be just like their dad always paying for more shit and taking care of everything whole they get to just save their money, not realizing that it took their dad 30 years of harbcore grinding to even get to this point, it's a joke cas the son never gets treated like this by his dad it's always his lil girl

[@ms.helpmeet4753]

@@mrpotatorocks are we jealous of one another's gender privileges? Women have always had easier lives in certain areas. Men have always had certain privileges that women don't. We can cry about double standards or we can embrace our roles and demand balance for function sake.

[@DanniShadow]

@@mrpotatorocks wow, those are some scary daddy issues you have.

[@iamnoona5425]

This reminds me of a friend of mine that I worked with a few years. Her hubby had a good job, enough to pay for the house & other bills. However, she worked so they could put their kids (3 kids) through private schooling & tertiary education. Their combined income allowed for them to enjoy some luxuries as well. On weekdays, he would finish work at 16:30 & she would finish at 18:00. Their start times were similar as well. So, naturally, when he got home, he would cook Mon-Fri as he had extra time & when she gets home she has dinner already prepared for her & the kids. On weekeds it was her thing to cook the meals that they at home. They shared chores, take turns or sometimes do it together. After putting her last child through University, she took early retirement when it was offered & now she stays home & cooks & cleans as a housewife & she's enjoying it. About 2 years ago, their 3 kids surprised them with an all expenses paid vacation for the two of them to enjoy in a few foreign countries (multiple flights & accomodation etc. booked in a few island locations). So they went Island hopping & enjoyed themselves. My point is, a healthy relationship displayed in a housed showing appreciation to your spouse has a positive effect on your kids too. They succeeded at marriage & also succeeded at parenting. They didn't ask their kids for anything. They just didn't want their kids to start their adult life off in debt. So both parents worked. The kids mirrored their appreciation for each other & acknowledged the fact that their parents were selfless when it came to putting the family's best interests first. When I spoke to her daughter she said that she knows how much of student debt some of her friends were in & thankfully she doesn't have tp worry about that because of her parents sacrifice & she & her brothers are greatful for it. They are the most 'functional' family I have ever seen & aspire to do things the way the did one day when my time comes. It's just logical & awesone to see.

[@deelove8430]

The problem today is that men want the woman to work and pay half but also want her to cook, clean, shop, do all of the laundry and take care of the children solo while he watches the games or plays video games, hangs with the boys and take naps after work and then expects her to please him sexually. She’s exhausted dammit!!!

[@leighm]

It’s disturbing to me when people bring up how expensive it is to live as an excuse to having 2 incomes. Single mothers pay all their bills and take care of their children with ONE income and maybe a little child support (which would amount to less then what someone could make at a part time job.) The problem is that both women and men are sometimes attached to living above their means, that’s why both people must slave at full time jobs. It’s a choice not a necessity to live off two incomes. A bachelor lives off one income. If the point of your marriage is to “level up” instead of provide, so be it. That means both parties have agreed to trade being able to spend less on bills and more on themselves rather then establishing a system that would allow them to value someone having the time and energy to take care of home. They made the choice to arrange their lives in such a way that they are dependent on 2 incomes. If both parents have to work full time just to be able to afford children and have to neglect the home, then maybe they shouldn’t have children in the first place. How is it too “expensive” to live without 2 incomes. When single people do it all the time??? Some people get married so they can have a roommate not a spouse. My dad told me, get an place that you can afford by yourself so you don’t have to get stuck with a roommate that your desperately dependent on to help pay the bills.

[@deelove8430]

@@leighm what’s disturbing is that you think that it’s not expensive. Well I guess it depends on where you live. Yes single parents do live with one income but also some get services to assist or child support. The single parent lifestyle is a struggle lifestyle so to suggest that parents trade time to take care of the home or time with the children to live above their means is sick. Yes some are accustomed to luxuries such as internet and cable but in most cases they aren’t living above their means. You can’t compare a bachelor to a single parent because there are a lot of differences. You verses your children and what you need for them is very different from what you can settle for. Single parents offen get foodstamps, Medicaid or section 8 or some sort of help so it’s definitely not the same as a single person living on their own. If both parents work then both parents should share the household responsibilities and taking care of the children.

[@leighm]

@@deelove8430 why have children that you can’t take care of. That’s a signal of irresponsibility which is another way people live beyond their means. Single parents do get child support that’s why I compared it to a part time job. If a couple has kids, the husband can work and the wife go part time and have more time to take care of the children, the home, and her husband. All I’m saying is that most of the stuff people complain about is because of their choices. Being a single parent is a choice most of the time. And if it’s not by choice it’s because the other parent died which means they would receive death benefits. And yes I agree it is completely sick for parents to trade time to take care of their children so they can live above their means. I don’t think I ever suggested that would be a healthy decision. If you can’t afford a wife don’t get one. (Unless she agrees to take care of herself, which in turn renders you powerless in the ideal that she take on the duties of taking care of you) If you can’t afford children don’t have them. If you make those choices you are living above your means. If you wanna struggle being a single parent that’s your choice, if you wanna struggle with navigating a 50/50 relationship get yourself a roommate. If you want a spouse to take care of you, the home, and the children, TAKE CARE OF YOUR SPOUSE.

[@deelove8430]

@@leighm you are absolutely infuriating but you choose the life that YOU want and stop assuming what others want. Death isn’t the only reason a parent becomes single(what rock do you live under). You did make the assumption that parents trade time with their children and home for work, not me. Some mothers want to work and that’s her and her husband’s decision, fortunately not yours. As I said when both parents work then both parents should care for the home and children, no matter if they both choose to work or if it’s necessary. Things happen and some women choose not to abort and become a parent or the couple chooses to keep and marry. The only people to decide their marriage or relationship is that couple. Your comparison of child support to a part time job is hilarious because the average man’s income is not that high so you wouldn’t be getting enough to equate to a part time job. What’s disturbing is the perfect world that you live in and that you seem share some red pill men rhetoric. Anyhoo enjoy your day!!

[@sail253]

@@leighm you are so right that people are obsessed with keeping up with the joneses instead of living at or below their means and focusing on a healthy family life

[@NaturalMackie]

It’s so pathetic what people do just to get some KZbin money. Aba and Preach said it all perfectly. Every relationship is different and that’s ok. Just find what’s right for you and your partner because life is about balance. When roles are imbalanced that’s where the problems start to arise.

[@kevonwebster1167]

That's facts, but when you refer to “balance” within a relationship I hope you didn't meant equally balanced. Men and women are different, which make some roles static and not interchangeable. So while 60/40% or 90/10% can seem to be an imbalance, it might be the balance that a particular couple finds that works.

[@threzzy_]

Don’t forget they’re also part of the “pathetic” you speak of, using others for views

[@johndavis9321]

And that's really all it is is stop trying to force people to fit in a paradigm that doesn't suit them

[@NaturalMackie]

@@kevonwebster1167 Of course. Some women work and prefer to still do all the cooking and cleaning. So yes, balance means different things in every relationship. But that’s to be determined by the parties involved. Not imposed on one by another.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@curlychronicles]

I’m a former 9-5er, now a homemaker. It was definitely exhausting working full time and cleaning and food prepping. I really enjoy being in the home and keeping the space organized and serene. It’s not so easy as some may think it is but it’s rewarding.

[@janelleg597]

Awesome!!!!

[@ladybug3380]

It’s not easy it takes good time management skills to get things done and you always have to think ahead.

[@semmywap2916]

Congrats!!! I want to make enough so my wife can be a homemaker 😁

[@atomicx2157]

@@semmywap2916 it's still her choice tho

[@mrs.s.6408]

Same here. Was able to resign last month to be a housemaker with a new baby. I am so much more happier. My organizational skills are definitely being optimized at home. 😊

[@tc9691]

My father growing up in a household with brothers only no sisters, they were held responsible for cooking and cleaning when both parents were out working. Watching my dad cook and clean while growing up made one of my preferred standards in men is they should to be able cook and clean for their selves. Most of these “grown men” were momma boys who were catered to and not given real household work to survive on their own.

[@claudettedoyley9056]

Thank you .

[@rezq9109]

Exactly! My father had 11 siblings (yes, it's crazy) and then become a father of 3 girls. He had to come cook and clean just like our mom did when we were little. Not even once he said anything like "I'm a man therefore I shouldn't do this and that". Not even once. I'm very grateful for such father figure.

[@Jose_Doe]

@@rezq9109 shit that's a lot what was the situation like

[@micheleange7249]

If you want a wife that cooks and clean 1. Get yourself a wife 2. Work enough that she doesn't have to get a job (on top of her house job!!) 3. Get a wife that CAN cook and KNOWS how to clean 4. Treat her/ take care of her needs beyond the house responsibilities and supplies (take her out to dinner, and trips) so she doesn't end up being a MAID.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@kiaamkearse3543]

you have to do these thing regardless

[@nate2litty]

A lot of these dudes look at they’re girls as slaves, how you gonna make her cook clean and take care of kids & WORK haha

[@ScottieDPOYY]

@@nate2litty yea sure, a lot of these women want it all too. Good women and men work and do everything she described and now this woman asked for preferencial treatment for having the easy life lol (yes women arent maids but some stuff doesnt need to be complained about, just buck up and be an adult)

[@Alexxluv]

@Nate2Litty They want to oppress women like the wm oppressed them lol

[@nocomment2468]

Yes, sharing the household duties with your partner will benefit everyone. My grandma had 3 kids, 2 neglected neighborhood kids that she fed, and 4 elderly relatives under her care. Also lots of pets. She also worked part time. Her husband was a tenured college professor, but she was clipping coupons and cooking meals at home b/c they couldn’t save enough to eat out. Since her ego-centric husband never lifted a finger at home, she had a mental breakdown and couldn’t protect her kids from his abuse. Yes he paid most of the bills, but he had one job, and she had round the clock duties. You want a happy family? Pick up the slack.

[@ItzMalick]

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[@Tlahuiltezcatl]

💯✨🙏🏾

[@respectfullyg5580]

Men just like to create issues and cry now a days. They push women into corners until they lash out

[@agentsbigassforehead]

cleaning and cooking aren’t “around the clock” duties, women just procrastinate so that they waste as much time as possible before they finally pick up the task they were going to fulfill hours prior. anything you do around the house is going to take at max 15 minutes, any more you’re doing something wrong.

[@nobodyv9983]

@@agentsbigassforehead my guy you are tripping. Depending on where u live, how big your house or apartment is or what kinda a meal u eat everyday is gonna take more or less than 30 min. If u are part of a normal family as in minimun number of family members in the house(between 3 or 4), cooking an enough quantity of food is gonna take at least 30min, cleanning the house would take at least an hour if u clean it twice a week(a house with minimun 2 bedrooms, a bathroom and a kitchen/living room) and everything i have said is the bare of standarts without mentioning other responsabilities like taking care of young children and mantaining the house in order everyday. Taking care of children is a fulltime job, as the oldest sibling of 2 little children, i know how difficult is for one person to deal with one kid and try to correct them , teach them the basics of life and checking that they accidentally not kill themselves because of ignorance. These comment strikes me as ignorant, it seems like you never have cleaned a house or been constantly taking care of household chores.

[@ClaraBell3452]

As a single woman living alone in an apartment. 💯 I consider myself fortunate that my mom taught me how to cook and clean cause a lot of other girls I grew up never had to do shit. However. When I get home from a ten hour shift it's often incredibly hard to work up the energy and motivation to cook myself a good meal and tidy the place. And that's just for my mess. There is no way I'd keep my well-being if I had to pick up for someone else too with no help in return. Even just on the level that you feel unappreciated and used if your partner doesn't help out

[@thatdude123]

Honestly, prep your meals. Watch some Korean vlogs (that cooks) that'll help you with that. Very healthy and helpful, and it'll save you time.

[@cian2898]

@@thatdude123 i see the intent but the time set aside and the energy behind it… 😅 idk everybody has different priorities

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Girl same with me. If I have time when am off during the week, I might cook something and eat the leftovers for the rest of the week. If I don’t feel like doing that, I just order out. I don’t know how some of these women who work and have kids come home, cook and clean. Sounds super exhausting.

[@KlutzyNinjaKitty]

If you have a freezer and a bunch of tupperware there are some meals you can make and store ahead of time. I have a slow cooker chicken tortilla soup that I adore and will have pre-portioned that I can grab whenever I want soup for lunch or dinner. Then I’ll buy one of those chopped salad kits from the store, throw that together, and then I’ve got a proper meal that feels satisfying while needing little effort.

[@leanysealvarado7499]

When asked “who builds what?” I wish homeboy replied: the contractor we hire. Most people I know hire someone to do everything from cutting their grass to fixing the broken toilet to hiring movers on moving day 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lboogiebanks2426]

If they would’ve let the video play some more you would’ve found out his wife is a interior decorator and he said she can build anything 😂

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

Right? Why would you have the intentions fixing something, only to break and have to call someone else anyway? This expectation that "men need to be Bob the builder" is just as dumb as "women need to stay at home cook and clean"

[@mongolsantinifrombrasil9120]

Clearly missed the concept of what bro was saying by "building"

[@TenaciousD_3]

Okay! Cause folks (male and female homeowners) would call my company to hang tv or put on a roof.

[@christophervibe7430]

But the contractors are men right ?

[@Mikkirose1]

3:15 'The reason why women used to cook and clean was because they didn't have jobs, that was their job.' Thank you! As a wife I both worked and stayed home at different times over the years. I will tell you this much, EVERYTHING went much smoother when I stayed home. When I had to work, everybody in the house was upset because they all had to pull the weight of maintaining the household. It is a job! My husband is a working man that does his best, but the honest truth is that we live in a time where two incomes are a necessity. And I understood that I had to work because we needed the additional money. But this 'cooking and cleaning is the woman's job' business went out the door when it became necessary for the woman to help bring home the bacon. If the woman is helping the man bring home the beacon, he should at least help her fry it up!

[@AngieBG]

I just looooove the "I bUiLD stuff!!!" argument! How often do you actually have to BUILD something in a home? Fix a tap or a cabinet door? Once a year, maybe twice? And how often do you need to cook, clean and do laundry? Compare the workload and stop embarrassing yourself! If you are an adult and part of a household and you expect someone else to clean after yourself and feed you that has nothing to do with roles - that's you being lazy and entitled!

[@kikaladeschev4879]

Those mofos are disingenuous. Washing, folding and putting clothes away is a daily task when you have small children 😒. Cleaning, preparing snacks and cooking are an all day task with small children. When they are sick, you will be most likely sick too but you have to keep going cleaning and cooking while holding them, reassuring them all that while having a full time job outside of the home. And men like this idiot think, bringing the car to a mechanic or putting an ikea shelf together every 2-3 years is an equal separation of tasks. Most people live in apartment, they don’t even do yard works that much.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@travisspaulding2222]

Dude said, who builds something in the house? This isn't Little House on the Prairie. If I need a table, I'm going to buy a table. I'm not building one, lol.

[@bodhisattva2348]

I've assembled 3 chest of drawers & a bed but I've never built anything from scratch

[@lawdawg5818]

@@chocolatte522 yup🖤

[@phyliciasadler9596]

I see why a lot of women are opting out of marriage. Most men don’t want to pay all of the bills by himself but don’t want to help with household chores such as cooking and cleaning. Most men need to realize we are not personal maid and chef.

[@Out_Heree_Podcast]

Women leave men all the time take his kids and house after he pays all the bills that's why they don't want to do it

[@mi3helle707]

I hear this

[@avebroncx]

@@Out_Heree_Podcast Men typically opt to not be the one awarded primary custody after a divorce lmao. And when you pay all the bills and expect a wife who stays home and is unable to then make money, when you divorce, you have to pay up. This is a consequence to both of y’all’s choices to be the sole provider and a stay at home mother. Had she been working a career, you would have been better off after that divorce. You made your bed so lay in it.

[@Fermion.]

@@avebroncx That’s absolute bullshit. Literally every one of my male friends fought for custody and loss. Stop making up shit, talking about most men opt out. FOH

[@deathstroke0976]

@@Out_Heree_Podcast exactly stop trying to sound smart and stfu🤦🏿‍♂️

[@ii7288oo]

Finally, I hear practical men speak, happy to hear it from a married man. I’m confused why people are taking advice from men who have never been married nor have had a successful marriage.

[@slj3332]

it's what happens when people get desperate and they need advice on how to sustain a relationship. Someone who comes along claiming to have all the keys to the castle they're going to listen to him or her

[@pittrollmosh7572]

The last time I suggested that it's perfectly feasible for a 50/50 relationship where both the man and woman cook/clean to work, someone replied that I must enjoy getting pegged 🤷 I'll reaffirm gentlemen that if you're not capable of doing either of those tasks to a basic standard by yourself, you're not a man, you're a boy. Relationships are just a replacement mother for you.

[@NeighborTom]

Well you do seem like a boy into being pegged.

[@b.p.5129]

Exactly, men who talk like this really want a mother who they can have sex with.

[@yuumi603]

That's why they're known to have mommy issues

[@PolitiKings]

I don't think the point of the video is about the capability to cook and clean. The point is about people playing their part to take care of their home. And the caller said that women DON'T have to do their part because "they're tired from working"! LMAO If a man said, I'm not going to do my part to take care of the home "because I'm tired from working" his women should DUMP HIS LAZY ASS IMMEDIATELY! And it's the same for a woman. If she doesn't do her part to take of the home "because she is tired from working" then the man should DUMP HER LAZY ASS IMMEDIATELY!

[@jakecoltrane3387]

You was spitting until that last sentence 😒

[@Bendilin]

"Because they're tired bro, they gotta go to work everyday." Holy shiiiiittt, love how blunt he is. If the man is too tired to make food after work, why would the woman not also be too tired to make food after work? You both work, you order in or pop a frozen pizza in the oven that takes no effort. Most couples both work, most couples are tired. Most couples need to realize things are give and take, and when you're both tired from work, you gotta still find the strength to make sure you both eat.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@kingofnara]

I was with you till frozen pizza domino’s carry out mad cheap

[@rousbagaming]

Women should stop work after pregnancy.

[@Chi_di]

@@rousbagaming men should be rich enough to make that a reality. Otherwise, shut up.

[@honeymustard8002]

@@kingofnara I'm w/u bro. I luv pizza. N I'll admit 1 of my favorite frozen 1s is the $1 tree tastings or Tony's whatever, crushes them joints

[@LuisPerez-5]

The fact single people who can't keep a relationship going for more than a couple of months like to lecture people who have been married years is mind blowing

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@mgbbaby1]

Lol it’s laughable people are crazy smh

[@Wonderwoman79G]

It is tiring and embarrassing. Too many single men seem to push sexist ideas on men in healthy, committed relationships.

[@mi3helle707]

@@Wonderwoman79G 💯

[@yuumi603]

I witnessed someone does this to a happily married person back then and I was like "bro wtf you even stated that you don't even last one year with your previous girlfriend?"

[@niyoleo]

You can’t expect a woman to be a “traditional woman” while you be a “modern man” who expects her to fulfill MODERN expectations like splitting bills 50/50 and working outside the house to bring home some of the bacon. Women back in the days were able to be stay at home moms cooking and cleaning daily cuz they weren’t working full time jobs outside the house. Nowadays, women working careers are fulfilling part of the traditional role of the husband which is to provide. Yet some men STILL expect the woman to cook AND clean everyday after working a full time job, but won’t fulfill some traditional roles of the wife by doing some cooking and cleaning even in days he’s the one at home while she’s at work.

[@superduperdebegoat4042]

Look man, everyone should search for the situation they want. All I can say is the chances of you finding a situation that you want is kind of slim with you think like that guy does. In my experience it typically works best when both are putting in an equal effort.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

Define equal effort

[@superduperdebegoat4042]

@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 Some days I would cook and some days she would cook. We’re each paying some sort of bills and cater to each other needs when needed. At the end of the day I don’t knock anybody for any situation they want. Just find what fits you and stop trying to force something that work for you onto other people. Just be happy with what makes you happy.

[@kaimobley5324]

To be clear everyone's usually tired after getting home from work doing a 8hr shift and still cook for themselves when they get back if not order out. Doesn't matter if you want to cook or not if you don't want to hit the hay with a rumbling stomach your gonna do something about it one way or the other. It's not hard cooking enough food for you to eat throughout the week so you won't necessarily need cook every single day. It's also not hard to cook simple and easy thing's like Spaghetti, Soup, Fish Patties, Tuna, Fruit Salad, Regular Salad, Lasagna and etc. At this point I just think it's people being to lazy and selfish to feed themselves on their own terms let alone an extra person (not including kid's). This is coming from a Man that's been dominantly cooking for 5 people including myself for almost 3 years straight now. It's not that hard your just that lazy in most cases. Granted certain jobs are understandable as to why you may not want to but even then I'm sure most people aren't eating out every day.

[@danny87573]

@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 Not that hard to understand. You can take turns doing chores. I do trash to day then her tomorrow Or do select ones full time if you want. Like I always fold clothes and she always washes the dishes.

[@bunnyboo6295]

If someone going in with a want to benefit myself attitude, without putting any effort or caring about another they are going to get push back no one wants to be used

[@ComposedSage75]

It goes without having to say that people need to know how to cook and clean. These are basic life skills that everyone should know how to do. It’s so idiotic to think you can go through life expecting others to do that for you especially if you’re a full grown adult with nothing wrong with you at all.

[@houseofhas9355]

I agree I have an issue with when men are expected to do their part like provided and she stay home with the children ( if that what she wants) but does not think cooking and cleaning is part of the duty. Being the person who is at home. That's part of the deal. That's when respect breaks down. MAJOIRTY of men still work that old formula but woman want to change it up whenever they want and expect men to stay the same. Naw that's not gonna work for many. You either traditional ( meaning accept the responsibilities ) or your modern where we each provide and each cook and clean without complaining. Feminism really got them Phucked up thinking taking care of their family is "slavery or 1950 style abuse. What??

[@eleutherae]

@@houseofhas9355 but question is whether that’s something that actually happens all that often and is worth the frustration over. Like why are we talking about the petty shit that everyone agrees with, but it hardly happens in relationships? Like shit, most women aren’t even arguing against it.

[@malimal4972]

I'm 40 and can't cook to save my life , i can burn water if you gave me a chance

[@YisraelPrince]

My wife cooks and cleans You mad?

[@ComposedSage75]

@@YisraelPrince okay? 🤨

[@diamondbuford54]

People just don't know how to be original anymore. They just want to piggy back off of "what's popular " or what's getting the most views. People think 50/50 relationships is ALL financial but it goes way deeper than that. Its splitting EVERYTHING including the house work. A lot of guys say women didn't get kevin samuels message but have NO CLUE how many hurt male followers didn't either. They only agreed to what benefited them

[@1andOnlyTotality]

Maybe it’s worse now than it was before, idk - but I think it’s always been this way.

[@torachan23]

The men who were hurt by what Kevin Samuels said were the ones who couldn't afford to finance a woman staying home and cooking and cleaning. No man who wants a 50/50 relationship in his right mind can think a woman would cook and clean for him. KS said high value men wanted high value wives. Men who couldn't be high value and women who couldn't secure high value had a problem with that.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

Relationships are about what benefits you

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

Cause it's more about what's convenient for me rather than making it 50/50

[@Dev1cted]

No they actually do be twisting Kevin Samuels narrative.

[@analysis9479]

Here I am just like, anything needing to be built? That’s on me. Hubby can’t read construction manuals for anything and gets really annoyed by it. Even if it’s something he bought for himself, he will literally give it to me and say, please help me with this. On the flip side he really loves to cook and cooks most of our food. I get off work late and come home to a hot meal, served where I sit. We both work full time. I do most of the cleaning because I have a better eye for it and don’t mind it so much. There are days when I’m so tired of laundry he will fold the basket of laundry. And days when he wants to get off his feet so much I’ll cook. (Nothing amazing, but still a warm meal) We are happy and don’t even worry about what ‘role’ we should be in. We get what we need done and we both have strengths and weaknesses. Being that we both work hard and long hours my job being the most physical of the two, we understand and try to accommodate for one another when we need it.

[@JuMP3Rz]

Let me - a single guy, same age - tell you why your 20 years marriage is actually not ok. The world is full of these people...

[@cmonson1]

The fact he called into the show unprepared. Proved it's OK. lol

[@SP-td9xj]

dollar store Kevin samuels isn't even married?

[@vturner]

@@cmonson1 he didnt have to be prepared, he was spot on with his answer like he said, its not a hard question!

[@cmonson1]

@@vturner His answer was not an answer and he refuted his premise right after by stating that he does XYZ despite being tired ... smh. So are once again proving that men are stronger since we do things despite being tired?

[@MsJoyce31202]

It's ok enough for him.

[@Nickdrivesatnight]

It’s some women that would rather stay home cook and clean. Just make sure you have a good income to support her being at home.

[@dominicsanders9599]

It's a cost to what you ask for.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

That depends on how much you make.

[@Rieky22]

The way these days are looking that traditional shit is over let’s be real here.

[@fernandogimenez7520]

like working class man till 1960? How much did they earn back in the day to support staying home wife?

[@bunnyboo6295]

@@fernandogimenez7520 They didn't need to earn as much back then the average man could support a family on one income.

[@ChromicLights]

I like the guy's answer "we both build things, it depends on what it is" My partner and I built a terrarium as a team, but I (the woman) did most of the work. I worked with concrete, silicone, varnish, expanding foam, while doing lots of stereotypically "male" tasks. It was our project and we both did the bits that we felt confident in so as to make a great product as a team. That's the way it should be :)

[@mayankingrevisited8815]

It's not a partnership

[@Joe-nu4rm]

@@mayankingrevisited8815 you're not a partnership

[@ashspence349]

Facts- I don’t even get the “build things” argument either, it’s not like men today are going in their backyard and building patios and furniture from scratch. Anybody is capable of putting together a chair from IKEA, that’s not a “man” task.

[@kunya16]

We renovated our kitchen. He did the hefty stuff. But I helped and while he was at work I ripped down walls, painted, textured walls, tiled etc. It really does depend on what it is.

[@TheMariemarie16]

Yes I have a tiny house vacation rental spot in the desert. I am a woman it was my idea, I picked the land, I carried cinder block one by one, I designed and build a stairway to the cabins and plastered them with brick by myself. My husband would mix the concrete because he is stronger, he designed and set up our solar panels. He laid the pipes to the well. I put together the furniture. We each did different things based on our capabilities. He is physically stronger than me but I am more inclined to engineer and build. He is a tech geek.

[@ceebee4750]

Commoditizing/objectifying women: "Do you have a woman?" A real man living in reality and succeeding: "Yeah I've been married for 20 years."

[@ArturGrigio]

What sort of a self respecting woman would look at a guy that can’t even sustain himself? Can you imagine a man that can’t cook (or doesn’t have basic skills like cleaning after himself). That’s a boy! In which case, he needs a mommy, not a wife.

[@oziomaezemenaka1100]

Thanks

[@phonecharger6789]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@KlutzyNinjaKitty]

Fr. How can I trust you to take care of me or our kids if something happens if you don’t know how to care for yourself?

[@kaileymo]

That’s exactly what they’re looking for. A mommy who they can f*ck

[@ariasity]

This guy watched a bunch of Samuels' videos and didn't understand what was being said in them, just decided to repeat things he thought he heard 💀

[@tonyghee0124]

Kevin samuels watched a bunch of other people videos and repeated it sooo I guess other people can too

[@enviedcookie5773]

@@tonyghee0124 facts.

[@nisuperman]

@@tonyghee0124 In that case, everybody would make bank on KZbin if they could only repeating like dumb parrots. He certainly has been inspired by others, but he had to work harder and added some personal touch.

[@Cagon415]

@@tonyghee0124 most of this stuff is fairly common, but who else was really asking women what men desire in a partner?

[@MusMasi]

pretty much just sums it up.

[@obsidianbeau4087]

If Kevin Samuel's was still alive, he would've congratulated that man for being 20+ years strong in a marriage. He also believed in whatever works for marriage longevity.

[@Lhoyte1]

"What do you mean if Kevin Samuel's was still alive, he would've congratulated that man for being 20+ years strong in a marriage? 😠"

[@flowd7451]

Yea because Kevin has been divorced TWICE giving hypocritical information 😂😌just like the “off brand Kevin samuals”

[@corpax2319]

@@Lhoyte1 How do u not understand what he said?

[@michaelbrooks241]

@@Lhoyte1 Kevin Samuels believed in Marriage. Yes he was married 2 but was trying to get married again, because he believed in the family unit. So yes he would have been praise for being in a 20 year marriage. If you watched him, he never talked like this guy.

[@perlundgren7797]

@@corpax2319 How do you not understand that he is making fun of the guy in the video?

[@DemonixGamer]

15:20 I'm glad you brought that up, Preach, about your father. Men who have skewed family dynamics find it harder to establish healthy relationships.

[@MartialMind]

A lot of these idiots try to be the "Man" without the lived experiences required to become the "Man". Kevin Samuels was over 50 freaking years old and extremely educated, did his research to a level that could be considered "Obsession" and kept up with the culture like his life depended on it. It's like the ones that tried to do what Patrice O'neal did. You don't just randomly do what these men did without the lived experience, let alone the actual brain power and quick wit. This was embarrassing to watch.

[@angrychimpanzee8621]

Bro nice to see you martial, didn't know you watch aba and preach

[@rctecopyright]

Yeah the clones will always pop up. Good luck to the Samuel's, O'Neal, Carlin, etc. wannabes. As the saying goes, imitation is the greatest form of flattery.

[@JvNelsonn]

Not yall comparing Kevin to Patrice 🥴

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@saladinthedark7459]

We are getting too many coaches that address problems we don't have. The issue of whether or not a woman should cook or clean arises when you are making 200K a year and she stays home. If you are making 40K and she is making 40K there shouldn't even be a discussion about that. It's insulting both to you and her.

[@SP-td9xj]

yup, just in general there are too many people tapping into this "red pill" market, and they are getting more and more ridiculous because they took the harsh truths the Jordan Petersons and Kevin samuels of the world were saying and took that as "as long as I'm saying stuff that upsets people I'm right because why else would they be upset"

[@atropabelladonna3120]

An adult not knowing how to cook even the most simple basic of dishes has to be one of the biggest turn offs for me. And here I thought an "alpha male" should know how to take care of himself... but apparently basic survival skills like cleaning and cooking don't count to these "men" 🙄🥴

[@victorsoto4821]

Now you're saying this about men, but am I allowed to say this about woman without appearing misogynistic?

[@atropabelladonna3120]

@@victorsoto4821 I try to be careful with words. I started my first sentence with plain "adult" instead of "man" or "woman" for a reason. Cooking, cleaning etc are important life skills. A functioning adult should know basic survival skills unless there is a reason they can't learn. I cringe whenever I hear women boast about not being able to cook, like boil some eggs, as well.

[@victorsoto4821]

@@atropabelladonna3120 Agreed, should be expected from both partners btw what's pip-boy doing with that rabbit xD anyhow, totally get where you're coming from stay safe.

[@kodiejc4202]

It's really not that hard to learn basics, I wasn't the best cook starting out living by myself, but you can google and youtube stuff nowadays to know how not to poison yourself or burn the kitchen down 🤣

[@purplelove3666]

@@victorsoto4821 you did not make any sense. Because your little misogynistic perception. Sterms from women DOING THAT FOR A MAN AND NOT HERSELF. You have these creatures looking like men but have the need of a newborn baby.GROW UP!.and have some know that COOKING AND CLEANING is basic life skills!.

[@roxannebryan7456]

Love what you said about the sandwich, Preach! Some relationships don't have that level of connection which is beautiful!!

[@CAHOP2401]

I'm married, I'm the primary bread winner (wife works part time), and my wife does do most of the house work. But please believe that when I get off work and I notice that my wife is stressed out from watching our kids all day that I have no problem tagging in and taking them off her hands and getting them out the house to the park or something. I do the heavy lifting and manual chores around the house, not because it's my role, but because since I'm bigger and stronger than my wife, it's my responsibility. I've noticed in the "man-o-sphere" that it's a bunch of young men trying to teach other young men how to be grown men.

[@NeighborTom]

So you have a traditional relationship.

[@sofypi7493]

So? He explain ed to u that it world because of teamwork not because its traditional. U complotti miss ed the point and want to listen only what fit your narrative

[@malimal4972]

Nothing wrong with having roles in a relationship, someone had to sing lead and sometimes you have to play the goddamn Tamborine - Chris Rock

[@NeighborTom]

@@sofypi7493 It's a traditional relationship. That's why he said primary breadwinner, but whatever makes you feel better about the wife watching the kids and doing most of the housework.

[@Madonnaleilaable]

Little grown men ,full of entitlement with platforms ,trying to educate impressionable young men on how to be delusional at best.

[@taki1255]

As a woman who *looooves* assembling things, from puzzles, Lego to small appliances and structures, and who helped my grandfather with his pottery and woodwork, "It depends on what it is" is something I hope my future husband would say in response to that question. I'd love to take on the smaller projects, and assist him in the larger ones!

[@joannediaz8978]

Same I love things like that. My future hubby and I built a wood 10×12ft shed this summer from the ground up. It was a great bonding experience. 😁

[@IcE-_-Kidd]

As A Builder I Approve Of This Message

[@chadjordan3802]

The video was cut short. The married guy added that his wife is an interior designer and is good at putting things together.

[@nik-at-nite]

Right? I’m in my element when I’m putting something together 😂 My grandfather built me a coffee table that would’ve cost me hundreds of dollars at retail. If I knew how to do build it and had the tools and space to do so, I would’ve done it myself

[@mint_soup9743]

@@nik-at-nite I always wished I had gotten tools for xmas instead of body wash baskets. (I was very grateful for any thing I got though, dont get me wrong! not trying to be snooty.) Just wish tools as gifts was more normalized for both sexes. Women cant afford to just stand around waiting for some conservative guy to show up and bring home the bacon. What do some of these "alphas" think we're doing in the meantime before marriage? We have to work and build careers in case we dont find a compatible partner.

[@STEPHxCA]

“Mom can we have Kevin Samuels?”” “We have Kevin Samuels at home.” Kevin Samuels at home:

[@xyr3s]

U mean Kevin Samuels in the basement?

[@theadvisor5459]

@@xyr3s this one had me💀💀

[@thetraveler1182]

🤡

[@deeznutz8320]

That ain't building shit maaan That was a straight copy of Kevin

[@deborahday1786]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Well done. Lol.

[@scallywagsmith127]

BOTH, my husband and myself shared the cooking and cleaning. Whoever got home first, took care of business!

[@Kieronic1989]

God bless you, Preach. The ending of this video is compelling and what most young men need to understand. We live in a world full of values that will trick you or are harmful to the significant REAL RELATIONSHIPS we as human beings are capable of. I believe most of us want them deep down as well. This also reminded me of your debate Aba with Sneako. It's crazy what today's youth are coming to idolize.

[@0doublezero0]

What do you expect when problems of men are ignored or disrespected? There were many reasonable men who wanted a better situation for men, like Warren Farrell or Jordan Peterson, but were shut down by feminists and woke mob. So as a result these extreme attitudes of men start taking root. Well, they will keep growing until men's voices are heard.

[@LILDroidDEX]

I know why. sneako carries the same red pill energy that most of these young men feel in today's dating era and he can speak their language. Aba mature intelligence will not work on a younger audience.

[@hiroshi7025]

That's what I've been saying for a long time. These things that he talks about aren't just transactional, these are proof of love. Little ways to show your love to your S/O. These people are unloving and unlovable, because they try to purchase love and appreciation from someone. It is a transaction that, in order to be authentic, has nothing to do with money or any physical currency. It mostly is, if not totally is, conceptual and virtual. Thats what Fresh called "genuine burning desire", he doesn't even know what it is.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@jackcameroon8423]

Look man, let me put it this way, if you want a woman who cooks and cleans for you then first you need to become a deserving candidate for that. You need to have enough resources, for you, your woman and the children and then you can have the conversation as to whether it's better for her to pursue her career or raise the kids.

[@vicegripp]

Being a "candidate" is being someone the woman wants to be nurturing / feminine towards. That has nothing to do w/ resources. Good women take care of deadbeats that literally leech off them ALL.... THE.... TIME. All these labels & boxes people try to fit into or put each other into is weirdo shit. Be an individual, treat her as an individual, & figure out what works for that situation. Simple.

[@elizabethmchugh9811]

"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are"-Kurt Cobain.Definitley applies to the young man trying to be Kevin Samuel's.

[@lopaka79]

"This buckshot taste funny" also Kurt Cobain

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

@@lopaka79 bruh

[@amadeusakreveusmusic3356]

That's a good quote. Gonna make it my mantra. I've been deep in this red pill alpha Male hugh value Male rabbit hole that I... wow... I kinda forgot myself and who I was before this.

[@beverlythomas902]

My dad worked while my mother was a homemaker. My parents taught my siblings and me how to cook, clean, and just be self sufficient. There’s no excuse why any able bodied individual can’t take care of themselves. Marriage is a partnership that involves teamwork. Both people help each other to run a smooth household.

[@rosemariewildflower1]

I love that you guys did this video. People really do forget that in today ´s economy where most families need two incomes it is not possible for women to do a bulk of the domestic chores as we did in the past!

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

Exactly. Women didn't do all that because they're "female" tasks. They did it, because they had the TIME to do it, because they didn't have to go out and earn a living. That was a FAIR division of labor. Going to work was a DAILY task. Cooking and cleaning were DAILY tasks. So, one person took one set, the other took the other set. The occasional tasks were performed by the working partner, bc he got weekends off from his daily task, but she didn't. Also, he likely had learned to make home repairs, and auto repairs, and mow the lawn, and trim the hedges, and she likely had not. None of those tasks are gendered, though, and THAT'S where alot of people got it fucked up. Now, you really have people running around here, still trying to keep that nonsense going, not even realizing how ridiculous they look and sound when they say it. Smh just pray for 'em, chile, that's all we can do.

[@MrSlowPaper]

But lets acknowledge that these are problems feminist women created.....

[@thatdude123]

@@MrSlowPaper I'd say everybody had to conform to the those standards. Feminism started in the 60s during the women's movement and it wasn't like any of what modern women or modern feminism wanted today. Women in the 60s wanted men to have their own men's rights moments.

[@avebroncx]

@@MrSlowPaper There isn’t any problem here besides the dude asking questions.

[@scribblybear]

As a single person, even I know that both people in a relationship (that are both working) are gonna have to split the chores around the house. but I guess common sense isn't a thing anymore.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@fatcheeseburger100]

Nah

[@torachan23]

But ask a woman to split the bills, and see how that works out for you

[@selrox879]

@@torachan23 a lot of women split the bills in a household a**hole. They are a FAMILY, not a competition like you see bruh. You're gonna be single for a looooong time

[@jasminb102]

@@torachan23 Working women do usually split the bills, otherwise there would be no point of her working…

[@lyrikaleon2845]

As an individualized human being, who keeps up with their own hygiene and feeding.... it baffles me some people go well into their 30's not knowing how to TAKE CARE of their own self, or expecting someone else to keep up with them, like a kid 🤔

[@nathanhector1985]

Hygiene*

[@ahmorgan]

I have been amazed with that as well. But I often wonder about the women choosing those partners, if I went to a woman's place and she didn't clean I would not date her. Period, somehow women not only date but marry and have kids with men who can't take care of themselves. Please help me understand that

[@tennisjiujitsu]

@@ahmorgan both parents didn’t learn how to clean as kids. Their parents never taught them to have a eye of what clean is. Probably had maids

[@lordalduinl.draconis4623]

They don't know how cause someone else has always done it. On either side....some women are taught they don't need to do any of tht the man will do it for them(these so called queens and princess). N vice versa. Or they will just pay someone else. I can no longer count how many times I've heard "nah i dont do tht im a king or im a queen" I think it's a by product of this high value mentality 🤔 but thts just my opinion based on my experiences.

[@bunnyboo6295]

from the sound of it your high quality seems a good handful of man can't wipe they're on butt

[@cocobenji6123]

Most of these men who want a traditional woman can't afford that lifestyle..they still want her to cook, clean and help them pay the bills. The man who has been married for 20 years understands the assignment.

[@GreggEddwards]

high value men stand up, and go cook something lol

[@nore5888]

@Jack Wrath ratio mf

[@nore5888]

As my grandad said, if you can cook you can get a wife

[@makbones3481]

It’s pizza time

[@tyrellh43]

Or hire a chef & maid 😅😅😅😅😅

[@cp37373]

I cook some pretty good wings but that’s about it

[@mera8785]

Yeah this is the part of the “alpha” movement that I don’t understand. If you want a woman who is cooking and cleaning up after you all the time then you should be the only one working. Traditional women did all the household duties because they stayed home while their men worked. You want to split finances 50/50 then you split chores 50/50.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@Divine1Right]

Kevin Samuels typically spoke to women who wanted a 1% kinda man, not the average working stiff. The rules are different for the 1% kinda guy; obviously the woman in that relationship will not need to work.

[@KM10HM12]

Finally a sensible man. We get exhausted after working for 8hr or more and it has been very disheartening and cruel to hear men say all this mess loud and proud. Thank you.

[@sbolingtay06]

What's sad is that we as women have stated this over and over again but now some men get it, smh.

[@brasshouse-og]

My wife cooks and cleans and she keeps that shit tight for me. In return I work 60 hours a week if I’m given the opportunity, focused as fuck on my career. Lay that shit down with all my might whenever she needs it which is damn near every night. Make sure she never has to worry about a bill being paid, a bug being squished, my children being safe or nothing like that. If you want a woman that cooks and cleans it’s gonna be a lot harder than you think. My wife could say the same to women who want a man that provides for her like I do. Both people are busting their ass.

[@victorsoto4821]

If you're wife is not complaining about you working 60 hours a week, respect. That's usually one of the things they like to throw out there and complain about you not spending enough time with them, but if you start working less hours they complain about financial issues. You can never win with some women, or then you have the women who even when you're putting in that much time into work they'll complain for the sake of it.

[@brasshouse-og]

@@victorsoto4821 I spend my time with her and my children when I get home. My wife’s love language is sex. As long as I take time to be with her physically she is ok with it. I obviously enjoy the sex too. It’s a win win. It took time for us to get to this point but we have been together 10 years and really found what works for us.

[@thefruityking6722]

Quite commendable. I'm lazy af and will only do the minimal lol. Busting my ass is not my forte.

[@magdalenasamandova]

@@brasshouse-og you AND your wife are so lucky! I know life isn’t all perfect but that sounds damn near it.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@strangescottvoiceacting5351]

I'm never ashamed to tell people that my wife is our breadwinner. She works really hard at her factory job while I work in a bookshop/Cafe. But I also make up for it by doing the cooking and cleaning. Because she doesn't like to cook as often as I do. So it just works that way. This guy completely misses the point in things like that.

[@Mountainlion118]

Beautiful

[@cheeseburgersuperior1874]

you're the weiner and she's the bread.

[@MsTomas086]

You're not ashamed that she is working this hard compare to you?

[@Mountainlion118]

@@MsTomas086 Are you stupid? Did you not hear he cooks and cleans for her.

[@jazdj04]

Ngl I wouldnt tell ppl that.

[@TheMissiIe]

"High value men wake up, and go get what ever you want from life" "Why doesn't my girl make me a 3 course dinner for me"

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

😂😂

[@torachan23]

@UC3UdvnuX3RD_F6NgAcXbP-w If you were better than Aba and Preach, you wouldn't need to go to their channel and spam your BS under THEIR videos.

[@Lora_Beolab]

then he's not high value bruh

[@k9px]

What girl!? My cat stole my ham slice off the damn sandwich! P.S. I'm lying I don't even have a cat... I have a cactus... and I think it's dead.

[@NpausAsHawj]

Damnz i make her meals everyday. I just want one meal a week, sometimes.

[@dontpeony]

Courtesy and kindness isn't weak. It builds strong bonds. Kindness is free and always appreciated.

[@OfficialNIKMIK]

Aba and Preach please continue being the realest people out there. I just want y'all to know how awesome it is to have someone to listen too that makes sense in today's youtube landscape. Never lose sight! Im proud of you guys

[@ClaimedEagle]

Now a days, they are almost the only ones I watch when is about social topics. I used to watch a lot of red pill videos until I realized that I wasn't really learning; I was hating an entire gender just because of bad people. Now, instead of hating what bad people did, I prefer to do my best to have a good life. Also, I rather watch videos of fun activities and things I like, too much drama from red pill videos were making me feel angrier during the day (weird stuff).

[@OfficialNIKMIK]

@@ClaimedEagle our whole life is a fight to keep the balance and our morals straight so its prefectly normal to shift sides as long as you remain a truth-seeker at heart. So stay curious. I dont know if i'll change for the worse someday since sanity is so slippery but i will try not to... thanks for your thoughts and ride on brotha

[@djgroopz4952]

💯

[@ItzMalick]

Yo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@xburn315x]

Dude, KS even said himself that the women are tired. That's why he was trying to motivate men to step up their own game, so the women don't have to work or at least work for their own men instead of another man.

[@VashTheDamnFiend]

@DolphinsWIthIgloos plus the fact women are the reason why wages have gone down overall. Women are tired trying to be a man all day working jobs they don’t rlly enjoy all to spite their biology

[@0doublezero0]

@DolphinsWIthIgloos And when the date almost unanimously shows that women don't date down financially, how exactly do women realistically want men to "step up their game."

[@greent16]

Absolutely. I get paid very well and I'm exhausted all the time. I'm not married because I can't imagine getting married to a man just for the sake of it. It's not worth it for me to get more work and more stress than what I already have if he doesn't help out. Doesn't have to make more than me, but he has to work as much, whether in the home or outside of it

[@mikochild2]

@@0doublezero0 by working to earn more. By dating women who earn less. By dating women who don't care if they earn more. This is a difficult question?

[@jlovesj3335]

@DolphinsWIthIgloos 90% of women do not out earn men. Yall just don't earn enough. Women take on less paying jobs in less lucrative fields and usually sacrifice their career and take many more days off than men do for kids.

[@bagbunny]

If the man and woman work outside the home, the housework should be split. If one of them stays home, then taking care of the house is their job. It's not complicated.

[@Wolfbroa]

Exactly you worded that better than I did lol

[@Bashbekersjiw]

Amen

[@NeighborTom]

Nope. You have a roomate, not a wife. Sorry that you are gender confused.

[@bagbunny]

@@NeighborTom Dear, I'm the wife. I work twelve hour shifts in ICU, and then I'm supposed to come home and do all the housework myself? I'm not gender confused, I'm just tired.

[@And1one757]

I agree to a point but if your going use that logic the bills should be split directly down the middle which it often doesnt happen like that...

[@ndivine1]

I've been married twice, and both times I am the handy woman who puts things together and builds things. Your only role is to do what you can. Contribute how you can.

[@SapienSafari]

My mom stayed at home but my dad made bank. But she also lost her independence and is still stuck under him now even after the nest became empty. Stay independent, ladies- at all costs.

[@beccf.s.8012]

Nobody likes talking about this. I worked in a leading bank for over a decade and saw many women crying over being stay at home moms and now trapped in an unhappy marriage with no career or work experience to get out and able to take care of the children and themselves if something was to happen to the only breadwinner. There was this lady I will never forget who had three little children. The bank I was working at was at a affluent neighborhood. Her husband left and took all the money out of the shared account. She literally had 3 dollars in the account. She had no idea how to buy the kids food that night and what to do next day to survive or pay the mortgage of their huge home, wearing super expensive clothes and driving a super expensive SUV she didn't know how the heck she will pay next month either. I can't understand how women simply think it's logical to depend on another human being. It marked me.

[@luvlivi9398]

People need to learn to love without acting as if the relationship is unconditional. People have boundaries 🙂

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@yuumi603]

"Going outside cost a lot!" Thank you, people acting like being an introvert (or an ambivert) is an end of the world when you can get into more trouble as an extrovert

[@tormentorchick1755]

This! Being an introvert is cheaper and safer!

[@IDontlikeubutGIVEmeyourMONEY]

*_This_* 👆🏿 *_(both)_*@@tormentorchick1755

[@fjgri8467]

This is so true.

[@elisee9935]

Lol this is virtue signaling

[@valerieahjahli9526]

That "women that don't cook and clean anymore are trash" arguement is so ridiculous. Where are the men who used to put roofs on houses, build houses, drop engines in cars, and farm the fields? Not to mention paying ALL expenses on one income? So many men now days can't even change a tire or change oil in a car but looking for an "old fashioned" woman. Get outta here 🙄😏

[@kallmeblessed]

I'm not going to lie, I'm a woman who cooks who cleans, tends to my husband, my children. I dont see anything wrong with providing for the ones you love, until they all start taking advantage of you treating you like your undervalued and unappreciated.

[@AdelTheForsaken]

Many of us have been taken advantage of, and taken for granted. Thats what brought this on in the first place! As a women who loves making a home warm , and inviting I need the resources to make it possible! If the man isnt bringing in the resources, aint ish going to be warm and inviting!!

[@divestorsingle]

Do you have a job

[@joelrionstaves4684]

I don't have a problem with a woman being a stay at home wife who does these things, as long as it's her own choice. Having said that, I do think that your husband should occasionally return the favor and do these things for you as well.

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

If u have a job outside of the home, u are a maid and a roommate. Not a wife

[@joelrionstaves4684]

@@somebodycomelistentothispo7217 a wife w/ a job outside the home is hardly what I consider a "maid", she likely wears multiple hats. There are also roomates who don't work.

[@aniyamarie8370]

This definitely reeks of “Go make me a sandwich” while offering nothing in return. It seems like a concept Mr. Wannabe Samuels either forgot should exist in a relationship or he purposely skipped over to simply take, take, take.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

He's one of those guys who believe they are"High Value" but bring nothing to the table or to his community he's what you said he's someone who takes, takes, takes, and takes and gives nothing what High-value woman or woman of high status would want to be with him?

[@Out_Heree_Podcast]

Go make me a sandwich is better than buy me a birkin

[@newwbein]

My last relationship I was the only one cooking and not only that but I hated when my ex would be in the kitchen with me or tried to help me cook lol. I do prefer traditional women but the idea that cooking and cleaning is solely a woman’s responsibility is crazy to me.

[@yosanoakiko7714]

@uravrgYTr speaking for myself ? only thing i don't do is work on the cars. but those aren't every day things aside from taking out the trash. you could help out inside the house.

[@inebrihated13]

Me and your ex loved your cooking.

[@BESTMOAD]

@@inebrihated13 I loved your cooking too

[@Anotherguy1st]

I wouldn't say it should be expected for her to do all of it but she should at least be able to help out with both of those, for at least herself. If you have kids and you both work both should be helping with it but they have to figure who does what.

[@bunnyboo6295]

@uravrgYTr yikes repairs ain't a daily thing and yeah if a garbage can full adult even teens will change it out because its there and needs to be done. And plenty women enjoy building repairing but leave it for men since its an ego thing for them to be "the man"

[@jasminethornton3078]

Exactly!!! Thanks for breaking this down for the men that don't get it.

[@Monstarr_]

Love you’re channel hope more people find out about you guys and wake tf up💯

[@newstart1586]

Your* 🤓

[@infernityable1369]

People are going to find their content, think for themselves, and come to conclusions that are different or similar to the ones they co-sign and promote the same way they so with everything else. I will never be able to understand this "I watched someone talk into a camera for 15min now I think exactly like them." mentality comes from.

[@LuisPerez-5]

@Jack Wrath who are you?

[@ItzMalick]

Yoo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@kirbyaugustine761]

The pandemic should’ve shown us all how vulnerable we are by depending so heavily on these greedy corporations to take care of us.

[@lifting_weab]

I don't understand the whole cooking dilemma. It's a standard human skill to have.

[@lifting_weab]

@Jack Wrath wat

[@torachan23]

Modern women don't want to do ANYTHING for men useless they are being tangibly compensated. Keep that in mind when dealing with women.

[@berenic90]

Exactly, cooking and cleaning should be a standard for every human being

[@edk487]

Cooking for a woman is effeminate

[@houseofhas9355]

As man I know how to cook. But I never called it slavery when I cook for my girl. These girls today do that. Feminism got their mind Phucked just like the red pill rage got a lots of guy's mind Phucked up

[@meloniefields2104]

It's hard to even start a conversation when most people fail to understand the difference between roles,and tasks or even a simple chore.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@justified9537]

There are A LOT of women who don't want to work a regular job, or show their bodies on the internet. They don't mind cooking and cleaning, these dudes just can't get them or they're not looking for them. They want the IG model, who usually don't have any of the home tending skills they desire in a woman.

[@ladybug3380]

You are so right! People are shallow they’ll overlook the regular looking woman for a baddie on Instagram. Women do this too and then they complain they can’t find anyone to spend their lives with.

[@naomigray575]

Yes! There is nothing wrong with either women but you can’t get mad when the hoe doesn’t know how to be a housewife and the housewife don’t know how to be a hoe

[@NKanchevful]

i mean are those women not also looking to date up and not looking for regular men seeing as how the economy is currently?

[@Madonnaleilaable]

I wish I could love this comment a million times....the red pill movement is gonna ingest itself ,in due time due to hypocrisy.

[@josephinenelan4204]

Yup, not thirst trapping on IG, not on dating/hookup apps, and not in bars or clubs. So you have to go find them!

[@cooleopard50]

It feels like such a simple issue. Either you want a traditional relationship, where you pay all the bills, and your woman takes care of the house, or you want a more modern relationship, where your woman is independent and yall both work as a team and when shit needs to be done at home, yall work out who does what. The rules to both are easy to follow and understand lol

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@grunt9950]

Exactly. It's that simple

[@KillaBryx]

I agree with either way as long as both parties are happy with what they're doing. The only problem I see is this odd societal push that looks at traditional relationship as evil or like what that guy said "white supremacy." Then the modern relationships get praised and anyone not doing that needs to be punished. I just saw someone saying a traditional wife is akin to a sex slave. Like yo people are buggin.

[@cooleopard50]

@@KillaBryx I think it's because there usually /is/ some form of a controlling element to traditional relationships. Like the women in those relationships definitely are very dependent on the men to make sure their lifestyle can be maintained and very often, like traditional housewives, need to maintain submissiveness to their men in that situation. Not just sexually either. It's a part of a power dynamic at times. Although i'm pretty sure not all of those relationships are like that, I can see people can be turned off to the idea of it.

[@KillaBryx]

@@cooleopard50 I'm really not sure where this idea of slave came from. When you watch old sitcoms or other tv shows you usually saw traditional families right. The woman appeared to have quite a bit of power. How many times would the husband be begging for sex and get denied lol. Then you have the wife banishing the husband to sleep on the couch becuz he forgot to buy milk. Then ya always hear stuff like, "I wanna buy a new x but I'll have to ask my wife first."

[@missprissyrainbow]

If you can afford it, most of these "roles" are just services for hire. Get a maid to clean the house twice a week, and get food delievered when you are tired after work. Time is money, so spend it wisely.

[@kaydee6555]

I just built a dining room table, entertainment center and hung up the curtains and fixed my broken couch. My bf is not good at stuff like that. Your roll in the home is whatever you want it to be and are able to do.

[@rmarques8156]

"So you're telling my momma is tired of cooking and taking caring of me because she also has to work from 9 to 5?"

[@lizzyforevermore4]

No he's saying that both mom and dad can do the same type of roles in the household, so it not a one person role. And yes mommy gets tired too, but she manages to do it, appreciate your mom cause theres nobody like her.

[@rmarques8156]

ya'll didn't understand the irony lol

[@lizzyforevermore4]

@@rmarques8156 can't read irony through text unless you adding an emoji in there

[@sofashbyfar]

lol yes yo mama is “tiiiiyeed” too

[@djangomarine6658]

@@lizzyforevermore4 Yes, but not really. The woman's traditional housework gets split, but don't expect her do any of the man's traditional house duties. She's not splitting the yardwork, plumbing, anything regarding fixtures or needing a ladder, hammer, drill, screwdriver or other tools. 50/50 sounds good, but it's really more like the man gets to do 70/30 while the woman gets to claim equality.

[@HeadlinesWithAVoice]

I'm glad you all covered this...I saw this and cracked up...laughing!

[@jasonexperience8970]

What's the video?

[@ItzMalick]

Yoo Famm I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯

[@AmritGrewal31]

Lmao, he's even taking sips in the same manner 😄

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

😂😂

[@catcoffee7958]

Lol

[@MusMasi]

maybe this is a parody?

[@AmritGrewal31]

@@MusMasi I couldn't possibly have laughed at that dumb shiz so I didn't even think of that. But, now I do realise that this might just be a bad attempt at mocking a recently dead guy - which is even shittierAnd pettier

[@ItzMalick]

Yoo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾🙏🏾💯