Keyshia Cole: The Way It Is was... A MESS: The Entire Series in One Video | BFTV

[@amiller3080]

That trauma is RAW and its all over Neffe. Frankie really did a number on her kids. I hope Neffe is in a better place emotionally now 🙏🕊

[@kissass1286]

❤‍🩹

[@cassandraanoai4034]

Neffie died? I thought Frankie died.

[@kissass1286]

@@cassandraanoai4034 I looked it up and it was Frankie

[@Hotwingzlover84]

You're right, it was Frankie not Neffie ​@@cassandraanoai4034

[@amiller3080]

​@@cassandraanoai4034better place emotionally

[@MissAlmostFine]

Keyshia Cole's show was definitely back when reality shows were more "real" as opposed to now where damn near everything is planned in advance or done to have a storyline. I don't even see how ppl watch reality tv today.

[@MsTwilightSpeaks]

Soap Opera quality

[@justjamal3653]

The closest thing I would say is the Chrisean and Blueface show

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

I don't bother with the new shows. I can write what they're gonna do scene by scene....Nothing but 🗑 lol

[@justjamal3653]

@@pambeforethestorm9784 facts lol

[@MissAlmostFine]

@@justjamal3653 And even the idea of that show is disturbing. Watching a toxic couple verbally and physically abuse one another is not my idea of entertainment.

[@qd561]

People love to act like Keyshia wasnt THAT girl back in the day

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Rite because she definitely was that girl. 💯

[@shantayeunique4612]

That Part! 💯

[@hopefulelect2222]

EXACTLY 💯!

[@Caramelized_Suga]

Facts! She doesn't get her flowers as she should.

[@nurseli1712]

Because Keyshia doesn’t act like she’s that girl!

[@ZezeRants]

“Stop hitting my car blood” 😂

[@ruesydni7703]

I swear it's a lot of slang throughout the show that ppl still use till this day it was ahead of its time 😂😂

[@shaylaluvbraidz5651]

That lives rent free in my mind 😂😂😂

[@charlita25]

That was one of my faves parts

[@Ms.abundance94]

She from Cali so I had to pause.. 😂

[@lolab1917]

I thought I was the only one who thought that was funny 😂

[@Mrs51315]

Keyshia doesn't get enough credit... she was thang during that period and I appreciate her for showing the REAL and NOT some glamorous bull‼️ I loved me some Frankie... i was rooting for her💔... RIP Frankie and prayers for the still suffering addict 🙏🏽 🕊

[@shawnesebletson9308]

Facts❤❤❤

[@HigherThinking]

They shoulda paid You to do this instead of trying to strike u. This is amazing

[@neashia23]

Facts

[@urbanrealism237]

Nah fr

[@DM-jd6xp]

Same thing I said. I couldn’t finish it bc of how it looks (the static tv) and I know it’s a great documentary though bc BFTV always does a great job!

[@monicarobinson8620]

I loved Manny, not only was he her manager at the time helping her keep her career afloat but he also was down with helping her get both her biological and foster family together. SOLID DUDE 💯✨

[@AyeishaN0Curry]

He was good!!!

[@monicarobinson8620]

@@AyeishaN0Curry he really was!!! Had a good spirit

[@homehere9817]

What happened to Manny? does he still manager her? If not, why? And where is he today?

[@monicarobinson8620]

@@homehere9817 I don't manage her anymore, I wish I knew what happened with that

[@tracijasper4716]

I wonder if he Is he still her manager?

[@ItsMeShaniceG]

Deadbeat parents love to say someone “turned you against me”. I had a birth mom like Frankie… baby, you did that on your own! I commend Keyshia’s patience. I wanted nothing to do with my birth mom until the day she died. And I did’t go to the funeral. Nobody gets to continuously traumatize me. I don’t care who you are. Sometimes as a parent “your best” is not good enough.

[@Diz_27]

My mom said this about my dad. "He turned you against me!" Like naw momma you caused most of my trauma, my dad is just trying to help me heal them.

[@alienunicorn4178]

I would say if that your best, I hate to see your best.

[@davialee3932]

You did the right thing!

[@louveniawilliast9178]

I went thru the same with my mom. She was a addicted and she abused me. She told me my younger sister was her favorite child and as we got older my sister treated my mom horrible. I have daughters of my own now and i don't treat them how my mom treated me. My passed when I was 13 but ill never forget how she treated me. I still dont understanding how she could do me that way. I love my babies with my soul and could never do that to them

[@JinNeptune]

Bro I thought it was just me.. my mom said the same thing.

[@jackieaina]

this show coming out during PEAK hyphy era…there was literaly never a better time to be from Cali!! 😭🫶🏾 Keyshia will always be an icon

[@MrsLady-ip3tg]

🗣️ it was so euphoric back then ❤ omg best times I so miss it 😢

[@Silent_Butterflies]

I agree just seeing the highlights again reminds me how raw and talented Keyshia Cole was

[@carlissapowell7069]

Facts

[@ClosewithKeri]

Yes, good times! ❤

[@thegreatestshowonearth7623]

When there's free food and alcohol everybody loves you

[@tla0324]

Come onnnnn. Lighten up

[@joyceg7859]

That’s why AINT no mf baby shower ! 😂😂😂😂

[@material-cheshirekhatter2413]

Frr

[@brianahughes9504]

Facts 👌🏽💯

[@charlita25]

Especially in the ghetto

[@kadinelindsayart]

This show is SOOO ahead of its time, wow, the therapy, getting tested, healing familial wounds. I remember watching this with my mom as a child, thank you for covering this!

[@Ariana-bz1zk]

Sometimes you heal by sharing your trauma with people.

[@coachwill9584]

FUN FACT: Billionaire Pop Star Jessica Simpson confessed that she liked Keyshia Cole reality shows because it wasn’t fake scripted or rigged like hers. I was shocked she said this back then but now I see

[@Itsoktoloveyourself]

Whoa.. you never know who was watching your show

[@coachwill9584]

@@Itsoktoloveyourself exactly Jessica loved the mess just like the rest of us lol

[@louveniawilliast9178]

Jessica Simpson isn't a billionaire 😂

[@coachwill9584]

@@louveniawilliast9178 except she is

[@Nah1980]

@@louveniawilliast9178she damn near is lol her shoes and clothing line was very successful believe it or not . I liked her stuff a lot

[@KingDeon]

Keyshia really showed us she was just like us fr

[@daniellenichole9047]

Sure did! I’m just like youuuuu 🎼

[@tonekhari]

That’s why her song just like you hit home fr

[@Ummnowtfc]

It’s the “STOP HITTING MY CAR BLOOD” lmaooooo Keyshia was really like that 😂😂😂😂

[@henryjohnson5157]

She Is From Oakland, CA Gang Territory. Which Ones…Pick One.

[@Niqueguala415]

@@henryjohnson5157 it’s not blood like that in the bay we don’t bang colors at least blacks don’t 😂😂😂😂 we kinda use cuz or blood interchangeably lmaoo😂😂😂😂😂

[@amaarie]

@@Niqueguala415right it’s really “bluhd” because we do not bang colors, we bang streets and projects 😂

[@lavishdiamond304]

Right it’s a bay thing cuz and I say “blood” when I’m super serious about something 😂😂

[@Niqueguala415]

@@amaarie no fr she ain’t mean nun behind it now if she was from LA or So cal that’s a different story 😂😂😂😂

[@eboneeyiibabez95]

GIRL YES WE WANT THE FULL EPISODES 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

[@vwadebiz03]

Co-sign!!! All the shows!

[@biancadixon88]

Yes post the full episodes!!!

[@mrod87]

Put on patron!

[@tlouonps4]

Yessssss

[@diijaithesinger]

Cosign

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Keyshia with the gap, Skinny Neffie and Frankie with the new dentures and dancing will always be a vibe. I use to love this show this was back when reality TV was actually reality/not fake. I like the reality show Keyshia had with her ex husband Booby too.

[@mickeybell8933]

Skinny Neffie🥴

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

😂 and I was skinny back then too. ​@@mickeybell8933

[@verballynonverbal]

​@@mickeybell8933You know they meant the smaller version. We know she wasn't supermodel slim or anything. Y'all so shady.

[@Jingleball7734]

RIGHT . I miss these old days ❤

[@SS4Luxray]

Keyshia Cole is a legend idc. 3 back to back platinum album in PURE SALES when Beyoncé, Ciara, Rihanna, Brandy, Monica, MJB, Pink, Britney, Xtina, Usher, Alicia, Kelly Clarkson and Mariah were all dominating the charts. Had hit singles sitting right in the top 10 with them. Nominated for the same awards as them. Worked with the same producers as them. Had Michael Jackson personally call you to say he loves your music. She’s a legend.

[@criminalmindsgirl2936]

Back when music was good

[@Freedomofspeechisajoke]

Legend I think not. That’s way too much.

[@stay_low_key]

I agree a legend in her own right at her time. But she never received a Grammy.

[@SS4Luxray]

@@stay_low_key she’s been nominated like 4 or 5 times tho. I’d make the argument she should’ve won for Best R&B Song for I Remember in 2009 at least and it’s crazy Trust with Monica wasn’t nominated for anything

[@user9o777laont]

Who is xtina???

[@areiaaphrodite]

Frankie... irks me. She was on drugs and left her kids for other people to raise, yet she's mad when her kids see other women as their mothers. Girl, be humble and accept that what you reap is what you sow.

[@alienunicorn4178]

So many parents feel they’re entitled to the kids respect and love no matter how horrible they were.

[@chaquitaporter9045]

Facts and dead beat fathers do also. I know mothers should be there but so should fathers, in our race it’s way more deadbeat fathers than mothers🤷🏽‍♀️ I didn’t understand when I was a child why my dad was never there but my moms boyfriend lived with us and wasn’t around Fue his own kids but he lived with us but acted like we lived with him.🤦🏽‍♀️ I made sure to not do anything that I saw growing up. I didn’t like that a man lived with us even though we didn’t get hurt I just stuck by what I wanted as an adult and no I’m not perfect. That the only man that would live with me if I had kids would be my husband. And so I got married at 19 and I’m 42 now and yes I have 2 step kids that are older than my kids and I hangout with their mom and the entire family. We all good and always have been. She said I helped her with her kids as a woman and age didn’t know I was 4 years younger than my husband and her because they had their 2 girls when there were 15 and 16. Which now my oldest girls are 27 and 26. And we really don’t say step because I been in their life as long as they can remember and I’m able to go to everything that we did.

[@virgo7956]

💯 You are right!! RIP Frankie

[@757forlife24]

I love Frankie. She had so much of own childhood trauma that went unhealed

[@mzmnicole81]

well she has passed on now, so it's neither here nor there any longer!

[@spiritualvibrations2825]

This show should be a study in generational trauma playing out. I couldn't watch it often because they argued too much, always had drama going on.

[@shaneecuevas7990]

Yes, you had to take it in doses... it would make me feel stressed!

[@louveniawilliast9178]

Yeah this stressed me out and reminded me of my own family drama. I moved far away from my family due to the trauma

[@shargreen9950]

this show + house of carters chile…

[@amannamesolo]

I remember I was at someone house and this show was on. the mom and Keisha was arguing while the chef was in the kitchen and I felt stressed.

[@KDBetter]

I don’t think Frankie knew who Keyshia’s dad was for real

[@Deenique16]

It's pretty obvious she Didn't know.

[@KDBetter]

@@Deenique16 ok cool

[@chasedavis8132]

Wow!!!

[@mzmnicole81]

@@Deenique16 So...What makes you THINK Ms. Frankie didn't know? She kept saying the same person, EVERYTIME the subject was brought up, on this show and otherwise! She was adamant that it wasn't the guy who contacted Manny - Ms. Frankie wasn't the one who said that that guy was the dad, HE came out the woodwork talking about he thought e was the dad - you are aware that ppl will do anything for a little bit of fame. Ms. Frankie knew who Keyshia's dad is/was, I believe her wholeheartedly, because what she said never waivered. 😇Rest in peace Ms. Frankie😇

[@averyjackson5087]

Duhhh

[@Theehoneyb]

I loved this show growing up.🥰🥹I respect Keyshia Cole so much for putting her whole family in a better situation.🏡✨Especially where we live in a world where so many forget about their loved ones when they get on.🥰🤩

[@Melissa-dw6ed]

Which needs to be discussed.. will never understand the mindset to leave people behind once one makes it to the top. Will never get how it's ok to feel once you've made it or accomplished something that you need to be selective. If one starts to make money, they don't have to give to people who didn't or wasn't there for them. once those people are taken back to their humble beginnings, they look to those very people they left behind

[@deasyastarr]

She should not have had to do that tho. I respect her but it’s so incredibly sad and traumatizing for her to be the glue and backbone of entire dysfunctional family from when she had nothing to gaining the fame and the money and then feeling compelled to bring her entire family up on her own strength.

[@alwaysantoinette]

I appreciate the lengths it took for you to make this video. I remember her show.

[@RayneyKayLa]

Fashion Gwurl --the LEWKS! She served yall! The hair colors and the styling. Shout out to her being a 2000s fashion icon.

[@mrod87]

ICON! I AM TEARING UP watching her sing these songs that were such huge parts of my youth. She looked like the vibe of the times.

[@bresams2917]

You hear me!! Keyshia hair was always fire 🔥

[@K.M93-K.W]

@@mrod87me too, it brought me back to all those lovely memories when people had CD’s. When music was raw and full of real talent. If only I had a time machine lol😂

[@dredheadluna420]

Keyshia Cole's hairstyles and color >>>>>

[@tomiwafaith]

My favorite hairstyles ever! That res color was sooo her😍😍😍

[@itgirlariii]

I’m glad Diddy pushed her that day. You can hear her vocal strength in Last Night 🥰

[@brittmar538]

He definitely pulled it out of her. Such a good song

[@sadgirlsades]

yall...

[@kerrajohnson3203]

​@@sadgirlsadesoh yes, his crimes completely wipe out everything great he did in music. Oh wait, they don't.

[@mikaylagreenwood4428]

Uh…who said that?!

[@g7924]

I never understood everyone’s obsession with that clip…

[@dallasgarvin4116]

Keyshia was truly loved by her community. It's heartwarming to see.

[@ashnicole9354]

REST EASY MS FRANKIE

[@jlcii]

Wow, my heart really goes out to Keyshia cole. Her mother and her sister are nothing shy of absolutely TOXIC. And as somebody who grew up in a problematic family with some toxic members, I can honestly say, the best thing you can do with family members that are like that is just distance yourself, and leave them alone. They may talk about you behind your back, they may say that you think that you're better than them, but at the end of the day, there is no price you can put on your peace. I'd rather not have somebody in my life than to have them in my life causing hell and high water.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Totally agree 👍🏾

[@abiola33]

💯

[@queenteireigns6212]

Preach!

[@sammy69831]

Amen sis!!!!!!! My peace and serenity are priority#1

[@eyesofwater123]

Agree. It comes to show you can't take everyone with you when you make it big.

[@riarealness]

I LOVED THIS SHOW. I was too young to fully understand the full extent of their trauma.

[@naomim5746]

I watched this show faithfully and I forgot how emotional this show was. It was so raw!

[@positive___soul]

I remember my kids and I watching this every week. Good reality TV at it's realest.

[@K.M93-K.W]

lol I had family come over just to watch the newest episodes 😂😂

[@GoddessRhy]

I didn’t realize how traumatized they were. I’m almost thinking we shouldn’t have been in their business 😟

[@avocadohater444]

eh don’t feel guilty. when things hit the media it becomes everyone’s business.

[@stephanylouis]

I’m not gonna lie , you did your big one with this video fr ! SN: Frankie was the original Tokyo Toni.. RIP 🕊️

[@brianjones6721]

You got that right ✅️ 👏 🤣🤣🤣

[@tiannabobo1170]

no tf she wasn't

[@nnthomps]

TT talked to Angela like she is her enemy. She talks to her like a stranger she would fight in a club. Frankie had her demons but she didn't treat Keyshia the way TT did Angela, at least not on camera. You could see hurt/love/shame/regret/ in Frankie's eyes. You see jealousy/anger/bitterness/hatefulness in TT's.

[@Diz_27]

Who is Tokyo Toni?

[@victoriathesunflower1226]

​@@Diz_27Black China mom

[@daisyyyyw_]

I was on a keyShia Cole binge and this popped up! She really went out her way for her family and showed her real life at a time it wasn’t as acceptable.

[@BFFFL1492]

Keyshia and her family were SO OAKLAND. 😂 It was so surreal watching people from my town on my tv screen growing up. Keyshia was that girl period.

[@angelsunlight]

I was thinking that too lmao

[@seikoosorio5145]

One thing Neffie was yelling in season one I’m a wife and mother! 😂

[@larnoralacey9339]

lol

[@louveniawilliast9178]

And didn't act like a wife nor a mother

[@JinNeptune]

She Screams the things she needed but never received so she probably puts it out there force herself to not repeat them mistakes.

[@majora025]

DAMN, THIS IS BEAUTIFUL. Keyshia Cole is such a beautiful and wise soul. Need more reality shows about giving back and emotional growth.

[@ItsRrielle]

I used to clean the whole house early as hell so my mom would let me stay up late to watch the show 😂 this was the hot topic at school every week

[@mskweenie860]

Nooooo way

[@dominiqueterrell8959]

Neffe said “spaghetti with the fired chicken, salad and garlic bread”, I ain’t mad at it. Hook it up Neffe!!!

[@MAAT1111]

I actually loved this show & Keisha's family. I could identify with it bc my mother has been an addict since I was 9yrs old & I'm 50 now.😢 This show gave me hope that one day my mother might get clean, but I guess in Divine Timing❣️

[@Sunni555]

My heart truly goes out to you siSTAR . I too have walked a similar path with my mom’s addiction and I am 50 and still struggling 💛

[@melaninycee672]

KC was that girl!!! I remember her first album The Way it Is coming out my freshman year at VSU (HBCU) no lie every girl in our dorm blasted this album. A classic ❤ And let us not forget she stared the two tone hair color wave!

[@KDBetter]

S/O to the HBCUs!

[@naseerwalker8292]

Keyshia Cole deserves a BET tribute she had HITS

[@deetheefoodie]

I have flashbacks of this show when I hear some of her songs. I enjoyed this show. Addiction hit our community hard and I felt like her story was relatable

[@kamsismith]

I never knew Keyshia Cole had a reality show. The only things I knew about her is her music and her complicated relationship with her mother who struggled with addiction. Rest in peace to Frankie.

[@Shay-34]

Babyyyy it was a time😂 I watched EVERY EPISODE! It was lit

[@domdom2215]

Yup for three reasons she was one of the first that had one after the I love era lol😊

[@bhalette4153]

​@@Shay-34Yes Frankie: Man down, code 10

[@candylove49]

Thank you for posting this! Keyshia really set the bar for these celebrity reality shows.

[@keith108871]

But her show is as real as it gets. Raw and uncut, unfortunately you don't see that nowadays.

[@wandaba90]

Diddy singing last night in the studio traumatized me so much when i first saw that episode I didn’t watch the actual video to this day 😂

[@CinnamonSugar202]

😂 💀

[@insertwittynamehere_]

This show is why I love Keyshia until this very day! So raw so honest. I loved this show!

[@mindyourmess4386]

Thank you for the upload! We apppreciate you, the rawness of the trauma and internal struggles they went thru was so real.They really don't get credit for their vulnerability. A reunion and where are they now would be really nice

[@packnetadaija]

Well something to watch while I braid my hair, thank you 🙏🏾

[@LoveLife-up2vn]

Okay I was doing the same

[@packnetadaija]

@@LoveLife-up2vn mine turned out pretty nice! How about you?

[@LoveLife-up2vn]

@@packnetadaija that’s great I was just doing all of my parts for goddess braids I’m doing tomorrow

[@packnetadaija]

@@LoveLife-up2vn I tried doing goddess braids once and it took FOREVER so more power to you girl!!!!

[@LoveLife-up2vn]

@@packnetadaija oh yea it’s a process… thank you that’s why I like to get all my parts out the way so I can just braid and be done with it

[@KDBetter]

9:01 I remember Aminaaaa… this whole video is a crazy blast from the past.

[@ItsJakeIII]

I always wondered what happened to her!

[@tla0324]

HOLY 4UCK I didnt realize Frankie lost her teeth from being abused.. Yo that hurt my heart.... Her story was always so rough to observe because her disposition is so happy and jolly and real at the same time. She was such a gem I hate that addiction had a hold on her and eventually did take her and on her birthday (dont ask why i know this) lol this is so nostalgic i haven't watched any of this in years. I'm in my 30 now but i was a care free teen watching this with my besties on tv when these episodes premiered. Watching with adult eyes is really blowing my mind. R.I.P Frankie.

[@TheDestinycurry]

Next should be the Braxton family values

[@iamravyn6878]

Another great show 👏 👌

[@IamKrissyKO]

Keyshia was definitely our Summer Walker/Sza in high school and college years.

[@theinterpollover]

Keyshia Cole was better than them. She could actually sing, and her music and albums are better too.

[@IamKrissyKO]

@@theinterpollover I definitely agree with you! She was authentic for sure!

[@darriusbowden2761]

@@theinterpolloveryess keyshia music is a staple in the black community and have classics that will last a lifetime

[@ajat3202]

She's had amazing producers as well

[@darriusbowden2761]

@@ajat3202 keyshia have so many classics songs the music just hit different!!! These new girls don’t have songs that will be remembered in 20 years like such as songs like I should have cheated, love , I remember and many more …

[@alexisdavis4600]

Yess please upload the seasons if you can I loved this show it was very relatable especially growing up with parent that was addicted to drugs ❤️

[@indifferent7715]

i remember this show on BET Frankie needed help.

[@tracijasper4716]

Didn’t Iyanla Vanzant have them on her show Fix my Life? Trying to help the fam, but the trauma is so deep 😢

[@QueenFlowerChild28]

Just neffe and her husband went to iyanla

[@nicolejohnson4989]

That casting call was HILARIOUS 😂😂😂

[@jabellatv3240]

The way I resonated as a teenager watching this show is crazy. I understood neffe Frankie and keyshia because my mother was also addicted to drugs and me and my brothers and sister were broken inside but I also respected the fact my mother left us with my grandmother and gave my sister to my aunt we grew up apart and I remember when my mom died and my baby sister asked why she couldn’t stay with us and my heart broke for her

[@TBrown-mi8ik]

I swear to you I didn't miss not one episode of The Way It Is season 1 and season 2 lol I was tuned in as we all were but Keyshia's story is one of the stories that really just touches me she didn't hide where she came from what she's been through she let the world see it and I have always respected her for that she let the world see that just because she's famous she's still flawed just like us all and she remained so humble throughout her career she never gave off no stuck up/cocky Vibes of any sort and although I've never really been a big fan of her music I'm definitely a fan of her as a person 🙂 ❤

[@bzneeez]

Keysgia was my girl back in the day I loved her from the moment I heard “I changed my mind” she was cute , soulful, real, and a lil hood I loved it!!! I got a chance to see her twice once in Augusta and 2 years later in DC. Heart❤

[@goldiesworld2095]

I’m the baby with a big age gap from my siblings and when i tell you this show made me have some more appreciation for my older siblings especially my sister i remember i would just randomly walk up and hug her and she would be like “OK” with the side eye they need to bring back this type of real reality tv 😩

[@starlettawilliams93]

The sad part is the fact Frankie wasnt able to get her life together. She continued to use drugs because she had trauma that she probably never adressed and kept her in the clutches of addiction. RIP Franke Code 10 Man down

[@g7924]

Addiction is also a disease…

[@starlettawilliams93]

@g7924 yes it is

[@itsquitab]

We did not appreciate this time in reality TV like we should have bc it was real and raw. The actual stars were not TRYING to do the most...they were just being themselves and sometimes that was more than enough.

[@CandidlyToni]

Man I remember this. Newfie was so upset with Keyshia. Keyshia just wanted to help and keep everybody together. That second album was the shyt. I know I brought it. It’s sad Frankie couldn’t get away from her demons.

[@ChristalJ]

Neffie was toxic but I feel like she was misunderstood and felt unheard. People hate the sound of black women screaming and being loud but don’t want to understand the reasoning behind it.

[@mskweenie860]

That’s true

[@Kmoney-u2t]

Imma be honest regardless of ethnic background no one can effectively understand how you are expressing yourself when you are screaming and yelling as a means to convey yourself . It just ends up sounding like low vibrational noise. Some of us go numb to that kind of expression we stop listening and get into fight mood

[@Freedomofspeechisajoke]

@@Kmoney-u2tFacts

[@jennzifur]

You are the real MVP for this research and work!!! ❤❤ I hope the family is doing better and Frankie is resting easy.

[@luvmelonqtym]

Please post the full episodes 💜 It was entertainment almost 20 years ago, but today talking about generational trauma is no longer taboo in the black community. I would love to reevaluate and take a note or two (.) R.I.P Frankie- you were the first OG reality mom we all grew to accept and love.

[@sashazor3o]

THIS!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@GrapeTeaNews]

Keyshia Cole family was hot azz mess 😂

[@MsBinnyb]

It was sad more than anything

[@RtistiqSkubie]

​@@MsBinnybbut at least it was a REAL reality show

[@louveniawilliast9178]

A hot azz mess. Especially Neffie

[@Tia.0721]

I use to watch this show religiously. I tuned out of the Frankie & Neffie show though. This video is so nostalgic and is bringing back so many memories!

[@tash8492]

Let's not act like Keyshia wasn't holding it down for the 2000's too!! Besides MJB, everybody was biting them hairstyles Keyshia had as well. She's not only a great artist, she's a trend setter and deserved her success. She really got it out the mud. Give her all her flowers 💐

[@louveniawilliast9178]

Yes I always use to get my hair like Keyshia 😂. I wanted to be just like her. Her family life reminded me of mines so much

[@loveangelmusicbaby444]

keyshia was that GIRL! hands down 💋

[@Tia.0721]

I loved the show, but Neffie was A LOT! Like, ALL THE TIME! Between the excessive drinking and fighting with everyone, watching her was draining. It also kinda felt like she was happy for Keyshia, but a little jealous over her success; yet protective over her almost possessively.

[@user9o777laont]

Possessive of her probably due to abandonment issues or to show others around them that she’s connected to someone important. Someone famous.

[@geraldmccray3301]

She’s always been drop dead GORGEOUS!!

[@TeeNoir]

Would love to see you cover Fantasia's family reality show too! (assuming that wasn't a fever dream)

[@caughtmeontheflip]

No i used to watch that too at my braiders house

[@millicentsdeen]

I love how this recap was posted on Frankie’s birthday 🤍🕊️

[@Mjohnson3030]

Neffe made tv history with all that crying she did. Her best quote was “And at the end of the day!” 😂😂😂

[@nnthomps]

That is still said a lot today. I always want to play a drinking game when I hear someone say it.🤣🍷

[@brianjones6721]

​@@nnthomps challenge accepted 😂😂🍺🍻

[@getdownorlaydown5193]

Oakland's finest 🎉 always town biz Keyshia!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤❤

[@naledi_mabee]

I’m BEGGING you to post the full episodes😭 maybe you could even do one a week 🥺🥺

[@wokerthanwokez]

Yess

[@bbrown333]

Whew! Takes me back to the good ole days of Crunk and Disorderly. Frankie and Neffie were CHARACTERS.

[@dahmthemodel]

Omg shoutout to the BOCKS! 😭

[@heboy7298]

Showing up to an event drunk, high and belligerent, then getting upset when people don’t want to be around you is manipulative.

[@Oncitas9]

Being from Oakland my mama was tuned into this show all the time it was so normalized the things she experienced in where we’re from my family grew up around hers it felt so real and raw. Rip frankie she had such a journey

[@Omnipresence2.0]

23:24 me when someone suggests French! dressing when you know DAMN WELL the store has ranch 😂😂

[@Silent_Butterflies]

Pls drop the episodes...this is one reality show that gives me nostalgia. I remember watching this with my mom when i was a little girl. To me this was the first celebrity "REAL" reality show

[@JulioDrewBlair]

One thing Keyshia did was take care of her family, and I love that for all of them. She literally did everything in her power to get them to be their best AT ANY COST and was the glue until she couldn’t be anymore.

[@kailynnlabeaud4815]

I remember my first time listening to Keyshia Cole. I was nine years old, traveling from New Orleans to Georgia during hurricane katrina in 2005 ! I’m now 28 . Loved her so much then and love her so much now. Thank you so much for uploading this.! She will always be an icon 🫶🏽

[@yas3288]

I remember these episodes like it was yesterday 😢. Time is flying by!

[@nateshasanders8974]

Keshia helped me through one of my many break up with my now husband of 20 years ❤

[@nateshasanders8974]

OK

[@glassawata]

Sis...

[@rya0007]

I had to re read this a few times lml

[@j3kkkkk]

@@rya0007and me!😵‍💫

[@sashazor3o]

​@@rya0007😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tamekaholoman3163]

Yes please upload episodes. I loved the show the best reality show.

[@ChickenxBoneless]

We were glued to the TV for this. It was so dramatic, but so real about how some families are.

[@CamiCola]

This show made me fall in love with reality tv ❤

[@urbanrealism237]

I been WAITING for someone to finally make a deep dive video on this show & family dynamic

[@CLTRUnfiltered]

Vividly remember this show . Omg, it was so raw & real, a lil too real 😭😭😭

[@amberreed7704]

So I’m only 15 minutes into this video and hearing Keyshia tell her story has me tearing up. As a person who didn’t watch this show back in the day, and just knows it from clips and memes, I can’t wait to see how it devolved from this touching story to a mess of epic proportions.

[@shemeka433]

Omg please please please post the full episodes 🙏🏽 😭 a lot of people are wanting to watch this and can't find it anywhere so you would be the real mvp if you post those

[@ninosmith6546]

Keyshia was THAT GIRL ❤! I ❤️ her music until this day! Thanks so much for this Video! Please post all the Episodes! RIP to KC Mom 🙏. Shout out to the rest of KC Family & Friends for this Iconic Reality TV Show!

[@ChristalJ]

Awwww the end edit of Frankie with her angel wings 🥺🫶🏼🙏🏽🕊️ rest her soul peacefully

[@BlasianBobbi215]

This show was the first time I saw Frankie, and I disliked her IMMENSELY almost instantly. I’ll never forget the scene where Frankie was getting her hair done (that Keyshia paid for), and she was crying to the stylist saying how Keyshia wouldnt allow her to do what she wanted to do, while living in Keyshia’s house at the time. Seriously, I’ll never forget that scene, because she goes “I can’t have a man over”, LIKE, WHAT?????? And alongside Manny, Keyshia’s financial advisor was also an unsung hero. Because there’s a scene in the first season where Keyshia was talking to her financial advisor about getting neffie and Frankie into their own place, and her financial advisor was professionally saying they (Frankie and neffie) can go F themselves, as SHE worked for that money, they can take care of themselves.

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

Keyshia Cole ,Mario , and neffe i can relate to them my mom is the same way smh it's hard dealing with addict parents no child should ever have to go through that it's just not fair

[@jabellatv3240]

One thing about Diddy he gonna make a hit and push an artist in that damn studio 😂😂😂

[@Ariana-bz1zk]

Which is why his pockets stayed successful.

[@g7924]

@@Ariana-bz1zkmostly not from music though

[@raventoocute3006]

I remember this came out when I was graduating high school.

[@LaLaKnight]

This video is making me cry like I’m watching the show all over again. Thank you for this.