Khaum Kiag 2 Lub Noob Vim Koj Siab Phem 7/05/24

[@PM-oe5mk]

Don't let your son bring his deadbeat father here to stay. The bio father and his wife will become your son's burden! Leave them living in Laos and your son can just occasionally send his rotten father a little money. Remember, it's more expensive to live in America, and therefore, it will cost a LOT of money for your son to take care of his bio father in America----cheaper to just send a $100/mo in my opinion. Don't let your son make the kind of mistake that will result in regrets because he WILL end up slaving for a bio father who never even wanted you and him in the first place! Your son doesn't owe his bio father anything, but OWES YOU EVERYTHING (you allowed him to live and raised him by yourself) so you have every right to express your decisions to him!

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

To the mother: it’s not your life, it’s your daughter’s life. Accept what you can’t control. Don’t stress yourself out. Life is much better when you accept and embrace change. Support and love your daughter.

[@MrsKervang]

To the mom with the gay daughter, it is better to accept her as is than to lose a relationship of a lifetime. Give yourself time. You lost the daughter that you dreamed of, and it is normal to mourn the change. Start practicing to live with acceptance. I wish you both the best!

[@user-vb9xw7rt3k]

I am so happy for my niece and her partner which’s her fiancé now and they’re getting married this fall. I’m super excited to attend and make new memories. I love her so much and still she’s my favorite’s’. You’re not alone. Think of all others parents that may have similar issues with their daughters or sons. Have the best relationship and time with her while you can and don’t hold anything back. Love her just way she is❤❤you both need each other!

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

I agree with this reply that the mother should accept her daughter’s lifestyle and be happy that she still has daughter.

[@lueherr8007]

To all the Hmong parents, why we keep blaming our daughters/sons, we should turn around and ask ourselves instead. Our children, gays/lesbians, have no choice to choose to be born. Can you?

[@user-uc3ng8do8w]

​@lueherr8007 they didn't choose to be born gender but they choose to be gay

[@amazinggrace8136]

@@lueherr8007men are born to like and be attracted to pretty women, does that mean they can go around committing adultery and marry multiple women? They are born that way aren’t they?

[@PajTswb]

Love is love. Is a pill hard to swallow for older generations but you gonna have to accept if you love your daughter care about her happiness.

[@corathoj3016]

No, don’t let him come.

[@brandonblaine7585]

Agree

[@menoogdejdawbxyooj9166]

#2 story txhob tos tuaj nawb nws rov yuav kj tus tub vim nws tsi muaj lawm xwb,yog nws muaj ces nws twb tsi k txg neb ib niam tub lawm os

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Agree do not bring this man to USA. Your son can visit him in Laos 🇱🇦.

[@maix139]

fr...let him live with his karma

[@trullieyeah2687]

To the mom: love and accept your daughter and her lover. Don't judge them and don't hate them. Consider you gaining a daughter too. I'm sure they will give you lots of love in return. Txhob xav lub siab qub2 xyoo 75 lawm. Tiam 21 lawm es peb cov laus yuav tau hloov thiab nawb mog. Tsam lawv khiav tag ces koj haj yam mob siab kho siab nawb. Txhob txiav kev hlub tsam lawv tuag ces koj ho khuv xim ces lig2.

[@harmonyolivia8494]

Story 1.. just accept your daughter decision. Just love them whether you approve or not. You dont want to ruin your relationship with your daughter just cause you dont approve of her choice. At the end of the day, she is still your daughter. Love and respect her partner like you would have done if it's a guy. You are gonna get a lot of love return from them if u just accept, and you are gonna be a lot happier, too. You dont want to create a bad relationship just cause of that. If your daughter is happy, then be happy for her. We as parents want our children to be happy in whatever they choose and do, so they want to live long with us and not put stress or guilt on them. I really hope that you can accept her and her partner and build a new relationship with them, then lose them .

[@mayalee2400]

Naim tais aw, peb nyob mekas teb no kawm, koj tsis txhais koj tus txhias,ces koj yeej tsis pom koj tus txhias tag mus ib txhim lawm os mog..tsis muaj ib leej tug yuav xav yug los zoo li koj tus txhias os mog, lub ntuj tso nws los lub siab nyiam li nws nyiam os mog, koj ua naim lawm,ua siab ntev ,kav tsij ua ib leej naim kom zoo rau koj tus txhias es koj los nej tsev neeg thaij li muaj kev kajsiab os mog.

[@kondiminoi4333]

Tus viv ncaus ua muaj tus ntxhais nyiam poj niam, siab loj thiab os mog. Kuv Los muaj ib tug ntxhais nyiam poj niam li koj tus thiab, kuv paub koj txoj kev xav, kev nyuam siab li cas lawm. Taum is kuv tus qhias rau peb li 5 xyoo dhaus los kuv kuj laj txhais kawg tabsi koj yuav tau xav li no. Lub neej no yog nws lub, nws muaj kev xaiv tus nws hlub nws nyiab, koj yeej xav kom nws muaj neej mus yuav txiv muaj xeeb tswv rau koj tabsi nws tsis xav li ntawv. Yog koj hlub koj yus me nyuam ces koj yuav tsum xav kev dav tsuas yog koj tus me myuam muaj kev sib hlub kev zoo siab kev kaj siab xwb. Nws nyiam poj niam xwb zoo dua ua yus tus me nyuam tuag no. Qib koj lub siab txhais tom ces koj yuav tsis muaj qhov xav cim/tsis txhais tos li lawm, xav thiab nws lub neej xwb tsis yog koj lub. Kuv tus ntxhais nas, twb tsis qhias lossi invite peb mus rau nws lub wedding tos peb paub ces twb sib yuav tas lawm xwb. Siab loj thiab os mog.

[@maiseeglinski]

A mother's true love is wholeheartedly accept of her child for who they are. Despite her being gay, she is a wonderful person with a successful career. ❤

[@chuvang5487]

Raws li peb cov tuaj mloog koj zaj neej neeg mas qhov zoo tshaj rau koj thiab koj tus me tub ces txhob tos niag pob zeb siab phem ntawd tuaj rau tebchaws no cia nws nyob nws tim nplog thiab txhob cia tus me nyuam ris nws txiv lub xeem lawm. Yav tas ces cia dhau mus tsis txhob muab rub rov qab los rau tagkis nws tsis muaj tus nuj nqis dabtsi zoo rau koj thiab koj tus tub neb lawm, yog tsis muaj koj tus txiv Hmoob mékas no los rub neb ob niam tub tes ces neb twb tsis muaj lub neej li hnub no yog yuav hlub ces hlub tus muaj txiaj ntsim rau yus xwb thiaj li tsis muaj txojkev khaum kev npam. Yav tas los lawm ces cia muab hnov qab mus nej thiab peb sawvdaws yeej paub zoo hmoob nplog lub maib yuav ua li cas thiaj tau noj ? Yam twg uas luag tau ua mob koj los lawm tsis txhob ua lub siab muag rau lawv tej lus mos lus muag yuav dag ntxias koj vim koj txojkev ruam thiaj li qaug lawv quav zaum tas zaum tuaj mas lawv muab koj saib qis dhau lawm. Peb ua neeg nyob yus tsuas ua zoo rau tus hlub yus xwb, tus ua phem rau yus los dua lawm cia khaws tseg ua kev kawm kom yus ntse tuaj tsis txhob ruam li qub lawm.

[@nengthao8318]

Tus me viv ncaus ntawm zaj lus nug. Yog koj hlub koj tus me ntxhais ces kawg zoo siab txais tos li koj tus me ntxhais nyiam xwb os mog. Zoo dua li tsis muaj yus tus me nyuam lawm nawb. Lub neej niam no ces peb yuav tau hloov mus yoog tej me nyuam tsis txhob txaj muag li twb tsis yog yus tus me nyuam ib leeg thiaj nyiam li ntawd xwb muab xav rau cov nyiam li ntawd thiab es zoo nrog koj tus me ntxhais os nawb.

[@musibsim2151]

Tsis pom zoo tos nawb siab phem li ntawv cia nws mob siab kom txaus

[@meemeeh33]

Question 1: Txhob txhawj xeeb os tus niam tais. Hlub koj tus kheej. Tiam no yog 21 lawm. Qhib koj lub siab es txais tos koj tus ntxhais thiab nws tus hlub. Teb zaum, koj tus ntxhais thiab nws tus hlub yuav hlub koj tshaj thiab los tsis paub nawb. Xav hais tias koj tau ib tug ntxhais ntxiv lawm xwb. Tsis txhob txaj muag. Yeej muaj tub ntxhais zoo li kom tam sim no lawm los yog lawv zoo siab ces nrog lawv zoo siab xwb. Cia lawv nrhiav tus lawv nyiam es ua neej thiaj sib hlub, zoo dua mus yuav txiv tabsis tsis sib hlub, sib cav sib ceg, sib ntaus txhua hnub. Tsis txhob muab xav ntau ntau, ua rau koj muaj mob. Muaj mob ces tsis muaj leegtwg xav saib xyuas, tuag ces kawg pam peb hnub xwb. Peb txhua tus, ua neeg nyob txoj sia tseem ceeb heev, yuav tau hlub tus kheej. Koj tus ntxhais rov yuav ib tug poj niam twb tsis yog ib qhov phem phem thiab. Yog tias yam phem phem ma, thiaj tsim nyog chim os.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

Sister Jenny, if you're going to start doing a question time with people's questions, can you please do a separate channel like Mab Vaj has? I just want to listen to stories. If I want to listen to questions, I'd rather listen and answer on a separate channel. I also think the story owners may appreciate this too.

[@hthor1825]

If u don’t like just skip. Let Jenny do what’s easier and convenient for her!

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

@@hthor1825 that's fine and all but I thought if you skip then the channel owner doesn't get paid. That's my understanding. That's why I'd rather have her do another channel so I don't have to skip. So DO YOU KNOW or not? Tell me please!

[@yangthao5242]

Love the comments. It's what we are here for. 🙂. Topic 1: Partner Preference - I think, intimacy in love is not really a choice but can be impacted by environment. It is a natural gravitation that reside deep within a person and most know this by adolescent age. To hold relationships better, parents should openly talk about it when children start becoming aware of serious friendships. It is the first sign that they are showing deeper friendship relations and may be ready for the decision and understanding. Talk to each other and don't assume. Knowing and accepting is the first step to a wonderful relationship into the future. Topic 2: Emojis or the proper us of them - yes, please use the correct ones. Using the wrong one can send the wrong impression and can confuse the reader. Remember, you want people to understand you, so clear and accurate. Take a little to make sure that it is really what you want to display, and the little time taken could also be a great way for you gain more insight into your own thoughts. 🙂 On the main story, please be respectful of unfortunate natural causes. Somethings we can predict or prepare for. These are the real tragedies and compassion should be given.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

No. Do not let your son do it. He has no kids besides your son. That means when he die, its all on your son. Be smart about it.

[@diannaxiong693]

Zoo siab nrog koj thiab zam txim vim thaum ntawd ob leeg yeej zoo siab ib yam nkauj tsi muaj dabtsi los pauv tau li ces zam txim thiab cia lawv tig los sib hlub thiab es yeej yog nws li kab lawm thiab os tus niam tsev hmoob...Txaj muag tsi txaj los twb txaj muag tag thaum ub lawm ces cia rau nws thiab tus tub nkawv rov los sib hlub thiab zoo os.

[@minecraftboy2676]

Sister, it is better to accept her than losing her forever. It is good to see and be happy for her. You can not change the facts that she is the way she is. So sorry, sister. Life is full of surprises nowadays, you just have to change and accept it with time.

[@mzvue1979]

To the mom with the daughter at the beginning of the story: Times have changed. Our traditional way of thinking is not always right. Keep the good things of our culture and let go of the bad. As a parent, what is most important for me is to know that my child is happy and healthy regardless of their sexual preference. A daughter-in-law can give you just as much love (if not more) as a son in law. I feel that once you accept the situation of your daughter, you too can find happiness and solace within yourself. Good luck. Wish you and your family nothing but the best. To the Mom in the story: what you went through at such a young age is so sad and traumatizing. You have every right to feel the way that you do. One can forgive but can never forget. Allow your son to have a relationship with his dad BUT I personally would not help bring him over. People who are ungrateful will always be ungrateful and it is these kinds of people that you want to stay clear of. They do more harm than good.

[@maix139]

true

[@ellasong6373]

Is Pob Zeb visiting or staying? It's not easy to bring someone like him here as he's a liability. It doesn't sound like any of you is closed to him so I'd say NO. Please update us if he comes to the US, relationship of him & your son.

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly!

[@stephaniecooper7371]

Tsis txhob tos tuaj nawb. Tsis zoo rau Koj o

[@yajliabcuam5609]

Cov me kwv tij hmoob me niam tsev aw ua neej tiam no ces xav tsis nrog xav yog koj xav ntau thiab ntshaw ntau ces koj mob strok koj tus kheej xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tsis tas li los koj yuav tsum muaj plan 1 2 and 3 for your life live in the United States no nawv peb cov niam txiv tiam tam sis no nawv tus niam tsev aw nco ntsoov kom koj tau burger no xwb mas nawv txhob txhawj22 txog tej niag me nyuam uas kawm txawj xwb tsis ntshe no nawv. Tos kuv hais li no los txij thaum xyoo 2000 los no ces kev khaum ces ua hnub no khaum hnub no tsis tos lwm tiag lawm nawv.kuv zaj lus no hais rau tus niam tsev muaj ntxhais poj niam yuav poj niam nawv.

[@suethao9507]

Tus muam zaj thib 1 na. Koj thiab koj tsev neeg tseem poob qab deb os. Koj nyuam qhuav muaj Ntxhais es rov qam nyiam poj niam tam sim no xwb? Peb twb muaj tub rov qab nyiam txiv neej hos Ntxhais rov qab nyiam poj niam twb yuav tau 20 lub xyoo los ni lawm os. Ua siab loj, nov yog tiam 21 txheeb neeg lawm. Tus muam uas zaj thib 2. Muaj ib txhia twb tsis yog lawv tso lub emoji xwb hos lawv thaij duab in front kiag ntawm lub hleb thaum tseem nyob hauv tsev txias lawv tseem luag rua ncauj loj li loj na. Yeej tsis thwj toob li lawm vim yus tus neeg tuag dai ncuv tab sis thaij duab mas di ncauj tsis vov hniav li. Sorry no comment for the 3rd story but just don’t mess around with peb cov muam thiab Ntxhais Hmoob Thoj ntxiv lawm nawb.

[@YeeXiong-nh3de]

Nws muaj mob li ntawd lawm yog tos tuaj ces koj tus tub nyab yuav haj yam poob nyiaj ntau xwb thiab muab tos tuaj tsam nws tau zoo ces nws tsi yog tuaj nyob zoo nws yuav rhuav nej cov neej es qhov zoo tshaj ces cia nws txiv nyob tim ub es yus muaj li cas yus mam hlub li ntawd xwb txhob muab hlub tshaj tshaj ua li luag hais yug nab tsam lwm hnub hnav loj nab rov tom yus os es txhob pub tos tuaj vim twb tsi lees paub thiab twb tsi hlub neb ob niam tub cia nws nyob nws tim ub es tub nyab muaj li cas lis hlub li yus hlub tau xwb mog

[@melissaxiong6992]

Tsi pom zoo tos, txhob tos nawb yog nws yuav koj es sib. Rauj xwb ces tos mas tab si nws yog hluas nraug xwb ces tsi txhob tos😊

[@noumoua162]

Tus txiv pob zeb mas tsi Tsim nyog tos tuaj rau teb chaws mekas. Nws siab phem dlau heev. Yog nws yog ib tus txivneej hlub poj niam, nws yeej tsi cia tus niam tsev yug me nyuam nws ib leeg. Kuv Thov qhuas tus me niam tsev muaj Pheev xwm heev. Ua tsaug rau koj txoj Kev hlub rau koj tus me nyuam os. Hlub koj Tshaj os..

[@appleblossom5894]

Please except your daughter 100%. Life is too short and you wouldn't want any regrets. A child wants nothing more than the love of their parents. The love you give will be the love you receive, but 100 times that.

[@cianavang233]

Tais aw.. tsis pom zoo tos li nawb

[@Family0168]

Sister txhob xav ntau os lub neej Tam si no peb ua niam ua txiv txwv tsis tau tej me nyuam lawm cia lawv xaiv tus lawv nyiam xwb thiaj xwb txawm yuav yog poj niam txiv neej los zoo siab nrog lawv lawm xwb os mog ❤

[@cheexiong1634]

Just love and support your daughter and live life. There is nothing you can do about it and just take care your health once you accept that then your in better health and less stress.

[@huahang5460]

Me viv ncaus, ua zoo hais koj txoj kev txom nyem ntawm mom kaum tsev rau koj tus tub mloog. Yog koj tus tub hlub koj ces txhob tos koj niag laus nraug Pob Zeb tuaj rau teb chats no lawm. Nws tsim koj ib zaug txaus lawm, tsis pub muaj zaum 2 no los mas. Oh Ntuj, yeej muaj qhov muag tiag. Pob zeb, siab them, thiaj raug ntuj lem lawn nawj.

[@XyoojVaj-q3c]

Txhob pub tos tuaj os tus me viv ncaus

[@Keosisombath-pr7ye]

Q#1. You have to accept your child the way she is. My brother he told my parents he is gay and he has boyfriend my parents felt the same way but we told my parents is his future let him be and give him loves. Now my parents accepted we still love ours brother and his boyfriend. They married for 10 years and still together now. Loves them she is your child

[@NiamTxawjXav]

Q#1. Tus sister, it’s very hard for us as parents to accept what your daughter is doing. However, in these days and society, it’s the norm. We don’t like it but we will have to accept it because it’s a fact. Kuv yeej paub tias yeej nyuab2 rau koj kawg li mog tab sis peb yug tau lub cev peb yug tsis tau lawv lub siab thiab txoj kev xaiv. Yog li koj chim siab npaum twg los learn to let go on. The most important thing is your health and well being. Tsis yog koj tus ntxhais xwb thiab li xsiv txoj kev no. Ntawm peb cov hmoob yeej muaj coob leej ntaus tus yog li no ua siab loj es hlub koj tus kheej nawb. Txhob xav txog kev txaj muag poob ntsej myag. Xav thiab hlub koj tus kheej kom noj qab nyob zoo xwb vim we only live once. Let go of things we can’t control.

[@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597]

Mi viv ncaus aw tam sim no ces hais txog txoj kev li koj tus mi ntxhais ko ces txhob hais txog yuav zoo dua lawm os mog. Lub ntiaj teb no ces pauv tag lawm os mog. Tsis yog koj xwb muaj coob2 heev os mog. Kavliam lawm xwb os mog.

[@GSVangVideos]

Topic #2: Some people especially oversea people use the laughing emoji as a crying emoji. Why? Idk but they do. They use it to show how realistically ugly you look when you cry with your mouth looking like that.

[@sialor4687]

Lawv twb tsis yuav Koj thaum koj txom nyiam thiab twb kho tas lawm ces cia tas mus. Nyiam ua nyiam neej zoo dua mas. Yog Nws zoo ces Nws twb tsis tig rov saib neb 2 niam tub lawm os.

[@zouayang815]

To the Q#2. Tsi txhob to tu txiv pob zeb tuaj meskas teb tug neeg siab phem no tsi txhob k txog nws yog nws muaj tau me nyuam ces neb ob niam tub nws twb tsi k xav paub tia koj tu tub yog nws tu me nyuam li os.

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Peb cov mi nyuam uas tuaj yug rau Mekas no ces lam kawm ntawv siab2 tiamsis lawv lub hlwb cia yoog Mekas, xav li Mekas, cia li ua lub neej ywj siab, ....tibneeg lam ntshaw2 ua lub neej ywj siab xwb, Vajtswv yawm saib tsis pom zoo li tibneeg nyiam, txawm tias noob neej yuav ua ntau yam Kev phem los Vajtswv yuav rau txim vim Vajtswv tsuas tsim Tus pojniam rau txiv neej xwb,,,pojniam yuav pojniam txiv neej, tsis kav ntev, plaub qaib yeej tsis ciaj ncaig.

[@khotsev]

#2. Cia drama nyob drama tim blog. Txhob tos drama tuaj meskas.

[@Shoua608]

#1 to the sister with the gay daughter: I understand it is very difficult and heartbreaking to find out your child is gay. I have a gay daughter too. Know that being gay is not a choice and your daughter did not choose to be gay. Koj txawm tsis txais tos koj tus ntxhais thiab nws tus hlub los nkawd yeej yuav nyob ua ke. koj tus ntxhais yuav mus deb zuj zus ntawm koj lawm xwb yog koj tsis txais tos. Accept your daughter the way she is. It’s better to have her in your life than to loose your daughter. It is not easy but time will make it better.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

To the sister of the story. Do not bring him over! It would be a big mistake. Don’t have a soft spot for this man that abandoned you and your son. Now that your son benefits him he sees your son. Don’t bring stress to your son’s life.

[@seexyooj9274]

Tsis pub hlo li os thaum tus me nyuam tseem yog lub dej txog ncua muaj 7,8 lub xyoo nws twb tsis lees txog ncua thaum nws lub neej tsis zoo. hnub no tseem paub tias yuav vam tus me nyuam hlub thiab.tsis pub li os.

[@chiliayang5832]

Viv ncaus pab koj zoo siab kawg npam koj tus hluas nraug loj kawg vim nws saib tsis taus koj nes cov txiv neej siab phem ntau tus yeej npam li koj kawg nrog koj zoo siab os

[@noumoua162]

Thov hais rau tus niam tsev tus me ntxhais Yog gay. Thov zam zam rau koj tus me ntxhais os. Thov koj txais nws tus hlub nrog rau koj tus me ntxhais. Koj tus ntxhais neb lub neej tseem ntev2 os. Sib2 hlub os sib hawm luv2 os.

[@ItsYou2]

Teb #1: koj nyaim thiab tsi nyiam los yuav tau leej txais. Koj yuas hloov tsi tau nws lub siab os. Yee ua tau ces nws yuav khia koj mus. Yee ua ntau ib tsa nws nyuaj siab es mu tua nws tu kheej. Thau ntawd koj hos ua quaj thiab khuv xi os....

[@saivang-provenzano518]

The mom of the gay daughter: niam tais aw...txhob nyuaj siab os mog...You're not the only one who goes thru this. Im sure alot of parents out there go thru the same situation, especially Hmong. Kuv tsev neeg kuj muaj li no thiab os. Kuv muaj 8 tug viv ncaus, 1 tug nus xwb tabsi kuv tus nus yog ib tug gay thiab. Thaum kuv tus nus qhia kuv niam, kuv txiv nkawv tias nws tsis yuav poj miam vim nws nyiam txiv neej xwb no mas kuv txiv quaj tau ib vas thiv nkaus. Kuv txiv tias kuv txiv yuav mus dai tuag no tabsi tau ob peb xyoos tom qab no kuv txiv kuj ua ib siab lawm thiab os... It will take a lot of time for you to learn to accept her. It's hard, but no matter who she is, she loves you regardless. Please remember that she is gay, but this is not a crime. She is a great person. She stills the daughter you have raised and love. 41:54

[@xeevang3907]

Lub ntsej muag tas lauv uas ua 2 lub kua muag luag luag ko ces feem ntau yog Hmoob Nplog/ Hmoob Thaib lawv siv, ib txhia yog cov Hmoob Meskas feem laus siv yuam kev ntau2 zaus kawg. Kuv ntseeg tias lawv tsis ua zoo siab los sis tsis paub. The wronged laughing in tears emoji is mostly misused by Hmong Laos/Hmong Thai and older Hmong Meskas folks. I agreed with the niam tsev suggesting that it doesn't look good putting the wronged emoji in a sad msg.

[@yeevue7322]

Seb koj puas xav ntsib nws thiab, yog xav ces yes, hos tsis xav ces no xwb, yog kuv nas.

[@hlubyang4072]

#2....koj tu tub puas yog neeg...koj tu tub puas muaj siab ntsws...yog nws muaj tub ki nws puas nug koj tu tub...nws poob noob lawm nws thiaj li nug moo xwb...koj tu tub ces zoo li tawb quav uas nws tso pov tseg xwb na...yog koj tu tub hlub koj ces nws tsis tos tuaj li nawb...thaum neb 2 niam tub yuav tuag nws puas hlub neb.

[@user-cm8vt7bt1x]

Me niam tais kuv zoo siab tias koj muaj 2 tus ntxhais yuav los hlub koj xwb os mog. Es koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau nws yam nws xav tau mog ib tiam neeg xwb yam nws txaus siab cia rau nwb thiaj xav ua neeg mos.

[@kuab50]

Kav Liam mas me niam tsev hmoob! Cia koj tus tub Kaus tos nws tuaj saib nws puas xaam phaj tuaj tau os.

[@phem55]

Rau tus vivncaus tus ntxhais mus yuav ib tug pojniam: yeej tsis tsim nyog peb cov menyuam ua li no…kavliam os mog tsis kav ntev os…lawv uali lawv siab nyiam xwb, as a mother just love and take care yourself don’t worry about them…one day they will realize how wrong they have been

[@moovsib1858]

No no no tsis pub tos me ntxhais nws yuav tuaj nws mam ntiav nws lwm txoj kev tuaj xwb os ua phem li ntawv yog tuaj nyob ib lub teb chaw yeej muaj ib zaug ntsib pom li os nyias nyob nyias ib sab ntuj thiaj tsis sib pom

[@naoxiong2557]

Nyob zoo os muam Pajxyoob koj tus hluas nraug tsis yog neeg zoo txhob pub tos nws tuaj rau Meskas li yog nws tau lub neej zoo lawm ces nws yeej tsis lees paub koj tus me tub kiag txhob xav txog nws lawm os. 5. 7. 24.

[@hlixyooj8179]

Sis, yus hlub yus me nyuam ces kawg 100% yuav tau txais tos xwb. Pab tsis tau lawm ne. Koj yim txwm nws yim mus Deb. Hnub no koj noj qab nyob zoo koj xav tias txiav nws tawm tus nhro los, ib hnub koj noj tsis qab nyob tsis zoo ces koj siav yuav tu tsis tu vim tseem tos nws tuaj saib koj zaum kawg.

[@taryang]

Kuv tus tub tham hluas nkauj dub xwb los kuv yeej txais tsis tau vim peb yog hmoob. Hluas nkauj coob li coob ua cas ho mus nyiam pog dub. Kuv tus tub siab 6.1ft kuv yeej hais tias cas yuav nkim zog tu nws tau 30 xyoo. Chim siab tu siab kawg li os vim kuv muaj 2 tug tub xwb.

[@maix139]

First question: It sucks to you but her happiness comes first. You don't have to accept it but just don't disrespect her. Just know that this country is freedom so they can choose to love whoever they want. Just make sure they respect you not liking it and don't display affection in front of you in case you end up in the hospital again. In the end, it's her life bc you won't be with her forever. And also rest assured not all marriages last forever...it's something I have to accept as well. Maybe later she might change her mind and go back to a man. Not all marriages (man or woman) last forever li os even with kids or even when you think your life is complete. Txhob muab xav rau qhov phem es tiaj tsis nyuaj siab os. And don't worry too much about her take better care of yourself. Second question: No I do not agree that he deserves to come to America. Now he is worried about old age so he need your son and nyab to take care of him. But did he take care of your son when he was a new born? If he wants to come then have his relatives in America bring him over. Since they were so cocky. If not then your son don't owe him anything. Your son can love him but he have to find a way to come himself. That's only fair to how he treated you and your son.

[@user-sf2bw9xt6w]

#1 if you surely love your daughter let her be happy. Her happiness is more important than your shame plus you shouldn’t be a shame you should think about your ignorance.

[@yajliabcuam5609]

Hos hais txog tus txiv neej khaum noob no ces tsis yeem pub koj tus tub tos nws tuaj kiag nawv yog tseem cia tos nws tuaj thiab ces pauj tsis tau koj txoj mi kev nyob nruab hlis es tsis muaj tus txiv los nrog tu kiag li nawv yus yeej lawm ces cia yeej txhob ua niag hle ris zuj zuav li koj ko nawv yog koj cia koj tus tub tos nws tuaj thiab ces koj swb kiag thaum pib txog thaum xaus nawv tus mi poj hmoob aw.

[@hlubyang4072]

#2...yog kuv ces txiav kiag tsis pub tos...yog tu tub tsis xav tau lus phem ces nyob zoo zoo xwb os no yog kuv kev xav....Tab sis kom koj tu tub yuav tsum xav tias koj lub meej mom ntsej muag poob tag txawm lawv yuav kho nyiaj lo yeej ntxuav tsis tau..koj tu tub yuav tsum txawj tu siab thiab yog nws muaj noob ces koj tu tub yeej tsis tau kev hlub li nawb...nws poob noob lawm es lam hlub xwb os...yog koj tu tub tsis tsim txiaj mas lawv tseem yuav hais tias twb yog zoo kawg uas lawv tsis yuav neb no hos...tuaj nyob mes kas es lawv thiaj li nav nav nws xwb nawb...

[@nengthao8318]

Tus niam tsev paj xyoob, yog tias kuv yog koj no kuv tsis kam ov. Tus txiv neej ntawd yog nws yug muaj ib co ces nws twb tsis tig pob tw ncaj koj tus me tub lawm na. Twb vim nws khaum nws yug tsis muaj ib tug nws thiaj ua txuj tuaj lees koj tus xwb. Yus yog leej niam yus yuav tsum tiv thaiv yus tus me nyuam tsis txhob tso rau luag teb luag chaws txiav txim. Yog koj cia luag teb chaws txiav txim ces koj yuav yuam kev. Koj twb muab koj tus tub tsa cuab tsa yim tag es koj tseem cia tos niag thaub ntawd tuaj noj koj tus me nyuam zog tuaj ua teeb meem rau koj tus me nyuam ris. Ua zoo tsam lwm hnub koj tus me txiv hlub hlub koj ntawm ko muab koj tso pov tseg los vim yog koj niag hluas nraug siab phem ntawd rov tuaj ua mob koj tus txiv siab nawb. Yog koj cia tos tuaj ces yeej yuav muaj kev ntxhov siab ib hnub twg xwb xwb. Vim koj yeej yuav txiav tsis tau koj tus tub koj pheej yuav mus ntoj mus thuv ces koj tus txiv yuav mob siab. Nws twb rhuav koj ib zaug lawm koj tsis tu siab los cas koj tseem yuav cia tus me nyuam tos nws tuaj rhuav koj dua zaum 2 thiab. Koj niam koj txiv lawv nyob tim ub lawv tseem ruam li cov niag thaum ub koj twb tuaj nyob meskas lawm koj tseem mloog lawv hais thiab ces koj tseem yuav plam koj lub neej ziag no ntxiv dua nawb. Niag thaub mtawd tuaj teb chaws no ua dab tsi naw? Tsis yog tuaj yuav koj ces tsis muaj qab hau rau nws tuaj li os. Kuv hais li kuv kev xam pom xwb

[@dub2465]

Second story: don’t let ur son sponsor him over. He doesn’t deserve it. It’s good enough what he’s getting now. I wouldn’t have given him anything!

[@diannaxiong693]

Peb ua ib tus ntxhais tsi txhob yooj yim mog luag lam so ko taw es zoo ua neej nyob xwb...Txiv neej mas yog lawv nyiam koj tiag tiag mas ua txhua tsav txhua yam rau yus li nawb cov poj niam hmoob aw.

[@michaelchang4121]

Rau kuv ces txhob tos nawb

[@chevangchannel7425]

Koj niam aw.. sij hawm no ces peb tsis paub ua li cas li os kav tsij lees txais xwb os mog

[@leeyang26]

No, tsis tos leej Txiv tuaj li. Yog nws ua neej zoo ces nws tsis quav ntsej txog tus tub no. Nws xav tau kev hlub thaum nws kev tws xwb. Tsis tos.

[@hlh9393]

Txhob tos niag txiv dev npam ntawv tuaj ua rau nej cov niam tub tseem sib ceg. Tuaj ces nej tseem yuav tau tam niag txiv dev thiab ov. Vim nws tsua paub nej xwb nes. Cia txiv dev tuag rhab ceg kug Tim nplog. Yog nws lub neej ci tsam iab ces nej txhob vam nws yuav nav nej nawb. Teebmeem twb tag lawm mas cia tag mus . nyias nyob nyias koj tsis tshuav nws nqi. Koj tus tub los niag txiv dev yeej tsis yuav thaum pib.. tam sim no ces yuav tuag ces yog tuaj kaus xwb

[@ItsYou2]

No sister hais kos txhob tos nawb. Ua li kos siab tsi tau koj tu txiv os. Luag lam hias tos tsi ua cas tabsi yog lam hais kom koj tu tub txhob tu siab. Neb 2 leeg tsi tshuas niag ntawd qi es ua cas neb hos yuav to nws tuaj. Ua li neb ua mas tsi zoo siab kiag, luag tseem yuav hais tias nej 3 leeg koom siab dag kom tau tuaj meka los yog koj rau muaj siab rau niag dev ntawd....

[@mosvaj1385]

Tus sister aw, kuv nkag siab koj zoo os. Cov minyuam tiam no vwm / npab xwb os Yus yeej tsis muab ntshav gay li os, hais tsis tau lawv li os kuv cov los 30 xyoo tsis nrhiav neej ua Kuv hais lawv ces lawv hais kuv thiab nrog kuv sib ceg xwb. Kuv tus no yeej tsis tau cav kuv niam kuv txiv li tabsis kuv cov ces Qhua qhia kuv cav kuv ces ntshe yog kuv npam Lis ua cas es kuv ces nyoo kiag tsis hais lawm vim yus yim Xav yim tu yus siab ces yuav ua mov rau yus li koj mog es hais tsis tau ces txhob hais es yus hlub yus xwb mog. Kuv cov mas tsis tau muaj qhov issue koj hais tabsis lawv mus hauj lwm 8 xun moo los ces Lis play game , tsis play game ces pw , nyob 1 hmos play game ces pw 1 Hnub. Tsis li ces tawm mus koom phooj twg xwb tsis paub pab yus, tsis hlub yus, yus es muaj mob , laus lawm yus hais kom tsim txiaj los nrhiav kom muaj neej los PIB lub neej es kom yus twb laus tag lawm es kom yus pom lawv muaj neej , kom yus pom yus tej xeeb ntxwv ua ntej yus tuag thiab tshwj xeeb kom lawv los mus nrog luag teb luag chaw khwv kom yus lub neej nrog luag muaj nyiaj muaj txiaj los yus hais lawv tsis Xav hnov yus tej lus Nruas lawv, hais lawv. Lawv tsis pom yus txoj kev ntshaw , lawm tseem nrog yus sib cav sib ceg tias yus tsis pom lawv txoj kev Xav thiab no ces txhob hais xwb os. Yus ces txhob cia siab kiag os. Yog yus tu siab ntau es ua mov rau yus vau hlo los lawv zoo siab xwb os.

[@susanxiong726]

Txhob to tuaj ntshe yuav zoo dua vim trauma sib twb g paub yu lu trauma kawg nw g muaj chaw ny law ce ma Lee's paub xwb tu neeg no siab phem hee yog nw muaj men yuav ntshe nw twb g Lee's paub kj tu tub li

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Tsis Kam TOS kiag li os sister aw CIA kom nws txom nyem kom txaus nawb yog tseem muab tod tuaj CES LAWV kuj zoo dhau Lawm NWS Twb Npam Lawm ntag hos, yog tseem muab tod tuaj CES NWS tsis Tau txais Kev Npam os, lawv Twb saib tsis taus yus es yus txom2 nyem npaum li Cas Twb yog lawv Niag tub Liam lawm es lawv thiaj li lees koj tus mi tub xwb tsis Kam tus mi tub kaus tos li yog tseem thiab yuav Siab koj tus mi txiv tooj Kam lawm nawb tsis tau tshuav nws nqi li os Nope never ever li os tsis tas yuav paub txog li lawm nawb🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@shongyangxiong3573]

Tsuav koj tus ntxhais tsis yuav kev zoo nyob es nws ho kam yuav txoj kev nyob zoo xwb los tsis ua li cas, hais tias kawm ntawv siab no tab sis ho mus xaiv kev noj qab nyob zoo xwb ntshe yog tsis tau mag txiv neej deev dua ib zaug li ces thiaj li tsis paub txoj kev sib ua zoo zoo nyob

[@macydruckrey9023]

Txhob tos tus neeg zoo li ntawd tuaj os vim nws yeej ua tsis tau dab tsi zoo rau koj tus me tub

[@xeevang3907]

Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no: txhob pub koj tus me tub tos nws txiv Pob Zeb tuaj rau Meskas nawb. Txhob cia koj tus me tub tshuav nws txiv nqi...luag twb tsis hlub tsis khuv xim neb 2leeg es thiaj tsim txom koj tus ua niam ntxaus2 tsis tag li tseem tsim nws tus me tub thaum yug los liab ntsha tsuas lub teb lub chaws twb saib tsis raus neb. Yog kuv ces tsis tas nug2 niag txiv dev ntawd moo li os. Qhov nws txiv thiab pog tuaj zeem ces tsuas kom nws paub nws txiv caj ces xwb, nws yeej tsis yog lawv dab qhuas lawm txhob ruam2 tsam mag them nqi rau ntus laus ntxiv thiab.

[@zongvue9018]

yog kv ces tsis pub tos kiag li kom nws txomnyem yog nes lub noob tsis plog niaj hnub no nws yeej tsis yees paub kj tus menyuam li os

[@maithao9030]

To the mother, just accept ur daughter as is because if u don’t then she going to leave u n go far away from u. Just to let u know my sister have one daughter is a police n she is the same as ur daughter n my brother-in-law is not but our whole family tell him to accept it n they going to get married this October. So u r not alone sister….

[@nouyang3166]

Tus niam tsev, txhob cia koj tus tub tos nws tuaj os. Yog nws muaj tub ki ces nws tsis tsis quav ntsej.

[@shouavang2156]

Hos hais rau tus niam tais muaj tus ntxhais mus nyiam poj niam peb cov laus yeej tsis xav kom muaj li nov tiam sis cas pees lawv nyiam lawm ces kav Liam mog Kuv tus niam laus twb muaj ib tug zoo li ntawv thiab thaum kawg tus ntxhais ntawv yog tus hlub nkawv xwb

[@mosvaj1385]

I’m glad you guys make them to apologize 👍

[@kuvxwb11]

Npam kiag rau txoj kev siab phem uas txais koj deev muaj me nyuam hos yuav tsis taus koj. Tsis txhob cia koj tus tub tos nws tuaj. Cia nws nyob nws tim nplog thiab txhob xa nyiaj mus pub rau nws. Cia kom nws txom nyem nws tsis tsim nyog tos nws tuaj.

[@nancyvang2126]

Tus niam tsev, koj tus ntxhais ces yeej poob rau ntuj tawg lawm. Koj nyob koj cias lub ntuj mam take care nawb mog. Koj tsis tas lee los yeej tsis ua cas, kav tsij kom nkawv muab $20 phav ua nqi zog rau koj.

[@douayang1435]

Tog tuaj ces kiav txhab yuav rov nti ov. Yog tus tub hlub los xa kis puav nyiaj mus pab xwb, luag twb yeem muab yus tso tseg ces yuav yuav tsum tso taus luag tseg thiab nawb.

[@shouavang2156]

Txhob tos nws txiv tuaj yim nyob teb chaws no yog tsis muaj txoj sia lawm ces yuav tag nyiaj ntau ntau thiab twb tsis tu thaum me thaum pog muaj neej zoo ces mam hlub xwb ces tsum

[@casesvang1262]

Tsis tos li vim nws tuaj ces neb laj sib ntias

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Thaum yau luag twb tsis lees tias yog luag tub,nim no yus tsis txhob lees los ua yus txiv & tsis txhob tos nkim nyiaj xwb os.

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

To the mother with the daughter: there’s nothing u can do but to accept it. I know it’s a very hard thing to do because I also have one child that’s like that. If you don’t learn to accept it, you will lose your daughter and you will be the one hurting. She is old enough and successful enough that she doesn’t need u anymore.

[@maichang3977]

Tsis Tos li os Kom me nyuam hais rau Tias thaum tus menyuam tuaj yeej teev tsis muaj nws es Tos tsis tau no xwb mas thaum yus txom nyem lawv twb tsis pawb yus na tseem Tos tuaj ua dab tsi

[@hx7161]

Tus niamtais muaj tus ntxhais nyiam pojniam: Cia nws hlub nws os. Koj xum cia nws nyiam nws es nws tseem tuaj saib koj ua niam. Los koj xum cia nws tu siab thiab ntxub koj es muab koj tso pob tshe mus tag ib sim? Tsis yog koj lub neej. Nej cov laus yuav tsum tau ua siab loj and tsis txhob npab npab nauj lawm.

[@elizabethvang108]

Me niam tsev aw kav chawj os mog kuv qhia koj paub os mog zoo dua koj tus ntxhais yug los yog ib tug txiv aub os mog es tus poj niam xwb ces kav liam os mog kuv nim qhia koj paub tias kuv muaj plaub tug ntxhais muaj 3 tug ua ntej lawv koom txiv ib tug txiv hos ib tug tsis yog nws txawv txiv nawb ces ib ziag no ces nws tab tom muaj 18 xyoo rau xyoo no ces cia li coj rawv ib tug me ntxhais khej dub kiag li koj tug ntag nawb es puam chawm os mog niag poj niam xwb nws siv.nws tus npaig xwb tsis npaum li ib tug txiv neej dub2 na2b ib hnub twg nkawd yeej yuav hloov siab xwb2 no nawb es kom koj nco ntsoov tias koj tus ntxhais tsis puas tsuaj nawb ok nco qab ntsoov koj tus ntxhais yuav nrog koj nyob for aver txhob nyuab siab os mog.ua ib siab tus siab tsis nrog luag muaj vauv hu tsis muaj tshoob noj xwb os hlub nws nawb

[@shongyangxiong3573]

Tej laus hais tias, yug dev rog dev tom yus ntog

[@mnjagd]

Tsis tas tos nws tuaj li os,tseem tos nws tuaj ua leg ua dab tsi.

[@junesong1747]

Tus me ncaug aw tsi tham tos li os yog nws muaj me nyuam ces nws yeej tsis quav ntsej koj me tub li os maj

[@hlubyang4072]

#1...tu niam tsev txawm koj yuav kam thiab tsis kam lo koj tu ntxhais yeej tsis yuav li koj hais nawb....koj yuav tau ua li koj tu ntxhais nyiam lawm xwb....txawm koj chim chim ntsha siab txog 1000 lo cheem tsis tau koj tu ntxhais mog...cov me nyuam tiam no txawm yus txoj sia tu kiag lo lawv tsis quav ntsej.

[@heevtshaj9066]

Number 1. Koj tsis tau vauv los twb tau 2 tug ntxhais lawm ne.

[@meexiong5801]

Tus me niam tsev aw....tsi txhob cia koj tus me tub tos koj niag qub hluas nraug ko tuaj tim mekas no vim nws xav tuaj nyob ze neb ob niam tub tsam nws tsi yog tuaj zoo ces koj lub neej yuav kub ntxov os

[@bradyoung1477]

Tsis pom zoo tus Pobzeb tuaj Mekas.

[@susanxiong726]

Tiam tshiab no law ce g ua ca tub ntxhai lo yeej sib yuav law g yog hmoob xwb lwm haiv neeg lo yeej sib yuav law