this girl still have a chance to go back to school , i am 23 and in grade 12 now
@smangelerose71265 жыл бұрын
GOOD GIRL I WAS 31 WHEN I AM FINISH MY MATRIC.I AM A WORKER TODAY. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE
@rosered96925 жыл бұрын
Wow u are very brave
@lettiemayisela63035 жыл бұрын
thank you admin..weekly dose..let's show appreciation
@ofentsetsontswane16505 жыл бұрын
I like the quality of this film.Production on point.
@magdelinepaile77165 жыл бұрын
Eish Andile! Your glasses. On 👌
@siya20165 жыл бұрын
Thank you Admin much appreciated.
@ofentsetswai96945 жыл бұрын
The second part. May those ancestors open this girl's mind so she can understand that she's an adult and she's in charge of her own success in life. May she find healing and happiness.
@mejunce8845 жыл бұрын
She has lot of attitude I sense that
@shibumahlobogoane4935 жыл бұрын
Mxm it bores me to hear ppl blaming their absent parents for dropping out of school. It's total bull, How many ppl made it without parents
@happinessmabuza26395 жыл бұрын
@@shibumahlobogoane493 very true..some of us njengami grew up without d love n support of both parents n old as iam have never been with both my parents but was raised by my grandmother kodvwa ngafunda n went to university...the situation I grew under made me to be determined in my heart kutsi ngifundze n with God's help am independent today...so people should own up their mistakes yokungalaleli those who were guiding them..i feel pity for those who dropped out of school coz of lacking support
@letschatwithkeam38205 жыл бұрын
@@shibumahlobogoane493 Dude my Mom passed away when I was 4years 10months, I do not know where my supposed father is, and it doesn't bother me anymore. We need to make life of our own and stop blaming the absence of parents. Its up to an individual to make it work, life is not fair like that.
@momimoo1763 жыл бұрын
@@shibumahlobogoane493 It depends what level of education we are talking about.Without sponsorship varsity is a very steep hill.
@LethoHali5 жыл бұрын
Eish first family. Now the uncle has to answer for the sins of his brother, Eish 🙆🏽♀️
@goligertrude353910 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mejunce8845 жыл бұрын
The girl must wake up, she's old to force people to love her, I'm 23 and I started looking after my self when I was 16, I never sow my father and I don't need anything to do with him... I can't force love from people who left me when I was still a clot of blood
@bonzateebonzatee8555 жыл бұрын
Eish bophelo mara
@jmyy135 жыл бұрын
True enough of they leave you at your worst why bother looking for them when you are capable.
@smangelerose71265 жыл бұрын
Good girl keep it up
@response72965 жыл бұрын
Family is very important. No matter how old you are, no matter how rich you are, humbling yourself and giving your family chance to be with you is valuable
@patiencechivunge85155 жыл бұрын
Very true people must learn to do for themselves fullstop of the parent is not their wake up and it urself
@ntwananomashaba21175 жыл бұрын
Weh sesi nyeleti ukurin sukel ku blame papa kuv utsikhe xikolo. Loko papa wehe avalo kuteka wahar tsongo sweswi awuta Rila u ku mhana weh vaku siyini kava papa weh.
@morkelbones97375 жыл бұрын
The first guy has got lot of anger unfortunately he is taking it out to wrong person
@estherntsowe24135 жыл бұрын
Of course.he is asking questions to the wrong person.
@quindhie15435 ай бұрын
I know right he needs to calm down so they can accept him nicely
@mokonemahlare9075 жыл бұрын
Aaaai the second show wow this gal is crazy xem u can’t blame ur father for ur stupidity...u can’t drop out to school because of that... here I am today I lost my mom at every early age and I ddnt knw my father but today I have my diploma and working..I am independent because I knew what I want...so sisi grow up and stand up for ur self
@brendonmartin95505 жыл бұрын
Is primary and high school education not for free in public schools in South Africa 🇿🇦,everyone who grew up without a father or mother we hear the very same story of a blaming culture to their failures. She’s still very young there’s more room for improvement she can still go back to school and pursue her studies. At least she had her mother some people will grew up without both parents but still make it in life. Against all odds
@LethoHali5 жыл бұрын
Brendon Martin not free no.
@brendonmartin95505 жыл бұрын
Mahali Selepe - that’s sad I have always thought education is free on government schools 🏫 thought one has to pay if its private which you normally call multiracial schools etc
@rosered96925 жыл бұрын
@@brendonmartin9550 that will be nice but the go will be broke unless he get fundraisers , donations and most people don't do that in Africa far behind.
@mphomakola40684 жыл бұрын
she dwells so much on the past , blames all the external factors for her own short comings , hopes she grows up and takes responsibility of her own life because wow
@portiasithole48455 жыл бұрын
Donald is an intelligent young man, he's father is lucky to be dead he was gonna feel the heat.
@response72965 жыл бұрын
Iyo mara khumbulekhaya makes me cry Iyooooo. Am I the most emotional person or someone is also crying out there 😥
@johnmoloi92303 жыл бұрын
Nthabisa iam a guy but I am emotional also
@response72963 жыл бұрын
@@johnmoloi9230 esh. It's so heart breaking. Sometimes we can't help it because it's a real show. We cry a lot
@phumzamasohloko56325 жыл бұрын
Thank you Khumbulekhaya
@sakhilelillynair45955 жыл бұрын
Very talkative young girl selfish also nxaaaaaa
@zandimaphaha27714 жыл бұрын
Being fatherless in the black communities of South Africa is so normalized now hence people in the comment section are repulsed by Nyeleti for being angry and expressing her hurt to her dad,Our parents have a duty to raise us,it's not a favour so she has every right to express herself,Stop invalidating her feelings just because growing up without a dad is your new normal!
First guy is pushing the blame to the wrong person....the second girl can talk yoooo...too commanding on money issues
@letschatwithkeam38205 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why he's blaming the uncle. It's not his fault that their father left them.
@petermncobinkambule37935 жыл бұрын
One thing I have realised is that anger will never solve your problems , instead find peace and stop the blame game because it will never help you to grow and move on. Most people always put the blame on their parents yet whatever happened between the two has nothing to do with you. Find peace and move on with your life.
@nthabisengkatekani25355 жыл бұрын
the first guy talks as if the man doesn't have his own priorities🙄
@suzanne-cs7sx2 жыл бұрын
First story this guy is hurt and the person with all the answers is no more, his looking for answers but your uncle probably had his own problems than to be busy looking for children his brother left.
@promisenavingo83745 жыл бұрын
The second story,this girl talk too much...im 25,i only met my father when i was 18 years,my mother played a double role...but i did not drop school
@annelinejordaan70764 жыл бұрын
I never dropped out of school
@perfectlyimperfect10954 жыл бұрын
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
@millynkonyane613 жыл бұрын
@@annelinejordaan7076 not you but Nyeleti the girl who found his father
@ofentsetswai96945 жыл бұрын
This show will teach you the importance of not having kids out of wedlock.
@4thcommandment.thesabbathc7225 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@fungaimabuda33775 жыл бұрын
Some children are born in marriage unions that later break and families grow apart.don't speak as if wedlock is a passport to heaven
@lindoe5085 жыл бұрын
Fungai Mabuda 😅
@wendiebuhle45955 жыл бұрын
You are so ignorant siesss
@unathizikhali39955 жыл бұрын
The second part's Papa is so humble and regretful.
@kgaogelolebedi45845 жыл бұрын
you don't blame the man for dropping out of school ...you should have been thoughtful enough to complete your matric and atleast blame him for staying at home because of lack of money to pay tertiary funds.
@TheSARAFINA20005 жыл бұрын
tsk tsk tsk, l am sure there are successful people who grew up without both or either parents. let’s learn not to blame our failures to absent parents( still alive) especially if you are legally an adult. l know we are people who follow cultural rituals but most people on this show think if they appease our ancestors, life gets better. l would love to see khumbul’khaya do a follow up on some of the participants. l feel sorry for some of these people & wish they find “closure “ & happiness after this.
@mukhubukhangwelo715 жыл бұрын
shame this man looks humble and hurt
@bernardkodise60833 ай бұрын
Batho ba rona ba rata dilo jerrr
@magdelinepaile77165 жыл бұрын
Eish Bush ban! Tamaa
@tyrodepoetry92535 жыл бұрын
Dat girl is right I feel her pain n I like his father he is very humble n hurt
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
@joyfulmusicreloaded62045 жыл бұрын
I applaud the lady in the second segment for wanting to go back to school. Can black men stop making babies and abandoning them it's really selfish.
@patiencechivunge85155 жыл бұрын
Very true its disgusting really aaaa its much kids suffering out there
@trucap64585 жыл бұрын
Childish
@perfectlyimperfect10954 жыл бұрын
Amen!! It's heartbreaking.
@edithdaisies58905 жыл бұрын
I'm interested to know what happens after filming Khumbulekhaya because the young lady in the 2nd Story is too demanding, too talkative and borderline rude as well
@lungiao2295 жыл бұрын
Neighbours ba iphuthile gossiping😂😂
@estherntsowe24135 жыл бұрын
Bo mma ditaba haii,
@bonzateebonzatee8555 жыл бұрын
Lol hai le feteletse
@kelebaleosupile15415 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ofentsetsontswane16505 жыл бұрын
Bo meiki le mmatuli ko skeem saam.
@audreytee95355 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hle bo makhi ba extra
@bulelwacenenda81145 жыл бұрын
She's demanding as if she's the only child kubabakhe
@akonam83175 жыл бұрын
Waze wamuhle uAndile
@thobekilemoyo54305 жыл бұрын
That first guy looks like Elliot
@mrmkhosana68765 жыл бұрын
🤣
@smangelerose71265 жыл бұрын
Can you please remind me who is Elliot.
@mrmkhosana68765 жыл бұрын
@@smangelerose7126 That guy who got resurrected from the dead lol
@rosiedlams87575 жыл бұрын
lol
@tafadzwachigumbu42765 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sheronmputla445 жыл бұрын
Miss Mathebula may God bless you 💞🙏
@OrapelengTawana5 жыл бұрын
ei batho ba rata ditaba 6:30
@mokgadisdiary84205 жыл бұрын
This gal neh...... Yerrr she is so demanding, she speaks like a very old person
@mrstk26725 жыл бұрын
She's too much but i think her step mother will fix her😂
@mokgadisdiary84205 жыл бұрын
@@mrstk2672 😂😂😂 right? Step mama looks super strict,she will definitely sort her out
@mrstk26725 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mmagirlydolamo5323 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂Aker ore okgona English.
@naumemarumo53175 жыл бұрын
Heish dis gal shi talks too much shems...My real dad hi told mi hi left mi when i was 4 months n hi only saw mi dis year April 2019 n um 26 n i was happy to c him ..All glory belongs to God..Its heartbreaking but yu need to dust urself n keep walking to ur destiny if hi is willing to help yu hi will definitely do to yu not forcefully demanding
@noendlovu47885 жыл бұрын
Eish the second story inzima. This girl will cause trouble if she goes to stay with her father. She wants her own room, money, uku thwasiswa ahhh too many demands. She is so entitled and will not last in this home and yet her father is so humble and sounds genuinely sorry for abandoning her.
@portiasithole48455 жыл бұрын
Hay sesi wa vulavula shem mi hlangane mi fana na mhani ntsongo wa wena
@lizzyndava21855 жыл бұрын
Sorry I can't stay with her she talks too much with those facial expressions,sorry
@portiasithole48455 жыл бұрын
@@lizzyndava2185 i don't blame you i wouldn't stay with her as well. I doubt she will even finish her metric.
@mrcusmarcuship-hop485 жыл бұрын
This second family the dad is a nice and humble man but the girl is talking so hushe of which the dad is trying to explain to her in a very good way please girl you're lucky to see him still are life
@kellzhlongwane94585 жыл бұрын
Kasi why vanhu va tshika xikolo in the name of bcz my parents (mom or dad) was not there, not to say that a father is not important but to my experience when you have a mother that strive for you and support your vision you have everything. Stop blaming people and take control of your life people , you in this alone just thank God that somehow you survived.💔 mo' gurl go back to school you still young ani se vo mba wena uva kumile🤗
@muhlekazi34985 жыл бұрын
Life gives us different experiences and we each respond different to those experiences, no two situations are ever the same. We shouldn't group people based on our own experiences.
@kellzhlongwane94585 жыл бұрын
@@muhlekazi3498 i agree with you there....khumbule ekaya is my fav show and 80% of people who come here are drop outs. All am saying is that your life doesn't have to stop because your dad or mom abandoned you.
@nondumisondlovu14835 жыл бұрын
Kellz Hlongwane I agree with you . You need to work with wat you have try to better ur life.
@macha32145 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Kellz if you not positive about yourself first noma ungaba nabazali some people haven’t made it in life there are kids whom we grew with rich having everything but they grew to be something
@clearencesimelane6615 жыл бұрын
E swiyimo swa vanhu ni mahanyelo yava manana aya fani...guess wena ur lucky to hv a good mother bt unfortunately the same can't b said bwt other mothers...dnt b narrow minded look at it holistically
@nthabisengkatekani25355 жыл бұрын
the last time i checked there was public schools...actually what is her reason to drop out? after metric u get bursaries. gal womanup
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
Bruv both of my parents are alive but they can't afford to pay for my fees so I use NSFAS, I've used different bursaries. Not having money is not an excuse here in South Africa.
@magdelinepaile77165 жыл бұрын
I hate this," I didn't finish matric because of you" seriously?
@edithdaisies58905 жыл бұрын
She just wants to put the blame on her Dad instead of taking responsibility of her actions
@veliswatongani59875 жыл бұрын
Yes if u don't have food on ur stamac ur uniform u look different from ather kids ur uprbing might affect u questioning ur self u won't understand really athers were depending ekubolekweleni uniform kwabanye Ababantwana 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
@magdelinepaile77165 жыл бұрын
@ Londiwe n Edith, we are eating in the same plate. I was one of them and ges what? I am a teacher by profession now. And u know what! My uniform looked different from other kids
@thapiem94615 жыл бұрын
Ones Success is not tied to any person! This girl is uttering blame and not taking any responsibility. Her father explained his reasons, we cannot justify his actions but if she keeps this up their relationship will be hard to build
@magdelinepaile77165 жыл бұрын
Yo! Di nephew tsa Kgakatla where they are bare please Malome go fetch her...........lankwa akere!
@gladysmashishi40465 жыл бұрын
She must learn to accept situation and be responsible of her life.because she can't force someone to love her.dropping out of school is her decision,she must stop blaming others.she is old enough to take care of herself.
@perfectlyimperfect10954 жыл бұрын
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
@sakhilelillynair45955 жыл бұрын
What a humble man there is love it
@lindoe5085 жыл бұрын
the second girl though
@nthabisengkatekani25355 жыл бұрын
argh this girl is so demanding money, rooms get a life girl
@annelinejordaan70764 жыл бұрын
I have a life running my own business
@lozithanoziphomahlangu90363 жыл бұрын
cant he stop smoking when people are eating solong
@tebellonotsi18205 жыл бұрын
I am the 4th one
@tebellomotshoane81555 жыл бұрын
Yes B go bona...luv it
@dwmaphosa87564 жыл бұрын
Marha sesi Nyeleti
@thulilezondi71955 жыл бұрын
I can speak English 🤔🤔🤔
@bulelwacenenda81145 жыл бұрын
I attitude yakalo girl yaku 2nd story angeke nje imnikise ndawo she's very dependent and demanding 😏
@perfectlyimperfect10954 жыл бұрын
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones. She craves what she never had like any child who didn't have a father growing up.
@reggymkhondwana8215 жыл бұрын
Here 1st😊😊😊😊😋😋😋😋
@molekoalidia56345 жыл бұрын
Reconcile Mthunz'Omuhle kgotso kebatla alfios makabole mo .mmalebitsa
@LadyT065 жыл бұрын
If demand was a person,is this Nyeleti girl.She winges and blames everything on his dad🤦🏾♀️😌!!
@quindhie15435 ай бұрын
I know right all the demands she is making like girl look around. She needs a reality check. Be angry yes but demands haibo .she wants her own room 🙄
@LadyT065 ай бұрын
@@quindhie1543 I wish they could do where are they now?
@quindhie15435 ай бұрын
@@LadyT06 yeah they should do follow ups so we know bc haibo we are invested in knowing the happiness is still there
@LadyT065 ай бұрын
@@quindhie1543 we need to put a request and reckon they might table it!!
@joeswartz618110 ай бұрын
I love watching this program but it breaks my heart. The black people are worse poor since after the freedom it's sad
@jafta302siphambhani5 жыл бұрын
Mhani mathebula mi munhu na
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
That coloured lady looks Tswana even her surname sounds like a Tswana surname
@mokgadisdiary84205 жыл бұрын
Drop out of school and blame your unemployability on you parents... Mxxxxxm
@mukhubukhangwelo715 жыл бұрын
yoh neighbours wow, how did they know
@estherntsowe24135 жыл бұрын
Just seeing the car with a sign of Khumbule e khaya. They gather to gossip.
@keneilwebagali92183 жыл бұрын
this girl
@nickywulffen5525 жыл бұрын
Im second today finaly
@Anna-nr6ry5 жыл бұрын
cousin from mvenge mvenge l see you
@rambelanimushaisano4 жыл бұрын
Nyeleti xa complain
@ofentsetswai96945 жыл бұрын
Next episode going to be lit!
@Frankfrankie175 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂How do you know?
@ofentsetswai96945 жыл бұрын
@@Frankfrankie17 learn to watch previews!
@Frankfrankie175 жыл бұрын
@@ofentsetswai9694 😂😂😂ok
@happinesszikhonabaleni48943 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@heathermbambeni57895 жыл бұрын
And the audience...?
@okaymea5 жыл бұрын
The 2nd girl should go back to school. Go back to school, and make something of yourself. Build a relationship with God and seek Him with all your heart, He can fill the void in your heart. You're too young to settle for such a life.
@benjaminnkomo44115 жыл бұрын
You talk too much wena.....Learn to forgive and move on hawu.
@rosered96925 жыл бұрын
Take time to heel the more u block it doesn't go away I will rather him talk, cry, puch the wall whatever will let the anger go . I know people wants to block the past and move on believing me the wound will ne very sensible if u choose that way.
@thapeloobonye4175 жыл бұрын
You took too long to upload.
@traceymandloe11945 жыл бұрын
It is nice to be grateful every time than complaining .
@thapeloobonye4175 жыл бұрын
@@traceymandloe1194 not for you darls.
@traceymandloe11945 жыл бұрын
@@thapeloobonye417 kiniti
@thapelokoorapetse81975 жыл бұрын
@@traceymandloe1194 o bolawa ke bodutu kea bona.
@nthabisengkatekani25355 жыл бұрын
go back to school then later u will talk about collages and u said u are smart then u will get a bursary
@bulelwacenenda81145 жыл бұрын
😂
@setshwaneng5 жыл бұрын
The second lady mustn't waste her maths skills. But she talks too much hey.