Kill Your Inner Child

[@dododifwasssup1784]

Killing the inner child also requires you to heal him first. The wounds must be healed for it to leave, otherwise you will never grow from the child.

[@Babygirlly555]

Well said.

[@hydraV1-c7d]

yeah and quite often you dont know how many wounds are underneath UNTIL you try to push outside the comfort zone ..trauma will cripple you with mind tricks etc .

[@Babygirlly555]

@@dododifwasssup1784 Very well put.

[@Norbertoo]

I cannot emphasize how IMPORTANT this comment is under such video. Last year I faced my past wounds and demons and I cannot describe how big change I got in my life - especially inside. Im introverted person so I thought I knew myself enough - what a shame. I'm 31 yo and since last year I started to understand my TRUE self - even thought im learning from "manosphere" for years. All I can say is read that book - "The Child In You" by Stefanie Stahl (I know the name is not cachy for us men (thats why I had it in my computer for like one year before I read it) but believe me, if you want to become authenthic version of yourself - you have to face your childhood traumas, and everybody have some. And if you know for sure you have/had shitty parents I recommend you another gem - "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Lindsay C. Gibson. These two books shook my life. Cheers

[@RupankarBanerjee-pc3ro]

​@@Norbertoohow exactly did you "face" your childhood traumas btw and how did you heal/conquer them?

[@nicolem889]

I love this lesson 😂 it’s exactly what I’ve learned. It’s too bad but it’s for real. Just never kill the child in you. You know when to reveal it and when not to. The child keeps you from taking people seriously. The child allows you to play and enjoy.

[@Joshy2J-TG]

Don't kill your inner child, integrate it into the here and now and maintain that self compassion and for others. Self respect requires a positive relationship to and with self, not the abandonment of self.

[@Kingpenguin94]

Title makes it look like an advertisement for planned parenthood

[@emrysz6740]

💀

[@KaizenWithRen]

i cant unsee it now 😭😭

[@nbayern7000]

Lol

[@Full-SpectrumFitness]

Chris, Thank you so much for this video. I am going through a tough period in my life where the child has to die. You have no idea how much i needed this. God bless you Brother.

[@KaizenWithRen]

That pre-war Tom Shelby example is so spot on 🤌

[@1STMAN]

Loved that series

[@success_838]

❌ 1st Man is telling us ✅1st Man is building us

[@titoslounge1946]

COVID was my turning point. I watched men who were older than me, who I thought were smart than me be afraid. Make cowardly decisions. Refuse to act questions. I realized that I’m the only one who can secure my future and independence.

[@1STMAN]

The biggest risk takers and the most carefree men end up being the winners

[@ishmail.]

This video honestly came at the perfect time. Thanks Kris

[@1STMAN]

Glad it could help

[@levelup2014]

This is the content I’ve been missing I’ve been really critical of this channel as of late but your coming around mate

[@1STMAN]

Appreciate your honesty

[@nappylin1393]

Regardless of what they saying about Kris these are the type of videos that change someones life

[@alexk17]

1st man one of your best videos brother, thank you

[@ivaldirbatalha5436]

This video is the wake up call that every man needs to hear. Thanks Chris.

[@1STMAN]

No worries man thank you so much for watching

[@treychatterton6553]

watching kris swat flies while trying to have a serious conversation is funny af

[@1STMAN]

Getting beat up every video

[@augustwolf9250]

“And not just the men, but the women, and the children too” Anakin Skywalker

[@stealthdark4281]

It also important to use your inner child to keep realising your dreams. But killing the spoiled side comes first

[@adityathukral2333]

Hey Cris watching your channel for like 8-9 months and its really helpful its like i have stumbled upon gold mine so thank u man

[@bakirnolastname3940]

Been watching him since 2022, really shaped me as a young man. Now I have a great high value job at 21 because I invested in myself and the future instead of "going out with the lads"

[@adityathukral2333]

yeah i started watching him since late 2023 im only 17 I don't see any changes right now but later down the line the work is going to pay off

[@adityathukral2333]

going out once in a blue moon is fine (once every 4-5 months) but whats important is what we do with rest of our time.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks for watching all this time, I really appreciate it more than people know

[@boyanmarkov645]

Great video! Breaking illusions and living in reality is a key for adulthood.

[@lucaschaves5114]

i needed this today. thank you.

[@1STMAN]

No problem Lucas, thanks for taking the time to watch

[@lilbroomstick7914]

I was apprehensive to say it, but yea looks like old Kris is back boys

[@1STMAN]

Just wait! Massive plans

[@lilbroomstick7914]

@@1STMANsmash it

[@masiarsa7767]

Crazy how much this video fit to my current situation. Greetings from Germany

[@1STMAN]

Glad it could help

[@kekekepepepe6082]

kris you're looking fucking great brother, the weird exercises really paid off

[@bsoshsokajakoaja]

now hearing this from you feels so revealing brother

[@laks4329]

On of the purest videos I seen

[@Muhluri]

Loving the new KZbin set

[@Gurshwakeup]

Don't wanna sound like a gae but you're 100% right about getting down to a low bf and what it does for your face. Looking sharp mate.

[@1STMAN]

Haha thanks big man, been working hard lately

[@RoyceTVx]

2:35, 5:16, 8:20, 10:10, 11:25, 16:35

[@Chrisdreamz-ji2sh]

YES!!!!!!! I needed to hear this.

[@yashvashisht1805]

1:11 - Video starts

[@BasedAhmed]

Death and heartbreak truly opens your eyes

[@michelangelo_6933]

This video is spot on.

[@jay01-k3o]

Excellent video. Facts.

[@Jscoolas]

Facts.....this really resonates Sir.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks for watching big man

[@YousefHashim1]

Chris’s transformation is fucking insane. Been listening to vids all day whilst working my shift. Immense Value. Old school 1st man is back

[@1STMAN]

Thanks big man. Been working hard lately

[@Anonymous-il6jj]

Title is so disguistingly written i feel bad for people who misunderstands what he is actually trying to communicate

[@DOit777.]

Nice video Kris keep it up

[@samuelsimmons5361]

You're glowing bro no 🌈 keeping going🍻

[@ThatBalkanGuy.]

Pause😂😂

[@IntrovertMaxxing]

Smh men are done 🍞

[@samuelsimmons5361]

​@@IntrovertMaxxingspeak for yourself creep

[@ViltrumiteIsRite99]

@@IntrovertMaxxingLoaf?

[@IntrovertMaxxing]

@@ViltrumiteIsRite99 toast

[@Ndw1995]

Title not edgy enough, remove “inner”

[@1STMAN]

Channel banned

[@Josiah329]

@@1STMANlol your right.

[@KevinDrakos]

A good book about healing the inner child is king warrior magician lover if your interested in this topic more

[@Yarmox]

More like tame your inner child. Acting like society wants you to is the fastest way to become an empty shell of a person. There is no bigger power then getting to be who you really want to be, not chasing money for others recognition.

[@Big_talks.]

I feel like the title is very misleading but great video

[@Zenith-d3s]

the fact that nobody talks about Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood speaks volumes about how people are stuck in trance

[@TothKPeter]

Spot on. Thank you.

[@Rdcmani]

Heal your inner child*

[@chief_islxm]

How

[@Rdcmani]

​@@chief_islxm By letting go of all the limitations, wounds, fears and negative stories one is holding onto wich also means to face all those things.

[@raphaelvandenberg511]

'heal the boy and the man will appear'

[@1STMAN]

Nice

[@chief_islxm]

How

[@raphaelvandenberg511]

@@chief_islxm through integrating unpleasant or repressed experiences or emotions. some call it shadow work but its all about giving new meaning to your past where your hurt lies. Book recommendation; Mens work by Connor Beaton

[@raphaelvandenberg511]

@@chief_islxm God bless bro take care

[@Njsh2103]

When he says 90% of relationships before age 30 don’t work out is that for men only ? Or both men and women? 🙏🏾

[@1STMAN]

It’s couples under the age of 30. If the man’s 35 and the woman’s 25 for example it has a much bigger chance of working

[@Njsh2103]

@@1STMAN 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@jamie_sg]

Are there ads on the 1M videos now? I just got one

[@1STMAN]

Yeah YT have put them on, even if I select no

[@gauravdeepsingh4478]

What do we all think about using psychedelics to heal the inner child?

[@joserodrigues1667]

Hey everyone! I hope youre well while reading this. Could you give me some reccomendation, I feel this is the best place to ask this... Im 18 and I've never been to a party nor drank alcohol for I always felt these to be wrong and harmful. Recently though, I got into college and even my brother who also thinks like me, thinks I should go to such places to meet people, as Im in a new city and still without friends. Should I go? Drinking alcohol is indoubtely out of the equation... He says it is for now better than what Im currently doing - waking up at 6AM, Gym, classes, home again to read/study/research, is it?

[@ekactive1]

Have 2 drinks and leave it at that, carry on how you’re doing

[@willb8841]

kris on his redemption arc?

[@openmind7100]

The only constant is change...

[@gautheny]

I can relate Kris

[@oh.8746]

Yes Kris I can’t seem to order the supplements? I’ve ordered so many since you released it but now it seems i can’t buy it on the site or on the shop app?

[@1STMAN]

It’ll be back very soon. Restock within weeks along with a new supplement for the brain and productivity

[@Josiah329]

@@1STMANoh like a Nootropic or something (I think that’s like a brain enhancer or something).

[@cdismvz]

Is the male advantage paperback in stock??

[@1STMAN]

Very soon. Just changing the cover to the updated logo

[@cdismvz]

@@1STMAN 👍🏾

[@truthoverlies1820]

Completely disagree..we must cultivate our inner child without being childish..

[@James-t1p8j]

Did you even watch the video?

[@TheClimb-JK]

Integrate your innerchild and it will stop coming out

[@ajinkyapantode5100]

Have you stopped doing neck exercises?

[@1STMAN]

No just lost 10kg working on Granada House. Went down to 81kg, back to 86kg now but I got real skinny during those 3 months

[@alexmarques2398]

Good one, so far. Min 4. And I am the one mostly trolling here. 😎👍

[@1STMAN]

Haha appreciate it

[@checos5901]

Nice video to play League of Legends to, 10/10 would play again

[@1STMAN]

Hahaha

[@Nunawading]

Meat Is The Only Cure

[@dilljordan7303]

Why adds??

[@1STMAN]

They added them to my channel automatically. I had a no ads policy for years

[@soccom8341576]

Are you trolling me?

[@redonmuqolli]

But Tommy went back to Grace chris.

[@1STMAN]

Then she died

[@nemanjan690]

@@1STMAN 😂😂😂

[@levrai-qw5cu]

7:30 this was so unintentionally funny😂

[@levigivens]

Is the title meant to attract woke women?

[@oinstrumentista6653]

You don't seem to be happy living that way

[@1STMAN]

I’m close, just had to do a lot of things I didn’t want to do past few years to get here

[@serengeti4027]

@@1STMAN i think you're close too. i like a lot of the things you say. i pretty strongly believe telling people to kill their inner child is bad advice though. even if it's clickbait, it's really bad advice imo. i do think different things work for different people. and sometimes you need to take a loss in one area to take a W in another. we are all growing in different areas at different times. but let's clarify, you do not need to kill your inner child to be responsible and disciplined. ideally, you want to be able to know how/when to switch between the two. our inner child is extremely valuable for our happiness and joy. don't kill it. understand the child and sit with him and have some fun sometimes. it'll benefit you most, but the people around you too. our humanity is more important than anything, and I think our inner child is a big part of that.

[@tucctucc6214]

Legend

[@ryan99842]

find book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood. Whoever finds this book will have unfair adventage over other people. You'll thank me later

[@a_um]

Good marketing by the way but I know guys like u, intentions not good, giving bs for getting money

[@Kinjo7]

It's Bruce shilling his own book

[@lamborghinicentenario2497]

You don't actually answer your emails bro, quit playing

[@1STMAN]

I do, but not sales ones

[@hablabamosa]

Terrible advice. Not honoring your inner child leasds to suffering.

[@JituRaul-ou1bm]

U got skinny bro bulk up

[@tehjokur3344]

Why?

[@JituRaul-ou1bm]

​@@tehjokur3344 to look good bro and for health

[@gamernerd89678]

@@tehjokur3344he likes his men buff 😂😂😂

[@theanomity3185]

9:34 u did not get one lil bro 😂

[@1STMAN]

Didn’t even get close. I hit a wasp once in 4 months

[@jarno_art]

I love the idea of becoming more masculine, but i also hear lots of toxicity in how people currently see it.. such as emotions are bad, sensitivity is bad, inner child is bad etc etc.. especially coming from someone who has all of these things very strongly.. supression only makes these things worse

[@Zenith-d3s]

find book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood. Whoever finds this book will have unfair adventage over other people. You'll thank me later