HOW TO RUIN LOBOLA NEGOTIATIONS Khehla Manjoro

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Bro i have rewatched her videos so many times and every time i m excited

[@DEARTETE]

i was even rewinding and pausing lol

[@phindilethesoulstudmathons8119]

This episode has helped me a lot preparing for my first ever Lobola negotiations, everything I needed to know I found here. You guys are doing a massive contribution to educaring the morden African people. We appreciate it 🙏

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Thank you King David for blessing us with khehla Manjoro again and again and again and we won't get tired of her

[@shadogeorge7969]

My husband made sure that he follows the process. He sent the letter to my family without my knowledge behind my back because he wanted to have a surprise engagement party for me on my birthday, so I was engaged on a Sunday which was my birthday and a week later the delegates came to negotiate the process.

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She is a gift and we need people like her who can relate Christianity to our traditions big up bra Dave

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From Mkhulu Manjoro I've learned that everything in our lives must be spiritually protected.

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The lighting, camera and studio set up. Wow what an investment. The conversation fruitful and I love how both party's portray the story, makes it easy to understand and grab most important lessons. Thanks again King David

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Her energy,the way she talks. I could go on and on. Thank you so much. Very informative for some of us who come from families who no longer practice culture. May God and your ancestors continue to bless you.

[@bonganindlovu1312]

After listening to Mkhulu Majoro, you realize how lost the majority of us are😢

[@Phelo_Mtshazi]

But some things she said don't apply to all cultures so be mindful when listening they are correct but does not apply to all cultures Some of the things mentioned here we as Xhosa people don't apply them

[@hopemohlokoane2937]

Dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@neliswamahlambi2886]

@@Phelo_Mtshazi Very true. This is mostly in nguni culture. Zukus xhosas etc.

[@simnikiwemajiki8265]

Yey. I sent this to my mom

[@mbonisisibanda6165]

Mkhulu you are a rare stone and the host is an excellent driver of the conversation. I wish every person who listens to this can commit themselves in preserving ubuntu bethu.

[@DelisileShongwe-ye3hm]

She's such a blessing to Africans and very down to earth. You're really appreciated khehla❤❤

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Ntate Mashabela thank you for bringing Khehla Manjoro back I like how she explain everything our Sabrina ❤️💖

[@nicolemjoli]

Yoh! Khelha Manjoro is a blessing, shame. I've learned sooooooooo much about myself, my family and how I need to do things just by listening to 3 of her interviews. Absolutely brilliant! Also, the questions that David asks are top tier! Love how simple you guys make this!

[@sylviamodise3887]

She is truly a gift. What an eye opening moment. We have been schooled ❤

[@Davidmakgaka]

This women educated us on how things should be done and the meaning behind these process.. Thank you Kehla ❤

[@sydneymaswanganyi]

Another masterclass with Mkhulu Manjoro. We are becoming more and more wise people through her knowledge

[@Minenhle_ny]

I have not watched anything else by King Dave but each time I see mkhulu Manjoro, I know I have to stop and listen 🤌🤌 what an amazing woman ❤

[@mojaphosh8597]

Conversations with Khehla Manjoro, so so humbling. This woman is erudite, in the African Spirituality, I mean our Wikipedia of "Isintu." That's a true healer, she is called indeed. Thank mkhulu, needed to hear this. 🙏🙏😊

[@sinegugusibisi]

What a blessing Khehla Manjoro is, I have learned so so much from ALL episodes. Hands down, thank you King David for continuously bringing her to enhance our knowledge and way of thinking and doing.

[@kagisomoagi6597]

This was indeed an eye opener, I am proud of myself for making sure that my Lobola Negotiations went well even though I don't have parents, But Ramogolo and Bo Malome, plaid a very important part in my ceremony. I pat myself in the back, one always needs to know who handles your lobola negotiations especially for a girl.

[@tlhogigaethuse3015]

I never really knew much about this subjects (culture & tradition ). I'm very thankful to you Ntate Mashabela and the masterclass Khehla Manjoro serves us everytime she's here💯 Keleboga gommenagane🙏🕯

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We need a Khehla Manjoro channel....oohw such a gem ❤ thanks KingDavid for bringing her to us we really need such conversations we sure were lost kancane kancane we getting back on track 😊 🇸🇿

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Hi swazi girl

[@sibusisontsele2107]

Mkhulu Majoro thank you, ngokucacisa kahle hle lendaba. Please invite her again for other topics, truly eye opening stuff. Siyabonga!!

[@mcelenimaphem5510]

Lo mama is a national treasure, please keep her and further grow your show about roots around her, she has made me spiritually better. God is good.

[@tshepangmatela8448]

As le2000 this is super insghtful cause I swear I have never heard some of the things mentioned by Khehla. But Im guided now. Many thanks.

[@sbu116sbu2]

I recently paid Lobola for my love but it put a strain on our relationship. We provisionally agreed on our brideprice range and her family that are unknown to me tripled the amount. The agreed range was 40 - 50k. Relationship context: Together for 5 years, 1 daughter of 3. Damages paid in line with tradition. Both qualified professionals but I'm already a multiple property owner, had recently bought a vehicle for my woman and she takes care of me whenever possible. I honour the privilege of being able to take care of her more. We are best friends but families nearly broke us apart. We are steadily recovering at this stage. I am a proud African man but at some stage I considered not going through with the process. These processes can be abused by families or even used to sabotage something great. It is discouraging.

[@erpadministrator]

I understand, me and my husband have been through this and we nearly broke up. Both families were not getting the fact that they are both tearing us apart. After lobola we called them and explained what they are doing and if they didn't want us to be together they must tell us so that we know what we do and stop the drama. Since then we are both happy and have been married for 4 years now.

[@sthe_zar6341]

It is very important to send abakhongi who can stand their ground when negotiating because once you face the problem you're mentioning it means they failed you.But indeed there are families who're very greedy nowadays.

[@kelebogileapril1864]

Modimo a ne le lona kona o fele. ❤🎉 Love how you understand the importance of your partner

[@rixongilefortunateyingwane3861]

Your woman must convice them I convince my family

[@hlengiwembatha713]

Phala mfo...address the issue to the elders. Kuzoqonda, other families are just there to ruin their own members' bliss.

[@auskoki7473]

I really appreciate how you conduct your interviews..such a seasoned broadcaster.

[@potsomolebatsi7697]

Yah, I have to go an have in depth conversation with my elders about how we do this. King David, Mme Manjoro thank you.

[@NameBrand6743]

There's a layer of coherency that is being left out. This exchange idealises the parents / guardians, as though these people are not themselves falible humans who are either not respected by their children (for their own reasons) or worse, they are dubious themselves. So why can't the conversation be held within the context of modern problems? This idealism of what isn't our collective reality does not help us, because our lives are not the model of this idealised past (a past which is itself viewed with rosecoloured glasses).

[@dinoonenyn8929]

This lady is a blessing. Shine on Khehla ✨ 🪔🕯️

[@mamolewamodiba9159]

This topic is complicated and thank you to your guest for untangling this subject. Thank you Kehla🙏🏽 May we also thank mothers who raised respectful sons.

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Khehla Manjoro should visit the podcast every month, there's so much education here🙌🏾

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Yeah, that'd be nice. ☺️

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Residency! Would be great

[@bhongomwanda3223]

I always feel so blessed that she chooses to share her wealth of knowledge with us. Amongst other things, it is her kind heart that will take her places. ❤️

[@vivianmphela6983]

I didn't know of Khehla manjoro since yesterday,,,so I simply went on a hunting spree for all her interviews and my heart is full... Siyabonga Khela for your enlightenment Rea leboga ntate Mashabela for the way you engage and navigate the conversation 🙏

[@siphosibiya5862]

let us be honest Mkhulu Manjoro is the only one currently in one of these podcasts whos explaining n dishing out important knowledge that most Gogos and Mkhulus fail to explain clearly and shout out to David for asking very important questions we needed this info

[@khethiwemethula4977]

Another power packed episode, thanks King David and Khehla Manjoro 👏🏾

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No loadshedding formed against me shall prosper. I can not afford to miss this episode. Especially if it's Khehle Manjoro❤

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😂😂❤❤❤😊😊

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Love this woman.. well informed about our cultures.. very wise about EVERYTHING THAT CONCERN'S A BLACK COMMUNITY...

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Quiet an intriguing conversation.... The truth on another level right here

[@mokolobetsimogoiwa1605]

Have Pt1, pt2 and this (Pt3) saved... Too much needs to be learned and understood. Always a beautiful conversation with Khela Manjoro and Bra David. Thank You🔥👏🙌

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Khehla manjoro uyangikhulisa spiritual kuningi engikufunda kuye uyi spiritual mentor yami love her

[@NH-eq9pn]

Lost for words. Amazing wisdom there. Thanks again for bringing Khehla Manjoro. God and the ancestors bless her 👏🙏

[@LadyLe-z7o]

I agree with the presenter, that lady is a gift and she's beautiful ey. I've learnt a lot.

[@boitumeloelizabeth2521]

I think I'm watching this episode for the 20th time... I love this lady

[@boitshepomakhoba6987]

Respectfully, watching this I lost count of marriages I know of which were doomed from very the beginning from just fumbling this process and I sympathize with them. I learned so much from this episode!

[@zeesays726]

Marriages fail because of the people in the marriage and not because of processes.

[@zwidenxumalo2467]

Thanks mkhulu manjoro about your podcast it is more educational to all African people people in both side groom and bride family you are making the lobola more easy keep it up

[@willyfanyanalephuthing752]

This was insight and very educative to us Africans and one wish such treasure be recorded(Books) and we keep on seek connection with our roots while we live in this busy life.

[@zukiswarune5885]

She indeed is a gift to all of us.She clarified questions that have been troubling my spirit since I got married.Thokoza Khehla

[@matshidisomzinyathi357]

Free éducation that u give us WOW, tomorrow we are the one's who will be chosen to go negotiate the small information that we get everyday it's really important to us so that we can do the ryt thing that will help us grow even spiritually.

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I love this woman wow she so amazing uyalazi usiko nesintu😊

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Indeed Mkhulu Manjoro is a blessing and thank you eternally King D for always educating us.

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David you are the greatest actor ,think of doing that .We will enjoy your movies .You make this discussion very interesting on point.Well done Khehla Manjoro &, King David educational Bravo I love it because of the learning curve to us all.

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Have watched this twice. Will probably revisit it at a later stage. Profoundly enlightening and stimulating

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Thokoza khehla Manjoro,You explain everything very clear,when you talk,You really know what you talking about, Thokoza khehla 🙏🙏🙏❤

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First time listening to Mkhulu Manjoro Im learning a lot thank you king

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Its 3;19 AM and bumped into this that healed my soul.

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I had to watch it twice in a day..... Very very informative. Thank you Khehla Manjoro. Love and light to you and your family ❤. Thank you King David ❤

[@remandlo]

She's an absolute gift to all of us, much love ❤❤❤. Thank u to u too King-D for the questions 🙏🙏🙏. I have never seen you so intrigued in all the previous episodes. What a Master class...

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I can't get enough of the knowledge that she is sharing with us she is really a gift❤

[@thomasratswana1383]

Today I learned a lot big up to the KING he is asking all relevant questions. Salute...

[@ameytheistZadkiel]

It's like they are intertwine to the bones.their voices together Jo! I could listen to them to sleep and anytime.❤

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South African law makers did not really research or proper consult the traditional leaders on how indlu emnyama does umshado. The lady uyicacisa kahle🙌

[@joytholo1716]

Khehla Manjoro, words are not enough to appreciate the knowledge you are imparting. Do not get tired of sharing❤🎉

[@tumymusa9483]

wow, I learned a looot from this episode. I think most of us are just in the dark about such important matters.

[@bonganiramatsetse1716]

Lol this interview got me thinking I need to get married soon yaz, that's the effect Khehla has on me, how she articulates everything man is just too tier, ngathi she can be part of my lobola negotiations hey lol. anyway great show guys. thank you for the nuggets of wisdom.

[@Refilwekhabe]

I can’t wait to hear this one. We need her at least once a week Abuti David

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Please

[@kelebogileapril1864]

Khehla Majoro Thank you for Clarity with regards to culture and the importance and acknowledgement of God being first in all things.

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My Favorite guest 🙏🏾❤️ mkhulu Manjoro

[@loratomasia]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ohhhhhh your spoiling us bra D, I love Gogo very much re mo kopa every 2nd week. The wisdom she's impacted with is what we need. Thank you very much

[@oumamasiteng1378]

We really need these kind of conversations,thank you khehla Manjoro and King D.

[@sivatofutshane]

She really is a Gift, may she blessed abundantly. I hope she writes a book to preserve this information because our nation is lost. Thank you for this episode Mr Mashabela 👍👍

[@balatedijosia6444]

She makes Everything she's speaking Soulful and Captivating. 🐝🐝🐝

[@Funeral1000]

Ntate Dave thanks for these encouraging shows please don't stop unless god decides to love you and I wish you well I also realized that I need an MBA god to bless you for making notice that

[@King-Matshobane]

Listening to these episodes just made me feel by tradition people of Southern Africa we are one. My ancestors are Nguni, they moved to Swaziland and then settled in Zimbabwe. I can relate to most of the things discussed in the conversation in our Shona culture.

[@MphoLucia13]

This days lobola gets complicated from price we are treated as commodities, families treating us as slaves and elders taking sides in solving problems. It's really complicated

[@pabatsomolawa586]

Very important conversation🙌🙏 its through such that we are introducing ourselves to ourselves as Africans, in terms of our customs.Because lobola is an extremely important cultural institution of African cosmic genesis that traces its origins to the convergence of the Aggrarian (matrilineal) society and the Pastoralist (patriarchal) society. Even though is not fully acknowledged by ukhehla Manjoro, women play a very critical role in all these lobola negotiations. The source of power yabo-Malome is women (bo-Rakhadi and bo-Mmangoane) after all for example - whenever there's a deadlock in these negotiations, the other party (yabo-Mkhwenyana) would ask to be excused for a brief moment. And all that they are going to do is to call the WOMEN😂 back home that we have a deadlock, and how do we proceed from here and WOMEN will then give the instructions and they would go back to proceed with them. The puppet master is always the women. But most important lobola comes from the Arranged Marriage System, and that was primarily to build strong family structures, something that is non-existent today.

[@thapsaphiri]

Your podcast is a gift. Thank you

[@chiefer1325]

I'm saving this recording for my son...very educational

[@sibusisiwendzimande5688]

Thank you, Bra Davi, for letting her know sh'es a gift wow man thank you, ...you're a king indeed chief.

[@princesstlaka3323]

Thank you hle 😊our KingD and Mkhulu ❤❤❤you're really a Gift to us..God bless you guys may your cups never run empty overflow for ever.. I'm so healed after this thank you so much.

[@kingdavidstudio1]

Our pleasure!

[@Cazza321]

Thank you David for bringing this lady to your show i've gained a lot of helpful information Which i must take it into practice Thank you once more

[@imonlyababyintheeyesofgod4131]

Imagine yourself asking Jesus how much money should I ask Him to merry my daughter Jesus wouldn't be pleased at all '' read Zachariah 11 hopefully it will open your heart women wasn't educated in the pass they would give a gift now its a demand of $$$$ rather then Goats cows pigs or even work for there families daughteerr

[@KelebogileSelebogo]

I'm so fortunate and blessed to come across this coz my daughter uyalojolwa as we speak and there's a lot of confusion but this will help clear that

[@eunicemngomezulu5494]

Mkhulu Mnjoro siyabonga to teach the us and reminds us how thing need to be done in olden days pls now teach us what do with lobola money after wards who must handle or use ngesintu.and phahla process uyibika kanjani edlozini Thokozane

[@SibabalweRala]

This conversation sparked something in me. I hope we have many more conversations around conversations like this. Thanks Dave

[@12Tebza]

I've learnt a lot on this episode, thokoza Khehla Manjoro. Thanks King David.

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She is such a beautiful gift❤

[@malemohakhaka3160]

Waiting very patiently for this episode❤. This is the Masterclass 🎉

[@michellemoreana1938]

I love her so much I can't wait to listen in. King David don't EVER keep the episodes short when khehla majoro is in the building

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Thanks KIng David Studio's for preserving such knowledge.

[@rosinahnkoadi3382]

Thank you Mkhulu Manjoro for the knowledge and guidance. I love you

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❤ooh!! I love this woman she's so divine and peaceful, African women are gods

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I truly love Khehla Manjoro....So much Wisdom...

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When is she coming back

[@raynekhali4676]

What a n education of African values,thanks.

[@tshedi2966]

Eish🤣🤣Ngiyabuya ngiyanazi mos...I'm loving it! Balance is crucial ko magading bathong. Life is good and ra equalizer like dat💯 Re a leboga Rre Mashabela for this one🍾RESPECT is the basis of it all🙏🙏

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Always wanted to know this side of our beautiful culture These are the type of info always mesmerize me Thank you for this sit down 🥹

[@lungelokhumalo940]

Such an insightful episode, I loved everything about it. I have learnt alot thank you so much. Great conversation

[@kobetji]

Almost the whole argument is defeated if you don't believe in the underground people

[@cliffordmothibinyane3596]

I thank God for her existence...Keep on teaching us.