KNOW WHO YOU ARE: How To Be Grounded & Have A Strong Identity

How to build a strong identity by clearly defining your goals and values... A step-by-step process!
►►► APPLY HERE FOR A FREE COACHING SESSION: bit.ly/2S9YVum
JULIEN's INSTAGRAM: / julienhimself
Julien Blanc is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
===================================
KNOW WHO YOU ARE: How To Be Grounded & Have A Strong Identity
In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to build a strong identity and how to have a strong sense of self!
Discover how to be grounded and how to have a strong identity by knowing who you are, what you value and where you're going!
#julienblanc #julienhimself
===================================
Subscribe to JulienHimself’s KZbin Channel: / @julienhimself

[@JulienHimself]

Want my direct help to change your life trajectory and reach your FULL potential? 👉 Fill out this application right now, and see if you're a good fit: bit.ly/2S9YVum 🙏 Get a FREE guided meditation (How to let go of fear & anxiety): bit.ly/2JIkFJU 🔥 Get your copy of my RECORD-BREAKING program Transformation Mastery! (+4 exclusive bonuses): bit.ly/3vse34E 💎 My 12-month INTERACTIVE guide to personal transformation: bit.ly/3gUaccv ✨ Subscribe here for NEW videos: bit.ly/3w1ZTHD

[@DJLane214]

"You wanna know who has a plan for you? Your past trauma." Wow. Gotta let it go to grow

[@JulienHimself]

YES! 🙏

[@Iamam313]

it's impossible to let go of trauma when it keep hitting you through people on the daily

[@Florianpimpf]

​@@Iamam313 thats actually the best way, action trigger release repeat...

[@TIRapi1993]

Wow that really hit home. I can’t believe I’ve never asked myself what I truly want in life. I’m super excited to go all in on High Vibe Communication 🎯

[@JulienHimself]

Nice! You're going to LOVE it! 👊

[@NewNormall]

@@JulienHimself comment it yourself then reply it yourself nice job julien himself. (FoThRa)

[@IntuitiveWanderess]

I love to tell myself and remind others that our authentic selves are our abundant selves! This requires radical honesty and it brings so much clarity and better use of your energy. Good stuff! Thank you

[@antwuntrademark]

Know my values and know where I'm going then filter every piece of information through that. *What are my top 5 values?* 1. Health 2. Authenticity 3. Freedom 4. Business / Service 5. Connection

[@lexwarmenhoven]

You made me look at my social skills back in 2017, 2018. I learned a lot and now i’m strugglin getting back to the person i was before the depression. This time with real boundaries. Love man, thankyou for being you ❤️

[@jimilthakor3798]

Same man 🤜 I'm also healing my self and trying to get myself back..

[@justaguyinwonderland]

Good luck! I seem to remember a time before the age of 12 when I wasn’t depressed. Im not sure if it’s because I moved school around the same time and lost all my friends or because its because I got older and started freaking out like other people often do. What’s your experience?

[@lexwarmenhoven]

@@justaguyinwonderland I think that you have the opportunity to make new friends everyday. I also lost some good friends trough the last few years but life doesn’t stop by moving school or a new neighborhood. You can meet new people every day! I also focus on the good things, day by day. Every night i think of the good things. That makes me stronger

[@marc2638]

Julien you are an absolute treasure for a lot of people, you seem to help many I love listening to your lectures because for me self help self assessment self Positive talk has always been in my life. I didn’t have supportive parents I had working class Parents too busy to care about feelings back then but hey, all worked out for the best, I have a hard time seeing that people lie to not just others so much but they lie to themselves so much just to get by!! Isn’t that tiring??? Why do some it seems have such a hard time being honest with themselves? Why is that so hard when to me it isn’t a punch line it’s my way of existence. I really do not understand the amount of people that are so toxic to others and to themselves that’s crazy to me why would you wanna self sabotage like that??

[@TexanShield]

This is absolute gold. I needed this reminder today

[@Oblisk]

Already 3 min in, that’s where I’ve messed up with this whole “self improvement” stage of my life. My friends weren’t productive, not looking to improve, so I slowly isolated myself to work on what matters to me. This happened during the same time as Covid started. And in a sense, it might sound like a good idea at first, and it did help in some aspects such as learning to be self independent, but two years later, I am now truly isolated and regret doing that. I’ve lost good connections that could’ve grown along with my self improvement, and even though my friends weren’t on the same vision as me, I could’ve been that one friend who inspired them to change as well, but I am now just realizing that and didn’t back then. Now I have to accept the decisions I’ve made and make new connections, or maybe try to rekindle my old ones but cutting off people just because of your own selfishness is a detriment to your success, and I have now just learned that at 19, and glad to have gone through this at this age rather than later in my life. Don’t go into your journey with this “lone wolf” attitude, everyone needs help in some kind of way and it’s okay to accept that.

[@focusedallday5620]

If they were good connections they would still be there brodie. I had to go ghost from partying, selling dope, and hanging out on corners to go to school for the last 8 years. Made some new connections and lost some old ones. I didn't talk to my old ones for all 8 years, and I hit them up and it's like nothing changed lol these were good friends that had things to lose and were also working on themselves.

[@Oblisk]

@@focusedallday5620 you are right, if they were good, they would still be here. I've also hit some of my old friends, but like you said, not much different. thanks for your reassurance

[@focusedallday5620]

@@Oblisk yeah man, there’s a number of reasons they could’ve fell off. Sometimes it’s the best thing that could’ve happened.

[@Sun-ng7gj]

From the sound of your story. You didn't do anything, you just had shitty friends. Better ones will come along that are in line with your life

[@ImJonasCortez]

I like how this guy is called Julien Himself to show his message even more. Found this dude exactly 10 minutes ago and already laughing my ass off because it's so relatable. Subscribed, Liked, etc. Julien, you truly deserve it. 😁

[@JulienHimself]

Haha, thank you so much! Welcome to the channel! 🙏

[@IDCANYMORE000]

Julien you are really the best! I listen to you almost everyday

[@oscars.5078]

Juliens content is just amazing, it is exactly as he describes it. I think our society would benefit a lot from that knowledge and most people don't even know about that. In many cases traumatized people cause more trauma to other people, it's like a negative loop.

[@JulienHimself]

Yes! Glad my content resonates! 🙏

[@kpencil]

My major trigger is being authentic in front of my parents. I for the first time today ended up shouting at the top of my lungs in front of my mom and she invalidated me. I was interested in listening to my inner voice after that. A dominant part of me agreed with her and a small little voice seemed to be on my side. I realised that i need to do this often. To me the thought of doing this again is quite daunting.

[@baxtita]

Hi julien, greetings from spain, i've been following you and you work for 15 years now in rsd and by yourself, what i've found really useful to stay grounded and focus is to have really well established values and standards in my personal perimeter as well as boundaries , so i know who i am ,i know what i value and i discard anything that doesn't live up to those things in my reality . Thanks for everything you have done.

[@pponcho8245]

6:06 You learn to love what you do. Im an analyst and I honestly love working with Excel, VBA, Tableau. I want to learn Python cause I hear you can do wonders with it. I get it, its boring to some people, but I get a kick out of figuring out how to process and extract difficult data. I dont hate, but I prefer not to work with people. Just me and numbers.

[@badassproductions4734]

7:00 I try my best to fight this, I see myself worrying to often about if the people around me would approve of who I get into relationships as if they are part of the relationship as well.

[@JulienHimself]

Very common... Learning how to let go correctly is what helps with this! 👌

[@badassproductions4734]

@@JulienHimself thanks so much

[@jayjones9225]

Wow. One of the best clips I’ve seen. “What is your win and how do you get there”

[@JulienHimself]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@victorunbea8451]

At this point I'd just like to be able to think fast and on my feet without worrying about social and/or approach anxiety. That would be a win goal for me. For the other part of the personal development I have a solid idea going forward.

[@yonathanrd1]

This helps tremendously comparing to others is never a good thing!! Compare yourself to yourself and make sure youre better then your version of yesterday

[@JulienHimself]

YES! Be inspired by others, but don't compare yourself to them... Every single person is on their own UNIQUE journey in life!

[@ale189251]

Society has a clear path for everyone in school for the first 19 years. Then all of sudden you have to figure it out yourself and you never learnt the skill for it. And if you are good at something you always have to hold back to let others catch up. Putting you in this only give to others mentality that seems to be the standard for men today.

[@hustlersplaybook]

I like that, from 5.50. Things we want to be, a big part is conditioned to believe that. But i feel also, we just like the parks of how far somethings gets you. But they have no clue of the grind that goes beneath that.

[@mont9150]

Tq for sharing your seminars in KZbin. U r very different from others motivators. And I love it when u talk about reality rather than fantasy!

[@billywayneruddik6307]

I already know everything. And was doing fine before propogated. I should be teaching this guy

[@pandasexshaanix3163]

Shout out to the guy who laughed at the creative ppl part. I feel you my man.

[@kameel28]

Thank you Julien for sharing this during the lockdown (from Netherlands)!

[@JulienHimself]

You're very welcome! Post your biggest takeaway here below when you're done watching it!

[@Mus4shi15]

You mean fundamentally kill your identity and build a new, better ego???

[@davidpeter4588]

Lockdown is prison terminology...

[@Murphator]

"Entrenched in the comfort zone of inauthenticity".... nailed it

[@Ignorezbeats2]

Really nailed it but i cant grab the thought. Can you tell me a few sentence about that?

[@Murphator]

@@Ignorezbeats2 its easier to be inauthentic than it is to be authentic. Most are your patterns are about putting up a false front for defense. Authenticity and vulnerability are about bringing those patterns down

[@musicproductioncentral4540]

There is no self. The ego is not real. You don't need any improvements or plans. You're perfect. You were raised to believe you're not good enough.

[@famasstuff8533]

Im not feeling quite well nd Not grounded I want dat profound passion Nd love Dat makes me see beyond myself

[@OwenCookFreeTour]

Super important topic -Owen

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks! And Agreed!!

[@Lovelee_Dae]

Owen!!!!!!!!!!!

[@juliansteur]

If not the most 💪🏻🔥

[@thomasgarayua4979]

Did you just quote yourself?

[@ericwolfe666]

Glad to see this again.

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@veronicakimbrell]

Omg the framing thing is so true! Every time I don’t drink my friends won’t drink either. 🤣

[@JulienHimself]

Yep! Check out high vibe communication if you want to learn more about this! 😉

[@epicwolf]

This guy definitely know who he is by dressing the way he dress

[@JulienHimself]

Lol, yep! 😂

[@adrianpribill7487]

I thank you deeply for your amazing content🙏🏼

[@ndivhomuvhango1671]

Success is not money money very underrated 💯🙏

[@leandrew2725]

Thank you, Julien, for your video. I used to believe that if I hung out with successful people, I would be successful like them. But, hell no, I have never seen any success in my life right now, haha.

[@habeshatea7628]

This guy is on point,listen up kids

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@petermorgan3274]

Great stuff! Thanks so much for this Julien. 💪

[@JulienHimself]

Glad you liked it! You're welcome!

[@focusedallday5620]

This is actually how you deal with women too. You ask yourself what type of women you want and what do you want them to do for you. Then you strategize around that answer. Stay Focused Guys!

[@bwoyyyy8729]

Wrong analogy in so many ways

[@focusedallday5620]

@@bwoyyyy8729 explain..

[@MagneticUnicornVlogs]

Thank you, Julien. Know what you want and communicate it.

[@JulienHimself]

Yes! You’re very welcome!

[@erniescrabshack]

Every video is a home run

[@JohnDoe-iu5xi]

Time management. Great idea to keep your priorities in line with a clear and set schedule. 👍

[@Watercolordragon]

Great! starts like Tony Robbins finish like Peter Levine. The whole pack under 20 mins.

[@flavorvortex7428]

Highly appreciated!

[@jonblask9543]

Thank you julien

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome!

[@rgrantconacher5300]

Great stuff thank you

[@JulienHimself]

You're welcome!

[@rohanmhadse316]

Oh i find it ...and i know that to much helpful

[@igloososa]

Julien, I am new to your content. I love the knowledge you're dropping and the style with which you drop it. Where can I find the list of 10 aspects of life that I should prioritize? Thank you, brother.

[@JulienHimself]

Welcome to the channel! That list is something that I give and teach my private mentoring clients... You can apply here if you're interested! 👉 www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

[@igloososa]

@@JulienHimself My goal is for private mentoring by 2023. I've signed up with HVC for starters.

[@TrentonTompkins]

I loved this girl, and I swear to God, my ideal life would have been living in a trailer, in a trailer park, hanging out with her and her family and programming. And instead of doing that, I got pressured into going to school, pressured into student debt, and ended up in jail and prison, all because I wouldn't stand up to my narcissist mom. I tried so hard, and still lost, because I overfocused on money. The money wasn't worth shit. @15:45 I'm looped :( and I think I'm looped, because I can make a new goal, but I can't *want* that goal more than I loved her. I wish I could go back in time.

[@RTSBone]

Student debt landed you into prison?

[@TrentonTompkins]

@@RTSBone Yeah, you could say it started a "downward spiral", but my first felony was for growing psilocybin mushrooms because I had a $400/mo student loan payment and didn't want to work a job just to survive and pay off a loan. Its weird, but owing 30k is so much worse than having 30k is good. When you owe money, you aren't free, but you can be broke, and still be "free".

[@RTSBone]

@@TrentonTompkins 30k is not that huge. If the amount is crazy like over 150k, then just make a smart plan for bankruptcy or something.

[@izarawanjiru]

Just discovered your cannel today 😘 Epic. My mantra is also I Have Health Wealth and Abandoneds Always.

[@JulienHimself]

Welcome to the channel! 🙏

[@davidobrien3669]

Another amazing video.

[@JulienHimself]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@kalingucci]

Very well said!

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you!

[@elsingon7464]

New Supporter Here 🔥🔥🔥

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you! And welcome! 🙏

[@therealmr.incredible3179]

My favorite color is Yellow, only in Small Hints. I like Architecture. I like to Exercise. I have a Oval Shaped Face. I know I’m Handsome. These are all part of my Identity.

[@23ofSeptember]

This guy's look says "You can dress like a slob, have a dad bod, and still be successful" Its all about "owning it"

[@JulienHimself]

Lol, YES! 👌

[@lilyshealinggarden5648]

Thanks 👍😊

[@JulienHimself]

You're very welcome!

[@ZNP306]

This is fucking crazy, i'm literally building a sense of self, boundaries and finding out how to work with people WITH my boundaries. Literally watching your videos in the morning and this came up 🤣😭 Thank you

[@JulienHimself]

Glad this resonates!! Let me know your biggest takeaway from this video here!

[@priscillamoon_]

Hey Julien! Do you happen to have a video on how trauma can run your life, as you were mentioning before the video ended? Or recommendations on what tools/techniques that have personally helped you on your journey? Thank you! Your videos are so helpful - coinciding perfectly with the book I'm reading - Psycho-cybernetics :)

[@Se7enLuckyslevin]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKCQnmWDgrCNmtU

[@jojopoeticstyle1224]

Sounds like cancel culture in the beginning. To those going through/went through this, chin up…. It’s time to stop being a victim, live up to your own standards, be happy, & cut them people loose. stop swindling yourself to go back to what hurt you then complain about being at square one all over again. LOVE TO LIVE YOUR OWN UNIQUE LIFE. I’ve got High hopes for 2022

[@Lovelee_Dae]

Let's go Julien

[@JulienHimself]

🔥🔥🔥

[@billionairefxclub7647]

Such a powerful speaker....Good body language, good posture Calm, relaxed and confident Thank you brother....Strong message that resonates with my spirit

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you!! 🙏

[@adityavikramsingh802]

Bro i know this is random but your inner game module of pimp is super fucking awesome I made a shit ton of notes and I read it like a biblle

[@JulienHimself]

Lol, just wait til you see what’s in High Vibe Communication! 😉

[@akashmishra5224]

He is good

[@ndivhomuvhango1671]

You only behind if you compare yourself to others 🙏💯🥁🔥

[@JulienHimself]

YES! 🔥👊

[@elfiesageran1585]

I've heard in another video that you are an intj, right? me too😉 i'm also really obsessed with typing people and for some reason i thought you were an isfp🤔😅

[@JulienHimself]

INTJ, yes!

[@jakeh2049]

Man 1st part hit hard. 100% I have no idea what I really want. Or at least am not convinced what I think I want is what I REALLY want. Any ideas for working on figuring that out specifically? I’ve done the Derek 3 question exercise, did not seem to get to the bottom of it… do I need to do ayahuasca or something?

[@JulienHimself]

No need for ayahuasca, lol... Let me know if you'd like my help with this: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

[@IntuitiveWanderess]

My reality, my rules!!

[@JulienHimself]

Yes! 🙌

[@DanielLopez-lz1bm]

Great Knowlegde God Bless 🙏

[@JulienHimself]

🙏🙏🙏

[@ZORRO6392]

Good one!

[@JulienHimself]

Thanks! What was your favorite part of the video?

[@hannibalmiles2015]

Do you have to do Transformation Mastery before doing High Vibe Communication or will most of it be reviewed in HVC?

[@JulienHimself]

They definitely complement each other, but you can jump into High Vibe directly, yes! 👊

[@onion_ring0024]

I genuinely have nothing I'm super passionate about, and anything I'm slightly passionate about I don't have enough knowledge on for more than 2 minutes of conversation, I have also tried so many things but nothing sticks for long, dunno what I'm supposed to do from here

[@JulienHimself]

Very common... Let me know if you'd like help with this: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

[@tannerworship]

Love u julien😘

[@JulienHimself]

🙏 - What was your biggest takeaway from this video btw?

[@234dream_big]

Health

[@ryankontoh2842]

Love this

[@JulienHimself]

Thx! What part did you love the most?

[@juliansands4391]

Great insight and a very thought provoking topic. Definitely resonates... but... and not to be super critical Julien but your name would be better spelled Julian like mine. Besides that great content. Just work on the name thing. Been watching for years, I can tell fatherhood has had an effect on your thinking. Very grounded mature advice. Love it man, keep fuckin killin it, I can tell this is your passion/purpose and makes you feel alive.

[@sunexia4252]

*Juliens* better

[@Sambalamba-bwst]

Grüezi, du bist wirklich klug

[@Se7enLuckyslevin]

hey julien what is it called when what someone says to themselves is actually the opposite, because if they were feeling that they wouldnt feel the need to say it in the first place... like someone telling themselfs to be confident means that they are not bc if they were that, then they wouldnt feel the need to say it .

[@taylor_gray]

@julienBlanc 🔥 Creating the reality I feel most comfortable in. Thanks bro ✊🏼

[@JulienHimself]

Nice! You're welcome!

[@bluejanis5317]

10:45 or if you compare yourself to your best version. Is that bad though?

[@hardstyle3196]

BRO I struggle with this

[@juanzilla6436]

Hey Julien! 👋

[@JulienHimself]

Hey!

[@juanzilla6436]

@@JulienHimself Any quick tips on controlling facial tics when being stared at by many?

[@briellass8657]

Really happy I found this channel. ❤️

[@JulienHimself]

Great to hear! Glad this resonates with you! 🙏

[@mananoublack213]

nice one

[@JulienHimself]

Thx! Let me know your biggest takeaway!

[@perrito1989]

Is knowing who you are and clear of your values a reflection of having healthily developed a personality in your younger years? If you don't know those things, what does it say about you and having developed a personality? I wanna know of those two are related in any way.

[@JC-sp6ov]

What do you say to the non dualism people who say the self doesn't exist?

[@Mus4shi15]

The ego still exists. In other words, you still have a sense of who your “person” is: your person’s likes, dislikes, etc… So think of this as maxing out the stats of your avatar.

[@JulienHimself]

Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g2nJaZ6deKeVq6s 😉

[@Seiseary]

Ok

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@bradkeegan6787]

Huge

[@JulienHimself]

Oh, yeah! What point resonated with you the most btw?

[@wesker1739]

I watched vids on this subject. No lie, I don’t even know who I am. It’s like I’m walking around with no identity

[@JulienHimself]

Then definitely something to work on! Let me know if you'd like more personalized help with this: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

[@authenticliving3086]

This video has been re-upload. First one is still the same . The only difference is camera angle.

[@PrivateEquityGuy]

*7 things to quit for all Alpha Male:* 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not prioritizing your health 4. Wasting your precious time 5. Chasing meaningless relationships 6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 7. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.

[@Englishsea24]

Never heard of an alpha male not believing in themselves.....how would that happen? If it did, I bet it doesn't last long nor need much help. I'm no alpha male, never will be, just curious

[@xxChacaronXX]

50% of the time hang out with people on your level... 25% people who are above( to teach you) 25% who are below you for humility and gratification

[@king1ut275]

Shoulder flick " very successful people " .... Epictetus would of been proud

[@JulienHimself]

👌😂

[@alysa97marie46]

Hi five!

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@Jamb13]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@matimoi]

17:03

[@theinfinitevic9017]

👏🏾

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@Englishsea24]

Top ten values? Really as many as that? I managed to come out with about 4. Doesn't matter though as I don't expect all that much from myself. Great speech though, well done

[@JulienHimself]

Yep! Try to get AT LEAST 10 minimum... I would even do 20-30! 😉

[@justaguyinwonderland]

It’s absolutely insane hahahaha Yes.

[@Jukelikesgames]

My current life is exactly what Julien is warning against there at the end. "Comfort zone in inauthenticity." Fuckin sucks. There's no zest to life for me anymore. Lifes become just conforming to people and situations that i encounter like a chameleon, getting better and better at it whilst knowing that im just slipping further and further away from that authentic self/inner child screaming to get out. Zero self respect. Infinite amount of repressed resentment.

[@JulienHimself]

Let me know if you'd like my help breaking out of this: application.julienhimself.com/ 🙏

[@abhilash1603]

🧠💡

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@cxa011500]

I don't hang out with anyone...need to find out how to make friends period 😶

[@JulienHimself]

Get your copy of High Vibe Communication then! Making friends is SO EASY with the right tools and guidance: bit.ly/3EQK9MA