Kofi Siriboe on Overcoming Insecurities & More | A Sip w/ Issa Rae

Best known for his role in 'Queen Sugar,' Kofi Siriboe recently appeared on the final season of #InsecureHBO! In this drop of #ASip, he and Issa discuss staying resilient, being from LA and what keeps them passionate about this work.
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[@chatchickchat]

I will never forget the time I met him at the Delta customer service counter at LAX. He came up next to me I look over at him at said” You are “ and he smile an said “ Yeah darling”. I melted right then and there. 🥰

[@telikaandfam]

i would have died!

[@cadyg2531]

Lawd, I would’ve replayed that moment in my head over and over again 😂🤣

[@petra_fine]

I would have also melted

[@tiffanyk.1955]

I would have been instantly moist down there...............yeah

[@cassiesarchives]

@@tiffanyk.1955 LMFAOOOOOO

[@SoulSugarJoint]

I wish the audience wouldn’t sexualize him so much, he was talking some real stuff. Especially the part about mental health and his backstory for creating JUMP.

[@daniellemoxey9940]

Thank you! He was being so incredibly vulnerable and a good amount of people were cheering/laughing during moments when they should have been contemplating and processing what he said...lowkey distruptive...start listening & stop lustin

[@niahnicole6124]

Asé. I felt secondhand embarrassment😔 This was such a great conversation almost overshadowed by the wrong focus.

[@keelawalker7336]

@@daniellemoxey9940 it's weird to have this kind of intimate type interview in front of what sounds like a crowded audience. It seems odd to me.

[@JB4C89]

Agreed, he is a beautiful human physically to look at, but we must remember he is soo much more, Im impressed with how open he was. He started acting very young, and seems like he is ready to expand beyond that. I hope he finds his peace.

[@keelawalker7336]

@@JB4C89 yeah at times he did sound young. At the time of this he was only 24 (not like he's old as hell now though)

[@MoCo1007]

This young man is WISE. And his vulnerability is absolutely admirable! I’m an old head and I plead with these youngsters to take over. Y’all know and you need to trust it.

[@TYSHAAA]

I appreciate that he took time to think about his answers. I think in interviews and for all of us in life in general, there can often be such a fear of 'awkward silences' that we try to give the fastest answer without thinking. He took his time, processed his thoughts, then spoke them out loud.

[@prettywingmagic]

I noticed this too and took notes on it.

[@cadyg2531]

That’s what you call confidence. I didn’t realize I do this until my now boss told me I did this in my interview a lot and still do. A lot of people are reactive, instead of listening to hear and reply with the best answer.

[@lotusphoenix8]

I appreciated this too!

[@daniellewatson8352]

@@cadyg2531 Yes, many people seem threatened by it.

[@astoriawalton4573]

He said if he could do anything he would do nothing but bills gotta be paid lmaoooooooo HE TOOK THE WORDS OUT MY HEART LMAOOOOOOO!! Yass king lol

[@lauryn7798]

kofi mentioned so many things i deal with on a daily basis that i haven’t seen anyone else touch on. love this.

[@Lia-li3yc]

same omg, i'm so glad i clicked on this. I did NOT expect him to be so deep, thoughtful and introspective.

[@TheGracefulGlowup]

He's actually wayyyy deeper than I've realized. Like dropping real facts. Listening to him speak is so refreshing. His wisdom, spirituality, & thoughtfulness reminds me of lot of the greats PAC and Nipsey.

[@Soulofamoon]

He’s a prophet just as they are!

[@jykirachanelle2599]

We need a Kofi podcast his mind is so powerful💖

[@dbestiindaworld]

Yes cause his voice is soothing.

[@janavianyoung3847]

Yes!!

[@kimberlyruiz8643]

I agree.

[@Zim24Diva]

I usually don’t care for celebrity podcasts, but I’d listen to Kofi’s. His thoughts on material wealth not bringing true liberation and on practicing real mental health and not just the veneer of it are interesting.

[@lisamcclendon3943]

I so agree.

[@raushanahmcshane3503]

My mans sounds tired and I can definitely relate. When he was talking about acting because bills have to be paid...we working with for the bills lol whether you got 9 to 5 or you're an entrepreneur "bills gotta be paid"

[@Neleylonglegs]

Everything he said was GOLD. Years later… this is still so relevant.

[@princessaaliyahangelique300]

Absolutely. Just watched this and this was so relevant

[@Soulofamoon]

It really is!

[@hyattbarkhad616]

"I don't think about suicide, suicide thinks about me" You really just saved some lives

[@ghettobohemian2803]

Aside from him being BEAUTIFUL, his passion for the arts is great to see. This is definitely an inspiring interview.

[@mimismith856]

Kofi’s talk about suicide hit. I was in a dark place contemplating it myself. My mom passed 3 years ago and without that rock pulling me of the ledge, it seemed logical. Mind you I have a loving husband and family that love me dearly and that’s what I had to tap into to turn that around. Also was listening to an old Tranformation Church sermon, and Pastor Mike Todd was talking about inclusivity in the church. 1 Cor 12:12-27. I always felt like an outsider. Like I didn’t belong to this or that crowd, but I will Always be accepted into the Kingdom of God. That was powerful to me.

[@candiicaine]

🙏🏾🙏🏾 wish you continued healing!

[@mimismith856]

@@candiicaine Thank you so much

[@jupiterskiss3473]

💛

[@eusiasali]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@TheMzshaw]

Amen, I understand where you were. I lost mine 2 years ago and if I didn't have my daughter... God gave me the light to keep going the same year she passed.

[@LoveisJustice]

I love Kofi even more after this interview. My favorite quote " I can't continue to think its my normal to wait for someone to say yes." Man, that speaks to me on soooo many levels i.e. personally, career, and spiritually. Thanks Kofi for dropping gems

[@ashleyolds6516]

Listen! This interview pretty much wrote his character on Insecure! That conviction he has, definitely influenced his character and that episode. Love it!

[@spinellicarelli]

so true!!

[@briabrimmer6503]

I see why they chose him to play Crenshawn on insecure. Brother got levels

[@daniellemoxey9940]

This man is way deeper than I initially imagined...my fault sir! You better come through with these thorough thoughts! We love to see it King👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@JenarraTreadwell]

He’s still not happy because he needs to feed his spirit. It’s our spirit that thirst. We think we can feed our spirits with worldly things, success, money, drugs etc..but it’s God & His word that we need to feel happy & settled. I wish him the best on his journey. 💕💙

[@just_queen_che6706]

Omg this man is a true gift. The thoughts that are coming out of mouth are the Word!!! He better preach!! I just want to be in a conversational Cypher with him

[@Itsquera]

Yesssss!!!!

[@chantellelamptey9771]

Ghana on the radar!!!! 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭If you here to support our Ghana brother let me see you repping!!! 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

[@sincereiam]

I attended the NAACP stood next to his aunt, not intentionally, as he walked up I said only a black woman and black man can create that. He walked over to the lady, hugged and kiss her. I didn’t know she was his aunt at this time. I said I want a kiss too. He gave me a hug and kissed me on my jaw. ❤️ Such a beautiful man inside and out.

[@alexandrianaomi]

I remember him saying he had a huge crush on Issa years ago. 🥺

[@eshatubes]

Yep he tweeted " Issa Rae is Bae"

[@TheSouthernsweetness]

His humbleness and his mindset his demeanor is what makes him even more attractive.

[@AllEyezOnMeTMC]

"We don't know who we are, because there's no unity." I say this often. Thank you, Issa and Kofi. Much needed discussion. And I'm all for transparency...I agree that our mentors, guides, teachers aka OGs need to offer up more of that to help us on our journeys.

[@Shyrajayy]

This man has depth and purpose. You can hear it in his voice. and the vulnerability in his points that he shared? Pure gold. I hope you find what you're looking for.

[@shannon_d]

Kofi!!! Hearing his thoughts on fame and his desire for real experiences and connection is exactly the vibe that I got from him. I met him randomly in New Orleans a few years ago and that interaction aligns with everything that he's saying! ❤👏🏾

[@mscici001]

Damn..Kofi has hacked my brain because that is EXACTLY how I feel about being deceived by family and the old heads on not passing down the truth and transparency and egos. When can we dismantle the generational curses??

[@royalblue6747]

He’s a self aware and wise man…I dig it

[@informedRev13]

Handsome, wise and spiritual, who wouldn't fall for this guy! I love his energy!😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@deidrafryer6630]

As an old head I am so proud of these awesome young Black Creatives. Our future is so very bright as they create space for all of us to be free.

[@shelbigrant1393]

The level of intelligence this young man has is to be commended. I appreciate his honesty and standing in his truth. He has such a strong perspective that he could very well be a motivational speaker. Hell, I'm 60 years old and learned so much from him, how to navigate through life, putting yourself first and to just simply BE!!!

[@destinyjoseph9048]

LMFAOAOA HIS FACE WHEN ISSA SAID “Well we have the before pictures” 😭

[@tiffanyk.1955]

Besides his gorgeous appearence, he's so well spoken and articulate!

[@smileprayslay]

I love that Issa held professionalism the whole interview and asked amazing questions. And Kofi man thank you for opening up the way you did and chose impact over playing to admiration 🙏🏾

[@90sVybz]

It's the authenticity and intelligence for me... Love him!

[@yellowfever2405]

I haven't watched the whole thing but he is representing Ghana and that alone means the world to me...

[@khanyisagura4377]

Yo Kofi is so awake! Spiritually lit! Wow! I love this so much!!! What a beautiful wise spirit ❤❤❤❤🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@akilamsoftly8093]

This is the most honest and transparent interview I've seen in a good while. Protect this man!

[@abyanfarah1076]

He should write a book for young black man. He she lot of wisdom!

[@1717Warrior1]

One more thing, healing my mental health has brought me closer to my spirituality.

[@cadyg2531]

Works every time

[@RinaJazzmean27]

This has been my favorite one! Wow I don’t know what I expected, but I am so very pleasantly surprised by the weight of this conversation. He has a beautiful mind, and I really appreciate hearing the depth of it. Thanks for the interview Issa and thanks for the Transparency and Wisdom Kofi.

[@SuchASaint]

“What I thought I was obtaining was a design”. Wow! I have not resonated more.

[@hello_04]

Woah....he’s really going in on things people really should stop to consider personally. He’s really talking on a spiritual level the existential thoughts of reality. A true introvert is in this train of mind everyday while people are talking hustle culture. “Happy are those conscious of their spirit needs” Matthew5:3.

[@GaelleCarole]

The freedom of this conversation is so DARING. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@queenus9246]

So deep. Happiness does not come from success, wealth and fame. Mental health is very important. I love this interview. Not too many ppl would even be comfortable to have this type of conversation. Vulnerability is a true challenge but it’s a sign of strength. ✊🏾

[@aderoprescott4461]

The transition from sober to tipsy is always so funny to me. Enjoyed this interview.

[@Book2screenqueen]

I’m happy to finally see this interview with Kofi and Issa. I’m a poor and definitely didn’t see it in 2018 😂. He was great in Really Love

[@GodsTribe]

Once you're free, free others...or tell them how to get there. It feeds the spirit and gives life purpose.

[@Tia.K.C]

This guy is a poet. Really enjoyed listening to this 🙏🏽

[@jayytee4363]

He spoke real truth. Wise beyond his years!

[@isleybruh]

What he said about not being able to feel free without combating his body image issues resonates with me. Currently going through the process. It was kinda cathartic to hear a guy verbalise it. Seems like a cool, down to earth dude.

[@KatinaDavid]

Man, I should have been sipping tequilla with this outstanding conversation.

[@mookamaow]

He is so thoughtful!!! I found his perspective to be refreshing, he’s on a journey. I see that we will definitely work together someday. Issa is officially Queen of Getting Niggas Tipsy wit they Guard Down 🙌🏾✨ love it!

[@gwenbby2]

He is such a Pisces. Great interview!

[@savonnahsmith4112]

Not many people will admit that when he says money and success doesn't make him happy,. He say yes he has stuff but he's nothing...very very humble brother!!

[@OptimisticKTV]

Seeing this interview really made me respect Kofi even more. His wisdom is top notch and I love his mentality on not subjecting himself to things that don't serve him. That's a major key.

[@Chinks113]

I can whole heartedly relate to everything he’s saying! It’s how a lot of us feel everyday!!

[@oliviajonale]

“You design it, live it, and enjoy it” -Kofi PERIOD

[@kdw8592]

🤯 this was AMAZING! I appreciate his transparency and his vulnerability. He said the things that needed to be said!!!

[@111earthangel5]

What an enlightened beautiful black man 😭😭

[@buggedout1]

What a wise man. ✨

[@letibee3671]

This makes me feel HOPEFUL. hopeful for our future black creatives, for our black men, for our black ppl in general!! I hope that more ppl can just see the world and themselves more clearly because in todays society there is so much filtering happening. we need real-ness to be IT again

[@93cherryluv]

this was the most truthful conversation i have heard from a celebrity in a while, ESPECIALLY that part of about the lack of generational conversations amongst the older generations and us, young ones. SO much of our problems could be solved if they just open up and be vulnerable about their lessons learnt.

[@char8170]

Umm in love with this man if I don’t meet him I hope I meet someone wonderful as him and every women deserves a great man like him 😭😭😭❤️🙏🏾

[@niahnicole6124]

Something in them damn dranks🤨😂😂 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾another great conversation here, we love to see it! Your transparency and testimony is deeply appreciated, Kofi! Thank you Issa and all involved!

[@ConfidentlyZay]

He touched on a lot of things that were deep without even going deep. Good Interview

[@illuminousone]

His calm energy is truly a manifesting energy

[@lotusphoenix8]

I love listening to Pisces! I love his mind! I appreciate how he takes his time to think through everything instead of rushing to fill the spaces with words for the sake of talking. I appreciate his feminine energy so much ❤ As for the part where Issa disrespected the 'old heads', not cool. Our parents don't know what they don't know. They did the best they could with what was passed down to them and they didn't have the internal capacity to think/do better. We have different tools and capacity and it's our responsibility to change the narrative going forward. Future generations will see where we missed the mark and we will need the same grace too.

[@livinnonprofit7891]

Awww he's so real and genuine. I appreciate you so much my pisces twin flame for sharing your story and journey Kofi, keep going young King ♥🥺🙏🏽 Thaaankkk Youuu Issa for choosing him to speak on this beautiful platform, you're amazing sis 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽‼

[@C.M.S.]

This freaking interview is everything 💯

[@NNED16]

I love his energy sooo brilliant. Thank you Issa Rae for this conversation with Kofi S.

[@kaylaarissa._]

I love how open honest serious and passionate he is

[@daninegrah1627]

Estou apaixonadaaa q homem lindooooo

[@msann4999]

Finger Snaps, Kofi! DROP THE 🎤!

[@ArianeL]

found myself through his words honestly, he mentioned so much valuable stuff. Good interview fr fr

[@Kayyllaa_]

Wow. This is beautiful. I’m glad that I took the time out to listen❤️

[@amosed9210]

issa is a really good interviewer; I appreciate how she was able to re-group and keep the conversation going; Kofi is also a really thoughtful person! this was a good interview overall

[@Potentialaj]

Omg the best interview ever

[@cocochanel2118]

I would say to Kofi keep pushing The “No’s” are okay although sometimes we just can’t deal wit a no. I get it. The acting is gonna be the tool that gets you to where you want to be or need to be. Love that you want more money to help more people. You’re doing fine. You are so on the right track. You got this with the mess ups and all. That’s how you get to greatness.

[@neycielyons]

This honestly blessed me-I’m going through something similar to him and what you’re saying is so wise and simple. Sometimes we gotta just keep moving through what we’re moving through with the vehicles we have and trust that shift and know it all ok 💗 thank you ⚡️

[@KeySlaysss]

I didn’t even look at the video and just listened in my AirPods and I have never realized how wise this dude is loved the interview and he’s so much more than his looks !

[@rrealjuliuss]

Damn bro real af. I was feeling the shit he said this interview. Like yeah he good for self. But not good enough to Liberate his family. This was years ago so I hope you did just that my brother 🙏🏾

[@rondaniels985]

This man is a Preacher….🙏🏾

[@psat21]

After drooling over him and actually listening to him I realise he is my husband 😂😂

[@thejasminediaz]

😂😂😂

[@cadyg2531]

I’m sitting here thinking this man needs to come to London and we need to meet so he can fall in love with me 😂🤣🤣🤣 not only is he fine, but his wisdom, and so many points I agree with him on.

[@corsicanlulu]

girl get in line, we all want him😝

[@cassiesarchives]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Nappystorm]

I love this because he had such a crush on Issa 😂

[@quesaraisarai]

This conversation is really hitting home. Thank you to Kofi for bringing more awareness to mental health

[@shoneephillips8797]

Fan and I do write. I totally understand the weight thing. Ive had to embrace my weight at whatever size. I ve lost the weight and gained it back over 15 years. Im working on it now and I still shine! Happiness to me comes through loving yourself no matter what, and having faith in God.. We are works in progress. And yes old heads need to tell the truth! I would love to share my experience with mental health. I was in a situation where i went from providing services to clients, to becoming the client. Ive conquered thevstorm by the grace of God and now Im here to tell the story. Lets connect.

[@ah00dii85]

Good interview, love the questions, like how kofi was honest about insecure, it takes courage to tell ppl your problems and facing them head on especially being a man.

[@cj10109]

He’s telling so much truth here. He’s real cool. Love these conversations 💜

[@RacquelNM]

When I tell you everything he said I relate to! I shouldn’t even be surprised because he is a Pisces.

[@glorynjoku7651]

My Pisces brother ♓🍥🐠🐟

[@cadyg2531]

I had to Google lol I was like ooohhhh this is why he’s so smart lol, I’m an Aquarius and vibe with Pisces heavy

[@shelby114h]

Acknowledge, accept, ascend.

[@jykirachanelle2599]

no but fr.. who checks on the strong person? we need help too..Mental health problems are a big problem, that nobody rarely speaks about. Thank you Kofi ⭐

[@all4islan444]

Sounds like he is searching or has found his purpose when really that’s exactly why God placed us in this realm

[@theleveledupgoddess3746]

Before Issa got married. I always said her and Kofi would’ve made such a dynamic empire. I hope they do more projects together.

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

Idk she seem to goofy for him and he’s to profound for her imo

[@kisha4040]

@Ricky Bobby Da Star He had a big crush on her but she seems to have zero interest in her.

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

@@kisha4040 interesting & he might got too many ladies for her who knows

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

@@kisha4040 interesting , he might have to many ladies for her , it’s funny I had a supervisor who said I look like this dude 2 yrs ago when I kept the cutt low . Let’s just say I never gotten written up lol 😂

[@kisha4040]

@@rickybobbydastar6534 😂

[@rosesarered2285]

Immediately clicked play

[@KeishaCharmaine]

Same sis 😍

[@carriegreen155]

Kofi is phenomenal. He was speaking directly to me

[@chargrove7467]

Design it, live it and enjoy it….Amazing interview!

[@loveAmiXOXO]

Issa was so ahead of the game with this series… every single guest 🥵

[@lisamcclendon3943]

LISTEN!!! All this right here has blessed me. The absolute best interview I've ever seen. ❤️

[@oliviajonale]

I don’t want to do any more asking & thats that! Period Kofi!!!!

[@innov8amrt]

i see myself being blessed with an interview with you Issa Rae. See you soon