Koj Tsis Yog Super Woman Li Koj Txoj Kev Khav Theeb~12/27/2022~

[@kelbra3689]

Agreed! Just because things are going good for you doesn't mean you're special. Just count your blessings because you never know when you'll be facing hardship.

[@khashinglor3177]

Always be humble. You never know what the future holds. Empower each other, everyone has their strength & weakness.

[@maiyang6601]

Good learning lesson to be humble and respectful towards others no matter how great you think you are. In fact, be a positive light and help lift others up in their time of need when you’re the one on top. Everyone goes through periods of prosperity and hardships at different phases of our lives and none of us can escape life’s sorrows. Good times don’t last forever and neither do the tough times but karma is real and you will receive what you give.

[@laoher4491]

I agree!

[@kojkuvwb3170]

Very well said tus Sister!!

[@chongxiong340]

That's why they said don't judge plus it's karma.

[@mmx2025]

Agree! Niam tais aws koj mas hais yog tshaj os. Yus paub hnub no xwb tsis paub tagki es yuav tsum hais lus xaiv tau neeg thiab.

[@xayxiong1061]

Yes women who thinks their smarter n better will still get their own karma.

[@hlubyang4072]

Txhob tu siab os ib cuab xeem hmoob yeej muaj 1..2..tug Superwoman 🦸‍♀️ nawb...hom poj niam no mas yeej khav theeb thiab nyiam thuam neeg

[@kojkuvwb3170]

Yes! We have a few of that too but they have no true friends and their lives seems miserable cus all they do is just for show not genuinely from their heart

[@mlee6092]

So sad Hmong women can't support one another. I see this kind of toxic competition among sils all the time. No wonder women often are just servants for men.

[@ScarletQue]

Agreed😢

[@kojkuvwb3170]

I can’t never understand these types of people who always brags about themselves and looked down on others who are not at their level.

[@nangvang1541]

Yeap, I have seen alot of those.

[@yangthao5242]

Men and woman complement each other in the truest sense. I like to think alone we are just individuals but together we are Super - more than just a man or woman. Anyone who claims they are Super is probably close to if not narcissistic. These people do not care about any one else but themselves. And, they are so full of themselves that ethics and reasoning have no place. Ultimately, communication breaks down to unbearable levels and there is no relationship. To the sister of the story, you seem well reasoned and have the potential to make the marriage work. However, your ex-husband is very much like your "Super women" younger extended sister-in-law, and does not see and complement your qualities. I'm glad you have moved on because people with excessive self-righteousness do not want a real wife/partner but just a slave. They will never see the good that you do, but that they are never satisfied and will use any reason. Take care of yourself, it's never too late to learn, and find something meaningful and fun to do. Let go of the shadowy past and look forward towards the brighter future.

[@maiyang1508]

KARMA is real and that’s exactly what she got in return.

[@amazinggrace8136]

I guess the lady telling the story got what she deserved too bc karma right?

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

Npaj rau yus lub neej zoo tshaj li npaj rau qhua os..

[@tonglee4630]

Yg kawg lawm

[@kevinyher5240]

Qhov zoo tshaj yus yuav tau hlub saib xyuas yus tsev neeg ua ntej mus ua zoo hlub cov sab nraud.

[@msyngseer5560]

The entire story, the daughter is the wise one. This mother is no better, by criticizing the other woman.

[@huashi06]

I get that she was conceited and had high egos but you didn't need to nyos her like that. Just be happy that everything happened to you was for a reasons and everything that happened to her was for a reasons too!

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

I hate how the SIL bragging about they are royalty back in Laos. that Shh don't matter here now.

[@missysmart8620]

Hmmm. Yep! Your husband is like mine but I'm old now, so I told him that I retire from taking care of his companies. And that he'll need to take care of them himself.

[@abingahershey8614]

No one is superwoman or superman. We all have our days when we are happy and motivated and can take on the world. Then days when we just have no strength to go on. Be humble and less judgmental. The universe will humble those who have high ego and look down on the less fortunate. Have an open mind and compassion for others, otherwise the universe will give you life experiences to humble you.

[@hmongremark2686]

Ib nkawm niam txiv twg tias yog tus niam tsis hwm tus txiv no ces lwm tus poj niam los txiv neej sab nrauv haj yam tsis hwm nws vim lawv twm tias txog txij nws tus poj niam tsis hwm nws lawm ces tus neeg no tsis muaj qab hau rau leej twg hwm. Apply rau tus txiv tsis hwm tus niam tib yam nkaus. Thiab tsis tas li no los tib yam nkaus rau ib tug thawj coj hauv ib pab kwv tij.

[@kevinher3546]

Txhob tu siab os tus me viv ncaus cov uas khav theeb es nyiam thuam thuam lwm leej lwm tus ces yog cov neeg tsis txwm ib puas thiab tsis paub tab xwb kuv txiv twb ua toj xeem tab sis peb tsis khav theeb tias peb yog noob nom noob tswv peb yog ntxhais txawj ntxhais ntse peb txhua tus puav leej yog nom yog tswv txhua tus puav leej txawj ntse li nyias qhov uas nyias txawj ntse koj tsis zoo li kuv hos kuv los yeej ua tsis tau lli koj thiab ntuj tsim peb los ua neeg tsis zoo ib yam muaj qhov sib txawv tab ntuj yeej pub nyias muaj nyias qhov kev ntse los yog kev txawj tus neeg uas yus txaus siab hlub nws lWm mas txawm tsis paub ntauv ntawv los yus yeej txaus siab ua txhua yam rau nws muaj qeej tus niam tsev loj loj siab siab zoo zoo nkauj los tseem rau rau yus yeej thuam tsis tau thiab paub tsis txog yog vim m li cas Tseeb kawg nyias muaj nyias hmoov txhua tus pom niam yeej tshaw kom tau tus txiv zoo ua lub neej sib hlub sib pab kom txog hnub laus uas av luaj quas tab ib feem ntawm peb lub neej ces txawm tshaw lub neej zoo los yeej tsis tau thov tswv ntuj nrog koj kom koj tsuas muaj ntsib lub neej kaj siab xwb

[@chaoher6715]

Kuv tsuas hnov ib tog lus xwb kuv yuav tsis tuaj tog twg tab sis peb ua neeg nyob tsis yog yuav ua kom lwm tus qhuas lwm tus hwm tab sis peb ua neeg nyob yog tias tus ntawm yus ib sab hwm yus ces luag sab nrauv thiaj saib tau yus thiab os tsis hais poj niam txiv neej li nawb

[@suabcuayaj877]

Truthfully, yog koj ua ib tug neeg nyob es tub yees qhuav qhawv xwb no mas kuj tsis tej lim tiag thiab ov, especially, yus paub tias yus tus txiv coj li ntawv...tab sis qhov tseeb koj yeej chim rau koj tus txiv es lom txwm ua tus tsis paub xwb...licas los koj twb dim lawm ces nyob twj ywm xwb mas.

[@colleenchan9872]

Yog kawg nws rov haus nws cov kuab zaub qiab es nws thiaj paub kev lwj siab mob plawv! Kuv mas ntxhub cov niag pojniam khav theeb thiab thuam neeg ko tshaj plaws lau! Cia kom poob ntab li no duav dam tag ntsoos cuag qaib mob aws thiab paub mas!

[@nengxiong6991]

Txawv ua luaj yog yus tus poj niam tsis tij lim ces tsis txhob tsab2 ntse es coj neeg los saib yus heev2 !! Tsis tau pom dua yus mus txib lwm tus niam tsev tuaj ua mov rau yus tiam yus cov qhua !! Tsis yog tau ntsej muag !! Yog poob ntsej muag xwb os !!

[@pt9730]

Muaj tseeb li tus niam tsev no hais luag tsis rau yus sab khau ces luag yeej tsis paub tias mob siab khib siab tu siab npaum twg, cia nyias mag nyias thiaj li paub.

[@Mloogzoo]

Karma is real.

[@charlesher.9508]

Tau ib tug txiv zoo li koj tus txiv ko ces ntsaw khiab nyhiab zoo dua qhov pheej yuav tau hwm nws tej phooj ywg thiab hais rau cov poj niam khav2 theeb g cia lwm tus qhuas yus xwb yus rov qhuas yus ces g zoo dab tsi os.

[@baaktaho8533]

This Ntxawm Nyiaj sounds like my sil. 😂😂

[@diannaxiong693]

I love my husband nws yeej tsi ua ib yam dabtsi dhaus yus li..Yog coj li tus txiv tsev no yeej yuav tsi muaj ib tus poj niam yuav ntev tau li nawb.HAHAHA NO BODY KNOW ABOUT THE LIFE GOING TO CHANGE AT ANYTIME STOP DON'T SAY ANYTHING ELSE.

[@pkcyang2910]

Khav2 theeb li koj tus niam ntxawm no ces nyuam qhuav ntxim mag kiag kom nws paub tias ua neeg nyob txhob lam saib tsis taus lwm tus.

[@elisely5353]

Tus txiv no tsis paub kev cai kiag li ..

[@chengxiong9980]

Koj niag txiv los yog txiv dev hos niag niam txawm los yog niag neeg tsis paub kev paub cai. Tos yog luag tus niam tsev tsis nyob tsev tsis tas yuav mus ua maum nkai zoo zeeg hos yog koj tsis nyob tsev lawm nus tsis muaj txoj cai yuav hu rsu koj niam ntaw kom tuaj us zoo zeeg. Muab hais los nkawv ces sib phim kawg. Cov txiv thiab cov niag poj niam coj tus thab thi li ntawv ces yog txiv dev thiab maum dev. Thiaj sib phim xwb. Muaj ib cov poj niam yeej zoo li ntawv yog yus tus txiv los khib2 nus cuag li yus nrog nus koom ib tug txiv. Cov zoo li koj niag niam ntxawm no mas ntxim txub thiab tsis paub kev paub cai. cia tau qhia kev cai rau koj nkag nus lub hlu. Ntshe koj tub tsis paub nus tub muaj siab rau koj niag txiv dev lawm os. Tsis li ces nus yeej tsis ua maum dev thab xub. Cov zoo li tus txiv dev zoo li no nrau zoo dua. Cia nus mam mus noj tom nus tus me niam ntxawm siab zoo2 ntawv. Txhob khuv xim tus neeg liam li ntawv.

[@denamoua7262]

Bcz she gets too cocky...1. Yog leej twg tus poj niam tsis tij lij txhob coj neeg los tsev. Koj tus txiv ua tsis yog...nws tsis muaj cai mus txib lwm tus poj niam yog koj tsis muaj poj niam mas thiaj txib lwm tus poj niam. Xab maim no tseev koj zoo tabsi txiv neej ntshaw poj laib lawm xwb

[@nkaujhmoobusa2116]

Npam koj tus niam Ntxawm mas npam sai kawg. Npam Ntxawm Nyiaj sai tiag tiag vim nws txoj kev lim hiam siab ntais ntuj ntag

[@morthao5544]

Niag txiv no cev tim nw xw

[@youwatchme3631]

Koj tus ntxhais paub cai dua koj

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

You're too kind to tolerate a show-off woman as your niam ntxawm. She just haven't met her match...LOL God doesn't bless those who boast about themselves!

[@northshorelight35]

Also, it shows that she is narcissistic who knows how to pick her victim.

[@micahelijah40]

This kind of husband have no manner n respect. Need to learn from other mens who have love n respect. I always let my wife know ahead time to invite people to come over.

[@kongphengher2536]

Ab ntshe koj yog ib tug niag pojniam g tseem ceeb ho vim koj twb g muaj txiv ho koj tus txiv tau pojniam lawm. 😂 😂

[@kaylauj]

That's why people need to STFU about other people. SMH

[@timyang9728]

Poj niam hmoob npwb mas yog cov xam khib thiab ntshaw luag Tus zoo dua yus pom tsis Tau lwm Tus zoo

[@sunnygirl973]

Cias yuav ruam ruam es yus thiaj lis tsis ua leej twg qrhev. Nws ntse ntse nws mam UA hauj lwm tuag nthi xwb los mos ! Thiaj lis tsis SAB yus os. Kav tsij txhua yus lub zog xwb los mas !

[@northshorelight35]

I don’t know. If a man stays with you only because you’re practical, then it’s only because he is too incompetent. At the end of the day, he is still a man and will do stupid stuff, you’ll be mad because you do everything. And even if he doesn’t leave you, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t lusting after someone else. She said herself that she married an incompetent man.

[@MXhX88]

That niam Ntxawm Talk tooooo much

[@morthao5544]

Tim kj tu txiv xwb txhob chim rau lwm tus

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

I hate sister in law like this. I am happy my husband just have 2 brothers and we don't live in the same state plus they are with other race and not married to Hmong.

[@user-kh1ro6wv3t]

It don’t matter the race. They can talk shit behind your back.

[@kokolaurels5021]

Yeej zoo lis koj tu ntxhais hais. Koj yeej phem ib yam li koj tus ntxhawm.

[@miabhlub63]

Yeej muaj ib cov poj niam tij lim tshaj ib txhia. Take it as a lesson.