Korean Divorce Culture | Separation&Break Up

[@primal1233]

Thank you for another enjoyable an informative video Kaheva

[@cdcdogs4961]

Very interesting, thank you KAHEVA. 🤗❤️

[@cam_ridley4174]

Love and marriage in Korea sounds like a nightmare….NO THANKS!

[@greenman4508]

Wasn’t it Hemingway that said “ in love, there are no happy endings “?

[@david24442]

God bless you too! You deserve the best man who also has a great head, heart, and soul.

[@JayB-JayB]

Wow!... Korean relationships are truly intricate and complicated... I guess ALL relationships are complicated in some way, shape, or form...

[@bapua5052]

Love you

[@jungheo4124]

@@bapua5052😅😂💕

[@dsanford12]

Holy cow there's so many processes to this , i think somebody should write a handbook on how to do this

[@J-q1x8p]

That's interesting! I remember the KZbinr "Lily petals world" had divorced her husband and he mentioned that her parents who were old Koreans were separated but living together in different rooms. I thought it was just them but now i realize it's a norm in Korea for the older generation!

[@jungersrules]

I'm in my 50s and emigrated to the US with my parents when I was 5 y.o. I observed what is happening to my birth country from afar, and besides the technological advances and the appearance of advancement, it really hasn't modernized socially. So, for almost 50 years, Korea has not advanced in that area. Is it any wonder that it's the leader when it comes to the plummeting birth rate? And, it's still one of the highest ranking countries when it comes to suicides. I was shocked to see even young Korean KZbinrs obsessing over looks and their body. Again, Korea leads in plastic surgery. Strangers will make comment on your looks, ask you then judge you by what you do for work, etc. So, please don't be fooled by the look of modernization. S. Korea culture and society is absurdly antiquated.

[@Ripenready]

Thank you for such a concise video that is well put together.

[@Linda_Ann-ex9cm]

Thank you for always sharing information but also comparing the thought process between between countries. Here in the US 16 states still recognize adultery as a crime & a reason for divorce but all other states have decriminalized adultery as a reason for divorce. Instead of an at fault reason there is no fault & considered irreconcilable differences. In many ways, with adultery taken out of the divorce equation many spouses feel as if the cheating spouse is not held accountable for their actions & that within itself can be considered painful as the reason is not truly apparent or justified. I believe adultery should still be a reason for divorce even if it is decriminalized because it is what it is.

[@banan912]

Confucius = confusion

[@kimwilliams5165]

1st all people mentally sound are responsible for their own actions. So no woman could "induce her husband" to "violence" so she could "receive a lot of property." These statements show how internalized sexism is inside of the hearts and minds of Korean women, not just Korean men. Domestic violence is a very real problem around the world, including Korea, which often treats it as a private family issue. 2nd child support is not free $$$ for women anywhere in the world, it's money to fulfill his duty to support the children he co-created. It is hypocritical for anyone in Korea to speak of child support as free money that women receive, but then point to the sky high cost of raising kids as one of the reasons for the low birth rate. 3rd No one should bring up a conversation about the division of property as unfair if a woman gets 1/2 of everything. Women in Korean society due to sexism are often expected to quite their jobs and devote themselves to caring for the family, husbands, kids, in-laws, their own parents, even siblings in some cases. Korean job markets make it almost impossible for women to return to the workforce after taking maternity leave, or years off for child care. So of course a divorced woman will need income from the former spouse. For example, in the case of someone trapped in a car on fire, that then drives into a lake and the fire is put out, that person is still trapped in a car in danger of drowning. For the women of Korea it's important to remember doing better, does not equal doing good. The fight for equality inside of the home and legally still is an uphill battle.

[@highonimmi]

in the west we cal it "pushing someone buttons'....you can make some people lash out in anger if you know how to set them off. so, yes, you can induce to violence.

[@greedyreader15]

​@@highonimmi a normal non violent person will not come to violence unless it's a life or death situation, theirs especially

[@dealman3312]

Thank you so much for making this video! God bless you

[@nerdsworthpoindexter6661]

Great video! ❤

[@ESPANOL-pw9vi]

That's interesting. What happens to the children after divorce if the parents become enemies and don't see each other again?

[@greedyreader15]

Either get left with grandparents or orphanage, or one of the parent (who may try to argue to avoid custody)

[@SapiensKaran-rm7kj]

Thank you and God bless you all!😊🙏

[@jasmeetsingh2946]

And here I thought Indian marriages and divorces were complicated😂😂😂

[@vallin-o3q]

😂lol

[@greatkaafir7478]

Stupid Love Marriages Only " 😂✌️

[@exploreandunravel5773]

In India , its the Whole Family especially Parents and Husbands giving up their lives because of the greed of Girls aka Expensive Hoo k s

[@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni]

Thanks Kaheva . Now l understand Korean's culture better . ❤❤

[@nirathiruvasagam9158]

Facinating. In the west its a no faults divorce. Assets are divided equally no matter who cheated . In UK its only 3 years since no fault divorce was introduced. Much less drama.

[@Winterowl-f2z]

Lets not fall in love or marriage Again the problem is crazy heart

[@user-ym8lz3yj8l]

7:37-7:43 Yes it's not easy in your culture because someone takes half of the other person money, owns or wealth after divorce.. in my culture there is no division of assets or wealth or 50/50 or half after divorce... What the husband owns is his right and what the wife owns is her right, only if the husband and the wife enter into a joint project together like they contributed to it together and financed it together it will be 50/50 after divorce or she gets more if look at the percentage of the wife contribution and her financial participation in it and she will get the amount of the wife contribution and her financial participation in it after the divorce.. For example, in my culture, Husband and wife have the right to divorce.. the husband has no right to the wife money and what she owns only if the wife give him her money and what she owns by herself without he asking her so in my culture the husband and the wife have a separate bank account meaning the wife is Financially independent from her husband... the wife has the right to keep her family name so in my culture the husband and the wife have a separate family name.. anything the husband buys and register it on his wife name it becomes the wife owns for example, if the husband buys a car or a house or any kind of business and registers it on his wife name it becomes the wife owns even if they divorced. anything the husband buys for his wife like gold or jewelry or whatever and gives it to his wife as a gift it becomes the wife owns too. When they divorce the wife gets the divorce wife alimony which is 3 months and sometimes may reach one year and she gets the divorce dowry that agreed before the marriage

[@JayB-JayB]

You look great in Blue Kaheva!!! My favourite colour on you! 너무 섹시해요!!!😍

[@shalomnwachineke8677]

God said I hate divorce. So pray first before you marry and when marry close your eyes and focus on your marriage 100 percent 🙏 I ❤ kheavas Amen

[@nirathiruvasagam9158]

@@shalomnwachineke8677 soon marriage will be dated as more and more people believe its an institution.

[@pacopeso8474]

Very interesting thank you

[@Hector-ir8fj]

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH KAHEVA!❤❤❤. YOU TEACH ME SO MUCH.👋💯🌿🤩🌹. I APPRECIATE YOU.🫂❤️🫶🌺YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.

[@xavierbotticelli5384]

KHAHEVA very beautiful and clever girl, thank you for sharing, I’ll love to know more about South Korea ❤🎉❤

[@sureshmohan3015]

Same in india.

[@zacharikurbah6358]

Thank you for sharing this

[@loveofanimalsinc.visaliaca8508]

One of my favored korean actors divorced his korean wife and married an American woman. They had an affair before he divorced. Even though he's a man, he hid his divorce from the public for a long time.

[@Chapachapihomie]

Thanks❤❤❤

[@gs-nt6nf]

Kaheva is very lovely

[@davidhello4777]

hi Kaheva!!!!!

[@usa3479]

I now need psychological help after trying to understand the divorce process in Korea.😢

[@jungheo4124]

Agreed!😂🎉

[@ac13apollolee77]

It's still morning here Kava. I don't nesaserlly agree holey but you are so well intention God bless you ! And Mery Crismas

[@greedyreader15]

You're Korean or a bystander? Is your not agreeing based on what you saw or how you perceived the dynamics?

[@RaiderElliot]

We are staying together ❤️ forever ✨️💘💙💛

[@joeburns88]

When I got my divorce it was great. Best thing I ever did...free as a bird:)

[@vallin-o3q]

Congrats!🎉🎉

[@asongjamir4244]

New subscriber here unni☺️love From TaSoNg VloG from Nagaland ❤👍🏻

[@williamjesse8357]

Hello Kaheva sweetheart.. it is most wonderful to learn more from you, as for divorce i would not, never ever divorce you and would love you to my last breath... I truly love and adore you even if we are half a world apart love ❤❤❤❤❤ Will Pennsylvania USA

[@JayB-JayB]

Kaheva, I'm so grateful that you and I still talk to each other about our UNDYING LOVE after all these years!!😊😊 We're such a unique couple!! 😊😊❤ 🤭

[@ravichandranchandrakesavan3311]

Lots of love from Tamil Nadu 🙏

[@CARL_093]

Thanks kaheva

[@JayB-JayB]

Kaheva! Let's NEVER get divorced!!! Instead, let's live Happily Ever After!!❤❤😊😊

[@upvotecomment2110]

So complicated No wonder birth rate in Korea is plummeting hard 4:43 - I mean... Why does Government need to get involve in this already complicated personal life?

[@nc1975]

What guy in his right mind wants to get married and have children. Just pump and dump.

[@himanshuarya2704]

Kaheva looks like an angel

[@pranavjadhav18]

Confucianism and sanatan dharm has so much in common but divorce word doesn't exist in our dictionary. ❤

[@rezayaseri2790]

how to keep our couple's life forever? 😆

[@FlyingGuillotine22]

mi wifee filipina...... a true healer

[@astralclub5964]

Whoever marries Kaheva will be the luckiest man alive! No divorce ever!

[@himanshuarya2704]

Good morning kaheva 😊

[@mikaeljas5000]

❤❤❤❤

[@patches1483]

Marriage based on money. Female children sold with a bride price and gifts of houses, cars and money. This is the reason why marriage rates are lower in Asian counties in recent years.

[@tklims1678]

👍👍

[@humansvd3269]

Gee, looks like I'll never get married....again. No point.

[@leahquispe4569]

Confucius was an awful person who did more to hurt than help ..... My opinion !

[@mystictraveler8642]

Not even close. It's the most intelligent. It's so ahead of times.

[@JayB-JayB]

Kaheva... if I break your loyal heart by leaving you for your BEAUTIFUL sister Heya.... WILL YOU HAVE ME SENT TO JAIL??😅❤ 🤗🥰

[@JeffKC58]

You are very pretty. I'm starting to watch your videos. 👍

[@NipunotoNipunotoyeps]

Hai family members

[@stevengibson9240]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@amarjyotichakma3006]

Is Kim jong Un still alive?

[@fernandoperez1]

pretty lady ❤😍😍

[@michaelashley2855]

How weird

[@harshitkumar5294]

Kaheva marry me I will love you till my last breath & adore you like my only treasure

[@BillyJoe-pj5xo]

I love you kaheva my heart soul head

[@davidponce6132]

Wow You are very beautiful 😘!!

[@michaelashley2855]

Seriously ?

[@WANDERER0070]

You have to break up well !? 😂

[@vallin-o3q]

Of course!😂

[@Disruptor1013]

This video further proves why the marriage and birth rates in S. Korea are so low. Not only is the cost of living in S. Korea very high (esp. in Seoul), but men and women see each other as competitors and not as potential partners. Also, unless you absolutely want children, there is very little benefit to getting married, esp. for men. Divorce can absolutely devastate a man financially since courts typically favor women with regards to alimony and child support.

[@realMaxEffort]

The U.S. has similar divorce laws, but they vary by state. In general, men have been screwed over by the courts so much that many men see no reason to getting married. For example, in a no-fault state, a wife can have a years-long affair with another man and then decide to ask for a divorce. She can get custody of their children, get child support payments, the house, and alimony payments. The husband is left with nothing and has to start over.

[@kimwilliams5165]

It's odd that a grown man would list child support payments as part of "men have been screwed over by the courts.'' If a man doesn't want kids or to be financially responsible for any, condoms are readily available and vasectomies are effective.

[@colinhill4963]

Kaheva would never divorce you,your gorgeous, lovely looking,move to UK.xxx😍💌

[@michaelashley2855]

YOU’RE nuts

[@rezayaseri2790]

You look soooooooooooooooooo BEAUTIFUL today ❤❤❤❤❤

[@michaelashley2855]

Soooooooooo

[@TheBub26]

martial law would have been fine in the 70s korea. today? must have been feeling nostalgic?

[@RB-pm2ni]

You are very beautiful ❤

[@michaelashley2855]

Who ?

[@marcushibdon2415]

Kaiva. Your a RARE BOUTY...😅😅😅😅

[@michaelashley2855]

A bouty for sure

[@alejandraparker7272]

There are 50 ways to leave your lover according to Paul Simon song...and then there is also murder...murder in South Korea...this according to the videos presented to the viewers by these Channels....... DARK ASIA WITH MEGAN GRAZY TV CRIME DOCUMENTARIES ROTTEN MANGO. 😢😢😢😢😢 I always found it easier just to leave while I was still in love. ❤

[@nestortan4040]

MarryMe Kaheva I’m not going to divorce you I swear to God