Korean misunderstand about Malaysia? / 한국인의 말레이시아에 대한 오해 / Cross Cultural experience.

[@malibirdtv9549]

First of all Truly appreciated for all the information & knowledge that you've given to Topic on Polygamy. 안녕하세요 여러분! 'Polygamy 일부자처제' 관련하여 안내 드립니다. 1. 우선 'Polygamy 일부자처제' 는 Culture문화가 아니라 'religious teach' 종교적 가르침의 조금더 정확한 표현이라고 합니다 또한 'Polygamy 일부자처제'는 몇가지 condition 을 지켜야만 합니다. U need your first wife permission to married another girl Second u must have reason to married another girl such as your first wife cannot pregnant and it's allow you to married another girl Third u can't just married another girl as your second wife u must married a widow and must have reason why you married that widow ,example for the reason is to protact that widow. Fourth to married more then one wife u need a stable foundition you must be rich and be fair and square to your wife's and u must have strong faith If u guys/boys/man's don't have reason and stable economy U not allowed to married more then one is will be problem and may be sins to your action ... U need to think for a long time and u need a agree and premision from ur wife or family first don't hurt your first wife and be fair ...

[@halsi2020]

Just a bit of correction/explanation for no. 1 and 3. In Islamic teaching, there's no need for permission from the 1st wife but for regulation purposes, the Malaysian government added that part into the laws to prevent husbands from abusing their rights and to protect the wife(s) from being abused. The 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife does not need to be a widow. It is preferable if they are a widow but they don't have to be one for a valid marriage.

[@Dee_Perspextve]

Just giving some extra info..Polygamy in Malaysia is only for Muslims(follower of Islam).. Not for Buddhist, Hiduism or Christians(edited)..The reasons why Islam allow us to practices polygamy is: In Islam, We believed in Al-Quran and Hadith (you can google it if you don't know what it means).. And there's a hadith in Islam long time ago, that said someday women population will be much higher than men.. And Islam strictly prohibited adultery..So in order to reduce the cases of unmarried women and illegitimate child, that might lead to unwanted crisis, Islam allows men to marry more than 1, on the condition that a man should be able to be fair to his wifes without doing any harm/neglect to any of his wife. This is the best that i can explain..Hope this can give you some extra information.. Best regard from Malaysia 😊😊

[@halsi2020]

@@Dee_Perspextve Syariah law in Malaysia is for all Muslims. So that should include Chinese Muslims and Indian Muslims, right?

[@Dee_Perspextve]

@@halsi2020 oppss..sorry for my mistake..what i meant by chinese and indian is actually buddhist and Hinduism..i just take it as generally earlier, because most chinese and indian in Malaysia are not muslims.. But if they revert to Islam.. Of course syariah law will be implement to them too 🙏🙏🙇🙇

[@malibirdtv9549]

Truly Thanks for all the information!!! I've learn so much this time...

[@shamohd203]

Polygamy is not a culture. It is a religious teaching in Islam. In polygamy, men can get married tp the max of 4 wives, but it comes with a package of responsibility and many more.

[@hakimzero287]

And its also important to able to support all your wifes with money and heart...if you not able to better not do polygamy

[@kaione309]

There is nothing sensitive to talk about polygamy. You make it sound like people shouldn't talk about polygamy openly. You can and should explain about polygamy so there is no misunderstanding about it.

[@arairyu2428]

Poligami best..

[@malibirdtv9549]

Thanks for the information!

[@hakimzero287]

@@kaione309 because its a huge responsibility from gods

[@Sunshine-qf2wc]

Ok, a quick correction. Muslim= the believer Islam= the religion

[@j.may0024]

Polygamy is allowed in Malaysia but it still rare for some of us , and it’s not a culture ..

[@malibirdtv9549]

Just knew that its 'religious teachings' not about 'culture' Thanks for the information!!!

[@kayellai5278]

It have to be clearly define the law on polygamy in Malaysia. For Muslims, yes, maximum four. For non-Muslims, NO.

[@khairulazhar8118]

For Muslim they were allowed max 4 wives but the man had to get permission from first wife and State Islamic Authority. They must prove they can support their wives in Syariah courts. I also has a Indian friend told me that Malaysian Indian Hindu also had polygamy. Same regulation with Muslim the man had to get permission from first wife and family court not syariah court. Polygamy also a sensitive issue to woman in Malaysia. Be careful when you talk this issue. 😄😄😄

[@kaione309]

@@khairulazhar8118 The husband doesn't need permission from 1st wife, but permission from the court.

[@timmy7138]

@@khairulazhar8118 I think it can be consider sensitive to both gender...some man hate polygamy...I think its up to individual, I know some women ok with polygamy, some are not, same goes with man...

[@raihanisuria6451]

I love the fact that you pronounce Malaysia as "Malaysia" not "Malayzier" haha

[@malibirdtv9549]

Worth it to learn Malaysia slang during college life in Malaysia haha

[@khairulanas5659]

@@malibirdtv9549 but that slang more to chinese Malaysian. I though you are Chinese in the first place when i saw this channel.🤣🤣🤣

[@raihanisuria6451]

Raisho27 0m0 malaysian Chinese also malaysian what 🤩

[@khairulanas5659]

@@raihanisuria6451 lol of course. I'm just telling him that he sounds like chinese when i first heard him talking. Even he sounds like indian it still Malaysian. I'm not racist on particular slang.🤣🤣🤣

[@Caramel_Macchiat0]

U know what accent/slang sounds like?

[@jangtoy]

The not-so-cheap fruit is true for imported fruits & if you buy around klang valley. Can get wayyyy cheaper when u travel to indo or thai. But it can be seasonally cheap. Like for example, mango is cheaper during its season (around april-may). Besides, can get cheaper fruits sold by the roadside on the way back kampung. Some orchards also open for fruit eating spree when in season😊. Polygamy is allowed in Islam. It is not a culture though. There's difference between religious teachings & culture. One man is allowed to get married to a max of 4 wives BUT it comes with responsibility. One must be fair, just and provide basic necessities for all the wives & kids. Basically, you don't just get married for fun la😂

[@malibirdtv9549]

Thanks for your information!!! im pretty sure that it helps to Korean audience regarding Polygamy topic. Also, thanks for letting me know that its a 'religious teachings' I was really confuse how to title on Polygamy.. regarding Fruit YES!!! Roadside at Kampung!!! its really cheap but in general, normal market has better accessibility to buy fruit! But i feel its still quite expensive ㅠㅠ I just really miss those Abang selling the fruit from the truck at subang ㅠㅠ

[@jadenights9808]

but most of them took advantage though~...dah lh tidak kaya muka tidak berapa hensem ada hati mo polygami, dengan cara kotor pulak tu~...

[@starishwar2034]

MaliBird TV You live in Subang right? Come to Dengkil, Putrajaya, Kajang, Bangi and Semenyih when you want to buy lot of fruits. The price to buy tropical fruit really cheaper. But varieties of fruit also determine it price per kg.

[@aisyahalias6683]

Yeayh..fruits definitely really cheap when they are in the season.. Better if ur friend come from kampung, u definitely can them free meh...

[@cantikpnd6384]

@@starishwar2034 where got!!.. last time we bought durian 45per kg laa, it just not special durian... these day only affortable person only can enjoy its🥴🙄

[@lightik919]

The way he speaks almost similar to Malaysian Chinese ady 😂

[@phyniliasubang]

I went to Seoul back in 2018 and the owner of the guesthouse that i stayed at asked why i do not use 'tudung' or shawl when i told him i am from Malaysia. I just laughed it off and explained to him that I am a Christian. He was so shocked and said he thought there are only only Muslims in Malaysia.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Yes this is so true! it reminds me when I went back to Korea 3y ago with my local friend here

[@99leen44]

😂😂

[@aidan2402]

What is more funnier is he have been here too long until he look like one of chinese in malaysia HAHAHAHA

[@malibirdtv9549]

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ A Localized hhh

[@Nicken0o0]

Still remembered an indonesian friend asked my malaysian chinese friend "where you from?" And He said "from malaysia la" "you dont look malaysia go back to china la" he look so offended. We both just stared at each other and at the girl. Its ok girl we can see the innocence in your eyes

[@malibirdtv9549]

The Girl really need to know world is way bigger than she thought lmao haha

[@maryati6088]

U can refer youtuber daud kim about polygami. He explains better

[@fkaofficialmy]

Polygamy is an Islamic practice where a man is allowed to take up to 4 wives at a time. But seeing a man practice polygamy is rare these days, the most you can find is them having 2 wives. Even so in Islam the man is required to equally provide and take fair responsibility for all his wives and children. And per Malaysian law the first wife must give her written consent before he gets married again. I hope non-Muslim does not view this negatively. This law was originally made to grant protection and security to single mothers and orphaned children but today most men are misusing the true purpose of it. They often use this as an excuse to abandon their first wife and children. It is not the law but people make it look bad.

[@아키라-d9e]

Unfortunately this hits close to home, I came from a poligamy family, I'm the first and only child of the first wife. My dad abandoned me and my mom when I was just 8 (I'm 22 this year), and he didn't even get consent for the second marriage from my mom (he created a false letter pretending to be my mom to get pass the law), and he hardly even fulfills his responsibility as a husband nor a father (his allowance was never enough, and he only gave allowance for me -his child, eventho he was -AND STILL IS- legally married to my mom).

[@aishahmz5634]

please be aware that the order came to Muhammad s.a.w was not to encourage polygamy, but to limit men’s wives maximum of only four persons only. i repeat, to LIMIT THE MAXIMUM wives a man can have. to prevent a man goes beyond boundaries in marriage u see, people from thousand years ago had practised polygamy to the extent of having hundreds of wives. not enough with wives, they even had concubines u know. like the china’s kings, the arabic elites, etc. the problem of having too many wives during that time were their husband cannot be fair to each of them in terms of spending night, provide shelter and basic needs, taking care of expenses, etc. a husband might be bias cuz he might favour specific wives and didnt pay attention to the other. this kinda like a torture to these abandoned wives, bcuz their husband cannot be fair to all of them equally. and also to stop the culture of having concubines, because these concubines will not receive the same right as a legal wife can. so it would be like a torture to them as well. Islam does allow polygamy, but doesnt mean Islam encourage it. it just says that if a man is capable, he is allowed to do so but maximum only to four wives only. but if he cannot, then enough to have just one wife for him. there’s a Quran verse that explain this u know. u can marry two, three, or four wives if u can be fair to all of them. but if u cannot be fair, just marry one wife only. even Islam encourage monogamy u see so i hope people will do their research before accuse Islam likes polygamy, Islam can marry many wives. please read the history first on how the order of having four wives came to Muhammad s.a.w first.

[@hannahnadhirah2382]

Add the word **prophet** ... Prophet Muhammad S.A.W

[@yogurtme2205]

I am 24 years old... i just know one person that have poligamy... never seen more that that... sadly they already divorced, but the husband dont forget to give monthly expense to his ex wife (the second wife) coz they have children... and for the first wife, the husband still stay together. Hoping the best for everyone who get through poligamy.

[@akabbaka4886]

Hendry.Actually polygamy is not an easy task for a Muslim.Even though it is stated in Holy Quran you can marrry 2,3 or 4 wives but if you cannot be fair...marry only one. Fair means is that everything must be equal...relationship...love....property.There are reasons for a Muslim to marry more than one.One reason is the first wife cannot bear children....or sick..or the sex of the male is too strong and the wife cannot bear it....and it is allowed to get marry other rather than doing adultry which is forbidden in our religion.

[@time3831]

I agree. Another reason is to protect family system. For example, if a woman marry more than 1 men and then get pregnant, it is hard to decide who the father of the child. I mean it is hard to decide who the father is and worst case scenario, there will be a fight in the family. But when a man with more than one wife, there will be no problem knowing who child belongs to, because it is the women who carry (during pregnancy) the children. But then, it is hard to do polygamy, only when someone can be just to every wife. Like what was mentioned.

[@amirulasyrafbinfauzi2127]

Correction on the fair part... When we talk about fair its not about equility, its about putting thing at where it should be.for example if your first wife have 2 children and your second wife have 4 children, money for food, education and necessity cant be given the same, it should be fair for both side, like the first wive is given rm1500 and the second wife is given rm2000. So thats no one have more or less fiancially. This is what learn from my ustaz

[@yaakobmahmood999]

it's a good comment but personally I feel the word 'fair' should appropriately replaced with the word 'just' as in justice. it almost similar to fair but fair has the tendency to mean equal while just has a tendency toward the term meaning right. Rightful in the eyes of the woman in my opinion not rightful in the eyes of the man.

[@flourite93]

I find pasar pagi fruits cheaper and better quality than pasar malam the morning customers are very particular in cost and quality. Also, pasar malam fruits sometimes are the leftover stock from pasar pagi that’s why you’ll find some fruits rosak cause the best one already taken in the morning.

[@malibirdtv9549]

The Best is Abang selling fruit from truck at pasar pagi ahahaha right????

[@aliffazlan1105]

Yup,just go Pasar Tani at weekend.

[@CR7368ify]

@@malibirdtv9549 the best thing u can test the fruits as much u want/satisfied before u decide to buy 😆

[@franklinloo2160]

This one i truly agree... 😁😁😁😁👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@azahmuhd]

Actually the price of tropical fruits really it depends on seasons. You know we probably don't have seasons like winter, autumn, spring but we have many fruit seasons! 😂 also let say if in north states now is durian season but in east states are having different fruit season so it really depends on that

[@sofiansulaiman4308]

@nana iKON Its duryan season now in Mantin/Lenggeng.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Me hopping every year for Durian to be cheaper & cheaper...

[@malibirdtv9549]

@@sofiansulaiman4308 Still so expensive lah this year ㅠㅠ Last yesr was the Best!!! D24-25 durian for 1KG only rm 13

[@nadiahkamaruddin1866]

@@malibirdtv9549 You even keep track of the durian prices..hahaha..my mother in law has great sense in choosing good durian even the durian kampung which price rm5 she always choose the yummy one..hehe..another the durian i would reccomend is durian tembaga..very rare..i never saw people selling it..but i have taste it 3,4 times..i can say it is good as the expensive one..hehe..

[@blackelementar]

Poligamy is allowed in our religion with a few conditions : 1) the man is capable of taking care of his wives and support them well financially, emotionally, love, etc 2) the man must be fair to his wives 3) the man must be healthy 4) it is also 'encouraged' that the man gets his first wife permission 5) it is better to pick 'second' wife among woman who had lost their husband. Because you are helping to protect them. But, we can't control people heart. Love is blind. 🙃 There are other condition on poligamy. I'm not an expert. My info might be not perfect. Others may share the info. I'm sorry if it is incorrect. My uncle is married with two wives. They live separately. Some prefer to live together. It depends. Both wives are good to each other, even second wife children frequently lepak at the first wife house. Not all men who married to more than one, are capable of being good to both. And not all women willing to share their husband. It depends on each person.

[@fillettru]

Wow army is all over the world. 😃🤣

[@zanggeneration913]

If you gather 1000 husbands in Malaysia, maybe you can't even find 1 person that practice polygamy. It is lame to say that most men like polygamy.

[@malibirdtv9549]

True! im like its hard to find one true love in the life...

[@deenszxking6818]

Polygamy of having maximum 4 wifes in Malaysian's country was not a mendatory to have. It was more to a choice rather than forces to have. Most woman doesn't like polygamy because they don't like to share their husband. It was natural reaction behavior for most woman. As P.Ramlee said : One ; many. Meaning that people who marry only one in this world are too many to count (including Malaysia) Two ; less. Meaning that people who was marrying and having 2 wifes was less than people who marry only one. Three ; sometimes. Meaning that people who was having 3 wifes, sometimes you heard it (or saw it) on this world (including Malaysia). Four ; rarely. Meaning people who was having 4 wifes, you rarely seen it or heard it the entire world, atleast once. The wisdom of polygamy is to protect the woman and taking care of them as a guardian which is the main purpose of polygamy.

[@kamarulnorzam9075]

Omg, everytime I watched your video u sound more n more like Malaysian now!!! Thanks for making all these videos about Malaysia 🙏

[@malibirdtv9549]

Thanks for the support yea hahaha Just want to make positive information about MALAYSIA HHHA

[@mercytanchiying]

The part about haze, rats and crows being prevalent in SS15 is actually so true! I’m so surprised by the accuracy of your insight. Thanks for making this video

[@malibirdtv9549]

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋomg are you selangor peeps as well?

[@aishx]

There's an old comedy movie called Madu Tiga by late the P Ramlee. It's available here just do a search. Some copies have English subtitles. It's about a guy marrying 3 women.

[@farhanaismail4447]

Malaysia's weather. First half of the year is more hotter than second half of the year. The second half of the year usually is raining season. There is where flood is happening some region in Malaysia.

[@user-tl9wv6wu9h]

Besides import-export factor, seasonal tropical fruits can be expensive than all years tropical fruits. That’s why mangosteen & durian are expensive than red watermelon. Seasonal tropical fruit can be cheaper when over-production/supply in some areas (mostly rural areas that surrounded with those fruits orchard) Polygamy are allowed in Islam but need go through legal procedure of Religious Islamic Council. Otherwise, most rich people do polygamy because each wife must live in separate house and wives must provided equal assets & commodities.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Thanks for your information!!! so true.....seasonal tropical fruits.....im just hopping every year for Durian to be cheaper and cheaper..

[@khairulanwar5212]

Quite hilarious. I enjoyed your blog. Keep it up

[@mai-hani7014]

I think in terms of korean who's experience malaysian culture, u can reach out to youtuber Blimey. They're marvellous Korean ladies.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Haha i've watched their video and I think its more to sharing their first time experience and reaction!but anyway i enjoyed it

[@franklinloo2160]

She is a friend with Kakak Korea too... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@senahgojes5801]

wahhh i got a lots of information in here. hopefully henry in good and healthy condition!!👍

[@mayday7246]

Poligamy is allowed but it is not really that common. Usually those who have married two wife maybe he is rich because he need to support two household. Some couples also allowed her husband to married other when she has a giving birth problem or any other problem. But sometimes there also men that married without his wife knowing which considered unmoral in malaysia n not accept legally in malaysia. He eventually will be criticise if they found out.

[@bridgettedani6516]

love this! the part are you malaysian or chinese is funny!

[@Dmial94]

Polygamy is also practiced by non Muslim in Malaysia before enforcement of Law Reform Marriage and Divorce Act 1976. Now, it's a crime for non Muslim to have polygamous marriage. Btw I'm Malaysian.

[@grays_diaries3540]

I'm recommended to this channel,nice. Subscribing to you.💗

[@malibirdtv9549]

Thank you so much!!! i will start my previous content from next week! hope to see you soon!

[@nadiahhalim4575]

*A ROMANTIC MAN WON'T MARRY ANOTHER GURL* well, i learnt from dramas.

[@sitinooratikahkamarulzaman4932]

Lol 😂

[@Maz_Kuro]

Drama pukul 7 ? Atau kDrama

[@아이나씨]

The first thing to note on this issue is that polygamy is not ordered as a general rule for all Muslims to follow. Instead, it is a provision - something allowed - for special circumstances. The primary occasion then for the provision of polygamy is in war-time situations. During times of war, the number of men in the society is reduced due to war casualties. Consequently, there is an increase in the number of widows and orphans. For such situations, Islam gives the provision of polygamy so that the widows and orphans could continue to have the possibility of a family life after the passing of the husband/father.

[@jefrieBeloved]

There’s one old Malay movie it called “Nujum Pak Belalang”. In one of the scene... one of the character explains what is marriage (in Islam - basically polygamy). You should watch that movie. I am not sure though there’s a subtitle.

[@shamirsharafaddin707]

satu.... banyak.... dua.... sikit-sikit tiga.... jarang-jarang empat... kaddang-kaddang apakah ia? 🤣🤣🤣

[@sitinajihah7273]

Thanks for promoting malaysia, saranghae henry oppa

[@malibirdtv9549]

I just love my life in Malaysia without any overstatement Love to share my life here hahah Terima kasih!!!

[@sitinajihah7273]

@@malibirdtv9549 i think u r more malaysian than i am hahahaha

[@nmf1075]

You can ask for help from Daud Kim? His a korean muslim. Maybe he can explain better to you in korean, to help you understand about the topic(polygamy). ✌🏻

[@malibirdtv9549]

I see! thanks for the information!

[@daisymar6447]

I agree!

[@tnadrina4500]

love the way your malaysian accent is so natural hahahaha

[@roserosli8910]

In Islam a man is allowed to to marry 4 wives but with all conditions of fairness and justice and giving honor and respect to the Women as wives (not mistress) and it is really a great responsibility for a husband to carry out in marriage. One wife is enough let alone 4 wives for you to shoulder what that big responsibility .in Islam means . So if you cannot do justice to 4 wives , then be contented to one wife . 😊✌️

[@littlefafai]

I stay in Melaka and I'm already used to it. But everytime my foreigner friends come here, the first thing they will said "it's so hot". Plus, they will really really sweat a lot, poor them. 😅

[@malibirdtv9549]

Hahahah true.. I dont easily feel hot... but penang & melaka were another level for me hahah cant tahan hahaha

[@littlefafai]

@@malibirdtv9549 the way you used "can't tahan" is truly like Malaysian.👍😂 But based on geography, the hottest place in M'sia is in Chuping, Perlis😅

[@theaflorence9181]

@@malibirdtv9549 I don't know how you'll fare at Perlis (the hottest state in Malaysia.) It's veryyyyyy hot and humid here.

[@ireenee]

its true our weather is hot, but way better than the summers that Korea / Japan having. lol plus we have frequent rains to wash out the hotness

[@malibirdtv9549]

Agree with you!!! Summer in Korea and Japan is too humid ....

[@bwahb75]

Correction on the humid hot weather, Penang state onwards to north direction the weather is hotter. Anything go southern the weather is cooler not as humid. Humid caused by many high rise building side by side. If you go to Places with a lot of trees that is different cases. Hot but not humid.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Oh!! this is something new!! thanks for the information!!1

[@임도현-u2q]

날씨는 더운데 적읗하면 버티기 쉽더라구요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 건조하지도 않고 시원할때도 많아서 만족합니다 ㅎㅎ 죄송합니다 과제하고 중간고사 기간이여서 동영상 못봤네요 영상 잘보고 갑니다

[@malibirdtv9549]

아유 아니에요 ㅎㅎ 이렇게 챙겨 봐주셔서 고맙습니다ㅎㅎ 저도 말레이 처음와서 뜨듯한 음료 마시는 사람들보고 기겁을 했는데 ㅋㅋㅋ지금은 ㅋㅋ제가 따듯한 음료를 시키고 있네요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 역시 적응의 차이인거였나봐요 ㅋㅋ

[@tokseri2954]

you should experience super hot weather in Perlis. Go there la sekali

[@Button0405]

When I was small.. we have small fruit plantation.. we have durian tree, rambutan.. sometimes enough to sell but normally enough for family consumption hahahaha.. but all those trees already been cut off

[@malibirdtv9549]

I feel those people have fruit plantation such as 'durian' 'rambutan' 'manggosteen' on their orchard THEY ARE BLESSED!

[@Button0405]

MaliBird TV SS2 is still expensive place to buy durians... go at orchard area near Raub or something... its way cheaper hahaha

[@upapantu7179]

malaysia have so many ethnic. example, iban ethnic, kayan ethnic, malay, chinese, indian, kenyah... more than 100 ethnic.

[@ceceliaa5192]

Hi! You should come to East Malaysia. many surprising & interesting things to explore. 👍🏻

[@james800able]

Oh Yes! Malibird Story is back! 짱! 🤟

[@malibirdtv9549]

heheheh thanks for the support ya YO!!!

[@farahnajwa5060]

The first misunderstanding thing he told.. Just make me burst in laughh!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank God you make this video.. ❤️❤️

[@malibirdtv9549]

People in Korea know about KK more than KL i guess hahaha I was the one who surprised from KL !!! haha

[@shahsanidon8402]

Polygamy is quite sensitive issue ..yes Islam allowed man to marry more then one and max 4 but not in same time It's have many condition and rule to follow U need your first wife permission to married another girl Second u must have reason to married another girl such as your first wife cannot pregnant and it's allow you to married another girl Third u can't just married another girl as your second wife u must married a widow and must have reason why you married that widow ,example for the reason is to protact that widow. Fourth to married more then one wife u need a stable foundition you must be rich and be fair and square to your wife's and u must have strong faith If u guys/boys/man's don't have reason and stable economy U not allowed to married more then one is will be problem and may be sins to your action ... U need to think for a long time and u need a agree and premision from ur wife or family first don't hurt your first wife and be fair ... I hope it's can help u

[@malibirdtv9549]

It really helped me & Korean audience to understand on Polygamy... thanks you so much!

[@salplayer9198]

There is a bit of misinformation you gave there. First of all in Islam, the second wife onward it's not compulsory to be widow but encouraged to marry them compared to virgin. Perhaps his Lord, if he divorced you [all], would substitute for him wives better than you - submitting [to Allah ], believing, devoutly obedient, repentant, worshipping, and traveling - [ones] previously married and virgins. [66:5] source: quran.com/66/5 more details explanation on this verse: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fImzZGyge7eZfbs Also should be noted Islam is the only religion in its scripture namely Quran that put restriction on polygamy (marry up to 4) and telling its believer to marry only one , here is the verse: And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]. [Quran 4:3] Sources: quran.com/4/3 As for the wisdom of polygamy you can watch it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYPKaKifm7OiZpo

[@adamchuah2002]

@@salplayer9198 I'm glad that you corrected the information. I would like to add that polygamy is the solution of Islam for the world problem of single mother, widows, orphans, especially during war time.

[@deltahunter2302]

Sensitive only to woman.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mohdazmihasan5950]

@@salplayer9198 thank you bro. that should be the attitude for all muslim..never use own conclusion when it is already stated in quran and hadits..

[@kamalab4762]

Muslim men are allowed to have up to 4 wives, but (and I say this confidently), MOST Malaysian Muslim men are NOT polygamous.

[@abudincheman3801]

Good and Please Enjoy Stay and work at Malaysia.

[@datojoseph9924]

Tropical fruit is not that cheap in Malaysia because we mainly grow palm oil :) On the highway it is very common to see many kilometers of palm oil plantations outside of selangor. Also this is personal preference but I think that Malaysian mango and mangosteen is not very good compared to Thailand or Philippines. If you want the best Malaysian fruit you should try our Watermelon, Rambutan and of course DURIAN :D

[@joshiwaraneo]

the west malaysia mistaken us from east malaysia are living at the top of tree hahaha

[@vanatos1]

Henry，god is calling you.

[@sitimrs3221]

I live in village area..rite now I just wait my durians to fall..pluck my langsat n rambutan as well frm my backyard..nice place to settle rite..but my village is not far frm town..

[@malibirdtv9549]

Dammm i want it as well ㅠㅠ still remember I went to tanjung malim to visit my local friend place and akka next house gave us free durian from their tree hahaha

[@norizahtimat8654]

In Malaysia there are not only Malays but in Malaysia there are various races namely Chinese, Malay, Christian and Indian

[@norizahtimat8654]

Crocodiles in sarawak. But according to bachelor folklore it's easy to be sworn to be a crocodile.

[@syafkhai9218]

Yup Polygamy is not a culture just 1 part of teaching in Islam, a Muslim male can marry up to 4 wives, but the male has to be just in dividing love, money, attention, taking care and feeding the wife if he cannot then he should not consider it at all. It is very hard that is why it is not widely practised. Doing it wrong could cause disharmony in marriage life, constant bickering, and usually ends with divorce and another broken family. Doing it right will bring blessing, money and possibly empire in the making (textile taukeh, hehe). Why it was allowed at the first place? It dates back to our prophet times, which I don't think it is suitable to share the information here (it is a bit heavy). It is from well intention purpose but nowadays it is a bit irrelevant. Polygamy is actually a good thing but because the male sometimes decide to do everything without the 1st wife acknowledgement which is terrible, that is a recipe for a tumultous life. We can agree that in every relationship trust and respect is important. This is why polygamy has a very bad rep in Malaysia. Not everyone can pull it off. Well even in monogamy (1 queen) there is divorce, this is polygamy (2, 3 or 4 queens) we are talking about.

[@Sun-on6yh]

The first Intro ! I tak boleh tahan xD i laughed my ass off xD

[@malibirdtv9549]

For real Cant tahan is my fav manglish so far haha

[@Sun-on6yh]

@@malibirdtv9549 hahaha its been so long since i use tahan word, been living at oversea for sometimes.. its good to back in Malaysia and use some "Easy Pezy Straight Forward Words" :D cannot tahan lah..

[@alfrone]

Msia is in equator zone not tropica. Equator has a lot of rains while the tropica is high humidity. SS2 with aircond n nice packing surely more expensive. Pls go to aeon, lotuss, wet Market to check the average price for local food like mango or mangosteen.

[@ariesleong6591]

Ha? got haze one meh? I see no haze leh🤔🤔 Beach? My school is at Tanjung Aru, Sabah, I see beach almost everyday🤣🤣 哈哈哈, jkjk Love from Sabah😏

[@kimtaki4640]

oh lord the manglish 😂😂 keep on making video like this!

[@frizzymissy1]

I am from Terengganu. When I travel to Penang, I cannot stand with the hot temp

[@malibirdtv9549]

Now im so wonder about place called Perlis! people told me its the hottest place in Malaysia haha

[@teohjohnny]

@@malibirdtv9549 Penang is hot especially from December to march where the rain is at the minimum. But from September to November it's usually rainy season where most of the time cause flash flood. And yes, Chuping Perlis is the hottest place in Malaysia with the highest temperature above 40 degrees recorded.

[@syigloo]

Married with one wife is normal in Malaysia. Married with two wives is a lot in Malaysia. Married with three wives is some in Malaysia. Married with four wives is seldom in Malaysia! 😅

[@malibirdtv9549]

Me: it was even hard to find one true love hahahaha

[@halsi2020]

Polygamy is not a culture. It's just a part of Islam religion where it limits how many wives a man could have at the same time (maximum 4). Even so, there are many rules to this. The simplest one is the man must be capable to take care of all his wives, not only financially but mentally. If he is incapable to be fair to all his wives, then he should have only one wife or none at all. Aside from the fact that most wives would ask for a divorce if their husbands do this, most men actually belong to the latter category aka not illegible for polygamy. Hence, even though polygamy is allowed for Muslims, most Muslim men all over the world only have one wife. That is also the reason quite a lot of Malaysian Muslim husbands illegally marry their 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife outside of Malaysia (Thailand is the most popular destination for this) and purposely didn't register that marriage in Malaysia. These bad men know the law wouldn't let them (because they are not illegible) and also because they don't want their 1st wife to know. You can read more about the law here: www2.esyariah.gov.my/esyariah/mal/portalv1/enakmen2011/Federal_Updated.nsf/b3ac9c218c8efdc4482568310022d8b3/183f54d320c33ec248256fd5000c7f67?OpenDocument. It's in Malay though. Maybe you could Google Translate it for better understanding.

[@timmy7138]

If I'm not mistaken. When you married in Thailand, the one who in problem is the new wife. The marriage is consider invalid. It become worse when she got pregnant.

[@halsi2020]

@@timmy7138 It's not invalid. The issue is the marriage is not in the Malaysia registry. Hence the wife will have a big problem if her husband died before they could register as she does not have the legal right as a wife should so she couldn't claim anything. If they register the marriage after they went back to Malaysia, it's going to be fine albeit they need to pay the fine. However, those who haven't done it are usually in it for only the fun ride or/and do not want the 1st wife to know. All in all, they probably reap what they sow.

[@syahzuwanasyahzuwanatasyah6956]

actually we also have "Musim buah" means there are so many² fruits 😂 so it will be really cheaper(in Sabah) like example rambutan 1kg = RM5 -10

[@malibirdtv9549]

And I guess thats what we call heaven hhhh

[@ctnzrh92]

Nah, some people even gave it for free during fruit season...but you have to had friendly connections lah...hahaha..try to your malaysian friends whether they have some relatives that had orchards in their kampung. Hahaha...

[@_04.01]

The race part is true! haha I'm from Sarawak hence I'm not Malay, Chinese, or Indian. So I had explain that I'm not any of those, but still Malaysian.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Hahaha i know that struggle hahahaha

[@Alifahusna_97]

Hahahah yes I agree about the Melaka and Penang part! I don’t like staying in Melaka and Penang for too long. 2-3 days is max for me. If I stay longer, my head will explode and I will be in no mood to do anything. Speaking from experience because my dad OFTEN brought us to Melaka. And as UUM students, we usually go to Penang. I enjoy traveling there, but that doesn’t mean I like it.

[@zulea8295]

I sbcribed your channel bcos of your vdeo with kakak Korea 😉

[@natasyaismail8765]

the “ tot “ was so cute !!!!!!!!

[@mohdazmihasan5950]

henry, its quite interesting topics .it is adventorous task if you try to get a polighamy couple and interview them..hehehe..why not?

[@lilsatay]

I'm looking at my mango tree infront of my house that full of mango fruits. 35-50 huh. Damn can't related lol.

[@edpotter1170]

Polygamy is a part of religion. But for a man to marry more than one wife, there are lots of responsibilities come along so if you can't carry the weigh, don't bother lol. We do have polygamy in the society but we don't openly talk about it because some families that have polygamy are more likely to be broken families... meaning they aren't as happy as normal families (but there are cases where they're happy). If you surround yourself with enough Muslim Malays, you'd be surprised that there are some of us who actually are from those polygamy family, but we just don't talk about it. It's something we talk on a day when we have serious mental breakdown, late at night, in isolation far from uninvited ears, there we will talk about it. P/s: yea, i'm one of those kids. I don't like talking about it tho, i have never been able to talk in depth without breaking down so i always stop halfway.

[@bansheenewtype-destroymode8527]

Actually you don't need to say polygamy causes broken family. Even monogamy family end up being broken family. If monogamy can be broken family, then polygamy can be also. Its all fault on parents because of their parenting skill and knowledge. I encourage new generation parent learn parenting "BEFORE" having kids. Learn what fault older generation parent mistake and don't repeat same mistake like what your purpose learning subject history in schools. From my views now younger couple tried to do same mistake like past parent and its majority. Just few take steps like I encourage to do so. That's how family won't be broken. And I not ashamed to tell I from broken family. Life is a wheel. If you don't break the chain, you will turn the same. Break the chain like you did to Covid-19. By seeing this in bigger picture makes me want to live and die alone life. I don't want to marry. Yes, I'm might had a phobias. It's because I don't want to repeat same mistake and make my children be in my spot where I experience in old days. Karma is exists, Its quite unfair. Parent did mistake, children suffers then they did same mistake when became parent and the chains continue to their children. PLEASE STOP BAD PARENTING, YOU MAKING YOUR CHILDREN SOW SEED OF DEPRESSION. If the seed of depression bloom, theirs no point of return. You know what my point here, suicides. Some wise words I learn: Don't event starts, if you can't finish.

[@sillaeza2]

About the weather, yes ive been to korea during summer and im so surprised it was so hotttt melaka is so hot because its really near to sea, penang is an island so is super duper hot ahahaha

[@malibirdtv9549]

YES Penang is super duper hot hot hot but cant give up on eating Durian Cendol & foods in Penang lol hahaha

[@ctsarahaishahsuhaidi9213]

In Islam religion, Quran have said explained regarding polygamy. In Surah An Nisa Chapter 4 Verse 3 = "if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice)"..

[@ctsarahaishahsuhaidi9213]

means polygamy is allowed but if the man cant be responsible and injustice, the man will have a lot of sin.

[@dhmln]

i just found this while exploring youtube and at first i thought he was malaysian chinese lol

[@malibirdtv9549]

Been in Malaysia make me sounds like Koreisian i guess hahaha

[@dhmln]

@@malibirdtv9549 then its easy for you to communicate with malaysians since you speak in Manglish ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@muhammadadhamsafwan5308]

It is up to u to mary more thn one, So it is Personal

[@dariusz501]

Poligamy is permissible in islam but it come out a HUGE responsibility to the doer . Once who has a poligamy but not able to meet the compliance such as justice, necessities (food, fund, home.. Etc) and others rule.. not only they may get huge penalties/ jail in this life court.. They may also getting a retaliation on life hearafter. So it is not a joke to have a poligamy in islam. 'Great power come a great responsibility' - Ben Parker

[@naleenidas8444]

Hello Bro - Malaysia is a humid country! Did you check our weather forecast daily? 74 to 86 percent ya :) Like the Korean Peninsular we too are surrounded by water, therefore, the humidity here is high. We are actually located in the Equatorial belt which is why we have a high rainfall throughout the year peaking during the monsoon only.

[@cikibumbumbum]

Local fruits like durian for example are lots cheaper outside Kuala Lumpur and also in the middle of the fruit seasons. Now is the early seasons of durian. So, some durian lovers cannot wait until middle of the seasons. 😁 So they will buy eventhough it's pricier. But, it depends on how lucky you are because early fruits sometimes good, sometimes not. So, to have cheaper, delicious and good local fruits you must wait a bit in the middle of the seasons.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Damm thanks for the information hahhha!!! Im the one who wait so long for durian season hahaha 😂

[@ahmadsyakirlay2625]

You should go to perak for food hunting.

[@bungaraya6082]

Poligamy is allowed in Islam, but women always confront it even the husband rich enough to afford few wives. It is a fact, no biase thinking.

[@Sherney]

Totally agree!! My Korean friend always ask me since when I move from China to Malaysia 😂😂

[@malibirdtv9549]

HAHAA real struggle in Korea (sorry i was one of them too at the first hahaha)

[@Sherney]

@@malibirdtv9549 ㅋㅋㅋ 아이고

[@ahmadshabana1588]

for the tropical fruit if at kampung area usually its free,unless expensive durian like musang king:D

[@malibirdtv9549]

I truly hope every single year durian to be ccheaper and cheaper hahah True!! I went to tanjung malim once random abang & kakak gave me free durian hahahaha

[@malibirdtv9549]

and i love it hahaha

[@AfiqMohdFarid91]

"I can only see Haze!" 😝😝😝

[@alirasydan8752]

Polygamy is complicated. Different people have different situations. Not all of us wants to have polygamy.

[@expressive_4685]

How about the other side of Malaysia? Have you visited Sabah yet.. Ya, I'm from Sabah

[@malibirdtv9549]

I always wanted to visit to the best sunset & beach at kk & Sabah ㅠㅠ

[@bqmrwira431]

One more fact, Kuala Pilah which is located in Negeri Sembilan is one of the hottest place in Malaysia because of less rain. Seriously!!! It's really hot. I've been studying at Kuala Pilah for 5 years!!! Can you believe it??? I can bear the weather in the morning then when it comes to afternoon and evening!!!!! Ohmygod!!! Panas gila weiiiiiiiii...

[@malibirdtv9549]

Panas gila!!!! hahaha

[@malibirdtv9549]

Negeri Sembila is it near Melaka??? sounds quite familiar haha

[@bqmrwira431]

@@malibirdtv9549 yess!!! Super correct. Negeri Sembilan is located at the south Malaysia same like Melaka. So they are too near

[@rkamalina753]

ye ke kak? sy org kuala pilah.. mmg panas tp bila hujan.. mcm duk dlm bilik suhu 16° dia punya sejuk.. alhamdulillah sbb ramadhan ni kadang panas kadang hujan... bila hujan siap mandi air hujan lagi... xcukup sejuk mandi air batu kak.. baru best... hahahaha....

[@bqmrwira431]

@@rkamalina753 setuju setuju.. maksud saya masa hari siang lahh.. lagi-lagi bila tengahari..

[@joanna8438]

the weather part is so true hahahaha. I went to seoul and busan last summer and my skin felt sticky all day 😂. At first i thought the weather of summer in korea and msia would be same but i was also confused at first why do i felt korea is so much hotter. Anyway i enjoyed my holidays though 😁.

[@malibirdtv9549]

Hahaha I feel you about Humid temperature in Korea so much hhhahha

[@arii1987]

FYI: Polygamy was allowed for all races and religions until the law was amended. Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 [Act 164] which came into effect on 1st March 1982; which prohibited polygamy to Non-Muslims after this date. Any polygamous marriage by Non-Muslims contracted before this date could be legally registered as legal wife. It was common in the past for men with means to have multiple wives. One of my teacher (Chinese, who is in her 80s now) was the granddaughter of wife number 9 of her grandfather. On a personal note, my maternal grandmother is the daughter from the 5th wife of My Great Grandfather.

[@CR7368ify]

In certain African country also have this polygamy culture , and some of they not a Muslim . They have more than 5 wives . Muslim max 4 wives . Can search on KZbin .

[@hijazzains]

Concubine culture among chinese.....nit really polygamy.

[@anxz1387]

Hi Henry! Thank you for telling us about this. Now I know about it. Btw, Im from melaka and I don't know it's so hot for ya! 😂🙊 About the polygamy..it's in Islam but not only in Islam..you can find other religions that allow this polygamy i.e. Buddhism, hinduism, etc..I won't say much about others since I don't know much about them but it's definitely not a malaysian culture..But since religion plays a big role in shaping the culture of Malaysia, it may look like it's a culture but ya know, it's not😂 1st of all, Islam permits a man to have up to four wives. But whyyy? 🤔 Polygamy is allowed, though not mandatory, as a REMEDIAL MEASURES for certain situations that may arise from time to time. In certain situations, a man is allowed to marry more than one wife, with the condition that he treats his wives with justice, and takes the decision with Taqwa or God Consciousness. So, it is definitely not because of lust 👌 This polygamy applied before during times of war, when the number of men in the society is reduced due to war casualties. Consequently, there is an increase in the number of widows and orphans. For such situations, Islam gives the provision of polygamy so that the widows and orphans could continue to have the possibility of a family life after the passing of the husband/father. Hence, by doing this, Islam proposes polygamy as a solution in a time of crisis. Instead of abandoning large numbers of families, widows, and orphans, in the hope of holding on to some notion of “equality” and monogamous marriage under all circumstances, Islam offers a practical solution keeping in mind the long-term health and spiritual condition of individuals and the society at large. Like I said before, it's not a culture and definitely not a rule for all Muslim to follow. This only apply when you're in certain situations ((something allowed - for special circumstances only)) But if you're not, then, marry only one! 😊 "And if you fear that you will not be fair in dealing with the orphans, then marry of women as may be agreeable to you, two, or three, or four; and if you fear you will not deal justly, then marry ONLY ONE or what your right hands possess. That is the nearest way for you to avoid injustice. [4:4]"

[@malibirdtv9549]

WoW..... I really learn something new a lot from Audiences this time..... Actually I had some knowledge on Polygamy but I didnt want to talk from video since it might be sensitive to everyone... There are so much information & knowledge that I didnt know Thank you much!!! Im glad that I can let my Korea audience to know & study about this... Thank you so much for the information...

[@anxz1387]

@@malibirdtv9549 youre right!! it's a sensitive issue. I can say that most of the culture might be relate to religion more or less. *Not in this polygamy case😂 So ya, it's okay if you dont know, your subscribers will help you.. I'm also glad to know and learn something new from a Korean perspective😉 keep up the good content! Looking forward to your next video👍

[@jemimychannel7893]

Jalan Alor / SS2 Pasar Malam, No big change

[@malibirdtv9549]

pasar pagi is da best now i know lol

[@khairulanas5659]

Easy to say, Polygamy is allowed legally in malaysia but not a common practice. 😎😎

[@khairulanas5659]

You might find one or two who have have two wives but more than that is hardly found.😅😅😅 Because the first one always became verrrryy scary woman when heard this topic🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@peterteddy2370]

Hallo, I'm from Sarawak, Borneo, East Malaysia 🇲🇾♥️🌹🥰..I am not Malay because I am Iban mixed Bidayuh another race in Malaysia. New information for you😘

[@malibirdtv9549]

WoW Malaysia is real diverse Country

[@peterteddy2370]

@@malibirdtv9549 yeah we have 62+ ethnics / race

[@shaneclairegelbert2019]

polygamy in malaysia is for muslim only. not a muslim myself but as far as i know, it is allowed to marry four wives in islam BUT- there's a catch. firstly, the husband needs to be able to support his wives financially & emotionally. means, you need to be able to put food on the table for both wives & children, clothed them, educate them, lead them and treat your wives equally. secondly, you need to receive permission from your wives before you marry another wife. then again, if you take a look at the historical side of this practice, it is mostly to shelter widows with kids in order to protect them or if a couple hasn't been blessed with a child after long time, then for the sake of continuing the family tree, he is allowed to take in another wife. is it a good thing? from a non muslim perspective, my friend has two mums and a huge family. he said that it's cool, especially during raya or birthdays but from a general female perspective, i don't think it's that great for a woman because there is no guarantee that a husband could actually follow religion to treat the wives equally or their nether region. there are also more bad news than good news in the press about polygamy in malaysia. then again, i only know one friend w two mums so to each their own i guess.

[@nurulizzatizulkefli3912]

Melaka always crowded with people especially weekend..i stay at melaka but weekend i just stay at home because i know other people from different place want to visit melaka..also i stay nearby at beach..Pengkalan Balak and Tanjung Bidara..the chalet always full..so i don't have any chance to book chalet..i just ride my motocycle along the beach..but it's ok..maybe i can go to other place like PD..😂😂😂

[@bowlampar]

That is ok, we are not the biggest or populated country, most powerful, most advance or richest nation on earth, many Koreans misunderstand us is unavoidable. It's not a big deal at all. 😑😑

[@muhamadnuraimanishak7099]

polygamy was a sensitive issues before. but nowday, the husband who want to polygamy requires the consent of his wife. also he needs to provide for their needs fairly.

[@user-os2zh5jb7b]

Polygamy (up to 4 wives) is allowed in Islam but not many woman would allow it (obviously duhh). Even for Muslims there are conditions to fulfill before someone can practice polygamy (ie. husband can financially and emotionally provide all wives, has to get permission from the current wife/wives, etc) as in Islam, it is still recommended to marry only one bcs Islam really stressed on the justice towards wives (physically & emotionally) but as normal human with feelings, ofc we can easily feel injustice when we know that the love is divided. So yeah, bcs of that it is still a sensitive topic especially for women. But of course, there are families that lives happily with polygamy and people practice it for various reasons, so eventho a lot of women share the same (negative) opinion about polygamy, some perceive it positively.

[@thurai7]

Ss2? Have you received anything from Lazada?