My girlfriend has this and yes she is very supportive and nurturing. Whatever I decide to do she's all positive ...at first I was surprised people like her even existed
@richasupradeep Жыл бұрын
Yes, my husband has this and he is unbelievably positive too. Even when everything is going wrong, he is only full of optimism
@zen913111 ай бұрын
But in Kalyug, it’s better to have Rahu exalted rather than Jupiter exalted. Jupiter exalted people will get used in Kalyug because of their too good nature.
@kittypurr0011 ай бұрын
@@zen9131I have both exalted.. Jupiter in ascendant cancer, rahu in 11th house Taurus. What does it mean?
@zen913111 ай бұрын
@@kittypurr00 you are very lucky.
@romyonghang80109 ай бұрын
@@zen9131 nah Jupiter exalted is way better because it shows the divine bless if Jupiter is bad it's gonna be really hard
@deepakankalath60634 жыл бұрын
2:01 skip intro
@rijutamang73453 жыл бұрын
Lol thank you
@Cinder19876 жыл бұрын
Yes, the involvement can be extreme. I know how to nurse anyone back to health especially family members. They always come to me for care. Even pets come to me to nurse them when they are sick. Unconditional love to my children always.
@himanshusingh89935 жыл бұрын
Same here
@calmdowngurl5 жыл бұрын
:)
@alisonxra4 жыл бұрын
I have Jupiter in Cancer in 12th. I’ve been blessed. People consider me to be a lucky person.
@MiriamMonteiroOfficial4 жыл бұрын
Are you loyal? Do you live in outher County? How is your spouse?
@hvsnd3 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@tyione232 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@sahilhakmausa9352 жыл бұрын
I have saturn detriment in cancer in 12th house born in 12 july . Looks like i am not that lucky
@CozyPlace_FST8 ай бұрын
Me to 😀...
@queenelizabethiii16164 жыл бұрын
That's the reason I love kids. I'm that family member who'll go to anyone's house and play with kids. My heart aches for unprivileged kids if I've the choice to choose between spend a day with a friend or a baby who can barely walk and talk with no doubt I'll choose that baby. Something about parenting and looking after kids makes me happy.😊🥺
@daniellacanter69914 жыл бұрын
Very true. I've always cared for children as if they are my own & even as a child myself used to imagine being a Mother to many & used to feel sad for other's who lived in group homes etc. In Gnosticism it is known that it is truly the Mother's who are self sacrificing but who also obtain the ultimate initiated power through their everlasting, pure, nurturing care & therefore hold the true Wisdom. Had the privilege of experiencing mission trips when I was young & gained so much insight & absolutely was so grateful. I homeschool my son now & I love being able to be the one to help him grow & show him truth. Thank you, Great job! Keep it up! 👍
@ashnayak275 жыл бұрын
I'm an Aries ascendant with this placement and what you said at 3:50 hit home so deeply Kapiel😭
@Romy_G_11 жыл бұрын
"Common sense is not common" -Voltaire
@chiaroo10586 жыл бұрын
"Especially if you have Aries ascendant and Jupiter in the 4th house ... man, that's such a strong need to nourish things." True.
@jakegravad43423 жыл бұрын
Aries sun, cancer rising and Jupiter, were quite similar :)
@jakegravad43423 жыл бұрын
@@nobalqueen1803 wat??
@nicoleschilling64202 жыл бұрын
@@jakegravad4342 yes, & I have cancer moon & aries rising!!....also very similar.
@lexilol81597 жыл бұрын
So true! My friends always tease me by saying “I’m a mom” 😂
@gugu5324 жыл бұрын
My friends wrote mom over my birthday cake 🤣🎂
@CHANGESWILLCOME711 жыл бұрын
Cancer are intuitive & empathetic. When I use my intuition properly- I know when to be helpful & when not - especially at work ! I work with hundred of girls of all ages & I am positive & focused with dignity & integrity. Thank you- self will is a short cut - sometimes Rahu Aries 15° !!! Ha! I know - Balance :) /7
@forevertrue068 жыл бұрын
"Use your mercury!"
@matrixist2 жыл бұрын
Mercury in your chart. Communications. Where is your Mercury, house and sign.
@giap.15862 жыл бұрын
Hey my mercury is in Aries, retrograde and combust - idk what you want me to do lol
@lildarkbat Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is so true!! I’m a scorpio ascendant so I have this placement in my 9th house. In general I become really close to my teachers and people from other countries. For example, it was hard for me to come back to my hometown after going abroad for the first time because I got really attached to people there 🥺 I also love learning/teaching and helping people with learning about astrology and other things. I’m getting a degree in english but I’m also really interested in psychology. I also feel really nurtured and “at home” when I’m learning, researching or travelling. ❤ Great video!!
@pundu88517 ай бұрын
Bruh where can i contact you we have the same chart
@komalkumari61766 жыл бұрын
I think negative side of any thing should also be discussed so that people may understand about that and after understanding those things they can make the things better to take right path.
@Iznartable4 жыл бұрын
Yeah! To keep growing, I agree.
@rupaschannel58563 жыл бұрын
Right
@JiMo7114 жыл бұрын
My jupiter lies in cancer and it's my 10th house. I adore being at work and love my work whatever the thing I am doing. O was firstly an English trainer then now I am a CEO of an NGO. I also had my own business selling olive oil where I used to love it as well and loved my customers and cared for them and their health the most 🤣 I do feel motherhood towards all of my customers, students and employees now!
@pratikvyas3384 Жыл бұрын
I have the same combination The Jupiter and mercury are together in cancer in 10th house
@JiMo711 Жыл бұрын
@Pratik vyas what do you do for work? How has your work status being since 2018?!
@pratikvyas3384 Жыл бұрын
@@JiMo711 I’m software engineer and I do lot of charity not like a normal person but more charity, I also have plans to open ngo or something like I can take all street or traffic light kids and make their life better what about you
@JiMo711 Жыл бұрын
@@pratikvyas3384 it's my dream! Do you have moon or pluto in Aquarius?!
@pratikvyas3384 Жыл бұрын
@@JiMo711 Saturn and moon both are in Aquarius. What about yours?
@Elena-Studio5 жыл бұрын
Omg I've been told "you're just too emotional" or "I just need a break from you" so many times
@dianechris99294 жыл бұрын
Me too,my man tells me that,it hurts me soo bad but at dsame time I understand him perfectly well! Yeah I know I could be too emotional lol
@ramizraja95284 жыл бұрын
I m a man but act like a mother 😂 what to do
@____10194 жыл бұрын
Me too, I am often told I like drama. And I have it in 8th house which is very emotional together with my moon and Kiron and point of fortune!
@jakegravad43423 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Me too!!! I’m an Aries raised by air signs, but my Jupiter cancer first defines me as this whiny crybaby lol
@____10193 жыл бұрын
@@jakegravad4342 haha then I must be a bigger crybaby than you because I have have jupiter chiron and moon And point of fortune in cancer 🙂
@sharonnorton66853 жыл бұрын
I have Jupiter in Cancer in the 4th house. I homeschooled my two daughters and all the neighbourhood kids mostly played at our house. Had another teenager living with us for the past few years. I probably do too much for them and they see me as soft. They listen to me on the important stuff - not the ‘clean your room’ type stuff.
@Sakhi310 Жыл бұрын
Samee😮❤
@DaughterOfTheKingdom167 жыл бұрын
Thats so crazy because Im not a mom yet but Im dying to be one. In fact I work with children as a pre-k teacher it makes so much sense. All of my friends call me the mother.
@thefinwit16 жыл бұрын
Perfect
@vibhavakrsna6 жыл бұрын
SPOT ONNNN KR.....With Aries Lagna and Jupiter in 4th House (cancer) I can see myself like a Nourisher/Teacher. Control of Emotions is the Key.
@lsour85463 жыл бұрын
I have pushya jupiter. I've been working in schools with small children for 3 years now and it brought me to the realization that I can love and care for a child that is not mine as if they are. I wouldn't mind adopting tbh
@debbiemouat5127 Жыл бұрын
*looks at earth* "the stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone" because SO PRETTY AND HEALTHY GROWS LIFE BROWNTOWN
@jakegravad43423 жыл бұрын
This guy goes so deep into things...when l need a good check up l come here lol. Cancer rising and Jupiter cancer 1st :)
@miyaa0225 Жыл бұрын
Same placements:)
@abhilashmohata31879 жыл бұрын
I have jupiter in cancer and my ascendent is pisces.. love astrology and teaching...
@Elena-Studio5 жыл бұрын
I was found on the streets at age 3. I learned I had very motherly attributes when I coparented ex's 2 kids from his prior marriage. Really surprised how nurturing I was. Very emotional means I had to take care of myself so I didn't have emotional outbursts when I didn't feel seen. I could see my Cancer with his daughter's Cancer Sun.
@Someone-jj4pc Жыл бұрын
Im a nurse student and im glad for the example you said I hope I’ll be a good nurse to my patients in the future ❤️
@blink182fanatico11 жыл бұрын
Cancers aren't babyish or childish. They're sensitive, caring and nurturing. So that's the sort of spouse you're likely to get, although other factors such as your 7th house lord etc could cause different results. :)
@scarlettmanning88382 жыл бұрын
What does it mean when you have cancer in Jupiter in your 7th house? How can it cause different results? 🙂
@thiramshetty34212 жыл бұрын
i don't have any planets in my 7th house. what does it mean?
@richasupradeep Жыл бұрын
I have Jupiter in cancer in my seventh house and my spouse is extremely childish and sensitive. He is caring and nurturing too but how much care can a child really take of an adult...
@subhamdaslovesraptor9911 ай бұрын
@@tenzingbhutia7944so you are selfish. 😂
@namitaadur1114 жыл бұрын
Wow.. it does explains me.🤩 I'm a Spiritual and life mentor. I'm luckily balanced being Aquarian with emotion, Spiritual and practical stable mind
@Randomnessknowledge4 жыл бұрын
My Jupiter is exalted in lagna chart and debilitated in navamsa. Still, everything you said is true.
@lynx2cross7 жыл бұрын
I'm not an astrologer, but I am a Gemini with Scorpio rising, and I feel that I want to provide a safety net for the the people I love and care about, don't want to be overwhelming or overbearing but let them know I am here if you really need me, the same thing I would want for myself someone that isn't encroaching on my uniqueness but that I can depend on for stability when I need it.
@lisat547211 жыл бұрын
I have recently found your videos. I thoroughly enjoy them. I feel like I need to watch them all, lol, but look forward to your books for a better understanding of eastern astrology. Also, love your personality that you bring to the videos as well. Very entertaining, as well as informative. Thank you for them. So enjoyable.
@NotAnYoutubeChannel9 жыл бұрын
THIS IS AMAZING Founding a NGO here Jupter cancer in the 6th
@praveenpraveen-zx2qz6 жыл бұрын
Good for you your enemies can't defeat you
@trudoll11 жыл бұрын
I have this placement in the 1st house in navamsa chart. :-P im going to be a good mom to someone one day
@anilsinghkec11 жыл бұрын
I have Jup in cancer in 9th house, and over that I have exalted Venus in 5th house...I have been a very successfully teacher even though its not my professional.
@s.k.43742 жыл бұрын
Jupiter being my Darakaraka is in cancer sign in navamsa. And in pisces sign in Birth chart. Thank you God for being so kind to me🙏
@pranavhariharan46132 жыл бұрын
Same here. I am a Virgo lagna Jupiter in Pisces in birth chart, cancer in navamsha. Jupiter dasha has just started . What lagna are you ? R u in Jupiter dasha ?
@s.k.43742 жыл бұрын
@@pranavhariharan4613 I am Aquarius lagna in Birth chart. Taurus Lagna in Navamsa. My Jupiter dasha has recently started in April 2022.
@tarot53387 жыл бұрын
Cancer Jupiter Aries rising Libra moon Mercury Sun Venus rahu in Taurus Ketu in Scorpio Saturn Gemini Mars Aquarius Interesting Proud libran😙😚😗
@AmbitiousJemzAstrology10 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo true for me. Thanks :)
@Carolina-rd3gh6 жыл бұрын
Sun in Cancer ♋️ with Jupiter in Cancer ♋️ 😂
@bluehon146 жыл бұрын
Carolina Rosa sun in Libra ♎️ , Jupiter in cancer ♋️
@純粋-u6i5 жыл бұрын
Sun/Moon/Jupiter and that SOUNDS good but I'm lost as it's in the 12H
@ledbysoulyoga35 жыл бұрын
sun moon Jupiter in 2nd House in cancer sign
@pri-sha5 жыл бұрын
Apply for government job. Duh. Wow.
@aboni92935 жыл бұрын
Taurus with jupiter in cancer
@Eroge.Bebita7 жыл бұрын
Jupiter/Cancer in 12th house here.
@carbontwelve52565 жыл бұрын
Eroge Oficial Me too in my Navamsha😁
@1607ish4 жыл бұрын
Me too in navamsa guys! Same placement.
@MiriamMonteiroOfficial4 жыл бұрын
Are you loyal?
@ffushiguro2 ай бұрын
@@MiriamMonteiroOfficialwe do.
@Vrillin11 жыл бұрын
I have that Jupiter in 4th house Cancer aspected by Ketu in 12th house & I cannot stop wanting to give knowledge because I feel that normal working Joe is deprived of the knowledge that a few weak minded occult. It's go go go all the time, & even I have begun to want to obtain what I do not know. BTW I am surprised that this is not a two minute video directing us to the exalted Jupiter. But it is good to gather further information.
@harshdubey6711 ай бұрын
I have Jupiter in Cancer in lagna and moon in 9th house in Pisces 😊. Rahu in 11th house and Sun is my atmakarka.
@user-yt6cy3gf8k3 жыл бұрын
I live in Las Vegas! I watch your channel all the time. My Jupiter is in cancer.
@CuriousJenJen11 жыл бұрын
I was very thankful and surprised you made a video during your vacation because you didn't have to but you did and that's a great quality.
@travel__logs9011 жыл бұрын
jupiter in cancer 12th house.
@hampster0171 Жыл бұрын
Cancer Jupiter abs Aries ascendant. Love working with kids. Was working in childcare but now a nurse 😊
@hampster0171 Жыл бұрын
It’s in my 3rd house and I love being the voice for those who are voiceless. I feel like this is how it shows up tor me
@AtutAakhut11 жыл бұрын
I AM ABSOLUTELY PURCHASING BOTH OF THESE BOOKS!!!! ASAP
@pedrofelipepamplona19445 жыл бұрын
I have Jupiter in Cancer in exact conjunction with fixed star Acubens (Alpha Cancri) in the 12th house !
@beccaskinner66328 жыл бұрын
We love you from sedona az!! come visit
@vanillaklein4 жыл бұрын
I’m confused my Western Astrology = Jupiter in Leo Ascendant Vedic Astrology = Jupiter in Cancer Ascendant
@queenelizabethiii16164 жыл бұрын
Same but for me Jupiter in Cancer is accurate.
@cherrydrop32593 жыл бұрын
Me too
@jeninhadelima21813 жыл бұрын
I feel like its possible to have traits of both i guess you can embrace both on an external and internal way
@rupaschannel58562 жыл бұрын
I believe in vedic astrology
@nehakunbi64414 жыл бұрын
Exalted Jupiter in 8th house retro😍
@Multitudegamer84 жыл бұрын
You are going to win the lottery at some point I envy you 😯
@jridablack18089 жыл бұрын
it's crazy how this stuff is so true that's pretty much how i am my Jupiter is in cancer lol
@idunoh19024 жыл бұрын
I have Mercury in Gemini, Uranus in Aquarius, and Jupiter in Cancer so I I’m pretty happy to have those three exalted/in rulership, but I do have Mars in Cancer 🙃
@houssinemessa193 Жыл бұрын
So explain please how is your life going
@Ekta05 Жыл бұрын
Your explanations are always accurate and to the point..thats why I keep coming back to your channel...🙂 thankyou and God bless you always!
@820305111 жыл бұрын
you are so cool, I love ur explanations, and yes I will youtube rest of ur vids. im just so blown away how easy u explain everything in such an easy way for me to understand. btw im am of east indian decent living in the Caribbean.
@rupaschannel58563 жыл бұрын
I have jupiter in cancer in 1st house of navmasa chart❤I love children, I want to work in children's NGO. I like teaching children and I also want to adopt a child.
@earthenergyevolutions11755 жыл бұрын
My Jupiter is in the sign of cancer but I have 10 negative aspects in my chart with Jupiter.
@TiffTALKS223 жыл бұрын
Jupiter in cancer Cancer in 11th house
@n.16073 жыл бұрын
My Jupiter & Chiron are in cancer. Funny I just noticed my (sun/moon midpoint) is in cancer too. 😊
@nourishtoflourish37904 жыл бұрын
I have this placement in D9 chart I have started feeling it already .. Sagittarius asc to cancer asc having jupiter in first in both the charts
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
I hate this placement 😒 None of my boyfriends respected my kindness and Took advantage of it! My friends also tried to look at me as a doormat because I'm nurturing! So now I hv stopped it! I don't show kindness to nobody and actually I'm very Happy!Now I only show it to worthy people and then also I'm stingy👿💪🏻
@rupaschannel58562 жыл бұрын
I also have exalted jupiter in first house of d9
@makdayohannes8 жыл бұрын
what if i have mars in saggitarius and jupiter in cancer?
@vlogsprince40906 жыл бұрын
I have the same
@jules55136 жыл бұрын
My mars is in Gemini😳😳
@vlogsprince40905 жыл бұрын
Same placement
@ricoza74764 жыл бұрын
Yeah same placement as my lady. She is sun (Capricorn) moon (cancer) Mars (Sagittarius) and Jupiter (cancer)
@annajohansson93493 жыл бұрын
Come to Sedona! You’ll love Arizona! Stop in Scottsdale too. So many fun things to do here for individuals, couples and families
@ninadecman4 жыл бұрын
I have a Jupiter in Cancer, Aries rising.
@Cinder19876 жыл бұрын
Mars, Jupiter, Venus all in Cancer all in 5th house. Do not like crowds. You have a great YT channel. Might have to break down and get a proper reading.
@MsCutegirl02 Жыл бұрын
I have Jupiter in cancer...I have habit of calling my mom or dad...yes bacha...and I call them with thier names...people laugh like how much I respect them yet calling them with thier names!!
@Ohkeh6406 жыл бұрын
Placed a chart order online. Look forward to receiving it. I should’ve got a full reading as I don’t really understand Thanks
@Gogetus666 Жыл бұрын
I Wanna Give A Double Like, Though In My Birth Chart It Is In Pisces But In Navamsha Its In Cancer And Yes, I Do Like Explaning Things To People Like A Mother And Thats Why People Do Get Attracted To Me, They Come And Ask Their Doubts And I On My Own Like Clearing Thier Doubts And Answering Them! 😋
@shailjasharma30073 жыл бұрын
Kapiel your dogs tail is just like fan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@juytb23866 жыл бұрын
At workplace, they said if i dont stop being overly protective with our project partners... I am in trouble
@aBatwoman5 жыл бұрын
Getting Crowed in Arizona use to be so nice.
@himanshusingh89935 жыл бұрын
I have just R in lagna chart. But it is exalted in D12 in cancer with ascendant. Now I understand retrograde planets thoroughly I feel.
@lifebeyondthecameras97634 жыл бұрын
Jupiter in 8th house in cancer sign, Sagittarius ascendant
@rubyc77715 жыл бұрын
This placement in 11th house 🌈
@yashanshikala53624 жыл бұрын
Mine too.
@seeds4urmind215 ай бұрын
i have jupiter in cancer in the 11th and sun in sag in the 4th and i kind of have to laugh because i do not have children but what happens so much is ppl ask me to watch there home, I treath each house i come into like my home with care and love and attention,... i have been travelling a lot just by taking care of ppls homes (i used to paint as a side job, so yea) and i realised as well when i was working as a coach i never understood why my classes had the clients they had young old male female such a mix, i realise last summer it was because unconsciously i opened a safe place for all to step into for all to be seen for all to be taken care off no matter age or gender just ppl
@seabreeze45593 жыл бұрын
you missed out husband qualities, also in the other video (exalted), no husband info for woman's chart
@eavesDropSound11 жыл бұрын
I need a girl like that...
@sudershaniray992811 жыл бұрын
Hi, Kapil Sir, Well u r an wondeful teacher:).. I have learnt a lot from ur vedio and ur book
@moneymagnet77354 жыл бұрын
Libra sun Moon and rising Pisces Jupiter in cancer 4th house
@franzabananza3 жыл бұрын
That’s so funny my Jupiter is in cancer and I always find myself saying “why do I attract so many cancers” 😂😂
@GunjanPandya9911 жыл бұрын
Retrograde Jupiter in cancer in 10th house, working in IT Field, yes I do love to help others in terms of technical knowledge whenever they face problems, how does career seems to be for me?
@29raspberry11 жыл бұрын
Aloha, Jupiter in cancer in 12th house, and mercury in 12th house. I have ketu in 8th house in pisces. cancer rising, leo sun, gemini moon. please provide some feedback.
@breezyblessings33954 жыл бұрын
Omgee You would of loved Sedona ! Hope you made it . 💖💖💖
@vishnupriya22605 жыл бұрын
Pls upload a video on Retrograde jupiter with ketu in cancer ascendant sir
@RenuSharma-z4h7 ай бұрын
Wowowow.... I left professor opportunity cos i cant be nourishing to my age kids 😊 in college so i am teacher but to below 13 😊 Small kids.
@varshavarshu8583 Жыл бұрын
Example apj abdul kalam sir he is a great teacher
@AngirsonLopez3 жыл бұрын
Western astrology, Jupiter in Cancer Vedic astrology, Jupiter in Gemini. Leo ascendant.
@azquail87 жыл бұрын
Loved your video thank you very much. I will look for more on KZbin.
@talktomyglasses5 жыл бұрын
So cancer and jupiter suits well. Also, can we say that this effect is valid for people who have sun sagittarius, jupiter sagittarius and moon cancer🙈
@ledbysoulyoga35 жыл бұрын
I have sun moon and jupiter in 2nd house in cancer sign
@ssuu1311 жыл бұрын
Why you don't consider stars and sub lords. I have Jupiter in cancers in 11th house. And I am not getting good results. If you.analyze just with planets and sign. Suits won't be accurate. Please correct me if am wrong.
@seerguru6 жыл бұрын
Sudh Trivedi wow I have cancer sun and Jupiter and mars in 11 th house and it’s working out great !
@juliejelaco5208 Жыл бұрын
You have many books in your opinion what is the best book to get started? Thank you
@merbabeglam49458 жыл бұрын
How funny..just the other day my mother was telling me how she wants to see a psychiatrist..and we were comparing therapists & psychiatrists..I told her that the education did matter but as long as she saw a psychiatrist who really cared about people it would be better for her mental health
@richasupradeep Жыл бұрын
Question - I have Jupiter in cancer in my seventh house and I am exactly the kind of person you describe in this video. Does this mean my husband will be that kind of person as it's in my seventh house or does this mean that I will be a Jupiter in cancer sort of person?
@deepakankalath60634 жыл бұрын
Jupiter debilitated in navasama Jupiter exalted in birth chart
@sarahmottramart3 жыл бұрын
I was described as scary Maternal , like the alien mother. I have learnt to turn the care towards self and those only who ask.😂 Wisdom comes with age.
@alebalessa772 жыл бұрын
lol, there are people who do not appreciate the value of things on time
@Sakhi310 Жыл бұрын
@@alebalessa77ahhh!😢❤😊
@shyamthapa95045 жыл бұрын
I have my rising in Aries, Jupiter in Cancer and mercury in Taurus...
@bkpratibha27337 жыл бұрын
thanks a ton for the enlightenment
@sanmiller37156 жыл бұрын
Mine is retrograde and I have lost my mother to a mars in sagitarius (another relative)....the person has not been apprehended by law..... never will because of my week chart....I do miss my ma
@m3l0nL3M0N5 жыл бұрын
U will gain justice and peace
@njayaram10011 жыл бұрын
What if Jupiter is retrograde in Cancer? Will it act as debilitated ?
@Symbolsysteme11 жыл бұрын
Some of them tend to be extremely childish....*)! Each sign has the developed archetype, and the undeveloped archetype, and often we are not developed in a balanced way. The undeveloped Cancer is extremely infantile.
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li3 жыл бұрын
Ikr🙄
@emeliejonsson15203 жыл бұрын
I have jupiter in Cancer in 9th house. Libra rising❤️😇
@sailelesays Жыл бұрын
😂😂 come here let me teach/show you. Omg this is meee.
@theonewhosthere4 жыл бұрын
I have my Jupiter, venus and mars in cancer all in the 4th house too 🥵