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@jacquemartinue28 күн бұрын
I Still Can't Believe It, That After NIRBHAYA, DELHI, IS STILL THE SAME? 😮WOW 😳
@jacquemartinue28 күн бұрын
Delhi Aunties To Blame ?
@shelleykumar646927 күн бұрын
@@jacquemartinue
@pamlovesliveslaughs18 күн бұрын
@hauterfly where can I find the list of gynacs that you'll refer to in this video?
@sargamsharma372Ай бұрын
She’s so intelligent and well spoken. I hate how these reaction channels have change her personality on the basis that she’s a women. If she was a man they would’ve respected her so much
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
So true! It's unfair how women are often judged more harshly.
@srinivasaАй бұрын
Trust me. Had she been a male no one wudve given her two hoots
@theunfilteredhasya25 күн бұрын
These reaction channels can't handle her ambitious nature and how well spoken she is. They are not able to digest how a woman can get succeeded so they are trying to put her down with their own reflection of their insecurity
@poonampiscean21 күн бұрын
@@sargamsharma372 A woman who knows her worth is not accepted by the society easily. They try every way to belittle her, demean her.
@kalyanidubey8743Ай бұрын
I am a civil engineer. Government Civil Engineer. And the sexism oh my God. Site pe they would rather listen to a supervisor than listen to what me a senior government official with a degree in engineering,having cleared a competition exam for getting the job. First day I went on site( that had around 50+ men) and just a single woman they didn't know how to react. Like how is this 25 year old woman standing here on site. It has taken me 7 years to prove myself. Contrary to that my male counterparts have respect first day on site.
@chetanshukla76829 күн бұрын
Get a life and a reality check. The world has a lot more important things to do than only planning to make you uncomfortable. Did anyone force you to take up the job that you are into currently? Or didn't you research properly about where you were planning to head in your career? A modern day woman is independent until she commits a mistake and finds a way to blame it on men. Basically those 50 men had nothing to do in their lives before you joined the organization and shifted all their life goals and priorities towards conspiring against you since the day you started your job. Quite believable. Stop giving yourself this much importance and playing a victim card after a decision you took for yourself. Narcissism should also have limits. Honestly, nobody cares whether you exist or not, let aside what you do. Focus on your work and stop blaming men for everything. Just try to ask men working in the private sector about what 'sexism' and partiality based on the same at the workplace means. Working women in the private sector unabashedly misuse policies in their favour and have no morals and character when it comes to framing men. This is surely a lot more lethal than some men just ignoring you at your workplace because of some reason that you may never be able to figure out.
@johncenaraw128 күн бұрын
yepp male nurses , caretakeras, teachers sympathise with you...😅😢
@skyward790328 күн бұрын
a civil engineering girl student here.. frr!! The industry is soo sexist! Even before choosing this (which I did because I WANTED to), my uncles all told my dad not to let me learn this because how can a girl do civil?? How can she work onsite or do this job?? Bruhhh
@user-kd4qm9zz1w28 күн бұрын
on second day they will listen to you if you have merit. Else nature is such that physically weaker animals will have to prove their strength otherwise.
@Peaceisgod57727 күн бұрын
Where r u posted
@Nikita-ox5siАй бұрын
This interview is the best interview. She hit the nail on head about all the guests that weren't right for the show. You need the underprivileged women and girls to tell their story. We just like to hear stories from the famous. That's just a fact. Kusha is something else. So knowledge, interesting and funny. Pockets is my thing. Why doesn't indian clothes have pockets. I remember asking my cousin to have pockets added to my lengha and low and behold it was delivered to me without pockets.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Yes, we'll surely get more underprivileged guests on the show, drop some reccos if you have! Rahi baat pockets ki, it's a necessity ab!
@nishasharawat6504Ай бұрын
@@hauterrflyi want to do a session with u sidharth ...and i can tell u the reality ..being a young girl studying....used to travel
@aishabavani878927 күн бұрын
@@hauterrflywomen solo travellers in India now. They go everywhere in India. Please call them. They have more experience about people places etc.
@honeylemon311027 күн бұрын
You didn't watch the whole video Underprivileged or privileged women have face many consequences due to patriarchy She just telling the gist of her life..which many women's have faced But sure thats good idea to heard their pov from Underprivileged and women in village very few women are empowered tbh...and many women think pleasing men is their first priority and those few women are the addition of ongoing patriarchy
@neha..24326 күн бұрын
@@hauterrfly does not have to be under privileged in my opinion but just regular people. I feel underprivileged is another extreme of over privileged so both are extremes, maybe you could interview just people..middle class?
@ShivaniSharma-vt5bxАй бұрын
The interviewer is so good he's so normal, asks the most basic yet important relevant questions, resonates with masses. Love his interviews the car wale and these too.
@srinivasaАй бұрын
He's a simp nothing more. Usko nahi patha ki woh nahi deg!
@srinivasa25 күн бұрын
@@ShivaniSharma-vt5bx effin Simp hai woh
@HKS28616 күн бұрын
But why does he always ask all his guests about their eve tease experience or abuse? Useless conversations around who bought you your first bra. How does it enrich the minds of the masses?
@poojagami1745Ай бұрын
Well,loved when khusha said ask a normal person who travels in public transport daily.We are not the right person to ask.Girl,You nailed it ❤️
@Rituyadav-tc4ssАй бұрын
Kusha is talking with so much sense ❤
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Agreed! Which was your favorite part from the episode?
@jayarankawat810420 күн бұрын
@@hauterrfly she was 💯 true in every single topic.. damn true.. mine best was late reacting to an abuse and the freezing moment
@cityscapedesign301829 күн бұрын
This is so true about the construction industry. I have been an Architect working for the past 12 years. This is so common to just ignore any women who is instructing/talking to men working on site weather it's contractor, site engineer, vendor.
@surbhirane2849Ай бұрын
I do agreed 💯 Construction line mein hota hi hai voh.... When my home went under the construction rather my parents home not mine also... The man was explaining everything and dealing everything with my dad when I was standing in front of him for all the decision taken but there, my dad told the man.. jo bhi decision hai voh meri beti degi and from there the view of that man changed ❤
@SumitSharma-hh9wwАй бұрын
"View of that man changed", lmao. Who was making the payment? Your dad, right? They usually listen to whoever is making the payment to stop wasting their time talking about stuff and later on cancelling when the person making the payment says, "Oh, cancel it, budget won't fit". Be it a man or woman, whomever, I repeat "whomever" is making the payment OR is the authority, they listen to them. Walk it off, stop playing the victim every damn time.
@aishwaryapatil9587Ай бұрын
@@SumitSharma-hh9wwhey
@fullonhostel29 күн бұрын
Every word is relatable. A common privileged girl has witnessed all of this in Delhi. Every sentence is relatable. Delhi is very unsafe for every girl. Not only is the air polluted, people are thoroughly polluted.
@vinni9999Ай бұрын
I never get bored watching her interviews. 😂 There is always something new ❤
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Absolutely! She's a quite interesting personality, haina?
@vinni9999Ай бұрын
@@hauterrfly truely. Very entertaining 😂
@NavdeepKaur-pc1ztАй бұрын
True there is a response freeze in response to sexual assault where body mind gets freeze while it's happening to you that's why people can't fight back
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Exactly. The freeze response is a natural defense mechanism. It's important for everyone to know that this reaction is not a sign of weakness or consent, but a deeply ingrained survival instinct.
@HKS28616 күн бұрын
There is a difference though. I can understand when one is young and vulnerable that you don't understand or you freeze when you are taken advantage of physically but after a certain level of maturity, it doesn't and shouldn't take you years to share or ask for help or tell the person off.
@DeepakJAT00075 күн бұрын
@@HKS286"it was confusing and our of blue" said one of my friend in her first romance.
@beenupandey9728Ай бұрын
Amazing conversation. Need to talk more in molestatation, eve teasing, women harassment as that’s the only way to enlighten that issue. Kusha is well spoken and amazing as usual.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Couldn't agree more. Addressing these issues head-on through conversations is key to making a difference. Kusha really nailed it with her perspective!
@user-si9fj2zx9kАй бұрын
She spoke so eloquently; I could connect with every word. She couldn't have been more accurate. I also believe men, as well as the older generation-like aunties and uncles-should join the conversation. They represent the essence of Indian society, or at least we perceive them to be.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Totally agree! It's so important for everyone, including men and older people, to join these conversations.
@melbournemojoeatsАй бұрын
The freeze delayed response is true for many things.. hard relate
@sarahparker153326 күн бұрын
As a Bangalore raised and married in Delhi, who has lived 2 years in Mumbai, I agree that Mumbai is so safe and people are much nicer in comparison to anywhere else
@sarahparker153326 күн бұрын
There was a (not sure if it's still there) call centre in Malad west on the same road where inorbit is and it had a food place open 24/7 and I remember walking to that place at 2 or 3 in the morning to enjoy sandwich or vada pav or idli sambar etc and used to meet police guys on the way and sometimes we used to get them the sandwiches too😅
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Mumbai does feel safer in comparison to other cities, but there are quite a few cities in India, which are safe. You can check out our 2AM stories, where we go to different cities across India and step out at 2AM to gauge the how safe they are. You can watch them here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qoDTmX6qrZZ_lZY
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Aww, that's so sweet!
@ManpreetKaur-lg1ynАй бұрын
She is my favourite most favourite either chubby or thin looks amazing, her eyes most favourite feature of mine, the way she talk her talent in acting and where she did start like 😲😳
@dumspirospreroАй бұрын
I love Kusha. I extremely love confident women.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
We've often heard that men get intimidated by confident women, so glad you're not one of them!
@Preksha11126 күн бұрын
The person commenting is a woman@@hauterrfly :3
@mini29099Ай бұрын
I love her aura ❤. For me; Kusha is a gem💎. She is The Star✨
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
All hearts for KK!🥰🥰
@mehakmadanАй бұрын
I have had so many incidents in Delhi that I don't even know where to begin with. One incident which was least expected. At 2 pm in daylight i was walking from a local market to my PG in GK1 with a friend. A guy (previleged looking) driving a Swift (very recognisable car ofc), stops, rolls down window, and asks directions to Lajpat Nagar 1. I show him directions with my hands and he fondles my breast, rolls up the window and leaves. My friend and I freeze. After this incident, I am scared in day light also. Now I live in blr but the trauma never leaves me.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through this. It's heartbreaking that such incidents happen, especially in broad daylight. Our video series - 2AM Stories exposes the dark side of these cities gauging whether it's safe for women or not. Check out our BLR - kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3ulZ32NhraFo7c&ab_channel=Hauterrfly
@MyCozyAbodeАй бұрын
Same happened with me from a middle aged man from my village and I knew that man but I was tooo scared to do anything. Can never forget these
@ms-ll5sy29 күн бұрын
I mean why, haven't they seen boobs of their mother sister? Or they are mentally sick of boobs look😢😢?? Sick male
@pallavichaudhary388428 күн бұрын
It happened the same when I was in Lucknow after my 12th. It's been 19 years now but Uske baad to mai aaj bhi chalti hu to hath pair itne active rehte hain ki koi chhuwe to aisa rapta lagaungi. It's kind of trauma right!!!
@MyCozyAbode28 күн бұрын
@@pallavichaudhary3884 I kno right this is India’s fate. Women will always struggle in every possible way
@akankshalochan7154Ай бұрын
Yes, we want pockets even in lehengas!!☺️ I wear jeans/pants mostly for this reason only. 😂
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Right? It’s about time we get pockets in all our outfits, including lehengas. Let's hope the designers are hearing!
@dr.amarpreetziya6622Ай бұрын
Exactly pockets pockets and pockets. By the way I chose tiles and hardwares of my house, gas connection, light fittings, inverter battery etc. yet I m a small towner. World is different at different places. Another thing is bring the commoners, doctors, teachers, maids, bankers, vender women etc. on this show. I had suggested this earlier also
@Eeeeeee712828 күн бұрын
She is quite a sensible, mature, geniune, chill kinda women. Log faltu me bdnam krte hain ise .. achi hai yar conversation karna ata h yr seems intelligent ❤
@manavgupta231228 күн бұрын
There is the common well educated, centrist, charming and well spoken middle-class Pitampura girl. Her personality is so refreshing in today’s glamorous world of Instagram. Thank you for this interview!
@ss-ib8gmАй бұрын
i always since kid wated pocket in all my dress i am 46 now
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
We want, we want POCKETS!
@BilalAhmad-vl5olАй бұрын
@@hauterrflyplease sir barun and sanaya ka together interview karay please We want to see them together I shall be very thankful to you I also subscribe your channel and my all friends will be subscribe your channel please 🎉😊barun and sanaya Ka interview together KARAY please Just 1 time
@ashishpratapsingh7582Ай бұрын
Nd u hv complained fr 46 yrs...y u want men to solve ur every problems...
@Sos-soundsofsilenceАй бұрын
49 and wanting
@Divdix59Ай бұрын
hello mommy
@HarleenMokha29 күн бұрын
She’s absolutely legendary in her space ❤❤❤ Love this powerhouse of woman
@karmabelief568Ай бұрын
U are right kusha.My real mamaji and real Mausaji touched me badly but I could not react but now i do not allow them to even hug me. Only Namaste from far away. These old uncle's relatives are real bastards
@meowworld2928Ай бұрын
I really want to see Prashasthi Singh in your show ..
@Ssmm32129 күн бұрын
The thumbnail on your video was just one line amidst a lot of very interesting and relatable topics. Why use that as clickbait? Love this show, love the questions, the flow of conversation so kind of surprised by that. Kusha is amazing
@soph66661Ай бұрын
I always felt thix girl talk sense most of d time as her reflexes are sharp , fab interview
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
She is amaze! Thanks for the kind comment. Do check out some of our other episodes here too - kzbin.info/aero/PLSjJByiGR9m7CmJGulIU_EJ3ltkYJHJfT
@shashanks191511 күн бұрын
I love kusha's intelligence, i don't understand why people like to hate her..🎉
@amaadaaaАй бұрын
As a female in present world I've heard all sorts of opinions about feminism. Some said what crape is that girls are getting more than boys and at those times I felt that it's not right but I had not much to say about that but today hereby watching kusha It felt so relatable like buddy in every step we get compared and get discriminated yet end up getting used to it. How come we've been given equal opportunities or as you say more than boys. I never felt so in my life as individual and I feel there are millions other like me. Thankyou kusha and all cast and crew of male feminist. Sending all love n light your way ❤️✨
@srinivasaАй бұрын
Girls are born with a privilege unlike men who have to create a value for themselves before even being considered by the society. As the saying goes those with privilege never realise that they are so.
@hauterrfly19 күн бұрын
Hey, thank you for your kind comment. You are correct, we all related to what Kusha said in this interview. We might be getting more 'equal opportunities' but there's still so much we have to fight for in our daily lives. We've definitely come a long way from where it all began, but we still have miles to cover.
@Sam-wn1htАй бұрын
Very sensible and relatable things she discussed. It is so true that we instinctively understand touches but most of us freeze in that moment if something bad happens..
@teena02200229 күн бұрын
Happens all the time in construction industry.! That's why I left this field even after being an architect.
@hauterrfly29 күн бұрын
Ever wondered why only women have to change their way of living because other's can't learn?
@Sujata_Setia24 күн бұрын
What a real real interview. So freaking important. A list of women approved contractors!! What a genius thought.
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Right!? It'd make everything so much easier. Also, thank you for watching! We are glad you loved the episode. Have you watched our other eps? You can watch them here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gZytZ4CQZr6IpNE
@fashionista-en3qz29 күн бұрын
I just love kusha man She is gorgeous and so smart Everything made perfect sense
@uttarakhandi_vlogerАй бұрын
दिल्ली वाले लडको शर्म आनी चाहिए की लडकिया तुम्हारे होने से घबराते है। ये किसी भी मर्द के लिए सबसे शर्म की बात है कि कोई लड़की आप से डर रही है ।
@yournightmare12Ай бұрын
So mature interview. I did not like when samay a cheapo made fun of her.
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Yes, the roast was really insensitive!
@angeljain6222Ай бұрын
Samay is an insensitive guy, whow now only knows that bullying using nad words and demeaning others are the only thinga that people love and which eventually got him heavy cheques.
@HKS28616 күн бұрын
As a mature content consumer I hope u don't understand that it's marketing of Clovia and so mindless questions around who bought your first bra. How does it enrich people's life to know when they bought their bra or the details or the cup size... People don't understand subtle marketing..they just go by halo effect
@Gappuji22Ай бұрын
I was harrased by my own cousin for months and i wasn't even able to figureout anythi g ki ho kya rha h ..he used to laydown by me nd u was stayi g at my relatives house (for studying ghr me problem thii)he was fucking upsc aspirant ...his hand jzt crawled into my t shirts ....he used to rub his legs with me ..nd jzt touching me everywhere ..i jzt could not tell anyone .....i was suffering i was dyi g ..its 3..3.5 yrs nd i still get traumatic flashbacks..
@Tantricspy333Ай бұрын
Did you talk about this to your mother or any siblings?
@Gappuji22Ай бұрын
@@Tantricspy333 yeah to my bf ...nd ab mai apne ghr pr rhti hu ..maine uss bnde ki mom who was my mami ....i told her bt she said tumhari glti h yimhe mza ata hoga ..he even ....once forced me to go to his room when no one was home bt thank god i was saved
@chandankumargantayat892628 күн бұрын
@@Gappuji22thuu hai aise insaan par...Sister I hope and wish you are leading a fulfilled life now 🙏
@Gappuji2228 күн бұрын
@@chandankumargantayat8926 ji bhai
@snehachetri30327 күн бұрын
@@Gappuji22aab kya reaction hota hai ush insan ko dekhke?? Cause mai vi abuse ki sikar huwi hu idk jab vi wo aajkal mujhe dekhta hai to sharam haya sab khake bolta hai and uska face red hota hai and i just ignor him like uski wajah se mai majburi se nana nani se milna kam kar rahi hu cause woh waha hota hai xiiiiii sochkar vi aajeeb feel hota hai
@N1tz76028 күн бұрын
She spoke what I feel, felt or have been through. I can relate to everything she said. Respect
@viky1442Ай бұрын
I am hearing her for the first time and I love it.
@plainjane811Ай бұрын
I love Kusha Kapila interviews ❤
@drpoojamendhe_officialАй бұрын
Khusha is always enlightening ❤
@preetisharma-eu5by28 күн бұрын
Omg! It’s like Kusha is narrating my story which I faced in my earlier working days📌I am from Delhi and ek ek baat 💯 😢❤
@himi6176Ай бұрын
I got into an ola. Fir I asked bhaiyya ac badha do, and he started saying itni garmi hai yeh woh.. I was like ha bhaiyaa sahi kaha, and I usually don't engage too much into talking. I like to put my headphones usually. But is din he kept speaking, so I continued. He said yeh papiyo ka jagah hai, isliye esa ho rha hai.. so I stay in 'noida' so I thot he meant all the loot paat and murders. He started saying ladkiya cigrt piti hai, daaru piti hai kapde nahi pehnti hai.. 😢😢😢 I was like.😮😮
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
It’s frustrating when people jump to conclusions about others based on stereotypes! How did you respond to him?
@shwetajadhav185028 күн бұрын
Cystic acne wala pain 🥹😭 worst is it takes month or more to get rid of one! I struggled with it since school days ... Ab bhi completely solve nhi hua h yeh ... N yes I luved this episode ❤
@jyotibhittam3168Ай бұрын
I love her from the beginning... I really don't like delhi im living from last 4 yrs... Neighbors bhi ajeeb hai bina matlab pareshan karenge zagada karenge.. Bakawas city in every aspect.
@preetisharma-eu5by28 күн бұрын
@ 19:24 situationship 😂😂damn can’t express my inner voice 😂which is quite relatable the things she is explaining
@ShivangiMishra-gl2twАй бұрын
And and and at least koi to bolaaa @kushaa you’re totally right, being an architect I go through the situations you’re talking about.
@sarthaknigam2427 күн бұрын
As a 21YO Boy, i am happy thay I've never been involved in any kind of harassment or teasing a female, instead I've always respected them.
@mauing26 күн бұрын
Always be like that.
@sarthaknigam249 күн бұрын
@sonyasonya8513 sure😁
@sarthaknigam249 күн бұрын
@@mauing always.
@jayashreetailor2603Ай бұрын
New York may not be safe but as a women I know Vancouver is very safe . But yes I have had such experiences in India many moons ago,I have also slipped a guy for shoulder checked me ones..
@umaduvvuri728026 күн бұрын
Totally agree with her. Ghar agar chota sa cheez ka repair agar karna hai, on repetitive calling the guy to come and fix, he will never come when I call, when my husband calls, immediately it's attended.
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
SO FRUSTRATING!
@priyankapattanaik541414 күн бұрын
Yeah but i think the tone is imp. sometimes..
@Shwetai800811 күн бұрын
I must say the man interviewer is so so good and we need more men like him who respect women in everyway.. big respect to him salute brother nd thankyou ☺️
@heenananda6588Ай бұрын
@kusha you are so good. Loved the eat pray Love vibe you have going on🎉 I would love to see you in the Indian version of the fleebag show.. if anyone in the industry can do it... It's only you. Loved your look in this interview and the story of keeping them pimples calm thanks for being real. ❤
@24anita29 күн бұрын
Oh my God I love kusha she is so well spoken and absolutely correct ,
@khushhhyaar29 күн бұрын
Kusha yaar.... Love you loads .... I look forward to your interviews...and pockets ke liye toh at this point I am shopping from the mens section...deep pockets better fitting. Kusha yaar 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💚💜
@Llifestyleadventures17 күн бұрын
I feel so luckey to live in Ahmedabad. Heaven on Earth.
@shrutisrivastava441427 күн бұрын
this is everywhere , I have faced this in IT industry. Male employees who are in their 40s or plus dont like it when they have to answer a woman. They take it as if I got where I am just like that
@DeepakJAT00075 күн бұрын
I don't like talkative woman at all but intelligent personality like her 🔥
@greatsharad20 күн бұрын
This is so much categorization. I have lived in new york for 27yrs never herd of a story of women feeling unsafe at 2 or 3am any time of the week.
@hauterrfly19 күн бұрын
Agreed. It differs from region to region. There are some cities which are completely safe, some completely unsafe, while some cities have specific areas which are unsafe. This is exactly what our show 2AM stories is about. It's a social experiment where we step out at 2AM in different cities and try to gauge how safe these cities are at night. You can watch them here: kzbin.info/aero/PLSjJByiGR9m5mnX7E1KIZKIEXsAUXOvKZ&si=Cp2uD_FEOhFzfbOI
@pritisingh-yd5nw26 күн бұрын
TRUE. While buying a house in bangalore, builders never took me seriously. I was also very frustrated
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Why are these men so intimidated by female home owners?
@alinasheikh5061Ай бұрын
I just Always love kusha's energy, so raw!✨
@geetgaharwar892427 күн бұрын
I totally agree with Kusha about construction buisness being sexiest
@kkomaldiwanАй бұрын
Great one
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Thank you! Have you watched other episodes of The Male Feminist? Watch here: kzbin.info/aero/PLSjJByiGR9m7CmJGulIU_EJ3ltkYJHJfT&si=euvsOZ2-csUVVPSf
@dasaritra00725 күн бұрын
clear, transparent and relatable
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Right? Also, what part of the interview did you connect with the most?
@rabiagrover266229 күн бұрын
She is amazing!!!!❤
@tejaskumar403721 күн бұрын
Wrong is wrong its irrespective of gender. I still remember i was a chubby kid when i was kid i guess 2-3 standard my batchmates and seniors they used to grab my chest. Its fun for them its trust me its not fun. Bcoz i was kid i didnt even understand what was happening to me n i wouldn't even share with my parents bcoz i always thought its something wrong wd me bcoz its only happening to me. It broke my confidence to a level that i started hiding my self i dont meet my friends not even relatives.my studies got hammered. I am 30 now but its still fresh in my mind i still couldn't share with my parents. I still dont want to go out. Bullaying harrassing its not fun. That tender age i do not understand the meaning of bullying harrassing abusing molestation or r*pe but now i do understand the meaning of it now i can say culprit can't be made in single day but the incidences that had happened to me in my childhood now i know where these culprits comes from. To my abusers u r potential rapi*t or u r now. N their family sorry but u didnt raised ur son well u r failed as a parents. Just bcoz u know how to make babies doesnt make u parents, parenting is a huge responsibility. Everbybody can be mom n dad but not every mom n dad is a parents .they might forgot what they have done to me but m 30 still cant get close to anyone.
@hauterrfly20 күн бұрын
We are sorry you were bullied as a kid. We cannot even imagine what you had to go through and the pain and fear you've felt. You are absolutely correct - what's wrong is wrong, irrespective of their gender.
@nasreenkhan236926 күн бұрын
Best interviewer comes so far on youtube.
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Hehehe, thanks! We are glad you loved the interview, baaki hamare Sid toh hai hi best! 😎
@laxmidenisdsouza969128 күн бұрын
What a woman!! What a conversation ❤❤ Love every bit of it ❤️❤️
@dushyantsharma4410Ай бұрын
Ye show dekhke dar lagta h I have daughters😢
@snehachetri30327 күн бұрын
When i was 5 years old my mom died and i stayed with nana nani like janam hoke 11 din k baad se and i faced harrashment like a lot of time when i was 8,9,10,11,12 se 16 taak.woh aapne hi gharka tha to sunati vi to kya hi karte gharke log and maine nahi bataya aaj tak kisiko nahi pata hai and uska downfall dekhke dukhvi lagta hai insaniyat k naate and कर्म ka faal usko milraha hai yevi sochti hu.jab vi dekhti hu ushe aajeeb sa lagta hai ghin aati hai
@harpreetrait326024 күн бұрын
Safety was an issue when I was a student 22 years back and shocked to hear it’s even today. This safety fear has been constant while travelling especially by transportation any girl can relate right away
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Women's safety has always been a huge concern. It feels like years have passed but nothing has changed. Women felt fear even back in the day and still do. It's sad how a woman has to constantly look over her shoulder no matter where she is. With this thought in mind, we also created a series called 2AM Stories. It's a social experiment where we step out at 2AM in different cities across India and try to gauge how safe is it for women. You can check it out here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qoDTmX6qrZZ_lZY
@PriDhama26 күн бұрын
I am Edica Choudhary i am six month old... and i love so much watching phone🫣
@DSA...Ай бұрын
YES, we want POCKETS!!!!🙏🙏
@Kaagazkikashtee15 күн бұрын
Contractors chhodo yahan normal log bhi serious nhi lete in small towns and cities.They don't even entertain you ,directly ask to call some male, father or brother to talk. It feels that you have no existence and if you question it ppl are like you're being unreasonable. A few days back my father asked me to sell something and when the buyer came who happened to be my age asked me to send my father so in turn I asked him also to call his father and didn't sell it till he actually called his father. I ain't gonna entertain it, unreasonable or what.
@hakoonamatata7427Ай бұрын
Dear Kusha ❤❤ 5:39
@SuperRenusinghАй бұрын
Kusha had just the right amount of 'stuff' for this interview 😂 loved her energy, it was different
@monishakhadamba164328 күн бұрын
This is so true I was getting interior designing for my house. And they were responding only to my dad and if I call them they used to ignore or answer rudely. He used to pause work and my dad had to push him to get it done. I was paying money I had to involve my dad due to his behaviour
@bhavnam714026 күн бұрын
Absolutely true..100% true...I faced the similar challenges while getting my home construction done.
@Eishu9415 күн бұрын
This is 100% true. My dad has a building matrials shop (construction business) and when i was small in school i mean , sometimes i used to sit in Galla (if you know what it is ) . And most men were reluctant to talk to me. And they used to find weird that how come she is seating at her dad's seat. And all Drivers & staff used to talk to me with full respect. But the customers ,oh boy! They used to bypass me & start talking to the staff.
@TanishaSharma-tp5nj28 күн бұрын
Love watching her always ❤
@prasanna669825 күн бұрын
Excellent Initiative, Sidharth. Kusha is articulate and touch some raw nerves for us as girls
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Right? She really raised some great points in the interview and we agree!
@poornimavishwakarma9531Ай бұрын
I agree with her about that construction industry wala thing.
@dushyantsharma4410Ай бұрын
She is right ek reel hai inki Comments me logo ne bola h ye jhut bol rhi h I dnt remember the name of girl She came in big boss also
@hauterrflyАй бұрын
Unfortunately, we live in a world where it's always easy to invalidate a woman's experience.
@123_xyz98Ай бұрын
She looks like Ayesha Khan in the thumbnail
@lipikagoswami281720 күн бұрын
I am an Architect and work with contractors all the time. It’s not that the construction business guys look up to men they just look up to authority. I don’t generally raise my volume, it’s just that my presence and talking less to them makes them shit in their pants. Plus I pay the bills and can take their jobs away. Girls need to understand the concept of authority and seriousness if you want power and respect. Stop talking too much .
@Juss16911 күн бұрын
Ladke yeh toh bolenge hi ki this didn’t happen but aajkal sab Indian aadmiyon ka ek hi retort to women speaking about being sexually harassed - We men also get harassed in xyz other way. We also suffer in (completely unrelated and often trivial in comparison) ways
@Lima3578user22 күн бұрын
Why is the caption in Hindi as auto generated , please enable English as well. Which is the book reference she made about happiness is present
@theseasonstylebyjannat27 күн бұрын
Girls react late which is absolutely correct. Bahot time samajh nei mei chala jata hai.
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Right? Jab tak you turn around to give it back, tab tak they have already disappeared into the crowd, while we stand violated! 🙂
@TwinkleAndroid3 күн бұрын
I have faced this from Mechanics. I am motorcyclist...and everytime I go for bike repair or buying some spares... I have to struggle since they make me feel as I don't understand working of bikes.
@zuanaalam209316 күн бұрын
I can relate to Kusha Kapila about the safety in New York. I did travel to NY twice in June, July 2024 and that too through metro and subway. I must say it was not as safe as it supposed to be, specifically when we think about a big city like NY we definitely expect it will be the safest. Anyways, I didn’t feel safe at NY alone. .....
@gayatriperampalli749522 күн бұрын
She spoke the most important Muscle training for the women 👍👍
@hauterrfly21 күн бұрын
Right!!!
@kayayoga31617 күн бұрын
I love Her thoughts on Mumbai
@he-man9723Ай бұрын
Discrimination should be stopped but you can not say female and male are equal..why shouldn’t we celebrate the differences sometimes
@ROHITCHOUDHARY-jr6fz29 күн бұрын
Girls Safeguard Kusha for her feminist Culture
@a_ruminant8 күн бұрын
I got my male cook a little gift from my recent trip and he thanked my husband for it instead of me 😂 The common assumption - paise to husband ne hi diye honge
@deepaligaba692627 күн бұрын
One of her best interviews by far ✌🏼🌟
@studioduberich29 күн бұрын
She is true heroine ❤️
@Shivani1539929 күн бұрын
acha lagta h Kusha Kapila ko sunna.
@shahanasaberin118617 күн бұрын
Puberty hit me when I was 8years old.... didn't know anything about it.....mistook it to be blood cancer....so there's nothing like too soon or early....girls need to be educated since 3-4 yrs of age.....and atleast in today's era.... it's very very necessary.....my mum would always ask me to refrain from sitting on the laps of relatives too.... familiar faces....at the tender age of 7....back then couldn't understand why, but gradually it was clear....
@mundanelingo13 күн бұрын
11:18 - This is so true. When I was about 5-6 years old, I was traveling by bus and took an aisle seat. It was really dark, and we were all sleeping. I woke up to find someone sitting beside me on his suitcase, with his arms folded. His left hand was reaching towards my chest, trying to rub my breasts. I felt uncomfortable but didn’t say anything, thinking it was an accident. My parents were sitting behind me, and my grandmother was by the window. It took me 15-16 years to realize it was a bad touch