Kuv Txiv Hais Tau Ua Tsis Tau. 9/15/2020

[@dolliilov3144]

Awe May thank you for sharing about your dad loving you daughters ❤️! I wish this sister the best of happiness! I, too, don't have a father that loves me and my siblings.

[@mouavang3371]

Proud of you girl. You're an intelligent individual. Glad you use negative words as a positive guide to achieve your goal.

[@pamthao8955]

Great for you and your siblings more power for you

[@koumoua2980]

What a wonderful story! I’m so proud of you os tus me ntxhais aw! Txiv neej Hmoob ces yeej saib tsis taus cov ntxhais los cov poj niam. So sad, but I’m glad all you siblings are doing well and have a happy life!!! May God continues to bless you and your family!

[@ntxawgvajsuavwjchannel7771]

Yog kawg

[@waatchdogs6184]

Sis, I'm married to vietnamese we have 3 boys and he said his life isn't complete if he does not have a daughter so we finally have a daughter and yes she changed his whole life our life. She's a blessing to our family I wished I had more daughters. Daughters are amazing

[@lynnrossman7479]

thank you for sharing your family story rau peb kawm. it is unbelievable that a father can be that ridiculous. it's so sad. but it is not you or your mom's fault. so proud of your success and how you focus on loving your mom back. your story inspired me. hope that you all can learn to forgive your father. that may mean love him and take care of him when he's old or his young wife run away with another yonger man. that will be the best closure of your successful life. Forgiveness is the answer. may God bless you all.

[@LadeeKY]

This made me cry. Everything that father said, ive heard from my own too. To this day, he still the same. Nothing we can do but wait for that stupid generation to pass.

[@2tuam]

Agree. Can’t change them.

[@leexiong5741]

Hmoob cov OG yog cov ntshaw ua nom ntshaw ntsej muag tab sis lawv txoj kev coj is so prejudice and backwards. They only know kev yuav niam yau xwb. I can't wait for them to be all gone.

[@blueberrysmilie1]

This is the same as my family too. Except my father hais tsis taus ua tsis taus, so everyone walked all over us and he blames us for being ruam and yoog neej tsa. But our life goes the same as this story and our father will never truly love us.

[@sjbsbhabsb5399]

H 8.

[@baugiang3321]

@@blueberrysmilie1 h

[@samvang76]

This makes me sad but you guys did the right thing. My parents have us 6 girls and 1 boy but my dad love all of us equally, even after we are married. My dad is the most loving father and my mom support us regardless of our decisions. Continue to love your mom because the love that each of you give her extend her life with you guys.

[@anhgamming8184]

Tu siab kawg li os

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Tu mi viv ncaus aww koj zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwas 😭😭😭😭

[@KuvTseemhlubkoj1]

So proud of you, don't let your father's ignorance and heartless soul drag your family down. These days, the majority of our girls are the breadwinners, strong and independent. Your father seems to be those typical Hmong men just pure evil with every excuse to have another wife. He doesn't deserve to be loved by you and your siblings. Your story is sad but yet, it's an eye opening to those Hmong men who are evil and selfish.

[@meelor6948]

😭😭

[@moxong6408]

😭😭😭😥😥👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@maiher4260]

Hais txog me ntxhais ces yeej tu siab tabsis peb kavtsij los nyob muaj kev ncau ncees hauv hmoob kavmeej mog cov niam Hmoob

[@leek-te5dx]

Bless your beautiful family and your mother's beautiful soul.

[@aliu4181]

Yog kawg o 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@paynicha4458]

I'm not even half way through this and I'm already crying. My heart hurts for them.

[@niamnpisxy00j]

I absolutely love your personal input.

[@ไปรยาsae]

Yeah good job girl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😊

[@traceyxiong9902]

May it makes me sad how our hmong culture treats women. How we are down graded so much just because we are women. To the lady in the story. So glad all your lives turned out good. Your Dad got what he deserved from the family he is so proud to be a part of. Live your lives with no regrets. Best wishes to all.

[@yinghang7520]

Nnm that too rRw35`¢•too t

[@youwatchme3631]

Don't complain but you can fight for your rights.

[@amazinggrace8136]

There is no dignity in being a woman in the Hmong culture and religion both.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Vim koj txiv tsis ..muaj kev paub kev txawj koj txiv thiaj ..coj li ntawm..koj yuav tau ..zam txim rau koj txiv thiab me ntxhais ..koj thiaj li yuav kaj siab nawb mog

[@wisteria4550]

Makes me cry. I miss my mama. Nothing can compare to a mother’s love.

[@shoualee6502]

Thank him for motivating you to achieve all that he said you can’t. He is missing out!

[@ShouaTojsiab]

I am so proud of you sister. Peb cov ntxhais lub neej yeej tu siab, ib txhia kuj tu tsis npaum ib txhia. Mloog tau tu tu siab thiab los los kua muag heev. Love your mom as she loved you while you were growing up. Hlub tus neeg hlub yus thiaj muaj nqi. Koj niam ib leeg thiaj tsim nyog tau txais nej txoj kev hlub. Tej nyiaj nej yuav muab yuav ticket rau nej txiv thiab nws tus niam mos ab mus saib neej tsa nplog teb ces kav tsij muab rau nej niam xwb thiaj muaj nqi. Don’t let your father guilt all of you into giving him what he want. He doesn’t deserve anything from any of you.

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

tu siab kawg tu siab yug log ua ib leeg ntxhaig moob

[@chang3568]

Love this inspirational story. Thank you for sharing this with us sister. Blessed you and your super mom.

[@julieannayang657]

Tiam 21 no txhais txawj hlub niam thiab txiv tshaj lawm

[@cocopha5778]

ua tau zoo kawg 👍👍👍👍👍

[@leefamily6061]

Thank you for your inspirational story. Sister love your mom, sisters and brother. You don't owe your father anything. Best wishes to your family

[@mosvaj1385]

Nrog nej zoo siab heev os.

[@vangyang4118]

I like when you talk to your fans and give your advice or opinions outside of your stories..

[@mogvang4716]

Tham tau tu siab tshaj nplaws li o tu siab kawg li o

[@colleenchan9872]

Peb cov ntxhais hmoob mas yeej tu siab tshaj plaws vim peb yeej tsis tau txais ib leej txiv txoj kev hlub li neeg mekas li os!! Nrog koj zoo siab os! Cov ntsej muag laus ntawv ces hais tau yeej ua tsis tau thaum ua tsis tau lawm ces muab ub no los keb tiv nws lub niag ntsej muag laus xwb…

[@hlubkojforever1901]

So proud of you 👏 Best story ever!

[@MamaKash89]

Made me cry

[@KueeTonyaa]

Koj hais Zaj no zoo mloog heev li os Niam Laus May aw

[@happylifexiong6534]

In life never judge or put anybody down because you don't know or see what tomorrow brings .......

[@khouavang3242]

You are so inspiring..God blessed you

[@tinachannita193]

Same here, my mom had 6 girls first and then had 4 boys and another two girls so my dad can’t use that excuse but the love was never fair. They do love and support the boys more but at then end of my dads life he admitted that the girls are better than the boys cause we should more love while our brothers still need permission to come see our dad. Now a day girls are more precious then boys so there a new way of thinking now.

[@XMML33]

Women are the gate keepers of human civilization. They are the most precious and strongest at heart. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@pibduajtshiab1808]

Niam Lau aw CA koj dag neeg Hai tauv tus siab ua Li os kuv mloog mam kuv lo lo kuaj muag Li

[@tonythao5362]

Zoo siab koj txiv yog ib tug TXIV DEV XWB!!!...HAHAHA

[@l-island-v9186]

It’s the og who think like that, we new generation has evolve and adapt to the new way and learn how to appreciate women more. Yes it’s sad that their mind set is like that.

[@princessangelher8854]

Good story. Thank you for sharing.

[@shongyangxiong3573]

Tus siab ntau vim kuv yog hmoob es kuv tsis xav tias nej txawm ciaj huabtais los peb tsis muaj qhov yuav zoo siab mog me ntxhais Dr

[@hwmxaibhwmxaasphaaslis8020]

Paab mej cov muag nug zoo sab kawg tshwj xeeb tshaaj hlub mej leej nam yog tug ua kaab ua noog cawm mej leej nam txhawb mej txhua txuj kev le nwg txhawb tau, has txug ntawm mej txiv tes txaus hlub los hlub tsi txaus hlub los nwg twb muab mej pov tseg le ib kaaj khaub hlaab lawm mej tsi hlub los yeej tsi muaj kev txhum le. Koj pav tau zoo heev le os Mes nam Ntsuab Teev bravo 👍👍👍

[@Lifemoments54]

Tough love doesn’t mean abandoning one’s children. This father is a selfish man, gave up his children for a younger wife.

[@missysmart8620]

Nrog nej cov nus muag zoo siab os. Love those that loves you. Nothing wrong not loving your dad. He was not a very good father so yes you and your siblings need to tell him the matter of truth or be blunt with him.

[@MyahLis]

Good story.

[@suabcuayaj877]

yog hnub twg peb cov poj niam koom tau siab ntau cov txiv dev ua txhaum cuag li ntawv ces cov niag txiv dev no yeej tsis muaj phlus thiab mas...nov ces vim peb cov poj niam tsis koom siab es thiaj zoo li no mas.

[@carriexyooj488]

Thank you for sharing your story. You are strong. I have 5 girls and my husband and I love each one unconditionally. My husband is a daddy’s girl. We have 3 adult children and my husband is the proudest father.

[@2tuam]

Best thing I did for my family was moving out. Environment was so toxic and controlled. Respect never rolled down hill. Compliments rarely used unless you were just as dominant a figure of authority.

[@yilengyang3325]

Cov zoo li koj txiv cia kom Txhob muaj lub chaw tuag thiaj paub

[@WhoAmIy9]

cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li o lawv aw.. kuv nim nrog niam ntsuab teev quaj2 thiab o

[@suxiong2240]

You're father words empower u to be stronger. He still You're father ,let it go live your life and live your mom. We r hmoob people.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Proud of you and your siblings!!! How dare your Father still have the face to ask you & your siblings for help with his Brats? How embarrassing!

[@zaahcoyang2956]

What a sweet of Hmong culture war.

[@kaciewanh1986]

So proud of you all doing very well👍🏆🏅

[@christinepacheemoua]

Love this story. You and your siblings have such powerful love for one another.

[@PM-oe5mk]

I don't know if you ever told your father (it was not mentioned in the story) that it's not your mother's fault when it came to the gender of a child---being a medical doctor you would have known that the gender of a child is determined by the male's sperm, not the woman's egg. Your father's selfishness and arrogance is beyond disgusting, especially when he tries to justify his cruelty as the reason for giving you and your siblings the strength to succeed in life. What a misogynistic narcissist! Continue to love your mother, live a successful life, and avoid your a**hole of a father as much as possible. Personally, I'd go no contact with someone like your father, but that's me.

[@Menaaababyyy]

Great story. Thank you for sharing your story! May the older generation of parents learn to love their daughters more.

[@gaosayvu6554]

Hmoob feem coob ces yeej hlub tub xwb tsis hlub ntxhais li os

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

I am proud of you girls, these days our Hmong girls doing better than boys. We should stand up to change our barberian culture. I am Hmong man but I feel that our Hmong men are very abusive in almost everything. It is good that we are in a country that has good laws. We should start to enforce the laws to change the culture so our next generation won't suffer no more.

[@PM-oe5mk]

As long as good Hmong men like you exist out there, and you guys teach your sons better, the future will be brighter for the Hmong women within the Hmong community. If not, then I fear the Hmong men are going to lose a lot of smart, good Hmong women to other cultures out there. For example, how many smart and highly educated Hmong women have married non-Hmong men because so many Hmong men turned these women away due to their age and intelligence? I hope to live long enough to see the tangible changes concerning this issue within the Hmong community, at least here in the U.S. anyway.

[@daovang7148]

Zoo kawg tsam no yuav tuag rau maum kuag ob ceg xwb nrog nej cov nus muag Zoo siab

[@liathao]

Tu siab kawg li txiv neej ces tsis xav tau ntxhais tab sis ho txawj ntshaw poj niam xub ntiag tshaj plaws li thiab yog tsis muaj poj niam ces txiv neej ho txhom2 poj niam yuav tsis yuav kev tsis yuav cai li thiab txiv neej mas phem kawg

[@menkaujntsesmenraugnoog6718]

Yug los Ua ib leej Ntxhais rau hmoob mas tu Siab tshaj txhua yam qhia tsis tau leej twg

[@shouamoua8406]

I have 4 daughter I love all my daughter ❤️ with all my heart.

[@toothlesstiger9683]

I’m proud of you!!! You are the epitome of strength and true grit.

[@MXhX88]

Touch my soul. This whole story soooo true.

[@janievee279]

What a great story! Proud of you and your siblings.

[@kuvleejnushm6367]

khav theeb xwb yog koj txiv tuaj teb mas thiaj ntseeg!

[@muajmoo9621]

Kev tu siab ntawm peb cov ntxhais ces tu siab tshaj qhov hais tau tsis ntev no ces koj twb yuav tau tham kuv txoj neej neeg hais txog ntawm kev tu siab ntawm peb cov ntxhais thiab os niam laus

[@acondon9985]

What a beautiful inspiring and sad story. So proud of your success. Thank you for your words of wisdom. Your family must be so proud of you!

[@keith23615]

my husband loves my daughter a little more than the sons I think because she’s the baby and the only girl in the family.

[@ytv1610]

Amen sister! You and your siblings are the perfect example of the quote, "What doesn't kill you make you stronger". Some Hmong OGs complain that other races are racist but they don't realize they are the biggest bigots of all, even toward their own flesh and blood!

[@kaciewanh1986]

Tusiab kawg li😭💔 peb txiv los yuav luag cuag li leej txiv ko thiab. Cia nws yuav niamyau yug cov ntse2 ua rau nws li nws ua rau nej. Neeg siab phem ces tau neej lem.

[@diannaxiong693]

Wow!!! Tu siab ua luaj li os cov menyuam aw yeej yog yus muaj txiv yug los tsis muaj txiv hlub li os cov menyuam.

[@npaujbais]

The lady in Laos, May mentioned at the end of the story, I tried to report the video but Facebook said that it didn't go against their community standards. I was livid! I thought about contacting the person who owned the video on Facebook but thought better of it because I know Hmong nplog won't change the way they treat women. Hmong women organizations need to reach out to these hmoob nplog and maybe that'll help.

[@MaiMai2389-m3q]

What a sad story and I’m sorry you have such a father with a high ego. I was bless to have a father who love and treat me like a princess and show me it doesn’t matter if I’m a women I have to same equal right as my brothers.

[@semicharmedlife]

May, love hearing your opinions of the story. It's time for you to share yours.

[@npaujbais]

Children do better in a loving home. It's not true that your situation made you better. No one deserves to be treated this way.

[@joeycha7555]

Its ok im a man i love my daughter.

[@nkaujhmoob6558]

Yog kawg os niam laus mai aw . Cas tsi txheeb ze kuv los nim yog poj niam es nws ua txhaum leej twg twb txawj ua txhaum cas niag txiv neej ntawv muab nws ntau sab ua luaj hlub2 nws li nws tsa hlo tes los thov los niag txiv neej ntawv yeej tsi hlub nws li os hlub2 nws tshaj plaws li os

[@User-h6t6s]

My father does the same to my mom and our siblings too. We have 5 sister and 2 brother.

[@Fila_Skittles]

Cas hnub nov, tu tu siab heev lis ehh.. 😥

[@mayalee2400]

Beautiful story, I hate hmong old school folks, if you're born as a female into a hmong family, your have no value to them...I think this should be changed...boy or girl ,we as children didn't want to be born this way and don't deserve the hatred from them,they the one that made us..but if we're female we don't have the love from them,this is sad..hmong and Chinese are the same... Happy for this family, your mother do deserve all the love from all her children, Happy for this woman that all her children love her too, some story I listen to, at the end the children don't even love their mother too...

[@ualbsiab962]

เหมือนพ่อฉันเลยพ่อที่ไม่ให้แหม้แต่คำพูดดีๆ เพียงเพราะแม่มีแต่ลูกสาว ความเจ็บที่ไม่สามารถอธิบายให้ใครฟังได้จริงๆ ชาตินี้ทั้งชาติก็อยากจะมีพ่อที่รักเราและปกป้องเราอยากมีที่สุดแต่คงไม่มีพ่อคนนั้นสำหรับพี่น้องเรา เห็นพ่อที่ดีกับลูกสาวก็อยากจะมีบ้างว่ารสชาตินั้นเป็นเช่นไร

[@nengxiong6991]

My opinion yes!! Like your dad say !! If he didn’t say that or doing that to you guy , you guy will not succeed , but what your dad did is a little over board when you ask your dad to hold your hand at your wedding he should not refuse , he should do it .

[@maryly09]

I am so tired of low life fathers who abandoned his kids and ALWAYS come back at the end begging them to love and take him in. I am so sick and tired of hmong men like this. I hope that once this older generation is gone, that our newer generation of fathers will be better men and fathers. Why don't these men ever learned? There are so many countless of stories and examples just like this by others and yet these old men continue to do the same.

[@yourmama3226]

Story of my life. My siblings and I have cut our loser dad out of our lives now even though he kept trying to call us to help him with random stuff.

[@ilikenuggets1248]

I hate when elders say that the reason we (sons or daughters) are successful is because they have us tough love or gave us the cold shoulder. They always want the spotlight even though they mistreat us in every way possible. They tell us our whole lives that we will amount to nothing, but in the end, when we are successful, they jump right in there and try to take all the credit. So disgusting

[@helenaher5082]

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[@kazouavan2937]

Niag txiv dev laus ntawv lim hiam xwb luag tej nom tswv kiag muaj ntxhais xwb los twb tsis yuav lwm tus, txiv neej hmoob yeej phem raws li kuv tsuas muaj tib tug ntxhais xwb los kuv tus txiv hlub heev kuv kom mus nrhiav niam yau los yug tub los nws tseem chim rau kuv

[@kaoxiong6148]

A man biggest mistake is to abandon his first wife and daughters and marry another woman. God only blessed the first wife…a good father should be very proud of all his daughters if his wife gave him no son. A father who has many daughters should be very happy because he is surrounded by beautiful ladies. Daughters nowadays love parents more than sons…proud of this strong Hmong woman😩🤠!

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

If his wife give him no son…??? Sound like you haven’t been educated. Women has no ability to make genders, her eggs are neutral. Faith wise, it’s whatever God give you. But scientific wise, men’s sperms are the seed. Whichever gender he plants, that’s what the women nurture and grow it into that gender.

[@kaoxiong6148]

@@ThePrincessWorrior I’m fully educated man. I love my daughters and sons equally. I’m appreciate my wife for everything she did for me and my kids. I help her do chores from washing dishes to laundry and do my man’s work around the house. I know that this old man with little or no education treated his son badly. A good father shouldn’t never do that to his kids…😩🤠

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Cheers to your sisters, & only brother and your mother. You all got the looks and brains. It's in our blood. Hmoob Hmoob bad blood in some pple. Those who never valued the daughters.

[@marylee5608]

Hais txog txiv neej hmoob lim hiam tsis hlub cov ntxhais mas tusiab heev li.. yog tsis hlub ntxhais vauv ces thaum tau ntxhais vauv tsis zoo tsis txim txiaj ces yuav ntxub2 xav kom tuag tabsis yog ntxhais vauv lubneej ho zoo ces kuj txhob tos ntsov nyuj thiab txhob khaiv ntxhais vauv, txhob ciasiab rau ntxhais vauv kiag xwb

[@sylavue5977]

Hmong and there EGO. That will never change. Sister your story is so sad. But you did a good job.

[@minecraftboy2676]

I think and see that being a daughter in a Hmoob family is not one of the most mistreated gender in the world, there are worst mistreated races that kill or stones their daughters. It is sad, painful and heartbreaking to be born as a daughter.

[@tiachang7748]

Too sad 😢 My mom doesn’t count me because I’m married poor husband No one like me 😭😭😭 Only my kids love me 😢

[@saivang8018]

Kuv txiv yug kuv los yeej hlub wb 2 viv ncaus ib yam com tub thiab.Kuv tus husband los yeej hlub wb cov ntxhais tib yam cov tub thiab.

[@alisonyang6698]

This story is heartbreaking. Like May, I was the youngest daughter and bc my dad only had 3 girls he loved us so much. Never raised is voice to us. Didn't do the hmong culture of bridal payment. He wanted us to know we had a home to come back to if our marriages didn't work. He encouraged us to go to college and be more. Fathers like the ones in tgis story deserve every bad thing that comes to them. Im sad to hear stories like this. It breaks my heart

[@shengkhang7427]

Jmuag txiv dev siab phem li ntawv na txhob hlub kiag li lawm nawb niaj hnub no txhob quav je nws li o cias nws tuag nws mus