Codependency Release - Kyle Cease

[@juliaschiller1786]

I find it absolutely fascinating, that your last name is cease, which literally means "pause, fade away, come to a standstill"... As you embody the teachings of letting go and the now moment. This is so epic 🙌❤️

[@blaroym1]

Such a beautiful post to weave in to this community 🥰

[@era1442]

Something I've also thought about!

[@julietodd743]

You’re right, this is so true!! amazing.

[@Cafeallday222]

Names are not coincidental 😉

[@peacequeen2579]

ironically my last name Italian means Peace and I have never been at peace. My final shot at life is to create it for myself through intentional release of the sludge I have been carrying around for 55 years.

[@stellawilliams9303]

I notice around my family I am triggered by not being pretty enough, not being successful enough, not feeling valued for my point of view

[@jeantuite-actress--imdb]

clutter, extra weight, being single although I want to find someone, jobs and careers i've outgrown, negative thinking even though I strive for positive thinkng, fake friends, defeatist attitudes, debt, sad memories and disappointments from the past.

[@ThroughZ]

Everybody was removed from my life last year, people I have been close to. My children also moved across the country. That was tough. I wanted to move closer to them, but it hasn’t worked out. It no longer matters. I cried it all out. It feels good to not be co-dependent.

[@loopdyloo22]

Thank you. I reflected on it and I think maybe I am codependent on self-isolation. My environment growing up was very unpredictable. Often hurtful. So hiding and being alone was both my safety and punishment. Out in the world, I was always vigilant and afraid. I still find myself retreating from life to self-analyze and self-critique. There is growth behind this, but like you said it is breaking thru the fear part of it, allowing myself to be the all that I Am in every place and situation, and finding a centered place of okayness thru it all. Much to process and integrate here. Thank you for challenging me to open up to this 🙏🏼

[@LMiller363]

My pain....my mums opinion...my ex husband...Work...discomfort...

[@LMiller363]

I know what you mean by isolation being your safety and punishment.

[@MsYolost]

Thank you for sharing. It helps to see that I'm not the only one in this situation

[@janecollins3348]

Gosh yes, me too, I never thought of it as being a control thing from an unpredictable childhood. If I don't go out much/do much I can control what happens to me. But it's a fear of losing control really - as you say much to process!

[@erindemay2629]

I’m codependent on helping people witch brings up victim, anxiety, lack of control, and that everyone is more important than me.. I’ve been letting go of that magnet, the universe has been collapsing it for me. My trauma is that I’m not capable.. but I am, and I no longer feel like a victim. Thank you for confirming this for me.

[@deutschteach]

I'm codependent on being seen as having found my zen, knowing myself, and staying in that good space. So when I "misbehave" I'm the only one devastated by the occurrence.

[@carolined4546]

This resonated with me. Thank you.

[@freedomofspeech6095]

Yes I’m codependent on being seen.

[@alexandraalbertz1442]

But who make the rule that is the only way to be seen? And eho decide what happens when you do not follow them? Is the achiever patterns in us. Other form of the ego. Lean with your vulnerability. This is what connects us. We are not perfect and we are on just the way we are

[@claudiawilliams-BEYOU]

Wow still trying to be the good girl .

[@hollycook1024]

I'm codependant on not being good enough, and losing my temper when I'm hurt.. Then hurting cause I lost my cool...

[@lauraparreira5942]

Going through that exact pattern today

[@susannahcyrus5086]

Me too!

[@alexandraalbertz1442]

Who can change the good enough feeling?

[@haleykristin]

Resonate

[@MagnificentMartha]

We're all carrying everybody else's projections and lies that were vomited on us. Give yourself permission to release it and send it back to the one who vomited it, pray the person can identify it and release it also. You'll feel so much lighter.

[@soulhorsemedicine]

“Your pain is your argument with what you need to do”. Kyle…. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️ thank you for being the voice that speaks to my soul.

[@jessicashriner2933]

Holy shit this is soooo good. Thank you so much for your guidance. I could not love your vids anymore. Best account on youtube

[@johnnyjay1165]

Kyle, as someone who can't do the AEP right now, thank you for putting out a longer video this week. Your content is invaluable, not because it gives me hope or make me feel good, but because I've been transformed in real ways by it, with a combined adviata practice. I no longer need to run around the spiritual and philosophical marketplace to distract myself by what's going on inside (which is the cause of what's going on outside).

[@caelintredoux2249]

I'm codependent on my mother and her view of my sanity. I am codependent on how good or bad I feel at every given moment.

[@AurelienCarnoy]

I'm codependent on nicotine

[@BlackPumaShaman]

I am codependent on spirituality and the ascending proces. 😲. Ohhh this is a tricky one now I see it. It feels uncertain and scary in my body 😱. And I know already from other magnets, being is scared is not scary 😁. Thank you. 🙏 radio Now turned ON

[@malcolmnicoll1165]

Thank you, Kyle for the usual, outstanding therapy. So grateful for all you do to alleviate human suffering and bring us back to our divine nature.

[@katerina81731]

My favorite of all time. I can see so clearly why I attract the same scenarios. It's the magnet inside of me. Boom! Thank you, Kyle 💖🙏

[@Miaoen68]

Ohh, There is a deeep fear that I am alone and nobody cares about me. I have visited it deaply many times but I dont seem to get a whole feeling about myself. I will have to explore more..(just want to ask..what can I do?) Thank You Kyle..I love your work and the aep..hugs!

[@mohammedarab6110]

me to same problem

[@oneineuniceson9148]

I know I’m not Kyle but just a thought.. maybe you could try to explore where it comes from? And what it links to.. maybe a memory from childhood or maybe many memories, maybe the need to feel seen etc.. find the links and see the little you and just feel it for as long as your little person needs. Not to say you haven’t done that already! Hope this helps in some way ❤

[@lawofattraction7651]

inner child feels that way. same here. I dont care about me is what shows if I use the mirror..

[@CrystalTwinStar]

4:24 Old school letting go! That concept of "letting go" has NEVER resonated with me! Now I see why! This makes so much sense and explains to me why I am determined to stay in uncomfortable situations in stead of running from them, because like you said, as long as that magnet in inside you, you'll keep pulling the same situation to you over and over. I have seen that by staying in the situation, and accepting it, I work through it completely and the magnetic hold dissipates naturally. Wow, Kyle! Thank you SO MUCH!

[@heatherwall7579]

Wow…this made me cry…so spot on. Thank you. 🙏💗🙏

[@jansimpson4364]

“Grab a person in order to not process grief completely.” This one resonates. Married within 18 months after losing my dad. Mother died 4 years later. Marriage is good, has lasted 38 years, good match but I spent time processing grief from loss of parents for a number of years after getting married. There’s no avoiding the grief just because I had a new person in my life…

[@rene9670]

Codependent on friends n family. Want to be included and if not, my feelings are hurt. Lonely, sad, unimportant. Not happy or content when I'm by myself.

[@williamladic6354]

A love-hate video for me! I love the depth and wisdom of the message...I hate the realization that I have and use codependent activities to distract, avoid and stop me from feeling what is buried inside me.

[@caroltee1098]

Co dependant on the concept of "safety and security", in whatever form it comes... Thanks Kyle, for your beautiful work. Love it 🌈🧚‍♀️⚡💜✨

[@Naturally91]

This message of allowing everything, feeling everything, letting things be as it is in the now as the path to healing is coming to me from all over these days..! So grateful and in awe of life 🙏

[@K8_Is_Awake]

People’s ideas of me. Especially since waking up.

[@Jen-sk8fe]

Like hard to be yourself? Not believed? I feel this …❤️

[@K8_Is_Awake]

@@Jen-sk8fe Yes, I feel like they think I'm crazy, broken. But I'm not and I'm getting stronger every day. 💗

[@CarolinaConde43]

so many things and nothing

[@rutaczina6544]

It's so freeing to listen to you, Kyle! Thank you!

[@BlueLotus313]

I'm co-dependent on illness.

[@JoseeFontaine]

Kyle, there’s no words to express my gratitude 😊 maybe just feeling the love in the now. In human language we say « thank you » but what I feel is beyond words. ✨🙏✨

[@Vibrantlifestyle]

Profound. Your videos allowed me to hear how I was blocking a deeper awareness that was blocked by - I am not enough. I’m with that and not having to fix it with some book, class or workshop. I am allowing it to be. Your amazing. Thank you, Kyle ❤

[@narishaloflin9314]

(Oops, I just sent you a long comment, but then it seemed to have disappeared into cyberspace. So I will repeat myself here. My apologies, if you wind up getting both.) Kyle, you are a miracle & THE healer/visionary/messenger for the exact time we are now in! This is perhaps your very best & most important transmission of the entire 2 years I've been listening to you...because, unfortunately, codependency IS the essence of modern-day life for most people. We are a world full of addicts! Thank you for delivering this paradigm-shattering message with your usual heart & humor. (I love when you flip into your old timey, "Farmer Joe" voice--hilarious! 😄) Your talk brought me to tears & plopped me right into "The Hottub of the Now". In a New Ageified world with its various rah-rah cheerleaders & MLM-styled, "manifest-your-dreams NOW!", perfection peddling, spiritual bypassing snake oil salesmen/ women, YOU ARE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR! Thank you for giving us all permission to be exactly who, how, & where we are right now. And once again, thank you, thank you, thank you for returning me to Me. I love you! 💜 Keep doing exactly what you're doing! 🌻

[@shanabridges8757]

I am so grateful for you, Kyle. I have tried to ask the same question several times on AEP live, but we haven’t connected yet. There are so many times that I feel alone on this beautiful journey of healing. But over & over your words, your passion, your humor & even the look in your eye & when you take a breath calms me. You are a reflection of me often. You are a beacon of light for my soul’s guidance & I am so very grateful. I hope I get to thank you in person in Sedona. I thank God for you daily. You & HIM make me feel loved & not alone. Excited to keep rising together!! 😁🙏🌟💖

[@miss_rini]

I’ve listened to 3 of these today. I 💯 know the Divine, All that IS, is why I found them. Thank you Kyle for doing the work that has brought you to being a vessel for truth, hope and love ❤

[@xiathao8704]

I’m codependent on people, money, my image, reputation, being happy all the time, always having to know every outcome before I do something, loosing at something, being likable, 😅

[@4XtraOrdinaryMen]

Are these codependencies or desires?

[@siobhanmulvey]

this is exactly what I am experiencing. I have decluttered so much within my trauma past and my ego is still trying to maintain control.

[@marianbergroth8228]

Thanks Kyle! Wonderful. I saw this 30 minutes after release and I have never felt so much that something that wasn't live actually was live. So strong. I cried, smiled, laughed, and then suddenly fell asleep and woke up to something very very clear.

[@danieyelle40]

Co-dependent on outside world instead of feeling myself. Exp: asking advice etc… etc

[@emilyjade8697]

This is exactly what I needed to hear today as I clarify what kind of relationship is good for me and my parents! Thank you KYLE!!!

[@dawnmcmaster4949]

Yes, letting it be a mess to release patterns and trauma

[@lisabarnetson1362]

Being heard.

[@jonathancarter6831]

Your a true and beautiful soul, Thankyou for your major contributions in the rebuilding of my sanity in an insane, dystopian and fractured world of ILLUSION!

[@elliegirl3330]

I feel your heart in the way to share this message. It makes it powerful and poignant. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@Marykguise]

Absolutely brilliant. So life-changing. Thank you Kyle. You are such a gift. 💗

[@megprentice8412]

I love what you said about letting things be a mess ❤

[@nalinisingh284]

I choose the wonderful “Now”🙏❤️

[@sammy_lynn]

I need to start signing in to the calls I'm paying for lol I was just having this awareness about my adult daughter because I've been hurting trying to hold on and build an attachment that my spirit asks me to consider...was not healthy was codependent and that there needs to be space created between us to remove the emeshment so healthy relating and boundaries can NATURALLY MANIFEST. This message is so on time I'm so grateful and excited to be in the flow and in the know!

[@robynevans1287]

Whew!💖💖💖 This is *PURELY POWER-FULL!* THANK YOU again, Kyle!🤗💖 & THANK YOU to EVERYONE 🤗💖 for Loving yourself enough to BE the LOVING PRESENCE💝 & allow what comes up to be ...& then to dissolve, release, transmute... call it whatever you choose... I am GRATEFUL!💖💖💖

[@anacatarina8157]

Thank you! 🤗🤍

[@Emeraldmedicinewoman]

This is an absolute game changer. I am so grateful to you Kyle for sharing this. I can feel the shifts 🙏🏼

[@astridgotuzzo3533]

Wow! I had to pause your video many times bcz it was absolutely touching my core. I needed a moment to catch my breath. I am so blessed to have found your videos Thank you for your teachings ❤ love from Italy

[@kelseydalziel9327]

Yesss! I’m so happy this made it to youtube ✨

[@tdtd6728]

m inner voice made manifest - wow i am not alone

[@crjoymanifesting]

That was some particularly good shit today Kyle. Totally the space I’m in and needed to hear! ❤

[@BeStillandKnow0000]

"I'm allowed to feel helpless in this body" underneath all this stuck anger in my lower back is a held feeling of helplessness... thank you for sharing this exercise... it made me brave enough to go beyond what is underneath

[@MC-ci5fi]

Ooofff.... wasn't expecting that, but half way through started sobbing and thinking "it's not safe to feel that pain".... so I just cried my heart out some more and just allowed the big tears to do it's thing.

[@saramaher9919]

Past stories, find it difficult to move my mind to 'this day'. My mind goes over and over things have been done. Regardless good or bad. So odd. I feel alone and uneducated especially what has happened the last 2 plus years to help educate guide support my little man. Thank you fir letting us/me express. Helps HUGELY.!

[@jeantuite-actress--imdb]

Thank you Kyle. I've realized that even though I've worked alot on myself in life with self-improvement, books, tapes, counseling, meditation etc. I still haven't released all of my pre-conceieved ideas that I've carried since childhood and I'm over 60 now but still look 40s to 50ish and my grandmother lived to be 99 so maybe I can still be more successful in life. I've been successful in staying afloat and surviving but it's been a struggle for me as someone with a higher IQ of about 153 but i guess there is little correlation with intelligence and success etc. I became addicted to my old childhood story and traumas. I was the scapegoat growing up and it took a long time for me to actually stand up to people and now I am not a doormat at all. Sometimes I can even be brutally honest with people but generally try to avoid conflict at all costs and just tell people Im too busy or overextended if I'm not interested in something or someone but this is a challenge as sometimes I was raised to believe I could not get what I want to just accept the scraps in life but now i have higher self esteem and don't do that. It's a process. I guess nobody ever said it would be easy.

[@oneineuniceson9148]

Kyle thank you so much, you are such an inspiration and you have helped thousands upon thousands. I love you. Thank you for helping me heal my inner child, thank you for helping me have self compassion. Thank you. ❤

[@annevettestad8210]

Woow I didn't understand that before I dead ( clinically). Many layers to get thrue before I get down to the rootz. Still in working processes. I let go and let go. To be true to myself, forgive and working on loving myself. I am. Stardust a part infinity energy. Every day teaching me something new.

[@marystraub8484]

Sadness

[@susannahcyrus5086]

I’m there. Nothing else external to grab onto….being present with the feeling of surrendered exhaustion that brings up.

[@alexisbaker1855]

Thank you Kyle, you always have a way of shifting one’s thoughts and feelings. You truly helped me today and all the time

[@zeroeightz]

Codependent on my relationship It brings up terror of being abandoned and rejected, not being loved, chosen or accepted

[@sharonackerman9721]

True power…. Beautiful sharing💜 thank you!

[@motheringavalon2316]

I am codependent on income assistance, movies and coffee. It brings up shame and laziness and not being a great provider for my children.

[@Divine777Love]

I needed this! I am codependent on approval from everyone. Also noticed it’s been passed down to me from my family. I noticed how my mom and my dad are. Looking for approval and I got that! I have been working on this! I no longer want anyone approval or telling me I am doing good when I know I am. Another is lack of self love. I keep going and not listening to my body it wants me to sit and feel the pain. I have been working on that. The more i sit the body shows me what wants to come up. So I just sit for hours or whatever to feel what is going on. Thank you so much ❤

[@misspattifromcali.6955]

Am I first?! 🤔 I'm READY for this release of Co dependancy!! 💕 tytyty Kyle 💕

[@vitzaniadominguez6961]

I'm co-dependent on others' judgments. " " other people supporting me. Brings up being ignored. Brings up having to accept myself as I am. Brings up a tightness feeling in my throat.

[@SD-hx9lm]

OMG so powerful again!! Just at the right time as usual 🙂

[@szenka43]

This topic is HUGE for me.... I can relate with so many things you just mentioned. Wow. Thank You!✨

[@Alettasassygoods]

When i choose for myself, what i want i wont be loved. And i am bad.

[@Jen-sk8fe]

Me too, very scared I’ll be seen as weir hurt someone.

[@taylorschneider4499]

The story about the woman traveling. Holy shit you hit the nail on the head with everything in this video. Stoked I can be listening to this insight

[@Lisa-xu3cl]

I’m codependent on shelter! My fear of being homeless has caused me to live with my toxic mother way past a reasonable age…

[@Lisa-xu3cl]

Watched further into your video and realized I actually have codependency on security but saying shelter is focusing on the outside/external

[@carolineosullivan4256]

I love the description, it's here now, nobody asked for it but who cares. Brought me to listen, got my attention so thank you for an inspiring video

[@lynn2475]

I am so grateful you are here now. ❤

[@Kate13.]

Stuck on receiving communication from counterpart when the telepathy is working just fine. What is this???? Never felt this in previous relationships. Didn’t care this much. Makes me feel needy and I’m not that. *meditating on this today 🧘‍♀️ Excited that this is coming up to release. 🙌🏼♥️ Thanks Kyle.

[@TheHouseOffice]

14:25 incredible. The energy of the do-er

[@audreysegura8933]

You are so amazing! Love this ! Going to sign up for sure ! Was asking for something like this so happy to have found these videos !

[@JenniferSimonis]

My x- we have a severe autistic son. I’m main bread winner and he’s caregiver. We even went to therapy for 4 years because we needed the help how to figure this out. It’s money and caregiving. Plus we live together even though we broke up 6 yrs ago. We don’t want to live together but we both want to be with our son. And we don’t have money to create an environment that meets these requirements. We are not putting our son in a State facility. The perfect situation WILL manifest.

[@JenniferSimonis]

Looking forward what the universe has for me and for my son. God is good. Stepping aside and letting the universe decide

[@callieelliesociety]

This is sooo Good. Thank you!

[@space_food]

This is amazing, similar to the concept of Hooponopono. Thank you💙

[@cis4cookiethatsgoodenough456]

So this was just an epiphany… at 10:46 ish while I went through and stated patterns I am not and what I am…. This came to me out of my mouth…. And God said let there be light and there was light . And he saw that it was good. And the darkness comprehended it not. I am not the darkness in my body (pattern magnets). I am light. I comprehend the darkness. The darkness does not comprehend me. I must shine my light on these darknesses.❤️ Well really I am just this moment only and am growing in perceived light as I shed the darkness, and it reveals the light I’ve always been

[@annevettestad8210]

The box is full of many surprises

[@dew_africa]

Wow Kyle! This is brilliant. Thank you! When you said...No doer can do this...👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@lindahutchins9890]

Thank you I love being in the now it’s bliss but struggle to stay there please keep giving out your wisdom you are helping more than you could ever know ❤

[@SandySongJoy07]

I an listening now, with the all that is, I Am connected, now will be of service when I ask if I ask....

[@francescagianoli5525]

Thank you.❤

[@arikayaeli]

Thank you 😊 I was in the midst of a massive codependent (with males and drama) trigger. Ohhhhh such a relief to see clearly and come back to now.

[@AurelienCarnoy]

I'm keeping the wife. And releasing attachments. And falling in love... Again. Quite beautiful. Thank you.

[@clifcody]

Thank you!

[@Mindywright27]

I love you, Kyle. Thank you. I needed this. ❤

[@lynettelewis1517]

Thank you so much Kyle what a beautiful message and one I needed to hear. Love, light and blessings to you?? 🙏💞💫X

[@jeanolson1304]

Really helpful, thank you!

[@butterflyyoga9444]

YAASSS!!!👏👏👏 Thank you thank you!🙏💞

[@estielias2780]

So deep. thank u ❤️

[@beller8501]

Thank you💓🙏

[@AngelaKirbyonbeingyou]

So good … such a gem thanks Kyle ❤

[@ciaraorr9652]

I love you kyle , this is just amazing

[@carolynmartin7906]

Im codependent on what others think of me…I’m a people pleaser, my husband’s approval, my physical appearance, my health issues

[@shannonleahy9722]

Great video Kyle. Beautiful. ❤❤ Thank you.

[@annevettestad8210]

Its a challaging, scary and painful but have led me free from boxed in.❤