Both sides of this family acted inappropriately in certain degree. 1. For Li Wen, what she did - sued her step mother which was cruel and heartless that who wanted to deal with being sued no longer after lost her dear husband? It was selfish and inconsiderate. 2. Li his wife appeared to be inconsiderate too, when she could not invite his eldest daughter to funeral to see her dad for last time. No matter what happened, Li Wen is his daughter, blood connected, why kept her out of the picture? These two ladies both loved Li very much, one was his daughter, one was his wife. BUT none of them carried Mr Li his important virtue - being considerate and open minded, being tolerate and of a big love heart. Look forward to a fair legal judgement and decision for his family.