It takes a special kind of person to appreciate this song. I have tried in the past to share my love for La Dispute, and I have found that it falls on deaf ears.
@breannareeves42673 жыл бұрын
Not everyone can hear what you hear darling.
@breannareeves42673 жыл бұрын
La dispute has touched my soul since I was 15.. I'm almost 23
@Mioochii3 жыл бұрын
@@breannareeves4267 samee but ne when i was 16 and im 21 now
@sicklycynical2 жыл бұрын
@@breannareeves4267 about 14 and I'm 22 now
@Gavthecan09052 жыл бұрын
@@breannareeves4267 I met them in florida about 13 years ago. I think the singer was 19 at the time. I love there screaming poetry and play it for my kids now. The young ones need to know there was once a time where music was good.
@elsaeliasson10248 жыл бұрын
I think Jordan has he most emotion I've ever heard in a singer... Not to mention how perfect the guitar goes with all the songs
@Luckytattooing7 жыл бұрын
Gaaaaaaayyyyy!
@elsaeliasson10247 жыл бұрын
lmao
@mattman1137 жыл бұрын
Super bold statement! Just sayin :p
@dwangnoderbora7 жыл бұрын
I'd personally give that title to Billy Werner, but to each their own.
@PirateBowler17 жыл бұрын
i dunno it believe myself Adam gontier deserves that one.
@nyyxijax60706 жыл бұрын
"If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend." One of my favorite lyrics in any songs
@zynerd5 жыл бұрын
@@Tanx913 lmao
@joshuatorres41593 жыл бұрын
Me too man so beautiful
@dumpsterfire58183 жыл бұрын
the last verse just hits so hard
@HorkPorkler3 жыл бұрын
Shit, that line kills me. I'd never except that. Fuck or be fucked. Most likely, be fucked tho.
@ravenblackwing78882 жыл бұрын
Same 😭😭😭 I promised my girlfriend the same thing... and then she lied to me and i couldn’t trust her anymore 😞 This crap hits SO hard
@rex12975 жыл бұрын
nobody: not even the rain: my long-distance relationship: haha look at this song
@jackbard26234 жыл бұрын
"not even the rain" i see what u did there
@Oatskii3 жыл бұрын
Very nice 😂
@Monius133 жыл бұрын
Great reference ;)
@erins60603 жыл бұрын
Oof. Yeah. Feel this.
@taliesinpotter40972 жыл бұрын
Glad to see the next generation of emo kids are having the same d struggles 😂
@monikalukic47138 жыл бұрын
I can't get over the fact how beautiful this song is.It breaks my fucking heart every time.
@marianavalenzuela10365 жыл бұрын
“And if i do not miss a part of you,a part of me is dead.” That made a knot in my throat....
@brandonelm48913 жыл бұрын
You know what fucks me up? How come I can feel the emotions and sentiment in songs like this. Like I legit feel music so terribly deeply, yet I meet no one who feels the same way ever.... everyone of my friends and lovers just "like music" it does not run through them the same... ik there is people out there, yet fate separates us.
@ravenblackwing78882 жыл бұрын
It runs through me the same way 😏 Nice to meet you friend!
@JudyKapow2 жыл бұрын
Same here. People look at me like I'm dramatic... I'm not 😭 I'm empathetic or maybe dramatic or both i just wanna live and feel. Feel deeply.
@ravenblackwing78882 жыл бұрын
@@JudyKapow and that’s ok! Be yourself!
@JudyKapow2 жыл бұрын
@@ravenblackwing7888 thank you! :') I will listen to you and continue to be myself. I feel like I'm in a fantasy world because your name is Raven BlackWing and your picture is a raven! it feels like a wise woodland creature has blessed me with some knowledge. 😌
@brandonelm48912 жыл бұрын
@@JudyKapow right? I just feel like there is a REAL emotional cutoff now adays. When I SEE someone going through something bad or tragic I feel it in my core. Because of that I can put myself in others shoes. I always FEEL everything. The good and the bad. If I could give 10% of the empathy I feel for others I feel like this world would be alot more beautiful. This is super off topic but if you feel emotions deeply I have a question. Can you read complete stranger's (or friends) emotions ? I find my self super in tune with how the people around me feel
@savannahrae92382 жыл бұрын
Seeing them live was an experience I will never, ever forget. Everyone in the room was singing and crying to this song, and the emotion I felt in that room was so thick it was tangible.
@DoenerDuesentrieb9 ай бұрын
I need that too
@GlitterObsessedFreak8 ай бұрын
Fml I need that
@alexademo7418 жыл бұрын
You can listen to this beautiful song or set yourself on fire they both feel the same way it's just one is physical and the other one is emotional
@SabrinaUmstead8 жыл бұрын
Please be a poet I love how you put this
@bethanytyson84647 жыл бұрын
+Sabrina Umstead same, Alexa this comment is pure poetry! Really so good 👏
@marieporter85787 жыл бұрын
Addict with a uke ff594
@Eshkanama7 жыл бұрын
Alexa Demo truth..
@dwangnoderbora7 жыл бұрын
But when the songs over your emotions still work.
@khyennefrancis37765 жыл бұрын
And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead.. If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend.
@jxomxo6 жыл бұрын
"My dear, I hear your voice in mine" Goodbye, sanity.
@zynerd5 жыл бұрын
What does it mean?
@randomatheist48325 жыл бұрын
@@zynerd it means, welcome insanity!
@ashleighrebollar8114 жыл бұрын
literally
@wishingwell_3333 жыл бұрын
same
@mermally77683 жыл бұрын
:'(
@juliethawke83358 жыл бұрын
Who else literally got chills?!
@quietri0t6 жыл бұрын
In that exact moment when I read this.
@adrianparra81015 жыл бұрын
Not me. This shit is wierrrd
@juliax56065 жыл бұрын
same exact moment as i read this!
@kaleightea76177 жыл бұрын
As someone who lost a 4 year relationship due to distance, this song really hits the heart, La Dispute made me realize I felt things I didn't know I felt, found the words I couldn't find, and healed me
@RJBaker4152 жыл бұрын
It’s as if I wrote this comment myself. I also had a 4 year long relationship end due to distance and eventual cheating. The love is stronger with distance, and the end result is also stronger. Good or bad.
@sportiechick32177 жыл бұрын
I've been aloneee God his voice hurts my heart. His heartbreak is so loud. His words are so simple but explain so much emotion
@charlottenoelle69565 жыл бұрын
I went through a really bad breakup and I had a friend recommend this song to me. That friend died in January from a car crash, and I listen to this song just to feel close to her. I miss you Geena. ❤️
@clur9895 Жыл бұрын
You still cross my mind, but I dont smile. I just cry. I hope whatever it is, you will find. Whilst you leave me here, far behind. Standing at the sea...it was all lies.
@ravenonyx94716 жыл бұрын
"I still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again" can relate so much
@Obs156738 жыл бұрын
Never been in love im my life nor had any type of affection ever, but still somehow this song makes me feel so many feelings
@carolhooker99508 жыл бұрын
I think I've been hit hard with a barrage of words that pulled me emotionally in a thousand different directions. My son showed me this song and didn't think I would like. He was wrong. I love it!!!
@WNCHSTR8 жыл бұрын
hi mom
@ZoomZoomBoom248 жыл бұрын
For the Watch lol....if your talking to me...Hiya back!!
@WNCHSTR8 жыл бұрын
Yes im talking to u momma. I love this song too.
@Lodestoned5 жыл бұрын
This song made me think of my mom.wish I could've had the chance to show it to her.
@Deenowze5 жыл бұрын
I just came here to think of my ex like all of you...
@swordofulster56614 жыл бұрын
I salute you
@spirrows75003 жыл бұрын
What's the point anyway?
@oliverlopeszerio63373 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@mcstinky3 жыл бұрын
stfu simp
@17-.-2 жыл бұрын
...
@artsyandria79922 жыл бұрын
It’s a great day to be named Andria
@fourniergangrene5242 жыл бұрын
Yep. you & I and this song share a name
@Jabba1625 Жыл бұрын
Ah the whole "if I can't love as a lover. I will love as a friend", just makes me cry. Love this band and I miss you Leah rip
@victoriamiguel86526 жыл бұрын
I've always adored this song. I just loved the emotion in it and I felt it all. I thought about how one must feel. Then I met someone and how everything ended. I remember the ride back from the airport and this song came up. I understood the pain. I never understood how you could hate the airport because of a person, but now I do.
@Krusti1596 жыл бұрын
V Dub I heard this song for the first time after the breakup of a long distance relationship and I felt like this song was written about my own life
@lainawaggoner47368 жыл бұрын
The emotions just hit me like a bullet with this song.. Wow.
@Luckytattooing7 жыл бұрын
I bet you cried watching titanic
@lafernshaner56347 жыл бұрын
luckytatooing I did ya little shit lol who cares
@Neatanla8 жыл бұрын
Every single lyric of this song is a recall to our memories. Still ,after all these years after all this time it still means something and tbh I'm glad it does,cause I don't wanna forget what I've felt nor what happened. Good or bad ,memories are memories and they should never be forgotten. I miss you,everyday and I'm gonna thank Distance for what she did to us ,but still whatever happened and now matter how we are now .. I would do it all over again. Those feeling were so unique.. It's something that everyone should feel once in their life time.
@laurenlucy21376 жыл бұрын
This concert was the best I’ve ever been to, the feels.
@lsophapmyable9 жыл бұрын
Ugh. This song is emotionally deep.
@marinettecheng98276 жыл бұрын
Yeah but so good!
@icarus24724 жыл бұрын
its hard. This song reminded me so much of a girl I've loved for two years. We dated for a few months and that was one of the best relationships I had and we broke up because she was going through a lot. It was a messy break up and my grandfather was in the hospital. She broke up with me on February 13th and my grandfather died on February 14th (Valentine's day he was always a dramatic) but I never stopped loving her. We started talking again and she apologized for what she did and she has genuinely changed the bad parts of herself which is rare. We both still care about eachother which hurts the worst. She has a boyfriend now and she said I deserve someone who can be there for me physically (shes in a different country) and it's hard. I don't know how to more on and am so desperately stuck on her still im sorry but it helped to rant some. I haven't had any one really to talk ti about it because my only friend hates her for how she hurt me and doesn't really believed shes changed and the only other friend I have is another ex of mine and I can't really talk about being in love with someone to him. It helped to rant some and get my feelings out
@mcstinky3 жыл бұрын
im not reading this
@icarus24723 жыл бұрын
@@mcstinky okay? no need to tell me that?
@mfernanda4273 жыл бұрын
i hope you've found some peace ❤️
@ignacebonnarens10302 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brother, the night is always darkest just before the dawn. Time will help.
@daisymejia76943 жыл бұрын
“It must be true that People say that only time can heal the pain.” “And every single day I feel it fade away” 😔👏🏼
@cativabonita31106 жыл бұрын
I loved this song so much in high school but now that I've experienced life a little, I'm seeing and feeling this song and many more of theirs in a completely different way. Wow, they were preaching.
@divine31568 жыл бұрын
I still remember how we held so strong to this, though we never really settled on a way out........
@blakebailey24473 жыл бұрын
I'm from Grand Rapids, where this band is from. This band was my first concert ever, and this is prolly my favorite song of theirs
@Comrade_Nils5 жыл бұрын
it's been 5 years and i still remember like it was yesterday. i'll never forget you laura...
@RyanHeinz8 жыл бұрын
This song brings me back to when I dated this girl named Kaytlyn. Met her at a very rough time in my life at a coffee house and understood my jokes like this song says... My life felt together again and I was doing great until one awful day she was hit by a car and died the same night. Almost scares me how much this song relates to my entire situation
@JoshMelia8 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry man, that must have been terrible for you :( my prayers go out to you
@beefbaby70958 жыл бұрын
+GhostKidsEnt Do you have a video of this? I would like to see... For educational purposes of course...
@Luckytattooing7 жыл бұрын
Good now this band has one less fan !
@parkspaziergang7 жыл бұрын
+luckytattooing i hate you, really. go bother your grandmother but don't disrespect others opinion.
@beefbaby70957 жыл бұрын
Schrummii Don't use that language! My boy lucky doesnt deserve that.
@senajade16387 жыл бұрын
I'm not crying, you're crying!
@k4yyy4444 жыл бұрын
it’s true, i am
@bethanytyson84647 жыл бұрын
So beautiful and emotional. Love the contrast like he's screaming in pain from the loss as if his lover has been ripped out of his very being. Nice change from most breakup songs that are slow and soppy.
@johnstamos5602 жыл бұрын
drinking and listening to this sound made me realize that this shit really relayed to my experience. let’s me know i’m not alone in this
@jd7338 Жыл бұрын
You’re not man
@OneManTheBand5 жыл бұрын
Used to listen to this song a lot when I was younger. As I got older my music tastes changed a lot but this song still brings a tear to my eye.
@baguettebtch5 жыл бұрын
same here
@mashpotatosauce35667 ай бұрын
My favorite thing about La Dispute is that none of their lyrics are meaningless. They’re not one of those bands that just makes up meaningless shit for the sake of it sounding good. Each line is deliberate and dripping with an angst and passion that, I’ve really only been able to find with this band. Truly one of the greatest artists of the last 20 years.
@Alex-kd2bj2 ай бұрын
The same woman that introduced me to this song, this amazing lyricist and the immaculately talented musicians in this band is the same woman every heart break in a la Dispute lyric now triggers every memory like the truest story I ever experienced.
@carlosmaldonado82249 жыл бұрын
We`ve all been through this shit. I have been looking for this song for a year but its a year late to send it.
@lostghostly79747 жыл бұрын
This song is so emotionally deep..I'm still not over you..
@Deenowze8 жыл бұрын
How can this be so unbearably beatifull!!?
@brooksuxxx19963 жыл бұрын
yknow what? i feel like this set my heart on fire again. not my lover, but my brother died last year and a lot of the lyrics resonate with that raw pain.
@beccamartin9399 ай бұрын
I tell everyone this song describes falling in love and then going through the horrible crush of heartbreak. And it’s so relateable when you’ve experienced both. The lyrics are so beautiful and perfect. Every single lyric in this song. And one of my favorite lines is “I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me and I swear not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand.” You can just picture it and can relate to how strong the force of falling in love can be and then the inevitable agonizing heartbreak after. I played this song for my daughter and I sing it and then go on about how great and powerful this song is 😅
@alyssamartinez74222 жыл бұрын
“So I retrace our every step with an unsure pen” this song got me through A LOT yet while also feeling complacent as I listen to it
@tarae.94539 жыл бұрын
Everything I've wanted to say to him but never could .
@GinKaProduction6 жыл бұрын
This is the beauty of songs like this one...
@taniafrayre56693 жыл бұрын
Same
@Jolene33338 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh I remember listening to this song all the time when I was was walking home from school in 7th grade
@CEO_of_Autism_3 жыл бұрын
all these years later, still can't listen to this without crying.
@sabrina85574 жыл бұрын
So dear no matter how we part, I hold you sweetly in my head And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead
@Isokatmydydecsf3 жыл бұрын
I discovered it Randomly, I really like this singer.
@arxaicxreth2 жыл бұрын
I truly believe that I have never ever in my life listened to better and more attached lyrics, with such emotion. I don't know. I'm simply full of goosebumps every time.
@rosaarana34236 жыл бұрын
Lyrics You still cross my mind from time to time. And I mostly smile. Still so set on finding out where we went wrong and why So I retrace our every step with an unsure pen trying to figure out what my head thinks but my head just ain't what it used to be. And then again, what's the point anyway? I remember you ascending all the stairs up to the balcony to see if you could see me - hidden quietly away And I remember the skin of your fingers The spot three quarters up I'd always touch when I was out of things to say. You held my hand, but you were too afraid to speak, you were too afraid to speak and I could never understand. I remember when you leaned in quick to kiss me, and I swear that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand And I remember how you smiled through the smoke in a crowded little coffeehouse and laughed at all my jokes. And I remember the way that you dressed and how we wasted all the best of us in alcohol and sweat And I remember when I knew that you'd be leaving, how I barely kept up breathing and I bet if I had to do it all again, I'd feel the same pain And I remember panicked circles in the terminal in tears. How I wept to god in fits. I've hated airports ever since. It must be true what people say, that only time can heal the pain. And every single day I feel it fade away, but - I still remember how the distance tricked us and lead us helpless by the wrist into a pit to be devoured. I still remember how we held so strong to this though we had never really settled on a way out. I still remember the silence, and how we'd always find a way to turn and run to our mistakes. I still remember how it all came back together just to fall apart again. My dear, I hear your voice in mine. I've been alone here I've been alone here I've been afraid, my dear I've been afraid, my dear I've been at home here I've been at home here You've been away for years You've been away for years I've been alone I've been alone I've been alone I've been alone I breathed your name into the air; I etched your name into me. I felt my anger swelling; I swam into its sea. I held your name inside my heart, but it got buried in my fear. It tore the wiring of my brain; I did my best to keep it clear. So, dear, no matter how we part, I hold you sweetly in my head. And if I do not miss a part of you, a part of me is dead. If I can't love you as a lover, I will love you as a friend. And I will lay a bed before you; keep you safe until the end.
@cubmyrunt26044 жыл бұрын
Yo lyrics in the comments for the L Y R I C video? damn, i believe this is known as overkill.
@joaquinbilbao71383 жыл бұрын
Yo, the lyrics are already on the vídeo lmao
@mcstinky3 жыл бұрын
i can read the fucking video idiot
@butters67953 жыл бұрын
thanks I'm blind couldn't see the video
@academicfailure81823 жыл бұрын
@@mcstinky I can’t lmao, I like to know what comes next anyhow
@chaosqveen5 жыл бұрын
"And I will lay a bed before you, keep you safe until the end." Well, that... always hits home.
@doraexplorer66435 жыл бұрын
Word for word. I can't listen to this without being reminded of him
@Saplingbat5 жыл бұрын
I listen to a lot of fucking music, and I think this is still one of the most lyrically interesting, relatable, and beautiful songs I've ever heard. I mean the entire album is fucking great, but this one always stuck out to me.
@grace-kg9yp2 жыл бұрын
i never thought i'd find a song that i can COMPLETELY relate to.
@stmarieeclipseSX3 жыл бұрын
Its almost 6 years and i still hold this feeling. At least, i can fulfill my promise as a men.
@reizl38528 жыл бұрын
damn this song. so amazing! i love every single word!
@nataliehall23966 жыл бұрын
Rei ZL like the word "how" and "and" ?
@PinkAF2 жыл бұрын
Still here in 2022? Me too😌
@cno2x28 жыл бұрын
And to this day, this song is still relevant to the way you made me feel
@lilmymy86666 жыл бұрын
THIS WILL NEVER GET OLD😍LA DISPUTE I LOVE YOU.
@masonxmassacre4 жыл бұрын
their music gives me chills, the lead singer of the bad has so much emotion in this songs and all their other ones . Its even better that the lyrics are meaningful .
@tattedbill12482 жыл бұрын
This song means the world to me to represents the struggle I go through with my baby mom. I hope that nobody had to go through the same thing
@mycoachknowsthesheriff83963 жыл бұрын
“I remember panicked circles in the terminal in tears. How I wept to God in fits. I’ve hated airports ever since.” That line hurts. I can relate although I’ve never been in an airport I know the panicked circles and and the tears
@mycoachknowsthesheriff8396 Жыл бұрын
Update: I now have been in an airport terminal, I now have an even deeper understanding of this song
@iceageheatwave65477 жыл бұрын
I used to listen to this song so much last year... never got old, and I still love it
@brandyleecastlewitz7135 жыл бұрын
This hurts so much but feels like home..
@nudeshulk48124 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of you 😂 just finished watching it, and it remembered this band! Gotta love em!
@axelstk14 жыл бұрын
I Remember hearing this song for the first time when they were touring with Thrice! Awesomeness
@jullianepesante72796 жыл бұрын
Who's still listening to this??
@Lemondaddy335 жыл бұрын
Almost daily. Gets me through my workouts!
@bobbyf6407 жыл бұрын
Friend of mine recommend this, and god is worth it
@devinvanhoosen47046 жыл бұрын
..this fits my heartbreak so perfectly.. every verse depicts the last two years of me.
@cottonlatte4 жыл бұрын
I forgot how much I loved this song
@landryromain45047 жыл бұрын
Magnifique.... Vraiment
@vonnafuentes4364 Жыл бұрын
patrick dossou, this will forever be our song. im so sorry the universe disappointed us both.
@_slabb4 ай бұрын
I bet if I could do it all again I’d feel the same pain ❤️
@teddybear88485 жыл бұрын
haven’t heard this song in years and it used to just sound good but I just got out of a relationship and I feel this song on another level
@milenavasiljevic60953 жыл бұрын
A couple of years ago I was so obsessed with this song that I went out and ordered a bottle of 'Andria' instead of 'Alexandria' (wine), the waiter and my friend laughed so hard😂😂
@preciousgutierrez15579 жыл бұрын
Has all my feelings for my ex😔🔫
@frankierojas2106 жыл бұрын
Precious Gutierrez hit me up
@tylergeorge77262 жыл бұрын
Another example of why I love this band so much
@marianavalenzuela10365 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!! Just beautiful....
@trippyjytte84897 жыл бұрын
feeling the intense pain.
@usausa75496 жыл бұрын
trippy jytte me too
@aoifephillips27068 ай бұрын
This song still absolutely rips my heart out every timeeee
@haileymarie84837 жыл бұрын
im not crying, i swear
@blackvelvet37956 жыл бұрын
I love every comment on here. Y'all make it even more beautiful.
@charlyamayamadrid43072 жыл бұрын
Todos deberían conocer esta buena banda ✨
@hcneysenpai7 ай бұрын
the end of 2023 is upon us and this song still has the strongest grip on me. This song was a comfort song for me after an extremely hard relationship 7 years ago and that relationship still has a hold on me which is why i'm almost trauma bonded to this song.
@jazzigrape7 ай бұрын
S
@okaywhatever9599 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this! It's awesome.
@bbysoulambs4 жыл бұрын
this song is helping me get over my ex. painful breakup. i feel every lyric.
@mintakuntz5262 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thx Kody ❤️
@musicheart98504 жыл бұрын
God people need to be this good of musiciane again, we really let ourselves go, we will heal
@lilmymy86664 жыл бұрын
I miss this so much.
@doraexplorer66435 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of my first relationship word for word. I can't listen to this song and not cry
@baguettebtch5 жыл бұрын
nostalgic..
@k4yyy4444 жыл бұрын
i can’t describe it but this just feels like home
@itsanditimevarietyshow2 жыл бұрын
My name is Andria... thank you LA Dispute for making a song just for me... its so so special to me 💕 I have come back to this song over and over again over the years 💕
@rebeccagordon9418 Жыл бұрын
it ain't even for you lol
@kei00192 Жыл бұрын
@@rebeccagordon9418 LMFAOOO
@BabvBlues Жыл бұрын
this is my favourite song in the whole world
@emog44113 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I just remembered this band because of TikTok. Crazy honestly.
@coreyjameshunt-lewis86853 жыл бұрын
Scooter kid!
@CosmicFarts3 жыл бұрын
every sentence of lyrics is quote worthy.goddamn such poetry.
@alaskaeyes12164 жыл бұрын
i remember the skin of ur fingers, the spot three quarters up i d always touch when i was out of things to say u held my hand but u were too afraid to speak u were too afraid to speak and i could never understand i remember when when you leaned in quick to kiss me and i swear that not a single force on earth could stop the trembling of my hand