LAMH S8E4 | Martell Needs Everyone to Be a Side Piece | Is Moses a Player?

Martell insists on calling everyone side chicks to deflect from his indiscretion with Arionne who he's obviously ashamed of. I hope Sunni has a solid exit plan from her relationship with Moses, because he doesn't seem to be the committed type.
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[@Deneese3347]

Nell does not confront Martell. She carefully coddles his temperament and lack of maturity. This gives Martell the opportunity to avoid the truth.

[@feliciarowser308]

Exactly!

[@tremellsmith692]

So right

[@CVenus]

Yes

[@sdjames2580]

EXACTLY!! They ALL do it in fear of what he will say or do.

[@Deneese3347]

Martell will piss on your leg and then say you’re abusing HIM if you complain.

[@carolynrussell5049]

I think he's on something 🤔

[@CVenus]

Well put

[@tashad2881]

Say it louder for the people in back.

[@mindoflilith]

FACTS

[@deehurford6891]

The Melometers don’t care about Tricia and don’t go around randomly attacking people IMO. The majority of us are mature responsible women

[@KayC937]

Agreed

[@mariahardy1201]

We're just scapegoats for the cast since blaming Mel for everything has blown up in their collective faces.

[@Protectblackwomen]

No lies told ❤✊🏾

[@sexylexie]

@@mariahardy1201 I’m no Meter, but what’s right is right, you can’t unsee what is shown to one’s face. Melody needs to file charges on these fools and especially OWNS CHANNEL.

[@propertybycrystal1]

I'm personally not looking forward to Destiny being back on the show, she's like a female Martel.

[@mindoflilith]

Lol

[@NiecyDee]

Malneka was never seen again, after Martell said on national tv, they slept together.

[@2BGMedia]

I believe Martell slept with Destiny too.

[@sdjames2580]

Didn’t she get divorced, Destiny interviewed her and she said she was divorcing

[@austin__alexander]

Martell didn't stick to the script. He blew her up her spot bc she said she didn't want him. 😂😂

[@NiecyDee]

@@sdjames2580 Wow!! I did not know this.

[@tashad2881]

Her husband was caught off guard.

[@QueenWeeza]

Regardless of Melody, Destiny’s communication style is circular, vague and often masking lies. Destiny has blind loyalty to Martel including RP and abus*.

[@carolynrussell5049]

She can go on down with him!! Won't be miss at all !!!!

[@Deneese3347]

“Sabotage” or is it. reveal unethical, ruthless intent or infliction. You can like destiny and still see her nasty careless behavior. She is a USER. She expects people to help her out of situations she creates out of poor self management. Why?!

[@carolynrussell5049]

I think she has something to do with the bad thoughts that Martell does I wouldn't trust her 😕

[@mariahardy1201]

It's the entitlement of it all that gets me!

[@aquarian1282]

Destiny has Also Defended a Male "Friend" whom has Continually, Mentally, Psychologically, Financially, and Socially Abused and Violated his Ex., Ms. Melody Sharie Rodgers. Who was a Single Mom also. Truly doing her Best for Herself and her Nuggets.

[@jessnails845]

Chris knows he didn't get arrested for sending a simple text. I thought it was hilarious that he tried to get him to say *what* was in the actual text lmao. Martell started backpedaling so fast, talking about "ask Melody". Like if it's just a text why not just say what's in the text lol? Which he wouldn't do..Martell is so goofy and slow. Melody didn't have to do anything for people not to like him. He did that all by himself...

[@jessnails845]

It was absolutely wild to hear Martell disrespect the Fletchers. Especially after they defended him. It's also crazy to me how bitter he is. For a situation he caused lol. It's painfully obvious that he wants to justify his actions by pointing out "they" did the same thing and it's so childish. Nell didn't have an affair 5 years while Chris was married to his first wife. It isn't even close to being the same thing...

[@carolynrussell5049]

I know they hate they ever share anything with him

[@CaramelAquariaus]

Luenell was a homewrecker and took that lady's husband

[@evelynlockhart7997]

Why hasn't not one cast member not even his mammy ask him specifically what did Mel do to him. Because if anyone is watching a different show than lamh on OWN. Then we have never seen Mel harrass Martell. He was always trying to put himself in Mel's space. Even following her anva date and they were no longer together. We all saw in the beginning Mel tried coparenting even including his and him. Martell didn't pay for this trip yet invited keisha but her family over. She's had to feed her kids while in his care. Mel has given him too many olive branches branches only for him to constantly try and hurt her. Because she won't take him back is the reason for his harassment. He will eventually end up in jail because he feel his harassment of her in his head is her fault. But I'm shocked how many women feels he deserves some kind of privilege. I just pray those women has no sons they're coddling.

[@carolynrussell5049]

All I can remember him saying is she doesn't give me sex!!!! She probably wasn't because you cheating on her!!! The rest of the mess he told his mammy And whoever else was all lies!

[@audreyreese5512]

She responds to his bs that's it that's all, they mad that that girl defends her self and her kids

[@charlenedozier6172]

@@audreyreese5512 BOOM 💯

[@qusan]

You think Martell is really getting into home building? That’s a fake narrative too.

[@carolynrussell5049]

He better do something to make some money!! He shouldn't be depending on that show!

[@propertybycrystal1]

He has a pending lawsuit because he took money from a couple to renovate their house and never completed the job, and he's isn't licensed to do the job.

[@qusan]

@@carolynrussell5049 He has no licenses and no legitimacy.

[@lynwill9946]

Cartel is currently being sued by family that gave him money to renovate their home. Of course, Martel took the money and chose not to renovate the home. He’s currently in court for this case.

[@ScorpionPhoenix732]

Now "Cartel" is a new one I've never heard before😂​@@lynwill9946

[@Southern-chick-411]

Marty made a comment to Dustiny when they filmed this season, referencing that her child looked like him, and insinuating that they were intimate together. She never refuted his claim. IMO. Destiny also allegedly was getting info from Mel and carrying it back to Marty during their divorce. No one needs those kind of frenemies. The friendship between Mel and Destiny has long sailed. Everyone needs to let it go. The storyline with Destiny, Moses and Sunni has played out. I'm sorry but no woman would be allowed to sit down with my husband to confront him about an ex relationship. Allegedly, wasn't Moses married during the 15 years that he and Destiny were in the situationship? We are still interested in why Destiny was divorced so quickly after delivering her son? JMO.

[@msdiscreet30]

I wished I could triple like this or even love it. My thoughts exactly. People are skating over the fact old Marty Mar made that comment. Also, Destiny running back info from Mel to him is disgusting. I would not be surprised Mel saw something in Martel phone messages from and to Destiny when he tried to hack her phone and messed up. WE all know by now Mel will not say it out right what she has seen until she is pushed to her limit.

[@mindoflilith]

I've been noticing a "thing" between Destiny and Martell since season 3, I'll address that again in the future. I mentioned it briefly in the past, but I don't my suspicions to be true, so I didn't go into it more deeply. I think the meeting between Destiny and Moses was for the show, she really didn't want to speak to him. Last week I stated that I felt like Destiny and Moses were in a situationship; I think this storyline is being played up for the cameras.

[@Southern-chick-411]

@@mindoflilith I agree, but it's not a good look for a woman. All money ain't good money, lol.

[@theresab7177]

@@Southern-chick-411 I agree with you, I believe Destiny and Martell have been together too. I was really convinced at the Madonni re-reopening. When Martel left the shop with Melody, Destiny ran out the door screaming at Melody. She was so pissed. Only one reason I can think of why she would be so mad and jealous.

[@ToniaAlex13]

Lilith I'm surprised you like how destiny communicate. I find she talks in circle is very vague and say things that leave you asking more questions because it wasn't clear

[@nicholeslater5498]

Agreed! Even the producers had issues with Destiny communicating and being transparent. She was never direct about anything

[@ChanelNo5568]

Destiny is DEFINITELY googly eyed over Martel.

[@carolynrussell5049]

Yea he was probably spending Melody money with her to Destiny I'm so piss off for way he and whoever else used Melody!! I can't see myself forgiven them I would feel the for any other women! That's some dirty low down shzt he doing!!!!!!!

[@ceehach3386]

Trisha has suffered some trauma that she has kept silent about and only releases in anger. You can hear it in her voice that her throat chakra is severely damaged.

[@evelynlockhart7997]

Moses is a player, and sunni got played 😅 Wait for it

[@lilflower849]

I like Sunni and Moses . I believe they will be just fine.

[@MissMeMe343]

Chris definitely was cheating on his first wife. His ex wife confronted Nell and his daughter was only 2 at the time. He also cheated while married to Nell, they just stayed together.

[@prosperpetuity7987]

💯💯💯

[@2BGMedia]

I haven’t even watched the entire video and I just want to say, I believe Martell and Destiny have a sexual relationship…which is why Martell and LaBerrick are no longer friends. It’s also why LaBerrick has so much hate for Destiny. Martell had been his best friend since they were in diapers.

[@mynameonly579]

Ole Marty is nobody’s friend

[@danielledavis9876]

She not googly over men because she had more than one at a time she was married and messing with Moses at yhe same time. I just don't like Destiny. Destiny definitely have been woth Martel

[@carolynrussell5049]

But you would think Arionne would be mad about that If he slept with Destiny They might have been together But I do think all three is plopping together against Melody! It's another lady to Can't think of her name! But she was personally in his life

[@ScorpionPhoenix732]

And plus she's the one with the Big "D" 😂

[@Winnib7479]

Martell as usual is trying to make us think that he built that Home without a builder license. Fred is the Home builder and Martell is his worker , nothing more and nothing less. Martell has delusions of grandeur which is why he will never succeed in life.

[@gailthurston4814]

Dustiny is a liar. People destroy their own names and brands.

[@baddapplesauce]

Reality tv is not for broke people. If you’re dependent on a reality show for your livelihood, then you shouldn’t be on the show. You need a primary career or enterprise other than the show. Both Destiny and Martell need to get off the show and go get a job.

[@nicholeslater5498]

PeriodT!

[@louveniakimble2714]

OMG!...oh really now😂😂😂

[@jessnails845]

I disagree about Destiny lol. What Moses and Sunni did to her was sus but she looks like pathetic begging that man for...I guess closure lol. He married a totally different person and called Destiny a side chick..Destiny should move on already lol...

[@brendawestmoreland5378]

Right!

[@msclassy43]

What did she loose , she never had nothing

[@ScorpionPhoenix732]

😂

[@ranikarob281]

. . . Oh, the way they ALL tried to sabotage Melody at one time or another?

[@kimnobles2464]

Why is the downspout diverted on the patio? If they get freezing rain that will be a nightmare and constant water diverted to the patio will eventually cause breakdown. It should be diverted to the ground with one of those thick pans or drainage or is this new building code?

[@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business]

I've never seen that many downspouts so close to each other and they're supposed to channel water AWAY from the structure...😳😳😳

[@theofficialnikkisnews]

Chris’s ex-wife didn’t make it sound like a loveless marriage. In fact, she shared that she met with Nell about the affair with Chris. Once Chris married Nell, he abandoned her for 18 months while he played house with another woman. Nell waited on Chris to return, and Nell shared that she could barely get out of the bed. My Dad told me don’t date a separated man. Chris isn’t that honorable himself.

[@MSBLADE1970]

Melody and Sunni were the only 2 that were not on the show. But they keep her name in their mouths. No Mel=Blackout for me!

[@sunniminx213]

Don’t they though

[@elishalawson]

Martell isn’t doing right getting back into buying.. he’s about to be in the midst of a lawsuit hustling two homeowners out of their money and didn’t do the work on the peoples home.

[@reneedcohen140]

Stop reading between the lines 😂😂 read the lines Ladies and Gentleman! Line upon line is a BOUNDARY yours or theirs. Speak up and say what you need before hands, lips, or bodies meet, even if it is even to say “You look good to me let’s get IT!” Any why all these beautiful Black peoples need IVF 👀 sorry I’m on one 😂 Love and Light to All! Fire commentary as Always 💜

[@princesslioness4313]

Martell old manager is over there on tiktok selling some type of classes.

[@ToniaAlex13]

I was rooting for destiny to get back on her feet long after her and Mel friendship ended. However, i can no longer after hearing some things she has said. If im rooting for her bc she is a black woman, she should be able to do the same for other black women too. And hearing some things she said i dont appreciate it..

[@Thrivinlily]

Pay attention. Ken served in afghanistan! Hoping not. But Ken could have issues as well. Until she heals, Trisha will attract what she is “broken”. Again, hoping not. I think if Ken was that dude, she wouldn’t be on the fence regarding their relationship.

[@rocg9503]

Great commentary MOL, always spot on. I too enjoyed Destiny’s and Mel’s friendship on the show. But now that I know what was behind the scenes. I can understand why they are no longer friends, and I believe it’s for the best. I totally agree with your take on Trish.

[@pacinorules752]

Thanks MOL

[@CaramelAquariaus]

Dusty has a funky attitude and all she does is follow up behind Motel6.. she's worse than tink or pound town.. that ain't even her man.. just a sneaky link.. that's why motel6 said her son looks like him

[@pamscott7430]

Thank you for commentary. Love 💕 it. 😊😊

[@PrettyBrownEyezPBE]

💜👑

[@margaretkirkland8965]

🙄was their an affair during Nell and Chris marriage?

[@prosperpetuity7987]

Yep!

[@janishutchinson9887]

Your take on destiny is bizarre

[@p9782]

Agreed 1000% Destiny cringy as hell to say the least. Destiny's has zero "swag", no loyalty to other women she's a opportunistic parasite. Destiny's a very, very wounded delusional narcissist. I'm not even addressing WHY Destiny is all F'd up, a liar, spinning "twenty" narratives to excuse toxic, ghetto, foul behavior. She's too emotionally fragmented and damaged for healthy female companionship (other than lesbian/bisexual animalistic release "sex"...Yes, I feel she's equally into women and men. Destiny needs to take time to heal her wounded soul lest she continue attracting circumstances and very toxic relationships based on her present vibratory frequency... I strongly feel she had sexual attraction "feelings" for Melody and thought she was slick enough to latch onto Melody while pretending to be someone she hadn't become yet (entrepreneur). Melody was on a whole different level of mastery and capability that Destiny wasn't. Destiny wasn't stable mentally, emotionally, nor financially when she met Laberrick, thought her 😽was more valuable than integrity and common sense. When sh-- starting hitting the fan, she wasn't ready! She wasn't ready!! Destiny wasnt ready!!! She overplayed her hand and Karma pulled the carpet out and curtains. So what does she do.. ? Play every victim card available to women and mothers like most sociopathic and narcissist do when they are backed into a corner of their own doing! She simply cannot tell the truth. She's perfect for Carlos King type trash reality tv. I was hoping LAMH was what it seemed to be 1st season.

[@p9782]

MIL,... I get that Destiny has a lot of pain to work through, she's wounded. Is Arionne any different? My comment deleted for what? Allow comments that don't agree with you Sis.