LANY - if this is the last time

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lyrics
hey mom i know we're getting old
and the lines on our hands have changed
but you still look at me the same
hey mom guess what you're really tough
and i know you did all you could
just to make sure my life was good
sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice
sorry for the nights when i made the wrong choice
life is flying by and it's hitting me now
i hope it's not but
if this is the last time please come close
i love you with all my heart you know
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
then let's do the things we always do
like go to the mall and buy some shoes
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
hey dad what's up miss you so much
yea the shade of your hair has changed
but i look up to you the same
taught me how to fish taught me how to ride a bike t
aught me how to love how to treat a woman right
life is flying by and it's hitting me now
i hope it's not but
if this is the last time please come close
i love you with all my heart you know
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
then let's do the things we always do
like go for a drive or watch the news
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
hey you sit back don't go so fast
if this is the last time please come close
i love you with all my heart you know
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
so let's do the things we always do
or maybe we try something brand new
i don't wanna cry i'm bad at goodbye
if this is the last time
Music video by LANY performing if this is the last time. © 2020 Side Street Entertainment LLC, under exclusive licence to Universal Music Operations Limited
#LANY #mamasboy

[@nurin9569]

Let's be honest, this song is much better than any break up songs.

[@galea64]

Tamara II yah its better than hurting for someone who does not deserve it

[@andrewgarong]

Truly 💓

[@restymadriaga4682]

So true! 💔

[@alrownie7655]

yeah, it did hit me more than a break up song would...

[@ashleyashleyyy5042]

Indeed

[@clarice8604]

"Love your parents: We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old."

[@rjbruzo2746]

Yeah Right.

[@karrin2002]

Lol I'm the clingiest child. They don't have to worry

[@michala539]

😭😭

[@travisc8598]

Very well said

[@marychhakchhuak2819]

💙

[@raphidienb.lagrimasjr.1960]

I'm crying everytime I listen to this... "sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice"

[@kerznerbryan]

me too.

[@sorah3986]

same here, last couple days I have fights with my mom, when I'm listened and wanna sing this verse, I can't hold it

[@blue6943]

@@sorah3986 SAMEEE!!!

[@dizzya6387]

Me too Especially this lyrics

[@Pa_ru215]

Me too 😥

[@alexisramirez9128]

13 years ago I still remember my dad saying "Don't worry I'll come back home" while being rushed in the hospital and never did. I love u so much dad.

[@kibbyarumpac7620]

Sry men🥺

[@kibbyarumpac7620]

Sry for your lose

[@alllyannaallen6065]

Dang. Sorry for your loss.

[@tyronehayato1910]

my dad said this too

[@danafulk7178]

Oh I know same happened to me.. never got to tell him good bye!

[@aisyahh.1469]

The proud look in their parents eyes brought me to tears. We’re all proud of you, LANY.

[@mariatheresafloresca4166]

Cause they’ve made lany and its amazing people 🤪🙃🥰

[@Klaharnchaiya]

Ayyy Malaysian 🇲🇾🇲🇾✊🏼

[@siomai6109]

Congrats you are now the top comment for this Music video!

[@keb300]

🤍💙🤍

[@yeytyotu3476]

@@Klaharnchaiya bangga nampak 😂

[@sidthesloth9094]

dear person reading this, i hope your parents live to be over 100. thanks so much for all the likes! I hope you are all staying safe, take care of yourself x

[@emiliojay10]

:( my is in Heaven already

[@mariloucredo6513]

I never got the chance to meet them. But I hope they are ok. They abandoned me.

[@sarasam6392]

Amen and more

[@Raven-pv5ey]

😊your as well :)

[@mark-kd6ti]

𝑆𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢....

[@AshillaSikado]

holding my tears at the "hey dad..." part. my dad passed away 10 years ago. i miss him so much🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 too bad i didn't get the chance to see his hair shades change😭 thank u so much for an amazing song LANY.

[@antawirya8947]

I'm so sorry

[@ayurahmadhanti6304]

Kak Shilla 🥺

[@amandaardhy]

kak ashilaaa😢😢♥️♥️

[@b-ditajulianmiguelv.9893]

Never met my dad🙃

[@sandysye6876]

me too

[@peterpiper0002]

I’m not the crying type but holy shit this got me, and both of my parents are alive, Such an underrated song

[@LM-yx9hp]

I get so emotional when I hear this song. My parents are alive and I'm turning 29 this year. They don't know that I have nightmares that wake me up crying and out of breath when I dream of them passing away.

[@greatsteel_4288]

Same bro!!!

[@justinh75]

Couldn't agree more.

[@decoding_the_truth33]

same here, live each day like it’s last an make the most of it each an everyday.

[@alexavasquez8832]

“Hold dear to your parents - for it is a scary and confusing world without them.” 🥺❤️

[@alliyahjannaaveria5412]

:

[@monkeydgoulen1432]

Idk how I'll live on if i was to lose one or both my parents.... Just thinking them gone made me cry already

[@aljemd.2291]

❤️❤️❤️

[@cosmos9227]

Song like this kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpO9mKail7N0mJI 💞😍😎

[@here4bts521]

Word!!

[@shnicky12]

One of the best music video by far. 0% Nudity 0% Cuss 0% Negativity 100% Love, Respect and Positivity Because of this song, it reminds us to love and cherish our parents while they are still breathing.

[@johnathanmccarthy9739]

I agree, this one's straight from the heart. Nothing else was in his head when he wrote this. Just pure feelings, moments, and memories.

[@rafaelasantos9511]

ehrtnb

[@zux7594]

HAHAHAHAHAH POSITIVITY LOOK AT THE COLOR AND IMAGE

[@shnicky12]

@@zux7594 perhaps your life is full of negativity

[@zux7594]

@@shnicky12 or perhaps your color blind

[@hugocompston1703]

I feel sorry for the people who haven’t discovered LANY yet. It’s just a secret shared between an elite group of people

[@wallchrist4693]

🤣Lmao

[@kencruise4328]

👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

[@Pinkyminds]

can’t deny

[@swaritchauhan]

Ohh yes dude!

[@jasonliu1539]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJOydol_pK-rsM0

[@hellboy_un_ramaboysdontcry]

This is enough to make a grown man cry

[@vprexyz7940]

It is

[@sentientbottleofglue6272]

And that's alright...

[@ma.sophia6076]

LANY is the best band in the world!

[@angelgallardo6795]

amen ♡

[@mrsoap6111]

one of the best bands*

[@angelgallardo6795]

@@mrsoap6111 no

[@ahlrashid3079]

and that's the fact

[@nurtihani859]

OMAIGODDDD YESSIIIRRRRRR

[@stellas_little_safe_art3963]

People who’s parents are still together should be grateful bc not everyone gets that opportunity ik I didn’t OMG thank y’all for 1.7k likes

[@matkogagro43]

Stay strong!

[@infoseputarbali2023]

Stay strong! :)

[@hajin5781]

Same :(( But we'll be alright, Stay strong

[@goodvibesmusic8305]

Perfect Lyric video that will fir your mood here👇🏻 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gGGmdoRmhZtpnaM

[@MyLalala9]

On the same note though, some people's parents shouldn't be together and. In some cases you're better off with them seperated

[@squishyric9927]

This hits hard when you are in a broken family and your mom is the only one who raised you.

[@cali2147]

yes

[@chriselbontilao4528]

👍😪😪

[@kevinberiso3233]

Sending virtual hugs po sa inyo

[@huntersizemore6517]

Truth

[@fourthwap]

ikr :>

[@aliejaeresmas2524]

It makes me wanna cry especially at the "hey dad" part because I'm a papa's girl I feel so heartbroken now that my father have a new family :(

[@BibaontheWay90]

but you are still part of his family , I hope all the best to you

[@princesschryztelle4314]

We are the same my dad has a child now and my mom has a boyfriend and I'm staying with my mom and I'm the only child with the both of them but I guess not for my dad anymore since I'm having a sibling now

[@mariatheresa1995]

😢

[@franzfranz2472]

The saddest part of my life is seeing my parents growing old.

[@ma.victoriavargas4268]

I'll never get to see my father grow old. He was 49 when he died.

[@sheshe9678]

Bruh you are blessed enough to have chance to see and watch your parents growing old. My mama died last January 1, 2021. She was only 59. I will never get the chance to see her aging :(

[@ssc4153]

This isn't sad....we exchanged youth and beauty for wisdom and knowledge......not a bad pay off if you ask me. Aging and death are all part of the journey......many of us realize this and don't fight it but accept it and enjoy what's left of our journey......We need you young folks in our lives, you are the future!

[@BibaontheWay90]

I couldn't agree more it is really sad

[@julietxjulie]

Yes it truly is

[@M.A.13219]

This is every one of us when quarter life crisis hits hard and the time we will able to realize things maturely

[@ZEYRU335]

Yes.

[@coupers6709]

auto change mood ko kapag narinig ko to🥺 kayo rin ba? 👇

[@desmond9019]

ulol

[@b-ditajulianmiguelv.9893]

@@desmond9019 utas

[@revoltin85]

ok kayo

[@xersusss]

sobrang auto mood change tong kantang to

[@paulorocks666]

mama mo change mood

[@DearTech]

I don't know what I felt after reading this comment section but there are tears in my eyes. Maybe coz I can't imagine myself in that situation, I might not be able to hold up like how you guys are doin after losing the closest, warmest, and most loved person of your life. God bless you guys, your parents must be proud of you for whatever you doin and they are always watching you.

[@Tim1534]

Yea.. These comments got me 😭 I no longer have either of my parents... And I just came across this song... Definitely cherish the moments to those lucky to have their parents still around

[@latiefamuhammad1393]

I lost my son on 12 August 2023. He sent me this song last year February as we were very close. It brings me solace, yet so bittersweet. I listen to it on days when missing him becomes so unbearable and appreciate the fact that he was always grateful fir tge sacrifices I made as a single parent.

[@krisztinagaspar01]

Who is the eternal fan of LANY?

[@stephanieconcha2296]

Krisztina Gáspár me!! Since 2015

[@yandelayaguilar5051]

Stephanie Concha same here, I’ve always love them since 2015 and will continue loving LANY

[@jethrogonzales1323]

Helllowww

[@valenciaaudrey1963]

also me

[@julliamarieraylos6103]

Since 2015 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Jen-wz9kn]

“Hey Dad, whats up? Miss you so much” This line hits me so hard, my Dad died 7 years ago and today I discovered that I am having a baby 💙 Tatay magkaka-apo na po kayo 💙💙

[@marjorievillafranca4139]

omg😭😭😭😭😭

[@xaviergonzales6537]

i’m crying.

[@the_gibsterr]

this is so bittersweet.. the sorrow of losing a loved one and the hope of a new life to come...

[@deb5520]

Congratssss 🤗🤗🤗. Sure ako sobrang excited na ng tatay mo :)

[@Jen-wz9kn]

Deb thank you soo much ❤️❤️❤️

[@shanelepugay2624]

This song talks to much for those kids who can't open this kind of feeling :(

[@carlocaspis5469]

You're damn right

[@neecs01]

You are right.

[@nephi5223]

Yep

[@romeowalen]

I cried the first time I heard this

[@mariatheresafloresca4166]

Some are good being silent even it is too much !

[@LayalSJ1]

This had me bawling my eyes out. So full of emotions. The reality that our parents are getting older and older each day is so sad. We really have to be thankful for them and appreciate them every single day while we can ❤️

[@janzdirk8]

This song speaks everything that a broken family couldn’t. 😔

[@notthestarfishpatrick]

:(

[@bianx.jnlxx_]

🥺

[@mariatheresa1995]

😢

[@clarajianu]

Paul: breathes The whole Philippines: 😢😢😢

[@ericaangeles9839]

So heartfelt! 🥺 My friends @ Joe & The Anchor made a soulful cover/music video of it. It's amazing! You might wanna check it out and it would be awesome if you let them know your thoughts. Thanks, fam 💜🌹kzbin.info/www/bejne/f4PKqGB-nqh4mtk

[@ririschannelx]

Why do they have so many Filipino fans???

[@clarajianu]

@@ririschannelx who knows??

[@owogamingguy]

LOL

[@wheels8856]

I lost my mom last year to cancer and my dad this year to a heart attack, so to say this song broke me is an understatement.

[@iffypatel]

May Almighty give you patience and courage to handle the losses

[@trumpgirl9291]

Bless your heart. I pray for peace to find you🙏🏻

[@vegasawol3070]

Broken indeed. I feel your pain. I also know we should count our blessings that we had people to care about us and that we cared enough for this song to affect us so much.

[@danle8636]

you're never alone bro, stay strong

[@laurieyakubowski3597]

I'm so sorry for your losses Brent...

[@elishavehonsky660]

I just sent the is song to my mother . This really hit me in the feels . My mother has always been there for me , even when I didn’t deserve her love , we used to hurt heads and now I’m a mother of three daughters , married and going to be 39. We all need our mothers . They never teach you in life how to say goodbye .. I don’t look forward to ever losing my mother .. 🙏🏽 Beautiful yet sad song ... ♥️

[@zailacaringalzamora736]

Am I the only one who's watching this while crying and in the same time smiling?haha. LANY is the only band who can drive our emotions like roller coaster.

[@lany1359]

I feel like they are the only ones that can make you feel the way like makes you feel they are the only ones to pinpoint every emotion

[@johnirvinfabul]

Rollercoaster of emotions in just one freakin' song. Damn, I hate crying :'(

[@michaelbutalid1832]

Agree with you ❤️ hits different vibe

[@zailacaringalzamora736]

Theee besssstttt

[@nikkaabigail1344]

🤧😭🖐️

[@dyeraldincortalla7041]

I wish my parents could hear this. This song speaks out the words I can't say to them in person :)

[@hayato4349]

I'm feel the same 😞 But There is no more chance even to say goodbye

[@ssc4153]

Then do what my son did. He had me sit down at the computer and had this video ready to go. He said mom, I want you to hear this. It reminds me of you and dad......go for it....and good luck!

[@paultaramarshall5077]

Pal show them this song man .

[@kittywiskerskiki3859]

Ain't that the truth. My parents are up in heaven. And I wish every day. That I. Could see them both again. This song is. Very amazing

[@jillvasquez1010]

Find a way to say it, even if it takes writing a letter, they need to hear it and you need to say it for your own personal wellbeing. There is no worse regret than the things you didn't say, trust me, I know.

[@kuroneko6617]

Many people don't seem to realize how much they have until they start living without it.

[@helenaliam8580]

preach !

[@LeNoir2411]

well i realized how much I've been missing when i met my best friend's family

[@frozenporcupine]

My mom: why are you crying? Me: nothing, my eyes were just sweating.

[@hanu209]

LANY IS SUCH A MOOD EVERYDAY

[@jadecaitlin4117]

yessur 🥺🥰

[@jasonliu1539]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJOydol_pK-rsM0

[@basukhangembam5478]

Question: Why do small artists always made the best songs?

[@trolll12355]

because they put in a lot of effort and gets better everytime

[@akaliotp6766]

because theyre not small at all?

[@mitchtatsuoka9976]

Bec they are not POP. As usual.

[@magicalp0wers788]

EXACTLY

[@clouds_oof9270]

Ya

[@DonnyJ]

I wish more artists had the heart to write songs like this. About their families and what they mean to them. Hopefully we're all turning a page here. Gotta big up Lany for this song. You've been a constant inspiration!

[@canigetahoyah]

I lost my mom very suddenly and unexpectedly this April. This song made me bawl. I never would have expected that day to be the last time I saw her. She was so young. I miss her every day

[@ohyuen464]

My condolences to you and your family. Stay strong 💪❤️

[@m1santhr0pe]

"If this is the last time please come close" "somebody help, it's getting worse" Sounds like Malibu Nights. 😵

[@virginiaperera9768]

It does tho!

[@EZZIBOI]

Lolol..i legit made a mix of the two..it sounds fire

[@neontyler6663]

Yeah I noticed it too

[@manias16]

Didn't noticed that before but you're right

[@maureenkhristinecalanog3356]

Malibu Nights' sister hahaahaha

[@felidiaz5159]

i really need an acoustic version of this song, i cried a lot the first time i listened to this song thinking about my parents

[@gabbicosmo8775]

AGREED

[@grootiie4787]

YESSSS

[@gemalapermata]

That acoustic version will hit me harder

[@freddyantou9619]

me too

[@aliasalsabilla6274]

“hey dad...” part hits me so hard because i lost my dad 16 years ago, so unexpectedly, when i was 4. and since that day, i always think about “the last time” with people so that i can be more grateful for someone’s presence in my life. cried immediately whenever i heard this song because i know i didn’t get the chance to see his hair shades changes. this song really reminds me of him and makes me miss him even more. thanks LANY💜

[@kerznerbryan]

Me I lost my dad 22 years and counting. It makes me miss him even more too.

[@Ghost-qi3md]

Lost him 4 year ago, cried immediately when i heard this song, now i'm scared to play it outside haha. Wish you all the best!

[@mgfsantiago]

Feels!!!!

[@kjjviii1735]

I lost mine 93 years ago

[@boypandhesal6027]

I lost my papa last year and it kills me everyday

[@thomassanders6934]

Holding back the tears for my dad. Its been almost 5 months since this damn virus took him from us. I miss you, pops

[@purvi1848]

EXTREMELY UNDERRATED ARTIST AND YOU CAN'T CHANGE MY MIND

[@marciellaguatlo10]

So heartfelt! 😞😞 The lyrics is the best to describ the fear of losing aomeone you love. My friends from Joe and the Anchor made a cover for the song. You can check their cover out here, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f4PKqGB-nqh4mtk

[@BecauseofBangtan]

Yessssssssssss

[@DayJones]

This one is for the moms and dads out there, Rest In Peace to the mother’s and fathers up above.

[@evelyncruz7832]

Coming from a broken family, no emotional bond with my dad, no memories I can remember only the bad. But this made me cry because of my strong mother who deserves everything in the world. I thank my dad for the financial stability I have today.... but the emotional part I have nothing. No words. I love them both but this one goes out to my mom. Love you for being the strong person I can count on💜

[@midnightgaming9299]

💔

[@Victoria-nx4yc]

Same here love xxxx we got this ❤

[@joesteves179]

same her. but I can't relate to this song because I'm not close to my father and my mother has her own family.

[@ichigo4597]

Same here, but I haven't met my father since birth.

[@danielefrataa2684]

Be strongg !!

[@lordoflazybones8623]

Man I thought this was some song about romance and breakup but this is absolutely masterpiece... it's sad to think that we are all getting older and never knew when our time will run out someday

[@510subzero]

Lost my mom 2 years ago, my girl left me last Mother’s Day, lost my job too n I started hearing voices but imma start making music soon so I don’t gotta work no more hope I make it far edit: Damnnnn y’all thanks for the support fr if y’all wanna follow me my IG is @croptopshawty I’m gonna get a laptop soon to make music on 🦾

[@rez11100]

hey, im so sorry to hear that but goodluck in making music!

[@yonasbaudelaire4416]

Don't lose hope man the sun will shine for you again❤️

[@umbrafabula]

Everything will be okay. One day 🙌🏻

[@tarasmith5053]

Hang in there! You’ve got this! 🙂

[@hoalyremidamsel111]

I’ll be ur fan, waiting here 💜

[@restysantos9545]

Im 27 years old now guys and my mom told me im adopted. Literally today, this song will make you realize every sacrifice that theyve done for us to have a better life. I dont have grudge w/ anyone and i even love my mom, my family more than i could love them before. I just wish my parents could live more so i can give them what theyve deserve to get. Iloveyou everyone 💖

[@90swiied82]

That’s cool me to I’m adopted to

[@huangabriello1610]

💝

[@loltuna802]

This hit home, thank you. Kinda needed this tonight.

[@ZacharyTay]

I felt you on this, they are truly the most monumental people in our lives. Also hi :) I just made a cover of "if this is the last time", mind giving it a listen? I'd love to have your feedback!

[@UNKNOWNDAYS797]

Hugs u 😍😍😍😍😭😭❤❤❤ u are loved by angels man 💕💕 god bless u

[@kuura37]

this made me think how one day my parents won't be here anymore and I'll have to survive life on my own.. they are not that old yet, but that day will come and I'm so scared

[@jerrysmotovlog6491]

same here

[@analiese4512]

Yea same I always am scared I don't know what I would do without them especially my dad and stepmom

[@pokeboi984]

Yeah same. It’s gonna be really hard. That’s why I’m grateful for every day I have with them. I can’t help but feel like I’m gonna say: “I thought we had more time.” However, after seeing my parents lose their folks, I know that we’re gonna be alright :)

[@natashamubweka6904]

Me too 😥

[@crystallau3295]

Same

[@amandaallison4888]

My dad has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and my mom has had epilepsy all her life. This song brings me to reality of losing them. So when I take care of them I will never take it for granted. Love your parents everyday cause one day they may not be there when you need them the most.

[@ajayifunmix369]

Such is life in this satan system of things but guess what! God has given us the opportunity to be free from death and to see our loved ones whom we have lost in death....that assurance keeps my hope high...you are not alone

[@paolomiasco7614]

This song hits hard not gonna lie. My mom is getting old I wish I could give everything that she deserves before her last time.

[@3starz]

*LYRICS* *[Verse 1]* Hey, mom, I know we're gettin' old And the lines on our hands have changed But you still look at me the same Hey, mom, guess what? You're really tough And I know you did all you could Just to make sure my life was good *[Pre-Chorus]* Sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice Sorry for the nights when I made the wrong choice Life is flyin' by and it's hittin' me now I hope it's not, but *[Chorus]* *If* *this* *is* *the* *last* *time* , please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Then let's do the things we always do Like go to the mall and buy some shoes I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time *[Verse 2]* Hey, dad, what's up? Miss you so much Yeah, the shade of your hair has changed But I look up to you the same *[Pre-Chorus]* Taught me how to fish, taught me how to ride a bike Taught me how to love, how to treat a woman right Life is flyin' by and it's hittin' me now I hope it's not, but *[Chorus]* If this is the last time, please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Then let's do the things we always do Like go for a drive or watch the news I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time *[Bridge]* Hey you, sit back Don't go so fast *[Chorus]* If this is the last time, please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time So let's do the things we always do Or maybe we try something brand new I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time *[Outro]* If this is the last time If this is the last time Oh, if this is the last time If this is the last time If this is the last time Oh, if this is the last time Thank You for reading. I made a lyric video of this awesome song of LANY, check it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aISQaqBurpZrZqM

[@musharraf1004]

Why is he so underrated? First time listening to his songs Man he's so good

[@shinegalvez7945]

Not *He but *Them LANY consists of three members, Paul Les And Jake 😁😉

[@ChaChaaa]

Uhm...they're not underrated.

[@lanyfan3100]

yea they're underrated but they have the biggest fandom in the philippines

[@daniels7885]

Misty Dawn they are very underrated. i’ve loved lany for years but they’re underrated because they’re still a small bad. that means they’re underrated

[@musharraf1004]

@@shinegalvez7945 i'm sorry it's my first time knowing them😂

[@erickamaes08]

I'm living away from my parents and I kept telling myself that it's fine but this song made me realize just how much I miss them and my siblings. I just wanna run back to their arms and cry my heart out. LANY gives us all this wonderful feelings in every song. Thank you so much for the beautiful music and the experience we all dive in. Truly, you're the best. ❤

[@puspafadelisana64]

How the hell this song only got 6m views? HOW THIS UNIVERSE WORKS? this is absolutely best song I've heard so far. THE LYRICS ARE SO DEEP.

[@terigrant6869]

I totally totally agree! I heard it for first time yesterday and was crying a river. I lost my mom so unexpectedly 2004 never got say goodbye i still not ok..All i think of is my 88 year old daddy. I will be beyond devastated I hope I die first.😪 LOVE this song!!!!

[@MrChriterB]

Ikr

[@kaikart123]

The lyrics is not deep at all, but very sincere

[@ellamarelle8451]

you can see how much this means to the three of them because they've included their parents and it warms my heart to see how close they all are 🥺

[@flxwercxrpse1871]

When my depression got worse at age 14, i started to isolate myself and now im 21 and have no friends. I don’t mind i guess but sometimes i wish i had someone. Especially when something cool happens or i learn something fascinating i think, “i NEED TO TELL-“ and remember that i have no one to talk to. I love my family but we have nothing in common so i can’t talk to them about anything. In conclusion, i might be alone but i don’t always feel alone but when i do...it sucks. My brother died 2 years ago and we weren’t close either but during his last few months here, we started to talk a little but more. I started to feel like maybe we could be not only siblings but maybe friends too. We didn’t get the chance to obviously so i daydream about how it would’ve been. My imagination saves me.

[@hannahbamusi6473]

That sounds awful. I am sorry you have to go through this. Not sure if this is something you already doing but maybe consider therapy?..

[@dadami8021]

Hi..I guess we have something in common. if you mind we can talk thru fb @ Dominggo Conde....b&w prof. pic

[@kyliedee6079]

Hey I don't know if this comment will mean anything to you cos its from a stranger probably halfway across the world but I wish you love & light at this time. You're never alone. 🌻

[@flxwercxrpse1871]

Hannah Bamusi i’ve had 3 therapists since i was 15 and now im gonna possibly get a 4th since my previous one is no longer going to work as one.

[@flxwercxrpse1871]

Melanesian Pride thank you :) thats really sweet💛

[@ma.margarita3704]

My mother passed away yesterday. She was diagnosed with lung cancer. She was already comatose 1 week before she passed so I don’t even have a chance to say goodbye to her. I wish there was chance for her to tell me that it’s okay that she will be just fine. So many regrets for me. I wish i did spend more time with her, i wish I could say sorry for everything and tell her i love her so much. Didn’t know that this would hurt this much. I love you so much Mama. Wherever you are I hope that you are happy.

[@josephcaoitan6400]

i always overthink about these things, and sometimes, i want to be gone first before my parents i cant live without them, i always cry everytime i think of them

[@alisteins5172]

Me to your parents are everything you can never live without them just always look after them and always be there for them parents always comes first 💖

[@jillvasquez1010]

One of the hardest things about losing my mom has been watching my grandmother suffer through the loss. Doesn't matter who goes first, it'll always be hard on the ones left behind.

[@alisteins5172]

@@jillvasquez1010 so sorry 💖💔

[@lindagant60]

I lost my son 8 months ago so from a parents perspective, that’s the absolute worst. Our kids aren’t supposed to go first. Let them know you love them and be there.

[@puddinpak]

That would cause your parents unimaginable pain. Please don’t wish that upon them.

[@vaniafernandes]

The way this HITS 🥺

[@user-ig9yk8dp9y]

Hi Vania, I hope you get past whatever it is your reminiscing about and feel great.

[@gabbicosmo8775]

GIRL FELT THAT

[@ggarciia_4]

can you imagine you found this song by coincidence? haha it’s fate actually. i never lost my mom bc she died or bc something bad happened to her, i lost her bc she disowned me & kicked me out. we never had that mother & daughter relationship that every dreams of.. my father left us a few years ago bc he couldn’t stand my mom anymore, created a new one & our relationship basically never existed. my mother has a pride she rather protect than to care for me. the fact that my own parents are the toxic ones & they can’t seem to realize hurts.. but it’s ok, i can’t assume that someone will always be there to help me get up, i’ve become stronger, yes i ignore the fact i’m alone, but there others who eventually become like your blood family & that’s enough for me.❤️ for those reading this, plz take a moment to let out everything you’ve been holding in,, allow yourself to breakdown & breath for once.. if you can make sure you tell your parents even just once, tell them what you want & don’t hesitate, i wish i could do the same but that’ll have to wait for a while.. you’re doing good & im proud of you. ❤️

[@ggeraldsl]

hope u r doin good too. i want to share my story too but i'm too tired cz i cried a lot 😌😌

[@ilovetoastedbread4180]

stay strong bby even doe we dont know each other, i stand by you and love u

[@babye2959]

You're so sweet, thank you so much. Please be brave ❤

[@ggarciia_4]

@Baby E @Geraldo Surya @i love toasted bread .. thank you all ❤️❤️

[@reyhanarahma5965]

Thank you so muchh hun. You're such a strong amazing human being.. hope you have a lovely day. And always remember that you're loved and you're precious ❤️❤️❤️

[@sandHaniTizer04]

came her from beomgyu's weverse playlist this is an amazing song...made my eyes blurry. I love my mom and dad so much, it hurts to be away from home. I hope I can spend so much more time with them and create beautiful memories

[@lynlyn3153]

I've been really sad for the past few days. Been ruining all my artworks, ripping some of em, deleting most of the photos in my gallery, not talking to my friends, nor my family, uninstalled some of my apps, deleted half of my videos, and deleted some songs, I was about to finally give up but I heard this song again. Had me in tears so much. I want to let go of this life but I still want to stay with my mom, she's the only person who stayed in my whole life. Now, she's in another city, i can't visit her because of the virus. I want to hug her badly and so tight while listening to this. I love you mhie. You're the only reason to not give up

[@ricebreadsausageicecream]

✌🏻❤️

[@itzel6415]

sending you love

[@theresesumalinog76]

hang in there beautiful soul

[@AmandaKKLi]

Stay strong, this soon will past. Sending you virtual love and comfort. I'll keep you in prayer

[@weijimtay831]

I have been in the same condition.. deleted everything.. took long break from art .. but seeing your comment ..i do not want u to give up . I wont either..lets hang in and shine bright soon. God bless you♥️

[@themase]

My mom just passed away less than 2 weeks ago, the overwhelming sadness you feel when you lose your last parent is unimaginable. I have so much regret, I should have seen her more, spent more time with her, and just called her for no other reason than to just say hi. Luckily, I got to see her in the hospital before she passed. Being the great mom that she was, as she saw me crying she was trying to console me telling me everything will be alright and that we sure had some good times together. I can not implore you enough, spend time with your parents and tell them you love them. You never know if it will be the last time.

[@yaninesta3245]

I feel u, Dave 🥺 My mom passed away 3 months ago 😭 I cant still believe it that she left me I really love her and still need her. We always spent time together like went to movie . In 2016 i lost my dad . Now im no parents 😭 Who is still love me unconditionaly like them now????

[@ariennewesdijk8460]

Im so sorry, i know how it feels my mom died when i was seven. I will never lose the picture in my head of her deathbed. I am here for you if you want to talk❤🥀

[@ariennewesdijk8460]

@@yaninesta3245 i am so sorry im here if you want to talk❤

[@yaninesta3245]

@@ariennewesdijk8460 thanks 🙏 Glad to see U 😊 frm Indonesia

[@ethanwolkers7461]

We are all connected in here (Soul/heart) Rip all passed on loved ones world wide

[@alexandervalverde]

“I dont wanna cry” but I was crying before listen to that

[@nurulainidamayanti1294]

Me too

[@yambaoandrealouissea.4120]

sameee, my tears burst and i can't even hold it :((

[@Aletodorito]

this song has come on the radio many times. I Live with my grandma due to my mom passing away when i was 12 months old from cancer.. And My dad is a unstable druggy. She Adopted me when i was 9. We always cry when this comes on the radio. My Grandma says its because it makes her think about what she could've done to make her son better (my dad), she felt like she messed up on so much raising him, and she wished she could redo it, thats why shes such a amazing grandma to me.. She New she messed up and wanted to do better with me when she adopted me. Thank you LANY, this is on my list of songs that are following me to my grave. Its special to me, it truly is.

[@olac.2317]

My dad passed away 13 days ago. He just left for work and never came back. Im not ok. If only i knew that was the last time...

[@tohadoptmeskitschannel2701]

My dad left to go to work today.. that gives me a bad feeling

[@KattareeyaAngsuphanit]

A big hug to you and I'm sorry for your loss.

[@racheljenkins8340]

Sorry for your loss ♥️

[@mikeybozmoski8018]

😩 I’m so sorry if you ever need someone to vent to I’d be happy to be the punching bag for your anger sadness or whatever it may be. I’m 23 was the world’s biggest mommies boy and 7 months ago she had a heart attack in my arms and died. We were both going on 4 months sober from slamming black tar. Things were getting better... and then my life was torn apart I’m absolutely alone. Like literally alone. She was the only person in my family that every showed an ounce of love for me. I am broken I relapsed and I hate myself for not trying to preform cpr I was so scared I literally froze an could do nothing but hold her an beg god not to take her. But he had better plans for her. That’s life I guess.

[@vanillalatae575]

I'm sorry Hope he's in peace now

[@johnbenedictsantiago6001]

I lost my mom today and I had just discovered this song. Hey mom no words could explain how much you mean to me. I love you forever. #Mamasboy Edited: guys I encourage you to whenever you see your dad or mum maybe a hug for your dad and a kiss in the forehead for your mother, especially when they are in need of it. Ever since I was young I always do those things to them to make them feel better. Treated them as my world and to one day repay all the things they've sacrificed for us. Time is gold, so treasure each second with them while you have the chance. Thank you guys for supporting me even though we don't know each other. Im sure your parents would be proud of you guys.

[@illicitaffairs9992]

im crying rn sorry for ur lost

[@ctrlmess]

sorry for ur lost:( sending u hug youre so strong ily

[@khairunnisakamal3441]

Sorry for your lost :( Stay strong & healthy

[@citoandres5571]

❤️

[@julieneko6205]

I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong!

[@edperez7922]

This is a awesome song. As a Dad to 2 sons and a daughter, it definitely bought a tear to my eyes. I hope my children realize how much I love them and how I would sacrifice everything to see them happy and healthy.

[@di4791]

Beautiful ❤️ God bless you and your family 😊

[@mariatanca1746]

Tears in my eyes and sorrow in my heart remembering my mom

[@vladislavkrasimirov1761]

This coment got me tear in my eyes

[@eudyu324]

God bless you and your family. ❤❤❤

[@gershomcoloma5928]

My Mom passed away 2020, this was a year too late. It still hurts. Happy Mother's Day to all Mom's/Single Dad's out there. Kids, always cherish your parents 😊

[@aanchalroy9585]

Please don't take ur parents for granted. They are also growing with time while we are busy for everything else. This song is a straight masterpiece.

[@jenniwilliams3295]

I'm one of those people I literally had never heard of them before he did the duet with Kelsea ballerini which was incredibly beautiful. And now I'm trying to catch up on all of their music

[@markmccormick4461]

@@jenniwilliams3295 my mom passed away back in 2020 we had a close bond she was my best friend she was the most wonderful mom in the whole world she ran a Employee Agency for 42 years she was smart women

[@traffic8829]

Agreed! Dont take anyone in your life that you love. I've lost two siblings, teo best friends and my dad who drank himself to death because he couldn't live with the pain. We had to put our dog down today, the pain hurts so much. I do my best to hold onto the amazing memories i had with all of them to find strength and to try and understand why I'm still here and they aren't. Tell them you love them and let the little things go as they are meaningless in life. ❤

[@beverlywaters7210]

❤❤❤❤ love the song🎵 beautiful😍😘

[@stephenhakimi2375]

@@markmccormick4461 I’m so sorry for your loss Mark

[@lucianonicolasii5653]

Kung kumpleto pa family mo ngayon, iparanas mo sa kanila yung pagmamahal mo. Cherish every moment with them, nobody knows kung hangang kailan sila nandyan, wag kang mahiya na ipakita yung pagmamahal mo sa kanila, My mom passed away last 2016 pero feeling ko parang kahapon Lang 😞💔 missed you so bad Ma

[@kerwindelatorrelumasag7909]

After discovering LANY, I never stopped listening and following them

[@buckeyescratcher6130]

My dad passed at 43 when I was 14. My mom is still alive, well and young at heart at 72 but I know someday that day will come. Cherish every minute you get with your parents

[@ellamaynolasco5379]

"Taught me how to love, how to treat a woman right"- LANY 2020

[@tayloryo243]

Because I lost my dad unexpectedly when I was 14, I always think about the “last time” with people. Goodbyes hit harder for that reason too. But that perspective has made me grateful for all of the time I am able to spend with someone. And you were able to express that so perfectly in a song. This is why LANY is my favorite band 💕 Can’t wait until the next time I can safely see you all perform!

[@resaaugust4523]

It’s so rare to have a pop song about family nowadays I cried like a baby when I listened to this song for the first time It’s just so painful to see the people you love and care are getting old Lany’s music always relates to my experiences They will always be my favorite band!

[@mariatheresafloresca4166]

Thats the truth were all getting old and everything will change Ill be married soon kidding 😂👀☺️😉😂

[@Nairrrrrrr]

Yeah so true nowadays all the songs are about breakups, sex, and 'Senorita'. My God.

[@resaaugust4523]

You’re funny hahaha

[@resaaugust4523]

Nair LANY is just so RARE!

[@hassanjaber2897]

@@Nairrrrrrr true. The whole world is full of immoral things And me listening to this epic masterpiece makes me happy and grateful and special thanks to this man for his amazing song. If only we could get more of this kinds of songs.

[@pennydavis7782]

As a mother of three children who have found their own way into the world - this song spoke to me. I could see moments of their lives like pictures. And of course, I cried sitting in traffic. I had to pull off the road. Thank you for giving me a song that actually has something to say - and something to think about.

[@badguyblaze]

To everyone who lost someone during this difficult period or to an Illness...Stay strong, God bless you 💚💛💙💌

[@andkXD]

god bless you to

[@dwightdeguzman4193]

God bless you too 😭

[@linzym.nunezc.1207]

I can’t put into words the way this song touches not just my heart but my soul as well. I think we’re never ready enough to say goodbye, no matter how hard you try to tell yourself you are. I also think we get so distracted by life that we often forget to constantly let our parents know how thankful we are for having them. There’s no love like a parent’s love, they always love you, even in your darkest times, even when you don’t show em how much you love them back, it’s amazing.

[@kristinagoodwin186]

100%❤

[@kate5863]

OVERVIEW LYRICS Lyrics Hey mom, I know We're getting old And the lines on our hands have changed But you still look at me the same Hey Mom, guess what? You're really tough And I know you did all you could Just to make sure my life was good Sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice Sorry for the nights when I made the wrong choice Life is flying by and it's hitting me now I hope it's not but If this is the last time please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Then let's do the things we always do Like go to the mall and buy some shoes I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Hey dad, what's up? Miss you so much Yeah, the shade of your hair is changed But I look up to you the same Taught me how to fish, taught me how to ride a bike Taught me how to love, how to treat a woman right Life is flying by and it's hitting me now I hope it's not but If this is the last time please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Then let's do the things we always do Like go for a drive or watch the news I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time Hey you, sit back Don't go so fast If this is the last time please come close I love you with all my heart, you know I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time So let's do the things we always do Or maybe we try something brand new I don't wanna cry, I'm bad at goodbye If this is the last time If this is the last time If this is the last time Oh If this is the last time If this is the last time If this is the last time Oh If this is the last time

[@bartsimpsonofficial5740]

❤

[@rsantiagogarcia80]

Just heard this randomly, my son passed away a year ago. This song was very comforting.

[@jessd956]

I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine.

[@cawcrow1418]

My son left 3 years ago. I comforts me too

[@lifedisaster3166]

"You only have 3 minutes and 25 seconds to live" Me: *plays LANY's If this is the last time.

[@matchew4325]

A very nice decision indeed

[@kimfloreta]

For sure, I'll be really emotional for the last minutes of my life.

[@edgarbryanjupiol]

😭

[@erwinricablanca13]

My mom died 2 weeks ago and hearing this song especially the part "Sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice" it really makes me cry 🥺

[@gwynethangelalopez7158]

*This song hits different when you came from a broken home.* I really miss them. I want to hug them. I want to be with them. To my mom, I am so proud of you ❤ You are the best my supermom 😭 Year 2013, when you came home here in the Philippines and you said you are pregnant. I acted so bad because I was jealous that I'll have a sister but we don't have the same dad. As my sister grows up, I am ashamed whenever she asks me "Where is your father? Why don't we have the same surname? What is the name of your father? Why do you call Papa ****** as Tito?Why do we not look the same? Are you really my sister?" and I just laugh to hide my pain. It really sucks 'cause both of my parents have their new family and they have their new child that they can't even know I exist. But still, I love you mom and thank you for all your support. I am growing up and you are growing old. I hope I can make all my dreams come true 😭 Next time you'll see me, I'll be wearing a white coat and a stethoscope. To my father, I forgive you for all the damage you did to my mother but I don't know if she could forgive you for leaving me with no support at all. I heard you have now a new family. How can you go to bed at night? When I saw your photo with your woman, how can you smile so sweet? How can you carry on with your life while me your own daughter is suffering from depression? Maybe I wasn't what you wanted. Maybe the day I was born, you realized you are not yet ready for a big responsibility and now I realized too that you just don't matter to me anymore. Take care of yourself and thank you my first heart break. - from a strong and beautiful soul EDIT: Thank you so much for the heartwarming messages guys! 😭 I just saw all your replies and I'm eternally grateful for it. My eyes don't cry no more maybe because it is tired but my heart still aches. I feel like my biological father dislikes me that's why he secretly married another woman and even if sometimes my mom is so cold towards me I know she has a pure heart 'cause she takes care of my (half) sister more than me. Don't worry guys, I will do everything to become a doctor. I'll study hard and will make sure to live happily. Take care of your hearts ❤ do not allow anyone to break it. *God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldier. Stay strong.* “When you go through deep waters I will be with you.” *-Isaiah 43:2*

[@rojinaverma5657]

Uh are strong enough and may god give uh all the power to overcome your problem❤

[@joeynamesa4698]

You are Beautiful❤️

[@Jewry1989]

I literally cried, while playing the song and reading your story 😔i hope you're doing ok now. Keep fighting! Keep going . Someday you'll find the happiness that you deserve ❤

[@loltuna802]

you got this, it might not feel like it at times but you got this, ugh I can't stop crying from reading your comment.

[@ZacharyTay]

this is beautiful, thank you for sharing so we know that hey we're not the only ones feeling like this. I made a cover of "if this is the last time", mind checking it out? I'd love to have your feedback, if u want to :)

[@camuscarlajeane.7293]

I miss my parents. Hoping they are happy seeing me doing well. I wish they can feel how much I love them.

[@kennethmercado4669]

To everyone who's reading this, I hope your mother may live hundred years❣

[@lifewithjown]

this "and i know you did all you could just to make sure my life was good" hits me so hard. our parents for sure did all the best to raise us to the best of their abilities. and to anyone who have a not so good relationship with their parents know that you are loved and cared for, friends can be family too :)

[@vivianc7196]

You know when a band is good when they get more than 4 thousand likes before their music video is even released :) Lany deserves more recognition for their hard work and the way their music makes you feel❤️their music is so wholesome!!

[@leoncitatwins]

Two months ago my mom left to a better place, I wish I could have that chance of the last time. I still have hope to see her in heaven.

[@sadboimakesmusic]

LANY: "I don't wanna cry" Me: *cries uncontrollably* Ps. I did a small cover of this beautiful song and I would love some feedback

[@lanyfan3100]

from "(OMG)" to "Parents" then "if this is the last time" ❤️ LANY has been teaching us to honor our parents. though some don't have the best relationship with their parents, we can at least say thank you for the good things they've done

[@cassym3402]

As a daughter who is not open to her parents this made me think of the IF's. LANY you are hurting me again with your new song huhu💔 indeed, another masterpiece!

[@jayskretny5512]

I love my mom and dad more than anything. Wish I could repay them for everything they've done for me. As a son seeing my dad grow old and fragile breaks my heart. But he will always be 10 feet tall and bulletproof in my eyes. I love you Mom and Pops...

[@cmpleperson7949]

I miss my dad so much. He's with us, he's in this home, I live with him but he seems so far away from me. There's always that feeling of missing him so much. I miss the days back then when I was just a child, hugging him and laughing with him. I realized that as I grew older, we grew farther away from each other. You'll wish to never grow up, wish to go back to the time you two were close and wish to bring back all the happy memories. To my dad, I love you so much.

[@matkogagro43]

If he’s still there, you should hug him! Maybe it would create some new memories :)

[@misttique5467]

I feel u 😢

[@jessasassy]

This pandemic is hitting us so hard, tell to your parents, friends, partners that you love them and who knows...this might be the last time. The world is changing, its not getting any better, it worsens every now and then. Take the chance to say I love you to your loved ones. With this, Thanks Lany, ily xoxo

[@camballamarialyka9466]

My mother died today it hurts so much So everyone who have parents cherish them cause today i just lost the most precious Woman in my life Mom i know I'm not your sweetest daughter but mom i don't know what I'm gonna do with my life anymore without you mom i love you so much mom it's been a 5 days of hell for me without you

[@rikkyjasper4340]

hey, stay strong!

[@paradoxparkour4277]

Stay strong men be tough❤️

[@abrarrraharjo2577]

Stay strong sister

[@sophiabelletini]

i’m so sorry. i lost my mom two years ago so unfortunately i know what you’re going through. it doesn’t seem like it now, but it does get more manageable. it’s definitely not easy but know there are so many people around you who love you and your momma is ALWAYS with you♥️

[@camballamarialyka9466]

@@sophiabelletini thank you

[@d0ngk1e]

SOUNDS LIKE HEAVEN BUT HURTS LIKE HELL. 🥺

[@abigailschofield2235]

My mum is currently dealing with a brain tumour, she's doing really well, but this made me cry! My dad and I have a very weird relationship but i love him so much it's silly. Thank you.

[@HVTV9]

Inshallah, May Allah give you strength and her a beautiful and healthy life ahead, Praying for your mom Amen

[@thahliaputhiyaveettil]

May God bless you and you family❤️

[@analiese4512]

It's not silly I'm sorry

[@ashlynem8888]

May your mom heal❤️

[@marygracenovio4954]

i will conclude you in my Prayer

[@christenr7365]

I love LANY I have such a crush on Paul! ❤️ I hope he meets a really nice girl someday.....he deserves it

[@ciariniseparker]

So heartfelt! 😞😞 The lyrics is the best to describ the fear of losing aomeone you love. My friends from Joe and the Anchor made a cover for the song. You can check their cover out here, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f4PKqGB-nqh4mtk

[@scorpioqueen5626]

There are certain lines that just hit so hard: "Hey Mom, guess what? You're really tough" We might think we are better than our parents' generation but the way they toughed out in their times we shouldn't ever take for granted. "Sorry for the fights and the tone of my voice" Always a problem with us. We don't fight that way or give that tone to our bosses/superiors/friends even but with our parents we take that liberty so easily. "Taught me how to love, how to treat a woman right" Coz even though dads are not given as much credit in their children's upbringing this line just about sums up their irreplaceable role in it. "Hey you, sit back Don't go so fast" The way we all are moving so fast we just need to appreciate the life that's taking along with time, the little moments of love, laughter and happiness. Hold on to that. The journey is important and not the destination. Let your inner child live a little longer, maybe even for a lifetime if you can. This song took my heart away❤️ Thank you to Lany and team❤️

[@KenzerCrochets]

I lost my mom late February this year and I'm currently bawling my eyes out! She and I were super close, she was my best friend and having her gone is like I'm missing half my heart! Thank the Lord (literally) that I still have my Dad, I'm also super close with him and he is also my best friend, he has been my absolute rock! This brought back so many amazing memories with my gorgeous Mama, which I desperately needed cause today was a really hard day! God bless all of you and I hope all your parents and or parental figures live to be a super ripe old ages and go peacefully! Much love to all of you ❤

[@lilmisshappyscott]

I am so sorry for your loss

[@KenzerCrochets]

@@lilmisshappyscott aww thank you so much 🩷