Are Men Intimidated By Successful Women? Lapeef "Let's Talk"

[@michael43567]

It is a lil weird to brag about your salary & degree, yet not want to use it to contribute to your household. Woman in the clip made a great point.

[@ManyFacedGod12]

Dye talks herself into stupidity

[@michael43567]

y'all let Dye derail the show.........again.

[@shauna19891]

She is exhausting

[@marieharris5354]

There's always a push back from Dye when she should just listen and learn.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

@@marieharris5354 listening is the biggest flaw Dye has from what I’ve seen. She comes off as a cool person to be around, but she has a huge problem with talking too much instead of listening to what’s being said to her

[@thespadestable]

@marieharris5354 - The hosts of these types of shows always seem to keep them around for entertainment value.

[@megawatts2558]

Dye just can't be quiet long enough to understand anyone(until the end). Then she talks so long that she will Segway into a whole different topic.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

Yea she has a huge problem with that. And even after Darwyn added context to what he was saying with the Only fans comment, she still tried to combat what he originally said without the context 🥴

[@blakneo1gib730]

Dye be lying like a mf

[@PillCosby407]

Yes she be lying she has a story about everything.

[@nRODuTRUST]

What's crazy is women don't require the same thing in their lesbian relationship that they do in male/female relationships.

[@curtishancock432]

They actually do. There is a article in the guardian of butch lesbians complaining about this😂😂😂

[@thespadestable]

@nRODuTRUST - The complaints in those relationships are on the same level as the straight ones. The same "give me-give me-give me" they do to men; is the same thing they do to the butch. Worked at a place where there were a few butches, and somehow the short period of time I was there, I became 3 of their Wise O.G.. And as I tried to explain to them the dynamics that was taking place, and how they needed to position themselves to take better control of what was taking play, it was nothing more than me talking to a woman, who just happened to be sexually attracted to women, because they would walk away lost and bewildered worrying more about their feelings than they were about being the man those women were seeking to provide structure.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

I agree 100% Amira. A woman leading with any of her accomplishments (Career, degree and etc) is a very masculine trait and it does 0 for a man that knows his worth and knows what he wants in a woman. We could care less because that never determines how you will be as a wife/mother

[@thespadestable]

@TheRealLeonardWashington - That's not a masculine trait; that's a trait of insecurity. More times than not, once you move the conversation away from their degree, their college years, their incomes, and all the other huff and puff, you quickly learn there is nothing much about them to really nature a dating situation besides sex. They know it, and they are hoping the guy they are conversing with doesn't find out, find fault in them, and eventually move on to someone else.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

@ both things can be true. The point Amira made is that women never lead with their accomplishments. There’s nothing feminine about it whatsoever

[@thespadestable]

@ - It's a touchy topic for both genders. And the problem I've had since hosting Men and Women forums dating back to the middle 90's is to not make one of your first 5 personal face to face interaction questions be about where a person work does, what college they went to, and what does the person do for a living, and always got tons of backlash. I'd stopped hosting them in 2018, but a Zoom forum I attended in 2023, and when broached the topic, everyone on the panel, to include the host who was a Millennial male, gave me push back as to why they thought that was unrealistic and was needed as an upfront vetting question. Trust me, this is not a woman thing.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

@@thespadestable women care way more about a man’s accomplishments than vice versa so I wholeheartedly disagree. Most men are not going into dating asking women what they do for a living as the top priority question. Women on the other hand are the complete opposite. Reason being is the fact that most of them are looking for providers as the top priority. Most women (not all), when asked what they’re looking for in a man, lead with a man that can provide. Protector might be second but in most cases provision is at the top. Men on the other hand are searching for peace. They don’t need women to be providers and they can care less about their degrees/accomplishments. None of that dictates how a woman would be as a wife. But most women will tell you that the ability to provide 100% dictates how a man will be as a husband/leader

[@dahpree]

Aisha stays bringing up examples where the man is never doing anything and the woman to doing the most. Like Darwyn said so he wasnt helping fix the house, paying for the kids trips, getting up in the middle of the night....she lying.

[@marieharris5354]

Does Kasey have her own podcast?? I love her spirit & message

[@GALLEYCHATTERwithKaseyB]

It’s coming sis!!! Thank you so much

[@YoungMrD29]

Since dye has joined the panel this show is now Dye answers questions show. The way she gets bombarded is crazy

[@dicerevo]

Because she overpowers the conversation shares conflicting information and then acts surprise when people questions her questions.

[@YoungMrD29]

@ 1 person takes over the whole panel? 1 person vs the rest? she has that much power?

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

Tricking is tricking Darwyn. Regardless if it’s for a long term relationship or a one night stand

[@michael43567]

Extremely beuatiful women can intimidate me ngl (not scare me, but leave me in awe. Which is a synonym of intimidate). But successful women? no

[@ManyFacedGod12]

Aisha talks about being married for 17 years like a badge of honor.... but when you get to the dynamics of the marriage it wasnt good. For Black Women its the title of being married over everything else concerning marriage.

[@marcusallen6842]

Naw. She uses it as a shield from judgement because she left her husband to hit the streets. Now that she is in her mid to late 30s and still "outside" she can say she's been married for the 17 years so people won't look at her like she's a less valuable woman.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

@@marcusallen6842she also lied at first and said she was a widow. That girl be lying

[@dicerevo]

So disingenuous because it’s a failed marriage. The fact that it failed after so long just makes it worse.

[@michael43567]

To play devil's advocate, I think some high earning men make women pay half so that they have skin in the game. Rather than the man pay it all, she saves her salary for herself, they divorce, now she's up up. Some women literally admit to making escape plans whilst in a relationship

[@dicerevo]

We also do not know the financial situation of the guy. His income is not the same as net worth. He may have just bought a home, invested assets for their future, covering medical costs and goods for the baby. Meanwhile she’s just paying 50% of the bills. So it looks “50/50” but the man is actually spending much more. The whole 50/50 discussion is a discussion for the financially illiterate.

[@michael43567]

@@dicerevo completely agree. There are so many costs outside of rent/mortgage. Regardless, I can't fathom that the guy is making her pay half then saving the rest of his money for just him.

[@bsamy]

So Aisha knew a man making 200k every other week. So 400k a month. Making his woman pay 50/50. How many of us believe that story. Lets be for real

[@MrQuincy611]

And they all worked together and she went to him and asked why is doing that 😂😂😂😂😂 gtfoh

[@UpdatedView]

$200k x 26 pay periods is $5.2M per year. These women just embellish so much. Why is this woman even working if this true? 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@bsamy]

@MrQuincy611 yes sir. Only on the internet all these people know men making 3.6 million a year. Yet he needed his woman to pay 50/50. But she always says negative things about men

[@bsamy]

@UpdatedView exactly. Sounds like a tyler perry movie

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

Ima just assume she meant 200k for the year and worded it wrong because ain’t no way. Even with that being said I don’t believe a word Aisha says. Ima continue bringing up how she made herself out to be a widow and changed her tune on that the next week. She’s a chameleon for sure

[@michael43567]

1:31:11 good point. The provision is at his discretion. It doesn't necessarily mean you will live a life of luxury

[@damienmercer4731]

1:51:45 …a Deer John push lawnmower….. 🤦🏽‍♂️😆😆

[@derrellarthur4604]

Dye is playing with fire. That was your choice to mess with other women. Leave God out of it. You made that decision on your own free will.

[@jdthompson0982]

I'm telling yall this....... . Man, as a man we should have authority. However, if you work or not men and women should help when needed. If they're unable you do what you can to help. What does money have anything to do with just simply helping???? You pick up the load when the other can't. It's not about gender! Situations and circumstances change! If you ain't built for that do us all a favor and go to the streets! If we can't comply then fly!!! Confess our sins, pray for one another so we can heal 🙏🏽

[@screamatchaboi]

Dy is done! She got like a. 5% chance to find a sucker (not husband but a sucker). Claims to read the word but was a whole lesbian. No higher value man is signing up for that. Got to find a sucker down on his luck for 50/50. She's washedddddd!!

[@YoungMrD29]

Watching this show every episode from the start and keeping up with the new ones and this show has full on turned into a red pill rage show. It had its hints but now it's just full blown red pill RAGE! all women are 304's should submit BUT the men don't submit to God.

[@immanueleburne3216]

She is the reason man should cover women and he should give/translate her the word as given to him by the Most high.

[@labaronfreeman1140]

Travis Kelce was NOT paying for anything like that, she herself said that he would not spend money and would make her go half on dinners and other outings.

[@larheamiles6012]

Girl stop exaggerating jus cause u getting medical take out yo check u not go have 200 left with that salary.. stop promoting this high life style… 80 percent of folks work regular jobs and careers making 30-75k.. wit both in comes sky’s the limit…

[@shauna19891]

Dye is so exhausting to listen to smh

[@TheSierriacoates]

Lol not a popular option, but you can't be a lawyer and be a mom to Kids under 15, you can't be a mom And be a judge. Men should do what Daryn has aspired to do. Work toward your wife being home with the kids as they are young... Or just don't have kids.… cuz in my opinion you will not be a mom. Someone else is raising your kids. You can pay for people to raise your kids.…if you both are working, but it's my opinion for a mom to be a mom, and a husband to be a provider. (((Until they get older.… )))then go after your career. Have it all but not at the same time 😊

[@coolmancoolman164]

#BoycottMarriage & #avoidsinglemothers

[@treutable]

When people say the Bible was written by man it’s foolish because every text on this planet is also written by man. It’s just a response from someone with a rebellious heart

[@Ria19907]

21:37 Is she married? 🤔

[@PillCosby407]

Like Ricky say it's never yall on the panel.

[@eclipsewoa]

It never anyone on the panel... they always perfect, they know men that made 6figures but never kept them...they good wholesome women...cream of the crop lmao

[@PillCosby407]

I wish the people's on the panel stop filibuster in just share the mic.