Large Family Money Q & A ║ Answering Your Questions About Raising 8 Kids on One Income

[@ChihuahuaMama54]

Here watching you at 2:30 in the morning; you’re no longer with us but you’re still teaching us sweet Andrea. 😔🙏🏻♥️

[@sarawilliams9025]

Tom, I know you disagree with monetizing these videos. But, if it is an option, please consider. Many of us would be absolutely honored to be able to help you and your wonderful children, by watching these. Andrea is teaching me so much, even now, and I wish I had something to give back to your family. Regardless, my family are all in prayer for you and yours.

[@shellybell1108]

Sara Williams I agree 100% I have watched so many of these videos and will gladly watch them a million times over. Andrea was such a angel and I could never get tired of hearing or seeing her sweet face. She is truly missed and knowing her family is taking care of and being able to help even in the slightest way, would mean the world to me.

[@esthers9140]

Although Andrea was against monetizing at one point...I think today she would ok with it knowing its helping raise her family.

[@brittanyC_]

I will rewatch every single video. I'll use autoplay and watch all of them. The decision for Tom to monetize was a hard one, but absolutely the right one. ❤️

[@ChrisW228]

@Pam benoit click the name to go to their KZbin home page and then click Videos. On that page, they are in chronological order.

[@NamasteCC]

Omgggggggggg you should TOTALLY monetize your videos. I would be honored to be able to support you through watching your videos. And I am POSITIVE thousands of other viewers agree. You bring us into your home, treat us like family, and teach us. You provide one heck of a service for us. I would loveeeee to being able to support your beautiful family by watching commercials before your videos. I would proudly sit here and watch each and every commercial multiple times and click on the links to support you. We love you and want to help you just like you help us!

[@reyn5821]

"When you're living within your means, you don't have to feel guilty about anything. It's not a splurge - just life." - wonderful way of putting it. I really enjoy your videos

[@feliciabethea9963]

Is times like this, this video is such a blessing to those who are willing to watch. Have FAITH in GOD!

[@e.cahill9594]

You had such wisdom Andrea.....never get tired of watching your video’s but so wish you were still with us to see your beautiful children 💕💕💕

[@lauraubrey5929]

I truly believe Andrea knew her life waa not long so she made these videos for her family. Tom please use them to take care of your family. She left these videos as a gift

[@lizmunt9116]

Awesome

[@lizmunt9116]

Brilliant

[@cherylblais9611]

I paused watching to comment on what you said about allowing ads on your channel and the vacuum cleaner salesman outside your door - what a good analogy. lol But...I just wanted to say that having that five second ad then being able to click to someone's video doesn't bother me at all. I think that your time (and I know it must be considerable) deserves to be recognized. Especially for all the well thought out and heart felt sharing that you do. You are so organized in your thinking and presentation of your thoughts which are always encouraging and helpful. I'd feel good if by watching you it helped to support your family. Either way, love your sharing.

[@elizabetharcher7109]

Cheryl Blais you summed up my thoughts perfectly! Andrea Mills what you do is of so much value to me! I would gladly endure ads for you ☺

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

+Avery You guys are all very kind. We don't feel like we're lacking anything we need and it's more important to me to live by my principals than it is to make a few quick bucks.

[@shellywhelan1988]

Agreed. I get a lot of value & pleasure from these videos and would happily sit through an ad for a few seconds knowing it was going to the Mills family in exchange.

[@justmea9752]

Andrea Mills I recently found your channel, I am thinking about homeschooling, I thought I'd check out some of the channels that homeschooling. So far I love it!!! BTW, I am the 5th of 8 kids and I LOVE having 5 brothers and 2 sisters!!!

[@electricpenguin32]

I agree, I don't mind ads especially on smaller channels that I get a lot of entertainment/value from. One thing I will say though, is that neither Andrea nor her viewers can choose which ads will play. I keep my internet interests to a PG level, but I have had to sit through inappropriate ads that had nothing to do with me or my interests, and nothing to do with the youtube creators interests and content either. Both viewers and creators would benefit from being able to have more control over the ad content. I don't like seeing ads for Fifty Shades of Grey, but I would gladly sit through ads of things Andrea and her family like and feel comfortable promoting.

[@GD.1031]

It's so heartbreaking knowing that she is no longer with her family. I am agnostic and childfree with no intention on having any kids, but these videos are very helpful and therapeutic to watch. She was able to budget while also taking into consideration the free things in life that bring joy. I've been bingeing her videos and am so saddened by her passing.

[@debbiedion5731]

Me too hun

[@ddchomeschool]

Such a loss!

[@latashahoward3943]

You were an absolute gem! There is zero doubt you are in Heaven. Your beliefs and morals came before money. Rip sweet lady.

[@inezdoerter8578]

Excellent...please don’t remove Andrea’s videos even though she’s with our Lord!

[@atdepaulis]

Inez Doerter wait what? I just discovered her channel yesterday and LOVE it! 😢 what happened to her??

[@angelinebalsitis8696]

@@atdepaulis She died of cancer.

[@Judah-Mills]

We're not going to remove her videos

[@KrisFasseBooksandButterflies]

@@Judah-Mills you all are doing so well... prayers and lots of support for you all

[@karenbrown1140]

I miss seeing her so much ! So very thankful for all these videos. Prayers daily for her precious family

[@TCgirl]

I wish I had discovered Andrea before I heard she passed from TX mom. She seems so sweet and genuine.

[@kimmiller4266]

I feel the same way! She's such a huge blessing still.

[@anynameyouchoose]

I am watching this video with tears in my eyes, the things you are saying about the Lord providing for your family is touching my heart. The Lord has provided for me in ways that I could not even tell you. I just know He is my Provider, My Healer, and My Protection. So many people think that salvation is going to heaven when they die. The Lord has unlimited resources for us when we depend on Him. Thank You so much for sharing your life and your family, You are such a Blessing and an Encouragement to me. Sending my Love.

[@beam8250]

♥️

[@rebacrow8698]

Andrea was so wise Tom and I know u are a part of this too. Y’all were one in christ

[@miamccoy7424]

Tom Thankyou so much for keeping all of Andreas videos. I love going back looking at them and getting advice ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kieferadventures9933]

Watching this video now is so amazing. I love how she's talking about God providing. What a great reminder for the family now to hear it directly from her mouth.

[@AwesomeSauce2001]

God provided her with great wisdom! I’m in awe with her detailed videos because she has left a guidebook for her children. Tragic loss but what a blessing that she made these videos so she can continue teaching her children.

[@peachy4173]

I love how open and honest you are. Thank you for sharing.

[@souldawn2187]

I will said it again you need to write a book! It will benefit a lot of family's! Blessings to you and your family!!👍🏼❤️🤗👏🏼

[@SissyKay]

This is one of my favorite Andrea videos. She will always be missed. So glad to have all these videos to re-watch. She had such a calming presence.

[@KrisFasseBooksandButterflies]

I remember this scary story about jobs. It is so so hard to be in the position of no sure job and a family counting on you. Ugh. So hard. Andrea was a great example of loving you, Tom.

[@melodyturner7463]

Going thru some of your old videos. You truly were such a blessing to so many people! I’m so glad your children now have these to look back on and use for themselves as they grow into adults. I really miss the old videos and their positive content.

[@beckysebben5751]

25 minute Marie show ad. Ok for the Mills family, no problem Lots of love from Michigan Xo

[@lolitamorris2943]

This lady was so wise R.I.P.... her legacy is beyond this world

[@stephaniewest-white2777]

Hi Tom I didn't start watching the Mills blog until this year. I'm so sorry for you guys. I was really shocked because I didn't know Andrea had passed away. God bless you and the babies.

[@darianweldon4586]

I can't get over how much I love your family and I love your channel.

[@kmajor7474]

Me too! 🙋❤❤❤

[@kmajor7474]

Andrea had a magnificent brain! 😳 And an generous caring spirit. ❤ Her videos are so full of blessings.

[@janshrum7286]

What a testimony for FATHER GOD you and your family are!!!!! Hallelujah!!!

[@thewoodenspoon9679]

We need this guidance from Andrea..... I visit her daily... 💙

[@momo_ether]

Re-watching this as I wait to welcome my 2nd child into the world and am worrying about baby items and finances. I'm a single mum living in a one bedroom house with my 3 year old who I plan to homeschool. I absolutely love your channel, family, and beliefs. I share a lot of them such as doing everything from home, natural remedies, simple living and organisation. I have watched your videos since the beginning and love everything about your family. I even tried having the audio bible on all day. So comforting. Thank you for letting us into your home/life and teaching us so much.

[@TheTexasBoys]

Andrea, I agree with others that having ads makes us feel like we are helping to support your family and that we value and appreciate all of the long hours put into making these videos. I for one don't feel like it cheapens "our relationship" in any way. I do respect your take on it, but maybe consider setting up a patreon account so those of us who want to support your family in some way can. Ads are just the easiest way for viewers to feel like they are giving back to you for all that you do.

[@lld112600]

I LOVE your sit down videos where you just talk, an hour and 20 minute one means it's my lucky day!!!

[@deniselakatos5418]

O Andrea--you are truly missed! I loved/love just listening to you. You are one very special lady/mom/wife/person. There is a big and dark void where you used to be but Tom is doing well--I can just hear you say, "Here is my beloved husband in whom I am well pleased!" Sing with the angels Andrea.

[@ruthsmith5038]

Tom, this is a direct message for you since you read every comment, but I wanted to reference this video for you as a * rememberance video of your early years of starting out together & the struggles you had* .... I know the value of losing your spouse to have these moments to look back on...& Now, like others have said " Thank you" for keeping these vlogs w/ Andrea on this channel, because we ( her die hard fans from long ago), genuinely miss her, too. It's like having lost a real close friend....at least that's why I revisit & pertaining to the time of year it is depends on which videos I choose...anyway, if Ever I find one that's important as a personal one, I'll pass it on....your pal in NC~

[@latasha5890]

I love your pay system for your children and then buying their own things and the way you have Thomas learning to support a family! I am definately using some of these ideas thanks for all the tips :)

[@KrisFasseBooksandButterflies]

And yes... her words about how God provided for your family was a lift to my spirit today

[@jeanspeer4053]

I have been binge watching your videos for several days. Love them and they way you live and raise your family.

[@mariannescalise6658]

She looked so good here ! Love listening to her such a beautiful soul!❤❤ you can do free things and have fun and make memories!

[@susanh3602]

Such a wonderful kind hearted lady..I wish I had of found her earlier! But, she’s left these videos and I, as she says, come by and visit here with her. Thank you 🕊 💕

[@shelleybean1112]

So happy the children have these videos

[@lynnwoodgeorge9827]

Thank you for sharing! My husband has just started a business and I have been blessed by this video. Some weeks are really slow but the Lord has always blessed our finances somehow, even when we didn't know where it would come from. You have such a wonderful testimony!

[@ladydrell83]

Andrea, this video was such a breath of fresh air. It seemed like a weight was lifted off of me upon hearing you speak. It's so great to listen to someone who is of like mind on so many things. I have ALWAYS wanted a large family, but I started later in life (around mid 30s). You would be amazed at the amount of people who say "Oh you're too old for all of those kids" and such negative comments. God said that anything that we want we should ask for it in his name and I truly believe that if it is His will, he will bless you with it. That being said if I want 20 kids, and it's His will, I believe that He would do it (not that I want that many). It's just so great to hear someone speak so positively about having a large family. Also the birthdays .... I was Amen-ing the entire way through you speaking about that. I believe that a lot of people lose focus when it comes to birthday parties. We all want what is best for our kids and to give them the world, but sometimes what means the world to them is just having family and close friends over to share in their special day. I like to stick with a $100 budget and I let THEM plan what they want to do. It's not my day .... it's theirs, and again, I think that's what people lose focus on. I'm a bargain shopper so I guide them in finding essentials that are cost effective, but I let them help me plan so that they know what's going on. The only cost they aren't responsible for out of that money is the cake. Amen again on overdoing it with babies. I think most people have done that, at least with the first child. And as far as splurging, again, you hit the nail on the head. Our nearby Wal-Mart always has the best deals on clothing when they're either going out of season or the brand is changing packaging or something like that. Recently they had a bunch of shorts and short sleeved shirts for $1 each. Well I know that they're going to be needed so I buy them. We have a closet that holds clothing for the kids to grow into and people think it's absurd. Well no, because they'll always need clothing and of course, with kids, growth spurts happen. And even if we don't use them, we can always donate them. I mean they were $1 a piece! I don't see it as splurge as much as an investment. You just really nailed so many great points in this. I love your wisdom and interacting with you (sort of) through your videos. Thanks so much!

[@susansmith8081]

What a legacy. We have been SO blessed by the godliness and wisdom of Andrea. Thank you for sharing her with us.

[@LeatSabbah]

Wow! Another great video packed with useful information and tips. Thank you for sharing - I so appreciate your mindset and way of handling things. Bless you.

[@kristenm.schwartz3206]

We only have 4 kiddos. However, everytime one was about to be born, my husband would lose a job or our customer base would dwindle. We have always made it. with nothing in our cupboard and nothing in our wallet. The Father provides always. I couldn't have anymore children, literally, but our Father is always guiding us!

[@KrisFasseBooksandButterflies]

This was a super popular post..and I know why. I think people want to know that real things matter and that family can happen for less...and I enjoy listening to Andrea talk about the family.

[@28maganda]

What a blessing and inspiration you are. Your channel popped up on my feed and I've been watching ever since.=) Also I would love to support your channel by watching the ads, I feel you and your family deserve the extra income from you tube, hope you reconsider I think most of your viewers would agree me like the earlier comment.

[@jackieklumper9498]

I had to pause to comment as well. I have so much respect for you and your choices! You are such a sweet, authentic soul and God is using you for big things!

[@kayla4702]

your early times are my current times. I admire you so much! and I am blessed to know you! :)

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Thank you, Kayla. I hope, in spite of what you're going through, you take a step back and really enjoy this time of your life. There is so much good going on right in the middle of your difficulties. Hardships draw you so much closer to God and so much closer to the important people in your life.

[@tiffanygreen9470]

I agree 100% on your giving philosophy!!! I would rather help people as needed or that I see as a need other then donating a certain amount to a charity that I am not sure where it is going or what it is being used for. Not saying that I never donate to charities but I rather see my donations in action if that makes sense. Also I feel like my time counts as donate as well. :) love your videos so much.

[@myirishbroodof9570]

We have 7 kids and I'm praying for that baby #8 🙏. But I always say in the beginning of the month to my husband, we have these many bills and I add up our income and it doesn't seem like it's going to work out. By the end of the month all the bills are paid, all the kids are fed, we have everything we need and I say to my husband "God is great" he did this. when I start to feel worry, I stop myself , pray to God, leave it up to him and he always provides for us. It's truly amazing. I also just want to say when I get to watch one of your videos I feel like I'm hanging out with one of my girlfriends! Thank you for that, I can totally relate with you on everything!

[@LITEvlogsTV]

I absolutely agree with your comment about God taking care of your family as it grows. When we were expecting our fourth child our family started to tell us "oh well, 4 kids is not too bad, you'll be okay", assuming that we conceived again by accident, which was not the case at all. We wanted another child. It was at this time that my mother in law said to me in Spanish " don't worry every baby comes with a loaf of bread under it's arm" meaning that God provides for every child born. We had to break the news to her that we were going to actually receive two loaves of bread instead one, because I was expecting twins. We went on to have three more children and it has always been a blessing to us.

[@sherremullins3354]

I hope Tom monetizes these videos and pays off the house and uses the money for his children. I don't believe any of us would mind at all. These videos are a service to us. God Bless.

[@beam8250]

I was raised on very similar values as yours, however, there was abuse in my childhood home. It made the experience of living humbly a completely different experience than you and your children are so fortunate to experience! 💗 I remember feeling enraged, and resentful when I was expected to share a portion of my earnings with my parents while I was living at home in high school. Frankly, I had a sense of entitlement and just wanted to runaway as far as I could, as soon as I got the chance. It's exactly what I ended up doing. Fundamentally, my parents were loving and did their best, and I came to understand them over time. I had to overcome the anger and resentment I felt due to the injustices I felt growing up. Some of my personal experiences were so painful 😢, I developed PTSD. I absolutely admire the way you and Tom love on your family! The love is genuinely there, it shows. I see why you have such caring, happy kids. They genuinely are because they are treated with the dignity and respect they deserve. I agree 💯 with your philosophy on how you choose to live life one day at a time. You give now to your children, and they give back when it's your time to receive. It's a natural cycle of life, and I get that. God always provides. I SO agree! He has provided abundantly in my life. I couldn't ask for more. I will miss watching you grow, Andrea 💖. I am grateful to have your teachings forever available here on KZbin for generations to come. RIP. Many blessings to the Mills family.

[@tinah6299]

Thanks for the honesty. That was a tuff start. Amazing what the business has become. The kids will also learn a skill. I hit rock bottom once, at Christmas I found $200.00 in my door I thanked God first and the angel that delivered My kids were little then. Love the info you share

[@chrisadams1379]

You are such a blessing, you are changing my life. What an angel.

[@jenniferknight1511]

What an inspiration she was!!

[@bingjenn]

Lately, my prayer has been, "Lord, let me be a blessing to others". You are such a beautiful example of this type of approach to life. Thank you for living with integrity and sharing with us. I'm learning from your example. I am blessed by you!

[@JaamieMaarie]

Wow thank you so much for making this video. I am only 20 minutes in, it's just my husband and I at the moment (no kids yet unfortunately) But we stress so much about money, it is a daily conversation and it's hard to make ends meet sometimes. I like what you said about how your husband does the work but God provides. I will totally look at everything differently now. My husband installs fences for people on the side of his regualr full time job, he makes a lot more money (per hour) installing fences but we are so worried he might not get enough work if he quits his full time job and we won't be able to make our house payment or pay our bills. It's amazing that you guys went for it and succeeded at having your own business. I am going to have him listen to what you said because it seriously changed my outlook on everything. Thank you.

[@lizmunt9116]

This is amazing

[@lizmunt9116]

Love this

[@KarenReep]

Thanks so much for sharing! I love your channel. You're a great example to follow. 😊

[@SweetGlitter1309]

I'm at 33 minutes and I feel like I have to say something. #1 I love your idea about Ebooks, however, I feel like I would watch ads for you! Hahaha watching ads is time and giving our time to watch ads to me is showing that we would pay for your videos because time is money! Just a thought. I love your channel so much!

[@hannaha760]

SweetGlitter1309 I would totally watch adds too!

[@Sunfl75]

I absolutely agree. I would gladly see ads, if that could give Andrea something in return for sharing her content with us. She spends her time and effort and her family takes part. For them to get something in return due to ads, would feel well deserved to me.

[@ossifkiki7574]

My husband and I were thinking about our first year of marriage, and it was super hard at the time with a very small income but now looking back it makes us so grateful how far we come in our 7 year marriage 😊.

[@justmea9752]

Wow, thank you for putting all of the questions and answers in time slots so to speak!!! I have never seen anyone else do that!!! love it

[@camdenb2794]

Absolutely love your channel. Really feels like I'm just sitting down and having a chat with a friend. Very happy that your channel is growing the way it is Andrea :)

[@tamsin7460]

I find your wisdom and purposefullness so soothing.

[@lld112600]

I LOVE your sir down videos where you just talk, an hour and 20 minute one means it's my lucky day!!!

[@martaaberg3330]

I really enjoyed this video. Thank you so much. One thing I have noticed is that your children are basically kind and helpful to one another, and that is so not what is typical in this day and age. Your methods are obviously working.

[@Majesticmama]

this video touched my heart so much!! i was in tears in how much God has blessed you and your humbleness and kindness..i have been there with $5 to my name and wondering how i was going to feed my children and a bag of groceries would be at my door or a check would come in the mail..now he blessed me with a good job to provide for my children...i love all your videos ❤ and your videos have help me with budgeting! tfs!

[@Ky-kh5ur]

I'm 20 years old with no family or anything to budget for but recently my boyfriend and I broke up and he moved out so I've had twice as many bills as I'm used to so this month's theme has been such a blessing and a help to me.

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

Last week my 3rd-grader grandson put his arm around me and said, "Grandma, I'm going to build you a 'tiny house' in my backyard and I promise it will have lots of windows and bookshelves." Ohboy. I got the tight throat. Until he pointed to the back corner of his dad's yard (my son). hahahahhaha

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

Okay. Going to the mall now to help all those people that made the stuff there. You've given me a new lease on life, Andrea. And a great new excuse to give to Michael. lol xoj

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

You always make me laugh!

[@ruthparkinson9144]

thank you so much for posting this. I needed this. I really appreciate your channel and all you share. I am 34, single and live in the UK. you have been such a help. God bless you. :)

[@alishaaa1192]

For when you travel you could look into AirBNB! SOmetimes ends up being cheaper than getting a hotel, but then also feels more comfortable since it is just a regular home/apartment. Also it is nice to know that you're financially helping a specific person rather than a huge business.

[@mercedesvillaruz7004]

Andrea.. Your channel is my favorite on KZbin. You and your family rock:)!🤗

[@whitneyking2779]

How nice of you to answer so many questions!!

[@mareek9639]

You videos give hope and encouragement. I enjoy listening to you speak and appreciate and agree with a lot of the principals you and your family live by. Thank you for sharing.

[@bethgordon7386]

I really really loved this video! It was like we were having coffee and your were sharing all your family tips with me! Thank you for taking the time to answer all the great questions that were posted. I found your answers very encouraging, inspiring and helpful. :)

[@overdressedgirl216]

The truth is sometime everything can happened as long as we are blessed ... thanks for the video ...

[@curlynoodle2929]

Thank you for sharing this. I watched the whole thing while I was cooking the supper. God clearly used you today to speak to me, not so much about the budgeting stuff [we have that sorted] but the many other messages and values that you shared with us. You are so at peace with the way you live and that is a very valuable message. I need to trust in the Lord more. God bless you xx

[@jjlockhART]

I love your thoughts on life, thank you for sharing - I feel like there are things that I can change or improve in my life - thank you

[@rebeccajane713]

I only have one child (and will probably only ever have one child), but this is still so encouraging to me.

[@katiecarnahan8331]

I love you even more now. thank you for sharing your story! you are so encouraging. I totally redid our budget yesterday after your first video lol.

[@jillygirl2024]

Good for you both to decide the kids come first. To work together, and to listen to the Holy Spirit !

[@VaknaFreak]

Hey Andrea! I somehow ended up watching this entire clip, and I feel like a clip that's over an hour of some talking yet still keeping me entertained deserves a comment. I really appreciate your videos, partly because I can learn and partially because you have been/are in such a different lifestyle/culture than I am from. I ended up watching a clip of you showing the house, and since then I've been hooked! I have actually wanted to ask about why you don't put ads on your videos, but now I got my answer! I really like that way of seeing it, and I know for a fact that once someone sees youtube as their job, it can take the fun out of it. What I do like about ads, especially on smaller channels is that its a way for me to actually contribute to the person I'm watching, by letting the ad run thought instead of skipping it, but I guess I can show my support here instead! Keep up the videos, and keeping being yourself, its great to see. While I'm not a religious person and as I said, I come from a totally different culture on the opposite side of the world,(I'm a single child & live the capital of Sweden) its fun to learn and explore your lifestyle through your videos, so just wanted to say thanks & to tell you that anyone can learn and get something out of your videos, and that you have a friend on the other side of the world here in Sweden! :) (sorry, didn't plan for it to be this long!)

[@shelleys226]

Just want to add to others thoughts. I understand you not wanting to have us buy unwanted vacuums....but here is another perspective. Many people would love to buy e books etc from you. But perhaps there aren't financial able to. I would love to know that I am contributing to your family and saying thank you for your inspiration. Watching a short ad makes my heart happy if I know I am supporting someone that has given me wisdom and encouragement. I see it as a small way God is blessing you because you're blessing others. And I think it is even more of a blessing because you're not seeking after riches. Either way thank you for all you do.

[@thekayde77]

Another wonderful video! Thank you for sharing and being so transparent with us. I have a video idea for you-would love to see you talk about some of your "favorite things" especially those that you use for babies. Would love to hear about your review of your baby wrap, highchair that attaches to table, moses basket and such. You seem to have all your 'baby stuff' simplified and concise. We are expecting baby#3, but watching your videos I think we have way too much 'stuff' that really isn't needed. Thank you again for what you do, so encouraging.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

That's a great idea! In September I'm planning to devote the month to pregnancy and baby videos. I know that's a long way down the road, but I've put this on my list because that's an excellent topic.

[@thekayde77]

Great! Looking forward to it.

[@jeannieleasa1579]

Andrea Mills Does that mean another special blessing from God will be coming to the Mills house in August or September? 🍼

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

+SewNtell you Not that we know of yet, but we're always hoping!

[@denacarson32]

On not buying your kids something when you go shopping, I totally agree. I have (almost) always done this with my 3. My oldest was an only child for 6 yrs and the only grandchild as well so he got a lil spoiled. I realized this while i was pregnant with my next son and started cutting back a lil at a time and he got allowance to buy what he wanted. It's not that he asked or begged for items, we just bought them for him. Once we had our new baby he was only using allowance to buy stuff and getting presents on special occasions. My other 2 just grew up this way using money they earned doing lil chores so they've never known any other way. It has taught all of them lots of responsibility and to take care of themselves a lot more than to ask Mama or Daddy for what they want, not what they need. That's the difference, i supply what they need always and if they want something then they save for it with their earned money. I agree that it teaches them to be responsible adults who give back instead of take away. My oldest is now 19 and in the Navy which I am very proud of! So I guess he definitely learned how to be a good adult. That's what our job is as parents, to love our kids and teach them with tools we provide throughout their lives to grow up to be great adults.

[@e.cahill9594]

Thoughts of you Andrea, and I pray that Tom will be happy with April and the children will be happy

[@LiveLoveLaughxx2010]

I'm loving your perspective. We are at totally different places in our lives, yet I always learn something from you! Thanks for sharing!!!

[@maureencrawford6958]

love how open you are with your story. So encouraging that God provides

[@lizlane6490]

Thank you, Andrea--I love your testimony of the Lord's faithfulness! It made me cry! (in a good way!) It is so great that you and Tom made (and still make) choices that honored the Lord and TRUSTED Him even when you were not sure how things would work out--but you knew it was the right thing/s to do--and then, of course, the Lord provided. I am so thankful you shared this and encouraged my heart and and I am sure the hearts of many others! You are such a blessing, Andrea. One of my dear friends was over for coffee the other day and I told her about all your tinctures and showed her your channel and a snip from your video where you show all your herbs in the pantry! We decided to try to learn more about this and make tictures together! I just told another friend about you today and told her that she would love you! The Lord has given you such a sweet and peaceful countenance. Thanks for your ministry of blessing and encouragement through your channel! a sister in Christ, Liz in Lancaster County, PA

[@kerrijones719]

I love your attitude. Let what will be, just be and accept it. You are truly an inspiration. God bless. xx

[@Vanessa-nu3xk]

it's ok to put ads on your videos, we benefit because after they're over, we get to watch your fascinating videos!

[@grandmasewhappyhomestead187]

years ago when we went to visit relatives far away we found it cheaper as we had to have 2 rooms that we found a place to stay that had a buffet for breakfast. We figured that way the kids ate well and could pick what they wanted got juice, milk and were filled up we would of been a good amount at a restaurant for food. Thank you for your insight. My daughter watches as well she wants a large family one day.

[@leem200]

Wish you were still here. Miss you.

[@whyteowl3706]

Very thoughtful to put an index on the video. I watched it through. I really enjoy your videos.

[@Nzjjahs]

Andrea, I love you videos! I'm a mama to 6. We are told often we can't raise a family on the amount of money my DH makes, but we do! The Lord gives us just enough :) Blessings! Katie

[@thewoodenspoon9679]

I really enjoyed this video...I’m trying to work thru all of your videos. I must say I am impressed! You have a great way of doing things and I like your methods and ways of doing things. I like the way you think! This was inspiring! It honestly makes me see some things differently...

[@leeanncornell8305]

Your house looks nice, your children look happy and you are super organized, so I don't understand why people would bother you about your home? It.s your life to live, not theirs. : ) I enjoy your videos. : )

[@carmenv6630]

I love this video. We are a family of 9 and our income is about $1800 and God provides. We do not get government assistance and paying off our home in 5 years. My kids are healthy happy children.

[@ThatCrazyCatholicMom]

I just love you're channel. We are a homeschooling family with six kids. I love you're ideas and you heart. Thanks so much for sharing.

[@jeannieleasa1579]

God bless you for sharing. I especially love that you shared the story that Tom listens to The Holy Spirit lead him to not charge some people full price, etc. My family has been blessed by amsimilar man who works on my Mom's computer. He always only charges her very little or nothing. She has macular degeneration, is disabled and 82. She is barely able to see the computer screen, but she uses it to access reading materials for the blind in our state of Texas. If he didn't keep her computer going with Windows XP she couldn't get her audio book files to listen to. God blesses those who bless others. You have blessed me in your videos. 🙏