This is why any college and/or trust funds should be administered by a law firm or a bank.
@antoinettebates244 Жыл бұрын
It's because sometimes the fees associated with a law firm, bank, or insurance company can be prohibitive!!
@toriamansfield2999 Жыл бұрын
@@antoinettebates244 Better that than having the money scammed/stolen by "supposedly" trusted family members.
@maryjane4432 Жыл бұрын
@@antoinettebates244you can have a piece of paper written out or a will and notarized by anyone at the bank recording the signature making it legal. The notary is $25/$50. If you have a stash of money it’s worth it
@alfr1 Жыл бұрын
Banks are often total rip-offs.
@caseydemmings66669 ай бұрын
This story is fake
@tyffanypoudrier66108 ай бұрын
I'm glad that he got to finish college. They got himself a good job and I’m glad he exposed his evil stepfather, and that his mother’s divorce him like you said you gave him a chance he blew it. Good luck in the future.❤
@jesscadrod4218 Жыл бұрын
So Richard was never required to pay anyone back and got away with it. OP instead of protecting his mom by keeping it from her should have told her so she can decide what to do from the beginning! Just my opinion!
@brightlight8852 Жыл бұрын
OP's first action should have been to see an attorney and sue the step father until he pisses blood.
@robingibson6561 Жыл бұрын
Wow, pisses blood...love it, lol.😂
@delorescannon455 Жыл бұрын
That's what I'm talking about
@sherrimullins3555 Жыл бұрын
I would have sued Richard for stealing my trust fund
@narcissesfreeman2940 Жыл бұрын
Me too!
@delorescannon455 Жыл бұрын
Me 3
@arthurvasey Жыл бұрын
Was Richard’s surname Head? Rather appropriate!
@ThatDamnedGamer1 Жыл бұрын
Sadly it would be a waste of money, even if he won the lawsuit it doesn't mean that he will get any money. The dad has to have money in order to pay it.
@solidmoon8266 Жыл бұрын
@@ThatDamnedGamer1have an asset seizure request filed. Anybody that denies paying out a judgement can have a court order against them, allowing the person they owe, to just go in and seize everything and sell off everything till the debt is covered. If everything is seized and still doesn't cover the judgment, then the difference is still owed.
@katrinamoriarty Жыл бұрын
I think he was way too easy. The man should be in jail for theft and embezzlement.
@BIGBLOCK5022006 Жыл бұрын
I would've sold him off to a slow boat to China after I broke one of his legs so he couldn't run from his owner or debt.
@shadyside79 Жыл бұрын
Why didn't OP tell mom once he pulled the funding? This would have been my first call.
@badbunny6878 Жыл бұрын
Thank you thats exactly what i was thinking he's to worried about breaking his moms heart forget that if this man is capable of doing this image what else he does
@hsgcoun Жыл бұрын
Op is a bad son. His step father is a thief he had the proof but for months doesn’t tell her. Even when his Mom tells him she is financially stressed. He probably hates her too.
@barbaracarpenter1260 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the mother or father doesn't listen. They take the side of the spouse. I've never understood that myself..
@lordadman Жыл бұрын
Because the story isn't real. This isn't how people recollect their memories.
@davidboyd7347 Жыл бұрын
@diamonddiva3204 Жыл бұрын
OPs biggest mistake was not telling his mom straight away when he was logged onto the computer and had proof of richards shenanigans
@Pintosonic Жыл бұрын
OP is so stupid for not telling his mother what his stepdad did. Not only he let his stepdad steal his money but he probably stole his mother’s money too.
@delorescannon455 Жыл бұрын
Stuuuuuuuuuuupid
@icekingforyou Жыл бұрын
True so is op mom gave away funds
@maryjane4432 Жыл бұрын
Right it would’ve been rectified if he just spoke up
@Gregarious3 Жыл бұрын
And then why keep them out of bankruptcy on his pocket? Better to have let Mom be rescued early as possible.
@SH-qs7ee Жыл бұрын
Completely agree. "I found out my stepdad is a thief, manipulator and gambling addict, but I won't tell my mother any of this. Because I'm apparently okay with her living with a thieving, manipulating addict."
@joanns7007 Жыл бұрын
OPs mom is at fault too! Go to court!!!
@melvinmelvin9606 Жыл бұрын
OP has alot of harsh learning lessons in his future when it comes to people
@tiffanywalker8479 Жыл бұрын
Dude, should have should have told his mother early in. Why didn't he tell her once she came home?! Makes no sense...
@RavenKnighthawk Жыл бұрын
Oh hell no. I would have told Mom to call me after her meeting because this was important, almost an emergency and told her as soon as she called back.
@carolinagrammy2735 Жыл бұрын
Well from the title, I think he wants op's college fund for himself.
@sheliawaymon9023 Жыл бұрын
I think Richard wants to steal his money and spend it on himself. OP should listen to his friend. Now I'll listen to the rest of the story. OP did things the right way. But I wouldn't have given him any money. I would still ask Richard for the money back because OP's father wanted him to have it .
@tyffanypoudrier6610 Жыл бұрын
I would not have given him that check !
@naptime1900 Жыл бұрын
I hope he took pictures of the documents and send them to her.
@stephaniepedersen7919 Жыл бұрын
OP you should have never given Richard that cheque he would only use it for more gambling
@frederick6435 Жыл бұрын
That's what makes this story even more fake, rewarding the person who stole your trust fund...they sure allow lots of idiots into uni these days
@stephanierademacher7818 Жыл бұрын
1st he should have told his mom right away. Just in case he stole from her too and put her in a financial bind. When people try to protect someone's feelings they wind up making things worse.
@mimiwhite1963 Жыл бұрын
Op was too nice he should have pressed charges for theft of his trust fund
@jeanthree Жыл бұрын
OP's mom should also be charged with theft as well by giving Richard access to the fund
@delorescannon455 Жыл бұрын
They both belongs under the jail
@KathrynAthena8 ай бұрын
Wow. I was worried about oo not revealing what happened but damn that kid turned out to have some moves after all. Haha!
@siouxempirecoyote8174 Жыл бұрын
Not telling his mother, right away is the same as lying. He’s not helping himself or his mother by keeping it to himself. I never understand people for keeping their mouth shut in situation’s that are serious. This isn’t tattling it’s information she needs to know.
@TylerF35A Жыл бұрын
Dude probably committed grand larceny against OP, in addition to running his mouth and assaulting OP AND his mother. The fact that OP did not press charges is appalling, and quite frankly, if it were me, the guy would probably not have any teeth by the time I was through with him.
@Ser-w4n8 ай бұрын
Jake is completely correct and op is just a good man
@Nerdificent Жыл бұрын
OP should have let Richard fall on his own face, and not given him money for his debts. For a gambling addict, that will just enable them to continue.
@earltate56 Жыл бұрын
Someone needs to tell o.p. the story of "The frog and the scorpion ." Optimism doesn't change a person's character.
@tegz6928 ай бұрын
There is no way I would of been able to bite my tongue for as long as OP did.
@karimygirl5826 Жыл бұрын
9:13 this man is evil, Jake said it right.
@benglatt1389 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, not talking to his mom utterly wrecks the already flimsy suspension of disbelief.
@jefferypowell9885 Жыл бұрын
Make him play every dime back
@DameNickum Жыл бұрын
Richard is blowing smoke and trying to redirect everyone’s attention. He’s up to something.
@veldasnyder21448 ай бұрын
Jake is straight up telling it like it is don't trust him!
@LizA-q6o Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why OP is giving money to the stepfather,to help him when the stepfather stole OP’s money.I don’t know but this story sounds like a novela.
@jeanthree Жыл бұрын
OP should the police and charge the step.father for theft
@jackiehenry3372 Жыл бұрын
I truly blame OP's mom, she never listened to her son. I don't know how a parent is not aware of her children and the true interactions between them and current partner.
@kathyhallock2528 Жыл бұрын
The first thing I would have done was call his mom. Second file lawsuit for fraud and or embezzlement. Being The stepfather how did he even have access to his trust!
@hvymax Жыл бұрын
OP deserved to loose everything for not notifying mother and stopping this early on. OP is doubly stupid to give that prick a check. OP could help mom alone and let prick rot.
@frederick6435 Жыл бұрын
OP is a moron if this story is true, who rewards the criminal stealing from you??
@arleneclark6369 Жыл бұрын
At OP'S age why isn't he in control of the fund?? Usually at age 18 u get control over your own trust fund.
@ruthannbassuk626710 ай бұрын
You can set the trust fund at any age
@Rolletti21 Жыл бұрын
OP 🤔 Why give Richard money 🤡
@carolinagrammy2735 Жыл бұрын
What a complete piece of crap. I could never keep this information to myself like OP did. His Mom is so lucky that she never married this guy. OP is a great son and every mother should be so blessed.
@warrenstearns9068 Жыл бұрын
He should have told his mother right away after the funding was pulled, maybe all the money was not gone at that point and it likely would have exposed the addiction
@thed165 Жыл бұрын
As a mom, I would gladly suffer a broken heart than have some sleaze bag steal my kid’s future by squandering it.
@donadeavera9608 Жыл бұрын
I think Richard has thought of a way to sabotage op.
@east-endjustice7883 Жыл бұрын
I'd have sued, prosecuted, and tempted some desperate drug addicts to have an encounter with it that left it with lasting lesson.
@lucillepfundt6757 Жыл бұрын
I have a feeling that Jake is right about not trusting Richard. All those snide remarks were totally uncalled for. If it wasn't for social workers hundreds or maybe millions of abused or neglected kids would never be taken out of harms way.
@normanmerritt1395 Жыл бұрын
OP shouldn’t have given the stepdad a penny and should have filed charges for fraud. At the least left him in debt and worried about his next meal. He deserves to take residence under a bridge.
@happyscubadiverinca6856 Жыл бұрын
I think that this is a complete work of Fiction. Unbelievable.
@frederick6435 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree...fake
@scotthultin7769 Жыл бұрын
24👍's up MR RA thank you for sharing
@scotthultin7769 Жыл бұрын
Revenge on the somebody for doing something so horrendous to you is selfish and pity but I like your style
@moinschatz77710 ай бұрын
Why didnt OP just tell his mom that richard stopped the Fund? What richard did was illegal
@wendythompson1529 Жыл бұрын
I would not have let any of that go with the crap Richard pulled. Step dad is a thief.
@ZomBeeQueeen10 ай бұрын
You know when op didn’t immediate tell mom reminds me that the discontent on this channel is that stories are based on true stories or fully fictional. That was infuriating! 😂
@jefferypowell9885 Жыл бұрын
Tell her the truth
@lharchmage6908 Жыл бұрын
Op should sue Richards for the value of the trust fund.
@robingibson6561 Жыл бұрын
oh, yes. I totally agreed with that!
@Optronix117 Жыл бұрын
I doubt OP would see much of that money...
@jayshutman3101 Жыл бұрын
How appropriate. A throwaway account about a throwaway stepdad. 😈
@Omnis_Ra Жыл бұрын
How is this guy keep talking about being dissapointed at what happened and how glad he was about the "blessings" he has. Just tell your mom she would have done something
@robingibson6561 Жыл бұрын
yep, could have dumped his thieving a** sooner. OP has to recognize that his mother is a strong woman and can handle her business.
@millicentspears Жыл бұрын
Why didn't OP tell his mom initially when she asked about the trust fund?
@dorothyseals3678 Жыл бұрын
So you call that revenge giving him money
@anklebiterwoodworks2818 Жыл бұрын
OP played the long game and won. OP, take care of mom as she is certainly been there to take care of you. This is a mother/son relationship that needs to be protected. Hopefully mom doesn't go off the deep end being a sugar momma, however, at this point, id she ended up a sugar baby, I could not fault her for it. Momma bear has surely earned it--at least for a bit to just let loose. OP is an amazing son. Bar none.
@mattwho81 Жыл бұрын
Why in the name of sanity wouldn’t he tell his mom???
@philippapworth8020 Жыл бұрын
You should rename your channel: Narcissist R US! See how ordinary people get revenge on Narcissists, their flying monkeys and their twisted brand of logic. I've been really enjoying this channel mainly because I have been a victim of these sort of people in the past. Thank you for the content and keep the stories coming.
@scarletspie Жыл бұрын
If it were me I would have told my mom immediately. Nor give him a chance to use the money that my late father left for me. And he definitely wouldn't have gotten any money from me afterwards
@dustysimpson7864 Жыл бұрын
Why would you give him money. Makes you look bad. I regret wasting my time on this one.
@naturalPaths Жыл бұрын
With such poor judgment, one has to wonder what kind of counselor OP actually is.
@anthonyburke5656 Жыл бұрын
I’m constantly bewildered by “adults” who think they are entitled to be supported by parents or step parents.
@ricaivory6571 Жыл бұрын
Do you mean op? His dad literally saved the money for him. It's not entitlement to wanna use it for it's intended purpose.
@dixiecyrus8136 Жыл бұрын
Sooo you condone theft of inheritance??🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ by a piece of scum, no less?
@thispersondoesnotexist4953 Жыл бұрын
Defending the step father is weirdo but ok.
@Ahalaia11 ай бұрын
Personally if I was OPs mom I'd of kicked the stepdad to the curb long ago. I grew up with my dad belittling me (he claimed he was trying to use reverse psychology). If my husband started insulting my child I'd of said something about it, if it kept up they'd be gone. I will not put up with people insulting others repeatedly. I even set my kids, grandkids (when they were young) and great grandkids about this.
@ijeannie Жыл бұрын
Wait! This sorry excuse of a "man" steals money from a Trust Fund & he doesn't go to jail?! WTF?!
@juanitathompson68378 ай бұрын
Ya Richards bad news
@antoinettebates244 Жыл бұрын
WTH..Suck it up??? Why didn't OP tell his mother what was going on?? Richard is using him and his mother!!
@JudiLong-lb2vn Жыл бұрын
Jake's right. He wants something or gonna do something.probably his mom made Richard apologize.
@Ahalaia11 ай бұрын
I think Richard has something up his sleeve (at the first break in video). For someone to 'change' that quickly makes them sus. I kept wondering why OPs mom even married him.
@KDC256 Жыл бұрын
OP was a far better man than I would've been under the circumstances...I'd give him a single dollar towards helping him with his financial problems. Giving him a check, for any amount, would lead OP vulnerable to check fraud on Richard's part...he has a signed financial instrument that has OP's bank account number and his signature. If Richard is desperate enough, he'd have the means available for check fraud on his hands.
@lisawagner3415 Жыл бұрын
His mom could do no wrong in his eyes
@lawli56 Жыл бұрын
I think op should have spoken to his mother sooner and I most certainly wouldn't have given him money. He probably spent it on gambling. As for the company they should have pressed charges then perhaps he could have got help to overcome his addiction. As it stands I doubt he's changed or sought out help himself.
@leondillon8723 Жыл бұрын
A dimbulb's sob story.He would not have had these problems, if he took legal steps to control the fund after becoming an adult. Sounds like he DID NOT look into how the fund was set up.His 2nd mis take. His 3rd was not calling the police.The step-father committed a crime.
@paulbranch5454 Жыл бұрын
I think op went about this wrong 1st he should have told his mother about the trust fund being taken away then he should have told about the gambling because this man could have ruined his mother’s financial security with him not knowing about the marriage debt not being shared. I don’t care about revenge I would have protected my mom immediately when I found this stuff out.
@DavidM-tg1oy Жыл бұрын
Spending his stepson's trust fund on GAMBLING, while denying the young man a college degree...Does the word "EMBEZZLEMENT" come to mind? If the state prosecutor's office gets wind of this, possible bankruptcy would be the LEAST of the crook's problems.
@racle1573 Жыл бұрын
bro let his stepdad piss away his entire trust fund when he could have prevented it months in advance. Really hard to say who was the bigger dunce in this story.
@DCD762 Жыл бұрын
The part I don't understand is how in the heck did the stepdad was able to steal it. Under law only the one that set the fund and the fundee can have access to it. Not even his mother is allowed to touch it, so yeah I'm curious in how he was able to take it
@nilianstroy Жыл бұрын
many stories in this channel make absolutely no sense, things that are supposedly impossible to happen, happen...
@teristricklen2844 Жыл бұрын
OP was too easy on that thief!! I would not have written him a check to help him pay his debts off, but I realize he did that for his mom's sake. Richard deserved a stent in jail!!!
@SMDoktorPepper Жыл бұрын
His deceased father set up the college fund..the stepfather has no claim on it, nor can he touch it. What he did is fraud. Not even the mother would be allowee to touch it, let alone let someone else handle the fund
@Chiquibaby2804 Жыл бұрын
OP should’ve sued him. As soon as he found out truly exposing him to everyone. OP was too easy on him and he was horrible to OP since the beginning!
@glenpersinger3390 Жыл бұрын
Op,s mother was in affair fog and was high functioning asthmatic with asbergers syndrome. Her toxic autism prevented her from having codependency with her new husband. Narcissistic tendencies are rampant in the family dynamics.
@nickolaszissimos11896 ай бұрын
The only worth while revenge is exposing the truth and living one's best life.
@erikamccall67415 ай бұрын
How did he have control over the trust fund if they weren’t married with community property? That should be the moms and the sons only, so that has me scratching my head.
@karenshort3880 Жыл бұрын
I would call the lawyers and the police.
@KoreForever6 ай бұрын
Op is one of those good and naive people
@dorothylloyd1804 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon Mr Reddito
@matthowland1770 Жыл бұрын
He did it pretty good as it turns out. I wasn't so sure to start with.
@daviddennison1025 Жыл бұрын
There was no revenge in this. Op should have got his trust fund back. That money was from his father and his mother should have gave that back because she gave her husband control. I cannot understand how he was fine to let it go.
@Peril_Eyes7 ай бұрын
What kind of doormat is your mom to sit there and watch as that joker makes fun of her kids doesn't matter what age some idiot making fun of your kids intending to be genuinely hurtful is never gonna fly with me.
@priceprice_baby10 ай бұрын
15:45 this is the point where it becomes clear the story is BS. Why would he lie to his Mum about that
@crawdaddy20044 ай бұрын
I knew it was BS when the OP was summoned through an intercom…
@C.C_Creations Жыл бұрын
I won't have given Richard any money
@valeriegiunca601811 ай бұрын
I’m wondering if the step-father used that check for gambling or his depts. Interesting. He could have been sued for the trust fund misappropriation. ?
@kellymckinney50826 ай бұрын
The first thing OP should have done was call his mom. The second thing he should done contact a lawyer. He misappropriated the founds. His actions were illegal. When he found out the whole story, he should have confronted Richard. By saying nothing Richard was able to continue his illegal behavior, driving Richard deeper in debt and putting his mother at risk. She was partially at fault for letting Richard access to the OP's college funds.
@BrokenDiety1 Жыл бұрын
I'll take "things that never happened" for 400.
@ericoxner8333 Жыл бұрын
If I where the mother .I would have tolded him.Once I found out what he did.I would tell him he better learn to sleep with one eye open from now on!!!!
@chuckbaird249 Жыл бұрын
Jake is right about everything
@ajackson38643 ай бұрын
OP’s mother was being crazy. This man was constantly insulting her son in front of her. The man stole her son’s money and she had to think about what she was going to do. Ridiculous. OP’s mother had a lot to answer for in this case. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. People need to stop with these revenge plots. The best revenge is success. He attacked him. This could’ve gone so badly. He exposed him in front of his wife. People and their fragile egos are DANGEROUS. He should’ve told his mother and reported his theft to the police. The end.
@rosalynddelmonte264 ай бұрын
Op should have told his mother and never ever give a a gambler addicted person money. It would have better been given to this mom to help with the divorce and hiring an attorney to punish his step dad for the theft of his trust fund.