CHATTY GRWM | Some necessary life updates

[@leesawallace2411]

Sending you good thoughts. Pets are like kids, they need a schedule and if it needs to change a little, they will adapt.

[@laurenashley3708]

I 100% agree. The first year of a dog's life is like the first 20 years of a person's life all condensed into one. I think my changing jobs screwed up the routine I had with Kira for a little while, and that made things doubly hard. She just had her spay surgery this past Tuesday, so I'm hoping that once she's all recovered from that we'll be able to get back into a good routine that will give me a little more freedom!

[@angelicalippert981]

My heart goes to you Lauren. No one ever gets married thinking they will divorce in a few years, yet it is not easy nor does it stop being painful even when both parties are in agreement. I admire the serenity and how calm you are as talking through it. I cannot wish you anything else, but the hopes that you continue to stay strong and hopeful for the future; whatever your goals are at this time, please know that form the bottom of my heart, I wish you all the best and a whole lot of happiness because you deserve it! A big big E-hug goes to you all the way from Southwest Wisconsin.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Angelica ❤️❤️ I appreciate all of that so, so much.

[@tierrajo1]

I’m so sorry, Lauren. Sending you wishes for healing, peace and happiness.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Christina 🙏🏻❤️

[@paofacu]

Oh Lauren you have had so much going one. Thank you for sharing. Yay fir the new beauty setup and it has been good to be so busy! It’s probably helped you a lot. I love that you are in a good place right now. Thank goodness your parents are close!!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thanks, Paola 🤗 keeping busy has definitely helped, especially with the relationship stuff. I haven't been very lonely because I'm way too preoccupied trying to take care of the fluff ball 😆 I feel really fortunate that my Brittney and my parents are close and so supportive. I honestly don't know what I would do without them.

[@heatherk6445]

I went through a similar relationship situation a few years ago, and I think on some level it's difficult for people (ie friends/family/random internet strangers) to understand amicable breakups/divorce...like, when there isn't a "villain" people don't know how to direct their outrage and/or support. Today, I am very grateful that he and I found the way to heal on our own while preserving our friendship, so I just want offer a glimpse of hope from the future and say "stay positive" because you clearly have a good outlook on a challenging time in your life. Cuddle your puppy, make time for yourself when you can, and take it one day at a time!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Heather! That's so awesome that you were also able to resolve things amicably. I've had friends go through some really awful divorces that have caused rifts in other friendships and a lot of drama and I had zero desire to experience any of that. I think a lot of it comes down to being honest and transparent both with yourself and your partner, and not getting hung up in the blame game. If both parties can validate each other's experience and recognize that there is hurt on both sides, odds are you can more easily work through it and come out on the other side feeling empathy towards each other instead of resentment. And to your suggestion, I will give Kira an extra cuddle in your honor! 💜

[@sk20542]

Thank you. Sending positive thoughts to you and your busy puppy.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Shirley! They are much appreciated 🙏🏻

[@nadiamaldonado8925]

We missed you Lauren! I hope this is truly turning a corner for you. You always have us to vent to! I just bought a home and am learning to live alone so I know how you feel! It’s a scary yet awesome feeling!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Nadia 💜 Congratulations on your new home! I had lived alone for about 5 years before Ryan moved in, and while there were definitely some sleepless nights and lonely moments, it's generally super empowering to be self sufficient and have a space that's uniquely yours. I will also say, I have found there's no better pick-me-up than having a spontaneous dance party. One of the perks of living alone is being able to crank your favorite tunes and dance like an idiot without having to worry about anyone walking in and giving you a look 😆

[@ellenm4513]

Takes a lot of courage to be so vulnerable with the world. Take good care. I’m pulling for you!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you so much Ellen ❤️

[@meljstephan]

It's been a rough year for so many people. I wish you nothing but the best dealing with a lot of challenging transitions.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thanks, Melissa 🤗 I think the general consensus is that 2020 is a tough one. But hopefully a year that will give a lot of us clarity around what it is important and remind us how resilient we all are 💜

[@thingsbytheberk]

We are here for you Lauren ❤️

[@laurenashley3708]

Thanks, girl 💜 I really appreciate that a lot 🙏🏻

[@jenadams2576]

Im so sorry to hear about the sad news. That's a lot to handle. It sounds like you have some positive things even in the midst of sad and difficult things, but the sad and difficult things are still sad and difficult. I am glad that you are taking care of yourself and have people who can look out for you. That is so important. Sending love. ❤️

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Jen. I think that's a very accurate way to put it. A lot of life isn't black or white. Good change can still be uncomfortable and challenging. I'm definitely trying to take things one day at a time 💜

[@jenadams2576]

@@laurenashley3708 You got this. One day at a time, or one hour at a time can take some getting used to but I have found it very helpful during difficult times in my life. You won't always feel this way and each day is a little bit better/easier. You can do this! ❤️

[@smiljanasadzakov3106]

It has been quite a year for you, Lauren... But it's good to see you here again 🤗 I am wishing only good things for you moving forward in this new chapter in your life!

[@laurenashley3708]

Indeed it has, but I'm hoping once all the crazy settles down it'll all be for the better. I appreciate your well wishes so very much 🤗

[@cindyv8024]

So glad to see you back Lauren 😊 I have missed seeing you. I am so sorry to hear about the challenges you have been going through over the past year. I admire you and the way you are handling these challenges and am glad to hear that your separation from your husband is amicable and that you remain friends. Wishing you the best during this transition and as you start this next chapter. And as always, looking forward to your next video 😊

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Cindy! I have missed you guys a lot. I'm trying to keep the perspective that hardship and challenges are necessary parts of becoming the person we're meant to be, and that it will get easier. I'm really hoping that I'll be able to get some filming done this weekend so I'll have content for you soon!

[@addiewoodcroft]

Happy to see you back...it's never good to spread yourself too thin...Congratulations on your new puppy. Eventually it does get easier...patience is a virtue when it comes to having a puppy. To me, it sounds like 2020 has been a year of positive changes for you. It has certainly been a year to reflect on what is most important in life. 2021 can only be better!

[@laurenashley3708]

That is very true 😊 It’s definitely all changes for the better, I think it’s just a lot of change all at once. Some days are harder than others, but I know it’ll all get easier over the next couple of months. Thank you for your support and encouragement!

[@m0nsterL0ve24]

YOU come first. It’s all about self care. Don’t be too hard on yourself. I am so sorry to hear about your marriage. I wish you happiness and joy and lots of love.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you so much, Selena 🤗

[@maureenhansen8321]

I was just thinking about you yesterday Lauren, for some reason you were heavy on my heart. Now I know why and serendipitously here you are. Bless your heart Lauren, you have truly been through it and what a toll it must have been on you. My heart goes out to you, but it also am assured that you are going to be okay. One thing is for sure, life is constantly evolving ,changing and teaching us for greater good and happiness! You will always have my love and support sweet friend!!!💕💕💕

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you so much, Maureen! 💜 You are so right. Life is a journey and often the most difficult changes are the ones most necessary to help us become who we are meant to be. I appreciate your love and support so so much 🤗

[@marw5210]

I'm sorry you are going through this, but you seem ok about it all which is good. I hope you are doing ok 😊thank you for sharing with us. You are so strong 💜❤

[@laurenashley3708]

I’m definitely trying ❤️ I’m definitely fortunate that I have so many caring people in my life to help me through. And you all are included in that!

[@marw5210]

@@laurenashley3708 aww that's lovely! I'm glad you feel thay way xx

[@SamanthaMarchxo]

Oh gosh, girl ... I am so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of you

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Sam! I really appreciate that. Your videos definitely cheer me up and have been a good source of comfort. I feel bad that I don’t always have the ability to comment because I’m running around like a crazy person, but I definitely am still here ❤️

[@taraball1030]

Hugs to you!!! ❤❤

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@taraball1030]

@@laurenashley3708 😉

[@Yolli.Maceda]

I love when you post, I am sorry to hear about your marriage, but I am glad you are staying positive. 💛🧡💛🧡

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Yoandra! 🤗❤️❤️

[@kalm911chick9]

I'm sorry you're having such a rough year; seems like just about everyone is (except maybe for RawBeautyKristi). I was actually thinking about you last night; in a moment of midnight weakness I ordered the Nabla Trendmood box. The thing that pushed me over the edge was remembering how much you raved about Nabla eyeshadows; I'm looking forward to actually trying them now. Love and best wishes!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Lisa! I ended up ordering that box too (how could I resist?) so I hope it doesn't disappoint! They really do have a great eyeshadow formula, so if this new palette is like the rest I think you'll really enjoy it 😊

[@mariekevee4501]

I find it very admirable how you're handling all of that this year. Wishing you all the best in this new chapter of life!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@brynnehall1246]

Lauren you are one of my favorite KZbinrs, and this video is no exception. You are so relatable and genuine, and I admire your honesty and courage sharing these challenges you have had to face this year. Seeing your positivity and strength is very encouraging as I think many of us are also struggling with 2020. Do whatever you need to do to be in a better place with everything going on, we’ll be here whenever you’re ready 😊

[@laurenashley3708]

That truly is so comforting to hear ❤️ I appreciate your encouragement and support so much!

[@karissa3283]

Aww Lauren, I'm so sorry to hear that things have turned out this way! Good for you being able to balance your life - we miss you, but your health is much more important!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thanks, Karissa ❤️ I really miss you guys too. I’m hopeful though that things will only get easier with time.

[@mrtingle13]

I'm so glad you're staying positive through all of this Lauren, sending you lots of love and positive vibes!

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Tiffany! I’m trying. There definitely have been some nervous breakdown days (throw that time of the month in there and all bets are off lol) but for the most part I’m just taking things one day at a time and trying to stay optimistic!

[@SusanTB]

So sorry you’re dealing with so much during such a difficult time. I wish you the best and want you to know that we will be here when you start posting more regularly.

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you 💜 I appreciate that so much!

[@Cosmo26271]

Wow, you’ve been through a lot this year! Don’t worry, things will get better for you💕

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you! I’m trying to keep the perspective that it’s just the necessary pain of growing and changing, but that it’ll all be worth it in the end.

[@AmyPetrucci]

Love you ❤️

[@laurenashley3708]

Love you too Amy ❤️❤️❤️

[@VAPina1]

💜

[@laurenashley3708]

🤗

[@joshwife12]

I’m dying to be able to work and live in the US that’s always been my dream. It’s okay to break up and heal. I hope you get better 😊

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Tessa! 💜

[@JulieN01-01]

Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you.

[@laurenashley3708]

🤗❤️ thank you

[@YouAreTheMusicInMe11]

Sending good thoughts your way. I can't imagine the stress with everything going on. Thank you for sharing the small part of what is going on. Hugs

[@laurenashley3708]

Thank you, Emily! Hugs to you as well 🤗❤️

[@meljstephan]

This isn't fully pertinent, but I always have to laugh when you say that Kira did things like pee on the carpet because that's my sister's fiance's name 😂

[@laurenashley3708]

😂 that's too funny!