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@NuKim-ld1tw
@NuKim-ld1tw Жыл бұрын
Thank you for stopping to take the time to talk about OCD. My daughter who is 15 was just diagnosed with OCD and she is also Autistic. OCD is not cute or quirky or funny. OCD is not needing things to be a certain way or being a germaphobe. It is so much more devastating than that. To the point that intrusive thoughts interrupt you activities of daily living. Not showering or eating, not going to the bathroom because these thoughts run lose and repetitive in your brain. Washing your hands 10 times in a row to the point of raw bleeding skin. Not being able to focus on anything or answer a simple question such as are you hungry? It’s much worse than people think. Thank you again Sara, because your explanation was spot on! 💙
@CourtneyTunbridge79
@CourtneyTunbridge79 Жыл бұрын
So sorry your daughter is having to live with this illness, you sound like a very switched on parent that is trying to do all you can for your daughter, I really hope there is something out there that's able to help her. As a parent of 4 myself it's heartbreaking to see them go through something that you just can't jump in and fix or take the burden upon yourself instead. I totally agree with the sentiment of "it's not, cool and not fun" the amount of people that claim to have OCD just because they are anal about a couple of things truly gives me the shits, it's a real disorder and people actually suffer tremendously from it. Again thanks for mentioning your daughters plight, I really do hope she is able to recover or at the very least able to live a happy functioning life alongside her OCD. Take care. ❤
@HolldollMcG
@HolldollMcG Жыл бұрын
Exactly. That's why it's called a disorder; even mild forms are uncomfortable and disruptive. I'm sorry for the suffering your daughter surely goes through, and I hope you and she find ways to successfully cope with the hardship.
@paulmaccaroni
@paulmaccaroni Жыл бұрын
Very important to have these discussions as it'll help people (me included) open up about their experiences and know that they are not alone.
@hellaSwankkyToo
@hellaSwankkyToo Жыл бұрын
yup. you definitely get it. (+ i hate that for you + def for your daughter.) solidarity, love, + power to your kiddo. 🖤✊🏾
@shanr6109
@shanr6109 Жыл бұрын
It's absolutely horrible to have OCD and it only gets worse the older you get 😢 Well, that's true for me anyway. After 40, it got REAL BAD.
@ojeda5577
@ojeda5577 Жыл бұрын
The Murr purrs at the end was everything ❤🎉❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾🤗
@Comment_Momma
@Comment_Momma Жыл бұрын
Omg The Wedding Singer is my all- time favorite. I knew we'd make great friends 😂
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🤗
@ladygodieva6298
@ladygodieva6298 Жыл бұрын
Murray's little purr and mouth noises as he eats his Greenie is the ASMR I needed this morning. Funny how if humans make any mouth noises, I rage like the crashing of a thousand waves...but when animals do it? 🥰🥰
@hellaSwankkyToo
@hellaSwankkyToo Жыл бұрын
as someone whose had OCD since childhood thanks to medical trauma, i appreciate your handling of it. you described it w| near perfect accuracy + most importantly, respectfully (both of which are so rare for OCD); i deeply appreciate that! thank you. 🖤✊🏾
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome! ❤️ thanks for watching 😉
@Thecoltwar
@Thecoltwar Жыл бұрын
I just saw a TikTok clip and one of the guys from New Girl went to this school and has an incredible story about not being at school this day
@Whoeverheardof
@Whoeverheardof Жыл бұрын
Yep just saw that. Gave me the creeps. Ended up here.
@MrGleeiscool
@MrGleeiscool Жыл бұрын
thats why im watching this i didnt know anything about this case
@Debo_OG
@Debo_OG Жыл бұрын
As others in the comments have said, I want to thank you for clarifying OCD. As someone who has OCD it’s very frustrating when people make jokes about it, it’s a serious mental disorder that affects your life every single day!❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome ❤️
@NuKim-ld1tw
@NuKim-ld1tw Жыл бұрын
Yes, my daughter is on the Autism Spectrum and was diagnosed with OCD 3 months ago. That was after almost 6 months or more of symptoms really starting to stand out from her norm. After medication she is starting to come back to somewhat normalcy. The thoughts still come but are a little easier to break free. . My daughter and I watched an very good interview with Howie Mandel about his OCD and how he still struggles with it still. I understand the pain you go through. I hope you have found a way to cope and live your life to the fullest! 💙
@Debo_OG
@Debo_OG Жыл бұрын
@@NuKim-ld1tw thank you, it’s been a rather resent diagnosis for me as well, however I’m 50 🤦‍♀️😅 Much luck and love to you and your daughter! ❤️
@carolyn6288
@carolyn6288 Жыл бұрын
i remember watching a movie about this, Valerie Bertenelli played Laurie Dann, this is a very disturbing case
@jlkitz1775
@jlkitz1775 Жыл бұрын
Aaaarrrggghhh 😡🤬 her parents who clearly FAILED! More worried about their reputation & community standing after YEARS of wilfully ignoring her mental health issues - WOW 🤦🏾‍♀️
@laurareeves1757
@laurareeves1757 Жыл бұрын
The way you called Murray “Murrance” 😂😂. You’re my favorite Sara ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@mydesertrose3362
@mydesertrose3362 Жыл бұрын
The sound of crunching and purring is absolutely amazing ❤❤❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
He’s so sweet! ❤️🐾
@findersflippersreseller3050
@findersflippersreseller3050 Жыл бұрын
As someone that struggles with OCD, I’m so glad you cleared the confusion up regarding what it really is. It’s a very serious and debilitating mental disorder. If anyone on here struggles with OCD, therapy DOES help. A therapist can help sort through your thought processes and you can learn ways to manage it.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😉
@KB-ht2lg
@KB-ht2lg Жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about OCD! Ruminations are so complex and not at all what ppl think. Dry skin is a big thing for me. If i leave my lotion at home, its literally all I can think about. I'll eventually have a panic attack if i dont get lotion. Even hearing dry skin makes me compulsively need to put on lotion. Same thing with carmex. I have others, too, but those are the ones that most ppl notice are a bit off.
@Ceci21711
@Ceci21711 Жыл бұрын
Murray, your appearance is appreciated. "Say yay for cats!!!" One of my 3 cats is very talkative and HAS to have attention or won't stop talking...lol.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
❤️🐾
@crazycatlady7621
@crazycatlady7621 Жыл бұрын
Murray is beautiful! Thank you Sara for all you do. Mental health is a real issue that most people try to sweep under the rug.. Too embarrassed to have a son or daughter with a mental problem. Instead of fixing the problem, most families try to hide it because they worry what the neighbors think. Just so sad...this case could have been avoided.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching ❤️
@catmama54
@catmama54 Жыл бұрын
Murray is so cute. I can never get enough of cats. I miss mine so much
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
He’s the sweetest ❤️🐾
@lyndawithay3135
@lyndawithay3135 Жыл бұрын
The answer is always going to be always. We always want cat cameos. Love that ASMR. Big hugs. 💕🐾💕🐈‍⬛
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🐾
@BudgetBeauty24
@BudgetBeauty24 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for what you said about ocd. People just don’t get it and make light of it all the time. Hurts my heart because I suffer from it. Thankyou
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Chelsea ❤️
@Steampunkkids
@Steampunkkids Жыл бұрын
@Better Off Red As a clinician, I want to thank you for your thoughtful and respectful coverage of OCD in this video. If I was still a TA, I’d have my class watch your definition. You did very well. Thank you.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks you for the compliment! 😉 I researched quite a bit to make sure I got it right 😉
@Steampunkkids
@Steampunkkids Жыл бұрын
@@BetterOffRed Your hard work paid off. Very impressive!
@sarandipityinthestarssarah4076
@sarandipityinthestarssarah4076 Жыл бұрын
Murry is soo cute and the purr while eating the treat 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@muneerakhair
@muneerakhair Жыл бұрын
I need a channel just focused on Murray. Also, my grandparent's refusal to deal with my mother's schizophrenia led her to a lifetime of drug abuse, abusive of me and my siblings, and excuses for bad behavior.
@rebeccabentley4994
@rebeccabentley4994 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR BRINGING LIGHT TO OCD!!!! I have it and it’s no joke it’s not funny and anyone who truly has it isn’t laughing… joking…. Making lite of it!!!! It’s misery…. Draining… not fun at all!!!! And it’s infuriating to hear ppl joke or claim it who don’t really have it. They are perfectionists not ocd sufferers. But I digress thank u thank u thank u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!
@rebeccabentley4994
@rebeccabentley4994 Жыл бұрын
@Annie497 EXACTLY!!!!! I have been late to work lost jobs had lots of relationship issues. Especially romantic ones. I’m just now finding real tru love and acceptance but it’s been a long uphill battle. And that started in mid to late 30s. I have anxiety problems and other issues as well I believe the anxiety issues for the most part go hand in hand with ocd but I agree with the live a day in my life then make a joke or think it’s cute! Actually I would never allow it as I wouldn’t wish this on an enemy even! I also hate when ppl joke about bipolar for ppl who aren’t!! That shit isn’t funny either. And to battle both at once is extreme torture. My ocd overrides my bipolar I like to say. But when it reverses and my bipolar is overridden by ocd then I need help and need to be kept a close eye on. That shit has gotten serious. But everyone is different. And I’m glad that it’s stigma has lifted much more than it was however with everyone being so sensitive to everything it’s shocking how many ppl joke about having these things. I may joke at minimal times to keep from crying or breaking down but only with ppl I trust and know why I’m doing it
@samantha312314
@samantha312314 3 ай бұрын
2:34 thank you for acknowledging that OCD is not the cutesy “I’m neat and tidy” joke everyone makes it out to be… it is actually a hell within your own head!
@Meta.Empress
@Meta.Empress Жыл бұрын
Damn that was a doozy! Murray purring is very calming 😊💛
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾❤️
@missglittertron
@missglittertron Жыл бұрын
OF COURSE we want to see the handsome kitty! He's beautiful.
@Lindabacon9
@Lindabacon9 Жыл бұрын
😢
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾❤️
@bnlatin23
@bnlatin23 Жыл бұрын
Omg this woman needed to be institutionalized for life . Her poor ex boyfriend , ex husband and the children. It was apparent she was terrorizing everyone . Her parents suck , they knew she was mentally ill and did nothing , it was way beyond OCD. Why on earth would they let her babysit any kids ? She’s insane .
@shineizzle1817
@shineizzle1817 Жыл бұрын
This is all so sad and the worst part is that is was all so preventable. If she had gotten the right help when she was a kid none of this would probably had happend.
@bernardrichards9247
@bernardrichards9247 6 ай бұрын
WE ALWAYS WANNA SEE MURRAY and I’d totally watch his cat crunch ASMR
@samantha312314
@samantha312314 3 ай бұрын
I would watch a full video of him lol
@KatMerriam75
@KatMerriam75 Жыл бұрын
The stigma of mental health disorders frustrates me to no end. I have PTSD anxiety and depression. Im not ashamed. OMG her parents! Poor girl didn't have a chance
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Kat ❤️
@sarahwhite4906
@sarahwhite4906 Жыл бұрын
She murdered a child.
@RubySoulRaven
@RubySoulRaven Жыл бұрын
Any video that starts off with kitty kisses automatically has my heart
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾🤗
@Dawnnem
@Dawnnem Жыл бұрын
Awww sending hugs to your gorgeous Murray ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
❤️
@hopequay676
@hopequay676 Жыл бұрын
Yay, Crue Trime! I have been waiting for this. Next week Crue Trime happens on my birthday and i am just going to go ahead and assume it's made specially for me.😊
@missribbon
@missribbon Жыл бұрын
Yay! Happy birthday 🎉
@tigerkitten8352
@tigerkitten8352 Жыл бұрын
Happy early birthday! 🎂 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈
@terridemaio7334
@terridemaio7334 Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthdy
@donnaengel6413
@donnaengel6413 Жыл бұрын
Have a wonderful, happy birthday tomorrow. I hope your day is perfectly wonderful.🎉❤🎂 🥳 🍾
@Meaglovesyou18
@Meaglovesyou18 Жыл бұрын
Happy early Birthday!!!
@joanns7007
@joanns7007 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately the insurance was forced to pay. Her parents should have received jail time for accessory to murder
@Heather-Luper
@Heather-Luper Жыл бұрын
Murray munching a greenie makes me so happy.❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾❤️
@sanrey17
@sanrey17 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing OCD so respectfully. It’s truly hell in your own mind and rarely do you hear it referenced as anything other than a joke.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome. ❤️
@lindsaybrady1939
@lindsaybrady1939 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for clarifying OCD. People mistake perfectionism for it all the time and it makes me so frustrated. And I don’t even have OCD. lol
@juliecarter7962
@juliecarter7962 Жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Hope you're doing well! I'm excited for this, bc i have severe OCD, & some people really think it's just about being organized & clean, but that just barely scratches the surface. This sounds like a sad case..i mean they all are, duh lol but ya know what I mean. Thank you for explaining more about OCD, & for everything you do to get us videos. Your videos are one of the few things that help me focus on you, & not repeatedly praying, worrying, doing my rituals, etc...i mean obviously i still do, just not so bad..& i am heavily medicated lol. *repeats "everything's going to be ok" as my dogs watch & judge tf outta me*😂 if ya get it, ya get it lol. Hope you & everyone here have a great day!❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you Julie and thank you for sharing ❤️
@katlynjohnson2670
@katlynjohnson2670 Жыл бұрын
To think of how this all could have been avoided if she had been given help needed early on. I give props to her ex-husband for doing all he did to help her. Thank you for being so kind and educational when explaining OCD ❤️
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, thanks for watching katlyn! ❤️
@pamorama
@pamorama Жыл бұрын
This was literally a year after I moved from Highland Park, Illinois. I used to work on Winnetka Road in Winnetka and I’m very familiar with New Trier high school, and had some friends who are alumni from 1980 and thereabouts. But I have never heard this story!! She couldn’t have cried out for help more, and it kills me that her parents didn’t really have to pay for their own negligence.
@WakingMoon83
@WakingMoon83 Жыл бұрын
Omg I loved the Murry eating sounds at the end
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾❤️
@sarahdotson4531
@sarahdotson4531 Жыл бұрын
Valerie Bertinelli starred in a movie from the early 90s called 'Murder of Innocence' that is based on this case.
@saraburnett7013
@saraburnett7013 Жыл бұрын
I came to say this! It was a crazy movie!
@sarahdotson4531
@sarahdotson4531 Жыл бұрын
@@saraburnett7013 I haven't seen it since I was a kid, but it's on Prime. I know what I'm doing later! 😂
@amberr6589
@amberr6589 Жыл бұрын
Murray just made my day. Thank you for the purring crunch asmr.
@flipflop13
@flipflop13 Жыл бұрын
Hi hope you’re all ok , been thinking of you all 😢 Hope the fire smoke isn’t causing you to much trouble Take care look after yourself and thank you for always being entertaining no matter what’s going on in your life, you are appreciated x
@ktreznin5538
@ktreznin5538 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! The smoke was crazy here in Ottawa the past couple of days. Where are you?
@flipflop13
@flipflop13 Жыл бұрын
@@ktreznin5538hi I’m over the pond in the U K
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@marquettagunderson8820
@marquettagunderson8820 Жыл бұрын
Love the cat crunch amer 💜
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾🤣
@missribbon
@missribbon Жыл бұрын
A mayhem tale! Hi Murray ❤hope your heart is healing ok Sarah. X
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@Kdkdleeme
@Kdkdleeme Жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing up here even with an ache in your heart. Sending you light and comfort Sara ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@qwitchyy
@qwitchyy Жыл бұрын
I have BPD and I want to shed a little light on the grudge thing, only as it relates to my experience. It’s sometimes called “black and white thinking,” in that it’s hard to see people as nuanced complex beings. If someone does one thing you think is wrong, they’re now a bad person. You know it’s irrational, but it’s almost like that was your first impression of that person - you might be able to move past it, but you likely won’t forget it. It’s so bizarre bc I’ll see a name or username of someone I had a negative interaction with years ago, or just posts or comments I read and wasn’t involved in, and I remember. I remember that they’re an unsafe person for me. This is very rarely something I’ll voice to others, and much more rarely something I’ll say to the person themself. Because oftentimes it’s over something relatively silly. However, the bright side of this kind of thinking is that I don’t easily overlook red flags in others lol.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience
@debbiedrawsfunny
@debbiedrawsfunny Жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about OCD in a respectful yet totally chill relatable way- I know we as a society all joke about it when anyone is a little too obsessive or organized "I'm so OCD about this" and that is totally fine and meant to be lighthearted! Have a sense of humor, folks! I'm all for it :) Even in our house, we giggle about our own mental health struggles because we all have a dark sense of humor but also tons of empathy for each other. Our oldest child has struggled with OCD for last 7 years and we have witnessed firsthand the toll it has taken on them. It can truly be debilitating when anxiety and stress levels are high. OCD is actually just a super niche form of extreme anxiety. (I have a touch of too that comes out as "magical thinking" in times of high stress) Thankfully, with the right meds (prozac is a good one for this) and a wonderful therapist who specializes in OCD, they are getting lots of help and support and have really come a long way. I'm incredibly proud of the amazing human they are, full of love and empathy and for the hard work they've put into healing. All of that being said, what a piece of poo this Laurie Dann was and the parents?! Don't even get me started. Awful. Give Murray extra Greenies and ear scratches from me ;)
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks Debbie 😉
@ABeautfulMess
@ABeautfulMess Жыл бұрын
I wasnt diagnosed with bipolar until i was 30. Because my behavior thru out my life, my family didn't believe me. I purchased books so they would understand and be sble to support me..nope i was just trying to get attention. I moved to South Dakota and found support..dont talk to family
@brebradford288
@brebradford288 Жыл бұрын
I just got diagnosed at 40 with bipolar2. I understand but luckily most of my family understands and actually said it makes a lot of sense.
@zebralove2840
@zebralove2840 Жыл бұрын
I lived in Chicago at the time and remember watching the live coverage while they were trying to reach her inside that house. That to me was the beginning of the era of kids being attacked in schools. Head in the sand parenting doesn't work out so well.
@sarahpetrie6219
@sarahpetrie6219 10 ай бұрын
More Murray purrs please! He’s so cute!
@jeanneowens2738
@jeanneowens2738 6 ай бұрын
I was in high school just a few miles away in Skokie, IL when this happened. I heard during school that another school was being shot up a few miles away. But nothing happened other than rumors running amok, we were allowed to still move freely. School shootings are so common now & there are things put in place to protect kids that didn’t exist back then. It’s not just a problem since Columbine. It was always been there, in my life. And still….nothing has changed when it comes to how we deal with mental health. That’s so sad how we fail each other.
@PamelaH_HappyVibes
@PamelaH_HappyVibes Жыл бұрын
Thank you for ruining my day, Sara! Have a great week! Murray is so cute. ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You too!! 🤗
@s.s.3982
@s.s.3982 Жыл бұрын
as another person with OCD - you gave a great drive-by explainer about this condition that I really appreciated, and I also wanted to add that a much less understood element for some people is obsessions or compulsions around perfection that are more socially motivated. a lot of people with eating disorders are suffering from OCD, and some people who display patterns of attention-seeking are as well - basically, the same thought mechanism that might make one scratch or wash one spot on their body until it bled can also make them obsessively try to make their bodies perfect or punish themselves for not having the relationships they think they should (see: scrolling social media, looking at "happy" couples, and thinking there's something wrong with you because you're not one of them.) you could argue whether or not that's related to this case, but OCD is absolutely wild and I always feel compelled to try to help other people understand it!
@puppydog8977
@puppydog8977 Жыл бұрын
Sarah I have been trying to find you for ages after watching you on Facebook… I can rest now and enjoy your channel
@Bananamonkyvr
@Bananamonkyvr Жыл бұрын
Oh my! I love the Murray witten❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾😉
@robinhorner4936
@robinhorner4936 Жыл бұрын
What a cutie pie Murray is
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Isn’t he? 🐾❤️
@cynthiarainey8545
@cynthiarainey8545 Жыл бұрын
The parents were definitely negligent. It is a shame that the way people viewed them was more important than their daughter’s mental health. At that time, mental health was extremely misunderstood. We are better as a society now but still have a ways to go.
@TricksterWicked
@TricksterWicked Жыл бұрын
WHOA, okay, haven't even made it through the video yet, but I had to comment that I sincerely appreciate your explanation of OCD. I've got it, it sucks, it's hard to make people understand how debilitating it can be. I definitely know that the compulsions I get are illogical and won't actually help, but the obsessions make living a normal life impossible. This disorder has wrecked many of my relationships. Made it impossible to attend a traditional college (I graduated online!). Sometimes makes it hard to do daily things that others take for granted, like going to the grocery store or visiting friends. It's frustrating to try to confide in others that I *want* to act a particular way, but I have this obnoxious disorder that makes that a true battle...only to have them say something inane like, "Oh I know, I'm so OCD about my desk/purse/house/whatever." OCD can be messy. Chaotic. It's definitely not something you'd humble brag about. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk. Also thanks again, Sara. I'm a long-time subscriber and enjoy your particular storytelling style.
@DelilahDOOM2
@DelilahDOOM2 6 ай бұрын
As someone with BPD, I can confirm that we love hard & HATE harder. I wouldn't want to be on the bad side of someone with this mental illness since letting sleights against us or loved ones go is not in our nature. Also, we have a problem with aggressive disproportionate escalations. If someone is even a little bit mean to me or my loved ones, I am compelled to be the most vicious nightmare to them until they slink away from us.
@msacoto268
@msacoto268 Жыл бұрын
What a story. So sad she didn’t get the help she needed.
@jackieturner4144
@jackieturner4144 Жыл бұрын
my friends brother suffered with ocd when we were kids he would tap 3 times which graduated to knocking which was really annoying we would includ him with us girls cos he had no friends drove them nuts really sad illness xx
@losworld73
@losworld73 Жыл бұрын
I have OCD and my name is Lori (pronounced like hers) so this hit close. I don’t experience it to the degree she did but I feel her. There are several types or categories of OCD, such as contamination OCD and while we have intrusive thoughts, they aren’t thoughts we want to have. It’s sad Laurie decided to treat her harmful intrusive thoughts as one’s she should actually do. I wish her parents believed her about her disorder. My parents don’t know about mine but I have other disorders they refuse to believe so there’s no point in mentioning my OCD. My other disabilities affect my life in a greater way and it’s so important when we can have people that are supportive of us. It’s important also that our voices are elevated, that people listen to us and believe us when we share our stories and not just rely on outside voices to educate them. I wasn’t a fan of her things being called kooky but overall this was told with care. I appreciate that you made a point of saying people with OCD aren’t inherently dangerous people. Most people mention mental health disorders and conditions people have and don’t say they aren’t the cause of the crime and that could be dangerous for every people with the same things.
@pamelacurran5386
@pamelacurran5386 Жыл бұрын
Lori, thank you for sharing your story with us...I just wanted to point out that Laurie Dann was CLEARLY suffering from so much more than OCD. I think the OCD was a hiccup compared to the other problems she was dealing with. Her parents should have gotten her help, but from what Sara said, it sounds like the mother was suffering from some of her own mental issues (apple didn't fall far from that tree). I'm sorry you aren't able to share everything with your parents and I'm hoping you are getting help, that you have someone to talk to. I want you to know - You matter! You deserve a good life - please reach out to what programs are available in your area. Sending every wonderful thought and prayer to you that you get the support you need and find peace! ❤
@katladytrj5339
@katladytrj5339 Жыл бұрын
I try to repeat these looks with my makeup and just cant do it. Never looks good when im finished, but i love watching you do them.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Keep trying! 😘♥️
@amelialopez9941
@amelialopez9941 Жыл бұрын
Soooo happy to see Murray ❤🐾♥️🐾
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🐾❤️🐾❤️
@SmartMoufShirts
@SmartMoufShirts 7 ай бұрын
I imagine Russ showing up with Laurie at her parents' house, saying, "This one's broken!" But the fact that someone with her various issues being the progeny of a guy named "Norm" just cracks me up.
@grammytammy9004
@grammytammy9004 Жыл бұрын
This was a lifetime movie, staring Valerie Bertinelli and Peter Strauss. I was just telling my mom about this movie a few days ago. As always, great video. Hi Murray😻😻
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Tammy! 😉
@nicholasjanke3476
@nicholasjanke3476 Жыл бұрын
No Stephen Caffey played Valerie Bertinelli's "love interest" in Murder of Innocence. Peter Strauss was in a horror film which had a very similair plot line (Peter Strauss is married to a woman with mental problems played by Judith Light) so I think mabey that's how you confused them.
@tomfondly5266
@tomfondly5266 Жыл бұрын
We need more cat crunch ASMR.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🐾
@jeanieramsey8908
@jeanieramsey8908 Жыл бұрын
Can we please have more Murray ASMR? I for one would definitely sub to that! I used to have a poppet named Romeo, he slept on my head and purred me to sleep. I miss that. Loved your Laurie Dann coverage, my husband and I used watch a show on OCD, I can't remember the name of it, but this story reminded me of it. People with OCD really suffer and are usually stuck in rituals they desperately want out of. I obviously believe there was a lot more going on with Laurie that was undiagnosed. Maybe if she'd been alive today, where treatment is different...who knows. Thanks for the video and your makeup looked awesome!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Jeanie! 😘
@FateWorseThanDeath
@FateWorseThanDeath Жыл бұрын
Thaaaaaaaaaaaaank you for pointing this out about OCD. I have suffered with OCD since my youth, and yes I say suffer bc I wish I could talk myself out of doing them! It annoys the crap out of me when people say them being particular is being ocd.
@jenniferdignan8507
@jenniferdignan8507 Жыл бұрын
My husband has pretty bad ocd and I also hate when people say they have it because they are clean freaks or whatever. It's so much more than that.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome Jennifer 😉❤️
@supersirenia
@supersirenia Жыл бұрын
, why was the cat crunch ASMR my favorite part of the video LMAO you always do a fantastic job with the stories
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🐾 thanks so much for watching
@samanthabenavides4319
@samanthabenavides4319 Жыл бұрын
Now I got to get my cat some Greenies. She doesn't seem nearly as enthused with her treats as Murray!
@lynnbaileyrose
@lynnbaileyrose Жыл бұрын
yesssssss new crew trime *puts on cat ears headband*
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤗🤣
@sallykohorst8803
@sallykohorst8803 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for a new drama and see you next time. Loved your cat.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Sally 😉
@michellejoubert3412
@michellejoubert3412 Жыл бұрын
😻❤ Murray is so cute! ❤ I've never heard about this case, wow I don't even know what to say! 😲 so sad
@rebeccabentley4994
@rebeccabentley4994 Жыл бұрын
So glad ur back!!! Have missed u and terribly sorry about ur loss may y’all find comfort love and peace to heal!!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words ❤️🐾
@rmas1088
@rmas1088 Жыл бұрын
It is sad that the parents were blasé about their daughter and her needs. Just sad this all happened. Thank You for sharing this Sara! Much love
@lucyhouse
@lucyhouse Жыл бұрын
Hi Sara !! Hello Murray 😽 Thank You for sharing this awful case with us . This is a testament on how crucial mental health is . Especially for children. Your makeup is Fierce !! Have a wonderful week 💚
@carolyn6288
@carolyn6288 Жыл бұрын
i totally forgot to pay attention to the makeup lol, but i’m sure it looks great, Sara, you are naturally beautiful, God bless you🙏
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Lucy ❤️
@linds9461
@linds9461 Жыл бұрын
I feel so seen! Thank you so much for taking the time to explain OCD. It can be a living nightmare.
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome Lindsay! ❤️
@nancygreenfield212
@nancygreenfield212 Жыл бұрын
Being from Chicago, I knew this case well. If it wasn’t on the news here we had local talk shows: Donahue, Oprah, Jerry Springer picking up slack. But your telling of case is the best
@kylanNpeyton1
@kylanNpeyton1 Жыл бұрын
There is a lifetime movie about this.. Staring Valerie Bertanelli!!!❤❤❤
@jgheart3018
@jgheart3018 Жыл бұрын
You are so good at this story telling stuff!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank yooooou 😉
@dianehutchinson9257
@dianehutchinson9257 Жыл бұрын
Yay, it's Crue Trime Time! Hope you're doing well ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
❤️
@speedymcweeniemom8556
@speedymcweeniemom8556 Жыл бұрын
What a sweet & pretty kitty, I love them but can’t have because of allergies sadly 🐱
@ronijones6737
@ronijones6737 Жыл бұрын
The Cat Crunch at the end was cute! ❤
@elliec7677
@elliec7677 Жыл бұрын
So I’ve got an issue with your videos… I am so enamoured watching you apply your make up so gently that I end up having to rewind the vid to actually listen to the story 🥴😄🥰 your skin is perfect and it’s so relaxing just watching you work your magic with make up! I just wish I could come see what products you have in your beauty room 😊 love your videos 😉 Ellie from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 🇬🇧
@elliec7677
@elliec7677 Жыл бұрын
Btw…I should add that I’m not a creeper staring and drooling on myself while you apply make up… I just find it cathartic watching people apply it so wonderfully. It’s a talent 😊
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Ellie 🤭
@courtneyg678
@courtneyg678 Жыл бұрын
makeup is looking fierce….SLAY, SARA, SLAY💚
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thaaaanks Courtney 😘
@marmarsmandalas
@marmarsmandalas Жыл бұрын
The editing is hilarious tonight girl...thanks much needed 😂.
@kelleyrose2029
@kelleyrose2029 Жыл бұрын
I need a whole cat crunch asmr video now 😂
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@jackiedelia6805
@jackiedelia6805 Жыл бұрын
I came from Jamie French's channel after watching you two reviews Burlesque 💚
@emilyjaynerobinson
@emilyjaynerobinson 3 ай бұрын
@@jackiedelia6805 same! ❤️
@emilyjaynerobinson
@emilyjaynerobinson 3 ай бұрын
Same!
@momma1270
@momma1270 Жыл бұрын
here for the murray asmr ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🤣🐾
@Rev_Kim_Love
@Rev_Kim_Love Жыл бұрын
When I see you’ve posted my heart gets SO happy, it makes hearing the mess 🥺a bit easier 😬 Thank you for being you 😍❤️🤗
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support Kim 🤗
@janiquegarnett
@janiquegarnett Жыл бұрын
Hey!!! I’ve been waiting!! Murrance! Great story and look as usual!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks Janique! 🥰
@EricaMariah
@EricaMariah Жыл бұрын
Eeek I got new fur babies yesterday!! Also, so excited for new Crue Trime
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@trish247
@trish247 Жыл бұрын
Hi Murray!!! Such a cutie!!! ❤ Wow! Laurie was definitely in need of some meds 😮 Her parents were clearly in denial and totally should have gotten her some help. Excellent parenting skills!! 🙄
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Trish! 🤗
@stellafoufas6102
@stellafoufas6102 Жыл бұрын
Yay!!! I’m missed you last week, but good for you taking time for yourself!
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I appreciate your support 🥰
@TLZ78
@TLZ78 Жыл бұрын
😅You're so funny and I have so much fun listening to your take on this very dark subject. Thank you 🎉
@that_cosmic_witch
@that_cosmic_witch Жыл бұрын
I love your videos, you clearly research your content, OCD is a mental illness and can be debilitating...... and your also very funny, keep it up ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@AndreaLT520
@AndreaLT520 Жыл бұрын
Always here for a cat cameo in one of your terrible stories. ❤
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
The best! ❤️🐾
@candiceyoung8244
@candiceyoung8244 Жыл бұрын
How sad. She should have been helped way before my goodness. Thank you so much sweetheart ❤aw,hi to your preciou kitty 💜🐈🥰
@BetterOffRed
@BetterOffRed Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Candice! 😉
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