how to exit your lazy girl era ✨ be productive, motivated & disciplined

[@lavendaire]

What was your favorite takeaway from this video? For more productivity tips, watch this: 10 Top Tips for Healthy Productivity | bit.ly/3DP2KIS

[@jeanettenielsen8427]

It's a good video to feel motivated, but I will also say that you have to be aware of whether you are actually "lazy" or if you are struggling with something mentally that needs more than just "pulling yourself together". Sometimes being stuck has a deeper meaning.

[@biegebythesea6775]

yep! can also be dietary.

[@issy0613]

Turns out all this time I was just neurodivergent with ADHD 😂 No wonder I failed at life

[@imsheep123oinkoink]

​@@issy0613 an 18 yo here who a few months back discovered I quite possibly have adhd (not diagnosed tho)

[@ayakaimpacts]

right, and one of her most viewed videos talked about what to do when you're stuck for so long and the steps she shared were really helpful bc she acknowledged the hard parts of being in your lowest point. so while i understand what aileen's trying to say, being stuck mentally is a whole different obstacle itself and the word "lazy" feels undermining the hardships of overcoming a huge mental hurdle when you've mentally crashed and burnt.

[@DH-uw3us]

Yes, it could be depression.

[@marvinmayo3798]

For almost one year i battled depression and anxiety because when pandemic hits all that i used to do and routines change and also fear of the next what will happen next...until 2024 came i slowly accept and realized that episode of my life is not anymore in the present i must think positively and more productive and face the day with courage and faith that God is with me and my family...❤

[@August_2456]

Same OMG I have social anxiety and now I'm kinda focusing on myself

[@nataliefoxmartin]

Hi, your content is awesome!! I’m just here to remind everyone that “laziness” is a myth, most of the time there are underlying issues that are causing the perceived “laziness”, please don’t beat yourself up if you find yourself with no motivation. Most of the tips in this video are almost impossible for those of us who live with ADHD, depression or other mental health issues and neurodivergencies, so please don’t beat yourself up if you came here to get motivated but you find yourself being like, “if it were only so easy….”

[@shreyasibasu622]

Thank you for putting this out there :)

[@sadika7567]

Agreed, the word lazy is unhelpful and can be 'triggering' for someone with ADHD, as it was for me.

[@yacobeinauan9533]

I have been diagnosed long enough with ADHD fortunately to understand that i can only do what i can and not beat myself up over it if i can’t do something. Its not always easy but i manage. Last year it was so bad to the point i felt like i was nailed to the couch not being able to do any chores. If i didn’t feel like doing something i didn’t do it. Now i can more often than not motivate myself to do things even if i don’t want too at first. It takes time and practice. I got diagnosed 16 years ago as a kid but even i don’t always to know the answer.

[@luvcaitlin]

This video helped me to try to become better again. During the pandemic, I was very strict with how I planned my calendar (time-blocking), it did help however I felt so constricted. So now, I will try time-blocking and task batching again but not to do it too strictly so that I get tired. I've been recently becoming lazy and I want to change that. Another thing is I kept talking to myself so negatively that it is also one of the reasons why I'm lazy. So starting today (02/29), I will not let myself talk negatively about myself. I should talk to myself better. I should give myself credit. I will stop the negative self-talk because it is not helping anyone. I do not deserve that. My younger self does not deserve this. Thank you so much for this video!

[@aizamalubag-rondera1990]

I don't know but I just love hearing your voice...very caring,natural,loving and sincere..I am sure you are an intelligent and wise woman...

[@podcastsbytk]

I get positive energy whenever I watch your videos

[@Lilac-go3zd]

I haven't been watching KZbin lately. I'm so glad this video was the first one in my recommendations. I have been having a difficult time lately. This really helps. ❤ xoxo So grateful that Aileen decided to become a KZbinr. She has been a blessing for me since I was 14 years old now

[@imsheep123oinkoink]

I added this to watch later yesterday but now that you re-uploaded I see this as a sign to stop procrastinating and just watch the video

[@SalomaNS-f1v]

I'm so glad that I found your channel! I love how you always provide practical and realistic tips and advice. Unlike other channels whose thumbnails are realistic tips and showcase unrealistic content. I just have to say, that your channel is UNDERATTED FR >>... And tysm for posting this video..💗

[@joyce7413]

Wow, perfect timing for this video. It really resonates with me. Thank you so much ! I am grateful for your videos they've been helping me on my journey ❤️ sm❤

[@maya_dub]

How much on time is this video for me?! Aileen, thank you deeeeeply from my heart, love you su much! I hug you💙💙💙

[@PankajSharma-mo5hy]

This video is the way to go. I genuinely needed this. And I also request a ' how to stay consistent in anything you started ' video please. Thank you

[@pearl.moment]

I've been studying German for the past couple years, but this beginning of 2024 has been rough - so, I haven't been studying at all. Starting today I will resume my German podcasts and at the same time go out for a walk while I listen to it! I plan on doing this daily.

[@RiyaShah123]

this week i will make sure to keep my surroundings clean. i am a very messy person and my father keeps telling me that when you finish use of a particular thing, then immediately put that thing at its right place. i will try my best to implement. thankyou aileen xoxo.

[@Classygirl123]

00:02 Stop being lazy and become more motivated, productive, and disciplined. 01:44 Building a positive mindset and eliminating distractions to maximize productivity. 03:22 Keep all tools within arms reach for quick access and productivity 04:56 Maximize productivity with organization and efficient task management 06:36 Optimize workflow with time blocking and positive self-talk. 08:17 Set better boundaries and establish healthy lifestyle habits for productivity 09:58 Invest in self-care for better productivity 11:36 Celebrate all your small wins to stay motivated and persevere.

[@akuaron]

Loved the clips in the set boundaries part 🤣❣ Thanks for all the inspiration all these years Aileen 💕✨

[@Carkkii]

This video was just for me right now🙏 I’m expecting our baby #4 and I’ve feeling nausea and tired weeks now But hoping when first trimester is over I get my energy back again and start work out again💪

[@floorbos9544]

I'm going to eliminate distractions and practice positive self talk!:)

[@SomewhataMystery]

I agree everything that was said so true. Society is making energy so people feel not wanting to do anything has to be awaken don't think people are lazy but must get out of the rut and ignite the flame.

[@foreigntay_]

I love how she gets right into it

[@jaej34]

Thank you so much for this. I love that I needed to hear this today.

[@user-yd4yr5hr3s]

I created a goals daily journal to track my progress but haven’t started using it as of yet but the universe sending me the blessing of your video here I’m taking it as a friendly reminder to get with it already very much so 😊

[@LoopRomania]

Really needed this . Thank you so much 🤗🤗

[@munazzaobaida6326]

I literally got this video recommendation when I needed it the most.... it's super helpful...keep it up girl✨❤️

[@lavendaire]

Love that ✨✨

[@NoraTKD]

Great tips Aileen, thank you😊Happy Lunar New Year🐉

[@MichelleDodick-r2e]

Positive energy routine

[@naswanamoon6344]

I am going to start creating a positive energy routine this week!

[@lavendaire]

You got this!

[@kkatherinelin]

What if my distraction is my work 😭 I’m a social media manager so it’s my job to be on social media, how can i avoid straying from my tasks

[@NailaNa]

Ikrr this is also my question😢

[@deepanshujoshi2518]

Thank you so much Lavendaire

[@imlv2614]

Such a helpful ideas❤❤❤❤

[@johngomes4278]

Great advice and inspiring advice

[@johngomes4278]

This is one of the greatest channels on utube TV

[@johngomes4278]

What happened the other night?

[@TiffanyJensenIL]

Watching you dance with your sweet dog...I can so relate, our dog is a pro at boosting my mood :)

[@aishwariaceles9742]

Currently I'm in a bad season is what I feel... I lost my job 6 months ago. And now I'm pregnant with twins.. My husband is supportive but I'm very worried about future expenses... 😢😢

[@316swastishahi2]

Don't worry , you life is going to be beautiful and everything happens for a reason , trust the timing.

[@saiiorsu]

Thank You ❤ From India

[@therealmykag]

Always ask yourself if you’re eating and sleeping right! Are you drinking enough water? Hormones also fluctuate and it could be causing you fatigue. Remember to be kind to yourself and your body 💕

[@Rej0978]

*clicks one video* *subscribes right after watching one video*

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much love! welcome aboard💜

[@HeatherTeniteni]

Excellent video

[@ybell10]

omg that’s meeee

[@keshinitiwari5425]

Was this video reposted?

[@lavendaire]

Yes! Had to repost cause something was off lol

[@keshinitiwari5425]

@@lavendaire thanks! I was wondering if something was wrong on my end 😅

[@Sunandinimeda]

Small wins

[@herrmannknowell6339]

⭐ Promo'SM

[@Nurthecat]

This type of content feels toxic sometimes and incredibly repetitive…as others have commented, that “lazy” label feels very superficial to what the reality is for many people. Watching through the video, it all felt like sparkly slogans and what you “have” to do, most of which comes with privilege!

[@shreyasibasu622]

Not sure whether its a wise move to use the word "Lazy" in your title when you have so many viewers. Also, kind of annoyed with all these trendy "eras" people have been on about lately. Soft girl era, lazy girl era...etc. There's no such thing! Its all part of life :)

[@bbibbi4u]

I've been unproductive for a month now🥲 idk what to do since i don't have any to do right now🫥

[@Anjalimusic039]

Whoever is reading this, never give up. God is with you. 😇

[@leenazulkarnain6044]

I woke up this morning to set up a new routine which is to wake up early and make good breakfast for myself first before attending my kids' needs. As i sat down for my breakfast and look for a thing to watch, this is the first video that popped out 🎉 thank you for thisss ❤❤❤

[@AoHaruRide473]

I extremely needed this!!!!! 😭😭 I have been lazy and unproductive for 2-3 days 😥. It feels like I manifested 🤧🤧. Tysm ❤️❤️.

[@Rishita_Naik]

2-3 days only. I have been lazy from past 4-5 months 😞😭

[@pareekshithasuvarna2235]

Months... I've been lazy for years..🥲😂​@@Rishita_Naik

[@SARANYAVINOD-v1u]

For the last year 😂

[@aysams2]

@@SARANYAVINOD-v1u Me for the last 5 years, but not anymore

[@Bremah]

same 😭😭

[@yuliayasni17]

Sometimes i just feel low motivation in life and easy to get distraction when learning, but after watch this i'm feel so full of motivation, and i promise to myself will end my lazy girl era

[@Ryeargh]

Update

[@tatesmile99]

this dropped at the perfect time omg thanks😂❤

[@arestaquilla]

I haven't work on my thesis for 5 days and I'm just watching youtube these days, thank u so much for this positive vibes aileen!

[@SaintOrCinema]

The wisdom and clarity you radiate is like a physical breath of fresh air. THANK YOU 🙏🏻🌸

[@KUNDALINILOTUS]

this week, I will start a positive energy routine and start tracking myself.

[@xtinriver143]

i love the boundaries one! need to learn to say NO more so i can YES to whats important to me. ❤

[@Raisagil]

Having moved a lot in different time zones, it gets challenging to set a healthy circadian rhythm. I’ve been in my night owl season far longer than I want to, so this has become one of my lifetime system goals.

[@starlight2381]

I am going to practice positive talk

[@sparklinstarz8301]

This came right on time, I’ve been struggling

[@2320candy]

since the last year im doing more excercise and i can tell you that i have a better health :D , although of being a thin person isnt always mean that we are healthy, i try to be more calm about some things that i cant control , i like to do kpop dance covers (maybe im publishing if im brave hehe) , i learning to sing and others things , i want to share to the world :). Thanks for this advices

[@lavendaire]

thank YOU for being here! ♡

[@ArdamArdam-d9x]

When I find my self lazy I just really push my self to stop like you have things to do stop waisting time on social media watching some dog video how about drawing doing your hobby and i just put my phone away and more you do it even if you see it you won't scroll on your phone

[@SreejithaSaturn]

i've been. lazy, unmotivated, unproductive and bubbled inside my comfort zone for many months and theres been something which made e realise that i need to change and i looked up and found your account, from tomorrow ill be starting an early morning with exercise to go down weight, eat healthy, drink healthy, drink enough water and make a routine of this healthy life. along with it i want to start data structures the one i struggle with most and the one which is the most necessary to get a job in IT. whenever i feel lazy im going to count to 10 and start doing something before i reach the last number 10 or else imma give myself a cut of cheat day in the week

[@yacobeinauan9533]

I hope it goes well for you and in case it doesn’t work out, please don’t be hard on yourself okay? You’re doing amazing either way!!

[@SreejithaSaturn]

@@yacobeinauan9533 thank youuu this made my dayyy

[@dilrabomadaminova-nm4ph]

hiding phone in drawer

[@imlv2614]

needed it, thank youuuu so much❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nursulum3620]

Signing up for gym or start doing Pilates every day, waking up at 9 am daily, journaling

[@aprilking4058]

What a inspiration video. I have been feeling in a "lazy era" for a while . But your words of encouragement are motivating me thanks

[@nancypenaloza974]

Aileen Loving The Video! Have A Wonderful Week And An Amazing Month Of February!! ✨✨✨✨

[@Nowhatsgoingon11222]

I’ve been feeling off since I started going to university after 2 years of not studying and then after being 43 days in the Philippines and coming back home to Italy probably jet lag has affected me so hard but it’s been already more than a month. I’ve been feeling so irritated by every little thing, anxiety kept increasing and glad my mum found somebody who has a psychologist as a friend so I can start my sessions soon to heal this internal struggles that I have even though I meditate and exercise and journal… I need to be the best version of myself before 2025

[@journeytolearn354]

It's gives me a lot of energy to transform myself to this to that I'm glad to found your channel. Lots of love❤

[@keikot.1249]

And when I need support, you are always here to give the best tips! Thank you for this video I need right now.

[@Happy_Girl_101.]

I loved the cute funny clips in the "set boundaries" part 😄💜

[@Денис-к7р8п]

This video is really useful for me. Thank you very much. You inspired me and now I'm going to go for a walk to get into a positive mindset ❤

[@nao-bf7ko]

I MANIFESTED THIS VIDEO

[@girlandherviolin]

Create a morning routine and night routine!

[@annoar9776]

for the first time I have ordered your artist of life workbook for me and a friend, so we can hold each other accountable and also the weekly calender just for myself, so I can stay motivated and productive. I'm so excited for when the calender arrives, because I only ordered it last week, because my current calender doesn't really work for me even tho it's an amazing calender. but I think I need an other system to keep myself on track. so thank you, Aileen, for everything you do!

[@motivationwithpreeta]

' you're lazy?..... Aw no- you're privileged!'

[@OmeraAhmed-wo9ct]

My fav tip was setting boundaries and knowing what is keeping me distracted 😊

[@tanishahanamsagar5008]

Thank you so much,Aileen di❤ I am in the first year of college and it’s been a month. My college has started. I watched your video during my vacations as well, but I just ignored this video because it was my vacation and now I seriously watched the whole video by actually doing walking, multitasking by watching your video .😂 And I have got a clear idea that what I must do, thank you so much❤❤❤

[@ghaida5844]

Thank U SM, you helped & inspired me

[@meli1368]

Truly golden, im going through your videos and my jaw is dropping, why have I not seen these videos before on your channel? Perhaps divine timing, I was suppose to find them at this moment. Thank you

[@Quirkyy_10]

Hiii...i have been watching your videos from a long time now....and have started doing the things as per your advice but there's only one problem that is i guess a common problem indeed...and that is the sleep schedule....i hope i can get to see a video related to sleep schedule...lots of love!!!! keep growing!!!

[@fisayosuleiman]

How am I supposed to go on a walk if I’m not motivated to get out of bed?!?? It’s like trying to bake a cake without an oven

[@buddhistdivinemothergreentara]

Oh dear friend❤ you are such a beautiful soul❤ thank you so much for your inspiration❤❤ i appreciate your precious time and you are my precious soul sister❤

[@harmanjitkaurbadwal8454]

Start eating healthy and focus on things that are most important

[@itim1234]

Time batching for FLOW stage ❤

[@AnnoyedRockFormation-ff4sw]

I am feeling very well after listening to this😊🤗, May God bless you❤

[@cuteghhh]

Before I used to be lazy but now that's lots of work to do so I start more diligent.

[@emma_coraline]

im sorry i was day dreaming all the video so yeah i need to rewatch it hahaha

[@raghad9147]

I listened to this while I was walking, and it helped me to get the energy that l need z

[@unknown-tp7fn]

mam which camera do you use for your vlogging

[@salimdatoo1793]

Such a beautiful dog what's the breed?

[@MUSKAN62122]

Love you truly ❣️

[@Binoworld8]

Aileen what kind of beauty and wisdom and positive power u have to shine this way!❤✨

[@MichelleDodick-r2e]

Tracking my habits

[@pdbfbera-zt3vl]

Thank you very much 👍🙏

[@BrianaisGoingPlaces]

I always have a goal of tracking habits but I never stick to it! I want to focus on adding that.

[@ClaireLeslie-eu4tl]

Hit the nail on the head ❤

[@berrylife]

When ever I feel lazy I watch your videos then I feel energized and motivating to do anything This week I will: track my small daily habits and celebrate these achievements 💕 also trying to think more positively throughout my day ✨✨thank you so much keep going 🧡💛

[@therealmykag]

I believe laziness is an outdated term that came from ignorance of mental health. Someone who lacks desire to take care of themselves or their surroundings is someone in need of help, and that’s okay. Sure there are people who want others to cater to their every whim, but I would more so refer to those people as entitled.

[@DH-uw3us]

This.

[@prachishahu3718]

I love following your video , thank you for always coming up with great & life changing content . Love from India❤❤❤❤

[@foolsgirl]

i love you sm

[@Demjr.]

I'm a guy though