LAWS AFFECTING FOREIGNERS - What The Safe Spaces Law REALLY Is

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The Filipina Pea

Жыл бұрын

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I always try to cover laws affecting foreigners, and recently the Safe Spaces Act in the Philippines has been generating controversy - but why? Is it really something to be feared, or is it just 'feel good ' legislation with no impact? Will it end up affecting the dating scene in the Philippines, or end up as one of the forgotten laws on the books? Perhaps an interview with attorney Gracey can clear things up!
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@telesniper2
@telesniper2 Жыл бұрын
People shouldn't worry about this. I have a long story, but I did have a false accusation by some random hooker that I never seen before because she was trying to defend her foreigner customer who sucker punched me in an gogo bar. She basically said I sexually assaulted (grabbed her a$$) her, but she had no proof. I had proof of him punching me in the bar (CCTV tape). Basically she couldn't prove anything and it was readily apparent she was making the whole thing up an effort to get me to drop charges against the crazy foreigner. I should add the attacker brought in multiple people to support this hookers false testimony. In the end the PNP didn't even file any charges against me. The crazy foreigner got locked up though, LOL. Ok, so that's a case of a woman straight up saying I grabbed her a$$, and they didn't press charges, and she even had multiple people lying in support of her (bearing false witness). So guys don't worry about this law if you're not the type of guy that follows women around with seriously aggressive, vulgar and menacing behavior where it's clear you're seriously out of line. Honestly this law was made up to handle people that can't behave themselves, not to set people up. Don't have PTSD because of American Feminists. Go to the Philippines and claim spiritual victory over them by finding the love of your life.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I’m still waiting for the very first foreigner to show that they were abused by this law 😊
@rapier1954
@rapier1954 10 ай бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Perception is important and this law is one reason why I have stroked your country off my list as a destination. I have been around Asia and lived there for 3 years in the past and I am from N Am and this is starting down a slippery slope that has been done in some Western countries and has led to abuse.
@rapier1954
@rapier1954 10 ай бұрын
IF you are innocent and you prove it your reputation will be ruined anyway. It will be abused by vindictive people and they are not people who act rationally and sure you will be proven innocent but your reputation will be ruined and you have the aggravation of this going to court and there will be costs.
@almoemason
@almoemason 8 ай бұрын
If her customer would have been a Filipino your story would be a lot different.
@briandumont7272
@briandumont7272 Жыл бұрын
The paranoia from Westerners is understandable. I can nod, smile and say hello to a woman (ad I do everyone, man or woman jist to be friendly and polite) and be called a creep or get "the look". That doesn't happen in Filipina culture, but the fear in the West about what is harassment and what is not is real. Women think anything is harassment for some reason, even a simple hello.
@daemonsw77
@daemonsw77 Жыл бұрын
the law doesnt confuse what harassment is tho, just the ignorant
@TheHartsook69
@TheHartsook69 Жыл бұрын
A long time ago I was working in a store and I was told to go outside and get carts I would was scheduled at a certain time they scheduled it I didn't well the person who work there would come in to go to work I never said anything to her never touched her anything well a few weeks later I was called in the office by the general manager he accused me of sexual harassment I didn't know what he was talking about and he says you don't have to say anything or do anything to anybody you can just look at somebody and it is considered harassment I didn't lose my job but I could have a few weeks later she accused someone else of sexual harassment it turned out she was just a nut and they ended up firing her but the point is you can be accused of sexual harassment for nothing just someone thinking or feeling things and that's not right and that's probably what a lot of westerners are afraid of love your stuff p
@DIMP11
@DIMP11 Жыл бұрын
Depends. It is only harassment if they don't like the guy, be it in Philippines or in Western countries. If he looks like Tom Cruise, Idris Elba or Sam Milby he can get away with a lot more than a fat or ugly guy.
@KutWrite
@KutWrite Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's not the US... yet.
@lookissjaxin
@lookissjaxin Жыл бұрын
Not if you’re handsome 😎.
@phonetica
@phonetica Жыл бұрын
Which western feminist organizations are responsible for funding the politicians who advocated and supported this western law?
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Good to see someone asking the right question - WHY was this law passed? 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 The law is vague, and almost all the ‘crimes’ it mentions were already covered under existing laws. Filipinas aren’t feminists, and we don’t go around looking to charge or sue people (just the opposite, in fact), and we don’t run to the authorities every time someone ‘hurts our feelings’. The fact is, most Filipinas will never even hear of this law. Some people have suggested that it was put in place specifically to extort money from foreigners, or will be used by Filipinas seeking revenge. In my opinion, that’s not the case - why would a Filipina invoke a law that’s basically just a parking ticket? There are much easier ways to cause a LOT of trouble for a foreigner by claiming sexual assault, or that they ‘touched her children’’, using laws that have been on the books for decades. I can understand why men are suspicious of being wrongfully accused of bad behavior - I hear about it, read about it, and watch what’s going on in the west. But this particular law has no ‘teeth’. Why worry about a Filipina having a toothpick she could stick you with, when she already has a 9mm that she’s had for years? As for the government, that claim is almost silly - it will cost a lot more than $20-$200 for the government to prosecute a year-long case! So the question is - who wanted this law passed, and why? As some people have wondered, is this “the thin tip of the wedge” of progressive ideology being slipped into our culture? THAT’S what we need to worry about, not someone saying that you “looked at them funny”. Kudos for seeing the big picture, Phonetica 👍
@phonetica
@phonetica Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea there are countless tax-payer funded western feminist organizations as well as others funded by deep pocket globalists who purport to be "advocacy" groups for human sex trafficking, slavery, smuggling, etc. But they always have an ulterior motive. They use these wedge issues to get their foot in the door of other cultures to lobby foreign governments to pass laws influenced by the west under the pretense of "human rights". The west divided the Philippines politically over Duterte's war on drugs. Now the west will pit the Filipino women and men against each other. This sounds EXACTLY like one of those laws; meant to create a war between the sexes as they have in the west. Why? Who knows, but single lonely people are good for consumer spending. Next will be light skin vs dark skin, then class warfare. A house divided (by the west) cannot stand (against the west).
@daddyrich6374
@daddyrich6374 Жыл бұрын
Wow, someone who gets it. Ask the right questions and you will see what is actually going on or the true intentions.
@KT_the_1st
@KT_the_1st Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Ahh the feminists have arrived. Could this now be the wave of the future.. hmmm sound like wholesale war on men and masculinity in all its forms. The language of that new law wreaks of to western feminist mind. It would be interesting observing the impact of this new law...
@tybaltyrant1
@tybaltyrant1 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea well said, sounds like it won't l affect anyone at street level... Yet. Depends how much momentum this trend gets. In Australia we have the same problem whereby parliament passes stacks of new laws to address issues... That's their solution to everything. But these laws stay on the books and are difficult to revoke. Society gradually becomes influenced by these so called deceptively titled "safe space" laws making their way into workplaces through HR training/compliance, then the attitude of the people starts to change. I hope your beautiful culture is not eroded by the woke mind virus.
@Juice17408
@Juice17408 Жыл бұрын
Sorry Pea I agree with the other men here, the Philippines is heading down a slippery slope. These laws are exactly why a lot of men are coming to the Philippines to get away from this ridiculous laws.
@KutWrite
@KutWrite Жыл бұрын
Politicians the world around love this kind of law. It increases their power, and the fines always go up. ka-CHING! In the Pinas, there's no jury. It's just a judge.
@kasperkjrsgaard1447
@kasperkjrsgaard1447 Жыл бұрын
It’s only a judge in the US too. Is that a liability? Are men hunted there too. Is it a problem? Is it so hard to use your common sense and behave in a decent matter?
@waynewes9466
@waynewes9466 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been going tot he philippines for 12 years if you act respectful you’ll never have an issue if you want to be a predator then beware! I’ve seen plenty of men who should be arrested not once have I seen it abused. It’s not their culture
@markfire1923
@markfire1923 Жыл бұрын
These are the initial steps towards what we see now in America.... for sure it will be used falsely....just to give a hard time to a boy friend husband...
@globalwanderer360
@globalwanderer360 Жыл бұрын
As I said, thin end of the wedge, slippery slope, same thing. There's also the expression boiling a frog slowly so it doesn't jump out of the pan. That's what happened in the West
@picadosinferno
@picadosinferno Жыл бұрын
The Philippines is sounding more and more like the US, it just goes downhill from here.
@paulnodalo9130
@paulnodalo9130 Жыл бұрын
Ticket in July-August 2022 this year from Europe or UK £4000 for round trip ticket. When you arrive there after min. 24 hour flight you have to mask up everywhere. In the airport on the plane ,walking in the street in malls and in hotels. and also masked up in all transport taxis bus jeepney etc. Prices everywhere very expensive compared to west and many bars/restaurants businesses closed down expect the big malls. Now we have the new mega woke laws. More fun in the Philippines ??!
@picadosinferno
@picadosinferno Жыл бұрын
@@paulnodalo9130 not fun anymore
@moejohnson8459
@moejohnson8459 Жыл бұрын
Yup Felipe. I'll pass man. With these women being as Pea has told and shown us it's not worth it to even be there now.
@tpoppy9303
@tpoppy9303 Жыл бұрын
If more dudes were acting right. then these laws wouldnt exist. I think these happened because of foreigners.
@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
@picadosinferno , except in most of USA they don't send you to jail for some of the stuff that may be unintentional or not serious.
@paulstan9828
@paulstan9828 Жыл бұрын
Laws like that are scary. There are ones similar to that in the states. Almost makes you want to just walk straight ahead and do not make eye contact with anyone. I had a woman supervisor pat me on the butt one time. It was the best work day of my life. 👍😁
@clydekimsey7503
@clydekimsey7503 Жыл бұрын
Yes, but a double standard
@paulstan9828
@paulstan9828 Жыл бұрын
@@clydekimsey7503 Very true.
@georgewilliams4333
@georgewilliams4333 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@mcalexandergold
@mcalexandergold Жыл бұрын
I've been groped by enough women to get sick of it. Aggressive ugly western women pinching my ass or getting a sneaky crotch grab. It gets old my guy. That being said words are harmless and this law is ridiculous 🙄
@danwillis1389
@danwillis1389 Жыл бұрын
Sorry, but I’m against that because of the double standards. You are saying that it’s okay for men to get fired for doing the same thing
@MrWaterbugdesign
@MrWaterbugdesign Жыл бұрын
The Filipina doesn't get the fine so she has no financial incentive? So no way would a Filipina blackmail a guy by threatening a false claim backed by a few of her friends? Pretty much every foreigner would pay the blackmail. There are endless stories of foreigners breaking up with a Filipina and she goes right to "I'm going to get you deported!" These laws give Filipinas a lot more power to blackmail foreigners. "Foreigners have nothing to worry about...as long as they continue to act nicely." And "nicely" is determined by the Filipina. Only 2 women can have this "no problem" perspective.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
If a Filipina was going to blackmail a foreigner, it would be rather silly to use a law with a $20 fine (that she doesn’t get) and no jail time. Wouldn’t she accuse you of rape, molestation, assault, or touching her children, instead of ‘he looked at me funny’? Yup, it’s a bad law and a step in the wrong direction, but it’s not likely to have any effect on foreigners (or locals). But as I said, time will tell 👍 I’ll be waiting right here to hear from all the men who’ve been charged with this … 😂
@markmielke5283
@markmielke5283 Жыл бұрын
Yes her take on this new law is classically "female". I see red flags everywhere in this video.
@-BigIi-
@-BigIi- Жыл бұрын
Yes TFP, but the hassle, if one is on holiday, becomes a bit like the bullet in the luggage scam where the expectation is that the foreigner feels threatened enough and would rather pay the scammers than spend his short holiday period fighting a bogus but nonetheless bothersome accusation. It seems to me that it can still be utilized as a way to blackmail foreigners, hoping they don't let it get to the law-level and thus pay something upfront.
@-BigIi-
@-BigIi- Жыл бұрын
I agree with you to a great extent Water Bug. There is enough evidence to show that this can be used against foreigners by cunning locals.
@mickymouze1224
@mickymouze1224 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Couldn't they use it to keep a tourist in the country, if there's a case against you isn't a Hold Departure Order issued preventing you from leaving the country?
@randyguidry4958
@randyguidry4958 Жыл бұрын
It's good to see the lovely Gracie again. Pea, I understand why western guys are freaking out over this law. It is a mirror of laws passed here in the USA years ago. It seemed innocuous and reasonable here but, over time it's been used against men who simply were trying to meet women. For just saying things like "good morning you look nice today" to a woman in her workplace. It is why a lot of guys no longer even try to flirt with women here in the states. I'm not saying that this will also happen in the PI but it absolutely happened here. I myself have gotten verbally reprimanded for saying Maam and opening a door for a woman, That's how bad it has gotten here. I do these things anyway because I was raised to show respect to women. Sadly, things no longer make sense here. I hope you are right and this won't have the same effect there. Common courtesy and common sense are sadly dead here in the states. Good subject though.
@clydekimsey7503
@clydekimsey7503 Жыл бұрын
Who reprimanded you for opening a door for a lady? Was it a boss? What part of America? Its far less extreme here in Texas 😇
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Yup, it won’t be used like that here (there’s no real penalty - $20 after a year?) and anyone who thinks that Filipinas will run to the police every time a man smiles at them just doesn’t understand our culture - but I do 👍😊
@georgewilliams4333
@georgewilliams4333 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@georgewilliams4333
@georgewilliams4333 Жыл бұрын
Man up before LBGQ take over
@clydekimsey7503
@clydekimsey7503 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea yes, the Pea understands everything. Thanks for trying to calm down the hysteria 😇😁.
@genghiskhan8222
@genghiskhan8222 Жыл бұрын
Going by all the single abandoned mother's I've spoken to, the most important law need in PH is the one that protects them from irresponsible ex-partners. Then focus on that stupid money grabbing thing known as annulment. Foreigners are the least of a filipina's problem.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
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@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
100% in regards to laws supporting abandoned mothers!! should be priority already!
@dougparson4407
@dougparson4407 Жыл бұрын
Thank You Pea for letting us foreigners know about this law. Like others have stated - this is how it begins. Men in the US have seen laws like this one become misconstrued into something very harmful to the male gender. The more "Western" the Philippines becomes - the less likely people are to visit there. I was reprimanded 25 years ago at work for saying Merry Christmas to a female co-worker while helping decorate the office for the Holiday. She cited Sexual Harrasment agaist me. I was married with a todler at home at that time and found this ridiculous however needed the job and jumped through hoops to keep the job for my family. That incident changed my thinking and behavior of the workplace, women & the legal system in my country. And I am not alone in this experience. This law may have been created with good intentions there but it could become very tainted and abused like it is over here.
@truckingbachelor2277
@truckingbachelor2277 Жыл бұрын
Yup, totally agree it usually starts put with many small laws, if it becomes like the USA, I will not be retiring there at all, and will switch gears to look into Eastern Europe for sure. I still have 10 years minimum till I leave, but will be keeping checking year after year to see if it turns into a western wasteland. Alternatively I do agree with the Pea, for now..if your a normal dude and polite expat, we should all be fine, and this alone shouldnt prevent us from moving there permanently. Just keep tabs with the new president and laws that pass over the years to see if they keep making more laws on top of laws. Then you will get your answer. Lastly this could be a scare tactic, or fear porn to keep more men and there retirements im the united states, because I do believe more men are waking up to the bad deal they get sold on the "american dream".
@mader348
@mader348 Жыл бұрын
The world is becoming very wimpy when you can't say what you feel because it might hurt someone else's feelings. Ridiculous.thanks Pea! ✌️❤️🙏
@mwbgaming28
@mwbgaming28 Жыл бұрын
Blame Facebook for 90% of this woke bullshit
@dreamrestore213
@dreamrestore213 Жыл бұрын
You don't realize how C U N T Y a statement that is... Do you.? The world has NEVER been like that. You can say Whatever you want Whenever you want to Whoever want.... AT YOUR OWN RISK ..! If you call someone out, and they knock you out.... Well who's fault is that..?
@gben82
@gben82 Жыл бұрын
There's a new "anti-ghosting" law in the Phil that will allow women to press charges against a man if he leaves her.
@onlythewise1
@onlythewise1 Жыл бұрын
@@gben82 what does that mean her husband Philippines out for money America saved there ass now they turn on Americans next time we not help
@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
​@gben82 , 😆😆 is it real? if he leaves her how? or also if doesn't respond to texts/calls?
@Crazykid949
@Crazykid949 Жыл бұрын
Good information Pea! I find it funny how some people chose to exact a law upon someone who is being nice to them for just the reason of being nice to someone instead of being nice back. What ever happened to the days where a person thanked the person giving them a polite compliment? Now a days people are so sue happy here in the world (Mostly North America) that it's almost against the law to look where you are going in case someone deems it as an unwanted glance! Since finding your wonderful channel and loving it so much, I have reached out and found other channels from the Philippines to learn more and verify the information through multiple sources, and my finding through all the Filipino channels I have found and livestream channel operators I have talked with, I can say that the Philippines is 100000% the place for me (If and when I can afford it) Everyone I have engaged with in livestreams, and watched on KZbin, has always been so happy and cheerful regardless what trials they are personally going through. Thank You Pea, for opening my eyes to your part of the world, and what it has to offer. I seriously hope that my channel and books start overflowing with funds so that I can make the dream of moving to the Philippines a reality soon!
@caucasianafrican1435
@caucasianafrican1435 4 ай бұрын
The West encourages women to see themselves as victims and men as perpetrators in every arena.
@RCFSULAW
@RCFSULAW Жыл бұрын
I read the Act. In many areas it lacks specificity and provides to many vague areas. The biggest problem I see for foreigners is the language they use online or sexual actions exchanged online in a ldr gone wrong. For example, the foreigner finds out his girlfriend is a married cheater or has many boyfriends and he has sent her money for two years. I am sure he used the most choice words more than once directed at the Filipina after he found out. I can assure you this has happened thousands of times. I know of one time where the Fililipina's response was if you come to the Philippines I will have you deported. This is what I thought was advanced HIYA. What do you think the one foreigner typed to his ex Filipina girlfriend when in order to save face because her relationship ended she posted her ex foreigner was dead next to his photo and his friends and family called his 86 year old mother to find out how he died. This definitely happened and he was beyond irate and rightfully so. His language in response and that online exchange definitely fell under this act and could be misconstrued.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Unless they increase the penalty by a factor of 100, I wouldn’t worry toooooo much about this particular law, unless I’m missing something - which is always possible 👍😊
@tonyste12
@tonyste12 Жыл бұрын
you are correct, when 'people' need/want money, this is one of the easiest ways to milk the cash cow, for many, not all but many.
@dreamrestore213
@dreamrestore213 Жыл бұрын
🤣 😂 🤣 😂 Sounds like a Sucka situation the guy shoulda never got himself into. You ain't gotta be a pimp, but you ain't gotta be a trick either.
@RCFSULAW
@RCFSULAW Жыл бұрын
Also note this is the penalty for online sexual harassment which would definitely be targeted at foreigners involved with Filipinas online. Read the article and the Act.
@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
​​@@RCFSULAW i have heard this bunch of laws ban and punish by prison time pre-marital sex, cheating (adultery), live-in relationships, etc, are those allegations true??
@benj1236
@benj1236 Жыл бұрын
*This video simply confirmed our concerns. Simply looking at someone in the Philippines is illegal if they "feel" uncomfortable. SMH.*
@consciousgentile5141
@consciousgentile5141 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@ethics3
@ethics3 Жыл бұрын
Did you hear about the club in Australia where the owner made it against club rules to even look at other people? Google it I am so sad this insanity has made it to the PH. I am glad I married a lovely woman from thailand 10 years ago and will be moving there next year. I had planned a season of motorcycle racing in PH but thats off now.
@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
Well, nobody should be made uncomfortable unless they deserve it. on the other hand, it may be unintentional.
@highcommander2007
@highcommander2007 8 ай бұрын
Australia is now China 2.0 and absolute last place on Earth I would ever visit right behind India and Iraq.@@ethics3
@sharhune2735
@sharhune2735 Жыл бұрын
Thought I would add my 2 cents again. The U.S. is litigation happy. I was once told that if you counted all the attorneys in the world, that 75% are located in this country.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I believe it!! 😳
@-Kamal-
@-Kamal- Жыл бұрын
💯
@lawlorie24
@lawlorie24 Жыл бұрын
When I was a young man in the Philippines I could have been protected by this law 😂now I am to old to get harassed. I remember a customer setting herself in my lap asking me how the system I installed worked, I was in shock and stuttered trying to explain the database architecture but she had no interest in that. It sucks getting old.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha Come to the Philippines and I’ll harass you, CFS 👍😊
@alwyn626
@alwyn626 Жыл бұрын
She probably wanted the work done for free.
@olavlaupsa490
@olavlaupsa490 Жыл бұрын
With age comes wisdom - and sometimes wrinkles, or was it the other way around :)
@tryscience
@tryscience Жыл бұрын
I wish the right girl would harass me... 😘
@kristopherknapp1707
@kristopherknapp1707 Жыл бұрын
I like being sexual harrassed by a gorgeous woman
@bicpapermate
@bicpapermate Жыл бұрын
I subscribed to Legally Filipina just to see Gracie more often. But Gracie doesn't do videos too often. Thank you for bringing back my favourite lawyer.
@BillyBlaze7
@BillyBlaze7 Жыл бұрын
be careful that could be stalking lol
@kmorris180
@kmorris180 Жыл бұрын
You are always on about keeping us out of trouble. Thank you for everything you do. And thanks for having Miss Gracie on again. She explains things so clearly. Be blessed, precious Pea.
@johnwalsh518
@johnwalsh518 Жыл бұрын
Well done hon you are actually asking the right questions here. Thank you for protecting us.
@keinlieb3818
@keinlieb3818 Жыл бұрын
They may have to actually prove it in court, but even if you're found innocent, your reputation is ruined. Seen this happen over and over again in the US where innocent men are labeled forever as a sex offender just because a woman accused them.
@tobias6013
@tobias6013 Жыл бұрын
That's the intent at least here in the states we in the manosphere call it character assassination.
@SeeLasSee
@SeeLasSee Жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that in the West I’ve had my bottom grabbed by women a few times in Public. It was not even a night club nor a party. I’ve never done the same to females.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, Silas, I couldn’t help myself - your bum is just so squeeeeeezable! 😂😂😂
@thesisLAx
@thesisLAx Жыл бұрын
Yes, women have been infantilized in the West. Men rarely report them and are not taken seriously when they do.
@georgewilliams4333
@georgewilliams4333 Жыл бұрын
Are you sure it was a woman wait a minute what is a woman
@Ed19601
@Ed19601 Жыл бұрын
I have been crotch grabbed by a girl in Singapore and even in Cebu. I did not really mind, after all such a thing usually isn't threatening to a guy, unwanted perhaps but not a threat. I however have never done something like that to a girl. The 2 girls did make a lasting impression though, even if I did not take them up on their offer
@tonyste12
@tonyste12 Жыл бұрын
@@georgewilliams4333 lol.... or unidentified as a woman, whatever it was.
@texpatrobertrice8309
@texpatrobertrice8309 Жыл бұрын
My experience in Tuguegarao is that all Filipinos will say hello. When I walk down the street people always say, "Hello po," or "Hello Kuya," I have no issues with the ladies, and I talk to them all the time. They are more interested in me as an American, also the men because they like to understand what my thinking is. Since I am not a "sexpat," and have a Filipina wife I find it exhilarating to be able to communicate with people, and learn their ways. When in the Philippines, do as the Filipinos, and you will stay out of trouble.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@daddyrich6374
@daddyrich6374 Жыл бұрын
Great job Pea and Gracie on pointing out the law and explaining it. As always good information
@TravellingMan20
@TravellingMan20 Жыл бұрын
Good grief, I really hope that the Philippines doesn’t become like the West in my time. Woke world is affecting everything in Uk now. It’s all about fifty different genders , LBGQ and diversity quotas. We also have a thing now about offensive staring. Cat calling and wolf whistles were banned years ago. Western guys want feminine not feminists. You would need to be offensive to receive a rude response from a Filipina. They are the most friendly and welcoming girls I’ve ever met, but that doesn’t mean you can take liberties. Be friendly polite and show respect, and you will never have any problems. Thanks as always Doctor Pea.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry, Brian, Filipinos don’t even know the laws that are on the books, and 95% of us wouldn’t want to cause a fuss with the police by filing false charges 😂
@joebidet2050
@joebidet2050 Жыл бұрын
Don't try entering the RAF White males need not apply 😒
@Eeasy-wq4ss
@Eeasy-wq4ss Жыл бұрын
Great content Pea, I must confess although there's a place for laws to protect those who are really assaulted, but because of abuse and opportunity the laws intended to protect became a tool for extortion, no matter who is compensated, some like to ruin lives if things don't happen like they think it should have, ( a woman scorned). Both you and Gracie are young so might I suggest making this a life long study, great perspective though Pea ,time will tell, western men and women are watching 👍🏽
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Well they’ll have to increase the penalties under this law about 100 times for it to be a real concern l, but yes we’ll be watching 👍😊
@ethics3
@ethics3 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea and if this infraction affects his visa renewal ... what then ? This does fall under the umbrella of Harassment . If you were charged with harassment in Canada any later application for a visa or visa renewal would be denied. The monetary amount means little in this case
@35Colorado
@35Colorado Жыл бұрын
Because of this law I have changed my plans to go to the the Philippines. I do not like the possibility of false charges placed for such an absurd thing. This law ruins the attraction the Philippines had.
@devildogpete
@devildogpete Жыл бұрын
I agree. If a woman can ruin your life with false accusations, you can bet your last dollar that it WILL happen eventually. I had high hopes of retiring early there but I guess I'll be looking elsewhere.
@tonyste12
@tonyste12 Жыл бұрын
of course it will happen, if so 'many' are 'scamming people' because of $, you don't think it will happen just for the same reason of few extra $, especially if you are a 'foreigner'?
@kevinnashskitchen3517
@kevinnashskitchen3517 Жыл бұрын
Nobody will be abusing the law for no reason 🙄
@maximilianvs8430
@maximilianvs8430 Жыл бұрын
It is not a safe country for men. But why would you want to got there in the first place? Poor, corrupt, gynocentric, high criminality.
@daveh5947
@daveh5947 Жыл бұрын
The Law itself is OK..... until you get 3 or 4 filipinos concocting a story and accusing a guy who is then blackmailed to " pay up or else!!" Who will Police believe? A Foreigner or 3 or 4 filipinos? That will happen someday, especially to a guy that is alone! Imagine walking down a street and some filpino says give me 20k or 100k or else she will scream for Police and had 3 or 4 friends to back up the story!! The 1k fine part is OK.. BUT one gets a Criminal Record attached to one's name! Not being Vaccinated I can't get in...and over past 2 years the Philippines has gone further down my list of places to go! So Covid has been good in that way!!
@Iberr1965
@Iberr1965 5 ай бұрын
I received your response to my inquiry. I really appreciated your quick response and I watched the video. As always, your topic and presentation was spot on. Thank you very much.
@danwillis1389
@danwillis1389 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making a video of about this. I still think this will cause social problems between men, and women over there. I think most things about the law are good, but some things should be revised. Here in the United States the birth rate is very low. Men, and women here are at odds with one another. If you want good advice your country should not adopt California liberal laws. There was already a law there against public exposure there I’m sure. In reality there are no safe spaces, but everyone should show respect. Pea, we are worried about it because we see what goes on in the United States. I know women at work that say, and do things improper, but nothing is ever done to them. I, myself will continue to obey the law, and be mindful of it. Thank you again for doing this video, and looking forward to an update in a few years
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Yup, I’m so sorry that’s it’s being misused over there 🥺
@patrickmarr7076
@patrickmarr7076 Жыл бұрын
if a western man thought he was going to find 1950 in the Philippines, this law should be enough to tell him otherwise.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
1950’s … with a twist? 😂😂😂
@kranzonguam
@kranzonguam Жыл бұрын
Good discussion, Pea! Good to see Gracie again too! Take good care!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Yes, I’ve missed Gracey 😊👍
@hybrid711
@hybrid711 Жыл бұрын
Good stuff Pea.
@MiscellaneousMcC
@MiscellaneousMcC 9 ай бұрын
Where I live in Canada when a man is accused of some inappropriate conduct towards a woman it is usually published in the media and society treats him as if he is guilty. He will frequently loose his job, and all his friends before the court case has even begun. When he wins the case it is not published and no one knows he is innocent. Many many men’s lives have been ruined by women who falsely accuse men of sexual misconduct, and the women face no penalties for lying. That is why laws like this are so provocative to many westerners, and why they seem to overreact. Because where we live a law like this is very dangerous for a man’s reputation.
@vulpesvulpes5177
@vulpesvulpes5177 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the 21st century, Philippines! You too can be Woke. Here in the good old USA we got very similar laws about 10-15 years ago. Many at the city and county level. It had a chilling effect at first as it became the latest tool in the age old battle of the sexes. The ultimate she said - he said. Today most of these laws are off the books or not enforced. Why? Because every time an offended woman accused a man of making an inappropriate comment, a misdemeanor in our legal system, the miscreant male, when approached by a cop, simply stated that the woman solicited him for prostitution, a felony. The courts were choked and soon the cops simply ignored all but the most blatant situations. Many places they took the laws off the books. I predict that your country will survive this nonsense. For all the reasons you stated. You fox quote to cause reflection comes from Benjamin Franklin who stated that those who sacrifice liberty for security soon find that they have neither. It’s basically the same for safe spaces. Fox out.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
GREAT last paragraph in particular, Fox 👍😊
@elmar_eldnah
@elmar_eldnah Жыл бұрын
It is also proven that too much liberty, can result to chaos.
@johnjones4049
@johnjones4049 Жыл бұрын
There's wisdom in insecurity
@paulnodalo9130
@paulnodalo9130 Жыл бұрын
If you are a foreigner player in the Philippines 100% you will end up in jail after you are arrested after the upset girl reports you to the police.
@davidcraycraft9717
@davidcraycraft9717 Жыл бұрын
Remember to the judge makes the final decision, there isn't a trail but jury in the Philippines. Always be nice to the police, you don't want to have a bad name with them
@lajuanbest7990
@lajuanbest7990 Жыл бұрын
Great topic Pea..people need to understand some of the laws of the countries where they are visiting or living
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Thanks LaJuan! And yes, it’s a good idea 👍😊
@Chris_Clark1MaidenFan
@Chris_Clark1MaidenFan Жыл бұрын
Good Morning Pea Hope you have an awesome weekend. Thanks for the information and I really enjoy your video's. Stay safe girl.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you’re liking it, Chris 👍😊❤️
@tamozen367
@tamozen367 Жыл бұрын
Always nice to see Gracie regardless of topic. ☺️
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍😊
@larrye2679
@larrye2679 Жыл бұрын
I would tend to agree with the good intent of the law but I still think it could be abused. As far as people looking, well people will always look, men or women. I adhere to the old saying, "if someone wants to advertise (or put on a show) they should expect an audience. " Great video 😀
@Citizen16603
@Citizen16603 Жыл бұрын
Been learning a lot here. Thanks for your efforts. This is now the main reason why I probably won’t visit there like I was planning.
@tobias6013
@tobias6013 Жыл бұрын
Same here and I was actually starting to look forward to it.
@gumdeo
@gumdeo Жыл бұрын
It is always good to hear an expert legal view.
@JoseNDoria
@JoseNDoria Жыл бұрын
Honestly when I was there, I didn't feel like that law really was a thing let alone something people would actually use. I even went to the red light district with my fiance in Manila, people were overly respectful overall to one another. Realistically, all you have to do is treat someone the way you would like to be treated and go about your day. If you're stupid enough to actually do something in public, then you obviously deserve the full extent of the punishment.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
You’re right, Jose - Filipinas don’t run to the police, and when they do, it’s not to charge you with a $20 ‘crime’ 😂
@MarakMocam
@MarakMocam Жыл бұрын
"leering and intrusive gazing" - in other words, that is all interpreted by the 'target', so even looking at a women CAN have you arrested if she wishes to express it as such. NOTE these are "sexual impropriety laws" meaning accusations can directly effect your ability to travel anywhere else in the world - few nations will look the other way about travelers who have been accused of harassing women in other nations. So yes, even glancing at them can get you arrested, creating a legal record. Not a joke. The same things that have many western men fleeing the west is what that law is outlining because ANYTHING can be interpreted as sexual and/or offensive. It is a very western set of conditions and leaves the interpretation of offensive up to the individual who can use it anyway they want.
@earlshaner4441
@earlshaner4441 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon from Syracuse NY USA my friend thank you for sharing more details and information
@jmd1327
@jmd1327 Жыл бұрын
Smart and informative as always. Thanks for the updates. Love Dr. Pea!😘
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Thanks JM! I always like to have Gracey on 👍❤️
@dawster1949
@dawster1949 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for presenting and dissecting all the facts as usual Pea. It sounds pretty sensible to me, and in line with laws in any civilised nation to protect women (and men) from predatory behaviour. The burden of proof is always with the victim. Here in the UK, only a tiny fraction of even the most extreme cases of sexual assault make it to court. Not only do victims have to prove their abuse, but are often subjected to the most humiliating scrutiny of their personal lives. That (and the chronic underfunding of our court system by our dreadful government) means it often takes years to get justice, if ever. Sounds to me like this law will only affect people who shouldn’t be behaving in that appalling way in the first place!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
And with the tiny penalties, I doubt anyone has to worry about things like ‘intrusive gazing’ 😂
@dawster1949
@dawster1949 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Hopefully we can all still enjoy some of that 😜
@Tony-cj6jy
@Tony-cj6jy Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea We know how this works, we,'ve had the same law a 4 years ago. it's like boiling a frog you don't turn up the heat at once but slowly increase it over time so the frog doesn't jump out. Recently we have a law about 'explicit consent'. That means if the women doesn't voice her agreement with sexual advances she can sue you for assault afterwards (no need to prove violence or actually being raped). In most situations people don't explicitly voice what they are going to do because that can break the mood, or a woman might have sex drunk and regret it afterwards etc...
@bernardlock2728
@bernardlock2728 Жыл бұрын
OH... my... just a bump on a bus, looking too hard, or saying someone looks nice. This is a "scary law". A foreigner will always be a second class person and if a woman is not attractive to a person who compliments on how she looks can accuse the man as harassment based on the law.
@chryschrysostomou5392
@chryschrysostomou5392 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I only found your videos the past couple of days! Thank u for your very interesting and fascinating subjects concerning Both the country and the girls from the Philippines. I have had several relationships with Filopinas. I've never visited your country, but I'm thinking about visiting and staying for a period of 3-6 months. I'm still friends with one girl that lives and works here, and she offered many times that if I wanted, I could go and stay in her house where she and her family would welcome me as her guest. She has several businesses that are taken care of by her family in her absence. I'm considering her offer, but in the meantime, I'm going through your videos to help further my knowledge and expectations! Keep up the great work!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Thanks for finding me, Chrys! I hope you enjoy your time here 👍😊
@allenbaker8851
@allenbaker8851 Жыл бұрын
Another great video, Thanks Pea.
@STR123able
@STR123able Жыл бұрын
My alert goes up with I hear "safe spaces." The other alert is one of the law's issues is "intrusive gazing." What is that? If a woman goes to the beach and is wearing not much, if a guy stares at her, can he be charged? How long does he gaze, before he can be changed? I realize that it is up to the victim, but here in the States, a lawyer can always be found to make a case. And there is "social media," which can be stronger than any law. So when someone hears that there is a "safe space law," one is troubled, even if the reality in the Philippines is different..... I posted before the end bit, and see that the "safe spaces" law has concerns for you, too.
@tonyste12
@tonyste12 Жыл бұрын
there are many soy men here saying, if the man is a good man, he has nothing to fear, but what about a good man meets a bad woman who wants his money? They can use 'extorsion' to get money out of those supposedly 'rich foreigners'. and yes, there are many s-hole foreigners going there, that deserve to be deported etc., but making a law because you look the 'wrong way' at someone or saying the 'wrong word' is a bad idea.
@yoyojoe9240
@yoyojoe9240 Жыл бұрын
Intrusive gazing = when you attach a camera on your shoes to intrusively gazed under her skirt..??🤯
@chuck26241
@chuck26241 Жыл бұрын
Anyone needing a safe space should hide in their parents closets and stay away from normal people.
@boracay12
@boracay12 Жыл бұрын
Like the video of a woman in a gym .a average looking woman doing a video of her self . She takes off her top. Looks over her shoulder to find someone to hassle " you need something?" Over and over . The guy is like what ? She keeps on trying to pick a fight. The guy works there and tells her to leave . People from usa know first hand what this laws true intention is and what the result will be . Nothing good . Strife, division and trouble
@kombotmarine1304
@kombotmarine1304 Жыл бұрын
All she has to do is see a forginer walk up to him start screaming and making a scene claiming he was intrusive staring and he needs to give her money or she will call the police so he pays her to go away or she calls the police and they make you pay a fine
@charlesyoung9980
@charlesyoung9980 Жыл бұрын
Since I am on America soil and outside of The Philippines jurisdiction, let me just say that you look positively radiant today, Miss Pea. 😁😁
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I’ll have you extradited, you … you … you beast! 😂😂😂
@fireisle
@fireisle Жыл бұрын
Great video. LOL wax off, wax on. A very truthful and balanced analysis. New subscriber.
@tapewerm6716
@tapewerm6716 Жыл бұрын
Gracey is so beautiful and so sharp! .. Just like you, Pea. Another great vid. Thanks.
@michaelfrandsen6195
@michaelfrandsen6195 Жыл бұрын
I understand why foreigners are worried about this new "law" If a foreign guy breaks up with a girl, or if after a date the foreigner isn't interested in a second date, what is going to stop her from levelling false accusations?? I'm sure she had a "cousin" or friend who would be willing to lie for her.
@Acreativepath
@Acreativepath Жыл бұрын
Iv seen this happen several times with people i know, they made up accusations of asult or abuse. And now their gov is just making ot easier for them to make up a silly story to extort some cash from the foreigner
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
And for what purpose exactly? To get the foreigner to pay a $20 fee to the court - “if” he’s found guilty? If I were going to frame or blackmail a foreigner, I’d use an offense that carried a serious penalty - am I missing something?
@boyar1978
@boyar1978 Жыл бұрын
it would still take her time, effort and resources to pursue the claim. She will not likely get anything for her effort. Like Gracie said it will take time for the proceeding to take place. You could easily leave the Philippines before anything happened. The Philippines is not likely going to extradite you because you decided to break up with a Filipina.
@larrye2679
@larrye2679 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea in most cases you would be correct Pea. However, some women who are either extremely jealous and vindictive don't care, all they want to do is strike back any way they can.
@Juice17408
@Juice17408 Жыл бұрын
I hate to comment again Pea, you really don’t understand what men in the west are going through. Please have a long conversation with some new expats. And remember that there are two women here saying we are over reacting again. Same old same old for s western men!
@johnwalsh518
@johnwalsh518 Жыл бұрын
The problem with a lot of these laws like in the west they mean well but unscrupulous people find a way to twist them to cause far more damage than originally intended.
@RetiredandTraveling1755
@RetiredandTraveling1755 Жыл бұрын
As always great work pea, stay safe.
@olyman63
@olyman63 Жыл бұрын
Great show Pea thank you. Have a great day
@6feet5inflorida36
@6feet5inflorida36 Жыл бұрын
I looked up intrusive gazing and could not find a definition. Does the law controls one’s eyeballs? A look could be unlawful? What is the time limit between a glance and a stare? What is the difference between observing someone and an intrusive gaze? The law sounds like it is depending upon the receiver’s FEELINGS!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Exactly - way too vague
@kenkneram4819
@kenkneram4819 Жыл бұрын
I don't like it. If I just brush up against somebody accidentally in a crowd and they take offense to it I would be in a world of hurt in trouble. Even if I had no intention whatsoever of sexual gratification of any kind I'd be in a position of having to prove that it was simply an accidental contact. Furthermore I've never heard of a woman masturbating in public or flashing unless she was getting paid to do so. Also, "Rude gestures" is a pretty vague category. In fact everything about this law seems either 1) Vague and difficult to define, 2) Clearly directed at men, and or 3) Has the potential to criminalize ordinary and even unintentional interactions between men and women. Also I'm always leery of laws like this that criminalize "unwanted" attention. First of all you never know whether or not the attention you're giving somebody is wanted unless and until they tell you through actions or preferably words. Women everywhere are notorious for not saying what they mean and meaning what they say. This law clearly brings radical feminism to the Philippines in a dangerous way.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Yes, don’t like it either - we already had laws to cover this, and the wording here is too vague and subjective! But you won’t have to prove you’re innocent, she has to prove you’re guilty 😊👍
@kenkneram4819
@kenkneram4819 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea In theory that's the way it's supposed to work here in the USA. Unfortunately, the way it "SHOULD" work and the way it "DOES" work don't often line up.
@rogerh9556
@rogerh9556 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Pea, another great video. Gracie looks cuter in every video! 😊
@ronfindley2874
@ronfindley2874 Жыл бұрын
Always good to see lovely Gracey on here. Pea, i appreciate it when you have Professionals and subject matter experts on here. We know that you are giving us the "real" information! Thanks for keeping us "in the know"!!! A healthy dose of Dr Pea this morning. My belly is full and my wife doctored my stiff joint.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Did she do a good job? That can be a pretty serious condition after about 4 hours 😂
@ronfindley2874
@ronfindley2874 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea yes she did bwahahahahahaha I'm a happy man! 😂😂😂
@terryboehler5752
@terryboehler5752 Жыл бұрын
Very informative session with you and Gracie. However, I found myself guilty of over Gazing! Where do I turn myself in?
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
You can turn yourself in on Tuesday at 8:00 - right here on this channel 👍
@terryboehler5752
@terryboehler5752 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea sounds good
@wiv2631
@wiv2631 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pea, for discussing the amazing breadth of this law. Judging by how expansive it is in coverage, I cannot imagine that it will not be abused at some point and I do not limit the possible abuse to use in a Filipino versus foreigner situation. It very well might be used in a Filipino versus Filipino enmity, jealousy or political problem in the not too distant future. Suppose a police officer observes one Filipino brushing against another while walking on a sidewalk or a bench sitter seemingly leering at another Filipino and considers either to be a violation of the law. Can she arrest the alleged perpetrator and take him or her to a jail or a holding facility? If so, how long can the person be detained? I do not doubt that these examples sound ridiculous based on current general Philippine customs, but as more and more people become aware of the broad scope of the law, the greater the probability becomes of indiscriminate abuse of the law. I have no doubt that with thousands upon thousands of foreigners visiting the Philippines, legal protections for citizens are needed, but can't these protections be provided by previously existing and more narrowly construed laws . The 2019 law just sounds too wide open to be fairly enforced. I would be interested in hearing the thoughts of Gracie or a Filipino prosecutor on the possibilities of abuses under the terms of this particular law.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
From what I understand, it’s a ticketable offense, not a jailable offense, so you won’t be arrested 😊
@wiv2631
@wiv2631 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Thanks for your reply, Pea. Lower tier matters not being a jailable offence is very important information for western men to understand. I am an older retiree, and although the Philippine Islands are beautiful, I don't foresee a possibility of being able to travel that far for vacation, so I'm not personally concerned about being arrested🙂 I recall seeing a young western jerk in a news photo shouting into the face of a Filipino policeman some years back. I have absolutely no sympathy for anyone who is rude or intentionally disrespects someone, and I support a more severe penalty for anyone being disorderly and abusive.
@meinereiner7072
@meinereiner7072 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea but you will be faced to a lot of problems, wasting time, money and effort to fix it! this risk isn't worth it!
@ronniesouthern7829
@ronniesouthern7829 Жыл бұрын
Hello Pea. Good to see lawyer Gracie again. I liked the graphic in between you both , I don’t remember seeing that before. I think most people will never have a problem with that law, especially if they use every day common sense. As always looking forward to your next video, and will follow the advice of Dr Pea and take whatever prescriptions are necessary to feel my best until then. 💊
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Hi Ronnie! Yup, just be your usual polite self, and no problems - not with this law anyway
@paulmilano2390
@paulmilano2390 Жыл бұрын
Hi P Thanks for explaining Philipina law in today's podcast very enlightening I hope any of my previous comments have not caused you any unintended unfavourable thoughts towards you definitely unintentional take care and great show
@jimgilbert9984
@jimgilbert9984 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the heads-up, Pea. It doesn't really apply to me, though. You've heard the expression, "once bitten, twice shy"? Let's just say that I've been bitten a LOT. Now I barely nod once as a way to greet women I don't know (and I've been sneered at for doing that much... sigh). Smiling at a woman I don't know? Nope! I say "morning" or "afternoon" to women I do know, but that's it. No smile, no "good" at the beginning of those greetings, and even then I don't initiate the greeting, allowing the women to speak first. Besides the possibility of being slapped with a sexual harassment charge, there's also the other problem women have with me (stuff I've mentioned before). I barely even look at women anymore. So the ladies of the Philippines are quite safe from me, considering my experiences with women thus far. I know you've said repeatedly that Filipinas are different from Western women, but I have yet to experience that for myself. Until then, I'm definitely once bitten, twice shy. 😔💔
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Well then you have a good experience coming when you see the ways we’re different from western women 👍😊
@jimgilbert9984
@jimgilbert9984 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Sounds good! 🖖🙂👍
@phlee1969
@phlee1969 Жыл бұрын
The worlds gone mad , you can’t even be polite these days but then again respect and politeness is a dying trait along with many other things !
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
It’s sad indeed, but there are still good people who will continue to be, and to teach others to be, polite 👍😊
@phlee1969
@phlee1969 Жыл бұрын
As a frequent traveler to Phil these videos are a great help , keep up the good work ❤️
@lorenk.775
@lorenk.775 Жыл бұрын
Sadly at least in some or many places.
@DarrelWeisheit-wg2gy
@DarrelWeisheit-wg2gy Жыл бұрын
Hi Pea.. You certainly bring up all kinds of subjects. I do appreciate you Pea.. You talk about life in the Philippines with humor and understanding. You are Real, True, Genuine and one of a kind. Thank You Darrel
@gregharstone7599
@gregharstone7599 Жыл бұрын
Nice to see Gracie again I remember when she was Dr.... So funny that vid. Thanks again u 2 so cool
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
And she didn’t mind doing that 😂😂😂👍
@laserbeam002
@laserbeam002 Жыл бұрын
It's nice to see Gracie back on your channel. Personally, I would like to see Gracie climb a coconut tree and retrieve a coconut. As for the subject manner I have known of cases here in the U.S where women, who desperately needed their jobs, were horribly harassed by their employer. Let's face it guys. Some men get a kick out of feeling power over the woman. Which says a lot about the guy. Where I work, which is for a large nationwide retailer, any type of harassment or offensive talk will get us fired in a heart beat. As it should be. Good post pea.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I doubt you’ll see Gracey in a coconut tree, but you never know!
@loganblackwood2922
@loganblackwood2922 Жыл бұрын
I love how she admits "the law states it was men only that could be considered committing sexual harassment" and now says that the updated legislation *probably* extends that to protect men now. Western divorce laws are gender neutral so why do men get reemed in divorce court??? It is almost as though the execution of the law is biased.. funny that. Men, stay away from gynocentric societies pushing this shit. Don't believe women. If a man tells you truthfully how the law *can* be weaponised, assume that it is the baseline for you, because I promise you, laws to protect women do not have fairness in mind.
@daemonsw77
@daemonsw77 Жыл бұрын
its actually meant to protect trans and lgbtq. not many men are going to care unless its severe and in that case its under other laws
@JessaKChannel
@JessaKChannel Жыл бұрын
Good content. Kudos to you Ms Pea…👏👏👏
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Well thanks Jes! I appreciate you (and neither of us are vampires) 😂😂😂
@JessaKChannel
@JessaKChannel Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea 😂 I don’t know any vampires either 😂
@briankeith9584
@briankeith9584 Жыл бұрын
Your hair is gorgeous! It looks like silk!😍
@kendonius4928
@kendonius4928 Жыл бұрын
So ex-pats especially sex pats cannot be douches. She says no or walks away...fine. There are plenty of fish in the sea. My question can the expat use this law to fend off/control the Pinay. U pick up Pea at a coffee shop, have a nice conversation. U offer to meet for lunch on Thursday two days from now at noon in the lobby of your hotel. Pea shows up at 7am at your room door. Insists on coming in and waiting. After lunch she grabs your arm and insists "We are boyfriend/girlfriend!" U try to put her in a trike to take her home but she fights like a wildcat. Finally she leaves but the assault of the messages is launched. Every 5 minutes another one!! 2AM she is at your door...uninvited!!! Can an ex-pat file charges against Pea or any obsessed Pinay?
@Niftynorm1
@Niftynorm1 Жыл бұрын
Most of us would welcome Pea at our door. Who would need coffee to wake up?🤣🤣
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha Yes, you can file the same thing against a Pinay - but why bother? 😂
@kendonius4928
@kendonius4928 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea To have the legal high ground. If U r not interested u can hopefully fend her off.
@kendonius4928
@kendonius4928 Жыл бұрын
@@Niftynorm1 Pea was only used as a haha example. Plus i do not know if Pea is one of those girls who roll their eyes in the back of their heads and shout "TOO BIG!!!!"😁😁
@kendixon6437
@kendixon6437 Жыл бұрын
It's very sad this is happening and has gone this far because I love the Philippines and the Philipino people 😔
@UrsulavonB
@UrsulavonB Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the clarifications Pea and Gracey...cheers
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Thanks for coming by, Mr Rawson 👍❤️😊
@jejunamja
@jejunamja Жыл бұрын
Thanks pia I never even heard of this before but good to be updated on the laws
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
It’s nothing at all to be concerned about 😂👍
@SeeLasSee
@SeeLasSee Жыл бұрын
Flirting is no longer allowed in the Philippines! Fertility rates will come down. ;)
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry, plenty of flirting going on here, now and forever 😂👍
@SeeLasSee
@SeeLasSee Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea so this won’t stop your teen pregnancy problem?
@damwtfnyc5573
@damwtfnyc5573 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm... How about if a girl in phillipines keeps asking me how much $$ I make ?? Or keeps asking to send her $$ Can that be considered harassment and grounds for her arrest ? 😎
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Sure! But it will take you a year and she ‘might’ have to pay a fine of $20 😂😂😂
@damwtfnyc5573
@damwtfnyc5573 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea 🙉😕😩🤕🏃
@globalismoblackman
@globalismoblackman Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea lol Good luck to the gringo winning his $20 lawsuit against a Filipina 😂🤣
@ManOfAdventure2011
@ManOfAdventure2011 Жыл бұрын
Nice one Pea
@tourneynet8557
@tourneynet8557 Жыл бұрын
Very informative as always!!!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
THANKS my friend 👍❤️
@sharhune2735
@sharhune2735 Жыл бұрын
Good evening, Pea. This sounds like a law that some westerners are panicking about for nothing. Small fine, long process and not enough reward for the effort. Be polite and respectful. If she isn't interested, back off and don't be an a**hole. Take care of yourself Pea and see you Tuesday.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Glad to see you get it, Shar! I think a lot of guys have an instinctive frothing-at-the-mouth reaction, but they’re not thinking how it will actually be used (or not be used)
@waynewes9466
@waynewes9466 Жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea if the guy is respectful and not a jerk he doesn’t need to worry.
@laserbeam002
@laserbeam002 Жыл бұрын
@@waynewes9466 Exactly but too many western men want to go to the phils and act like it is 1940 or 1950 USA. They want to find a beautiful filipina woman or girl, be able to act any way they want with her, be free to be as obnoxious and rude then not pay the consequences. They want the freedom to act like assholes over there because they know IF they acted like that in the west they would be sued, jailed and fined.
@J.Shabazz
@J.Shabazz Жыл бұрын
SAY IT WITH ME NOW ......"THAILAND" .....THAT'S RIGHT!
@nikosparm2011
@nikosparm2011 Жыл бұрын
Or Ukraine
@billnearyart8855
@billnearyart8855 Жыл бұрын
Gracie is back!!!!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I can see you getting ‘interested’ all the way from Manila 😂😂😂
@johngalt6708
@johngalt6708 Жыл бұрын
Another super useful video Pea. FYI, I have a 77" Oled TV, and your hair no longer fits in the screen. 😊
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Oh no, I’m so sorry that you need to immediately go out and get a bigger tv! 😂😂😂😂
@Galahad54
@Galahad54 Жыл бұрын
From what I have learned, the most likely time for a foreigner to get in trouble with a woman in the Philippines is a) guy dates woman b) guy gives money to woman c) guy breaks up with woman d) foreigner money stops. But in that case, the woman will (if angry enough) a) show up unannounced at the guy's residence or favorite location and harass or b) tell her family, which may result in extrajudicial activity. You do not want a woman's family coming after you in the Philippines because of honor/face issues. Proper behavior will avoid problems about 99.9% of the time.
@globalismoblackman
@globalismoblackman Жыл бұрын
Facts correct 👍
@kevmonty1
@kevmonty1 Жыл бұрын
Laws like this would not be a thing if everyone treated people with love and respect. With that said this law only shows the crumbling of what i said above. God is watching and yeah I do not trust government and it’s officials... in any country.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Thanks for adding your opinion, Kev 👍😊
@mikeconnery4652
@mikeconnery4652 9 ай бұрын
Nice interview
@tonywilliams7918
@tonywilliams7918 Жыл бұрын
Good topic Pea. Nice discussion on morality, common sense and plain decency. I would believe such an act is highly farfetched in which an individual would be so weakened in their clear mind to commit such acts and offer cause to being apprehended, detained and charged under this law. I am certain under certain enhanced coheres influences these circumstances may and will occur, but as stated, of a "clear mind" I must agree with you and the Honorable Gracey that these occurrences will be extremely rare. Thanks for sharing, Pea.
@frankmosses9121
@frankmosses9121 Жыл бұрын
I have to wonder what happened to cause them to write such a law. ( Just shaking my head)
@SlimjimMK11
@SlimjimMK11 Жыл бұрын
They have a lot of spare time on their hands.. They have to justify their existence..
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
I’ll shake mine along with you, Frank 🥺👍
@Steve-no8fd
@Steve-no8fd Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Ms. Pea, for clearing this up. It sounds like the long arm of the HR department has found its way to the Philippines🤨 I'll be your HR dept. Ms. Pea, sometimes you just need a Marine to check for mines and booby traps🧐😉 You looked so Stunning and Professional in your black dress (OMGoodness)😳🙃😘💕💕💕 Cheers🥰 Semper Fi
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Well thanks Steve, but I’m positive my boobies are not trapped (I don’t even own a bra) 😂
@Steve-no8fd
@Steve-no8fd Жыл бұрын
Can I still check............just to make sure they are safe? I mean, that you are safe:)
@theking1446
@theking1446 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Very funny ending
@thomasstewart3
@thomasstewart3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you miss Pea for yet another informative show.
@KidnKnightLLC
@KidnKnightLLC Жыл бұрын
The fact remains that there’s always ways to abuse any laws, however like you said if you’re using common sense then there’s nothing to worry about
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
And even if you try to abuse this one, it’ll only cost someone $20 - a year later 😂😂😂
@robertburnston6586
@robertburnston6586 Жыл бұрын
This is a rabbit hole I will not go down. Many western men have been accused of this very same thing causing them to stay emotionally 'distant' from women and relationships. On the other hand, many men deserved their punishments ... a slippery legal slope.
@dougparson4407
@dougparson4407 Жыл бұрын
The abuse of laws such as this one is why I stayed single for 22 years and without any roommates. I have no trust or confidence in these laws or women in my country and was one of the reasons I searched for a Filipina for my wife in my later years. Based on my own experiences in the West, laws such as this one will do more long term harm to your society over the next 20 - 30 years than you can imagine.
@daemonsw77
@daemonsw77 Жыл бұрын
so you would rather no laws to protect victims then your slippery slope...its a well structured law and only a fine for basic lewdness. be a gentlemen and you have nothing to worry about. chose the company you keep well also
@robertburnston6586
@robertburnston6586 Жыл бұрын
@@daemonsw77 You did not understand my comment correctly.
@NeloLifeElevationGroup
@NeloLifeElevationGroup Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊Great information as always..truly appreciate your videos!😊😊😊
@Phoenix_Enterprises
@Phoenix_Enterprises Жыл бұрын
Thank you for discussing this. I'm an old buck. I was raised with mutual respect within personal relationships. I've paid my dues. US has similar laws now. I don't think any court has any business in personal relationships unless there is abuse going on. I'm good being me. Hugs Pea and thanks.
@andrewc2670
@andrewc2670 Жыл бұрын
So let me get this right - guys coming to the Philippines shouldn't behave like creeps or harass people - wow what a totally backwards concept (sarcasm mode off). To be completely honest it's no surprise that KZbinrs would attempt to sensationalise such things to boost viewer numbers as the mainstream media use the same tactics all the time. I'm sure everyone has seen a news headline which has grabbed their attention and then realised the content wasn't significant at all. I really think that decent people have nothing to worry about. The only foreigners I could see perhaps falling foul of this sort of thing are those who hang out in groups and get very drunk. Drink can make even sane people do things that would normally horrify themselves
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Well said, Andrew! This poorly-written law will not become any kind of deterrent to dating Filipinas 😂👍
@Acreativepath
@Acreativepath Жыл бұрын
I guess u dont know the system in the Philippines. They will make cases in the Philippines just so the foreigners will make a settlement and give them a chunk of change. Iv seen it several times
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Okay, Artistic and Creative, maybe you can explain this to me, because I keep asking people, and none of you are answering me. Question: Why would a woman use this law to extort or frame the foreigner when the penalty is $20? What kind of ‘payment’ does she think she’s going to get? Don’t you think she’d accuse him of rape or assault or something a little more serious? This just doesn’t make any sense to me 😂
@nickgustin
@nickgustin Жыл бұрын
People date internationally 🤯. That’s some expensive Netflix and Chill. I thought it was a 🚩 when a girl from another city wanted to date 🤣. The real 🚩 is creating a new law, when there is already a law in place. For example “Safe Place”, already exists as harassment or sexual harassment. Or “Hate Crime”, already exists as Domestic Violence or Assault. These new laws commonly address gender, gender identity, sexual preference, race, national origin, and religion… which tears apart the equality of law and protects only certain types of people. Law used to be equal… it didn’t mater what color you were, man or woman, gay or straight, Christian or something else, etc. If you really want to understand how this new movement has come about, you have to understand ESG. It stands for Environmental, Social, and Governance. It started as a good idea for businesses to run, but it’s been adopted by governments and pretty much radicalized. It was supposed to be a way for a company to run ethically. But, like Socialism, ESG can only work in small settings. When Socialism (and ESG) is used in large scale applications, it will create famine, protected classes of people, censorship, fascism, etc. It always sounds like a great idea until you’re going to jail for saying a bad word, wearing the wrong clothes, stand up for your values, etc. Yet the “law makers” can continue pumping their agenda of what wrong and right is, tax you insanely to fund their projects, create problems and make you believe that it’s you (that is the problem). Watch out Pea. These “new laws” are bad news. More Laws = Less Freedom. What was wrong with your current harassment and Assault Laws? Why did they have to add all those buzz words? They are creating a police state in your country under the disguise of Equality, Equity, and Fear.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Yes, we already had laws that covered these things
@kenleyva565
@kenleyva565 Жыл бұрын
Hi Pea. I just watched your posting relating to, “The Safe Spaces Law”. I was originally concerned about how it concerned with, how it could affect me. Not an issue, just is common respect for others. I worked at an Electronic Laboratory in San Francisco, for 23 years. Our company hired a lawyer to come in for a day and give us a seminar on aspects of impersonal work relationships. Sorry, I have been over verbose lately. A few weeks ago, I think, I may have had a small, “microvascular ischemia”, I lost some of my vocabulary. It’s returning. Thanks for your postings, I find them very benefits with living here. I built a house, here in Dalaguete.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea Жыл бұрын
Exactly, Ken - don’t give it another thought 👍😊
@jnparesa
@jnparesa Жыл бұрын
Very done my friend
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