Crucial Relationship and Marriage Questions Youth Ask | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

[@officialPeaceHappiness]

I'm single, but I had issues with talking, I was using it negatively until I embraced Christ and he showed me my purpose, I realized I actually had so much to do with talking but not the way I was using it...... Now, I'm living purposely, I can teach the gospel for hours without getting tired or bored, I enjoy talking scriptures. Pst k's advice is right 💯

[@MhercieOnos]

Pastor Mildred is loaded! Deep calls unto deep! Pastor K is an amazing teacher

[@LearnwithUD1]

Your wisdom in answering questions should be studied 💚💚

[@GloriaJohnson-i3o]

ok

[@GloriaJohnson-i3o]

ok

[@dareelisha8673]

The Gift of answering questions, its always sweet listening to you both

[@oyindamolaadeyanju4433]

Wow! I've been watching Pst Mildred's videos since morning,same as Pst Kingsley and it has blessed my soul. I'm not much of a commenter but when Pst Kingsley mentioned that he had just Ond as at the time he got married to pst Mildred i felt relieved cos I'll be getting married to someone who doesn't have a degree in few months and when i told my mentor she said I'll probably regret it in the future even tho i do not see it as a problem, he's doing great for himself,but what she said got me worried, but hearing that from Pst K has set me free from that fear. Thank you ma and sir for yielding to the call of God upon your life, you are a blessing to this generation.

[@hannahsado5504]

That's why the Truth is more powerful than knowledge or an ideology of men. So far your man fears the Lord, has a Vision, understands and is working alongside the purposes of God, he is ready and fit. See Dr. Cosmas MADUKA. There are boy and there are men - the difference BTW these two aren't gotten by degrees. May the wisdom of the Lord Jesus fill our hearts through His Spirit

[@eldadenobhayisobo6300]

I am happy you were able to hear this truth that liberated you.This also shows we need to weigh some of the advice that our mentors give.Not everything is written on stone.God bless u.

[@AliveinChrist247]

A man of God with a touch of burna boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kesiaaowas]

I shouteddddd 😭😭😭

[@AliveinChrist247]

@@kesiaaowas so funny but real 😅😅

[@Jelaskingdom_]

😂😂😂😂

[@abednegonoristv]

Did you know he is Burna's uncle? ☺️

[@AliveinChrist247]

@@abednegonoristv ps K? He is? I didn't know 🤭

[@tiygabaya1838]

the soup licking issue got me rollling on the floor🤣🤣🤣

[@GIFTSYLIVESTER]

I read a book 7 question wow it's a wonderful book

[@dalisobanda318]

Pastor M..be like she is a prayer Warrior 🏃

[@officialPeaceHappiness]

I had a list I so didn't want to give up on but when I Jesus came, I began to give into the word and prayer, a new list came, prayerfully and scripturally selected, I then knew that my own self made list was not just unnecessary but a bit selfish and not knowledgeable..... Now I'm glad Jesus came through, tho he did so much to convinced me that my self made list was bad😂.... I'll have a great kingdom Marriage ❤️💯💃💃

[@sarahabe01]

Amen!!

[@patiencechimulu7219]

I'm 22 and l watch your videos and,,,,,, your videos are helpful

[@nantegorret7438]

Much love from Uganda 🇩🇪 Thanks pastor K and Pastor Mildred for the wisdom 🙏we are surely learning

[@muwanguzibecky6226]

🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬my dear thats our flag not that of Germany, unless your in german per now

[@christinelihavi4068]

@@muwanguzibecky6226😂😂😂She forgot her own

[@cutesnubable]

“Don’t remove the ancient landmark.” Wisdom

[@wafulaaziza9610]

Wow what a Godly advice from Mr and Mrs pastor Kingsley ,God is never mocked He honors our desires

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Hmmmmmmm I have learnt a lot today

[@Elohoralago]

Wow, it's a blessing to always listen to you both. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ.

[@jessyjonas4988]

Amen sister Deep calls to deep By their fruits you shall know them

[@zebulonanyanwu3955]

Thank you Pastors Okonkwo for being humourous and yet having cutting edge answers to the questions posed.

[@jackybabyj5824]

Kiiaaaa! I love these couple

[@blessingchukwu320]

Wow I just listened to this and I must confess have learnt alot and I say Thanks to you both

[@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey]

Thank you PM and PK🥰 More grace and anointing 🥰

[@EUCHARIAZERMSUUR]

God bless you pastors,you have truly been a blessing to me

[@favourehineboh319]

Hmmm The word "Learn to live ready"

[@vickyrichie6211]

Thank you sir Thank you ma'am. Am bless to have you close to me

[@winnieodhiambo2375]

We are here patiently waiting. May God help us n open our understanding.

[@SuzetteKhiba]

Wow, I'm so blessed by this. Surely learned alot.. Love from Namibia 😇❤️🇳🇦

[@damilolaadekanmbi2751]

This Wonderful couple are great gift to the body of Christ. God bless you and your ministry, and your home.

[@MercyOgbogbo]

Thank you Sir/Ma , for your powerful teachings on Marriage. God bless you

[@preciousmulenga2230]

Poweful questions and answers 💯

[@NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk]

Much love from Uganda. But I really like your teachings

[@agubalungozi2509]

Pastor Kingsley and Mildred okonkwo, You guys are full of wisdom and I love you guys

[@joymadu5036]

Please, what do you think about going back to a relationship you had left as a lady, the guy also wants you back?

[@olasupojumoke6388]

Am so blessed with this question nd answer, , seriously to be sincere, my orientation, towards marriage change ❤️

[@edidiongjeremiah1584]

powerful words of wisdom

[@nyimbonizipendazo]

So much wisdom. GOD bless you pastor K and Pastor M

[@monicadiegboh9339]

Wow hw I wish am here live thanks p k and p m this my generation we need help oooooo hmm

[@mariamajoke817]

I'm blessed!

[@okonkwoijeomaj838]

Amazing questions and answers God bless you Sir and ma

[@gertrudentiamoah9722]

Thank you PK and PM ❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@OluwafunkeEsther-m6e]

I'm blessed

[@ezehjennifer324]

Amazing! Thanks pastors

[@NNELISHALOM]

Deep calls to deep!!! Ahhh Deepppp!!!

[@princemichael2739]

Yeah. “Real recognize real”

[@goodnewstv7573]

Blessed

[@olawuyiabidemi8216]

Really enjoyed and learnt more from this session Thanks sir and ma

[@houseofellatv7115]

So insightful Thanks Sir and May More Grace

[@tamara3825]

Thank you to u all this was good.

[@stephencatherine7997]

This is great,I ve lent alot from you guys, so wonderful thanks 🙏 and more grace

[@justqueenlaney]

I love you guys! Your wisdom is overwhelming❤️

[@iremiposiajayi122]

6:14-6:31 is so key!!!

[@sarahelemi7329]

Thank you for the teaching Sir

[@enochhossana597]

really enjoyed watching this God bless you sir and ma'am

[@charlotteleeward1738]

Can we also ask questions on the utube platform? Coz I have questions 😢

[@934rex]

SuperFANTASTIC 🔥🔥🔥…

[@airstarbukki8829]

Wisdom!

[@Official_cupid042]

Wow.

[@favourejumaoche8184]

I love u two very much ,please I want to be a marriage counselor and a relationship coach ,please how do I go about it?

[@amaraubah9071]

Please can someone help me with the first teaching he did before this video

[@jnralexander7913]

How do someone deal with a jealous spouse?

[@snsn7251]

If it's a spouse go to counselling. If not married leave

[@princemichael2739]

@@snsn7251You have a point. But “jealous-loving” is not entirely bad. It can be useful in marriage. It can be a protective tool. I’m married. My wife is a jealous-lover, but not to a toxic extent. The jealous-love actually helps to protect our marriage. The problem is when it gets toxic. I think they should get more knowledge and counseling on the subject.

[@okonkwoijeomaj838]

Those are canopy brothers run for Your Life ooooooo

[@QueenEsthersDiaries]

I receive and move!

[@misidee]

That first question about MIL staying “permanently” is a little tricky. If you have aging parents requiring extra assistance you will understand what I mean especially if she’s a widow. No caregiver on earth can ever take care of your parents like you can. What’s most important is that you cultivate a great relationship with your MIL even before aging sets in. While it’s always advisable she stays with one of her daughters in her later years but what if she has only sons and no daughters? I’ve no issues with my MIL staying over especially in the later years because she’s a woman of honor and has behaved herself as such.

[@giftmuswema8111]

I think in this context the question was based on a newly wed whose inlaw has come to stay permanently

[@officialPeaceHappiness]

The context of this question is for a newly married, and the MIL is still young

[@graceforalways6445]

Great points and I agree but like the pastor said, your wife has to be on board or it's a bad move. You should look to honor your wife too.

[@PeterMary-k5u]

How I wish I am here I have a question 😢

[@okaforpriscilla8512]

What if a lady is in a relationship with someone that has vision and very okay to marry but is having financial issue making the marriage indefinite Does it mean she should move on since she isn't ready to wait for long..?

[@joethedream1793]

No but of them need to work togather. 4get. about today. Think abt tomorrow.

[@snsn7251]

Vision is one thing, but is the person.actively seeking to make that vision a reality? Also while they are getting to the vision both ppl need to do what they need to do to improve their finances. Maybe take on a 2nd job temporarily

[@Queeneth_Jumbo]

❤❤❤

[@okonkwoijeomaj838]

God forbid canopy brothers 🤣🤣🤣🤣 10 waisted years Tufuiakwa 😱

[@Ebeauty57]

Please what church did this event take place?

[@AliveinChrist247]

Them don finish lick soup 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Date definitely. Don't date in secret. Bring the man you're dating to your pastors and mentors

[@faithekwonwa6749]

Love this

[@nyimbonizipendazo]

Pastor K, mouth kissing is not oral sex

[@934rex]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@medaiyesejanet203]

Lord of the ring 😅

[@michaellageorge3181]

You want a man of God with a touch of burna boy. Hahahah

[@kudzisworship1262]

Hilarious 😂

[@onyinyechijennifer5363]

😂😂😂😅

[@melodyraygospel3872]

Please what do you do when your husband constantly denies my input to the family both spiritually and financially and he does these things infront of the family members and parents but when things get difficult he turns to you again. So what do I do

[@ireenbwalya1923]

This is not right. You are a team, he is supposed to discuss things with you and get your input. Seek God in prayer before discussing this with him. Then with wisdom, approach him and bring out your concerns. If he accepts he is wrong and changes, that's good . But if he does not, seek counsel of your Pastor and church elders

[@snsn7251]

Seek counselling

[@princemichael2739]

Communication is key. You must find a way to have a discussion with him about it. You must look for moment when he is calm and open for talk, then you respectfully and carefully present the matter to him. He may be doing it ignorantly, as most men do, based on ego. And if he continues, he may create problems that may be difficult to rectify. Pray about it. Let God order your steps.

[@akubuearinze577]

Good morning sir I appreciate all your teachings on relationship and marriage but I think I got it wrong when you approved remarrying. According to the bible I understand that husband and wife can only separate as a result of fornication (fornication is different from Adultery)and either of the two would not go Scott free why; Because he or she has caused the other to commit Adultery

[@aidaeritrin7944]

You want a man of God with a touch of Burna boy😅😅😂😂

[@amakaantoinette7191]

😂😂 that line 😂😂😂😂

[@Ayobamidele1]

😂 naa Soo naw .no lies🤗

[@victoryakalazu758]

👏

[@kenchuks9051]

If mother in law is a widow nko

[@ishamunu1283]

Don't remove the accient land mark wisdom deep calls to deep

[@iremiposiajayi122]

The first question, I think it is okay for a mother in law to stay with the couple especially if she is widowed. She may not want to live alone or she may have health challenges. It really depends.

[@nnenniaifepe5073]

@iremiposi Ajayi, the problem is that our parents will always see us as kids and Interference will always happen no matter how hard we try. This is why I encourge widows to remarry and not sacrifice their happiness for kids who will still leave

[@enahorookhamafe2710]

The most important factor is, are the couples agreed on this? If they are , then it's goes to no issue! If one is and the other is not, then it's best they work out a solution agreeable to both of them.

[@couplesissues5150]

@@enahorookhamafe2710 how about if the man is adamant that his mother must stay and the wife doesn’t want his mother to stay. No one wants to budge?

[@enahorookhamafe2710]

@@couplesissues5150 Fact is, the couple are best suited to iron out the areas of disagreement and arrive at a resolution. Why is the man insistent on his mum in-law coming to stay, and why is the wife insistent on that not happening?? That's where I think they can start the resolution from!

[@nwadikechidinmaquinn1822]

YOU DONT KNOW WHAT PEOPLE GO THROUGH WHEN SOME MOTHER IN-LAWS STAY IN THEIR HOUSE... TO AVOID UNNECESSARY ISSSUES. THEY CAN GET HER AN APARTMENT PLEASE. SHE CAN BE VISITING

[@jessyjonas4988]

Madam To believe in submission The man head of the house is scripture Say you believe what the bible had to say about Marriage

[@parvinacouture]

The first question... I tell you, don’t try it oo. It doesn’t work, another thing is that, if the wife doesn’t work from home, and it will work.

[@ayozievictoria7046]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@imotumbokanaka4157]

pastor, i don't agree with you, interest cannot be compromised, you can get a Godly person that u will like, is better to be single than be with someone because of the biological clock, that is a marriage of convenience, ladies make choice from there options.

[@mercyme811]

“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery." Luke 16:18. The scripture is plain. Remarriage is adultery. Period. There's nothing about if the divorce is because of abuse, immorality, or whatever. Only death warrants remarriage. And God's word is final.

[@comforttitus8982]

They laughing because of Buhari

[@snsn7251]

Lol

[@awilliams382]

❤❤❤