Leap Of Faith | Love Is Blind Season 7 Episode 12 | Recap & Review

[@jakemarie828]

I stopped trusting Ramses after he called himself a feminist and then threw a hissy fit about condoms

[@Joan-COYI]

Yes. Merissa dodged a bullet there.

[@GG-kn2se]

So manipulative. “I don’t want you to feel like you need birth control if it impact you negatively BUT I refuse to wear a condom.” Like where did that leave her? Immediately made it her responsibility and hers alone.

[@TheJBite]

Yes both can't co exist.

[@ina43431]

@@TheJBite no they can't... because at the end of the day the outcome will always have a physical effect on the woman.

[@TheJBite]

@ina43431 i meant they CANT exist...my bad. 🥹

[@nihileyes]

Everything shifted when Ramses couldn’t have sex for a few days. He never loved her!!!

[@PrettyPolyInPink]

🎯

[@Mskyraelise]

That's why as woman we need to make them wait. They would have learned that were not meant for each other much earlier if they didn't get physical so early.

[@VoloraHowell]

She's too good for him

[@LivBlanks]

I think from the get go he was finding things to either make HER leave HIM or to make it seem like whatever minor thing is just a major thing he can't get past. Theres a word for that .. but I can't seem to think of it...

[@scovyaporsha]

​@@Mskyraelise This Comment should be pinned. All Facts. Yes Yes and Yes ..❤❤❤❤

[@EllaBeth30]

Never beg a man to be with you. The second he has doubts, keep your head up and walk away!

[@M4dH4tt3rsMus3]

This is easier said than done. Especially when it comes as a shock to Marissa. Because it looks like all he did was reassure her he was there for the long haul and then boom 💥 he was done.

[@sunshinecandygurl6358]

I learned this the hard way but a very relevant truth!

[@TheQueenE]

‼️‼️‼️

[@Blahgirl283]

I actually admired Marissa for her emotional honesty. She wasn’t afraid to fight and when it was time to give up, she did. Most people would hold it in, but she wore her heart on her sleeves. I’m glad Ramses didn’t let it sway his stance though bc that would have been even more unfair to her since he was definitely not in love enough to say yes.

[@_alycia]

📢📢📢🎯

[@marriejames01]

Marissa doesn’t see it yet but Ramses leaving is a blessing. She deserves much better. I will give him props for not ditching her at the alter.

[@amberevol]

he can get half a prop 😒

[@dearmakeupdiary]

True! She’s much better than him 💯

[@heatheraggus7501]

​@@amberevolthis made me chuckle. So accurate! One half a prop at most.

[@Kelystia]

YES. 💯💯💯💯

[@pepper6528]

I wanted to reach thru my tv screen and give Marrissa a hug. That was so heartbreaking. No I didn't like them as a couple, but her pain was so incredibly relatable and intense.

[@mayabasquin]

yes

[@hannahrannah2739]

Me too. ❤ It was so real.

[@immaculatepeter5529]

I hope she takes this a lesson.

[@Brenduh03]

I felt it excessive

[@zimtapfel]

Felt it in my bones. Been there too many times. 💔

[@Thebiggest7303]

The fact that Marissa was damn near begging him hurt me

[@Brenduh03]

No woman should ever beg for a man 😅

[@melweathers91]

💯

[@zezegirl1]

It was really sad to watch I hope she’s okay

[@mrsgigi8862]

Broke my heart

[@Radmxray]

😢 It was so hard to watch

[@jakemarie828]

Tyler was crying out of guilt. Ashley deserves full transparency and he knows it.

[@kmariamv]

Guilt or fear

[@alyssiab.]

He's said numerous times he told her off camera and remember this is an edited show

[@REINdrops8]

@@alyssiab.hopefully he really did tell her. He's trash but they seem really happy together.. we'll see what happens..

[@M4dH4tt3rsMus3]

I think so too!

[@Thebiggest7303]

She got it! And she don’t care about them kids just as much as he DONT she’s posting him and her ring STILL I wish yall stop saying this and read the room , what makes y’all think that she don’t know right now after all of this after all of this, she is proudly posting him. It’s a little shady if you ask me.

[@jewellewarner4977]

Ramses wasted Marissa’s time!

[@Aunty87]

Absolutely agree

[@kimmi2662]

I'm with Marrisa's mom, Ramses lost me with that hair, the fake empathy was the icing on the ick cake 😂

[@Thebiggest7303]

Blame the mom

[@DawnNa_22]

Her delivery could’ve been softer, but Marissa’s mom was 100% valid and the results speak for themselves.

[@KittyKat-zo1ue]

@@Thebiggest7303blame or thank the mom?

[@sherryw6193]

I like the couple leaving early instead of wasting everyone’s time going to a wedding that’s not going to happen.

[@jclyntoledo]

Yeah but that's because now the producers actually let them leave early versus the first few seasons you could only leave at the honeymoon stage or at the altar after you said yes

[@haley2542]

Ramses.. the male progressive feminist… a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

[@Arcanine1995]

Ramses was horrible to Marissa, the gaslighting omg. My mum, who refuses to watch reality TV, overheard her crying and was genuinely concerned. It was so sad :(

[@bettahalfofme6658]

My heart broke for Marissa, but in the long run, she dodged a huge bullet. Her mom should follow through with her promise.

[@amberevol]

fr , do the world a favor

[@Olivetree144]

Yup!

[@Brenduh03]

He dodged it for her

[@kcfitness8710]

Haaaaaaaa 😅😅😅😅😅

[@jclyntoledo]

Um, that would be assault... 🤨

[@deed6041]

Women truly need to protect their bodies...these men will use you up physically, with no intent on truly valuing you. Please stop offering your soul to these waste men.

[@solarthelight]

@@deed6041 Yes!

[@kybunnii]

100%

[@broomsnshrooms]

I feel like Tyler's plan was to baby trap Ashley as soon as they get married. She has more a reason to stay once all the tea comes out.

[@lumensapace]

100% that’s his plan. I’m so scared for her that she’ll be pregnant at the reunion

[@LivBlanks]

​@lumensapace yep i just clicked op comment to say i was TERRIFIED of her either being pregnant or already having had the baby. Please God no..

[@TheBaba1920]

@@broomsnshrooms yes!!

[@amyalbernaz8687]

He looking to get his his CS arrears paid off

[@Aunty87]

Ramses trying to feed off of Marissa's light because he can't create enough of his own. Selfish from the jump!

[@TheMemoryPolice]

Never let people feed off your light whether it be a boyfriend, someone who pretends to be a friend or a family member.

[@asunset8545]

I feel like Ramses was not feeling her for awhile,you could tell by his body language since their first conversation about the army, but he kept it going longer.

[@c.christmas2903]

You are 1000% correct. His face said everything when Marissa went on the military rant.

[@jasminet6124]

I agree, he wanted to break up with her from time!

[@medaherf9462]

And he wasn’t into any details abt the wedding

[@DNGx3]

He stayed cus he was raw dogging, but couldn’t pull the trigger on marriage. Used and wasted her time

[@scovyaporsha]

​@@DNGx3 Free Holiday, Free cat, Free Food and Free Rent.. Waste Man. Just Rubbish . Using that girl like that.

[@VenusRayne]

It was hard seeing how in pain marissa was bc this man basically said he doesn't like her energy aka her personality or her military service aka who she is and that is soooo heartbreaking to hear from someone you thought loved you . There was something so relatable about the way she cried to him and to herself/her mum😢

[@jay4u4ever]

I think him using her energy as a cop out. Stop telling men your weaknesses.

[@whitleywhitley2280]

Yea he was a turd from the start thk goodness he called it off because she deserved better

[@vanessagrayman2194]

Taylor’s dad is a gem, a little tear came out when he talked about his brother I can’t lie.

[@Blahgirl283]

It was so touching and even more so was the fact that the “hard things to come” he spoke about was loss or grief and not what most people say like “hating her or growing tired of her for years.” Taylor and Garrett are truly blessed to have examples of marriage as true partnership, independence coming together to make something more powerful together. I’m glad they said yes.

[@ItsGoingDao]

Ashley, her mom, and her grandma - absolutely stunning genetics. However, they all seem to share the trait of selecting men who don’t deserve them. If I heard correctly, her grandfather was the same way as her father. I was tempted to throw the cherry tomatoes I was eating at the screen whenever Tyler was shown 🍅

[@mwoods4608]

It's unfortunate fr

[@Monicahappened]

It’s always the beautiful women 😭

[@GrandHoopla]

I just can't even see his face anymore, forward through their toxic lie filled relationship

[@Flandish]

Look a bit like a générational curse to me... Cause Tyler has been flawless from the beginning. His explination for the babies should have been enough to run but at this point she was in too deep.

[@solangevarela5802]

If the whole Tyler situation was not a thing… that would have been a joy to watch! I was mad the whole time and kept fast forwarding like uuuhhhgggg. 🥴😩

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Same

[@laurenthomas3748]

Same here! I’m not falling for Tyler’s crocodile tears!

[@laurennyack8894]

I'm glad Ramsey was honest before putting Marissa through a marriage that wouldn't last, but Marissa was absolutely right when she said he shouldn't have gone on the show.

[@PurpleAlize]

Marissa's mom is hunting Ramses' down as we speak

[@amberevol]

both Garrett & Taylor's parents having anniversaries on the 13th was really nuts. they aren't EXCITING but i think that bodes well for them tbh. they fell in love, they had a mild conflict & worked thru it, & then they got married w no hangups so that's the best i think any of us can hope for esp from the clusterf*ck that is LIB 😂 i hope they are blessed w stability & longevity & i hope she considers his feelings as much as he considers hers i hope we get to hear from Leo & Brittany in the reunion, i just want her to call him a creep on tv 😂

[@danferraro3598]

It hurts my heart to see Marissa cry like that. She's a 10/10 in personality and looks and yet still gets treated with this crap...

[@biancaneves3346]

My guess: Ashley will defend Tyler in the reunion, but this marriage won't last.

[@NIO623]

I give then 2 years max..it will be over by fall of 2025. His lies will catch up to her.

[@ask_why000]

What a hateful thing to say.

[@jessicawilliams3849]

@@ask_why000Saying a marriage with a man who denounced his kids won’t work is hateful?

[@mwoods4608]

I think he explained it more off camera.

[@maranathatothekingofkings2836]

​@@mwoods4608but not taking care of his kids. Cold

[@Monicahappened]

I miss early 2000’s reality tv where perhaps Tyler’s baby mama would’ve pulled up to the wedding. 😂 But we’ve since learned to have more compassion over the years, these are real peoples lives.

[@Jushumm]

Or if it was TLC she’d be invited to the reunion 🥴

[@hannahrannah2739]

To your first point: THANK YOU! The stuff people are complaining about are clearly the effects of production practicing higher ethical standards. Upset viewers are out here like Ramses, theoretically wanting everyone to be treated fairly but not wanting to sacrifice the little pleasures they’re used to.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

They had no reason to remove the cameras in the homes though....that was a safety precaution that they dismissed because they cared more for liability imo.....and brought on a season FULL of horrible and dare I say dangerous (in unique ways too) men..

[@hannahrannah2739]

@@pixiestxNyomouf I understand where you’re coming from. I figured they removed the cameras from inside the homes because of how often they used to air clips of couples getting intimate that imo were too private for Netflix to show (like when Brett and Tiffany first got intimate, I was like uhhh okay cut away from her butt now lol).

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

@@hannahrannah2739 they are still doing that on other shows (the Spanish spin off most recently)

[@hannahrannah2739]

@@pixiestxNyomouf DUUUDE if you’re talking about Mexico, I saw that! That was not cool. I did wonder if it was because in other countries, the standards of appropriateness are different. Not that it makes it cool, but I noticed it happens a lot less in the US version.

[@TheBaba1920]

Marissa is me, so I can see how a well adjusted woman could want love so much that she'd give up a lot to make it work with someone who is saying he wants her as well.

[@jakemarie828]

Marissa deserves better and so do you 🫂

[@kimmi2662]

I was sad to see how torn up she was, and Ramses being so late to the party with the truth that he just wasn't feeling her once they got off that honeymoon high.

[@TheBaba1920]

@@jakemarie828 amen to that ! Watching somebody else experience has really help me. I wouldn’t want a man like that in my life.

[@hbassey]

Yes, it was very relatable and I think helped me heal a bit from my most recent long term relationship that I finally ended after realizing I had become a shell of myself

[@TheBaba1920]

@@hbassey I'm so sorry about the breakup, but I hope you find the joy in this situation. You did the right thing.

[@greymatters7039]

Angela scared off Ramses. He knew mama wasn’t playing with him. Marissa, rejection is protection.

[@michelledoan2619]

Do you mean Vanessa, Marissa's mom? 😅

[@s.noooze]

Finally lol I’ve been refreshing KZbin all day 😭

[@sofia-ot3dv]

@@s.noooze saammmeeee!!!

[@JusJello8]

Me too!!!!

[@tgeddes7602]

Yuppp, me!!!

[@amrutajain3623]

Sameee

[@Vventura-v93]

😂 same same!

[@mrsgigi8862]

Marissa had me crying before the credits even rolled. I just wanted to hug her. She deserves better.

I feel like ramses didnt like marissa from the moment they met. She was just so elated and beaming with energy, and I could already sense that he got annoyed but tried to hide it. Then he stayed because of the sex (hence why he got so upset when she was on her period). That's why I could never get invested in them, I always felt there was something off with him.

[@maranathatothekingofkings2836]

I always skipped , I was not feeling them

[@CallmeQuayZ]

💯

[@sunshinecandygurl6358]

Queenie you made a boring episode enjoyable 😂 Thanks sis!

[@radhikaraj7394]

What sucks is Ashley and Tyler were or potentially have been married for 1 year-ish since this show didnt air till a month ago, so she was probably living in bliss with him for this long and his abandoned poor babies wondering where dad is…

[@Jushumm]

Yeah she definitely only just found out with the rest of us

[@seggyyy]

He had a year to prep his next set of lies

[@radhikaraj7394]

@@seggyyylol yes!

[@radhikaraj7394]

@@Jushumm sucks ..

[@hbassey]

Wow, I hadn't thought of that. That's terrible

[@moglaspie]

Ramses blindsided Marissa but honestly it was the best thing he did for her. She deserves someone who is sure

[@Jusv1be]

You are right and he still waisted her time. I didn't like how Marrissa begged ramses to stay.

[@moglaspie]

@Jusv1be agreed but I get that too when u are in love with someone

[@whitleywhitley2280]

​@@moglaspienot real love, some of these ladies be caught up in the moment of possibility finding a match.....Marissa had her blinders on because ramses was never a match....thk goodness he called it off otherwise she would've put up with a silly marriage being with this man

[@moglaspie]

@whitleywhitley2280 I don't know how she felt. She may fall in love quickly either way I do believe she had blinders on and didn't seem to ask real questions that would determine compatibility.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

He had no business on the shoe, Stephen too. It's a different type of disrespect to come on here and say you didn't consider or weren't expecting the seriousness of marriage. That is putting aside the other things

[@dearteruhashi]

whew chile… all I know, is that the reunion is going to be juicy. ramses toxic masculinity, tyler the menace, freaky deaky stephen, lord…

[@Thebiggest7303]

It was already filmed ! They won’t be getting into none of the good stuff at all

[@Gumche.]

Ashley got a package deal Buy 1 get +3

[@Isabel_fit]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@embee16]

Lmfaoo😭

[@G0t2luvMaggie]

I had to skip through the Ashley and Tyler heart felt moments because I couldn’t deal with his phoniness. He’s manipulative and a swindler. But now that Ashley knows what she knows and defending him online then he still has no contact with his kids. I wouldn’t want to be with a man who is already a dead beat dad and overall dead beat. My heart hurts for the kids because they are stuck in all this mess. When he mentioned on the honeymoon people might say a lot about me but don’t listen to them. I thought what is this man hiding?

[@zayynabou]

idk if it was just me, but with how anxious Tyler was it just gave that his mind was veryyy occupied. the way he kept looking in the distance and his body language, i wonder if he was thinking of his kids in that moment

[@Monicahappened]

It looked like something deep was weighing on him.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

The way he cut his eyes IMMEDIATELY when she asked if they knew what he looked like. I bet his guts knotted up

[@PrettyPolyInPink]

Tyler need somewhere to live and Ashley has a GOODT job. He tryna get her knocked up because winter in DC is harsh!! Ninja need room and board.

[@REINdrops8]

Where does she work?

[@Becoming_Els]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@melainarose]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ac4007]

@@REINdrops8 she’s a marketing director

[@marriejames01]

Yep, I thought that too. We never saw his place.

[@brynpowell5448]

Ashely's family genes! 🙌🙌

[@TheQueenE]

Listeeeeen!!

[@confessionsofarevert5151]

I thought the Grandma was the aunt and the mom was a sister. ❤ But she looks a lot like her dad.

[@mliwia1]

I really feel bad for Marissa and all these comments like you should show some respect for yourself and not to beg him makes me think people who say so never was dumped by person they were truly in love with. Yes, the first reaction is to beg, deny, negotiate - asking ‘are you sure?’ After some time, when the emotions and pain is not so high you can reflect and look and the situation with some calm reasoning, but at the moment when it happens your world crushes. I felt so bad for her, it made me cry to see her to suffer like that 😢

[@c.christmas2903]

Ramses should have left 4 episodes ago. When he heard Marissa' philosophies and looked at the way she handled stress, he was turned off.

[@terry-annfrancis1252]

He wanted more screen time probably. He really exhausted it to the very end. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jodyyy8752]

How did she handle stress? I'm confused ..

[@thickthickly]

​@@jodyyy8752By just calming down and retreating inward a little. I Guess Ramses just couldn't handle that.......

[@hereforit2347]

Marissa just wants to be married to someone. *ANYONE.* She said, “I just want someone to CHOOSE me!” Being chosen is only a tiny fraction of what a good marriage is based on. Marissa said she was “willing to be unhappy for five to seven years” before divorcing someone. Why? She needs intensive therapy before even thinking about entering into a relationship.

[@_kaytastrophee]

marissa's pain is so relatable . it probably did come as a shock to her considering he seemed so sure he wanted to marry. i mean, we literally saw them sign the marriage certificate! she didn't deserve that . biggest waste of her time .

[@hbassey]

Yes and whenever she brought up her instincts telling her maybe he isn't into it, he reassured her! Terrible

[@_kaytastrophee]

@@hbassey TERRIBLE !! i wanted to give her the biggest hug 🥺. after that convo they had about her not being as intimate with him, everything changed

[@strh2]

I don’t know why Marissa was surprised. He showed her many times with his inaction in planning the wedding and telling her he was still feeling everything out when she asked where his head was at. She ignored the signs.

[@hbassey]

Because RAMSES repeatedly reassured her when her gut told her something was off! It's disgusting to see how easily people trick others into doubting their instincts

[@almerok]

As a married woman THANK YOU for expressing the part about the reality of marriage. I don't know where people get this idea of perpetual bliss in marriage. Fr some people there are months to years on end where you and your partner are just not on the same planet and you're just making it work because you committed to making it work. I'm not referring to extreme situations (including abuse and infidelity etc) just humans being humans. I can't think of a single relationship in my life where everything is always great. My mom is one of my favourite people on earth and there were periods of time where we didn't get along as well and times where we were incredibly close. I don't expect my relationship with my husband to always be amazing. There are times of utter bliss and times when things have felt terrible. We promised each other forever, we promised for better or for worse, in sickness and in health.

[@silverbee3373]

I am married to my husband for 29 years and can confirm, you are absolutely right.

[@be1812]

Agreed! My second year of marriage to my husband was the hardest yet due to several factors, but I am so glad he and I stuck it out! Now we are doing so much better and we both love and respect each other more than ever. I have definitely found that love grows in marriage when nurtured, and sadly some couples don't nurture after they say "I do".

[@mariaelizondo7808]

My husband and I have been married for a long time and because he always wants to put me first on everything I always make sure that he is put in first for me too from his heart to his belly. When a person treats you right you can’t help it you just want to do everything for them too. ❤

[@lallana2882]

Anyone else remember the clip from an early trailer of Rames in a pool with someone where he says "if I weren't engaged, I'd f**k you"? Where is it production? WTF? Seems like a HUGE thing to leave out, especially after showing it in a trailer.

[@Olivetree144]

Yes like what happened with this??

[@katiechapman6473]

This!!!!! I told my sister about that clip and she thought I was crazy because she never saw it and I have been sitting here all season waiting for it.

[@Miss24EE]

Interesting. I haven’t seen it

[@melweathers91]

Yes!!! I remember seeing something in the trailer that made me not like him from the jump and knew it wasn't shown! Then I thought maybe it was a joke to one of the guys before he showed his ass and confirmed the feeling for me.

[@sujaaay3571]

Can yall blow this up everywhere so they can show it on the reunion 😭😭😭

[@sammazza763]

Someone over at Netflix has a vendetta against Ramses because they spent soooo much time letting his villain arc unfold. Also she asked if her energy would be too much in the pods and that was the reason he broke it off? Brooo

[@hbassey]

I'm a nonprofit advocate and so disappointed. I am happy we could watch such interesting conversations with Marissa and Ramses and I don't think we would have seen Marissa say everything she did if she'd chosen Bodhan, but other than that Ramses just added more trauma to her already trauma -filled past

[@Raynebow.]

Finally, someone with a leveled perspective on why this season has veiled so much! We have been telling LIB to take better care of the cast and they’re finally doing it. Im happy that we aren’t being entertained at their cost of their mental health bc while it is admirable to remedy someones mental health it’s better not to publicly destroy in the first place

[@mwoods4608]

Ram - his family told him "remember you divorced you x because she wasn't a lazy pot head like you" Her energy : Marissa is a go getter, she likes a schedule, she is driven, ambitious, she isn't as loosey goosey as he is. I don't think it's the military per say, more of the actual lifestyle.

[@marriejames01]

Yep, I think being with her he’d have to have goals and actually accomplish something. No more coasting in life with a job. She’d probably push going back to school and working towards a career.

[@hbassey]

As a nonprofit advocate, I'm disappointed in Ramses. I actually was excited to see a community activist on screen but he's giving macktivist

[@Bdaychick]

I know the producers struck gold, but watching Marissa‘s devastation in real time was not only uncomfortable but it was painful. It lasted a little too long for my comfort. She definitely loved Ramses more than he loved her & her love was forcing her to be blind on certain aspects that showed them to be incompatible (religion, military, sex, etc) . I truly felt bad for her. Ashley decided to tear all the red flags down and make a damn dress smh well, it’s her life not mine lol Taylor and Garrett were set from the beginning so congratulations to them!!

[@Sadji594]

I just realized, did Tyler even tell her he was engaged before.

[@pai13-31g]

Facts! "I love your energy" is an amber flag for me, I always pause to assess if I am bringing all the vibes to a relationship and if I feel energised or drained after interactions. People will suck you dry and leave you as a shell of yourself. Remember Ramses said he loves how Marissa holds space for him in the pods 👀 the man can't hold space for her in the reverse

[@amandadiaddezio188]

To open this episode with Marissa and Ramses' breakup was such a bold choice and the lack of edits during most of their conversation just really emphasized for me the REALITY of some peoples' stories. Some people couldn't seem to be bothered when their LIB relationship doesn't work out, but watching Marissa deal with the breakup the way she did was one of the most real moments I have ever seen on this show. It was honestly a hard watch, it makes you think about some really hard personal past breakups. My heart goes out to Marissa because she was clearly deeply affected by this relationship.

[@ShafiqaIdris]

Regarding only two couple making it to the wedding day. I like that couples can leave earlier. It is more realistic and some couples should have left even earlier than they did.

[@TheBaba1920]

Naw, she literally picked her dad. Tyler and her dad vibing is not a good sign. Typer not having his father there and Ashley having her dad featured are tell tell signs. She's too forgiving, and he's avoidant.

[@NIO623]

Yes, I'm Nigerian and I spotted her Dad coming when we first saw him. Tyler is just like her Dad. Sad!

[@Blahgirl283]

I thought the same. I was like: girl, you’re marrying your dad and you don’t even know it.

[@TheBaba1920]

@@Blahgirl283 Down to the fact that he's abandoning and emotionally damaging his own flesh and blood

[@kaylinbrown1656]

I just don't have words.... the reunion will absolutely be one to watch 👀 love you and your videos 🤍

[@GrandHoopla]

I'd put money on them not really pushing any Qs, will let Tyler, Ramses, Hannah, and Tim get away with a shallow apology

[@melainarose]

You are spot on about Marissa being consistent 👊

[@Fafou_06]

Seeing Marissa cry like that and trying to beg this man to stay, I was like “girl, let his fluid a$$ go, get yourself off that floor right now”. She truly was blindsided by this. I need my belt for Ashley, cause girl as pretty as you are and smart as you seem to be, you are just as desperate 😒😒cause ain’t no way in hell, heaven or in between you would catch me in this situation

[@Becoming_Els]

16:07 girl same! I took myself out of the dating pool because I have some healing to do but holy cow these people are crazy out here 😊

[@TheBaba1920]

I"m glad Tyler got exposed because I really needed to see how much these men's behavior is not about me. It's too many broken men out there, but it's not my responsibility to change/care for any adult.

[@Blahgirl283]

Yeah. I’m glad too bc it really solidified how easy it is for toxic men to love bomb and lie lie lie. And it has nothing to do with you. Ashley is amazing. His behavior - is his alone and a product of a lot of trauma - trauma he’s experienced or felt and trauma he’s dished out. Was very sad she said yes. Very, very sad…

[@Monicahappened]

Yeah and men are always blaming us with the “choose better “ line. Clearly there is not much to choose from. They LIE at the beginning. Are we supposed to predict the future?

[@dianagremanis4532]

Ashley said men are clearance rack. Well Tyler is 99% off, so basically free!

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Aha screaming ! 😂😂

[@iamHispen]

My thoughts in real-time as I watched the episode: "Marissa girl don't cry. He is doing you a favor. OMG is that a thong! Hit the road Jack!" 🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@Olivetree144]

I thought it was a thong too!!!

[@kristen6207]

What thong??? Where????

[@Kiddkyuubi]

7:19 my face when Ashley said I do 😂

[@lr1974]

Your comment about how every time a man says "I love your energy" you end up a shell of your former self. Yup. That's why I finally, after decades of dating and relationships, am very happily retired from all of that. I've never been happier.

[@Ebiisan]

11:58 what I’ve come to realize is some men don’t believe they have children unless they claim them. Parenthood is seen as optional and abstract so they could all be aware of those three children but they consider them his kids because they “belong” to their mother. It’s not right, but it’s the rationale I have seen time and time again

[@spice4life67]

It must be sad for Ashley right now because she is looking forward to morning coffee from Tyler and is learning in real time that Tyler is a deadbeat dad, a woman swindler, his weekend sexcapade, asking another woman to come over while he is engaged. Lying to her face, using god to maniplate her, the list goes on and on............

[@nihileyes]

7:38 THIS!!! this kind of man is typically miserable! And once they siphoned all of your energy - they discard you.

[@symonemiah7962]

Girl did you notice the difference in music between the two ceremonies 😭😭😭 Netflix playing favorites fr

[@birdi3beez]

Cinematography too 😂 we got to see birds land on the water and horse carriage rides with Garett and Taylor😂 I’m not mad though they are a beautiful couple.

[@romeokimss]

Marissa’s and Ramses’ relationship is exactly why I don’t sleep with every man I date. I wish more women would hold off on smex until they get deeper into a relationship.

[@Allisonszxo]

👌🏻100%

[@shamsham9015]

I too thought it was weird that they’d announce the guys were from LIB at the game, but when I heard the announcement again, it sounds like an audio layover. That’s not how announcers sound at live games. It also wouldn’t make sense for them to do so wayyyy before the cast is announced

[@TheQueenE]

Right? That didn’t make sense but oh well, that’s the edit they gave us 🤣

[@Jushumm]

I wish they wouldn’t have aired all that footage of Marissa crying. Like sheesh… why yall gotta do her like that!? And Queen E, I agree with Tyler doing all that stuff, dare I say it’s lovebombing (the whole process is tho lol) but he’s trying to show how great he is now cause she’s eventually gonna learn something she doesn’t like.

[@HailL369]

I love the way you explain the episodes. You’re so direct.

[@AquarianDreamer3x]

Ever since we found out about Tyler, the clip of Ashley talking about the call with her dad saying what if Tyler is a liar like your last guy, keeps replaying in my head everytime i see them together. Can not wait for the reunion

[@KungFuKenni8]

@@AquarianDreamer3x that was Monica not Ashley

[@KungFuKenni8]

that was Monica not Ashley

[@AquarianDreamer3x]

@@KungFuKenni8 omg you're right! I've been thinking of Ashley in that scene ever since Monica and them dropped off

[@fay10999]

can we talk about the way Ramses speaks? That man REALLY says nothing..wtf does “energies coexisting in the same place” meannn. I didn’t notice it before but he frustrating to listen to

[@audralong6067]

The prayer circle comment had me howling. “With prayer and supplication…” 🤣

[@Jojo-tf2zp]

I hateddd seeing Marrisa down like that but I can empathize, unfortunately. It's so hard being blindsided like that. Rooting for her to process and feel what she needs to and come out stronger. And Tyler aint left on the clearance rack cuz he was sitting in the yard sale give away bin til Ashley plucked him outta there and tucked him in her purse.

[@m9eleven]

11 minutes of Marissa and Ramses was just exhausting. Watching her heartbreak on TV was cruel.

[@Ms.July29]

Between LIB, podcast Bros and the random Instagram videos about male hygiene, I'm convinced that future prenups will have a page added for psych evaluation, social conduct, personal care, health habits, microphone purchases disclosures etc.

[@TheBaba1920]

Tyler doesn't love his children and that's what hurts me.

[@miggins6184]

lmao them leaving in the whale tale was something.. 😂How am i supposed to feel the seriousness of the moment with that thang in my face 🤣

[@miggins6184]

And dont even come for me...yall know that edit was diabolical

[@Kimurrey]

Been refreshing all day!

[@mrsgigi8862]

After seeing the baby mother's wife's interview I kept wondering which one of Tyler's friends was sharing his wife. I was side-eyeing all the friends.

[@thickthickly]

I can only find the BMs video but not the wife, do you know who's channel it was on?

[@ang5833]

@@thickthickly it’s on Jessie Woos KZbin channel

[@thickthickly]

@@ang5833 ty

[@dfinneran1403]

I enjoy how you do a deeper dive into the issues and bring perspective.

[@birdi3beez]

Queen you have to read Marissa’s glamour interview it’s so eye opening😭 His ex wife was getting remarried at the same time they were supposed to be getting married😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 I’m Nigerian so I know to fear Nigerian men( really all men but especially them) but you gotta fear Guyanese men too. Clay and goat have schooled me oh lol😭😭

[@TheQueenE]

Stooooooop!! Now I need to know more about that!

[@Monicahappened]

Why fear Nigerian men? What they do? Serious question because I became serious with one 😭

[@hbassey]

OMG no way!!

[@Lala-eo4eq]

@@Monicahappened girl you haven’t done your research lol

[@Jushumm]

Just read that interview and oh myyyy. Not wanting to even date is so sad- not that I shipped them but dang. He didn’t want any part of her 😢

[@YourRealtor_Marissa]

I was there yelling at my tv for Marissa to stop begging that man.

[@sarahhines2391]

first time here, love ur whole vibe, I was talking back to the tablet like we were on FaceTime lmao, so I subscribed

[@dearbh1736]

I think Garretts mother was beside herself with grief that this wedding was going ahead. Right up to the very last moment when she realised there was nothing more she could do or say, she was still trying to plant seeds of doubt in his mind to no avail and finally pretended she was happy for him. I think there will always be an issue between Taylor and her mother-in-law that could cause big problems down the line. I think she feels that Taylor stole him from her especially because of the moving away from Fredericksburg situation.

[@Ebiisan]

15:32 the whole time I’m sure he was thinking I can’t believe I’m getting away with this😭😭😭

[@TheShannonShow]

Netflix wanted to steal an hour and 20 minutes of my life? They got about 20 from me because I already knew it would be a bunch of bull and filler. 😭

[@kikim1230]

Facts! the way I skipped to the vows 🏃🏾‍♀️ 💨

[@BrookLynDaze]

So funny that you were more interested in Tyler and Ashley. I fast forwarded them straight through to Taylor. I do t want to know from Tyler. He goes in the bin.

[@TheQueenE]

I mean, I did do a little skipping with them too 🤭 but I definitely tuned out with Taylor and Garrett

[@tashabnicole]

The thing is Tyler and Clay were both cute enough for Ashley and AD to ignore the huge red flags. And while they are beautiful women, they think they will be beautiful enough to change the man when they won't.

[@AquarianDreamer3x]

Ramses straight up used one of her insecurities to find a way out. Her energy? Tbh when she that, the way he said "i dont think so" i knew it "would" be

[@Sharon-ib3be]

Did you notice Tyler's mum. Her eyes were begging Ashley to run.

[@jakemarie828]

Right? And the smirk on best man's face during that pep talk... lies lies lies

[@angelaborghese2916]

I really loved Marissa's energy. She was so bubbly during the pods and on the honeymoon trip, but seemed to shift quickly, so it seems like she feels her feelings loud, which isn't bad, but it seems like Ramses was only feeling her when she was super positive and bubbly, so him walking away was a favor to her (because people have positive and negative feelings). I am kinda shocked he broke it off for good and not just the engagement, because needing more time is understandable (especially since he's been married and divorced before), but to say you love someone and you're 100% out says A LOT.

[@Adriane2133]

Lol, I love the unexpected "NO" at the altar

[@jennieeverett5243]

You are so funny! I absolutely LOVE these recaps!!