Lessons Muslim Women WISH They Knew Sooner (SAD TRUTH)

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A new video! This is all about some very sad (and harsh) lessons we Muslim women tend to learn too late. I've experienced these myself and think that they best way is to share them with you all so that we don't make the same mistakes that have the power to affect our Ahkirah too
Enjoy ~

[@kumsonssamba8237]

“Stop people pleasing”, “stop doubting yourself” i really really needed to hear these Thank you so much. Sister Great video.

[@AsiyahChakla]

Wow what amazing true 😂😂 thanks sis

[@violet_is_purple]

The Prophet (熱) said: If anyone says: "I ask pardon of Allah than Whom there is no deity, the Living, the eternal, and I turn to Him in repentance," (Astaghfirullah-alladhi la ilaha illa Huwal-Haiyul-Qayyum, wa atubu ilaihi) he will be pardoned, even if he has fled in time of battle. - Sunan Abi Dawud 1517

[@FairuzBataraBatugan]

Masha Allah. Jazak Allah khayr.

[@RisanaSulfiyya]

Great video sister! Allahumma barik. I too experienced and did all these things in my teens and realized my mistakes later. All your videos are really eye opening. May Allah bless you sister

[@HerDeenDunya_]

Thank you! You too! 💖

[@RaihanatulZannat]

I have subscribed this channel because in future my children can learn about Islam and learn English from these videos ❤

[@SagalAbdullahi-dp7vo]

Jazak Allahu khyr, may Allah (SAW) grant you to heaven ❤

[@JanatCalifornia]

About pressure to get married - I married late and I wish I married sooner instead of being so picky. I know Allah had decided when and whom before I was even born, but I think when I finally made my tawakkal (entrust the matter wholly to Allah) and married the guy that was asking for my hand in marriage (I chose out of 2 at the time, chose the one that is a practicing Muslim) I made a great choice. Yes, he does have flaws, and I do as well. We all do. But that’s another story - it’s my test from Allah to work with those flaws and it is his test to work with mine. We don’t quit, we don’t even bring up divorce because we are in agreement about the major things in life and we have same deen and practice it as much as we can. Btw, we are from totally different ethnicities, cultures, continents and even different races. But none of that matters as love and respect come from following our SWA (Allah) and believing that Allah has chosen the best possible option for us. May Allah send you the right Man in due time sister 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

[@lishasalimrosetta]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته～⁠♡ جزاک الله خیرا کثیرا واحسن الجزاء فی الدنیا و الآخرۃ 💗

[@marweee6547]

MAY ALLAH (SWT) GRANT US ALL JANNAH, thank you so much :)

[@noor-azizahnurudeen5686]

Allahumma Aamen 🤲

[@SIY...]

Jazakallah for making this video. ❤

[@shaylaparson4372]

Such beautiful reminder Jazakullaahu Khayr ❤❤❤

[@parkmina911]

Thank you for those beautiful words❤ May Allah guide us all on the straight path🤲🏻

[@HitherandYarn]

This is very well written and presented. Thank you.

[@imanbh4820]

Salam Aleykoum sister Thank you for your content, the advice about lowering our soft gaze hits hard : indeed it is the one that go under the radar when it comes to analyse our lives. Indeed we all heard about the quote that we are the sum of 5 people we spend most of our time with. This highlights the influence that they have over our life, but for so long I tended to forget that what I’m exposed to (socials, TV shows…) also have a tremendous impact on my life to the point that it’s affecting the way I think and the goals I set for myself. Jazakallahu Kheyran for your advice.

[@sz4653]

Beautiful video ❤❤❤ ALLAH guides Us on a RIGHT PATH, Ameen.

[@khadijaezaz8499]

thank you for making such a realistic video. I love how mentioned the small progresses like the earring thing. sometimes we need to acknowledge even the smallest steps to be able to progress towards our deen.

[@nehmabudas9910]

Jazzakillahu khayran for this beautiful reminder.

[@xrimikox3321]

May Allah bless you, Please keep going this brings so much help and benefit, JazakAllah khair! 💕

[@earlybird7597]

Allhumdulillah to came across this beautiful video ❤

[@rukiyasvr5753]

May Allah bless you for this. Truly inspiring and uplifting! All of what you said was etched deep in my thoughts; hearing you say it aloud really hits home! Jazakillahu Khayran!

[@lmg88.80]

❤❤❤ jazak Allah khayr

[@shamina8806]

Thanks dia, Masha Allah so amazing video🤗

[@143ifykyk]

ig many young muslim women have fallen into the trap of kpop, it's not that i'm judging, i was distracted too but Alhamdulillah i was able to accept the reality before it was too late. Many people started following kpop bcoz they didn't wanted to accept the harsh reality but being a muslim we should have the trust in Allah swt that he knows what is best for us, ofc if he has created us then he will definitely guide us. and as of kpop idols, I know they are good humans, they are kind and generous but they are distracted in this world so, rather than judging anyone it is better to pray for each and every one of them that may Allah swt guide them in this duniya to achieve jannah in akhira, and indeed Allah swt is listening to all of our prayers and our prayers will be accepted, whether it is now or later. May Allah guide all of us to the right path!

[@Reemy90245]

jazakallah kheir , ur the best

[@tangeeo9652]

Alhamdulilah I really enjoyed watching this video and reminder for the reminder benefits the believer. May Allah reward you for your intention and bless you in this dunya and the ahkhira Ameen.😊

[@user-wd2se8nw7w]

Such lovely, direct and comprehensive lessons for all age and seasons of Islam. MashaAllah. I loved this. Asalamualaykum

[@sanahabib9585]

Sub hanAllah...need of the hour kind of video... jazakillahu khairan ❤

[@islamicphilosophy223]

i think this might be my second video that i am watching from ur channel but i am obsessed. I subscribed immediately. May ALLAH give u a lottt of good deeds for spreading knowledge ❤❤❤ . AMEEN

[@HerDeenDunya_]

Welcome aboard! JazakAllah 😭💖💌

[@islamicphilosophy223]

❤❤❤May ALLAH grant u alot of success in this dunya and the hereafter , and believe me u deserve alot more subscribers . In Sha ALLAH one day🎉🎉

[@robinaakther6524]

Thankyou so much loved ur vlog. ❤

[@su4747]

Jazakhi Allahu khairan for this video sister. May Allah reward you. 😊

[@noor-azizahnurudeen5686]

Allahumma Aamen 🤲

[@HameedahAbraham]

Masha Allah, u've got good content may Allah reward you

[@ema9566]

Thank you 💖

[@msjalal5281]

Masha Allah sister! I'm glad i watched this while i'm still young so i can be a better muslim when i'm older Alhamdurillah.This made me cry of happiness, may Allah grant you Jannah

[@HerDeenDunya_]

Aww I'm glad and humbled by the fact this video touched your heart in some way! With this channel, let's become better Muslimahs together 💛

[@msjalal5281]

@@HerDeenDunya_ insallah...

[@Hijabibti925]

Mashallah sister ❤ just subscribed!

[@dalhaanu]

Say Subhan Allah ✨️ Alhamdu lil Allah ✨️ La illaha illa Allah ✨️ Allahu Akbar قل سبحان الله ❤️ الحمد لله ❤️ لا إله إلا الله ❤️ الله أكبر

[@doudou7890]

Wa aleykoumoussalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu ❤️

[@tuanaatav]

May Allah guide and forgive us all, ameen.

[@imanatik9029]

Jeza Kellah sister it's so useful your sister from Ethiopia

[@yasmeen1552]

May Allah swt grant us Jannah ❤ ameen

[@1toJannah]

Dhikr! (Wont take more than 1min) ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ (5times) أَسْتَغْفِرُ ٱللَّٰهَ (5times) الله أكبر (5times)

[@eeshajshgsh]

Jazakallah khayran

[@Nayaaaaaaaa]

For those who need transliteration: Alhamdulilah (5x) AstaghfirAllah (5x) Allahu Akbar (5x)

[@ameeratraut7102]

Beautiful

[@JanatCalifornia]

Very amazing video sister ❤❤❤❤❤ I was debating about earrings sticking out of hijab but I haven’t done it but now it’s crystal clear that it’s about my personal jihad about showing my beauty (hiding it) outside and not how people see me. Let’s just remember sisters that there are sisters on their journey to becoming more veiled and not judge them. It took me 41 years to wear a hijab (I was the first one in my entire extended family to do so) and also another year to change my whole wardrobe to more loose and modest clothing. Alhamdullillah I have a great husband who was supportive and helping me pick the right clothes and hijab policing me when I was going my old ways. It’s a journey, our personal jihad as the video states. I wish you all the best and to tame your nefis (ego) as I am trying to do on a daily basis ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shimmer4771]

Mashallah sister. May Allah reward you. 🎉❤

[@violet_is_purple]

“ Subḥāna allhi wālḥamdu lillahi walā ilaha illā alllahu wālllahu akbaru walā ḥawla walā qūwata illā biāllhi alʻalīyi alʻaẓīmi ” - A person who recites this Kalima once will be rewarded with freeing a slave, a well-dressed horse will be rewarded with charity for Jihad, a Nafal will be rewarded with Hajj, a camel will be rewarded with Qurbani and will possess a huge wealth on the Day of Resurrection. -Musnad Ahmad Fazayil Zikr.

[@haadiamueen7629]

ASSALAMUALIAIKUM!! THANK YOU SO MUCH MY SISTER!!❤ Can you make videos about righteous women of the past and tell their stories? Normally we learn about males but we should learn ablut the females too. MAY ALLAHGIVE YOU THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF JANNAH AND ALL THE MUSLIMS!

[@shahbazwani7237]

Love from Kashmir sister

[@ZAB_56]

"being sad over single hood" my mind goes "YA Allah this is what i wanted " 💜💜 jazakillah

[@JenLol-vb6fw]

5:23 You got me right there with the K-pop idols! 😀 Is it bad for me to watch variety shows featuring male idols? Like Enhypen En O'clock?

[@HerDeenDunya_]

Haha just trying to help out here! To answer your question, it's all about your intention. To watch variety shows that are pretty basic and don't talk about anything that's haram is fine - but ask yourself - are you watching them purely for the fact that you can see those male idols? That's an example of not lowering our soft gaze. If you're gonna watch these shows, then you should be fine with averting your gaze whenever a male is shown on the screen. Hope that helps!

[@txu_fannnnn]

😂 yeaa. There's music in the shows, so it's haram and bad, really bad for your brain.

[@muslimahlaiba6330]

❤❤❤❤

[@rafiah1231]

❤

[@Islamforever_FreePalestine]

Assalamu Alaikum sister can you please make a video on “how to be like Maryam (R.A)”if you can of course

[@HerDeenDunya_]

How did you know that was on my to-do list? 😘

[@Islamforever_FreePalestine]

@@HerDeenDunya_Wow i didn’t know that was on your to-do list:)Allahuma Barik

[@Essameerah]

Study tawheed in detail and everything else will become easier to practice by Allah's tawfeeq.

[@MaryamShinozuki]

As salamu aleikum Sisters❤️ I have a question .. Is it okay that I’m sad all the time (or almost) ? I have an illness it’s my spine , and I’m very sad always.. But I feel like that’s not a good thing . Maybe someone of the more experienced Sisters could tell me what to do? Jazakullaahu khayr❤️❤️🌺

[@HerDeenDunya_]

WalaikumAssalam sister! I'm sorry as I am not an experienced professional - but have you spoken to your doctor about this? How your illness could possibly be linked to your emotions? Aside from remembering Allah, it's always acceptable to seek out professional help 💜

[@ahlemmoammedi3706]

Assalamu alaikom sister, can you translate your videos to Spanish to people don’t understand ?

[@amaljibril2740]

The end made me shed tears, May our Wonderful Creator Allah SWT increase you ✨✨✨

[@gorannashreen2822]

Boost

[@Aymana44]

Oh no I got all these cute dresses..But I make these Duas where I ask Allah to not make Men look at me at all when I'm out of my house😩😤 I wish I get the money to buy all BLACK HIJAB... INSHALLAH

[@rimaelboustani7389]

there is a verse for women to lower there gaze as well, no need to use the one directed to men.

[@shimmer4771]

She can use both. ❤

[@Salma-nm2sc]

❤❤❤😂

[@nishanisha.a3368]

Lyes, who r used me several years for their benefits, im d mad, im begging sorry, n we were putting us in guilty, ya allah, bring us out from worries, 😢

[@mumjarra]

Where in the sunnah does it state that a woman can not wear ear rings? I would just like it as a reference... Jazak allahu Khyr The Quran does mention the permissibility of jewelry for women in general, as stated in the verse: “And Allah has made for you in your wives a garment, and He has made for you the fur that you wear, and you have not made any of them for yourselves. And indeed, Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise.” (Quran 16:80)

[@hafsanoor7627]

I don’t want to speak for her, but I think she meant you can wear earrings but just don’t show your ears because what some people do as they wear earrings but they tuck their hijab under their ears to show off their earrings, which is not permissible. as long as your ears are covered I think you can wear earrings. I hope that makes sense🤷🏻‍♀️

[@la-nyarichardson483]

Some people see jewelry as an adornment. I think not 100% sure but adorning yourself shouldn’t be seen by anyone but mahrams

[@yosrbouzayen6917]

She’s talking about the hijabis that are showing their ears sister!

[@berrybabe7979]

salaam sister. women cannot wear earrings, or any type of jewellery/adornment when she can be seen by non-mahrams. you can definitely wear earrings at home and around ur girl friends though. it comes under modesty, and not beautifying ourself for men to see. ♡︎

[@user-oy4oz7tx4f]

Why did Kadijah ra never wear a hijab? Was she sinful? Why is wearing earrings frowned upon?

[@shimmer4771]

Allah says in the Quran "And do not display yourselves like the days of ignorance." Many parts of Islam were only revealed at certain times. Keeping in mind, if a person died before this was revealed, there is no blame on them. Secondly, Islam prohibits women from adorning themselves in public. Jewelry is considered adornment. There are specific mentions of it. I'll give it to you, if you'd like. ❤ And Allahu Musta'an.

[@teofilojreyna-nu8rl]

Solo hay un Dios creador de todo lo que se ve e invisible ,que creo el dios musulmán? Nada ,nada están creyendo en nada. En cambio el Dios de la biblia creador de todo te invita que creas en El y tendrás vida eterna en CRISTO JESÚS. CRISTO JESÚS, TE AMA ACEPTALO MUCHOS MUSULMANES LO HAN ACEPTADO, QUE ELLOS TE ENSEÑEN A BUSCAR AL VERDADERO DIOS ,CRISTO JESÚS TE AMA.

[@Tabithasnowflake1]

except Jesus as your savior the Bible came first and 5000 billion people saw the miracles scene Jesus but in Islam, nobody has seen a Allah I’m not a hater just a messenger.(─‿‿─)

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

Brothers want to see good looking nisa in their wives in their spouses and act. Nisa want to look pretty and be acted upon.

[@TheBlackGentlemanGeek]

Good advice, except for the "being single" part. Yes it's true that Allah is the best of planners and we should trust in Him, but women have to keep in mind that they have a short amount of time due to their biological clock and shouldn't waste time in that area to find a husband and create a family as soon as possible. The mistake many single sisters who'll follow your "being single" advice, is they will rush when they realise the clock is ticking fast. And this mindset is the disease that stemmed from western ideology that's detrimental to many women who often regret it later. Yes we should trust in Allah, but there's also a hadith that says "Tie your camel and trust in Allah"; in this case, it's striving to create a family while trusting Allah. Basically do the work, don't just go true life nonchalantly like a airheads, then turn 35-40 with no husband and kids, and regretting it while saying "why didn't I do the work to look for a husband when I was younger. Now it's harder to get 1 or I have to settle with someone I don't really like but it's my only option since most men want younger women..." Don't just wish and pray, but also act towards it. That's is the path of a true muslim. By the way, it's a feature for men to want younger women, not a bug. Use this info how you wish at your own peril or success. Just an advice to sisters, if they want to succeed in that area.

[@mizgenius3363]

I thought this was going to be something interesting and different, but it’s just another lecture on “hijab” and don’t listen to music and all other things that a woman should be able to enjoy once in a while.

[@berrybabe7979]

salaam 💗 it’s okay to have your own opinion, but let me try to explain. to us muslims, the enjoyments of this world are only temporary, and very rarely are they even fulfilling. the hijab is a beautiful way to opt out of the male gaze and harsh beauty standards, and keep your beauty private to yourself and those who love you. there is also wisdom in keeping away from distractions like music, which hinder our remembrance of Allah. i suppose that this video focuses on these issues by because they’re common to all muslim women. if it’s not for you, i’m sure there are many other videos that will be to your liking. and Allah knows best.

[@rakibalmahdi2401]

Sounds like a script written by liberal progressive Muslim woman! Good job

[@sundus928]

I bet you didn't even watched the video. Also, I wonder what exactly is "liberal" and "progressive" for you .

[@Minimalisthomeschooler]

Assalamualaikum from Finland🫶🏽🇫🇮 I am a new subscriber here🙂 I am a revert since 2019, raising 3 boys 🙂 thank you for the great video🤎

[@spwhccediting8708]

thank you so much for this video, i really needed this.🤍🫶🏼

[@dalhaanu]

Jazak Allah khayr ❤❤❤❤❤❤