My neighbors and friends are continually trying to set me up with their other single friends, and are shocked when i tell them i am fine as a single man. It's been 21 years now since i began my solo journey through life. I enjoy many social activities and am not a recluse by any means. I travel the world extensively, enjoy many hobbies and truly am content. Not mentioned here is the Tao or its practices, which i attribute to my ability to be as content as i am as a single person.
@dawndeangelo69784 ай бұрын
Amen to the Tao ! “The way” a lot of people don’t know this but Jesus was a Taoist! Look up the lost books on Jesus 🔥
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
Very good , some Taoist stuff help me a lot..so simple , nobody will try...things are not as they seem. I need all the help I can get, so i try...it works.
@bobpaff41874 ай бұрын
Well said! 12.5 years single for me! I agree with you.
@loiscamp19604 ай бұрын
I’ve been single since 2007 and I absolutely love my life!
@pauljulian89114 ай бұрын
May I ask how do you manage sexual appetite ?
@AnnMitt4 ай бұрын
If you're healthy and at peace, consider yourself a "life lottery winner"
@MaryannNunesАй бұрын
@@AnnMitt do thank you I went through a lot lost my late husband tried to date again and then date an a****** it was hard but I am strong thank you
@miachambers83025 күн бұрын
Ah, but therein lies the rub… “if your healthy”… I have always been healthy. There was no reason to think I’d ever be anything else. Well, I had a stroke. I must admit, I still love to be alone…! But it’s a lot more difficult now. But I would much more prefer to go into a meltdown… alone… Than to have anyone around me, asking me if I’m OK. Because I’m not OK…!! But I can be “not OK” alone much easier than if anyone was around. It’s been four months. I am still living alone. And still prefer it to living with someone else.
@bethharvey51704 ай бұрын
This is especially true of people who’ve been abused by their families. It sucks not having a loving, supportive family, but after years of abuse, living alone is a relief.
@starlingswallow4 ай бұрын
Me, too ❤
@Patsysmiled4 ай бұрын
Yes it is 🌸
@cindybooth9234 ай бұрын
I've been through enough, I need to love myself and let the others be themselves. I don't know how some of them live with their own behavior, glad I went down my own road.
@AnnMitt4 ай бұрын
I can totally relate. I just try to keep busy with exercise, eating healthy and home projects. I'm exhausted from wishing family would include me in events or even reciprocate text messages.
@mesalouis89764 ай бұрын
I’m just done at this point!✌🏾
@tomgabel995 ай бұрын
I love my own company. I love my single life. I am Free to do what I want, when I want and do so without some needy person complaining about it. Best of all, is the Peace, quality of life and lifestyle.
@xray-wz3gw5 ай бұрын
👍
@arabicaroma94015 ай бұрын
It's very difficult to be with someone narcissist toxic partner. It's better to be alone.
@xray-wz3gw5 ай бұрын
@@arabicaroma9401 These people live the illusion of the ego 🙂
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
And how....people only want me if I provide goods and services around their schedule to their whims and preferences with no deviation Pathetic ...im gone. FREE.
@Komorebidreams4 ай бұрын
It’s best to find someone aligned with the same inlook.
@maricamicallef95454 ай бұрын
I don't even imagine being with someone. No thanks,no way. You know and love yourself when you are alone. Alone is not lonely. I love my own company! That was all dogma and brainwashing to keep you running on a programme. Be you! Love You!
@brettturpin86925 ай бұрын
Why didn't they teach this back in the day? We were brainwashed that we needed to find a spouse..you are amazing thank you
@arabicaroma94015 ай бұрын
My mother once said I need to get married and have kids. Nobody there for me if I will not do it. This kind of mindset is totally wrong.
@ivandhotmanvilliers33614 ай бұрын
Only get married if you are going to have children, and don't have children unless you are married.
@sunnygirl96914 ай бұрын
All of these things have been taught for thousands of years. You may be surprised to realize we know nothing new. This is all borrowed.
@coolbreeze56834 ай бұрын
This isn't taught because being independent and a free thinker isn't good for the economy and doesn't help control the masses. The world operates on the premise that a person who is single cannot be content, therefore are a threat to the whole. In reality, unless a person has a mental illness, people who have developed happiness in solitude are more mentally stable than those who use external sources for happiness and validation.
@HollieMoodie3 ай бұрын
@@ivandhotmanvilliers3361 Yes, especially the last part!
@paulasweeney77135 ай бұрын
I love my freedom which has a peace that passes all understanding. The Holy Spirit lives within me. Everyday is a new discovery of joy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@christianburrzGR3Y4 ай бұрын
Yes! With God, every day is a glorious opportunity
@wendydaniel11104 ай бұрын
My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude. ❤
@bintmaroc204 ай бұрын
My husband died suddenly 8 months ago having been married 30 yrs, we got together in our teens, I've been really struggling to be on my own, and understand who I am without him, I really needed this, thank you
@HollieMoodie3 ай бұрын
Hugs.❤
@Zeus-n2m18 күн бұрын
Died suddenly has become an epidemc since 2021. Sorry to hear that.
@Zeus-n2m18 күн бұрын
Died suddenly has become a global pandemic since 2021. Sorry to hear that.
@BrianHornak4 ай бұрын
Solitude is the BEST
@mn91202 ай бұрын
"Think about it for a moment": Aloneness is bliss. 😇
@karen-if7zq4 ай бұрын
I am learning to be alone again. I love it and enjoy.the solitude.and peace..i don't need others.but at times I want to be with others. I can just go somewhere for a while and when I finally come home I'm content. Just being around others and to talk a little is enough. I don't let myself down like others let me down. I've really come a long way,.I'm just not dependent anymore. Hallelujah!
@PerryKim-s5l4 ай бұрын
I’m the beginning I was scared to be alone. But now I’m starting to understand being alone is awesome!!! So much peace and quiet. Freedom. Beside that I found God, pray with him and have him in my heart
@trinityp85753 ай бұрын
God can always be in your heart no matter if you are alone or in a relationship. Life shared with the right person is so much fuller. At least to me ❤
@margaretdoliet1630Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
@PerryKim-s5lАй бұрын
@@trinityp8575make sense
@PerryKim-s5lАй бұрын
@@margaretdoliet1630thank you
@wbutete15 күн бұрын
It gets better with time and relationships get better too. I'm in the same boat as you and I am leveraged my relationship with God more and more, and it can only get better. I know that the one God has is store for me will show up in the fullness of God's time. Meantime, I am gonna work on becoming the best version of myself.
@draganavolaric11524 ай бұрын
I love being on my own. Even going for dinner, asking table for two ( me and myself). And I enjoy eating quietly, observing couples trying hard to look busy with each other. And imagine conversations with someone sharing health issues, adjusting hearing aid and much more.
@TickleyourBuds11114 ай бұрын
I m single … loving taking myself for dinner dates too .. I know the feeling … but I’ll always just add Mr Bean on my phone ☺️… it directs my mind into focusing on what matters the most and that’s me I decided this lifetime I love to spend the rest of my life happily married to myself … where I can just heal and watch the world go by Marriage and kids is not for me this lifetime I’m enough and that’s all that counts
@1111spiritualone4 ай бұрын
I been doing this 2 years now. At first it felt uncomfortable but now I love it. I still hang with family at times, but living life on my own terms. I cut all the fake people out my life and have a small circle. I don’t seek any validation or approval. I have set boundaries with everyone and let people leave. One thing we can’t get back is “time”. I don’t waste my time and love my peace. Life has been beautiful, I’ve had blessings and abundance. I even deleted social media except KZbin. God is good!
@reginaigweta94824 ай бұрын
Same too.
@margaretjohnston73204 ай бұрын
I get it! Good for you, that is awesome!
@godsway85014 ай бұрын
This is where I wanna be in life. I already deleted all social media. Just working on having my own and setting boundaries and putting myself first. It’s a challenge but it’s so worth it. Namaste 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@juliaskagfjord62073 ай бұрын
I am strong and independent alone, but have in the past fallen into codependent patterning from my early formative years, when with others. I just started to change. To realize that I can not expect others to come to an agreement with me, to care, to do conflict resolution, to bond...and now that I am not set on having to have peace between me and anyone in my life, or to gain their understanding and acceptance, I have cut the ties.. There is no obligation. It is very empowering to learn where your own boundaries are...and to know others don't have to understand you or be on your same page, that you can just walk away and cut your own path....like you said others validation or approval is not necessary.
@hannahgrace78195 ай бұрын
I used to be that person seeking to manifest a specific person for years. In the last year, I've let go. I enjoy myself so much alone that I am wary of being in a relationship. I wouldn't go into it clingy, and needing it but rather, would be in one of only the person added to my joy.
@maryraven-bk5vk4 ай бұрын
I have practiced this for sometime I love being alone, I’m no longer desperate to be with anyone!
@aaron.social4 ай бұрын
Working on this now.
@skyjordanindustries8042 ай бұрын
@@aaron.social🙏🏻❤that’s amazing
@monicaspector238815 күн бұрын
❤
@LaceyMad4 ай бұрын
I love my own company after 20 years of raising my 3 kids 👍💜🇬🇧
@frankbrancatisano2174 ай бұрын
For me stopping alcohol helped me immensely mentally and physically i wasn't a regular drinker not a heavy drinker to know the real me and now learning much better
@twentytwentythree20244 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your recovery! How awesome?! I'm proud of You! 🦋✨🌎✨🐦👆🏼
@karen-if7zq4 ай бұрын
My connection with God is the most important relationship for me. I do need Jesus in my life. ❤
@karen-if7zq4 ай бұрын
It definitely is the most important relationship.in my life. Men have all lied to me, tried to.use me, abused me, controlled me, I'm done with that. I will know the right one now. I have my vision and that is the way it is! God, thank you for all you've done for me and protected me. Please continue to bless me, amen 🙏
@lilbear196014 ай бұрын
@@karen-if7zqWow I’m sorry that’s the way you’re looking at the world. But the Spaghetti Monster in the Sky Was made up by man, sooo…
@ChristopherMarkusLacapra2 ай бұрын
37 and realizing all this is incredibly liberating. Yes i missed love opprtunities, but i would have fallen in the loop again...
@dustygearhead13 күн бұрын
Hey im 36 and just ended a very strange non traditional, 10 year relationship. Needless to say i was losing myself in the past few months…and i enjoyed being alone. I need to get that back
@kyleesharp3784 ай бұрын
We can be happy alone but we weren't designed to be alone.
@Daneiladams5554 ай бұрын
Well yes and no
@hummingbird49344 ай бұрын
Agreed. Relationships are fundamental to our wellbeing
@ThePossumone4 ай бұрын
Yes - he is saying when you can be content and happy within yourself you can enjoy and give more to others
@kyleesharp3784 ай бұрын
@@ThePossumone why would I do that? I got dished up shit from everyone. Why would I work to bring joy to others? The whole world and God can GGF!
@ThePossumone4 ай бұрын
@@kyleesharp378 start with yourself first I suppose, which is what we ALL have to do. Otherwise we have outsourced our happiness to someone else. Yes people have treated us badly, we all have some terrible stories we could share. You are now in a place where you do not need those people in your life. When you discover who you are, get healed through your own work - you will find that there are other kind, compassionate people you will want to spend time with. They might be only one or two, and that is enough. I feel for you - what you are going through and thinking is common to the human condition and most of us have been there. I guess the choice is up to you?
@artifactvideoproductions4 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@belindanaicker8363 ай бұрын
This is so profound. Self-love is most important ❤
@margaretjohnston73204 ай бұрын
Amen. I am with someone, but when i had an injury, and spent alot of time alone while he was working. I felt this sense of peace. It took time. But i didn't realize God put me where i needed to be. At first i was angry, then felt sorry for my self. Now just peace. I get it now. I needed to take a step back learn to live in the moment. My life before was chaos living for others. And God said enough! I got it 💯
@leratoseretsi56033 ай бұрын
I'm happy alone,I'm my own best friend, I hug myself ,joke to myself and laugh..I go out to spend time alone and I feel so alive..I travel alone and I do everything and I enjoy....I'm married though but I'm still me
@helenasiring19254 ай бұрын
I was on youtube, trying to find a video, justifing my big need of being alone, enjoying my own company over being with others, choosing me before anymone else, and then this on pop it, giving me exactly what I needed to hear. It is easy to fall for the societies standard of what happiness is. I have had most of my happiesst moments spend alone. I got to feel my feelings of joy without concerning myself of being to much, or to be embarressed of sharing my tears of joy, or of being to much. I just got to be in the moment, fully present, without any disturbense of the noise of someone elses mind or opinion. If you wanna find out who you truly are, spend time alone with yourself and your mind. You will be surprised of what live there and see that most of it is not yours to carry, put have been conditions and out there by others around you. I hope you find the courage to spend more time alone, because that is where you can truly go deeper within yourself and see the bigger picture of life. ❤️ sending love
@aliciablumenthal10184 ай бұрын
It’s great to be alone but life is better shared with someone you love ❤️ no doubt.
@roxinante8345Ай бұрын
Not if you are totally at peace with yourself.
@clairenalikka5925Ай бұрын
Joe Dispensa: I have met you through this presentation. Thanks a million for sharing in an honest, enthusiastic and captivating way. You have given to me a blue print to live my life fully.
@annazanda147018 күн бұрын
I love to go skateboarding alone ❤
@MD-vu2qn5 ай бұрын
Being alone is not a as bad as one may think. I thought to myself If being alone is my lot in life? I’l take it! It could be worse. I work on making myself happy with what I got. There’s no use in fighting for what I can’t have
@jehan_75504 ай бұрын
Wow it's like me too saying that . ❤
@ninashirley4324 ай бұрын
The most dangerous thing in my life is when others ask me to do things or go on dates I don’t want to. It’s not that I am selfish, I just prefer my own personal space
@danielcurtis50264 ай бұрын
Growing up in a dysfunctional family abused physically and mentally and the Black sheep..I' let go left the state and removed myself from the insanity.My friends and relatives often say..I am the only sane one in my family.I chose peace over hate and insanity.Amen.
@northofyou334 ай бұрын
Same here.
@sammuis013 ай бұрын
❤
@MaryannNunes4 ай бұрын
I put myself in a 3 years relationship and now I'm teaching myself to be happier it's hard and it's sad to be alone
@anonymous101-sb1bfАй бұрын
Same especially after all the effort I was losing myself and he couldn't care more glad it's over but I want knew healthy love where it's reciprocated
@MrChryz7073 ай бұрын
You saved my life today! Thank you!
@Motivation.Masterry3 ай бұрын
So glad!
@itsjustme935414 күн бұрын
Remember somebody loves you x
@Rahul__Status__014 ай бұрын
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
I will check it out....i had success with such things , it's a balance between wanting but not needing ...like you got be ok whether you get it or not...fire and forget but yeah....i will check it out. Thank you.
@DebbieMathieson4 ай бұрын
Why is this message on every video I watch 🤔
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
@@DebbieMathieson To make sure it's noticed . Thank you
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
@@DebbieMathieson There is a graffiti artist where I live. I see his work in about every city. I understand . CCP is beyond EVIL.
@genuinsanity4 ай бұрын
@@DebbieMathieson Organ harvesting ....can you imagine the horrors ? seriously. Think about it.
@HrglassHealer4 ай бұрын
I❤being by myself!😃 don’t get me wrong….i enjoy the company of good people but I get peace/clarity/answers when I’m alone. No drama/no deception/no competition from other human beings….just peace! ☮️
@joeydealZАй бұрын
Its addicting , when you harness and master your own energy it can become a challenge to be around others at times. 31 and been single whole life.
@thomasomalley76194 ай бұрын
Who wants to be in relationships to serve people who need you to serve them or they ghost you? Simple question
@MD-vu2qn4 ай бұрын
@@thomasomalley7619 Yeah, after age 50 why pick up damage goods? You take the responsibility of fixing what someone else ruined. I know it is not always the case but it happens. To me it is not worth it to take the chance. But if you are fortunate and blessed to meet someone wonderful, by all means do not miss the chance. Bless y’all.
@ThePossumone4 ай бұрын
I guess the answer is you dont ❤
@juliaskagfjord62073 ай бұрын
The heavy ghosting of modern dating is an absolute killer. I came of age in the late 90s and we were not ghosting people we met right left and center. We only ghosted others if it was confirmed they were a criminal or a pedo
@boitumelomofokeng61583 ай бұрын
I am committing myself to listen to this message everyday every morning until it sinks in and change ❤
@skyjordanindustries8042 ай бұрын
Will try to do this as well 🙏🏻
@trudyramgren88174 ай бұрын
Thank you for this amazing video!! I've had a long journey in my life. Making alot of mistakes and not loving myself along the way. Depending on people to make me happy etc. I took a long hiatus from relationships and in that time, I've come to know, accept, and love myself. Life is beautiful when lessons are learned to become a better version of yourself. Thank you!!! Now I'm that woman who relies on herself! ❤
@DocHolidayDAenablerteams4 ай бұрын
I can relate ;expectations, not necessarily saying to lower your standard or the war, but to redefined what happiness is. In my case I’m happier when aren’t so easy. I’ve learned to embrace the whatever struggles knowing i have the ability to learn to make it out. And struggling one way or another matter what topic never ends. Figuring out problems.
@timesplit--ter27424 ай бұрын
Solitude is good. You see people every day at work.
@natural336219 күн бұрын
Yes let them go. Be happy alone!
@mickydee12894 ай бұрын
My wife broke up with me and since 6 months I am having the worst panic attacks 24/7. But I already know that I want to master the skill of being by myself. While I am accepting my panic attacks and the loss i can feel the that there is an inner transformation..like a part of me that is not fully shaped yet. But i can already feel its peace from time to time.
@Philippines8884 ай бұрын
Pity for you…. Well there are also a lot of single women in the world like me, so cheer up!
@mickydee12894 ай бұрын
@@Philippines888 Hey, Thank you for cheering me up and reminding me! Best wishes to you
@mickydee12894 ай бұрын
@@RectumAche Thanks for sharing this! I appreciate! And i wish you all the best on your journey to recovery. Time will heal.
@Philippines8884 ай бұрын
@@mickydee1289 no problem…. I think we just need to focus on God right now..
@mickydee12894 ай бұрын
@@Philippines888 Yes! i feel that too
@lynndavid106626 күн бұрын
Being Alone is ❤
@CheriAddison4 ай бұрын
I’m 13 months into a new relationship at 60 . We are at the point of me having to ask for more alone time . He is slowly understanding it lol
@ApriliaRacer144 ай бұрын
Reassure him him while transitioning
@kimdavis54034 ай бұрын
Watch for the nurse and a purse man. Very real and very common.
@MVI_MOV4 ай бұрын
@@ApriliaRacer14lll
@MrsSudsawat4 ай бұрын
Excellent video without music on the background like others, let alone great message. We all can create happiness in us if one can see it how. Thank you the great talks.
@Philippines8884 ай бұрын
I am 50 single and never been married. Still waiting for the right one to come.
@qq_pato_oo9 күн бұрын
hahaha
@jeanettewright35594 ай бұрын
I absolutely love where I’m at in my life at this moment and unlearning all the programming and relearning to love myself and inner-standing me❣️❣️❣️
@nishiramkhelawan86224 ай бұрын
Dr Joe's work is phenomenal. This content has la lord of repetition but it's re- enforcing 😂
@Aurora-f7f4 ай бұрын
❤ Thank you Dr Joe for all and every single word, you are a wise and blessed person
@SnareTrapSurviveАй бұрын
I am the type person who wants to be alone, sadly the last ten years has been spent looking out for others. It is time I go live alone and be me.
@jehan_75504 ай бұрын
I love my own company after surviving stroke 8 years ❤ thank you very much Joe. I appreciate you very much ✨🙏🕊️
@Tony_Kaku4 ай бұрын
This is also true for people who try to control your sadness or anger. They will say things to bait a negative response, especially on the internet. Being able to control your own negative emotions is very powerful.
@kaycollins76844 ай бұрын
I came in with me and I'll go out with me. I can always count me, I love myself and I am kind to myself, I am my own bff.❤❤
@OlderWomenRock4 ай бұрын
Yeh yeh happiness isn’t found in another , agree. I wanted somebody but she made Me feel sad and and anxious . Doing things alone too much is can be boring and lonely I’m ok with it sometimes Although I’ve travelled with mates and found this can be frustrating at times too
@emmbee15514 ай бұрын
Wow! Such an important lesson that one can only know thru direct, personal experience. It took me decades to learn this and I'm SO grateful I finally did!!😊
@ninashirley4324 ай бұрын
I was bored by sex early in life , I have always turned myself on more than men I was with. I love talking to people in my community, this is my own expression of loving relationships. I get to choose the people I talk to and laugh with.
@catherinebanu30914 ай бұрын
The only way I could become more Self Aware and Connected was alone. So grateful for the learning along the way and I can now totally feel comfortable being free to follow my heart’s desire.
@brainy19774 ай бұрын
It’s the most incredible feeling.. best wishes on your new journey 😊
@georgespangler15174 ай бұрын
Attachment is the root of suffering,, one day you will be alone anyway, if they go first you will suffer badly.
@ThePossumone4 ай бұрын
yes I think you are right - we are born for attachment, but we are born alone and die alone, and must face many moments on our own, which can be so beautiful too
@tigereye5175 ай бұрын
discovered that anything that teaches disempowerment is false (for example. orig sin, looking for love in a partner, depending on someone.) Getting to empowerment, is so worth it! It’s a work in progress your whole life, but boy Dr. Joe puts it words perfectly.
@amybeth15544 ай бұрын
I love being a lone wolf. I don’t understand how everybody needs to find a human mate. It’s so distracting and you can’t be you. Your intuition is also blocked from hearing God. go rescue some dogs from the shelter, enjoy group gym classes, go to sporting events and talk to people next to you, build your garden…. It is so so fun and enjoyable. I lost my daughter to suicide and my 25 year marriage ended due to his alcohol Abuse. I’m free. 🎉🎉
@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L3 ай бұрын
THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .... SALUTE 👍🏾 💯 🫡
@hanton7414 ай бұрын
Thank you. I need this message now. There is a reason why I am here, and I am happy to hear empowering message for myself.
@starflyer32194 ай бұрын
"Happiness is only real when shared." I've lived long enough to learn that this is true.
@cynthiamarston22085 ай бұрын
When you know yourself it is sometimes kinda disappointing for some so you need the space to work on yourself but for whom? Yourself of course. It’s doubly hard for those with low self esteem. I read you can be born that way. I can’t totally see anything that really caused this in me. Other better people have had trauma that encourages low self esteem. I don’t see it…any real trauma in childhood. Well letting go certainly helps a lot though! And that cycle of unmet expectations. I listen to stuff like this often. It’s very helpful. My purpose ended up being caretaker of multiple animals. It no longer lights me up but it is fulfilling. My challenge is to carve out together time with people. To learn to enjoy it more.
@davestart1105 ай бұрын
A new start for dave start. My story will be heard someday and the world will know me and truly what happened to me!
@katiewilliams52485 ай бұрын
Good luck on your new self discovery. I am doing the same.
@christinebeames7124 ай бұрын
Hi good luck going foward , but you will find out that the world is not interested in your life or what happened to you , people are wrapped up in their own lives ,
@sunilrajoriya37174 ай бұрын
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
@MJ365293 ай бұрын
Thank you...I love this and shared it with friends and siblings.
@ΣΤΕΛΛΑΟΙΚΟΝΟΜΟΥ-ψ6ο4 ай бұрын
I love being happy alone and I feel safer, but I also have intimacy needs which only can be met by being with a life partner...not by casual partners.
@juliaskagfjord62073 ай бұрын
Right and one of the points above is that people over 40 do better alone, I am female but I am going to say hormone changes likely make being totally alone easier 40 plus
@bonnielouferris888820 күн бұрын
Absolutely 🤍 Great information so true! Thanks for sharing
@zion3674 ай бұрын
Excellent video!❤ The only aspect I missed was that we have to be mentally prepared for the challenges this path brings. The jealousy and projections of others. Bullying, scapegoating. When you walk in empowerment you will trigger the crap out of all of those who live from disenpowerment. They will provoke you and try to take you down like crabs in a crab bucket. Keep on rising regardless.🎉🎉
@dorothylaplante72434 ай бұрын
I am so there with you. The Tao also was an influence as are the stoic. I love my life of freedom
@sherylbailey27834 ай бұрын
Wow! So confirming as to what I have learned these many years I have been alone. Thank you for your warm & caring tone & the wisdom you share. Sending love & light to all! 🙏❤️🙏🎉
@YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he4 ай бұрын
❤all that you love, all that is dear to your heart is always Inside you, you dont need To let anyone Go. Keep thé loved ones in your heart❤ they are Always with you🎉❤❤❤😊
@marcelalopez3554 ай бұрын
Amazing message and very well articulated and easy to follow. Thank you!
@marshawoods49834 ай бұрын
This is a wonderful video. I’m almost 76 years old. It’s been my entire life looking at people and things to make me happy.. Only to find out like you’re saying that is not the answer Too true happiness… i’ve always felt there is something wrong with me if I didn’t have a husband or a boyfriend… A lot of bad choices like that one lady said..l we were conditioned you get a husband
@sallyssandraa3 ай бұрын
It’s like your talking about me, thanks for all the compliments 😊 it’s amazing how we develope these habits without even realizing it
@Noten105 ай бұрын
True words💫Sometimes this independence is missing. You miss this freedom of not being dependent on anyone. In life, it is better to live alone through negative experiences. When you were still independent, you felt much better, especially when you had the wrong partner at your side. An opinion
@dangdin5544 ай бұрын
What ive learned - that i am absolutely right
@niloufarziari3408Ай бұрын
Love this guy
@rodneyrosse1984 ай бұрын
Amen brother!
@CrisFerrerYT4 ай бұрын
Another helpful video from Joe. While listening to this one, I realized Joe has probably listened to a lot of Jim Rohn or maybe met Jim Wow, he sounds a lot like him in this video. Eitherway, I'm always grateful for these types of videos. 🙏🏽 thanks
@janiceball84315 ай бұрын
All of your words resonate. It’s wonderful to hear.
@lisamochinking44615 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. This is gold.🏅 Self-love and boundaries attract the highest forms of love from others.
@ninashirley4324 ай бұрын
I am planning a holiday alone at the end of the year, I am yet to decide where I would like to visit. I might just travel to the utter reels
@veronicachapman771026 күн бұрын
I have seen what happens to people who are alone . No family ,friends ,it's not good they give up on life .
@iBRiDGE38019 күн бұрын
The thing about SHARED EXPERIENCES 16:00 is that, because you sought YOUR AUTHENTIC TRAINED MINDFUL ENERGY, your STAMINA for being PRESENT to WHAT ACTUALLY IS becomes OVERWHELMING for those who HAVE NOT practiced this level of "powerful solitude" wherein TOGETHER as INDIVIDUALS can be DEEPLY ENJOYED primarily because of its RIGOROUSLY HONEST ENERGY of being authentically that which is OCCURING... rather than the script, the script being "they said this, I will avoid that because" or "I will enter because." Authenticity and SELF CONFIDENT SELF AWARENESS can have endless "bumps" wherein SURPRISING "reactions" to the Authenticity of each individual can bring about all new awareness and feelings for each person. The script tends to be avoidance or argument or ignorant agreement. The authentic route tends to be DIVE IN AND SEE WHERE THIS THING GOES and it MIGHT be bumpy, but each individual is SOOO sure of themselves as discoverer, thar they LOVE the journey everytime. Hard to describe to those who never leave the SEEK MY OTHER OTHER HALF world.
@suzannefyfe30074 ай бұрын
Wonderful!! So true!🙏❤️
@krokodillemyАй бұрын
I think it is hard to keep believing in my own happines, because people around me tells me that they feel sorry for me. And sometimes I explain to them... instead of just let go of others opinions.
@elalek41973 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Gromkiii3 ай бұрын
I'm an extremely avoiding person. So, being alone is my default state from childhood. But for me it is not easy at times I wish I have someone and none is there. I spent many years in strange depression, but later, when I learned, If you are careful what you are thinking, then it can be wonderful. But now, at 45y old, I still always get amazed how people become a couples some can do it effortlessly, which is such a great mystery to me.
@HollieMoodie3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@ninashirley4324 ай бұрын
Yep I don’t need anyone , although I love to go out every day and speak to people. I don’t like parties I prefer my own music to dance and sing along with.
@ninashirley4324 ай бұрын
I love being alone I’ve spent most of my life alone be very careful as a female you might become successful and independent and people will not like this. I had a bad situation with a neighbor that was very aggressive. I called the police and the police turned around with my family and had me locked in a mental hospital because they found it was weird that I was on my own. I need to find out these people were very jealous of my independence. They did not want me part of the community? I’m much happier now that I’m in a community of loving like-minded humans.