Let's make it okay to discuss our struggles and ask for help | The Asher House

[@KITKATakaAlicia]

My husband and I over five years time took in 15 disabled or unwanted dogs, he suddenly died in a car accident at 46, I am broke ass broke but I kept each one of those babies and would do it again..I love them, I understand you!!

[@Indigenous51]

🙏😇👏💖💖

[@hildebt7988]

Sorry for the loss of your husband, why does bad things happen to good people, Glad, you are keeping all the doggies, expensive and lots of responsibility

[@dragonflyparade8143]

Oh bless you. Huge hugs from the UK. Xxx❤

[@shanti6669]

❤

[@4bratkab565]

So sorry for loss your husband 😢AGREE why things happen to good people or helpless animals 😢😢😢RESCUERS, VOLUNTEERS or anyone who been involved with RESCUE or have animals should realize it is Hard ,emotional and depressing ...and Best REWARD is seeing the HELPLESS LOVING ANIMALS SAFE AND LOVED AND HAPPY❤❤❤❤But we LOVE this loving HELPLESS BABIES like they LOVE us UNCONDITIONALLY, even often it is depressing 😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

[@Tailwag514]

They might only be there for a part of your life, but for them you are their whole life. 💛

[@NotFalling4it]

I read that quote on Facebook yesterday.

[@carolmontoya1061]

"A life worth living is a life of serving" -Lee Asher. Yes, yes, yes.

[@smtpgirl]

My dog Koda needed a leg amputation because it might be cancerous. I cried and cried and decided to go on with the surgery. Koda was walking without aid 2 days later and NO pain. He is resilient and I need to be too for Koda. It has been hard for me and my family to decide the best care for Koda. Koda is the sweetest dog and has handled this with grace. This is my take away, handle life with grace.

[@calvinsmelliott5458]

It’s hard to imagine what you go through every day. Dealing with lost, sick, tragic animals is traumatic and mentally exhausting. When you compound that with the reasons you're so dedicated, it's almost sad. Almost sad, but inspiring.... Keep working on it and focus on growth.... Good job, friend. Never above you, never below you, always right there with you, for always.

[@shalacarter6658]

RE: Wanting Lee's life: Go to your local shelter and volunteer. They ALWAYS need help. Be willing to clean kennels and not just play with kittens. Adopt one animal and get them spayed or neutered. Blessings

[@connieandgwennie1450]

Well said Shala. We can all be that person! ❤

[@AJAY-mn9qb]

I worked in an animal shelter, with the ones you don't get to see. I got fired because I got caught sneaking dogs out so they wouldn't get killed. Of course there is always the one you couldn't save, his name was Jose and his little face will haunt me forever.

[@shalacarter6658]

@@AJAY-mn9qb Good for you for sneaking them out! I also worked in a kill shelter. I thought the manager should be put down!

[@g.christelbecker6349]

@@AJAY-mn9qb Ajay, hi do let Jose go and forgive yourself sending you lots of love

[@AJAY-mn9qb]

@@g.christelbecker6349Aww thank you.

[@Graciejo68]

If it weren't for all my dogs id honestly not be here. Without a doubt. They are my Purpose, my antidepressant, my reason 🐶🐾💕

[@joannepingtella8002]

Understood ❤

[@rudestlittlesoundwave642]

They bring joy and pure love.

[@skauftheil-ml2mi]

I agree 100%.

[@Nova2032-]

Absolutely!!!!! I retired , and my life now, is just my Dog. I take her out every morning, off leash, to run free in the Wyoming wilderness. To see her happy face running and jumping, is priceless. Oh to see the world through a dogs eyes. :-)

[@Longcloud]

After the big earthquake here in Christchurch,NZ, the 2 wonderful cocker spaniels,were my reason to keep on fighting with the insurance company❤

[@themenna007]

I have no illusion about how hard you work, and how hard to keep having to say goodbye ❤

[@tomtomlinson4826]

As well as the practical business aspects of keeping it all going!

[@lirazel2001]

​ @The Menna @tom tomlinson Completely agree!

[@doriskrueger6647]

I give you guys a lot of credit being so kind to these beautiful pups I watch videos like this alot they make me smile all the time you are such nice people 😊love you guys.

[@pearlgeneste1890]

You are a wonder to us all. God bless you young man! Love your calling and love watching your videos. Thanks! ❤

[@MsWarriordiva]

Working in animal rescue is a curse & blessing all at once. Heart happy & heartbreak. Been there & experienced it. You can handle it or not.

[@nedsantos1415]

Everyone has their own struggle(s). Everyone has witnessed and suffered from traumas. Let's all be kind and honest to each other. If you can't love, at least don't hurt.

[@sherrimartin1057]

Perfectly said.

[@justmepraying]

Amen yes

[@yvonneluchuk3934]

Thank you, Lee, for not faking it! You are the real deal. 💗

[@mauimalia]

Lee, thank you for reminding me to choose gratitude and to share love with others…

[@jaymac7203]

Choose gratitude over victimhood 🤔 I like that a lot 🧐 lol

[@lhs761]

The perfect platform from which to speak about mental health: The Asher House. Salute to you!

[@marthamargarita-lm1ok]

Totally agree 🌷🎉

[@marjoriejones8280]

Thanks

[@madonnaballard3008]

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened”

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Oh wow I really ❤ 1:05 that❤

[@susanvaughan4210]

I'm so glad you're speaking freely about this. Therapy has become pretty mainstream for women. But I think it's still hard for men to feel like they have permission to get help.

[@patricianyiri8879]

You are the most Kind man I've ever seen!!!!!And may God bless you and help you always!!!!!!!🕊👵😇🇺🇸💖🐕🐶🐈🐱

[@Sunbeam645]

Amen!

[@mlehook4859]

I remember the anguish you experienced with Stella, then the heartbreak with River. That you still committed to the expansion of the Asher House, opened the sanctuary, and embrace the heartbreak that comes with all of it, and also don't hide your vulnerability while continuing to share the joy of the the dogs is so, so special. Thank you, Lee.

[@shalacarter6658]

Amen

[@lunagrace8717]

To love with all your might takes balls.....I respect that

[@hamptonbumgarner9063]

Blessings, love, and lots of paw prints... All of it gets each and all of us (t)here... In Gratitude... 🐾 💜

[@ЕленаБасханова-ш7ц]

❤😊

[@lindacylc8373]

We all love you Lee. Thanks for the video.. I love you comment about dogs wagging their tails but not so much people, how true. My adult son struggles with mental health and it breaks my heart everyday for him, but I get up everyday with a new optimism for him. Peace and love to all ❤❤

[@eviescorpio6921]

Thank you Lee ,and The Asher House . 💜🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺💕

[@carollast6264]

I have lost my pets also and the sadness is intense and the memories linger. Your losses are multiplied.😢 Continue your fine work.

[@marthamargarita-lm1ok]

Thank you!!!! The Asher House videos are my therapy ❤🎉🥰🐶🐶🐶🏡🏡🏡

[@mischamartinstudios]

"Grief is the price we pay for love." Elizabeth II The first thing I ever wanted to be was a veterinarian, but I realized at a very young age that I couldn't handle dealing with animals sick and in pain. I really admire your ability to be authentic. it's so helpful to fellow humans.

[@judithkempster1605]

Yes, I heard The Queen say that. She was a special lady who devoted her whole life to service.

[@judithpowers9772]

This quote is one of my favorites!

[@diannacarey6508]

Mental health... everyone has a story. Everyone has something going on in their life that tests them beyond human understanding... I think sometimes the universe is testing us to see how well we handle it. As one gets older, that gets harder. You are young...you have a wonderful dream that you are making come true. ❤with all the support you could ever ask for. Even if there are people who are "haters" you WILL SUCCEED.. and yes, it's going to be the journey of your life.. ENJOY IT, EMBRACE EVERY MOMENT.. because the time will fly by faster than you could EVER IMAGINE. I am one of those who would love to be part of your life.. I have reinvented myself 4x.. I'm no spring chicken but I enjoy work and there is nothing that can stop me if I put my mind to it... only problem now is, the tank is empty. I need help or a purpose as starting over is Not an option. Sometimes, Lee, there is no help. Sometimes there is Noone. But that's my problem. You have a dream and it's a BIG ONE. IT WILL TAKE TIME AND IM SURE YOU WILL HAVE LOTTS OF OBSTACLES.... BUT YOU HAVE THOUSAND AND THOUSANDS AND MANY PEOPLE WHO WILL HELP YOU OR CATCH YOU WHEN YOU FALL... I wish for you the MOST SUCCESS AND THE BEST LIFE FOR YOU AND YOUR DOGGIES, EVER. YOU ARE AN EXCEPTIONALLY WONDERFUL CARING PERSON. ❤💖 YOU WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE. YOUR VIDEOS ARE THERAPY FOR MANY OF US OLDER FOLKS. A REMINDER THAT THERE IS STILL HOPE .. AS THE WORLD HAS CHANGED SO VERY VERY MUCH. HUGG THE DOGGIES. ENJOY EVERY MINUTE. WE ALL ENJOY AND 💘LOVE WHAT YOU DO. 🐕❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kellybeverly3601]

As a retired critical care RN, I am very aware of loss and pain. I so admire you. Despite your pain, you continue your mission, knowing there's more pain ahead. The difference you've made is immeasurable. You inspire people to make a difference. I don't want your life, because I know what a toll it takes on you daily. Thank you for your videos. They help me get thru my dark days.

[@Maxwell-is-Smart]

Well said. Thank you for sharing. Following Lee helps me thru my dark days also. 💕

[@judithgoodwin7184]

I feel exactly the same.

[@jodinicholas890]

You are a man with a huge sensitive heart, and it is so rare. Most people don't let their feelings even escape a tiny crack. You are doing everything you can to be healthy and live the life you want with animals. I love that you try to explain the reality to those that look at you and think the job would be fun. I think they realize the property and love you share with the dogs is enviable, however they never think about the pain of losing a dog. I love how you said you will walk with all the dogs again someday. We need so many more people like you on earth. Please ignore the hate.. it is jealousy and closed-minded people who enjoy hurting others. Please give all the dogs love and smoochies from me especially Tommy Boy. He reminds me of my Pugsly, a female English bulldog who loved her food. I love how he carries a toy.

[@meagenb4968]

Living in the moment is difficult, just breathe...❤ Perfection does not exist and good enough is good enough.

[@deegandoesthings]

It's incredibly painful being an animal lover. You give and receive joy more than anyone else, but when they leave, it hurts the most, over and over.

[@veroniquecorso9572]

Vous avez tellement raison 🥲

[@MG-pj2oo]

It's even harder being in rescue. It's not just your own personal dog dying at some point, it's all the dogs you couldn't save, all the dogs you want to save but don't have a home large enough to, the horrors you see day in and day out, the responsibility you feel when you home a foster dog and realize it wasn't the place the humans promised you it would be... what Lee (and anyone else bleeding rescue) needs is for other animal lovers to get involved and open their homes to foster. Putting yourself at the front lines to make a difference is something I wish far more people in these comment threads would do.

[@lottielane2486]

@@MG-pj2oo I think people DO, if they CAN.

[@carolinaperez8182]

@@MG-pj2oo That's right, I have 3, they are the ones I can have, all from the street, well, left on the street!

[@margaretburnham5683]

Amen

[@sheliaholliday825]

I had 20 dogs ,16 cats and 20 chickens at one time.. by myself..Now with all that have passed I have 9 dogs, 14 cat and 14 chickens .it's alot of responsibility to care for. So I may not have all you do but I have the mental stress. As fun as it looks and as awesome that you can do this to help all of them . I totally understand the end of day exhausting moments.. I totally grateful that you are helping animals.. bless your heart..

[@LJ-cx7br]

Thank you for all you do ❤

[@lottielane2486]

What a wonderful, moving vid. Jeeze, Lee, you're hard on yourself. Where does that drive for perfection come from ? You,re obviously a very driven person. To achieve what you have in so short a time. Nothing short of miraculous. On top of all that, you want to become a better person in yourself! Now that,s what I call pressure.! I feel so compassionate for your state of mind. But maybe you trying to achieve too much too soon, psychologically and spiritually speaking. You're very awareness will prevent you from ever being a real dickhead. ! It sounds as though you are suffering from PTSD. For whatever reasons. A lot of us are. Sometimes, just recognising that is a help. You know you are loved and appreciated by all of us. Sorry. Didn't mean to ramble.🐶♥️♥️

[@4bratkab565]

Thank you to ALL HEROES RESCUERS FOSTERS ADOPTERS VOLUNTEERS and LOVING ANIMALS for being UNCONDITIONALLY LOVING US ! WE understand it is not Easy but also so Rewarding to see HELPLESS ANIMALS being SAVED and LOVED and PROTECTED ❤❤❤❤

[@shalacarter6658]

Sounds like a lovely place to live.

[@shalacarter6658]

@@lottielane2486 thanks for your comment!

[@sparkys2711]

As much as I love animals, I don’t kid myself that I could do what you do. I volunteer at a shelter and the only way I can is to keep saying to myself, “ they don’t need your pity, they need your help.” It also applies to people…. In 100 years when you cross over, thousands of dogs will be there to greet you and if that’s not heaven, I don’t know what is:)❤🙏

[@tjd7964]

beautiful

[@donnasimonds4215]

Lovely ♥️I pray 🙏🏻 that is the way it will be….

[@woodysmum1906]

My mum always used to tell me “ an ounce of help is worth more than a pound of pity” . Like you, I say this to myself often when I come across any situation that makes me feel sad for a person or animal, and then I try to do any thing I can to help, however small it may have to be.

[@terrilaughlin1121]

I am grateful for people like you, Lee and your friends at the Asher House. Furry and human. You make the world such a better place. Hang in there. Life is short. I love and miss my husband still. He had struggles and killed himself six years ago. I couldn’t get him to get help..I am so glad you get help when things get too heavy for you. I pray for you every day. We all need friends and animals who accept us unconditionally. Sending love and hugs from Florida.❤I have followed you many years. ❤️❤️❤️

[@pierschulz8795]

Sending love, light and tons of hugs right back to you.,

[@vanessamay3689]

🙏🏼❤️

[@shalacarter6658]

Blessings to you! My brother killed himself two weeks after my Mom died. From what I understand; it was his despair over his back pain. He just saw no future for himself. He also had received help for his mental health until my Dad talked him out of the help.

[@lisamahr8839]

We have a lot in common. God bless you 🙏🏻

[@AGoddess18]

Blessings on your journey 🙏Thank you for sharing ❤

[@jenniferquackenbush7458]

Lee, you have taken on an amazing amount of responsibility to not only the animals, but your employees. You are amazing and I don’t doubt for a second that no matter what mistakes may happen, you can get through it. You know when you fall in love with each of these beautiful creatures that they don’t live forever. You have to remember that you gave them the most amazing life they could’ve had. You will never forget one of them. They have grown your heart. You are an amazing person and a great man! Millions of animals and people adore you. I struggle with mental health issues as well. Your channel helps me. You are so loved! Thank you for being here for all of us, animals & humans alike! 🐾❤️🐾

[@indieMo5952]

This!!!🤍

[@ЕленаБасханова-ш7ц]

❤😊

[@juliafox7904]

❤

[@tanyaohle4221]

I second that with a big AMEN!!!

[@egal007]

super aisgedrückt ich gehe mit dir konform und wünsche dir das aller Beste, denn das ist gerade gut genug für dich... viele liebe Grüße aus Deutschland

[@kathycoley5485]

You are great and don't forget it. Anyone who is negative to you, that is their problem.

[@LisaBeatsCancer]

When iam deep in my own trauma and fears sitting in chemo chairs, healing from a double mastectomy a month ago and now headed to 6 weeks daily radiation soon and buried in financial stress being out of work a full year...I get the balance I need by watching Your videos! Seeing all the love you pour into these beautiful babies makes me feel better. So huge THANK YOU ❤

[@PigletSaysHello]

I hope u can also feel the love from Lee's followers. Lee is such a loving, caring person and he is putting love and light and hope into the world. And his followers feel that love and send it back out again. I hope u can feel it. I hope u can know that u are not really alone. God bless u. Sending u love and light. ❤

[@donnaccain]

May you get some miracles and all the support you need ❤

[@astroteech]

I'm a rescue adoptive pit bull owner, and I am in such awe of you and your crew. I am humbled by your efforts. Bless you and yours.

[@shalacarter6658]

Don't you mean "Velcro Terrier?"

[@nicolaharris3709]

Don't be too hard on yourself Lee. You are a wonderful man who does amazing work with the dogs. ❤

[@lisacraig5235]

Lee, you have taken the world on your broad shoulders and this must be giving you sleepless nights. I see the struggle just as my other favourite rescuers on The Farm in Jilliby, Australia. There are haters who try their bitter best but you have such inner strength and a world of supporters who love you and your vision. Every day we have to genuinely ask someone, are you ok.❤

[@laurelsulkin3074]

Lee, I am 77 years ols and I wish you could adopt and rescue me. All I could do for you would be pet the animals, maybe brush them. Your very existence is a great and happy-making thing for this world. Thank you for being you. And love to you.

[@connieandgwennie1450]

Sam and Luke are wonderful people. It is hard to understand why people are so vile towards kind people like them and Lee.🇦🇺

[@shalacarter6658]

@@laurelsulkin3074 I feel that. What about donating necessities to your local shelter? They always need cleaning products, for example.. Call and ask what they need. You don't need to spend a lot of money. Maybe a bottle of bleach each month?

[@lisablack9634]

As a mental health nurse...ty for this message. Striving for perfection is wasted energy. Strive to be the best you can be. We all deserve to balance self love, self kindness with helping others human and fur. Forgiving, letting go of negative thoughts and feelings are a foundation of healing. Everyone goes a different pace. Struggling to do this a difinate sign you can't go it alone. Seek help. There are many good therapists and doctors waiting to help you. Be peaceable friends.

[@ScaseFacetime]

Well said❤. All the things that I would say too, as I work in mental health as well 😊

[@TheBobbymcd]

yea. how much do they charge

[@cynthiaweber1646]

I agree with everything. I also work in the mental health field.

[@lisablack9634]

@@TheBobbymcd medical assistance pays for most if not all of care. Other insurances stay in network for best rates. Investing in our health and well-being is money and time well spent. Some clinics offer sliding scale fees.

[@lisablack9634]

@@ScaseFacetime Thank you for the support and for caring about others. Cause ain't no easy behavioral health care job. It comes from your ❤️🙏

[@pbrooks2099]

I saw a woman today, I’m fairly sure she was having a manic depressive episode in a retail store. The staff thought she was on drugs but I don’t. She’s definitely having a bad mental health day. People need to be more aware. Thanks, Lee.

[@shalacarter6658]

Amen to that!

[@satyasunshine9737]

Yes!! Absolutely!! I'm struggling w/ severe ptsd,homelessness,etc.&VERY challenging to navigate in public!!!!!

[@buffy1157]

Leader of the pack has a responsibility unlike the rest. But he bares it all because he is the leader and strong and the pack relies on that strength. Your sacrifice does not go unnoticed. Whatever you need ask. You have your you tube pack waiting to get your back whenever you need it. ❤

[@alro11]

thank you for talking about mental health. Most times watching people rescue suffering animals and they live and are loved allows many to relate that this is possible for them as well. we are all beings and deserve a healthy and safe place to live and thrive!

[@ocelotcat]

You and your crew are very loved and greatly appreciated ❤️🙏🐾

[@bjbumblebee5324]

I trained my dog and he is certified for ptsd and anxiety disorders. We continue to train every day. My dog and our relationship and my learning to train him as a service animal has healed me. I love my dog. Loving others actually heals our bodies and our minds. Our biology changes when we feel love and the biology of those we love heals also.

[@shalacarter6658]

I admire ppl who are able to train their own Service Dogs. That is a lot of work! My dog? Ha! I am her Service Human!

[@karenhall5499]

well said...good luck with your pup xx

[@Christina_the_Astonishing]

Empathy is a painful trait to possess! 💓

[@terryfrazier3116]

Lee, I’ve struggled with chronic mental illness for over 60 years. I choose not to let that define me. Does it limit me…yes. But I have also accomplished achievements that I never thought possible. I too have a deep love for animals. My dogs bring so much joy to my life. When I feel overwhelmed by life’s stressors your videos always help me to feel grounded. I was able to earn a graduate degree in Clinical Psychological. When I worked as a therapist I considered it a privilege to share that intimate journey of healing and growth with my clients. I would imagine that your Therapist may feel the same way. I too also strive to be the best version of myself that is possible. Perfection actually is a state of stagnation. In seeking growth, understanding and healing we are able to compel ourselves to remain in a perpetual state of motion/action/growth. Only in that state can we be of service to ourselves and others…including fuzzy others 😊. Thank you so much for your service. And for keeping me grounded.

[@lucybieller7604]

I am so grateful to be able to look at your life thru rose colored glasses. I can't fathom the pain and anger (and hard work) that goes along with it. Sometimes I only want to see the rainbows and not the storms! Thanks Lee and ypur team. ❤

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Yep😮there are days I too only look thru those rose glasses. 11:24 ❤❤

[@bluebeargaming1029]

You’re a life saver

[@kimberlypotts3874]

AMEN

[@ccserm]

Tommy and the pack are great for my mood! 😀

[@mondayquarterback9174]

He's my fav! I can't explain it cuz goldens are my soul- dogs. In my mind, Tommygun is the official greeter. He's so cute with a red ball stuffed in his face, but I haven't seen him with it in awhile. Maybe he lost it when he was out boating, lol

[@HuhHowboutThat]

Tommy stuck on that paddle board was the most adorable thing ever! And Lee was cracking up, he couldn't stop laughing. We all know if Tommy fell in, Lee would have been in after him instantly. When Tommy runs with the pack, carrying his ball with his chin held so high, that gives me such joy! Also partial to Poppy. She's just precious. Oh heck, they're ALL precious! And none more sweet than the alpha dog himself, Lee. Keep up the great work, everyone at the Asher House! 🎉💜 Love you all.🥰

[@vanessamay3689]

Amen 😊

[@vanessamay3689]

I love Copper who takes himself off fishing 🎣

[@susandhifaoui]

We are all a work on progress. I see so many wonderful comments supporting others who are struggling. I see people comment who are not afraid to share their struggles and that is a good thing. I can remember a dark time in my life when I had 6 little shih tzu eyes staring at me and they were what kept me going. Got me up in the morning. All rescued and I couldn’t let them down. Thank you to you and the community you have built to allow others a safe space to come to.

[@patsyhillyer1149]

Lee, I watched this about 5 times. I just want to wrap around you and say thank you. Thank you for the honesty and tremendous compassion you exude. You empower so many others. I hope you feel the love so many of us extend to you!! Hugs my friend.

[@PamAsher-wc8sb]

It's too easy to push things aside instead of facing the things that are building up inside. It takes courage and honesty to face those things, and know it's okay to say you're not okay.

[@TheFtm22]

If you want someone else's life, you have to take ALL of it, not just the parts you like best. I really enjoy your videos and am glad you have all that you do. Please share anything which can be done to help!

[@theonewhomjesusloves7360]

You guys are amazing there at the asher house...LOVE YOUR LOVE for all the animals

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

And one another❤😅

[@crystalslater9765]

I have so much respect for you Lee. Thank you for being so raw with us. Sending you & your staff there & ALL the animals much LOVE ❤

[@sandymatter8547]

I loved what you said about the dogs wagging their tails even after all they went through. From now on I’m going to describe having perseverance as keeping your tail wagging 🫶🐶🫶

[@KaZAkersOfficial]

Mental health IS health. The more we talk about it, the better we are. Support, nurturing, compassion.

[@sylvain123]

I think anyone who works or devotes their life to animal rescue and rehabilitation really needs to invest in regular therapy. The burn out rate is so high. Taking care of ourselves physically and mentally makes us better able to cope. I appreciate this video Bless you Lee and all at Asher House 🙏 💖

[@cndns2]

Indeed. Everyone has some mountain to climb and drama to deal with, and no one is spared. It's part of the spiritual being having a human experience.

[@DrBellaLJ]

Glad to hear that you are in counseling because it is hard to hear when you speak negatively of yourself. Many of us have negative self-talk and the messages that we tell us ourselves are often far worse than anything others say to us. The prevalence of depression and anxiety disorders are at an all-time high post-COVID. These disorders can be extremely debilitating, both emotionally and physically. Sometimes people need to see a counselor more than once a week when dealing with a lot. One and four women and one and eight men will have major depressive disorder at some point in their lives. The lifetime prevalence rate of anxiety disorders is about 1/3 of the population. Thus, mental health concerns are actually quite common, and it is good to have an open dialogue about it. Thankfully, there has been a cultural shift towards people being more aware and accepting persons struggling with their mental health. Society at large is also far more accepting of persons seeking treatment for mental illness. Lee, I am glad that you made a point to talk about these issues. You legitimately have an enormously stressful job of taking care of your workers and ensuring the care of all the animals. We just get to see a glimpse of your life and I’m glad people are realizing that everything isn’t sunshine and ROSES. I know that you too have struggles and I think you are a tremendously incredible person. I know that a lot of people tell you that, but I hope that you can truly internalize that message. When I see you interact with animals, particularly those that have been harmed by others or mistreated in some way, you have such incredible empathy and a level of kindness that make the animals fall in love with you. You have such a gentleness in your soul that emanates from you, which is truly magnificent. You are also entitled to feel anger, upset, and sadness, as we all have a spectrum of emotions. However, at your core is an incredible man. I just hope you can see that.😊 Animals are the best judge of character and you have won all their hearts!

[@shalacarter6658]

Well said!

[@robinlages6673]

To do what he does nobody could do. He needs to realize he is a wonderful person.

[@jarmilastorie7415]

Well said!!

[@carolynknutson6913]

Lee Asher….. you are struggling with self worth, you question yourself , doubt yourself, and this comes with depression. You my friend have a great purpose in this life, I know you know that in your heart . I’m a believer that God has put you here to do exactly what you’re doing! Whatever struggles you have gone thru, it led you to rescue dogs , and you do a amazing job of helping and caring for animals. You have a kind heart and soul. Then you question this purpose You doubt yourself. Someday, take a walk on your property and talk to God, build a relationship with him. Just you and him, he will guide you, you see Lee, he had a purpose for you in this life, you need to accept that, not question it. I’m a firm believer that you’re here and doing what you’re doing. But sometimes with depression, people question themselves, why me? I’m not a big religious person, but sometimes I have to accept That my life will have struggles, And it always seem that when I ask “why me”, I start doubting myself. I guess what I’m trying to say to you, accept who you are, accept what you are doing with these dogs. They have given you a purpose in life….. Giving them love and a better life . What’s that saying? A dog is your best friend ! I truly hope with your therapy, and you accepting your purpose here on earth, you will find the peace within you. Once that happens, you will no longer Question yourself. You are a amazing man, and what you do in life , is exactly why you are here! Your past is just that, it was a Path that led you to be the keeper of these wonderful dogs! Let go of the past, it’s hard to do, been there done that ! Once you find peace within yourself, and accept and not question who you are, your heat and soul will be healed!

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Life is not a fairytale but with every video I see you being the best you can be the latest for me by not leaving Millie behind with the love you ❤ 💗 💕 show by pulling her around in a wheelbarrow so you can be together. 1:05 And it is way past time you start being kind to yourself

[@goddessofwine35libra]

Thank you for all you do to not just animals but those who watch and listen to you. You are an amazing person.

[@linze69]

Lee shows true altruism at its best. We see on KZbin 5-10 mins of his day. Yet that small window of his day makes my day feel a whole lot better knowing he and his team at Asher house exist to give those beautiful dogs the best possible life they can. I can understand the heartache of losing one of the pack and that never leaves someone. However without Lee and the Asher house, this world would be a worse place. Thank you so so so much for this channel and sharing the pack news as well as your own thoughts on life and mental well being. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@annemieandries9773]

To Lee, a lovely soul, since I found your channel some time ago and I watch the videos, listen to the many stories of your pack and yes I often feel, -like other of your viewers- I would like to be with you and all these lovely creatures you are caring for. You make my day, I often cry, listening to you, your honesty, love for the animals but also for the world we are living in....you are my therapist😘, because the tears are a release, help and do come from within .💓💓💓💓 What you said," be good not only to animals, " is somehow difficult to me, I ve lived ( am 75, widowed twice), and have a saying...." I prefer animals i.s.o people", they are honest, don t let you down...this of course is due to how I lived my life, my upbri nging, what has been happened ( to me) ...I ll have to start thinking ...( for me!!!)😟 they say you are never too old to change.... and to realise that life is opportunities/ lessons, you can ignore them or learn from them!!! not easy So please continue the way you chose, there should be more lovely people like you, the world would be a better place!!! I love you, a Belgian....from France. ps my doggy (my 8 th Briard) is now 11 and getting some health problems....I m already terrified for when he ll pass & cross the rainbow bridge, will be devastating, like it always was when I lost one of them.... as he is my only reason to continue at the moment. !!! i ll propably go helping at a rescue center, as I ve done before. lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kdj703]

I watch your videos when I need a happiness, anti anxiety and hope boost..

[@marieh2454]

Mental health should not be as stigmatized as it is. I work in a psychiatric hospital, I see the affects of unhealthy mental health. Being in therapy isn’t anything to be ashamed of. You’ve got this , Lee!!! 🩷

[@staceyanderson5901]

You are such a wise man filled with kindness. Thank you for posting this today. ❤

[@Maxwell-is-Smart]

How wonderful. This is the most amazing comment thread I've ever participated in! The compassion, honesty & vulnerability that's being shared here is amazing...and SO needed. Thank you everyone--love to all!💕

[@acanouse]

It's nice to really hear someone talk about there mental health

[@zakkaryzoah1386]

Going to therapy is a chance for you to focus on your need to heal from the trauma in your past. For that 50 minutes, you don’t have to be magnanimous or take care of others. All of us who had shitty childhoods share your desire to be done with dealing with it. The work gets easier, but it doesn’t end. You’ve learned to balance the trauma with the incredible amount of love you share with your animals. That’s a really healthy choice. You also inspire others to be better. It’s one helluva legacy you’re building, my friend.

[@TheresaLyonhart]

Hey, everyone! Thank you, to Lee, to y’all. I’ve been in a very low place for the past 4 years. My husband was extremely sick for two years and passed away two years ago. I have prayed fervently for death. Yet, somehow, I found The Asher House and Lee two years ago. He reminds me so much of the beauty of my now deceased husband. We saved quite a few even with all the stress we were dealing with just to keep him alive. I’m looking for my own spot to pass away (it’s coming). I am not afraid. I’m simply looking for peace. I’ve been in touch with so many advertisers and people to let them now they should support Lee and his dream. He’s selfless. He’s kind. The real deal. I’m so happy I found him. That I found y’all. Thank you, for giving me the Will to go on. Until I can’t. Love to everyone.❤️

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Much love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣ 💕 to you. When you are finding things really difficult remember what Lee has told us.. hold on for just another minute then another hour and then another day...a bit at a time. 1:07 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sherrimartin1057]

Please know that God loves you. He wants a relationship with you. He offers everlasting love and peace.....and lots and lots of animals in heaven to love on❤

[@joantrigilio9990]

Maybe you were here to give people your fearless message. Godspeed.

[@gena6645]

​@@sherrimartin1057amen!

[@migglemaggle9500]

You always make me happy.

[@DebraAlexander-br7io]

Help mental health is so an important part of this and is discussed thoroughly important!

[@monicaodonnell9183]

I can't be the only person who when I'm having a bad day I look to see if there's a post up of the asher house I know it will lift my mood for a while take my mind off whatever is making it unsettled and allows me to just be still and enjoy watching their life well done everyone x

[@lisab8073]

I love hearing Lili bark. It's like she is saying hi to all of us. Thanks for sharing Lee.

[@marilynmartinezperez9028]

I do believe what you do must be overwhelming many times physickly and emotionally...Nobody could do more than you do...please don't feel gilty...you are human...and It is so admirable that you do what you do everyday...not many could handle so much...I also work on myself constantly...we are all doing our best...I wish you all the best🙏✨

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

I agree with what you say and in Lee's videos we see him being the best he can be❤

[@cynromeo]

Wow, what a great video! Lee, remind me so much of my brother, the late artist, Stephen Huneck. If you don’t know of him, you should look him up. He loved dogs so much that he built a chapel and this was a place for people who lost a pet to mourn the loss and put the name of their pet up on the wall. It’s in Saint Johnsbury Vermont “The Dog Chapel”. He made beautiful carvings of dogs and pictures and 15 children’s books and many other things anyway, I always think of him when I watch your videos, he also had a lot of land and numerous dogs. Unfortunately, he also had a lifelong problem with depression and anxiety. Without getting in to personal or into too many details I’ll just say he committed suicide in 2010. We are so sad that he didn’t reach out to any of us and this tragedy happened. I thought this was a good time to bring this up about mental health month and untreated what can happen. Thank you for all you do! The world is a better place because of you!

[@tamivujovic6227]

Thank you for sharing about your brother, and so very sorry for your loss

[@chandnikpillai4435]

You know ,the first time I came to know that dogs live only for7 - 12 yrs on an average, I felt so sad as l was just a child at the time.Even now the grief I go thru each time I lose a pet or I witness any cruelty towards any animal is unfathomable . Lee, every animal lover understands you thoroughly and what your life involves.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@shiftylad9938]

TY for sharing. Sounds like he tried to do his best. Actually his best was probably better than 95% of us. What a story. Dog chapel. Inspiring stuff 💯👌 RIP Stephen

[@janetd569]

What a wonderful brother you had! Sorry for your loss! Thank you for sharing!

[@jodinicholas890]

Wow. Thank you for sharing about your brother. Most people with open loving souls cannot survive in this cruel world. My heart goes out for your family. Your brother and his work impacted so many others.

[@marywolf2459]

Following the example of my dog helps keep me mentally balanced. He lives in the here and now.

[@jodiegirl1971]

Thank you for sharing. Progress not perfection. You have no idea how many people you just helped right now. Myself included. I will continue to work on myself. I do TNR for the community cats, and everyone I know in rescue is suffering in some way and we push forward and thru it and around for these precious fur babies. I’ve learned if I’m not taking care of me I’m no good to them. God speed and all good vibes and prayers lifted for you and your pack. 🙏❤️😽

[@shalacarter6658]

I love ppl who do TNR!

[@deloresstith-rutlin9978]

I also TNR cats love all animals…. Thanks Lee for all you do, please take care of yourself the animal need you…

[@MichaelMaddog3584]

Lilly is the perfect advocate for my mental health!

[@louisasutcliffe7778]

You’re life must be so hard, the responsibility for all your guys, the heartache, but the love that you give these guys makes their life wonderful. Xx

[@daniellepuccio260]

I love how you say "things in life happen FOR me not TO me". That resonated with me so much!!! Thank you, Lee!!! ❤

[@lismi9178]

If Lilly didn't speak up every time, honestly, I would NOT listen 😆 I know what you're talking about: people are envious of what they see on the surface, but they don't see what's beneath and behind and inside and what comes with it 🫤. You're so brave, you're my knight in shining armor ❤ Btw I am bipolar and talk about it openly and as often as I can to sensitize people!

[@shalacarter6658]

Good for you Lisa!

[@lismi9178]

@@shalacarter6658 ❤️

[@LindaSBishop]

This is your calling. Faith will guide you and hold you up.

[@jenniferbates2811]

Thank You! 👏🏼 Please understand that our mental, physical, emotional, and sexual health are ALL connected. Go Lilly! I love your videos, and I'm so thankful for you as a human being. 💗.

[@karadiberlino]

So true! I‘m living celibate since over 5yrs and I have never felt more feminine, stronger, saner and also I habe increasingly great orgasms! Which is a great unexpected side effect, because lately I am starting to have multiple orgasms regularily. I don‘t mean to overshare, but want to prove your point how important sexual health is! I used to be very active between 25-35 and never found a man who valued me. Unless I find that man, I will stay celibate. ✌🏼😇 I highly recommend it, unless you have found the one. ❤🙏🏼 And no I am not religious, I just now my selfworth.

[@jenniferbates2811]

@karadiberlino Oh, absolutely, I understand. I work as a Sex Coach and an ADHD coach. I also work in an adult store. Masturbating is incredible for the mind & body. The 1 person for someone is not something that's for me. I identify as humanistic as far as sexuality goes because sexuality is fluid and not fixed. It all matters what you think sex, love, and intimacy are. They're components of individual human beings. Having experiences with people is incredible without whatever you think sex is or should be. Just be careful with whom you're given the power of validation for you. Waiting for others to make you feel happy mentally, physically, emotionally, and sexually isn't always a feasible solution. Because you're missing out on the life around you. But if you're happy, then it's perfectly fine. Have an amazing day 💜.

[@lottielane2486]

Oh Gawd. Am I on the wrong channel ? Feel I've suddenly blundered into an Ann Summers party by mistake ! 🙄🥴😅😅

[@shalacarter6658]

@@karadiberlino Good for you!!!!!!!!!

[@jenniferbates2811]

@@lottielane2486 Wicked funny! Anns company is awesome. Welcome to the chat! All kinds of health is important

[@sandikimmel9505]

I couldn’t love and appreciate you more if I tried. You are the real thing, Lee Asher.🙏❤️

[@helenalderson6608]

It's bearable when you know you have given them the best life from the moment they are rescued

[@kayf516]

You are dealing with loss & grief all the time. Just because it is animals you lose makes no difference to losing humans. Do not become overwhelmed by your purpose in life. You have been put on this earth to love & protect animals. We love you ❤

[@hamptonbumgarner9063]

A great photo of you today! Bowing.

[@TeReSa-T53]

My furbabies are my therapy. They get me through some of life's struggles.

[@peace1963]

As someone who struggles with mental health telling them to be a better person is really not helpful. It really only adds fuel to the fire of "I'm not good enough". We all see that you do good every day and admire that. Let people thank you and admire your life it make them feel good. Them best advise is to listen to your mental health professionals and don't get pulled down by you can be better. You are the best person you can be right now.

[@shalacarter6658]

Lee tells his side. And there is nothing wrong with us being told to get better. Maybe "better" for us is just brushing our teeth.

[@peace1963]

@@shalacarter6658 and what happens when you're not able do that or even get out of bed. My point is if you're not a professional don't give mental health advise it dangerous. Give reassurance, support and offer to get help if needed.

[@valevale3873]

Hi Lee, we know you can’t be a happy, jovial giant hero 24/7. We love you also when you are not on a KZbin video. You saved my dog’s life because you inspired me to adopt him. I am so grateful for you.

[@kiii9403]

'Be kind to people' includes YOURSELF

[@apricotcookie4850]

I hear you 100%, Lee. A line from "Shadowlands" (film with Anthony Hopkins and Debra Winger) helps me so much when losing one of my dogs and cats. I hope it helps you: "The pain now is part of the happiness then. Thats the deal." And I agree that each of us could benefit from working with a competent therapist. Our individual and collective mental health transforms the world, for better or for worse: why wouldn't we be willing to do the work?! Thank you, Lee, for being such a caring, vulnerable, and decent soul. We love you.

[@theonewhomjesusloves7360]

You always say the perfect things 🤗

[@maxinegraham135]

You and the dogs contribute to my mental health by giving loads of "up" moments, I am blessed with so many things and I include you and the pack in those blessings! ❤

[@kimberlypotts3874]

Beautifully Said Words Maxine - Thanks So Much - I am Blessed Also for What Lee and His Team do to Save Dogs and Other Animals - I Thank GOD Everyday for Caring People Like Lee for Everything They Do To Help All Animals in Need That Come Their Way - GOD BLESS YOU Lee and your Team and all the other Caring and Kind People in the World Who Help Save Animals

[@darleneportnoy2298]

Powerful message, Lee. Thank you for caring and sharing. I so respect and admire people in any field who are there to help and support (whether it is for animals or people) yet do so knowing they will witness and experience suffering, sadness and loss. These people - including you - truly are special. You questioned if these people are smart. With all due respect, I don’t think that’s the right question. These people are so special. The world is a better place because of them. The world is a better place because of you and the Asher House. Thank you ❤

[@mdorn6592]

Blessings for Lee and his staff - and protection for all of them and the pupsters. It enriches all our lives to have him share his experiences and teach us the proper way to truly love and take care of our four-legged family members. I pray for you and all the big-hearted animal rescue individuals that make neglected animals lives better ❤

[@kimstephenson3876]

'Work on yourself, especially if you think you don't need to..." LOVE THAT! Thanks, Lee,

[@des..22]

I agree with you 100% Lee but don't feel guilty your on your mission and it brings me joy to know that your doing this. I have learned a lot from you about energy and how to be around animals. People even. 🙏🐶 Thank you!

[@dawnwalus6587]

Yes we all have our stuff forsure! The dogs are the soul of the life you are making for them but also for you because you are giving to them selflessly! I went to therapy and it’s to great! We all need help with or for something and perfection doesn’t exist! You have to be kind to everything ❤ Dawn

[@ThePickles923]

Thank you Lee, for everything you do. Thank you for your honesty.

[@veganvixenhelen]

Lee, it sounds like you have panic attacks due to worry, anxiety and overwhelming thoughts. I know because I too suffer with the attacks of hopelessness, heavy chest and being unable to breathe. They are horrible and that awful feeling of dread which accompanies them are debilitating. Sending you love and healing.

[@shalacarter6658]

Sending blessings to you!

[@HuskyBeautiesAmiraFreyja]

They're aren't many people as good as you and those who dedicate themselves to care for the vulnerable, your channel is a source of happiness for so many stay strong ❤️

[@judithpowers9772]

If there were more people like you walking this earth, we would truly have a heaven or utopia right here on earth!! I pray everyday for you and all the rescuers! I pray that you all will be blessed with health, joy, peace, love & prosperity all the days of your lives!! You are special!! You are amazing & I would not want to live in a world without you & people like you!’❤️

[@Pepper427]

Lee ...Your honesty is appreciated. I so enjoy being on your pack walks. Brings joy and makes me smile. Thank you.

[@kristenh8598]

You touch so many people in a positive way! Just seeing how kind you are makes me want to be a better person ❤️

[@Boone22]

My husband and I have same love for our animals. We have a pet grave yard for our past pets. Having animals is always a struggle. Even the healthy dog does get sick. Lee..you have a kinder heart than I, I don't understand those who abuse an animal. It's hard to hold back that emotion that's caused by abusers. God put you on this path to give back to God's love of his critters.

[@shalacarter6658]

There is a pet grave yard near Lincoln NE where you can be buried by your pet.

[@Boone22]

@@shalacarter6658 I've been very blessed for the last 46 years been able to bury my beloved babies on my place. I keep it maintained at their resting place.

[@Sonie75]

The world needs more Lee‘s, that‘s for sure ! And yes, nobody is perfect. And you know what, it is ok not to be perfect 🧡 When you look in the mirror, do not say „I could have made better“ but „ I handled this matter pretty good“ (for example). I also want to say that all the dogs that passed away, will still be with you Lee. Maybe not phisically but in your heart and your mind 🥰 it is not a goodbye, only a „see you later“ ❤️ please continue to be a hero for all the rescued dogs.

[@bethwhite2857]

💕 thank you for this video 💕this Valentine's day my 18 year old Lizzie dog went to doggy heaven. It was a great loss, but when I think about her our love fills my heart. Her ashes are in my truck and she still comes with me every where. That little stabyhoun Saved me so many times. You are perfect and your dogs know it.. 💕🤠

[@shalacarter6658]

She was blessed by you!

[@johnleigh6437]

Keep going brother

[@lucimich0224]

You are seeing the bigger picture of why we are here. We are stewards of this planet and caregivers to our fellow humans and animals. It takes an enlightened soul to be willing to sacrifice ourselves for the wellbeing of another. To see that they have what they need brings joy to our hearts but it is not without sorrow and sacrifice. Thank you for opening up. We are only human and at times it’s a beautiful experience and other times it is a struggle. You and your staff are a gift to this world ❤

[@molly5262]

Very well said!!!

[@carolinerhee6761]

Thank you for continuing to show your journey. We are conditioned to not burden or show others that things may not be “fine”. It’s almost considered rude to reply with an honest answer when asked “how are you”. Let’s change the paradigm - let’s be honest and kind to ourselves and others. It’s okay to not be okay. Most people out there actually want to help but it seems impossible in your inner conversation. Thanks for showing videos of your honest life and lovely animals!