Let's make it okay to discuss our struggles and ask for help | The Asher House

I take mental health very seriously and I hope we can make it less of a taboo topic. ❤️
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[@KITKATakaAlicia]

My husband and I over five years time took in 15 disabled or unwanted dogs, he suddenly died in a car accident at 46, I am broke ass broke but I kept each one of those babies and would do it again..I love them, I understand you!!

[@Indigenous51]

🙏😇👏💖💖

[@hildebt7988]

Sorry for the loss of your husband, why does bad things happen to good people, Glad, you are keeping all the doggies, expensive and lots of responsibility

[@dragonflyparade8143]

Oh bless you. Huge hugs from the UK. Xxx❤

[@shanti6669]

❤

[@4bratkab565]

So sorry for loss your husband 😢AGREE why things happen to good people or helpless animals 😢😢😢RESCUERS, VOLUNTEERS or anyone who been involved with RESCUE or have animals should realize it is Hard ,emotional and depressing ...and Best REWARD is seeing the HELPLESS LOVING ANIMALS SAFE AND LOVED AND HAPPY❤❤❤❤But we LOVE this loving HELPLESS BABIES like they LOVE us UNCONDITIONALLY, even often it is depressing 😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

[@Tailwag514]

They might only be there for a part of your life, but for them you are their whole life. 💛

[@NotFalling4it]

I read that quote on Facebook yesterday.

[@yvonneluchuk3934]

Thank you, Lee, for not faking it! You are the real deal. 💗

[@patricianyiri8879]

You are the most Kind man I've ever seen!!!!!And may God bless you and help you always!!!!!!!🕊👵😇🇺🇸💖🐕🐶🐈🐱

[@Sunbeam645]

Amen!

[@madonnaballard3008]

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened”

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Oh wow I really ❤ 1:05 that❤

[@xy3095]

If it weren't for all my dogs id honestly not be here. Without a doubt. They are my Purpose, my antidepressant, my reason 🐶🐾💕

[@joannepingtella8002]

Understood ❤

[@rudestlittlesoundwave642]

They bring joy and pure love.

[@skauftheil-ml2mi]

I agree 100%.

[@Nova2032-]

Absolutely!!!!! I retired , and my life now, is just my Dog. I take her out every morning, off leash, to run free in the Wyoming wilderness. To see her happy face running and jumping, is priceless. Oh to see the world through a dogs eyes. :-)

[@Longcloud]

After the big earthquake here in Christchurch,NZ, the 2 wonderful cocker spaniels,were my reason to keep on fighting with the insurance company❤

[@nedsantos1415]

Everyone has their own struggle(s). Everyone has witnessed and suffered from traumas. Let's all be kind and honest to each other. If you can't love, at least don't hurt.

[@sherrimartin1057]

Perfectly said.

[@justmepraying]

Amen yes

[@susanvaughan4210]

I'm so glad you're speaking freely about this. Therapy has become pretty mainstream for women. But I think it's still hard for men to feel like they have permission to get help.

[@themenna007]

I have no illusion about how hard you work, and how hard to keep having to say goodbye ❤

[@tomtomlinson4826]

As well as the practical business aspects of keeping it all going!

[@lirazel2001]

​ @The Menna @tom tomlinson Completely agree!

[@doriskrueger6647]

I give you guys a lot of credit being so kind to these beautiful pups I watch videos like this alot they make me smile all the time you are such nice people 😊love you guys.

[@pearlgeneste1890]

You are a wonder to us all. God bless you young man! Love your calling and love watching your videos. Thanks! ❤

[@MsWarriordiva]

Working in animal rescue is a curse & blessing all at once. Heart happy & heartbreak. Been there & experienced it. You can handle it or not.

[@shalacarter6658]

RE: Wanting Lee's life: Go to your local shelter and volunteer. They ALWAYS need help. Be willing to clean kennels and not just play with kittens. Adopt one animal and get them spayed or neutered. Blessings

[@connieandgwennie1450]

Well said Shala. We can all be that person! ❤

[@AJAY-mn9qb]

I worked in an animal shelter, with the ones you don't get to see. I got fired because I got caught sneaking dogs out so they wouldn't get killed. Of course there is always the one you couldn't save, his name was Jose and his little face will haunt me forever.

[@shalacarter6658]

@@AJAY-mn9qb Good for you for sneaking them out! I also worked in a kill shelter. I thought the manager should be put down!

[@g.christelbecker6349]

@@AJAY-mn9qb Ajay, hi do let Jose go and forgive yourself sending you lots of love

[@AJAY-mn9qb]

@@g.christelbecker6349Aww thank you.

[@sparkys2711]

As much as I love animals, I don’t kid myself that I could do what you do. I volunteer at a shelter and the only way I can is to keep saying to myself, “ they don’t need your pity, they need your help.” It also applies to people…. In 100 years when you cross over, thousands of dogs will be there to greet you and if that’s not heaven, I don’t know what is:)❤🙏

[@tjd7964]

beautiful

[@donnasimonds4215]

Lovely ♥️I pray 🙏🏻 that is the way it will be….

[@woodysmum1906]

My mum always used to tell me “ an ounce of help is worth more than a pound of pity” . Like you, I say this to myself often when I come across any situation that makes me feel sad for a person or animal, and then I try to do any thing I can to help, however small it may have to be.

[@jodinicholas890]

You are a man with a huge sensitive heart, and it is so rare. Most people don't let their feelings even escape a tiny crack. You are doing everything you can to be healthy and live the life you want with animals. I love that you try to explain the reality to those that look at you and think the job would be fun. I think they realize the property and love you share with the dogs is enviable, however they never think about the pain of losing a dog. I love how you said you will walk with all the dogs again someday. We need so many more people like you on earth. Please ignore the hate.. it is jealousy and closed-minded people who enjoy hurting others. Please give all the dogs love and smoochies from me especially Tommy Boy. He reminds me of my Pugsly, a female English bulldog who loved her food. I love how he carries a toy.

[@carolmontoya1061]

"A life worth living is a life of serving" -Lee Asher. Yes, yes, yes.

[@mauimalia]

Lee, thank you for reminding me to choose gratitude and to share love with others…

[@jaymac7203]

Choose gratitude over victimhood 🤔 I like that a lot 🧐 lol

[@smtpgirl]

My dog Koda needed a leg amputation because it might be cancerous. I cried and cried and decided to go on with the surgery. Koda was walking without aid 2 days later and NO pain. He is resilient and I need to be too for Koda. It has been hard for me and my family to decide the best care for Koda. Koda is the sweetest dog and has handled this with grace. This is my take away, handle life with grace.

[@sandymatter8547]

I loved what you said about the dogs wagging their tails even after all they went through. From now on I’m going to describe having perseverance as keeping your tail wagging 🫶🐶🫶

[@deegandoesthings]

It's incredibly painful being an animal lover. You give and receive joy more than anyone else, but when they leave, it hurts the most, over and over.

[@veroniquecorso9572]

Vous avez tellement raison 🥲

[@MG-pj2oo]

It's even harder being in rescue. It's not just your own personal dog dying at some point, it's all the dogs you couldn't save, all the dogs you want to save but don't have a home large enough to, the horrors you see day in and day out, the responsibility you feel when you home a foster dog and realize it wasn't the place the humans promised you it would be... what Lee (and anyone else bleeding rescue) needs is for other animal lovers to get involved and open their homes to foster. Putting yourself at the front lines to make a difference is something I wish far more people in these comment threads would do.

[@lottielane2486]

@@MG-pj2oo I think people DO, if they CAN.

[@carolinaperez8182]

@@MG-pj2oo That's right, I have 3, they are the ones I can have, all from the street, well, left on the street!

[@margaretburnham5683]

Amen

[@lhs761]

The perfect platform from which to speak about mental health: The Asher House. Salute to you!

[@marthamargarita-lm1ok]

Totally agree 🌷🎉

[@marjoriejones8280]

Thanks

[@calvinsmelliott5458]

It’s hard to imagine what you go through every day. Dealing with lost, sick, tragic animals is traumatic and mentally exhausting. When you compound that with the reasons you're so dedicated, it's almost sad. Almost sad, but inspiring.... Keep working on it and focus on growth.... Good job, friend. Never above you, never below you, always right there with you, for always.

[@patsyhillyer1149]

Lee, I watched this about 5 times. I just want to wrap around you and say thank you. Thank you for the honesty and tremendous compassion you exude. You empower so many others. I hope you feel the love so many of us extend to you!! Hugs my friend.

[@alro11]

thank you for talking about mental health. Most times watching people rescue suffering animals and they live and are loved allows many to relate that this is possible for them as well. we are all beings and deserve a healthy and safe place to live and thrive!

[@meagenb4968]

Living in the moment is difficult, just breathe...❤ Perfection does not exist and good enough is good enough.

[@kellybeverly3601]

As a retired critical care RN, I am very aware of loss and pain. I so admire you. Despite your pain, you continue your mission, knowing there's more pain ahead. The difference you've made is immeasurable. You inspire people to make a difference. I don't want your life, because I know what a toll it takes on you daily. Thank you for your videos. They help me get thru my dark days.

[@maxwellsmart0217]

Well said. Thank you for sharing. Following Lee helps me thru my dark days also. 💕

[@judithgoodwin7184]

I feel exactly the same.

[@goddessofwine35libra]

Thank you for all you do to not just animals but those who watch and listen to you. You are an amazing person.

[@nicolaharris3709]

Don't be too hard on yourself Lee. You are a wonderful man who does amazing work with the dogs. ❤

[@eviescorpio6921]

Thank you Lee ,and The Asher House . 💜🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺💕

[@carollast6264]

I have lost my pets also and the sadness is intense and the memories linger. Your losses are multiplied.😢 Continue your fine work.

[@marthamargarita-lm1ok]

Thank you!!!! The Asher House videos are my therapy ❤🎉🥰🐶🐶🐶🏡🏡🏡

[@pbrooks2099]

I saw a woman today, I’m fairly sure she was having a manic depressive episode in a retail store. The staff thought she was on drugs but I don’t. She’s definitely having a bad mental health day. People need to be more aware. Thanks, Lee.

[@shalacarter6658]

Amen to that!

[@satyasunshine9737]

Yes!! Absolutely!! I'm struggling w/ severe ptsd,homelessness,etc.&VERY challenging to navigate in public!!!!!

[@maxwellsmart0217]

How wonderful. This is the most amazing comment thread I've ever participated in! The compassion, honesty & vulnerability that's being shared here is amazing...and SO needed. Thank you everyone--love to all!💕

[@kathycoley5485]

You are great and don't forget it. Anyone who is negative to you, that is their problem.

[@terrilaughlin1121]

I am grateful for people like you, Lee and your friends at the Asher House. Furry and human. You make the world such a better place. Hang in there. Life is short. I love and miss my husband still. He had struggles and killed himself six years ago. I couldn’t get him to get help..I am so glad you get help when things get too heavy for you. I pray for you every day. We all need friends and animals who accept us unconditionally. Sending love and hugs from Florida.❤I have followed you many years. ❤️❤️❤️

[@pierschulz8795]

Sending love, light and tons of hugs right back to you.,

[@vanessamay3689]

🙏🏼❤️

[@shalacarter6658]

Blessings to you! My brother killed himself two weeks after my Mom died. From what I understand; it was his despair over his back pain. He just saw no future for himself. He also had received help for his mental health until my Dad talked him out of the help.

[@lisamahr8839]

We have a lot in common. God bless you 🙏🏻

[@AGoddess18]

Blessings on your journey 🙏Thank you for sharing ❤

[@astroteech]

I'm a rescue adoptive pit bull owner, and I am in such awe of you and your crew. I am humbled by your efforts. Bless you and yours.

[@shalacarter6658]

Don't you mean "Velcro Terrier?"

[@mischamartin3235]

"Grief is the price we pay for love." Elizabeth II The first thing I ever wanted to be was a veterinarian, but I realized at a very young age that I couldn't handle dealing with animals sick and in pain. I really admire your ability to be authentic. it's so helpful to fellow humans.

[@judithkempster1605]

Yes, I heard The Queen say that. She was a special lady who devoted her whole life to service.

[@judithpowers9772]

This quote is one of my favorites!

[@diannacarey6508]

Mental health... everyone has a story. Everyone has something going on in their life that tests them beyond human understanding... I think sometimes the universe is testing us to see how well we handle it. As one gets older, that gets harder. You are young...you have a wonderful dream that you are making come true. ❤with all the support you could ever ask for. Even if there are people who are "haters" you WILL SUCCEED.. and yes, it's going to be the journey of your life.. ENJOY IT, EMBRACE EVERY MOMENT.. because the time will fly by faster than you could EVER IMAGINE. I am one of those who would love to be part of your life.. I have reinvented myself 4x.. I'm no spring chicken but I enjoy work and there is nothing that can stop me if I put my mind to it... only problem now is, the tank is empty. I need help or a purpose as starting over is Not an option. Sometimes, Lee, there is no help. Sometimes there is Noone. But that's my problem. You have a dream and it's a BIG ONE. IT WILL TAKE TIME AND IM SURE YOU WILL HAVE LOTTS OF OBSTACLES.... BUT YOU HAVE THOUSAND AND THOUSANDS AND MANY PEOPLE WHO WILL HELP YOU OR CATCH YOU WHEN YOU FALL... I wish for you the MOST SUCCESS AND THE BEST LIFE FOR YOU AND YOUR DOGGIES, EVER. YOU ARE AN EXCEPTIONALLY WONDERFUL CARING PERSON. ❤💖 YOU WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE. YOUR VIDEOS ARE THERAPY FOR MANY OF US OLDER FOLKS. A REMINDER THAT THERE IS STILL HOPE .. AS THE WORLD HAS CHANGED SO VERY VERY MUCH. HUGG THE DOGGIES. ENJOY EVERY MINUTE. WE ALL ENJOY AND 💘LOVE WHAT YOU DO. 🐕❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mlehook4859]

I remember the anguish you experienced with Stella, then the heartbreak with River. That you still committed to the expansion of the Asher House, opened the sanctuary, and embrace the heartbreak that comes with all of it, and also don't hide your vulnerability while continuing to share the joy of the the dogs is so, so special. Thank you, Lee.

[@shalacarter6658]

Amen

[@lunagrace8717]

To love with all your might takes balls.....I respect that

[@hamptonbumgarner9063]

Blessings, love, and lots of paw prints... All of it gets each and all of us (t)here... In Gratitude... 🐾 💜

[@user-ys5sv8zm1y]

❤😊

[@lindacylc8373]

We all love you Lee. Thanks for the video.. I love you comment about dogs wagging their tails but not so much people, how true. My adult son struggles with mental health and it breaks my heart everyday for him, but I get up everyday with a new optimism for him. Peace and love to all ❤❤

[@PamAsher-wc8sb]

It's too easy to push things aside instead of facing the things that are building up inside. It takes courage and honesty to face those things, and know it's okay to say you're not okay.

[@linze69]

Lee shows true altruism at its best. We see on KZbin 5-10 mins of his day. Yet that small window of his day makes my day feel a whole lot better knowing he and his team at Asher house exist to give those beautiful dogs the best possible life they can. I can understand the heartache of losing one of the pack and that never leaves someone. However without Lee and the Asher house, this world would be a worse place. Thank you so so so much for this channel and sharing the pack news as well as your own thoughts on life and mental well being. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@annemieandries9773]

To Lee, a lovely soul, since I found your channel some time ago and I watch the videos, listen to the many stories of your pack and yes I often feel, -like other of your viewers- I would like to be with you and all these lovely creatures you are caring for. You make my day, I often cry, listening to you, your honesty, love for the animals but also for the world we are living in....you are my therapist😘, because the tears are a release, help and do come from within .💓💓💓💓 What you said," be good not only to animals, " is somehow difficult to me, I ve lived ( am 75, widowed twice), and have a saying...." I prefer animals i.s.o people", they are honest, don t let you down...this of course is due to how I lived my life, my upbri nging, what has been happened ( to me) ...I ll have to start thinking ...( for me!!!)😟 they say you are never too old to change.... and to realise that life is opportunities/ lessons, you can ignore them or learn from them!!! not easy So please continue the way you chose, there should be more lovely people like you, the world would be a better place!!! I love you, a Belgian....from France. ps my doggy (my 8 th Briard) is now 11 and getting some health problems....I m already terrified for when he ll pass & cross the rainbow bridge, will be devastating, like it always was when I lost one of them.... as he is my only reason to continue at the moment. !!! i ll propably go helping at a rescue center, as I ve done before. lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@crystalslater9765]

I have so much respect for you Lee. Thank you for being so raw with us. Sending you & your staff there & ALL the animals much LOVE ❤

[@ocelotcat]

You and your crew are very loved and greatly appreciated ❤️🙏🐾

[@terryfrazier3116]

Lee, I’ve struggled with chronic mental illness for over 60 years. I choose not to let that define me. Does it limit me…yes. But I have also accomplished achievements that I never thought possible. I too have a deep love for animals. My dogs bring so much joy to my life. When I feel overwhelmed by life’s stressors your videos always help me to feel grounded. I was able to earn a graduate degree in Clinical Psychological. When I worked as a therapist I considered it a privilege to share that intimate journey of healing and growth with my clients. I would imagine that your Therapist may feel the same way. I too also strive to be the best version of myself that is possible. Perfection actually is a state of stagnation. In seeking growth, understanding and healing we are able to compel ourselves to remain in a perpetual state of motion/action/growth. Only in that state can we be of service to ourselves and others…including fuzzy others 😊. Thank you so much for your service. And for keeping me grounded.

[@daniellepuccio260]

I love how you say "things in life happen FOR me not TO me". That resonated with me so much!!! Thank you, Lee!!! ❤

[@jenniferquackenbush7458]

Lee, you have taken on an amazing amount of responsibility to not only the animals, but your employees. You are amazing and I don’t doubt for a second that no matter what mistakes may happen, you can get through it. You know when you fall in love with each of these beautiful creatures that they don’t live forever. You have to remember that you gave them the most amazing life they could’ve had. You will never forget one of them. They have grown your heart. You are an amazing person and a great man! Millions of animals and people adore you. I struggle with mental health issues as well. Your channel helps me. You are so loved! Thank you for being here for all of us, animals & humans alike! 🐾❤️🐾

[@indieMo5952]

This!!!🤍

[@user-ys5sv8zm1y]

❤😊

[@juliafox7904]

❤

[@tanyaohle4221]

I second that with a big AMEN!!!

[@egal007]

super aisgedrückt ich gehe mit dir konform und wünsche dir das aller Beste, denn das ist gerade gut genug für dich... viele liebe Grüße aus Deutschland

[@TheFtm22]

If you want someone else's life, you have to take ALL of it, not just the parts you like best. I really enjoy your videos and am glad you have all that you do. Please share anything which can be done to help!

[@acanouse]

It's nice to really hear someone talk about there mental health

[@LisaBeatsCancer]

When iam deep in my own trauma and fears sitting in chemo chairs, healing from a double mastectomy a month ago and now headed to 6 weeks daily radiation soon and buried in financial stress being out of work a full year...I get the balance I need by watching Your videos! Seeing all the love you pour into these beautiful babies makes me feel better. So huge THANK YOU ❤

[@PigletSaysHello]

I hope u can also feel the love from Lee's followers. Lee is such a loving, caring person and he is putting love and light and hope into the world. And his followers feel that love and send it back out again. I hope u can feel it. I hope u can know that u are not really alone. God bless u. Sending u love and light. ❤

[@donnaccain]

May you get some miracles and all the support you need ❤

[@sheliaholliday825]

I had 20 dogs ,16 cats and 20 chickens at one time.. by myself..Now with all that have passed I have 9 dogs, 14 cat and 14 chickens .it's alot of responsibility to care for. So I may not have all you do but I have the mental stress. As fun as it looks and as awesome that you can do this to help all of them . I totally understand the end of day exhausting moments.. I totally grateful that you are helping animals.. bless your heart..

[@LJ-cx7br]

Thank you for all you do ❤

[@lottielane2486]

What a wonderful, moving vid. Jeeze, Lee, you're hard on yourself. Where does that drive for perfection come from ? You,re obviously a very driven person. To achieve what you have in so short a time. Nothing short of miraculous. On top of all that, you want to become a better person in yourself! Now that,s what I call pressure.! I feel so compassionate for your state of mind. But maybe you trying to achieve too much too soon, psychologically and spiritually speaking. You're very awareness will prevent you from ever being a real dickhead. ! It sounds as though you are suffering from PTSD. For whatever reasons. A lot of us are. Sometimes, just recognising that is a help. You know you are loved and appreciated by all of us. Sorry. Didn't mean to ramble.🐶♥️♥️

[@4bratkab565]

Thank you to ALL HEROES RESCUERS FOSTERS ADOPTERS VOLUNTEERS and LOVING ANIMALS for being UNCONDITIONALLY LOVING US ! WE understand it is not Easy but also so Rewarding to see HELPLESS ANIMALS being SAVED and LOVED and PROTECTED ❤❤❤❤

[@shalacarter6658]

Sounds like a lovely place to live.

[@shalacarter6658]

@@lottielane2486 thanks for your comment!

[@lisacraig5235]

Lee, you have taken the world on your broad shoulders and this must be giving you sleepless nights. I see the struggle just as my other favourite rescuers on The Farm in Jilliby, Australia. There are haters who try their bitter best but you have such inner strength and a world of supporters who love you and your vision. Every day we have to genuinely ask someone, are you ok.❤

[@laurelsulkin3074]

Lee, I am 77 years ols and I wish you could adopt and rescue me. All I could do for you would be pet the animals, maybe brush them. Your very existence is a great and happy-making thing for this world. Thank you for being you. And love to you.

[@connieandgwennie1450]

Sam and Luke are wonderful people. It is hard to understand why people are so vile towards kind people like them and Lee.🇦🇺

[@shalacarter6658]

@@laurelsulkin3074 I feel that. What about donating necessities to your local shelter? They always need cleaning products, for example.. Call and ask what they need. You don't need to spend a lot of money. Maybe a bottle of bleach each month?

[@ChristinaPetro]

Empathy is a painful trait to possess! 💓

[@TheresaLyonhart]

Hey, everyone! Thank you, to Lee, to y’all. I’ve been in a very low place for the past 4 years. My husband was extremely sick for two years and passed away two years ago. I have prayed fervently for death. Yet, somehow, I found The Asher House and Lee two years ago. He reminds me so much of the beauty of my now deceased husband. We saved quite a few even with all the stress we were dealing with just to keep him alive. I’m looking for my own spot to pass away (it’s coming). I am not afraid. I’m simply looking for peace. I’ve been in touch with so many advertisers and people to let them now they should support Lee and his dream. He’s selfless. He’s kind. The real deal. I’m so happy I found him. That I found y’all. Thank you, for giving me the Will to go on. Until I can’t. Love to everyone.❤️

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Much love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣ 💕 to you. When you are finding things really difficult remember what Lee has told us.. hold on for just another minute then another hour and then another day...a bit at a time. 1:07 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sherrimartin1057]

Please know that God loves you. He wants a relationship with you. He offers everlasting love and peace.....and lots and lots of animals in heaven to love on❤

[@joantrigilio9990]

Maybe you were here to give people your fearless message. Godspeed.

[@gena6645]

​@@sherrimartin1057amen!

[@bjbumblebee5324]

I trained my dog and he is certified for ptsd and anxiety disorders. We continue to train every day. My dog and our relationship and my learning to train him as a service animal has healed me. I love my dog. Loving others actually heals our bodies and our minds. Our biology changes when we feel love and the biology of those we love heals also.

[@shalacarter6658]

I admire ppl who are able to train their own Service Dogs. That is a lot of work! My dog? Ha! I am her Service Human!

[@karenhall5499]

well said...good luck with your pup xx

[@lucybieller7604]

I am so grateful to be able to look at your life thru rose colored glasses. I can't fathom the pain and anger (and hard work) that goes along with it. Sometimes I only want to see the rainbows and not the storms! Thanks Lee and ypur team. ❤

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Yep😮there are days I too only look thru those rose glasses. 11:24 ❤❤

[@lisa8990]

Thank you for sharing how you feel. It must be so difficult dealing with all the emotions that go with what you do. I know all we see is a glimpse of your life, but please know I have PTSD and your videos are truly helpful and bring me much joy. I truly appreciate you. God bless you and all the amazing people who work with you. ❤

[@lisab8073]

I love hearing Lili bark. It's like she is saying hi to all of us. Thanks for sharing Lee.

[@lisablack9634]

As a mental health nurse...ty for this message. Striving for perfection is wasted energy. Strive to be the best you can be. We all deserve to balance self love, self kindness with helping others human and fur. Forgiving, letting go of negative thoughts and feelings are a foundation of healing. Everyone goes a different pace. Struggling to do this a difinate sign you can't go it alone. Seek help. There are many good therapists and doctors waiting to help you. Be peaceable friends.

[@ScaseFacetime]

Well said❤. All the things that I would say too, as I work in mental health as well 😊

[@TheBobbymcd]

yea. how much do they charge

[@cynthiaweber1646]

I agree with everything. I also work in the mental health field.

[@lisablack9634]

@@TheBobbymcd medical assistance pays for most if not all of care. Other insurances stay in network for best rates. Investing in our health and well-being is money and time well spent. Some clinics offer sliding scale fees.

[@lisablack9634]

@@ScaseFacetime Thank you for the support and for caring about others. Cause ain't no easy behavioral health care job. It comes from your ❤️🙏

[@bluebeargaming1029]

You’re a life saver

[@kimberlypotts3874]

AMEN

[@user-nf8mz3th3o]

I think your videos are very therapeutic for you and for others. I wish you peacefulness. Hang in there

[@staceyanderson5901]

You are such a wise man filled with kindness. Thank you for posting this today. ❤

[@cndns2]

Indeed. Everyone has some mountain to climb and drama to deal with, and no one is spared. It's part of the spiritual being having a human experience.

[@HelloItsmekaz]

Mental health IS health. The more we talk about it, the better we are. Support, nurturing, compassion.

[@mdorn6592]

Blessings for Lee and his staff - and protection for all of them and the pupsters. It enriches all our lives to have him share his experiences and teach us the proper way to truly love and take care of our four-legged family members. I pray for you and all the big-hearted animal rescue individuals that make neglected animals lives better ❤

[@theonewhomjesusloves7360]

You guys are amazing there at the asher house...LOVE YOUR LOVE for all the animals

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

And one another❤😅

[@louisasutcliffe7778]

You’re life must be so hard, the responsibility for all your guys, the heartache, but the love that you give these guys makes their life wonderful. Xx

[@heatherhigson342]

You do a wonderful job lee , your soul is full love . Which shows in your videos . And knowing yourself , that you are giving these lovely dogs , hope , peace and a home . It’s totally wonderful. … and yes , 100% we can all strive to be a better person , each and every one of us x

[@Wonkaforever]

You’re a stellar human being. You admit your faults and you try to be as good as you can possibly be for yourself and others. Perfection doesn’t exist. I truly thank you for being yourself and doing the good you do for all of these lovely creatures and wish there were more humans like you. 🙏🏼

[@sylvain123]

I think anyone who works or devotes their life to animal rescue and rehabilitation really needs to invest in regular therapy. The burn out rate is so high. Taking care of ourselves physically and mentally makes us better able to cope. I appreciate this video Bless you Lee and all at Asher House 🙏 💖

[@migglemaggle9500]

You always make me happy.

[@kathyb-jf4oo]

Thanks Lee for your bravery in being authentic. It takes courage to step up and build the life we are destined to fulfil. Sharing your story helps and heals. Please remember you have a lot of support you can access and a lot of people who love what you do! Thanks for stepping up and letting us know all the parts of you. You are a great healer ❤. Thank you .

[@judithpowers9772]

If there were more people like you walking this earth, we would truly have a heaven or utopia right here on earth!! I pray everyday for you and all the rescuers! I pray that you all will be blessed with health, joy, peace, love & prosperity all the days of your lives!! You are special!! You are amazing & I would not want to live in a world without you & people like you!’❤️

[@ccserm]

Tommy and the pack are great for my mood! 😀

[@mondayquarterback9174]

He's my fav! I can't explain it cuz goldens are my soul- dogs. In my mind, Tommygun is the official greeter. He's so cute with a red ball stuffed in his face, but I haven't seen him with it in awhile. Maybe he lost it when he was out boating, lol

[@HuhHowboutThat]

Tommy stuck on that paddle board was the most adorable thing ever! And Lee was cracking up, he couldn't stop laughing. We all know if Tommy fell in, Lee would have been in after him instantly. When Tommy runs with the pack, carrying his ball with his chin held so high, that gives me such joy! Also partial to Poppy. She's just precious. Oh heck, they're ALL precious! And none more sweet than the alpha dog himself, Lee. Keep up the great work, everyone at the Asher House! 🎉💜 Love you all.🥰

[@vanessamay3689]

Amen 😊

[@vanessamay3689]

I love Copper who takes himself off fishing 🎣

[@susandhifaoui]

We are all a work on progress. I see so many wonderful comments supporting others who are struggling. I see people comment who are not afraid to share their struggles and that is a good thing. I can remember a dark time in my life when I had 6 little shih tzu eyes staring at me and they were what kept me going. Got me up in the morning. All rescued and I couldn’t let them down. Thank you to you and the community you have built to allow others a safe space to come to.

[@DebraAlexander-br7io]

Help mental health is so an important part of this and is discussed thoroughly important!

[@Bootsz2010]

I'm so happy that you're getting therapy, that's awesome! I'm a therapist and I know how helpful it can be, step-by-step. Right now I'm working with children in foster care, it can be incredibly painful but I remember everyday that I'm helping children. Best wishes to you! 🌷🐾🌷 I'm thankful for everything you do to help animals and others.

[@shalacarter6658]

Do you have a backpack program for foster kids in your area? They have one near me. It helps so much for them to have backpack with a few essentials instead of having to move around using a black plastic garbage bag.

[@Marlene-hc8zi]

You are always loved by people, I’m grateful for all you do with those babies and you will always be blessed

[@kdj703]

I watch your videos when I need a happiness, anti anxiety and hope boost..

[@lj7460]

Glad to hear that you are in counseling because it is hard to hear when you speak negatively of yourself. Many of us have negative self-talk and the messages that we tell us ourselves are often far worse than anything others say to us. The prevalence of depression and anxiety disorders are at an all-time high post-COVID. These disorders can be extremely debilitating, both emotionally and physically. Sometimes people need to see a counselor more than once a week when dealing with a lot. One and four women and one and eight men will have major depressive disorder at some point in their lives. The lifetime prevalence rate of anxiety disorders is about 1/3 of the population. Thus, mental health concerns are actually quite common, and it is good to have an open dialogue about it. Thankfully, there has been a cultural shift towards people being more aware and accepting persons struggling with their mental health. Society at large is also far more accepting of persons seeking treatment for mental illness. Lee, I am glad that you made a point to talk about these issues. You legitimately have an enormously stressful job of taking care of your workers and ensuring the care of all the animals. We just get to see a glimpse of your life and I’m glad people are realizing that everything isn’t sunshine and ROSES. I know that you too have struggles and I think you are a tremendously incredible person. I know that a lot of people tell you that, but I hope that you can truly internalize that message. When I see you interact with animals, particularly those that have been harmed by others or mistreated in some way, you have such incredible empathy and a level of kindness that make the animals fall in love with you. You have such a gentleness in your soul that emanates from you, which is truly magnificent. You are also entitled to feel anger, upset, and sadness, as we all have a spectrum of emotions. However, at your core is an incredible man. I just hope you can see that.😊 Animals are the best judge of character and you have won all their hearts!

[@shalacarter6658]

Well said!

[@robinlages6673]

To do what he does nobody could do. He needs to realize he is a wonderful person.

[@jarmilastorie7415]

Well said!!

[@carolynknutson6913]

Lee Asher….. you are struggling with self worth, you question yourself , doubt yourself, and this comes with depression. You my friend have a great purpose in this life, I know you know that in your heart . I’m a believer that God has put you here to do exactly what you’re doing! Whatever struggles you have gone thru, it led you to rescue dogs , and you do a amazing job of helping and caring for animals. You have a kind heart and soul. Then you question this purpose You doubt yourself. Someday, take a walk on your property and talk to God, build a relationship with him. Just you and him, he will guide you, you see Lee, he had a purpose for you in this life, you need to accept that, not question it. I’m a firm believer that you’re here and doing what you’re doing. But sometimes with depression, people question themselves, why me? I’m not a big religious person, but sometimes I have to accept That my life will have struggles, And it always seem that when I ask “why me”, I start doubting myself. I guess what I’m trying to say to you, accept who you are, accept what you are doing with these dogs. They have given you a purpose in life….. Giving them love and a better life . What’s that saying? A dog is your best friend ! I truly hope with your therapy, and you accepting your purpose here on earth, you will find the peace within you. Once that happens, you will no longer Question yourself. You are a amazing man, and what you do in life , is exactly why you are here! Your past is just that, it was a Path that led you to be the keeper of these wonderful dogs! Let go of the past, it’s hard to do, been there done that ! Once you find peace within yourself, and accept and not question who you are, your heat and soul will be healed!

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

Life is not a fairytale but with every video I see you being the best you can be the latest for me by not leaving Millie behind with the love you ❤ 💗 💕 show by pulling her around in a wheelbarrow so you can be together. 1:05 And it is way past time you start being kind to yourself

[@antjepiene]

Dear Lee, I´m deeply touched in my heart from you as a person. It is so inspiring how you are going your way and let us be part of it. You are really a gift for the world not only for the dogs also for us humans. There is a big change in the world so that we all will be pushed to become aware and make a difference in this world which is very very needed. And you make a difference each day. Thank you so much for being you. I´m in therapy aswell and I´m very grateful to have it because it really helps me to follow my way and become the person that I want to be. Big embrace Antje

[@kimstephenson3876]

'Work on yourself, especially if you think you don't need to..." LOVE THAT! Thanks, Lee,

[@Pepper427]

Lee ...Your honesty is appreciated. I so enjoy being on your pack walks. Brings joy and makes me smile. Thank you.

[@ThePickles923]

Thank you Lee, for everything you do. Thank you for your honesty.

[@hemnebob]

Thank you ALWAYS for sharing…on another note, if you make it look easy, they believe it is. Most of us know it’s a large responsibility and sacrifice, we appreciate you Lee. Our souls ❤️you!

[@bethwhite2857]

💕 thank you for this video 💕this Valentine's day my 18 year old Lizzie dog went to doggy heaven. It was a great loss, but when I think about her our love fills my heart. Her ashes are in my truck and she still comes with me every where. That little stabyhoun Saved me so many times. You are perfect and your dogs know it.. 💕🤠

[@shalacarter6658]

She was blessed by you!

[@jodiegirl1971]

Thank you for sharing. Progress not perfection. You have no idea how many people you just helped right now. Myself included. I will continue to work on myself. I do TNR for the community cats, and everyone I know in rescue is suffering in some way and we push forward and thru it and around for these precious fur babies. I’ve learned if I’m not taking care of me I’m no good to them. God speed and all good vibes and prayers lifted for you and your pack. 🙏❤️😽

[@shalacarter6658]

I love ppl who do TNR!

[@deloresstith-rutlin9978]

I also TNR cats love all animals…. Thanks Lee for all you do, please take care of yourself the animal need you…

[@theonewhomjesusloves7360]

You always say the perfect things 🤗

[@Sarah420Hippie]

No one is perfect, but it’s important to strive and try to be. That, in itself, is the perfect version of humanity: the journey of self improvement 🤩 Sending love and light to all those trying everyday! 🤗

[@maryyusko9711]

You are doing a great job rescuing dogs. I have just recently started following your journey. I agree we all need to work on our mental health. Take care of yourself, Mary

[@marywolf2459]

Following the example of my dog helps keep me mentally balanced. He lives in the here and now.

[@MichaelMaddog3584]

Lilly is the perfect advocate for my mental health!

[@kimberlysmith949]

Yes!! A life of service is what we all should be doing. Thank you for shining your light even in the darkness. Much love to you and your team.

[@juliamartinez4317]

Thank you Lee Asher. We all have issues that no one knows anything about, but we must do our best to help others as well as ourselves. A kind word, a smile or just listening without judgment. We are all worthy of love and kindness. Let's all do the work and make the world a better place💜

[@kristenh8598]

You touch so many people in a positive way! Just seeing how kind you are makes me want to be a better person ❤️

[@marilynmartinezperez9028]

I do believe what you do must be overwhelming many times physickly and emotionally...Nobody could do more than you do...please don't feel gilty...you are human...and It is so admirable that you do what you do everyday...not many could handle so much...I also work on myself constantly...we are all doing our best...I wish you all the best🙏✨

[@lorrainemcasey6964]

I agree with what you say and in Lee's videos we see him being the best he can be❤

[@carolinerhee6761]

Thank you for continuing to show your journey. We are conditioned to not burden or show others that things may not be “fine”. It’s almost considered rude to reply with an honest answer when asked “how are you”. Let’s change the paradigm - let’s be honest and kind to ourselves and others. It’s okay to not be okay. Most people out there actually want to help but it seems impossible in your inner conversation. Thanks for showing videos of your honest life and lovely animals!

[@valevale3873]

Hi Lee, we know you can’t be a happy, jovial giant hero 24/7. We love you also when you are not on a KZbin video. You saved my dog’s life because you inspired me to adopt him. I am so grateful for you.

[@TeReSa-T53]

My furbabies are my therapy. They get me through some of life's struggles.

[@maxinegraham135]

You and the dogs contribute to my mental health by giving loads of "up" moments, I am blessed with so many things and I include you and the pack in those blessings! ❤

[@kimberlypotts3874]

Beautifully Said Words Maxine - Thanks So Much - I am Blessed Also for What Lee and His Team do to Save Dogs and Other Animals - I Thank GOD Everyday for Caring People Like Lee for Everything They Do To Help All Animals in Need That Come Their Way - GOD BLESS YOU Lee and your Team and all the other Caring and Kind People in the World Who Help Save Animals

[@darleneportnoy2298]

Powerful message, Lee. Thank you for caring and sharing. I so respect and admire people in any field who are there to help and support (whether it is for animals or people) yet do so knowing they will witness and experience suffering, sadness and loss. These people - including you - truly are special. You questioned if these people are smart. With all due respect, I don’t think that’s the right question. These people are so special. The world is a better place because of them. The world is a better place because of you and the Asher House. Thank you ❤

[@davinaeacevedo]

I love you for all the love you give to all the dogs you come across. And I admire your courage and strength. I pray, asking God to let loving people like you are able to help many animals.

[@ruthwest1459]

Lee is amazing. He's shared so much which can't be easy yet he wants to help people.

[@jenniferdelano4537]

God bless you Lee. It takes a brave person to look at yourself, and not be a victim.

[@user-xz1vk3el3w]

This is your calling. Faith will guide you and hold you up.

[@HuskyBeautiesAmiraFreyja]

They're aren't many people as good as you and those who dedicate themselves to care for the vulnerable, your channel is a source of happiness for so many stay strong ❤️

[@helenalderson6608]

It's bearable when you know you have given them the best life from the moment they are rescued

[@cynromeo]

Wow, what a great video! Lee, remind me so much of my brother, the late artist, Stephen Huneck. If you don’t know of him, you should look him up. He loved dogs so much that he built a chapel and this was a place for people who lost a pet to mourn the loss and put the name of their pet up on the wall. It’s in Saint Johnsbury Vermont “The Dog Chapel”. He made beautiful carvings of dogs and pictures and 15 children’s books and many other things anyway, I always think of him when I watch your videos, he also had a lot of land and numerous dogs. Unfortunately, he also had a lifelong problem with depression and anxiety. Without getting in to personal or into too many details I’ll just say he committed suicide in 2010. We are so sad that he didn’t reach out to any of us and this tragedy happened. I thought this was a good time to bring this up about mental health month and untreated what can happen. Thank you for all you do! The world is a better place because of you!

[@tamivujovic6227]

Thank you for sharing about your brother, and so very sorry for your loss

[@chandnikpillai4435]

You know ,the first time I came to know that dogs live only for7 - 12 yrs on an average, I felt so sad as l was just a child at the time.Even now the grief I go thru each time I lose a pet or I witness any cruelty towards any animal is unfathomable . Lee, every animal lover understands you thoroughly and what your life involves.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@shiftylad9938]

TY for sharing. Sounds like he tried to do his best. Actually his best was probably better than 95% of us. What a story. Dog chapel. Inspiring stuff 💯👌 RIP Stephen

[@janetd569]

What a wonderful brother you had! Sorry for your loss! Thank you for sharing!

[@jodinicholas890]

Wow. Thank you for sharing about your brother. Most people with open loving souls cannot survive in this cruel world. My heart goes out for your family. Your brother and his work impacted so many others.

[@lisasteen2902]

When I was writing my Masters in Social Work, the professors wanted all of the students to enter into therapy. Not only to understand the therapeutic process, but to really understand that we weren't all that different from our clients. We only thought we were...❤