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[@X_Xe431]

Found you on a Eugenia Cooney video, just wanted to say that you are super pretty! :)

[@Final-Ts]

I've been trying to put my finger on it for a while, but you seem too 'forced' or 'phony'. I most certainly don't believe that you are--I think you're probably just nervous. You're a good person and we've had many chats before, Crazy Dragon. :) It's constructive criticism. My advice, if allowed, is to talk to the camera like you speak when you're talking with your best friend. You're relaaaxxed, having fun,...it feels 'natural'. This is no different. Example... I worked in the restaurant biz for years and never had much confidence in myself when I changed careers and went into phone sales. Conversing naturally with clients in the store scared the f*ck out of me. I put on a show, I was nervous, people didn't warm up to me, their body language was stiff and on-guard haha! Yes, I was a hot mess. I admit it! :) Working the job day after day forced me out of my comfort zone though. I eventually said to myself, 'f*ck it', and just started to be relaxed more. Partially because I was more confident with what my job was, but also from facing my fears every-single-day, which was conversing with strangers and worrying what they might think of me and my performance. When I started to relax I noticed that I sounded more and spoke more 'real', or natural. People started to relax in front of me with their tone of voice, and body language. They smiled and laughed when I said something funny... they seemed to 'feel at home' when I was in a sales transaction with them. I realized that I wasn't afraid of them as much as I was afraid of my own abilities, worth to other people and 'the unknown'. My unknown fears were, and sometimes and still ARE, very irrational because I'll be afraid of things that I cannot explain haha. Anxiety I suppose. However, much of that is gone now. It was hard at first, but I can say that working where I am has changed my life. My point is, be natural and relaxed. Pretend you're talking to your best friend naturally. People pick up on it and respond with open arms if they think you are real, relaxed, genuine and confident. People can tell when a person is not, either consciously or subconsciously in their mind. Hey, I think you're worth the time to write this long-ass response to because you're obviously dedicated to making this channel work. Your history shows it. Also, if this comment is embarrassing in any way, please feel free to delete it. I just want to give some advice that I think will help since you have helped me in the past as well. You helped me to see things in the Eugenia comment section about myself. Be natural, relaxed, REAL, and have fun with your videos--actual fun. Cover topics that YOU want to talk about, not what you think others want to hear (and you might already do that--if so, that's good). Finally, it really is something that you will eventually 'feel' inside. It's not so much of a thing that can be instructed. When you're ready, it will 'feel' natural and you won't even think about it anymore. :) ****"It's when I stopped caring so much/or being insecure, is when I noticed the changed happened for me. I didn't stop caring about my job... I stopped worrying/caring about the various elements that gave me anxiety. See ya! :)

[@DOYLECLEVERLOBE1]

Ring light is working great or maybe it's just who it's lighting. Glad you decided to keep the video with the lipstick teeth lol. Maybe you should broaden your job search you might find you are good at something you didn't think you are qualified for.