After one of Vicki's children died, Mama comforted her by telling her that she needed to buck up and get over it, because losing a child is nothing compared to losing a husband. Because Victoria's suffering was always far more insufferable than anyone else's suffering.
@freshname11 ай бұрын
No. Because losing a child was a norm. The norm, actucally.
@51Saffron6 ай бұрын
@@freshname It might of been the norm, but families were devastated just as much as today.
@florindalucero3236 Жыл бұрын
It is so bizarre how loving and kind she was to one child, while being an absolute ghoul to all the rest.
@thisasiankidistrashfordram374 Жыл бұрын
While Prince Albert still lived, Queen Victoria was often at odds with Vicki, as she was jealous of her eldest child being the apple of Albert's eye. Mother and daughter only really grew closer after Vicki got older, got married off to the Kaiser's family & after Prince Albert died. So before her husband died, Queen Victoria kind of treated ALL her children ghoulishly. Maybe she didn't mistreat or ignore her kids all the time & she didn't treat them all equally so, but it took a while for Queen Victoria to really care about any of her children. To be fair, she was the reigning Monarch of Britain & its Colonies, so work took much of her time & when she wasn't working, her husband sometimes withheld much affection & understanding. Prince Albert spent more time trying to wrestle more power of the British throne and British Government for his agendas. Allegedly, he could be very manipulative of his family members in order to control them, especially his Queen wife. Princess Victoria/Vicki was a child prodigy in various subjects, like languages and maths. She could speak multiple languages fluently by age 3. So of course, her very scholarly, very German, serious father doted on her the most. Prince Albert wasn't too great at relating to his more emotional, more passionate, more romantic wife, so he spent more time with his intellectual eldest child Vicki. Vicki was Albert's favorite because she was so much like him & had more similar interests.
@alisoncooper14219 ай бұрын
Post natal depression was not recognized until the mid 1980's and even now it is not fully understood. It is now considered that Victoria suffered from post natal depression along with many woman of that era, many having 7-15 children in as many years,enough to make any woman depressed before the post partum stage. I understand Prince Albert, kept her "in child" so he could increase his involvement with British politics. It was a politically arranged marriage and while there is no doubting Victoria loved Albert, I think Albert, while a very talented intelligent man was a manipulative husband with his own agenda and Victoria pandered to his every whim although she could not get the British Government to create him King Consort.
@michaelplunkett80598 ай бұрын
@@alisoncooper1421Kept her in child???? Or it reflected the intensity of their relationship. He was NOT debased as his father and brother were. Nor was she like her Hanoverian reprobates. Stop the rewriting of history.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
Miriam Margolyes is an icon, a legend and she is the moment.
@cxzact9204 Жыл бұрын
Woah, I was not expecting a Wendy/ Drag Race quote here. 😂 But I agree!
@mooniejohnson Жыл бұрын
I love Miriam so much... she's a treasure. Also, I can say with certainty that all babies come out looking like Winston Churchill; do with that what you will.
@joshuagraham3854 Жыл бұрын
Prince Albert's list of accomplishments is not inconsiderable for a Prince-Consort, but perhaps the most overlooked one is that time when Queen Victoria asked him what his favorite catchphrase meant, and he was able to convince the most powerful person in the world that the word "pecker" meant "spirits". Also noteworthy is that he sired nine children with Victoria, strongly indicating that he was a man who knew well how to make use of his own advice.
@GullibleTarget9 ай бұрын
, the word pecker was used as a vulgar word for penis in Canada and what is now the U.S. In England the term was indicative of it's true meaning: to peck. I.e. to repeatedly hit a flat surface in order to break through. The birds known as woodpecker are admired for their tenacity when going through a hard surface. So if you are feeling down or something is bothering you: keep pecking, you'll get through this hard time if you just keep your pecker( a woodpeckers beak, a nail to a hammer, a pick-axe)up. So no: it had nothing to do with keeping your d**k up😂 Your version is a lot more entertaining than the truth, though! 'Keep your pecker up, mother' Victoria:'What did you say?!' Leopold:' Papa said it means keep one's spirits up. He says they say it in Germany all the time!' Victoria: "Bertie; what are you teaching our children?! You KNOW what it means!" Albert: 'lol'.
@YakumoChidori Жыл бұрын
Well, she is writing about the future Wilhelm II, I am sure he will be a very nice and peace-loving child...
@magesalmanac6424 Жыл бұрын
I think there was another level somewhere where she describes him as a spoilt and obnoxious child.
@wingzero5956 ай бұрын
@@magesalmanac6424wasn’t he her favorite grandchild?
@margaretdownie4407 Жыл бұрын
I really do love this woman, what I talent, what you see is what you get 💜💜
@pistolannie6500 Жыл бұрын
I would LOVE to hear MORE of Queen Victoria's writings!! I DO wish they would be published.... release them in Volumes. 2-3 volumes a year... good for The Crown.... to bring revenue.. as they would sell like Crraazzy!
@v2krpl37dh Жыл бұрын
There are loads of editions. There's a book called Letters to Vicky that's just a collection of her correspondence with this daughter.
@alisoncooper14218 ай бұрын
I recall Jenna Coleman, who portrayed Queen Victoria, in the TV show VICTORIA, saying that one could read all of Queen Victoria's letters on line. I couldn't access it from New Zealand but believe it was freely available in the UK.
@lindaclark1406 Жыл бұрын
More, more, more of Miriam. ❤❤❤
@CatsandJP Жыл бұрын
Love Ms Margolyes. Well there is a saying “the only good kid is a sleeping one”. We can all take that advice and “keep our peckers up” in 2023 Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
@karldelavigne8134 Жыл бұрын
I do wonder whether Queen Victoria was quite so strident in her speaking voice. We only have one dim recording of her in old age. But this was artistic licence, and good fun.
@karenburrows9184 Жыл бұрын
As much as I admire Ms. Margolyes, I agree with you up to a point. Her voice has been trained mainly for stage drama, therefore is more forceful, but I have heard her normal speaking voice and believe it would have served her better in this portrayal. I do not believe in using artistic license in portraying actual historical characters on stage or film, but that is my opinion. Her delivery is that of someone desperately trying to communicate with a hard-of-hearing audience.
@frglee Жыл бұрын
This was written in May 1859 when Queen Victoria had just turned 40. Artistic licence for sure, and she's very funny, but it seemed to me as if Miriam did make her sound rather older.
@michellebyrom6551 Жыл бұрын
This brought my Grandad to my side (1901 - 1982) he often said Keep your pecker up. Nice thoughts to everyone.
@JenMaxon Жыл бұрын
Oh she's marvellous
@michaelmontagu3979 Жыл бұрын
Queen Victoria often referred to children as ugly. When her granddaughter Marie Louise was staying with her, she telegraphed the parents saying, 'Children all well but poor Louise very ugly. ' When the princess was older she asked her grandmother had said that, the Queen replied, 'My dear, it was the truth.'
@butchbinion15602 ай бұрын
Thanks, great job. ✌🏻👊🏼
@dbyers3897 Жыл бұрын
Queen Victoria & her oldest daughter, as Crown Princess of Prussia & later Empress Frederick, were daily correspondents. Mama was famously direct in her descriptions & appraisals of people including her own family. Many view this as rudeness but she was simply being honest. What a joy to hear from someone who actually said what she thought.
@karenburrows9184 Жыл бұрын
Having read "Letters to Vicky" among other studies of Victoria, I am sure a common impression would be that she bore a bad temper and was brutal in her assessments of both people and things. This made her responsible for the misery of her staff (and the humiliation and rapid decline of one of her ladies-in-waiting who was actually terminally ill). A thoroughly self-absorbed woman who, I think, secretly believed in the divine right of kings. However, I do think that much of this can be laid at the feet of her mother and her councillor, a thoroughly unscrupulous pair.
@firesushu Жыл бұрын
Definitely being incredibly rude while still being honest. There are better ways to communicate without being rude.
@graceygrumble11 ай бұрын
@@firesushu Exactly! There is a difference between being honest and being socially inept. I become so annoyed when ghastly people get away with being ghastly people because others make the excuse of "That's just their way," and are afraid to confront them. It bloody well shouldn't be 'their way'!
@katehardwick428311 ай бұрын
And when I do that I’m a bitch!!!!!!
@beakeeper524310 ай бұрын
@@firesushu agreed! reminds me of the Richard J. Needham quote, "The person who is brutally honest enjoys the brutality quite as much as the honesty. Possibly more."
@nvzmv Жыл бұрын
is it just me or does the clapping at the beginning of this video sound like soothing rainfall
@LuinTathren Жыл бұрын
“Keep up your pecker!” I need to remember that one. Keep up your pecker, everyone, as we enter a new year!
@Canalcoholic Жыл бұрын
The saying is usually “keep your pecker up”, and is only addressed towards men.
@suzymatwetwe Жыл бұрын
Aaahhh, Miriam ❤️.
@jen43072 Жыл бұрын
Oh I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall when Miriam got that letter as a proposal to do this. I can imagine the exact moment she said yes to the project. 😉
@chetanmanjesh58879 ай бұрын
Has anyone noticed that Miriam uses a slight German accent?
@kevinlance18135 ай бұрын
It struck me while hearing this that perhaps the greatest benefit of being a Monarch is the concept of being considered earnest even when the rest of us are considered vile in the same context. Not that the Queen was in any way vile or that she didn't love here children (which I'm certain she did), but in contemporary times most of us have to filter our thoughts when expressing them openly.
@IntrepidFraidyCat Жыл бұрын
LOL! Awesomely read!
@--Valek-- Жыл бұрын
I like this queen now
@SafetySpooon Жыл бұрын
"QUEEN PIGLET FEATURES????"
@VanessaPeacock-bb5ei11 ай бұрын
We've never been so insulted in our entire lives! Then all I can say is, you've been damned lucky!
@Dr.TobiasFunke Жыл бұрын
1:59 what's that French phrase?
@ellen3931 Жыл бұрын
Avoir tant d'entraide = have so much support (for it)
@jonmarck10 ай бұрын
Why do you mix these so quietly? This is nearly inaudible.
@hannahk130610 ай бұрын
Queen Victoria's story is actually rather sad - she reportedly never liked nor wanted children, but due to the lack of effective contraceptive options available and expectations of an heir (and apparent love of sex) she ended up being an unwilling mother. I believe that had she had proper contraception she may have chosen to have 2 or 3 children later in life to fulfil the "need" for an heir, but certainly not as many as she did. I imagine that previous royals had fewer children because they were political marriages where they didn't enjoy each other's company and only really had sex when they were trying to conceive, which is sad in its own way. There's also evidence of fertility issues that can be identified in certain parts of royal history.
@CaliforniaFarmGirl Жыл бұрын
Let’s be honest. We all believe the same thing about newborns. We just don’t say it out loud.
@lakeireland Жыл бұрын
Some of us do. “Why is his face like that? Did you drop him already?” was the 2nd thing I said to my brother about his newbie.
@ashTame Жыл бұрын
First to view! Love Miriam and love Letters Live!
@rossrennie1824 ай бұрын
Andy I was there it was amazing it will get bigger . Andy the Police were very nice . The Anti mob were disgrace
@Trucmuch Жыл бұрын
1:28 you can tell she's not amused
@Catseye189 Жыл бұрын
Queen Victoria was a cruel and odd parent
@briandelaney9710 Жыл бұрын
She’s reading as if Queen Victoria was an old lady when this was written but she was only 40