Letting Go is NECESSARY | Post Breakup Thoughts | Vulnerable ChitChat GRWM | Let's Heal Together 💗

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An old coworker's sister once told her: just because he's a good man, doesn't mean he's YOUR man. Maybe that's the only reason why God broke it off. Your husband is on its way to you❤️

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Phewww!!! This is the one!

[@thatjamericankidd6637]

@@JacquelineJohnettedid the bob grow out

[@JacquelineJohnette]

@@thatjamericankidd6637 I still have my bob under my phony pony lol

[@Kozygirlie_eats]

One moment he's the man of your dreams, the next you just know you have to move forward. There's a reason you met him! Also, a lot of people needed to hear what you said... in that moment. I hope you can get to a place where you accept all of it and even THANK GOD but it's a process ❤

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Yes! So true. I’m doing SO much better now. Thank you for sticking with me and being apart of the community 🤎

[@analea6531]

Girl that’s just part of life don’t be embarrassed. Things can be awesome and go sour a minute later that’s just the roller coaster of life ❤

[@AlexisBii]

I wish I woulda known this years ago. The absolute truth lmao

[@analea6531]

@@AlexisBii we learn as we go❤️

[@victoriaros.e]

Ok, I am one of those classic ghost followers but I have been following since...I don't even know how long girl 😅but we did the whole apartment thing, furniture hunting, chit chats...I've been here ok!😄 Well I just broke up with my man and we were together for 1 and a half year and it was so easy, so healthy and I started of thinking about house with him, kids, dogs the whole thing and made the decision(which I still question every day) to break up with him because in my case his parents wanted nothing to do with me because of my skin color. We loved each other but you have to love yourself more and choose whats best for you because we all deserve to be loved the way we wish to be loved. This video felt like having a conversation with a friend who knows how painful it is to let go of a man who was perfect for you but still not the right one. It will get better🤎 Allow yourself to cry and feel those feelings but after pick yourself up and look after yourself 🤎

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Thank you SO MUCH for this! 🥹🤎

[@reydjz]

Dont be embarrassed for putting your heart out there ❤❤❤

[@anjelicaa]

Don’t let this experience ruin your perception of love or men! He is out there ❤

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🤎🤎🤎🥹 I truly believe he’s out there. I guess my only job right now is to prepare myself and not settle until I meet him.

[@AlexisBii]

@@JacquelineJohnette That's exactly it. In your low moments just imagine what your future, dream man would think if you settled for a dusty. It'll straighten you out lmao... dust settles, you DONT! ❤‍🩹

[@StephanieGleam]

Whew, this makes me reflect! Sometimes we use the "Lord, if he's not the one for me, remove him" as a crutch (guilty of this too). Don't get me wrong, that prayer DO work, but I remember praying that same prayer while I was dating this man, and God didn't remove him all quick and fast. So when the relationship ended 4 months later, I was soo confused and hurt because I prayed that prayer in the earliest stages of us dating and he didn't vanish lol. I felt like God could've saved me from the heartbreak and the emotional healing stage, but he allowed me to go through it for such a life changing reason. I needed to stop settling for less than I deserve and to not ignore red flags, cause all the red flags were very present in the beginning, but since I wanted to see if God would remove him (instead me removing myself from the situation) I thought that God was allowing him to stay in my life, and that this was God's stamp of approval. Now I know who I'm looking for, established higher standards, have a low tolerance for foolishness and of course still take it to God in prayer. When I know something isn't feeling right, I simply just walk away. Thank you for sharing girl! I hope that you continue to feel better 💕

[@SinoM123]

girl are you me??? bc same!! I had the opportunity to walk from 6months in, I took the out but then went back.. still saw the red flags, still continued, still asked God to either 'save him' or 'remove him' from my life ( I cringe at the arrogance now) and God did neither till like a year later and God was like: leave him already.. and i was so bewildered and hurt bc I'd forgotten the prayers I'd made.. it could have ended way worse than a broken heart and everyday I'm thankful that even in stubborness and rebellion God didn't deal with me as I deserved.

[@StephanieGleam]

@@SinoM123What you said at the end is so powerful! That God didn’t allow our own rebellion to be the end of us, Jesus 😩. He will wait patiently until we learn what He wanted us to see this whole time!

[@reeandtee]

Ugh sis, I needed this comment… I’m going through that right now. 😢 I can feel that I needed a better support system, I neglected my other relationships and myself… all at the same time my gut was telling me I needed to go and I was ignoring it. I hope you’ve continued on in trusting yourself and trusting in the small signs that God sends. Blessings to everyone in this comment section ❤❤ (and my mom for putting me on to Jacqueline,lol)

[@StephanieGleam]

@@reeandtee Aww girl! I'm glad you've found encouragement in this. We can only get better from here, and we thank God for the lessons He allowed us to learn, using all things for our good 💕.

[@daneelellee_]

I never wanted to cut my hair because it was long but it wasn’t healthy but once I cut it off it’s now growing back so much more fuller & thick ❤ you have to let go to flourish for real, I pray God continues to watch over you always

[@MissMaryMak]

I’m so proud of you Jacqueline. There was nothing toxic in it but you both knew now wasn’t the time and were grown about not wasting each other’s time moving forward. There was defo a reason y’all came together and some of the insights you received post break up are just some of the many positives that you were meant to realise. I trust that God is lining up all your hearts desires and whilst you wait, He’ll continue to mould and shape you into the beautiful woman you’re born to be. Thank you for sharing, I pray all who listen learn a thing or two 🙏🏾💕

[@selfcarewithosato]

Girlllll i usually don't comment but i have been in the same situation of breaking up amicably. in my case i realized after 3 days that he was not even feeling as hurt as i was so i was definitely more invested in the relationship. At the end of the day, if you know without a doubt that someone is your for life partner, there's absolutely nothing that should stop you from giving it your full commitment. i cant wait for you to fully heal and give us that content and then have ultimate breakthrough in your career, maybe this is God telling you to focus on you. i love your content and your vulnerability and im truly routing for you,💞💞💞

[@DFaith]

Congratulations on the 30k+ subscribers🎉🥂 Your girl talks never miss. You made some really good points that I resonated with. I’m glad you were able to gain a new perspective about letting go of relationships and what you want for yourself moving forward.

[@makayla2573]

Hi Jacqueline, I just wanted to say thank you for being so raw and vulnerable! I really struggle with the letting go aspect, so I found this very helpful for what I'm going through right now

[@JacquelineJohnette]

You are so welcome! 🤎

[@jasmin-tk9bi]

Your honesty is so admirable, I wish you all the best❤

[@mikaylagraham1537]

Congrats on 30k, you’re almost at 40! You got this Jac ❤

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Thanks so much!! 🤎

[@Samathapenny]

It’s giving Healthy!!! , healthy boundaries, healthy beginning and healthy endings. I believe this man was brought into your life to show you and us all that this “delulu” love (with a true gentleman)we all believe in is R E A L . Especially in this season where you are pouring into yourself and into us. We love you ! And we are so proud of you for giving your heart unapologetically and letting us in through that journey. You’ve encouraged me to do the same.

[@AlexisBii]

real shit

[@bridgetteworley4878]

Thank you sooooo much for sharing. I know this way not easy to share, but I needed to hear this. I have been on a healing journey after my divorce. It's never easy. My God bless you 🙏🏼.

[@katyp5914]

Nothing but respect for you not only being transparent but also being truthful. Blessings and Godspeed to you!🕊💜👍🏽

[@laiarchived]

Amicable breakups are hard, if not harder than the toxic & blocking! I agree ❤ sending you love. I went through a an amicable breakup a week after Valentine’s Day and it was DIFFICULT, but eye opening. There are definitely still good men out there and it’s nice to hear that you got to experience it too. I went into my experience the same way “not knowing what I wanted,” but came out realizing I want the whole thing chile… - marriage, family and the whole enchilada! Before I thought I was just playing in the fields! Thank you sooo much for sharing, this chat resonates!!

[@lilyc01c]

Everything you said in the last video still stands true! There are always additional lessons that can be learned! Takes a mature person to realize the person you’re with has a different future planned and even if you love each other long term it’s not sustainable. I’ve always believed there are compromises in relationships but when it comes to marriage, children. House etc. I think those dreams are too big to compromise on. Also thanks for the journaling tip! I hate writing and can never think of what to actually write but just talking sounds so much easier! Much love 🫶🏽🤍

[@Sasha-vn9qw]

Appreciate the time you shared together. it’s a beautiful thing to have hope again in love.

[@oratilemore8855]

Proud of you mama, you've got this!

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🥹🤎

[@Aunalovea]

There’s ALWAYS a counterfeit before the real thing. Babe your season is cominggggg, keep the faith bookie💕

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Whewwww, girl don’t make me change his name in my phone to “The Counterfeit” 😂 jk but I definitely needed to hear that 🥹🤎

[@Aunalovea]

⁠@@JacquelineJohnetteI told myself I would never be the type to fan girl over a comment but I am fangirling at your reply back. I just want to let you know as a 20 year old I look up to you soooo much and there’s NOTHING that can make me hate you!! Keep being you and please keep being vulnerable, your content heavily affects the way I live my life!!

[@belovedakua]

Thank you for sharing! Imma still listen to the don’t settle message you shared- that was too good!!

[@Feminine.Periodical]

Firstly I absolutely love you, your just a beam of light and happiness, we don’t need all the details just to know your well and healing , and yes you look better with your natural lashes ma’am ❤️❤️❤️God bless you .🙏💗

[@she.genuine]

We’ve all been here and feel you 1000000%!!! Hate to see you teary eyed but i know it’s all apart of the process to Greater things ahead! Sending you lots of love and light sis!

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🤎

[@skyegroome223]

There could be something about wiz that has not been revealed to you yet but will be in time. Or it could be as simple as it not being the right time. Maybe he's not yet the man that God has planned for you.

[@_naaayorkor]

girl, thank you for sharing! ❤️❤️

[@JacquelineJohnette]

You are so welcome!

[@AlexisBii]

Girl, God will put people in your life JUST to teach you some crucial lessons and prep you for bigger and better. And from what you're saying in this video you learned ALL you needed to learn and then some! 💕Let this man go, but don't let go of your dream. *Your* man is on his way, he just movin a lil slow lmao 😭

[@PatriciaDiaz-ry2bm]

Thank you for sharing. Helps us feel part and not alone. There’s a lot of that have felt this way before. Understanding the process is a process

[@2cute2boot_]

Awe that’s not embarrassing, girl! Life happens and that’s ok. It takes strength to be vulnerable, so thank you for sharing. Sending you love and healing. ❤✨

[@Sasha-vn9qw]

Absolutely not embarrassing. Every single person has been here it happens unfortunately. I do hope that you find the man meant for you once you’re ready.

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🥹🤎

[@yannababi]

Thank you for coming on and sharing your heart with us ❤

[@WithloveTrinize]

first things first stop trying to find your person... healing is a temporary state and you will have a break through moment...you're already ahead of the game! signed a old lady lol

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Thank you 🤎🤎

[@FreeElf25]

Aw hun ❤ sending love

[@TheBryanaLanier]

I for the longest time didn’t want kids and just wanted the husband even when I was in a relationship with my ex fast forward… I found a man who makes me want to give him all the kids (3) idk about all lol but it came down to the way he make me feel safe, takes care of me, notices everything about me and it makes me folds no Texas hold em😂

[@theZenaWay]

Omg that was me with my ex. It took me the longest to get over him to the point. I told myself I wish. Maybe he had cheated because it gives me a reason to let go of him. Letting go of someone and not really understanding why in my opinion is definitely harder maybe because to my knowledge I have never been cheated on so to part ways with someone you really love and didn’t want to partways with hurted

[@SinoM123]

I wanted so badly to have an amicable split with the man I was seeing last year but he was soo cold and unkind towards the end that I ended up being forced to go no contact and just not speak to him. I think we both understood that we weren't as compatible as would have allowed for a healthy thriving relationship but I did still think highly of him till the ending and it was as if I was a stranger to him.. That hurt.. BU was in Dec and im still working my way out of the hurt.. I say all this to say, thank you for letting us in and know that we are rooting for you!!

[@PoshwithPurpose]

Hey Jacqueline, I’ve been watching your journey & have been uber inspired by it. .. Especially on your new found journey of Love 💕 it was super cute. My only question is, and this is sincere. If a relationship between two people ends & it doesn’t end because of toxicity… why end it at all? Is it that bad to where both parties can’t individually work to make it work? Genuinely asking for myself & maybe a friend 😉 loll

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Hey! That’s a great question and one I asked myself many times. I think what it boils down to is both parties feeling like they can move forward and continue to grow independently and together. In my case, both parties don’t feel that way. It sucks but I understand needing time to be alone to figure yourself out. I did it for many years. But if both parties want the same thing and are willing to do what it takes to make things work, I don’t see why things have to end. That’s just me though 😅 Hope that helps.

[@sonali5969]

Literally going through this right now and God for real is using you as a vessel for me at least to remind me I’m on the right path. I too thought it was finally my turn and I had found the man God sent me, but he was just showing me that there’s still more I deserve even though I was getting so much. He does not take without giving! There’s something better out there for us and He is just leading us there ❤

[@luchiken168]

Gworl it's a part of adulting. I love you so much and your spirit watching you from 🇿🇦

[@iamskmichel]

The fact that I am literally going through and experiencing the same feelings right now!

[@aureliea.8854]

Miss Jacqueline! We missed youuuuuuu!

[@JacquelineJohnette]

I missed y'all !!

[@AlieshiaTV]

Crumbs vs the meal analogy is everything lol

[@AliciaEnikanoselu-qg3jw]

Thank you for sharing this vlog I really needed this.

[@Kgothatsolhosie]

girl we got you!!!!!

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🤎🤎

[@naedee759]

I'm so proud of you... When I heard he was moving his Xbox into your house??? I was like uuhh uuuh, honey, that can't be your cup of tea! But I'm so proud of you❤

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Lmfaooooo I completely forgot about that Xbox comment 😂😂😂

[@sikhanyisiwemabhena2996]

No need to be embarrassed girl , we've all gone through this at some point .

[@iambriennalynn]

I enjoyed this video. I am currently going through a break up and although it was a mutual decision, it’s not easy but I know I’ll be ok. And although I know I’ll be ok, it’s still not easy lol. Wishing you all the best on your healing journey. 🩶

[@deenodexter]

I genuinely believe that man came into your life to show you that love is out there. Sometimes we go through all the ups and downs and feel like we can’t find love again. GOD allows someone to come in and be a part of your season to SHOW you just a fraction of what he has for you. Sometimes, GOD is also just so gracious that he doesn’t allow what would have been a major lesson down the line to continue to be what you think is a blessing. Like someone else said, just because they’re a blessing doesn’t mean they’re your blessing. Yours is coming. GOD is in the neighborhood 🫶🏾 Thank you so much for the vulnerability because so many of us can relate. I’m so proud of you.

[@AlieshiaTV]

An ankle split 😂😂 the references are hilarious

[@nadirahdanielle29]

This was hard but essential to watch and shows why I am here in community as a subscriber

[@JacquelineJohnette]

So glad you found it helpful 🤎🥹

[@franklinanintori1193]

I really needed to hear this

[@JacquelineJohnette]

🤎

[@chi2om]

Lmao i love you girl. So proud of you.

[@bridgetteworley4878]

Well said...

[@Becsaa]

💞💞💞

[@mirivm9536]

U look gorgeous

[@asia_nzeako]

😢you will be fine❤

[@bak3456]

why does it seem like nowadays women are in this constant cycle of dating -breakup-healing only to do it all over again? I think we have to come to terms with the fact that there's a lot of people out there that aren't SERIOUS about getting married and building a family, so we can't really let our guard down

[@JacquelineJohnette]

It does seem that way but I’m also seeing women meet wonderful men and receiving the love they always dreamed of. We might have to weed out the fakes but Mr. Right is out there. I have to believe that 🥹

[@bak3456]

definitely, it's possible and I wish everyone to find the love they're looking for :)@@JacquelineJohnette

[@AlieshiaTV]

Healing journey deluxe 😂😂😂

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Girl yes! I got the premium package lol

[@BeautyRevolution27]

Girl well said!!! Having a limited capacity is so true!!!

[@tobes_x]

Now this is a word girl! You have no idea how much I needed this. Thank you for your vulnerability. Wishing you all the best and healing in the world. 🩷

[@amayam.3703]

Don’t be embarrassed. Life just be lifing sometimes so your transparency is definitely relatable. Thanks for sharing this and keeping it real! For someone in their mid 20’s who hasn’t dated much it’s really refreshing to see people in my age group still dating and figuring it out. Letting go is sooo hard, but I’ve learned it’s better to face the pain then continue carry on like nothing happened and continue hurting. The content eatsss as per usual and I’m only half way through. 🫶🏾

[@aliJ5141]

🎉🎉🎉

[@AlieshiaTV]

lol the mine didn’t turn toxic lol yes for the disclaimer

[@JacquelineJohnette]

😂

[@bridgetteworley4878]

🎉🎉🎉🎉congrats

[@aa20310]

Girlll this is long winded 😂 even on 1.5x speed, but we’ll allow it during healing.

[@SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja]

Girl it’s not embarrassing, it’s real asf. Happens to the best of us ❤️‍🩹

[@anayagibson6356]

Pls tell the class what the song is you used to intro your vlog!!! I am searching high and low!!!!!

[@user-xv7zz2ew6h]

Are you and Wiz still in contact? Because how do you build that new boundary with an ex, especially if they already started building relationships with people in your life?

[@AlieshiaTV]

Come and get me 😂😂

[@takecareofyousis]

waittttt, when you said you thought it was "your turn" that hit something in my chileeee. I felt that. 🫠

[@AlieshiaTV]

Oh go get the roster back lol

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Listennnnnnnn 😂😂

[@itsjustmemaa]

Gurrrlll maybe you should join the next cast of love is blind🥺 and get you a husband

[@JacquelineJohnette]

I’ve had so many dating shows try to recruit me. Love ain’t blind over here. I need to SEE what I’m getting myself into before I decide to spend a lifetime with someone 😅

[@AllofNia]

​@@JacquelineJohnette😂😂 but maybe he is there. Pray about it and let God leads you.

[@mirivm9536]

#realshit

[@naynayhi93]

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[@AlieshiaTV]

Delulu is not fun 😂

[@username25256]

Hey love I know you met him at the club like you previously said, but a man of God is not found there.

[@JacquelineJohnette]

I didn’t meet him in a club

[@MM-xe5sv]

Thats kinda embarrassing took me out 😂😂😂😂

[@JacquelineJohnette]

😂😂 listennnnnnn, that alone almost made me not talk about it but that’s life 😅

[@its.DanielleMichelle]

Going through it too girl. I had the conversation to end my friendship with my ex a few days ago. And it’s because God was telling me to let it go. We were both boo boo crying because it felt confusing. But God told me so I had to be obedient. We did a lot of growing with being in each others lives but in this new season of life we’re going into, having eachother around will hinder us at this point instead of growing

[@mizzluvthehair]

Love this honesty, thank you for opening up sis!!!!!

[@JANEMTV]

Oh! early early ❤❤❤ been waiting for this Vlog gurrlll!

[@yzma6142]

Did you meet on an app?

[@JacquelineJohnette]

We did - Hinge

[@yzma6142]

@@JacquelineJohnette gosh I’m so scared of the apps 😭😭😭. I know crazy people are everywhere but I’m so hesitant to rejoin them.

[@ChildOfGod2238]

Love you! ❤

[@JacquelineJohnette]

Love you more 🥹🫶🏾

[@hprovy1196]

This is so realllllll omg