Thank you teacher Shen (again) and your guest for telling us this amazing story. Divorce is never a happy occasion. But in the case of this couple, they've been able to turn this unfortunate occasion into a relatively positive experience for everyone. Their story also demonstrates the fact that not every marriage between a gay man and a straight woman (or vice versa) is necessarily a deception. They both genuinely loved each other - and still apparently do after the divorce, even though they have never been in love with one another. (There is a difference between the two.) Among my friends (gay and straight), I can actually see this kind of marriage. It is just one of many forms of relationship.
@陳信仁-z7h2 жыл бұрын
各自找到自己的幸福,也沒有傷害,屬實不易.祝福您們。
@teachershen2 жыл бұрын
感謝您的祝福,相信他們會開心看到的。
@teachershen2 жыл бұрын
Yes. There are many types of relationships. I guess her story tries to tell people that knowing yourself and your partner before you get married is a better solution. Obviously, Taiwanese sex education failed. That was one of the reasons that their marriage didn't work. But I'm also glad that they could find a way to be happy for each other and raise their two kids together.
@bilcal2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Mu for being willing to be a guest on your program. Her story shows how unique every relationship really is. It is also good to hear from her point of view about the social pressure she felt to get married and her advice to others. Men are not the only ones who feel that pressure in traditional communities. I'm glad she and her ex-husband can be friends after the divorce. Thanks for asking her to be your guest, Teacher Shen!
@teachershen2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Bilcal for your support as usual. They are two very honestly and loving people. I'm also happy for them to come this far and be happy for each other. I'm grateful that she accepted my invitation be on my show. Her ex is still in the closet so I had to mask her face and voice. I'm glad to be able to tell his on my channel.
Thank you for this video…after so many years finally found this video which has some resemblance to my best friend’s real life story! I used to think premarital s*x is not good, immoral but after knowing my best friend’s true story (husband is a gay!) then I realized it’s NOT wrong to explore into having s*x with the person you loved if you think that’s the ONE bcos if not might ended up similar to my best friend she keep her virginity for his husband (that time was her boyfriend) but he didn’t take her virginity at all until 20yrs of marriage she’s still intact a pure virgin then ofc by then she realized her husband is gay!!! 😢 Sad but true…now she’s stuck in her loveless & s*xless marriage but couldn’t divorce due to many other family related complications and asset handling matters.
@teachershen6 ай бұрын
Very sad story that you told me. I'm sure there are many similar stories are happening right now. Well, it's her life. If she wants to get out, she can. It's up to her. But if she decides to go on for whatever reason, she knows what she's doing. Very sad but very true.
I ALWAYS tell my heterosexual female friends never to have kids until two or three years after marriage. You only really get to know someone after about two years, and you don't want to be stuck in a marriage that you hate and then also raise children in that dysfunctional environment.
@teachershen2 жыл бұрын
Well, I wish they live together for two years before they decide to get married. However, this is a sticky situation. They are lucky enough to have two adorable kids. The kids are loved and be taken care of in every way. I guess each family, relationship, marriage could be very different. But "be careful" can never go wrong.
Oh...i stumbled and fell when i heard that her 13 years ex husband is a gay ....it is a bit unbelievable ...
@teachershen2 жыл бұрын
Believe me. I was flabbergasted when I heard the news. However, I'm really glad how they relationship still develop after the divorce. They have really good relationship with their kids also. It's a happier ending then I thought it would be.
when you say that you will only date men after leaving your girl friend, you are gay, there is no two ways about it. I have heard women saying it without being gay, but men, 100%
@teachershen Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. But that guy had never been with men before. That's unique.