Life Changes In An Instant ( A New Grief Journey )

[@Bunny-xg3hx]

Hi Theresa I am so sorry for your families loss. I completely agree with you about the differences between a sudden loss and a expected loss. My Dad died very suddenly and wow the grief was so shocking. My mother and my Sister like Sarah was something we knew and expected and so we had time to try to prepare for. Either way Grief is something we all have to suffer at sometime in our lives and I think what I hate the most is how lonely you feel, as no one can help you, you have to deal with it alone. I can only sent you and your family a lot of love and I will light a candle for you too. Keep strong, ❤🐰Jx

[@RF1972.]

I have lost my immediate family members....Those are tough and I miss them and yearn to be with them and talk... laugh and cry... The hardest for me though was the loss of my son...The pain and heartbreak of that loss is always with me...I have waves of grief...some are huge...some are not so huge... I'm so sorry for this loss you are enduring😢....I understand...I dont want to sound over spiritual about this....but I also believe in Jesus and in heaven...I believe I will see my son again ..no more suffering...like you said we never know....when our life's will end... If I didn't have the hope of heaven... it would be so hard......but I sure understand your pain....❤

[@jodil1209]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have learned this year a lot about death. My brother in July and my father in law died a couple of weeks ago. I'm really sorry you are all going through.

[@palmyrapilato7256]

So sorry to hear about your family's loss. Sending prayers of comfort🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Denise11858]

So sorry for your loss, you’ve been through so much when it comes to losses and yet you look at ways you can be there for others, your beautiful inside and out!

[@Dublin1008]

So sorry for your loss😢 sending much love and hugs.

[@spingirl4855]

Im so sorry for your families loss.

[@CatAndTheTinFoilHat]

I lost my father Dec 21, 2001 and my 100 yr old Mom, Dec 11, 2023....last year. This month is never going to be the same.

[@michellebradley8856]

So sorry for your loss. It’s even harder during the holidays. Lost my aunt unexpectedly on Christmas Eve when I was 16, which was 27 years ago. Christmas has never been the same since then. You and your family are in my prayers.

[@michellebradley8856]

PS. I still have my “Be kind and make good choices” iPhone case. I get a lot of compliments and questions about it. I always explain that it was Sarah’s mantra and that I bought it in support of her when she was fighting cancer.

[@janetbaker8312]

I am so sorry for the loved one you lost. Love and light to you and big hugs❤❤❤

[@janetduhy6364]

Bless you and your family. What a difficult time.

[@terrymoorefield5918]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Theresa, thank you for sharing your thoughts. Much love, for you and yours.

[@VanessaR87]

So sorry to hear of your recent loss, Theresa! Sending hugs your way. 🤗

[@AuntDi2]

I am so sorry to you and your family.

[@sandracampbell5977]

So sorry prayers for you and your family 🙏💗

[@rebekahdove424]

Im sorry for ur lose! 😊Merry Christmas Theresa, Jared, Harrison, Mason, & Dakota!

[@Catlady12341]

When you say “pillar” I assume father or grandfather figure? I could be wrong. From my experience once my parents and husbands dad died the family never was the same. The older generation held the family together and now nobody seems to wanna do that…. All death sucks! I don’t know what is worse sudden or dragged out… but it’s very different. Strength you your family 💜

[@pippadot679]

Theresa, I'm sorry that both last Christmas and this one that there's been such grief. Every single holiday now having lost everyone in my family and extended but my two brothers. It's just harder especially on holidays. You sure feel like you're in a blank space and what's next? I'm sorry I really am. Blessings to you and your family. I'll light another candle fresh new one when I pray tonight.

[@joanbeach644]

So sorry for your loss 💔🙏🏻

[@commonsense354]

I’m very sorry for your loss💔💔

[@lorib5341]

so sorry for your loss of a family member again. Life is never the same when the patriarchs and matriarchs of a family pass on. Your son is right, it's different when it's sudden and not really expected....it's all hard but a different hard. Prayers for your family.

[@hoperowansmith]

Sending hugs

[@michellefrench6617]

❤

[@shellcshells2902]

I am so very sorry 😢

[@MargoBarackman]

So very sorry💔

[@Catfluff521]

One of your pillars?

[@BoxerDog4life]

3. So sorry. What's a pillar?

[@MobilityDiva73]

Someone that holds everyone else up in this context, a pillar is something that holds something else up in general

[@bethbrimberry2900]

Support.

[@kerrik.]

So sorry for your family’s loss.🫂❤️‍🩹🫂