Life Isn’t Always Easy... | Real Talk

As many of you know, Shaun and I have an AMAZING son named #Daxton! We adopted Dax into our family in 2008, and have since learned that he has autism. Today, we are answering some of your questions regarding #autism to the best of our ability, based on our own personal journey with Daxton.
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We are not doctors or health care professionals of any sort. We simply want to be super raw and honest with you guys about this huge, impactful part of our lives. With this platform, we have been given an amazing opportunity to educate, and share experiences about a topic that affects so many people. Any time that we hear families openly talking about their personal journey with a loved one with ADHD and autism, we always end up feeling very connected, and understood.
We have learned SO much just from raising Daxton. He is such an incredible young man, and has given us a whole new perspective on patience, as well as compassion. Being his mom has been one of the most challenging experiences of my life, but also one of the most rewarding. We have come across so many spectacular people who have helped us along the way, and given us so much inspiration. We continue to learn new things every day, and we are constantly growing as people because of Daxton. We are so lucky to have our little handsome man in our lives! ❤️
Autism does not define Daxton. His talents and skills are often far superior to ours. We tell him it’s like his super power.
While it has been challenging for us to adapt our parenting to accommodate how his mind works, we will do absolutely anything we can to give him the BEST chance to succeed in his dreams and goals for his life.
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[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Do you have any questions for us? Comment below! 💋's -Mindy

[@bibianocuautle3372]

Cute Girls Hairstyles how is your son how does he act ??

[@kylajaide9980]

Cute Girls Hairstyles love you guys

[@lauralynnn9287]

What do you see different about him? ❤

[@tombstonerforever9374]

What is it like having children of different races? Do you ever think that it would be different if you adopted white babies? Ps you two are great parents lots of love

[@therandombakingshow9828]

I know that u guys will do great 💛

[@flowood9783]

my elder brother has asperger’s syndrome. he is now 23, has finished university, lives independently, and makes an income from music, which is what he’s wanted to do for his whole life. take heart from this. daxton will be able to do whatever he wants to do, he will just meet different challenges to most of us.

[@taylorallan6986]

I am a psychology major. I think it is very important that you are proud and open about autism. Autism does not define Dax, it is just one of the unique parts of him! He is a smart, handsome little guy, and very loved by you guys. He will continue to grow and be an amazing addition to this the world. Keep on keeping on through the hard times, and embrace the good times. You two are doing wonderful.

[@popicalbubbles]

Exactly 100%! I have autism as well as Daxton & I relate. I was a shy very closed in kid until High school when i really grew out of my shell and became a better person! :) Daxton is super sweet young boy & i pray that everything is better for him

[@roserubinoff4614]

Yeah I have lreaning disability has well and one of he hardest things is that I can deep inside and know everything about it and you are awesome being so open and taking about it I what hall kids with. Lrenaing disability has parents like you

[@Lhutzell]

In my opinion, this is the best video your family has ever done. I think a lot of people see you guys, and think you literally have it all so easy. Big house, gorgeous kids, fancy trips, and "famous" so to speak, but what they don't see is just how normal you all really are! Thank you for sharing this, and this story. I very much look forward to seeing more!

[@bettywonde3051]

SO true and amazing. Thank you L G.

[@roserubinoff4614]

That is just one of the reasons why I love them is because they they have have placr where they talk about things l they this

[@cl4za]

Your relationship with each other is so inspiring. You two talk and communicate and seem to be in a healthy marriage. It’s refreshing!!

[@hair4myprincess]

I love how you said you talk to him about it in a positive way, like a super power. You guys are great parents! He definitely came to the right home.

[@isabellawamego5350]

God gave Daxton to you and your family because you guys are strong for him and he knew your family can do this. I really love your family and how strong your bond is and how strong your love is. Thank you for sharing your story and part of his story.

[@Jackattacksports]

Very true

[@analorena6832]

Daxton acting Paisley's age just makes me think that maybe he takes his social cues from her and honestly that is the smartest power move ever. You have brilliant kids, and I can see the love you have from them ever since I started following your channel (bathroom sink videos anyone?) and I honestly admire just who you are as parents and a family.

[@AllieRawlings]

its also quite common for adopted children, even those adopted at birth to have trauma and act younger than their birth age.

[@bonniemae1397]

Thank you for sharing your story with us it could not have been easy! We love you all and you are all wonderful! One of my best memories from elementary school was in third grade we got pen pals from a school with autism and it was amazing to connect with them and they even came to our school to hang out with us which was so fun!

[@PaulaHadasah]

Omg!!! I didn't even know but I can see the love Daxton has and the strength all of you have as a family. I will admit I teared up. My daughter is 10 years old and has ADHD and every single day is one day at a time, one hour a time, one minute a time...and a lot of deep breaths. I understand it's tough and remembering we can all make it together. You all are an inspiration. Thank you for being so courageous and sharing with us your story. God bless all of you and may God help your amazing beautiful son.

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thank you, Paula! 💋’s -Mindy

[@patrickstar6367]

Do you mean ADHD? You said ADDHD.

[@kaiterose2352]

Paula Hadasah you are amazing and thank you for being an awesome mom

[@PaulaHadasah]

@@patrickstar6367 yeah sorry for the typo..

[@vinithivini4074]

This video is so positive and eye opening to see ... Not a mom yet am happy that I have this knowledge so that I wouldn't judge any kiddos and parents out there...

[@PrincessMorgan5199]

Children like Daxton are the reason I'm going into the special education field. You two are such great parents. You got this! Keep going!

[@disy0411]

Hi I am a junior in high school at the moment and I want to study psychology and work with kids but specifically with kids like daxton. The thing is I do want a a bachillerato which is a bachelors degree in psychology but to work with kids, specifically kids like daxton idk what to do. If you have some advice or ideas please respong back. Hope your having a great day

[@PrincessMorgan5199]

@@disy0411 look into school psychology or applied behavioral analysis!

[@lauracw_24]

aw 💗

[@patriciafernandez6483]

Dax is very lucky to have such loving and caring parents, I think you're doing an amazing job :) Also, thank you for educating us about autism, I didn't know much about it but it's important to be educated about these things :)

[@faithcolvin1237]

This made me cry, my brother just got diagnosed with autism as a 16-year-old because my parents ignored the signs. Thank you for loving Dax so much and sharing something this personal. I love you guys!!

[@Isabella-wq4tn]

this video has nothing to do with my life, im literally just a college student, but ive been watching your videos forever and i LOVED watching this, you guys are so authentic, and its a great feeling to see people who have a big platform share their struggles, and become so vulnerable, so thank you for this ! For some reason this just made a huge impact on me, love you guys!!!

[@derraleves]

Love you guys!!! Thanks for sharing your personal journey with Daxton, I hope this helps others!

[@derraleves]

BTW... You made me cry a few times!

[@Robin-lm8nz]

OMG HELLO!!!!!😆😂❤️

[@derraleves]

@@Robin-lm8nz What's up!

[@alextandy1716]

I know it’s hard to share things like this! Thank you for opening up to us! We all love Dax just the same!!!

[@courtneyking901]

I want you to know that I watched all 44 minutes and I applaud you for finding your voice and being able to share your story in hopes to help others! That makes you so amazing! I don't know too many people like that! Thank you, for sharing yoru story! If you're willing, i'm looking forward to updates!

[@cassandramccrory8650]

Daxton is such a sweet boy!!! You are such great parents. I had no idea he had autism. We all love him though!!

[@popicalbubbles]

SAME! I have Autism too! :) I love him too!

[@Sarah-kv1dd]

Elizabeth PenaMaslow what’s autism

[@popicalbubbles]

@@Sarah-kv1dd (From Google): a developmental disorder of variable severity that is characterized by difficulty in social interaction and communication and by restricted or repetitive patterns of thought and behavior.

[@popicalbubbles]

@@Sarah-kv1dd I did that because i personally would call it a behavioral disorder :)

[@jagdishthakor2722]

ory

[@scjohnsonafamilycompany]

Both Shawn and Mindy are so strong. If I had parents like you guys I would be thanking you both every single day. Obviously being a parent is hard enough and seeing your family overcome this and still knowing he's going through puberty is tough on all of you. You all have inspired me thank you from the bottom of my heart. Love you!

[@avericherise9105]

Saw your instagram story and know you were really worried about this. So much love for you and your family. You guys are great and so is your sweet Daxton. Please keep sharing content like this to help others in the community not only be more aware, but to reach out to other families that may be going through the same thing. Much love

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thank you, Averi! 💋's -Mindy

[@MafaldaTeixeiraa]

you are excellent parents!! Daxton is so lucky to have you!!!

[@ellahall5402]

[@ananyak7169]

[@mjclaws5764]

I agree mafalda!!

[@joiningwishing2999]

wo

[@makennaallison1902]

He is so blessed.

[@oatmilkfiend9627]

Mindy, it is so inspirational how gracefully you’re managing this issue. I can only imagine how hard this has been, but your enduring love for your son really inspires me.

[@sadieengland3389]

Who ever disliked this video you should be ashamed of yourself Anyways love this story❤️ Edit: thanks soooooo much for highlighting my comment

[@laylaelmgharbi7673]

fax

[@aoifecampbell651]

My little cousin has autism. People with autism are the sweetest ever, it just takes a while to get to know them properly and sometimes it is really difficult to remember that they don't actually mean it💞Don't worry you guys are doing an amazing job xo love y'all❣

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

I agree! He is SO sweet and insists on always opening doors for girls! 💋's -Mindy

[@thisauntbuildsstuff]

I have autism, i still call it aspergers, i was diagnosed as an adult 8 years ago because no one could figure it out "what was wrong with me". But autism isn't a mental illness like you put it in with bipolar. It's just how your brain is wired. the older i get the better it gets because I am able to figure out how to cope with sensory input on my own and other things.

[@carys7417]

Asperger's is just a certain form of autism. There's an entire spectrum of autism. x

[@Mickelz1]

Autism has been reclassified and is a learning disability. The spectrum ranges from mild, moderate and severe where most kids can not even speak when it's severe. That's usually coupled with a lot of other issues such as CP too.

[@cuedan8700]

My husband was also diagnosed s an adult, him and my son have aspergers, they are so special, such sensitive souls. Also so difficult but my angels...

[@cuedan8700]

My sons says his brain never stops and my husband is always in need of change. I hope my son anxiety gets better...

[@lissapier9453]

Me 2 I have aspergers as well

[@yarelialvarez2699]

You guys are great parents your kids got lucky

[@anabeldiaz103]

You both are incredibly generous souls who are gifts from god. Your kids are wonderful humans

[@MyWorldMelissa]

Great video. I like that you were open about not knowing how to say things or what might upset or offend some people. You are on a steep learning curve, but you are doing great. Patience and love are all you need. In great quantities and your son will thrive!!! ❤️❤️😊

[@kahuttunen322]

I just wanted to say that I appreciate your family putting yourself in this vulnerable position to shed some light on this topic.

[@caramack6410]

Just last year my sister was diagnosed with autism and no one really understands those struggles that you go through as a family until you live that situation. Thank you for sharing because I know from personal experience how difficult it is to do that.

[@lenkacllwt7616]

Best parents... I admire the way you guys are trying to deal with all of it and trying to make the best out of it. I definetely learned a lot. Now I understand my brother's autism way better.

[@KarenDanielaR]

I REEEEALLLYYY want to know how Brooklyn, Bailey, Kmri and everyone have been dealing with the whole situation or how they experience everything! and I love the way you approached this topic, I know it can be very difficult. btw love your family

[@monicab6502]

I'd love that too.

[@marieschott9615]

and Rylan

[@ariaunaz1231]

Me to because I am a sibling and I would love to know

[@anilabose1659]

That's something that I would like to know too

[@maryliz3718]

I have a family member who is autistic. It is challenging and y'all are so awesome! I actually didn't know that Daxton was autistic until this video. Love y'all so much! PS. Daxton is such a sweet boy!

[@iniyahali8717]

Sm until thus video i didmt KNOW

[@aishwaryapatil4684]

In light of recent events with Huxley, you'll are a relief...

[@raechess14]

I thought the same thing!! They could have learned so much from these guys.

[@josiestoessel7743]

How did you explain Daxton’s diagnosis to your other children?

[@traceyh3020]

I'm not a parent but I'm an Early Childhood Teacher and I have a brother with Autism (as well as other disabilities that doesnt relate to Autism). When kids asked me about a certain child, I just explain that they are our friends, they just look and act a bit different to us. There brain works differently then ours but they are still normal people like you and I.

[@ncnshow3122]

Josie Stoessel yeah that's a good question.

[@graceandlydia9015]

i have a brother who’s autistic, and all of us are adopted from korea (there’s 5 of us). i’m gonna be honest.. it’s hard living with him! i was in the same class as him for 2 years, and he was treated very different than the other students. he wasn’t able to write, so he used an ipad to write and read. lots of the other kids would bully him, and i would stand up for him even though he was soo mean to me at home, but he can’t control it. my parents realized this and my mom created a school for kids who’re dyslexic, have adhd, anxiety, etc. he’s doing much better today even though he is very mean to me and he can’t control his impulses which can be very scary

[@Janaastrawberry]

❤❤

[@astoldby]

God bless you and your family, I hope you all will be okay.

[@sc_christie]

grace and lydia I have a daughter with Asperger’s and a son that does not. My daughter created a lot of chaos and strife in our house. She doesn’t understand why her brother is angry with her. Well, he’s not so angry now that he’s old enough to understand (he’s 17 and she just turned 21) but he also doesn’t want to be around her. It breaks my heart, but I understand, she is hard to love. So living it, I understand how hard it is for you.

[@Lucylu25291]

I really appreciate the person-first approach you used to describe your brother. A lot of people say autistic people rather than people with autism (the polite way), thereby labeling a people by their conditions rather than addressing them as people first. So, thank you for recognizing him as a person first.

[@stephanieallred5222]

Bless you sweetheart! I have a very severe, non-verbal autistic brother who was also VERY aggressive growing up. It’s not easy, but I think autistic people are here to teach how to love more deeply and sacrificially! It’s a beautiful thing and you’ll grow up with a lot more love and compassion than most people because of it.

[@steffidarmadil3299]

Ok but Daxton is super similar to shaun murphy in The Good Doctor! (If anyone watches that show) and maybe u guys can recommend it for Dax to watch bc it’s very scientific and interesting😄

[@Lainee1978]

steffi darmadi that’s the best show!

[@thatoneshittywriter2506]

As I’m watching this it reminds me of the kids I help teach in the special needs classes at my high school. There’s this one student who’s the sweetest little firecracker I’ve ever seen. She also has ADHD and I’ve voluntarily made a desk for her bc she has to move around. So I made it adjustable for her. She always wants me to hold her hand and sit with her while she does her work. I love her so much and wouldn’t trade her or changer her for the anything in the world. She’s my best friend and I couldn’t ask for anyone else to fill that position.

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

You are so sweet! Thanks for sharing! 💋's -Mindy

[@chickenfinger95]

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[@jaydees3]

I had no idea Daxton had autism. My 2yr old(about to be 3 in April) just recently got diagnose with autism. I also live in Dallas. Im at the point were im doing my research on what autism is. Ive been subscribed to yall a lil over 3yrs. and had no idea about Dax Thank you for sharing your, story really helps . Can you do another video on what to do after your child is diagnose with autism. From your experience where do you think is the best to start. God bless you all.

[@tatianamurillo8076]

Buy TRS it’s not cheap but worth it

[@ronnien3416]

I know you don’t care but I live in Dallas too

[@norahr.112]

Daxton is going to cure cancer one day I feel as if he’s going to change the world in some way

[@juliaminguez8435]

He’s very special ❤️

[@studioh7198]

@norahr. He has cancer ???

[@lunapotter4204]

@@studioh7198 No, he does not have cancer. @Norah R. was just saying that he is one of those people who are genuinely blessed and will cure some big disease like cancer.

[@meghanelizabeth3344]

@Aubrey Cross they never said he did

[@leslieeyeson1868]

@@meghanelizabeth3344 yes they did

[@mamegosh8283]

This is perfect, beautiful, raw, and honest. This is something that needs to be done more often. Keep helping everyone by doing these. Lots and lots of love.

[@kaylawood7549]

My little brother has autism. One tip I have is that let him express himself in a positive way like with toys or art. Good luck Dax!!

[@anjholz5151]

If Daxton likes to move around and be physical I don't know if you guys go to a gym but that is what I do and it has helped me so much with my ADHD! I can now Focus for at least an hour and a half in one sitting versus only 15 minutes. At one point my tutor on my phone had recorded like the steps of what I need to do to get my homework started. Like she had me set a timer on my watch for a certain amount of time and I had to stick to it! And there were some subjects that because of my lack and inability to focus like barely passing college algebra, she would not allow me to listen to music while doing math. She was the best person on Earth! She still is I don't get to see her very much but she is an amazing person! Until I got to college I never really got the help that I needed until I met her and she helps me so much along the way. Whether it was emotional or academic it just it varied depending on what was happening in that moment. Now I also go to therapy to express my emotions and basically learn how to cope and that has helped me tremendously!

[@ChalaPerry0616]

I know this video was so hard to film but it’s so good. It’s something people needed to hear and have more education on. Dax is an amazing kid with an amazing family ❤️

[@caitlincalloway4948]

I didnt even think he had autism hes so awesome and smart and i think its great how much you love him and all your kids

[@hannahbanana32]

When I saw the video I was really concerned at first but then I watched it and realized there was nothing to be concerned about!! The fact that Daxton has autism doesn't change my opinion about him. Honestly I have never noticed anything that would assume the fact that he has special needs. What I have noticed is that he is a very smart little boy. I think he is just as incredible as any other child and that is the truth. Now that I know that he has autism, I just think he is extra special and smart as before and, like he has said in previous vidoes, if he wants to become an astronaut, he can. His disability can't stop him!! Love you all so much!! 💕💕💕

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thank you, Hannah! Yes, he is SUPER smart, handsome... he just thinks differently than we do. 💋's -Mindy

[@DEVANISSE]

I wanted to say God bless you guys I know that this is difficult to open up and let the world know but it is such a strong and powerful thing to be parents of a little boy with special needs.I’ve grown up all my life with dyslexia and my parents have never let it be an obstacle yes I’ve had my challenges but I think the Lord every day for everything

[@jesssica6446]

It's so cool how caring and devoted you guys are

[@sweettreatsyt]

y'all are such amazing parents. dax and the girls are so blessed to have you 💗

[@allygeiger2080]

This is so sweet! My little brother (7) recently got diagnosed with autism and I remember all of the memories flowing back. Tomorrow is the day when he gets his official 504. Daxton is such a sweet boy, and I loved watching all of your kids grow up with me. Thank you for being amazing people ❤️

[@katherinestewart2232]

You guys have soooo much to handle. Cute girls hairstyles, behind the braids,Brooklyn and Bailey, Kamari Noel, squares,millineal moms and LITERALLY doing ALL the scrunchie orders. You manage all of this sooo well. It’s okay to have a break sometimes and it’s normal to feel overwhelmed. You guys are awesome. You inspire so many people around the world and have changed so many peoples lives including mine. I love youuu guys soo much. YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thank you, Katherine! Love you, too! 💋's -Mindy

[@tweetthang96]

As a big sister in an Autism family (2 children and one parent with Autism, and the other two children and parent with Sensory Processing Disorder) I gotta say right on, y’all. You are doing so much to make sure Dax succeeds and it shows!! Autism can throw a lot of hurdles at you and when it’s someone you really love, it can be incredibly stressful. But it’s also an incredible experience for growth for everyone involved. I’m so glad that you have gotten to a better place for Dax and yourselves, and that he has an incredible family as a support system. Keep doing what’s best for your family, and don’t let judgement eat at you. As the saying goes, if you’ve met one child with Autism, congrats! You’ve met one child with Autism! Every person with the diagnosis is a unique individual with different needs. Much love from my Autism family to yours 💜

[@simbax710]

Literally they're what Bailey and Asa will look like in the next 20years😄

[@JillianSmall_ChildofGod]

I was about to type the same thing lol

[@sydneyvogel9935]

this is amazing anyone reading this, there is a Netflix series called “Atypical” and its about a teenager that has autism. It’s very good🙂

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Watching it! 💋's -Mindy

[@gwennoelyn815]

Omg i love Atypical soo much!

[@karsenloveskartoons]

I LOVE THAT SO MUCH OMG sorry i’m a fan

[@flowood9783]

there’s a british one called the ‘a’ word, about a little boy with autism and his family. it’s really good.

[@mayademoss3224]

Sydney Vogel omg i watch that it’s sooooo good

[@stephaniejamaica1127]

I honestly just tought he was a little goofy and out of control but not have autism but he’s so funny and I love him❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😱❤️🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@makenzienicole9325]

This makes me so happy; I am 19 and I was diagnosed with ADHD at age 7 and have level 1 Austim. I have an IEP. And I can tell you that it gets easier when they find something they love and learns to deal with the episodes themselves. I also don't like being told I had a temper tantrum I like to call them episodes because I get embarrassed when other people call them that.

[@jessivy5312]

Dax is always so kind in your videos and it is clear that he loves his family. I’m glad he found his way to you! I work for a company that does in home ABA Therapy specializing in autism and your outlook is so positive on his diagnosis and progress. I love seeing success stories that seem minor to neurotypical families and I look forward to seeing how Dax continues to meet personal goals! As a parent, we all struggle with wondering if we are doing the best we can for our children and from your video it seems as if you two have become his best advocates. Kudos for continuing to look for answers and best of luck. Thank you for sharing, and any future successes you choose to share!!

[@readingwithsophia1974]

LOL I read "avocados" instead of "advocates"

[@nskidstv8724]

You're excellent mom and dad :) I really appreciate how you raised your children. They're lucky to have you :)

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thanks! We feel pretty blessed to have each of them, too. 💋's -Mindy

[@TheWorldAccordingToV]

Dax is an amazing kid, from what I see from the vlogs, he seems to have a real knack for programming and coding and I hope he continues that passion as he grows! You guys are role models online, I'm sure a lot of young kids will be watching this, and I think it may be through watching family vlogs that I garnered a great respect for my parents and didn't have as much of a teen rebellious stage.

[@mina_jungkook3468]

*We love dax either way. Luv u dax!* Edit: I never got this much likes

[@dinazonenshein5089]

Jermariah McKinley yes

[@brittanybrown1134]

Just remember, the toughest climbs have the greatest view.... and that you have some great people to help you get up this mountain 💕

[@lorelaisonnenburg2609]

Hang in there guys and Mindy you don't have to cry we are here for you and guys can do it! God bless you

[@levanhunts]

You guys are awesome parents of wonderful children! I always wondered what the reason was that you moved from here (Utah) to Texas. I agree with you that this has all been meant to be, for you guys to be his parents! Dax reminds me a little bit of my youngest brother, who was born with only half of his brain developed. My brother has a mind like you wouldn’t believe! He can remember things that happened in the past that none of the rest of us ever remember. If we need to know a date of when something occurred, we ask him and he almost always will know the date and sometimes the time as well. He doesn’t have use of his right arm and his right leg is smaller than the left, but he is stronger than most people. Never challenge him to an arm wrestle! You will lose! ☺️ It’s just amazing how children that have these kind of challenges are blessed with amazing abilities. Even though it can be challenging for families at times, we are actually very blessed that Heavenly Father gives them to us! Obviously, Dax was meant to be a part of your family! And I am so thankful that we also have my brother. I think having the Gospel in our lives definitely helps us get through the hard times. I wouldn’t have it any other way! 🥰 Thanks guys for sharing this with us.

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thanks for sharing your story! You and your brother are blessed to have each other! 💋’s -Mindy

[@beccaszekeres2048]

Cute Girls Hairstyles I have Autism to I struggle a lot with my autism and anxiety it sucks I have my sisters for support

[@Kathykath123]

What a lucky boy Dax is to have you two as parents. Thank you guys for sharing this journey with us.

[@takundam932]

Thank you Mindy and Shaun, I don’t think there are any words that will illustrate the profound gratitude I feel for hearing your story. I feel such a calling to children with special needs and seeing the love and dedication you have for your son is awe inspiring. May God continue to bless your family.

[@NoobsyPoopsy]

I think Daxton came to your family for a reason. You have wonderful children. There is so much strength in all of you.

[@Mia-cn4qm]

Omg this story really touched my heart. My brother has a very similar story. I am so sorry about how hard it’s been for you. But I promise it does get better. My brother was born when my mom was 24 weeks pregnant and he had a 25% chance of survival. And thank god that he made it though. After he got home from the hospital, he had very similar characteristics to Daxton, with other health issues. I love that your family is positive but still acknowledges the struggles in life. My brother was also non verbal, and now he is speaking more clearly but still isn’t fully verbal. He also is very smart and even thought he learns differently he is able to take high school level computer science classes and he is in the 8th grade. If I could give you all any advice(PLEASE don’t think I am trying to tell you how to parent Dax), maybe try to dig deeper into his interests(If you haven’t already) And have talks with him about what his dreams are. My brother wants to be a Aerospace Engineering Data Analyst at NASA(Yes the longest title in the world). So we decorated with outer space decorations and posters. And because of it he was more motivated to sleep because he always wanted to be in his room. Lots of kids with ADHD/Autism and or learning disorders, learn differently but are very good at one area and are smarter then the average person in that area. For my brother that was Computer Science. Lots of love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@allieosborne6318]

Unicorn Pizza aww my brother had Down syndrome and he was born 1month early and bc of his disability and had like a 50% chance of surviving and he is now 17 almost 18 and I really love this comment 💕

[@Mia-cn4qm]

Allie Osborne aww thanks so much I am so happy for you and your brother

[@lillycowart4353]

Unicorn Pizza adhd is not a learning disorder and neither is autism I think kids with disorders like that turn out to be really smart and amazing adults

[@Mia-cn4qm]

Cheertastic Ray&Lilly oh yes I totally agree I was just trying to include all types of disorders. Also, lots of people consider them learning disorders(not quite sure why). For my brother specifically, he has a learning “issue” i guess you can call it. But I totally get what your saying .

[@scrumps101]

I just realized I worked with Shaun at NSP from 1999- 2008. At the time I was going through struggles of my own with my son who’d been diagnosed with a high risk childhood cancer. What a beautiful family you have!

[@taylormforsythe6552]

Dax has been blessed with some of the best parents ever! You guys are doing great!

[@lisashoyhin6264]

I am so happy you guys decided to share Daxtons story. I know it can be hard because so many people can judge and be rude but I really admire your family for sharing this very delicate matter on KZbin. I love you guys so much!

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thank you, Lisa! 💋's -Mindy

[@gracebond8292]

Thank you for addressing this publicly, I know it must be hard sometimes to open up about private things like this, but I am very grateful because it makes me feel more like I am a part of your family. Give Daxton extra hugs from all of us

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

You are a part of our family, Grace! 💋's -Mindy

[@kflynnbenson7558]

Thank you for sharing your story. As an adoptive mom of 2 autistic boys, I choked up every time Mindy did. I understand the tears and fears. Our oldest son is living on his own and doing okay.

[@lizawalker3755]

My older cousin has autism and is hands down the sweetest person I know. He doesn’t like hugs from most people, but will hug his sister at any random moment and says he loves her. He has a small group of friends but is very close to them. Sadly, this last school year has been difficult, because his girlfriend broke up with him this last summer. He respected her decision but says he will never find someone else to love him. Thank you so much for this video, everyone should be aware of autism. :)

[@andreadersom3399]

Why do people dislike this video? That's soo mean!!

[@katelynelizabeth37]

Andrea Dersom They watched the video upside down😂

[@mittsommar]

I think you were given Daxton because you could do it. It's your gift from God to give to him.

[@savannadee6727]

Ya I have a 9 year brother with moderate-severe autism and we’ve had to deal with it for almost 7 years now and it’s a challenge. I’ve become a better person because of it and he really kinda saved my family. He requires the attention of a 1 year old 24/7 with his attention seeking his allergy’s of gluten,dairy, and food dye plus his medicine it’s a lotttt. Am almost 13 and that might seem young but I’ve learned so much more than any human could possibly learn.

[@sarahmckenzie847]

How lucky Daxton is to have a family like you! Mindy and Shaun, I honestly have so much respect for all that you've done ❤️

[@Vincentville]

We're an autism family too and I'm so happy to see a bigger channel opening up about autism! Videos like this can make a huge difference for all of us whose lives are touched by autism. There are amazing things to share and it's important for people to see! Of course only share what you're comfortable with but we are on your side! Wishing you great luck on the journey.

[@angelalail9292]

Keep the IEP all the way through high school. No matter what (just my opinion) U can use for accommodations for ACT and even college Just a thought

[@kaylaanne8930]

Angela Lail Yesss! I was diagnosed much older and never showed academic need for an IEP. Now that I’m taking ACT and going to college I would need one but can’t get one :(

[@RaquelNavas]

IEP's don't work in college unfortunately I tried and they said college is for ADULTS.

[@miawood2786]

Dax is so handsome and smart, y’all should post more parenting videos y’all are great at that💛

[@45roadbiker]

I have just found your family's channels. I recently retired as a Special Ed Teacher, and now work 1-1 with kids who need a bit extra in all ways. I am so happy to hear from parents such as yourselves that are giving this beautiful young man so many great opportunities. Thank you for educating others...it's crucial! I'm in CA, and our system makes room for kids like Dax, yet I've heard of awesome things from the Texas system. You gave me hope seeing that there are such loving families out there advocating for our kids who just need a bit more support. Thank you!

[@carolineknox5855]

This is amazing. My little brother has server autism and cerebral palsy. Most people don’t understand what it’s actually like for them. When he was a baby he couldnt crawl. He gets upset and can’t stop. It hurts to watch them struggle. It makes me really upset when people stare when he gets upset and freaks out. Thank you for sharing your amazing story!😀

[@kayleemichelle2739]

Mindy, my brother was diagnosed with autism when he was 2. Since then, our life went crazy, for the better. We’re constantly trying to figure out what he’s doing or why. He is a verbal, crazy happy kid. He has aspergers. My brother is the reason that I want to work in special education. There is no reason to struggle. You guys are doing amazing. One thing you can try and do is find a class for you guys to help understand who Dax is and what he wants.

[@cuedan8700]

The 2 to 5 years are so hard!! One day at the time, now my son is 9 and the interaction with friends being so sensitive and anxious are the hardest now.

[@_Nat_A_]

I am tearing up watching this because you are speaking a language so many of us know, and feel. I am not a dr, but I am married to a Clinical Psychologist, and his advice for me is 1) don’t look too far down the future, because we love our kids, and we tend to catastrophize the future (will he be homeless? Will he fall in love? Will he ever be self-sufficient?). Our other “phrase” is “we deal with today, and we don’t borrow trouble from tomorrow BUT (in Canada)there are special bank account you can set up to help your child in the future. Seriously, my biggest fear is what happens when we aren’t here? I don’t want my oldest to be “burden” and there is no way I can crawl out of the grave to protect him. (My husband would tell me right now “he is goi g to be fine”😜) There is a mourning, and that is normal and then there is acceptance, and then there is living, and letting him make mistakes on his own, but at a different rate than our other child. Honestly, you could do a whole channel for parents, siblings, aunts Uncles, school situations on dealing with Learning and intellectually differently-abled or different learning styles. I really dislike the term disabled, because know one, not even the experts, can predict the future. My son was diagnosed NVLD (it is not Autism but similar, and it is a spectrum diagnosis) but I am also NVLD, and I growing up School was hard for me, but I had parents support (I am 47 years old, so there was no accommodations or modifications. I did repeat grade 9 (best and hardest choice my parents made), I have two University degrees: BA and BEd, and now work privately helping kids who learn differently. And I am quirky as heck, and have very close friends and family is my everything. I want to tell you, some days I don’t believe it, but if my life is an example, everything will be ok.

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

Thanks, Natasha! I really ❤️ your comment! I have said those things in my head, worrying too much about his future. Thanks again for sharing! 💋’s -Mindy

[@khollywood1234]

I was diagnosed with aspergers/pdd-nos (back before it all fell under autism spectrum disorder). I went through speech therapy, physical therapy, occupational therapy, and ABA. I was told in pre school that I wouldn’t go to a normal school. Sometimes I still deal with anxiety and feel like I’m behind. But I’m 24 now, I just got married and I’m working on my PhD in biomedical engineering. My work deals with data science and analysis with autism spectrum disorder. We’re working on early diagnosis with blood measurements and I wanted to let you know that he’s got a bright future! You guys are great parents and he’s gonna do great things! He has a unique ability he might not have had otherwise.

[@HaleyBittyGirl]

I’m so happy to see you open up about it and not be ashamed. My brother has about a level 3 Autism and he’s 12. It’s comforting to know you aren’t alone, that there are others who go through the same struggle. There’s no guide book or right way for Autism. Each case is so different, that’s why it’s so hard to diagnose. I’m so happy that you aren’t the parents who try to “cure” their child, that you love him and accept him the way he is.

[@drtomatoheadjim5999]

This was an awesome story and didn’t even know this but you guys are great parents

[@roxannaeleanor6122]

You guys are incredible, brave and inspiring parents. I've been following since your very beginning and I wish you all happiness and luck with all of your beautiful children. Even because of dax's autism and you trying to deal with it. You are still the perfect happy family for me. I LOVE U soooo freaking much !! ❤❤

[@lindanguyen9102]

I've never experienced what it's like to have supportive parents in my life. It truly makes my heart happy seeing kids that have the world's greatest supporters by their side. Y'all are doing such a great job! Sometimes parents never hear that enough!

[@rafiarana472]

They explained this so well that I’ve never ever watched a very long video without losing interest in it, but in this vid I didn’t lose interest. Great job and I’m so proud of Dax !

[@rijusavanna7995]

Aww.. Daxton is so so so lucky to have you all as parents!! Luv your entire family!!❤️

[@cassidykranzer1463]

y’all are such amazing parents and any kid with autism would be lucky to have y’all as parents. i also feel that dax is lucky because his sisters are so kind, i feel like my siblings would make it a flaw about me where y’all make it a super power as shawn said

[@ronjakerkgeers5654]

Wow guys, thank you for speaking about autism so gracefully and respectfully, especially when you were talking directly about Dax. Autism is such a diverse thing, there's sooo many different ways autism presents itself so there's no way to generalize it. I used to work with 2 children on the autism spectrum and they were different as day and night. Thank you for opening up. All the best to you, you're doing great!!

[@jaahnahoegen2041]

At my school we have a program called zLinks. It is a peer to peer program. Everyone who is involved with it gets to work with kids with Down syndrome, ASD, Austism, etc. I am in my first year in the programs as a sophomore, and this year I am working with a girl with autism so seeing this video is awesome to hear experiences from others from the beginning, but one thing I did connect was that your day revolves around how they are doing. There will be days when she has a bad day and so it just affects the rest of her day or maybe even week and you have to work around it.

[@CuteGirlsHairstyles]

You are amazing Jaahna! Love you! 💋's -Mindy

[@krystacashen5124]

Omg! We have a program just like that at my school! It's literally called LINKS. High schoolers get to work with kids disabilities and basically help them in class and be a friend to them.

[@lauren6609]

it's amazing that this didn't demotivate you guys to adopt again. That's awesome.

[@patriciamae4670]

This is really eye opening . Thanks for sharing it with us

[@halliedavin]

My younger brother was diagnosed at 3 years old. I'm not sure what level he is, but he is completely nonverbal and cannot be left alone. Like Daxton, my brother is very schedule oriented and it stresses him out when anything changes even in the slightest! I liked this video because it seems like you understand Autism and it was really nice to know that there are people out there who understand what it is like to live with an Autistic child. Thank you so so so much for sharing this. ❤

[@dannahx]

I really appreciate this. I'm one of four kids and my twin brother is epileptic. Seeing perfect parents in "same" boat as our family/my parents, makes me respect you guys even more. Also as his siblings we had to be more flexible. With all our familys struggles, this is our family and its the only one we have. I cry every time I talk about my brother. Lots of love. Dannah

[@annikalang6742]

I love Daxton he is so cute and funny!