Life Update: How Are We Doing with 2 Kids?!?

[Vlog 6.16.23] - Mary checks in to update on our lives lately!
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Welcome to The Frey Life daily vlogs! We are Peter & Mary, a married couple in our early 30's, showing the ups and downs of everyday life with #CysticFibrosis, a genetic lung disease that Mary was born with. In August 2019, Mary started a new CF medication that changed the trajectory of our future, and life has changed dramatically - including our son, Elijah, joining our family in December 2021. We also have an adorable standard poodle, Oliver, and a hairless sphynx cat, Harry. It's our hope that these videos can be an encouragement to to celebrate the little things in life and find joy amidst a world full of hard realities!
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[@karendavis1031]

Mary I love watching you be a mother. I was just sharing with my youngest(21) the Frey life story of adoption and fostering. I believe the Lord has been directing us to look into fostering for short term emergency needs. I’m a nurse and my husband is a paramedic so infants and young children with health issues is where I feel we could help. We’ve raised 3 kids. Anyway we are praying and seeking the Lords guidance. Thank you Frey Life family.

[@2listening1]

I’ll include you in all my prayers 🙏🕯💛

[@cindyspear86]

Going from one baby to 2 is a major change! Plus, your husband went back to working outside your home. Hang in there! Good to see you!

[@teijaflink2226]

Is Peter working as a pastor?

[@ivark56ofPA]

Pastor and I think administrator!!

[@carebear802]

Somebody once referred to children as tiny world changer. I still love that. You now have 2 and such a blessing. You are doing so great with everything

[@wheelerbeauty84]

Mary, you were made to be a Mother! I love watching you be a Mother!! It is so beautiful!! You are a rockstar!! ❤❤❤

[@pianiannie4224]

Poor Ollie barking. He wanted out on the porch too! You are going to have to get Ollie a walking buddy until life catches up with you guys! You got a lot on your plate!

[@denisejones1863]

Peter was such a good partner with taking morning with elijah and Ollie. Hopefully Mary can do the same. Maybe she can get a neighborhood youth to come and walk Ollie, or change the walk to evenings when Peter is home.

[@Nelle4ever]

Ollie doesn't really bark, I think it was a neighbors dog we could hear in the clip outside.

[@ivark56ofPA]

Oliver does sometimes barks just to get attention or to let outside When you guys are out on the porch and hes looking out from inside Locked up!!

[@SensationalFinds]

I've watched you for years and it's literally like watching someone's real-life dream come true and beyond. Life is hard but it's beautiful and to see you be able to be a mother and family is better than any book or movie. His little mischievous smile is a sign of true toddlerhood! Nothing but love to you and your family❤

[@melanie98d]

Eli drumming for his rock star Momma! You're doing great! The little bits you have been sharing are more than enough. Have a great weekend and pray Peter's sermon blesses everyone who hears it this Sunday.

[@joannabrown2829]

So awesome watching you parent these lil boys. Elijah is getting so big

[@MonicaRoy6156]

Frey family, one of your fellow KZbinrs just found out she is at the end of her life with cancer. She has 2 young children and a loving husband. I am asking everyone that I follow to see if you can do a group prayer for her at your church. Her name is Jenny Apple. That’s also her KZbin name. I love you all, and I’m happy to see how your journey has evolved into better health, and a growing family.

[@speakthetruthever]

Yes watched her channel recently... so sad to know about how her daughter feels.. prayers for Jenny

[@MarigoldsintheGarden]

Yes, I have been following Jenny from when she vloged about being a mother. 😢I still can’t believe that this is happening to her. It breaks my heart to see what she and her beautiful family are going through.

[@boxerloverkz812]

You are doing so well managing the boys, the house, vlogging, etc. I am just in awe at how well Elijah can communicate with you via sign language. I am not sure if this would even be possible with a busy "toddler", but I would love to see all the words that he knows. When he was telling you about outside and swinging, I loved the excitement you had on your face.

[@deniselovelace3075]

You are made to be a mom. You are so patient and deliberate with Elijah, on top of everything else. You are living one day at a time beautifully! It’s ok if you miss a vlog here or there. God bless you guys!❤

[@nanettesohacki3597]

Don't worry about filming. Your health and your family +1 are what's important! ❤

[@ivark56ofPA]

Your right family comes first before anything fliming episodes can come at later Time when unless there's something major going on in your lives then You want to share as random check in.. Futhmore its ok to take an extended vacation from vlogging everyone need a little private time once In awhile and you Won't get stressed out over it.if I had a choice I wouldn't Be doing it everyday only on occasion and once in awhile because its get Repetitive and would lead to bordom and lost views.. And decreased Subscribers..

[@brittySS]

So glad you're doing well Mary. I'm a viewer from Australia, I've watched your videos since 2015 and have admired how you've shown how you walk through tough parts of life with such grace. I was born with a physical disability called 'Spina Bifida' which affects my mobility & many other parts of my health. Its so encouraging to see someone else who also has health struggles remind us to always have faith in God for all the amazing things he does & will continue to do in our lives. God bless the Frey life

[@tdecker2937]

We can feel your gratitude for your life, just know that we share your gratitude! It is absolutely lovely to see your life now. ❤️

[@jaimebh30]

I am good! Thankful for baby number 3 coming in October. I am sitting eating a dessert with a baby and toddler next to me sleeping, a dog at the bottom of the bed, and my husband sleeping on the far side of the bed. I keep thinking about how I will manage 3 with 2 under 2. I am very thankful for a happy home and full belly! I hope you and your family have a great week! You and Peter are doing great!

[@maddieadams75]

I’m so happy for you guys. Elijah has shown you that you can conquer having a baby full time, and do it well. ❤❤

[@ekstitches]

I'm a little worried that I haven't seen a vlog in about a week. I am praying for you all that it's just because of normal life with two babies and a full time job that takes some getting used to. May God hold you in His hands and Grace x

[@kerrividler6571]

I’m watching from Queensland Australia in my hospital bed. Have had a week of treatment for Chronic pain and injections for Auto-Immune disease. I have seen you go through some really terrible and rough times and for you to get to here is an enormous achievement but it doesn’t mean that life isn’t as hard or, in some instances harder. You wouldn’t change it as you never thought you would have it but it does come at a cost. You are just amazing and a delight to watch transform through all of your struggles. Keep being you and keep being real xoxo

[@rosebojorquez1237]

I remember years back having a toddler and a newborn 😊...its not easy, your day is full and very busy. Don't know how I did it, having a working husband and managing everything that goes into all the daily chores! You'll get through it! You're lucky to have people who want to lend a helping hand ❤❤

[@mmmmlllljohn]

Elijah is beautiful and smart. So glad you have some help, Mary. Take care of your health and never put it on the back burner. May God bless your family! ❤️🇨🇦🙏

[@lenablanc7162]

You asked what we're doing. Don't want to let anyone down. But I'm just really sad. I follow two wonderful channels/families here on YT. And Sarah from one of the families (POG family) is in hospice and dying from cancer. And the other family (Jenny Apple) just got the news that her cancer progressed really bad and she might only have few months to live. And it's so heartbreaking. Everyone would be so appreciated who wants/could pray for them or give them love. Thank you. ❤

[@JESUSisLORDBiblestudy-channel]

Just prayed for them... whether we live or die ..it is for God's glory..plus those who know and believe in Christ don't really die..they live even though they die - John 11. Cheer up sister

[@speakthetruthever]

Yeah so sad about Jenny and her lil ones

[@kathymeyer424]

Made through the week. I have chronic pain in hips and thighs from nerve damage from back surgery. Enjoy watching for the last 4 years. This is first time sending a message. Thank you for your program.

[@Nelle4ever]

I'm glad your getting help, Mary. I don't have kids but helped a friend with her kids. Two kids under two is a lot!

[@ashleyjo53]

The cutest grin when you picked him up ❤️

[@carolynlong9148]

I think you're doing a fantastic job taking care of two babies having chronic illness. I'm working full time at a day care this summer it has its challenges. I too suffer from chronic illness I suffer from Fibromyaliga and a blood disorder. Thanks for sharing God bless.

[@donnanorris4733]

Eli says HI! Hi Elijah!

[@loreearter1263]

Oh, Elijah's cheeks!! I could just est them up!! So cute! You guys are such good parents!

[@loreearter1263]

Eat them up!

[@alexisrivas307]

I just finished watching the blog. Today is Friday, July 21st at 3:48pm. I am sitting on a futon in our living room that acts as a couch, dining chairs, and a pull out bed. In front of me is our plastic folding dining table. and coffee table. I’m waiting for it to be 4:00pm so I can feed my retired guide dog and two cats. Then I have to take the dog out and scoop the litter box. Then finally I’ll load the dishwasher. By then my husband should almost be done washing a bunch of clothes and bedding at the laundry mat. That’s when the fun comes in… putting everything away. That’s the goal. Will it happen? Probably not. We can hope though. Have a good evening everyone.

[@misspepe7416]

Thank you for sharing! Thank you for taking time to film. It is so fun to catch up with you.

[@Judymontel]

Thank you for this video, Mary. I did indeed need the reminder to take the next step. And getting this glimpse into your life this way was also very encouraging and inspiring. Thank you also for being a role model for accepting help - so important to practice that!

[@gemmyadd]

it's been a while since I've been to your Chanel and now I'm a Mum too. you're amazing. You both are. Congrats ❤️

[@penelopepolinsneemeyer4757]

Good Shabbes guys! Spending time with you is always a joy xxxx

[@carolynhall1302]

I am in awe of how well you are coping and that you are getting support from your community. I love seeing how happy and contented you are. I love how well Elijah can communicate with sign language, wish someone had taught me when my kids were babies!

[@smalltwngirl8643]

I adore your family!! Elijah brings so many smiles to my day! (In response to Elijah) ... please tell him... "HI!!!" FROM Andrea in Ohio!

[@haileyhudson4157]

I’m so glad you have a great support system!

[@wybuchowyukomendant]

Since i got a puppy, i found new levels of admiration for parents...

[@biddiemutter3481]

Love just seeing you ❤

[@gracepataky3402]

Your positivity is contagious! I have a nephew on trikafta and I love seeing how this drug has changed the lives of CF patients.

[@dancing.with.adagio]

Wow, it's been awhile since I watched your vlogs. What a busy mama you are! But I gotta say, your face is glowing and you're looking so good! We had a mega hot day today, which definitely didn't help my POTS. I missed the program from our VBS tonight. This week has been super busy! Next item in the agenda is prepping to go north to visit my brother and his wife/family in the mission next week! ☺️

[@NorseButterfly]

I'm happy things are falling into place with the newest addition to your family❤. I can honestly say that I made it through the week. Higher than normal blood pressure, thanks to some drama, but I'll get through it.

[@kimpossible7505]

Also, they say it takes a village, and it really does! I’m so glad to hear you have friends who can help you through this new season of life

[@katherineadinolfe1617]

I'm so so happy for you and Peter, you wanted babies so badly, when I think about how you were when you got to North Carolina I was so afraid that we weren't going to have Mary but God has blessings for her and for Peter. I get it I totally get it, cuz with the pulmonary hypertension I wasn't getting diagnosed and it's been 10 years now since my surgery The God is giving me 13 more years thanks to technology like the medications that you and I both get they're very different but they are doing the job the kids are gorgeous even though we can't see the baby I know he's gorgeous and Elijah he's becoming such a little man congratulations again I can never tell you that enough, love Kathy from New York State. I just reposted the pictures of when my granddaughter and I were able to visit you all when Peter was preaching in Massachusetts that was a bucket list item to get to meet you all😂

[@janetsheart3139]

Hi Mary--I miss you guys so much but it warms my heart to see you be a Mommy!!❤❤❤

[@imogenoliver]

I’m so glad you guys have so much support and help, that’s really important, especially with foster care. This week I struggled to get my assignment draft in, it was really challenging just to stay interested in it and not just get completely overwhelmed ever even I just looked at it. Eventually though I fished it and the feedback was good and there isn’t that much I need to fix which is really nice. I decidedly learned the exact importance talking a bubble bath can have for my neurodivergent brain and the importance of resting and relaxing after finishing something really hard.

[@alazjahcoardes8884]

Hii Mary your 2 kids are soo cute

[@nim5687]

Hi Elijah ❤. You play the drums very well.

[@cherylrhone3407]

Mary, you are doing a wonderful job it sounds like. I'm so glad you are excepting help from others. God is so good to us. He knows our needs before we even know them. God bless all of you. Warm hugs & love sent. 💖

[@Mystery_Nigma]

Needs more cowbell… 😂😂😂 j/k! Loved the concert! 😍🥁

[@vanessachristopher1515]

Lol!

[@alexmaylef]

you’re handling it so gracefully!

[@miarand57]

You are glowing, pink-cheeked, happy! I’m so glad to see you so satisfied and thriving being a Mother! So proud of you! Accepting the help of supporters and friends is key! Hugs, Mary!😊🙏🏼💕

[@JenNTim509]

Happy Friday! Daycare provider here. It was a crazy busy day. Nap time now and finally can sit for a moment. 😂

[@alydrolet5770]

I'm watching this at my new kitchen table in my apartment after two weeks of training for my new job as a middle school teacher.

[@marilan3455]

So glad you are managing so well! It’s not so easy to arrange things in such a way as to take care of ourselves but you are doing great at that. It’s a very important component of mommyhood. Your whole family will be better for it! These are the best days of y’alls life together!❤

[@mmmmlllljohn]

I’m a quarter of the way through and Elijah is saying hi to me! It is cracking me up! He is such a happy little kiddo. Now back to your video … 😘🇨🇦

[@TheNelsonwx]

Hi Mary!! You are such a great mom. I know the two kiddos just love you and Peter so much. As for me just watching the summer go by, and full knowing that the Early start calendar in Milwaukee Public Schools is just around the corner. How sad, but we will be OK. I am happy you and Peter are doing well! ❤

[@elainehardy3502]

Mary, you love being a mom. I am happy for you. ❤

[@babybluecheeks]

I love how much you love being a Mum, it's a beautiful thing.

[@lindafrazier8799]

Thanks for the sweet update!

[@suzykauffman1831]

I’m so glad you have help!

[@rebeccanovak5522]

I’m so happy for you guys. I followed you guys for years way before you had kiddos❤️ makes me so happy watching you being a loving mother now❤️

[@carmenosorio2532]

You are truly an amazing person and mother💜

[@gthornton3]

I was just waiting for your update. Do glad you are doing well.

[@pennydodd188]

Great job on the drums Elijah

[@jude_sweeps]

I love you so much Elijah I love you so much Mary I love you too peter

[@jude_sweeps]

I love you Mary

[@pattihoffman7974]

Its so cute Elijah is growing so fast and trying all new thing

[@jeanpolhemus9908]

YOU GOT THIS!!

[@sarahgreen2295]

I’m watching you in bed getting ready to go to sleep. I made it through a very stressful week and I am grateful for that! ❤🎉

[@sheilafrancl1423]

He is really talented with the drums!

[@susanharris1285]

Sitting on the couch enjoying you all

[@kelseyirene7620]

Been watching you guys for years now and it is so wonderful to see you thriving!

[@jademccardle9074]

He’s so cute ❤

[@lisabaldwin2370]

Mary your joy at being a mom to two is infectious and so happy you all are doing so well enjoy your growing boys they grow so fast such blessings but two little ones can keep you super busy much love!

[@WS-by5cl]

Where I’m at - in the garden, picking 2 gallons of green beans from my prolific garden; praise the Lord! I love listening your surround sound of baby babble… I have always considered fostering, and I hope it can become a possibility for my family, God-willing. May He bless you!

[@lauriegermain5041]

Im laying on my couch watching this video and listening to tv. Petting my puppy Dolly. Please keep me in your prayers as im dealing some health issues and to have more tests before they can do the surgery i need. Thank you. God bless you and your family. ❤❤ 🙏🙏

[@meganstufflebeem2458]

I am getting ready to leave for RAGBRAI (registers annual great bike ride across iowa). We spend the week riding across the state!

[@mon7601]

Mom of 2 LOOKS GOOD ON YOU!!! 😘

[@sandyfreyman3501]

Sending hugs and especially kisses to Ollie the boy . So glad to see him doing ok yet aging. Blessings going forwards. Yes being mama to toddlers is busy . Just remember prayers first thing.👍🏼.so your strength stays high.

[@hawkswifeme]

In my room relaxing watching you and your journey. I have been watching before you guys moved to NC from Boston

[@5littlewrestlers]

I have 6 kids stay strong you got this

[@loobybrice3159]

To help out a little, sent with love xx

[@astorybookfinish5055]

He’s getting some really good rhythm!!!

[@trishnjasperCarnivorePack]

ooof been away for a bit, love the vid will need to binge-watch to catch up more after the crazy passes for a bit. Watching this before I run over to mom's and the crazy begins again.

[@thelightthesandyfootsteps4166]

I have been looking for a drum like that for my boys. I love getting them instruments and bells. I also have a very large play yard for my 8 month old that I customized the bottom of so it’s cushioned so he doesn’t get hurt

[@joygross]

Mary .. Elijah is getting so grown up. I know he is still a baby but he thinks he is a big boy. Cracked me up when he walked over and got on his bike. ❤❤❤ I love watching your sweet family.

[@phyllisaleshire4460]

You are doing great. No need to explain We ❤️ you

[@fralinsandfriends]

I'm getting ready to take a nap after I finish watching you. 😃😃👋👋💖💖

[@possumwattle7891]

I miss having little ones around. Watching you with your little ones fill my heart. If you could adopt your foster baby would you? You are both such wonderful parents. God bless you all.

[@jennifermusgrave6998]

Such special times and gifts from God.❤️

[@ritahall8653]

You are doing great

[@vickieasley9020]

Love your vlog. Haven't watched much in a while. Life has been crazy. Having issues with back and epilepsy but just taking each day as it comes.

[@clarissajanes6950]

Sitting down procrastinating what other things I need to do to be ready for my home study (don't worry I still have a couple days)

[@shawnahaddan3674]

Hi Elijah. Mary life is busy and that's okay.

[@terriehumphries6028]

Your doing a good job.

[@lindaowens2966]

Tell Elijah hi!❤

[@skyemorrisey8637]

I'm listening while making soup as I'm sick with a horrible cold but grateful I'm well enough to cook a healthy dinner. I know you love love love soup, I'm meh on it but this Italian meatball soup looks nice with garden kale.

[@ivark56ofPA]

I guess you folks are going on a once a week release schedule as time permits which is better than none at all . little boy playing the drums and One tickling the ivories of the piano other day . leading a interest of music growing up or playing in a school band . im wondering of if Peter Is going to be recording his sermons again when the time comes.. This video is released on JULY 21st which about 4 weeks until MARYS 34th BIRTHDAY and about 33 days until YEAR TEN OF THE FREYLIFE SERIES!!! If it lasts before then if it doesn't die for good.❤❤

[@1004juli]

I was traveling in Korea. It’s where I was born. I’m back at home in California.

[@baronghede2365]

Milk thistle herb is great for cystic fibrosis, Blessed Be.

[@GoFishOffice]

This was fun

[@fralinsandfriends]

I think Pastors work most days. 😃😃👋👋💖💖

[@susanharris1285]

Hi Elijah