Life update: I moved again | my au pair nightmare | bad rematch | new family | South African au pair

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[@TimewithModiTime]

Babe, I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this and I am so sorry that you were in a toxic environment! I really hope that this new year will be kinder and that it will be filled with more happiness, love, peace, and joy! 💗💗 To an amazing year !

[@ThatoN]

Thank you babe, it be like that sometimes Yesss I receive! To an amazing year indeed 🥂

[@Dietsoda97]

Watching this literally gave me goosebumps especially when you said you IMMEDIATELY felt it was not going to be a good place the same thing happened to me and I was stuck in a bad city for 2 YEARSSSS My advice is trust your goddamn gut and move to a better place once you find another job trust me 8/10 times your GUT IS RIGHT

[@ThatoN]

yess this! you always know. I’m glad you were able to move out, 2 years is a long time and found better🫶🏾

[@BabyJoy818]

And because you had a bad experience with host family from nigeria doesn't mean you should paint all Nigerians bad, cause you being so rude also, i don't know why that Nigerians woman have to hired South Africans in the first place, biggest mistake of her life.

[@ThatoN]

Did I paint them in a bad light or I simply said people ive spoken to have had a similar experience with them? Dont put someone’s rudeness and ill treatments on me. She should know better as a grown woman and someone that brought someone into their home to live and work there. There’s never a reason to treat anyone like that, especially people in her life. Hope she learned from never getting a South African au pair tho❤️

[@BabyJoy818]

@ThatoN I wish you goodluck in all your ways, I didn't have any issues with you, but generally, South Africans and Nigerians doesn't like each other that much

[@thalitha_mat]

I’m glad you left that horrible environment 😢❤ we pray this new family treats you good..

[@ThatoN]

Stay away from families from that country. Idk anyone that has had a good experience with them

[@BabyJoy818]

​@@ThatoNactually there are so many people that had good experiences with Nigerians, you are just being rude and you South Africans lack good manners, And also learn how to package your body very well okay

[@NonoKhumalo-jn3yg]

Hey sis, where in Maryland are you I'm also in Maryland and I got zero friends

[@vuyisaplaatjies7267]

Where in Maryland sis ?

[@ThatoN]

I’m in Clinton babe, you?

[@mphoramaphiri2262]

So sorry my love ❤❤.. God has bigger plans for you trust me

[@ThatoN]

always baby🥹❤️