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[@leezarogers5280]

I think we just need to go back and make sure we all replay Jemina's videos every day to keep the algorithms working in her favor..

[@hesterdavis2797]

Absolutely I agree

[@bigsisterology]

Yes, I don’t mind replaying it over and over again because our sister needs a break and we’re here for you sis. Take all the time you need 💕

[@velmaholcombe9908]

Most Definitely will, start watching from the beginning ❤

[@ValerieDeniseJones]

I love ❤️ this idea

[@andreyamatthew2006]

Agreed!!!!!

[@karenknight6811]

I am an older southern white woman that has been watching you for years and I absolutely love you - I wish I could just give you a big hug bless your heart - you are a strong person, but you are in my thoughts and prayers as you deal with the changes in your life.

[@wanya_telborn]

Awe yes mam me too ❤😢 South MS here Lovely words ❤

[@karenknight6811]

@@wanya_telborn Thank you!

[@thehumblehen]

@@wanya_telborn I'm from South MS too - near Biloxi! :)

[@lauraredfern927]

I’m from GA and I really enjoy you!! Prayers for you and your family.

[@jacobladder248]

I hate the mention of race.Thought we are all human hypocrite.

[@florindag6619]

Family always comes first. We will follow you and support you no matter where you are ❤

[@corbett2912]

What you need to know is that are so many videos where we can watch people shop, try on clothes, travel....whatever! But there is just one you and that’s what keeps me tuning in. So good, bad, or indifferent...we're here whenever or however you decide to show up.❤

[@sweetrevenge47]

I think you should do your own mini-series with your dad. Not for us, but for yourself. Record videos and/or audio of questions about his life, about you, about anything. It’s nice to be able to hear their voice and their thoughts on days that are hard. Being a caretaker is hard but support is needed. The Jems and your IRL community got you

[@jeanneewaseck6635]

Totally agree! Altho "back in the day" I wasn't able to do that, I did save cards and notes my beloved parents wrote to me, and they are about the most precious things I own!!!

[@ot1321]

When I saw your face I knew it was gonna be about your dad. Praying for you and your family and for your strength. I remember when you first moved to Atlanta you mentioned that your father’s health was on your mind. You are truly a blessing♥️

[@taraross8809]

😢 SAME

[@feliciaturman2849]

See... you do you and we got you... I hope it works out..

[@20sugga]

Me too. I actually knew from the title. She loves her dad with her all. He has been there for her and raised her to the beautiful young lady she is today. Let's send them both along with her brother our prayers and love🙏🏾❤. This breaks my heart to see her like this. We got you sis❤🙏🏾🤗

[@temarriawilliams7953]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sharondavis5637]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@reneecherrie]

Hey ya'll! Let's keep showing up for our girl cuz she has showed up for us!! We don't need the algorithm to tell us when to visit our friend when she needs us the most! I'm grateful that she will be among a supportive family during these trying times!❤

[@lavernegunn4362]

❤True. Us old hats might need a tutorial tho.😊

[@lyvette721]

Jemima, I have never written a comment but felt that I needed to encourage you. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been the designated caregiver for my Dad. You do need some alone time but don't do it for a long period. Please talk to a therapist or a caregiver group as you transition to a "new normal". Also, what I have learned that if you find a few hours every week make sure you take some "me" time. I will keep you and your Dad in my prayers 🙏🏾

[@clariseharrington8252]

🙏🏽❤️

[@charlenemiller7608]

praying for you and your dad. I know thats tough, my mom has been in the hospital for 2 weeks now and I almost lost her. Stay strong, you got this!!!

[@kimpurvis410]

Being a good daughter is so rare and I'm so proud you as you prioritize your family. Good girl!

[@childcarechick]

Jemima… please be sure to film your dad for you! In the beginning, it may seem intrusive to him, but you’ll treasure them later. Trust me…I said goodbye to my Dad in 2008 and I still miss him every day! He was my rock and I am grateful for every memory. Also…our feelings are NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! Be Jemima and we’ll love you where you are!

[@empressfae313]

I'd suggest recording his voice and / or heartbeat, and then you can put it into a build a bear when the time comes

[@kayleejones6873]

Will pray for you proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in the lord with all your heart;do not depend on your own understanding Seek his Will in all you do and he will show u which path to take

[@teelaq]

Yes Jemima please take this commenter advise. My mom had a stroke in January and never really came back to her self and passed in May and she was only 55. If it wasnt for all of the videos and pictures I took I know it would have been so much harder for me.

[@rachelleemon5680]

Love this advice and definitely recommend for anyone during this difficult period of life. I lost my daddy 2 weeks after I graduated high school so back in the early 2000s where we didn’t record much or even take pictures unless it was an event. I’d give anything to remember how his voice sounded or even the way he walked as we do lose the ability to remember.

[@theahopson8622]

You will be ok! Most of us have taken care of a parent/parents, you are not alone! Yes you will not be able to be carefree during your transition, but you only get 1 father/mom!

[@lisamartinez4071]

You mentioned your father and that did it for me.😢 You go be with your father and family. Family 1st. It'll all work out. Don't worry about people and social media. No back and forth. You're such an outgoing, bubbly, upbeat beautiful person. Never would have known you were going thru that. Just take care of your father and yourself. I'm praying for you. ❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

[@cherrylreeves129]

Well said 😮

[@rhondasmith6117]

GIrl.....I moved back home for my father also. He passed last September and I am so glad I moved back home with my parents (at age 59) to help my mom deal with everything. SO, I am proud of you for doing this. It is a very tough thing to do, but also very rewarding. My entire life was also uprooted when I did this and even quit my job. I am praying for you!!!! Love you!!!!

[@janfromseattle]

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Sending God’s blessings to you and your family. 🙏🏻 ❤

[@kimberlykellam9795]

Me too!…perhaps We should start a club🙄😂

[@kimberlykellam9795]

Jemima, are you comin back to Maryland?

[@stephdee3811]

I haven't even watched yet, BUT LOOKING at the comments...........😒....... My Mom moved with me, and I JUST became her caregiver. I HAD to quit my job, WHICH is a serious pay decrease BUT THIS is what God has for me..... Soooooo here I am doing her laundry, had to make her take a shower earlier...... It is what it is.....😒🙁🫤

[@gwendolynirving6200]

@ Miss Jemima I will keep you in my prayers. I so understand details are never required. When you know, you know…adult caregiving is rough. Take the time you need to do what you need. What our God has for you, will be supplied regardless of your work schedule. Blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@LP-km7gj]

My mom has stage 4 cancer so I am right there with you Jemima. I can’t imagine having to juggle something so difficult and still vlog your life. We are all here for you ❤

[@clariseharrington8252]

🙏🏽❤️

[@LaTonyaBrewer]

🙏🏾❤️

[@janaynicole06]

❤

[@saraphillips3122]

🙏

[@FAMUANDADDYISAKING]

🫶🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@getfitafter60]

Jemina, my dad just passed away last week. I have spent the last year going back and forth from South Carolina and California taking care of him. Treasure the time you will have with your dad. And know you are a good and loving daugther, going back and being there for your dad will mean more than you know for both of you. I know during this time you will also take care of yourself. Lean on your community we are here for you.

[@danaking5999]

The fact that you took time to explain is a perfect example of why the squad is so loyal. We will be here whenever you feel like interacting with us in whatever capacity is comfortable for you.

[@justtiffany2109]

💯

[@clariseharrington8252]

Facts

[@mypersonaljournalxo]

yesss!! we love you girl & we’ll be here whenever you are comfortable enough to share!! Love & prayers to you & your family ❤️.

[@SimplyTique]

Vulnerable. You feel vulnerable. And it’s ok.

[@mammajamma4397]

Jemima, you are a light that shines on not only your viewers but all of the world. Who you are is a testament of your life perspective and the people closest to you. Your jems support you and understand that real life trumps hauls and travel blogs. Do what you need to do, we'll be here when you're ready ❤

[@Jani28]

She is very special, kind & I feel I know her! ❤❤

[@KMC42267]

Well said. I’m grateful she is sharing this with us.

[@darlingnicki6923]

🎯

[@beatricenorris6383]

Well said!

[@20sugga]

​@@Jani28she is definitely a 💎

[@rhondasmith6117]

ACCEPT ALL THE LOVE FROM YOUR JEMS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are here for you now and will be here for you when you come back. TRUST GIRL!!!!!!

[@latrishapeterson8934]

You don’t owe us an apology. Just remember to take time to take care of yourself while taking care of your dad

[@michellestackfield232]

Jemima, this is my first time commenting outside of sending ❤s to your content. I’m a much older woman (60’s) and have been following you from the beginning. You are the reason I am actually wearing ‘waist beads’ on my plus size body amongst other fashion ideas and loving it!😊😊 I look forward to each post and am extremely proud of you and your growth. Your “Jem-squad” is behind you 💯 and encourage you to take care of yourself first and foremost so that you can be there for those that will need you. Speaking from the experience of being a caregiver to my mother and husband at the same time, while working in law enforcement and attending school full-time, we can actually lose ourselves by trying ‘to always be there’. I have no regrets as they were given the absolute best of me as I had been given from them. It will be almost twenty years now that I lost both within months of each other, but I would do it all over again. The only thing different I would do is to take time to take of me during the process and I am encouraging you to do the same. We got you over here and will be there in any capacity that you need. And to all of your “Squad”, thank you all for your journeys of resilience and the support we are now giving to our internet colleague, sister-friend, niece! Much love Jemima, you are truly a JEM!

[@btodavjones5374]

Jemima, as you can tell by the comments, everyone has experienced some kind of trial and tribulation in their lives. I lost my 26 year old daughter to stage four melanoma. By the time it was discovered, we had 16 days left until her beautiful soul left us. Enjoy the time you have left with your father and don’t even think about us. This time with him is priceless. I would have never made it through my daughters passing without my faith in God. if I start to worry about something, I just give it to God. He already knows what the outcome will be. We will always be here for you. You make me laugh and have so much fun even though I’m living vicariously through you😊 I signed up to be on the algorithm train where we will be watching your videos every day nonstop. I love you Jemima and you and your father are in my thoughts and prayers ❤❤❤

[@Tina_O]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t even finish reading your comment without feeling sad 😢. But baby girl is in a much better place and you will be reunited with her when God says so. Thanks for sharing your story to help others and take care ❤.

[@yo-yo9663]

May her memory be a blessing. May you heal with the passing of time.

[@btodavjones5374]

@@Tina_O Amen….thank you so much for your kindness…it definitely brings me peace knowing that I will see her again.

[@btodavjones5374]

@@yo-yo9663 Thank you so much. We always talk about her and all of our memories…my two grandkids love hearing about Aunt Kelsey. Thank you for your kindness.

[@lakeeshag1889]

Sometimes only prayers are needed. Listen to Listen not to respond. Praying for your Sis. We (I) Got you.. You are covered and loved .Social media take ah break..People love others' business. You really didn't need to However again UGOTHISFAMILY

[@karlarussell3555]

I think you should make this a series " Cardigan Chronicles" where you put on a cardy and give us an update on your mental health, not to spill all your tea, but just to let us know if you're ok or if there is anything you need or we can do for you. I am WAYYYYYY older than you ,but I get it sis, I really do. I moved from Suitland ( Shout out DMV) to GA and 3 months later my mom died. So I bought a house with a bedroom on the main level so Daddy could come to GA and live with me. And he absolutely refused to leave his home. I fought it for years, but finally gave in, accepted the fact that he will be in hi sown home until the bitter end, Daddy is 85, now my life is coordinating home health aides, adult day care, video doctor visits, prescriptions refills, nutritionist visits, door dash and meal deliveries, constant monthly ( sometimes weekly) traveling back and forth ( yes i am still in GA and Daddy is in MD) and just trying to maintain. I feel you, I see you, I love you and will do whatever you need to help you in any way I can.

[@shelbylong2022]

Love this...

[@Iamnikkimartin]

Love love love!!!!!

[@malaykav]

Yes. Even if she doesn’t post all of them or any of them. Sometimes talking to an “audience” can be helpful when you’re processing stuff.

[@PeachTeaAndCandles]

This is so sweet

[@clariseharrington8252]

🙏🏽❤️

[@minapane]

I took care of my mom for 5 years. I lost her in November to dementia. I did not discuss it. I retired early with many years to go, but she was EVERYTHING. It was an honor. MayGod give you strength and grace. Stay strong. Dont worry about the public. Do your life and take care of yourself and your family. Thanks for sharing. Take care.

[@clariseharrington8252]

🙏🏽❤

[@allisoncrawford8550]

Ladies, let's break the chain of 'people in my business '. Some of our mothers went hungry because of pride. We are meant to help and support each other. Talk about it Ms. Lady. There are followers that can guide you through Medicare and teach you how to be an advocate for your dad. You don't have to do this alone. My prayers for and your dad and my inbox is open. 🙏🏾

[@yolandalcheek462]

My mom definitely did 😢

[@misskendrea]

I lost my parents within 7 months of each other and taking care of them when they were sick was very hard but the love I had for them superseded any frustration or sadness. I can tell how much you love your Dad. Keep your head up! ❤🙏🏾

[@TheDulceCoffee]

Girl I dropped out of a premed program and gave up on my dreams of being a doctor because I needed to come home to take care of mom. It’s not an easy decision to make but family comes first and you’ll be so happy you did it. If that means content changes or slows down, we will support you through it all. Please take care of yourself and know that the Jems are here for you. ❤

[@felecias479]

😮

[@aquarianbeauty80]

Blessings to you and your family. Med school will be waiting for you if you ever decide to return 😊🙏🏽

[@TheDulceCoffee]

@@aquarianbeauty80 thank you! 🫶🏽 it’s a personal goal of mine I hope to finish when the time is right. For now, my mom needs me and being there for her is the least I can do.

[@MADEbySOUL]

@@TheDulceCoffeeyou never know, perhaps this pause may benefit you. There are many in the medical field demanding better for future nurses and doctors since they are stretched so thin. Especially when it comes to patient to nurse or doctor ratio. Completely believe in you reaching your goals and I hope the system recognizes how lucky they are to have you.

[@TheDulceCoffee]

@@MADEbySOUL that was so sweet and reassuring. Thank you so much ❤️

[@nanatteefredua-mensah7261]

I rarely say anything on any platform, but when I see someone going thru something, I have to let them know I am sending prayers and love your way, just let Father God take control, and lead you. Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

[@derickajohnson4021]

I literally cried... because i am going through it for past year , my mom had aneurysm last year in May and my life has stopped ... i pay rent on an place i am not living in.. i love my mom but, i am exhausted .. i truly understand you . I needed to hear your situation to not feel alone .. I work and caregive my mom who also has dementia now because of the aneurysm its not easy... God has you and you and your family is in my prayers

[@SiimpleLogic]

Heavenly Father I ask that you bless Jemima and her father in all aspects of life. May you keep them strong and show them that you are with them through it all. May you give them peace and show them your love throughout this hard time in their lives. I ask that you heal their wounds and diminish all evil that the devil works so hard to place on them. I ask that you protect them from the enemy and allow them to prosper so that they can enjoy the beautiful life you gave them. May every tear be used to help them grow. Amen. 🤍 May this prayer apply to anyone reading this comment aswell. You are all so so so loved. ❤️‍🩹

[@Qtisqt]

PEOPLE PLEASE… DID U GUYS HEAR anything she said? The last thing she needs to hear is that someone DIED or how you took care of SOMEONE and they DIED, we must LEARN to LISTEN BETTER!!! 😳🤨

[@brejayelle]

It hurts to see you hurting when you bring so much joy to us week after week. I will play old videos on a loop! Please care about yourself first and your dad immediately after. We’ll be good! ❤

[@wwinny669]

My son and I moved back home early last year (I just turned 55). My grandmother was 93 and she was giving my mom a hard time. So, I moved in with them to help my mom and to be closer to my son's school where he could get the school bus and I didn't have to drive him. My grandmother passed last October at 94 and my son graduated high school this past May. However, I can't leave my mom because now she needs me. It happens. Life be lifeing. Do what you need to do for you and your dad. When I moved back to this area I also became my dad's medical person so I am taking him back and forth to the doctor and managing some of his business. It is a part of being an adult with aging parents. Post the content you want and if you can't post we will keep you in our prayers. Take care of your family.

[@LayLayMu]

As a long KZbin user I don't mind when people take breaks. You are loved and will always have support in front of the camera or in private. Taking care of you so you can give to others ❤❤❤❤

[@ceciliabuford1983]

Agree with the replays. Will do. God first, family second, career third. I for one will be here whenever you feel up to recording or not. Take your time and do what you need to do. There comes a point in every sons or daughters life when we have or will need to take care of our parent (s). Sending prayers for strength and sending huge hugs. ❤❤❤❤❤🫶🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@20sugga]

Do what's best for your mental. I took a leave of absence from my job to take care of my mom who died in 1994 and it still hurts today. My dad dies five years prior to my mom and I thank God I did 😢 God makes away for everything and puts us where we need to be. I'm glad to have your brother for help and let him help you. Don't try and do everything by yourself and try not to stress. Make some me time for yourself as well

[@timiekamaloney1558]

It’s a hard spot when you want to live your life and then real life happens😢….we’re praying for you.

[@vickyd8186]

I took care of my dad from 2017 until he passed in 2021 at age 88. It was an honor not everyone gets, but its also emotionally and, at times, physically taxing. You have an added layer in that your means of living relies on sharing parts of your life with the world, highs and lows. You did the right thing by telling us, thank you. You are human first and a content creator somewhere way down on the list. Do what you need to do for you and your Dad, put up videos when you can and be yourself, however you feel, we know you. I personally plan to stream your old videos even in the background so the algorithm keeps feeding. Hopefully all will do the same. Take care.

[@taytayjenkins3480]

please don't let anything or anyone on this social platform get to you.. I know it's easier said then done.. but love your energy is amazing and gives sooo many joy... and so I am sending you positive vibes , love and plenty of prayers. keep smiling , keep pushing and stay prayed up🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💜💜💜💜💜

[@cdk1473]

I had surgery in March. I needed clots removed from my lungs. And my oldest daughter took the time to help me. She is my heart and I am forever grateful to her. I don’t need to know the details of what’s going on with your family dynamics. But take the time you need. Hugs and prayers to you and your family young lady. ❤❤❤

[@roxie225.]

🙏🙏

[@hadlee189]

@cdk1473 My doctor wants to do the same surgery on me, remove blood clots from my lungs. The only question I have is, "how are you doing, & how do you feel after the surgery" if you don't mind me asking. Because I am kinda scared to do the surgery. God Bless you, & your family!

[@mamiemclachlan7699]

I pray that the favor of God will encamp around you that you will see the blessings of God no matter where you are or what you doing amen❤❤😊❤❤

[@mamiemclachlan7699]

You have made me laugh so many times I love you😅❤

[@problematic_fav]

Jemima do what you gotta do, the Jems are going to keep you and your family in prayer ❤! I had to do the same with my grandma until she passed 3 years ago.

[@MsCreativeDiva]

It’s definitely hard and I think it’s okay to process and your community will allow you to do this in whatever way you give. Sending love and prayers 🤍🤍

[@stefanieandersonerskine6095]

As a first time commenter but long-time subscriber I felt compelled to let you know that you dont owe us a thing. Please don't apologize for having feelings and having life do what it does to you. You have created a strong and supportive community just by being your amazing, beautiful, and authentic self. We got you., sis. So, please focus on you and your dad, we'll be here if/when you get back. I hate to see you leave the A cause I just knew one day I'd bump into you and we'd chop it up but Atlanta ain't going nowhere. Please take care of you dear.❤

[@charajackson4032]

I took care of my mother with Alzheimer's for 3 yrs up until her passing in 2022. What helped me is looking at as a privilege. You get to take care of one of the people that brought you in this world. You don't owe the world anything or an explanation when dealing with real life. Take your time, go through your process. Your days ones will be there to hold you up on the days you can't do it yourself. I've been a Jem for quite awhile...and I PROMISE you, that won't change! We'll be here waiting. What God has for you, will always be there. Put it in His hand my girl. Praying for your strength and that God holds your hand through it all! Love you girl! ❤

[@ellienash5478]

Family comes 1st. Your supporters will stay with you. When routine, life changes it’s difficult, but you will cope and be grateful you had the time with your dad. You will come out the other side, better, believe it 💐 Appreciate you sharing ❤

[@tammybrown9387]

Baby (my daughter in my mind)…..first of all ur a beautiful soul. And u taking the time to sharing this just proves it!!!! U MUST ALWAYS CHOOSE UR FAMILY FIRST, the blessing is that ur strong enough to do this!!! Please keep ur head up……because you are BEAUTIFUL in and out!!! You will always have this!!!! One of ur Jems now and forever!!!

[@wanya_telborn]

😢❤❤️

[@sdc8598]

You didn’t owe us this video yet we are grateful for it and as always take good care of yourself and know when you’re ready the Jems will be here💛

[@MariAsh03]

Praying for you!!! Know that you’re making the best decision for you and you’re still gonna have your Gemz gonna support you!!! Much love to you!!!

[@irenedennis1003]

You have nothing to apologize for. We are not just here for the fashion and the good times. We genuinely wish you well. Give yourself all the grace and time you need. And if you don't get to fully experience Atlanta now, you can always come back as an actual tourist sometime in the future. Wishing you and your family much strength as you go forward.

[@mammajamma4397]

We'll definitely be keeping you, your dad, and your family in our thoughts ✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@ItsJustMeNai]

I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. Listen i understand and if you can be there for your dad please do. I miss my parents EVERY DAY and I wish I could’ve done more for them. I wish you the best.. happy to know you are coming back in the DMV 😊

[@21fgilkes25]

I’ve been following you for about two years as a plus size person and your hauls. I looked after my dad in the last 7 yrs of life. He didn’t raise me. Spend what ever time God gives you both together and record so you have visual memories. And gather his history of his journey in life that he remembers. ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ruerue6058]

Miss Jemima... the once in a while when I have heard you mentioned your father you came off as grateful, sincere, loving and caring with so much affection for him. I can only imagine the impact the situation is having you. Caregiver mode is real...and taxing. May the power if you believe protect, strengthen, maintain and cover you as you step into this role for your father. This Jem will still be here with my 👍 up and sharing your content. Well wishes always !

[@nownye6179]

Gave a like before I even watched! Sending love!!!

[@tinasamuels2596]

I’m so sorry this is happening to you and your family. No apology needed we’ve seen your heart. Go do what’s needed

[@Mulattobeauty27]

I left Atlanta eight years ago (lived there 17yrs). Moved back home to be with my parents. Best decision. May the Lord give Jemina favor and bless her.

[@noniestevens]

My mom was in the hospital for a long time, what a blessing you are for your father that you are moving to be with him. I felt bad for all the people around my mom that didn't have anyone there for them. I found Miss Jemima after my mom passed. I wasn't able to do anything, just getting through my days. Miss Jemima thank you for picking me up, I'm crying typing this, I couldn't do my makeup, hair, I just put clothes on and went to work. I swear on everything when I found you, you helped me pick myself up and get interested in doing things to feel good again. Sending up prayers for you as you journey to care for your daddy.

[@empressfae313]

You got this, Jemima, I wish I could've been able to get back to the loved ones who are no longer here. I thank the Most High that you're in a position to do what you need to do. I'm praying for you and the family. Love from NC

[@brittanyfigaro]

I felt this to my core. As a daddy’s girl who walked in those shoes last year, do what you gotta do for you. The balance in challenge and heavy. We going to be here!

[@traceybradshaw166]

Please make sure you take care of you as well.

[@48203Angel]

Right! Because were we going?! Nowhere!

[@SheedaVision]

Jemima, Atlanta will be there. So will we! Take care of self. God bless you and your family ❤

[@steffy543]

Your soul is heavy … and for that I’m sorry . Truly sorry babe . Thank you for being open and transparent with us Issa privilege. I too left Atlanta to take care of my terminally ill mother in Houston . I’m here with u . Always , always .

[@ChocklatKim]

Prayers going up!❤❤❤ We love you!❤❤❤ Take all the time you need off! Dad comes 1st! The real Jems will be here when you get back!❤❤❤

[@monicasmith9647]

My Love sending you hopes prayers and strength to you. I remember way back in your videos when you just mentioned your Dad and I could see the love. Wishing you peace and calm for this journey Mama...we'll be here when you get back...much love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@georginatenorio2441]

Sending you and your family positive vibes, love and strength ❤️🙏🏾

[@tiffanyblount7560]

I've been where your out, twice but remember your a daughter first and we are going to be here to support you in whatever capacity the Jem squad can. Jem squad let's run these numbers up by watching old videos, shorts, and tik toks, Instagram, and any other content. Jemima take care of you, your dad and we'll take care of the rest. We will still be here. Sending you love, peace and strength for the journey ahead. May God wrap his loving arms of protection around you and your family. Blessing to you sis.

[@neesha7665]

Yes!

[@angelabivins6787]

Prayers to your dad and strength for you! No explanations necessary!❤

[@jannettebartee342]

I know how you feel . Out of nowhere, I just lost my Daddy on May 26,2024. I use to help him and do whatever needed. I still feel lost. 😢😢😢😢 Believe me I struggle everyday.❤❤❤

[@dyoung2739]

Continued blessings❤️🙏🏽to you. Live w/as few regrets as possible. I’m in my 60s and I’ll never forgive myself for not quitting my job in my 30s to take care of my mother🙏🏽🕊️.

[@kathleendunton241]

I hear you. I see you. Life be lifing and oh yes, she got hands and be tearing our asses up. It’s okay NOT to be okay. The Jems are here for you. We got you. Please give Pops kisses from us.

[@PrettyMommy798]

Jemima as a Jem I say this wholeheartedly that we love you and support you In everything that you do, and it’s ok to be human and to take time for yourself and your family. We got ur back and we will be here for you. Love you girl keep making amazing content but also take time for you.

[@tiesmc]

Jemima, As a person who has gone through this. Take it a day at a time. We are here and praying for you! Take pictures and videos with your dad for your personal view. Give yourself GRACE, patience, and a break when you need it. You’ve got this!

[@creativityinspireddaily]

Jemima I lost my Daddy a year ago this past February. Girl go take care of Dad, enjoy every every moment and film him for you so you have it. My Daddy passed due to dementia but all of the moments I filmed of him are so invaluable. Please do this for you and your Daddy. Sending much love and much strength.

[@carolinepankey21]

Sis! Go take time with your dad. My dad died suddenly in a car accident and I would kill for another hour or day. So take ALLLLLLLLL the time you need. I love that you have boundaries because you are absolutely right your family and friends are not content

[@robinoconnor553]

I was a very late in life baby, so my family was much older than usual. I took care of my grandparents and my parents until they all passed. My mom went last and I was only 33. That was decades ago, and I still miss them terribly. I put my entire life on hold to help them, but I don't regret a minute of it. Take care of yourself too. You can't keep someone else warm by setting yourself on fire.

[@Yogaplantgirl]

Sis I am sending positive vibes to you and your family. Do what you need to do. There should be absolutely no judgement. 🙏🏾🧘🏽‍♀️

[@sholondaflynn6483]

Thank you for sharing your story with us, you definitely didn't have to. My heart goes out to you and your family. Take the necessary time you need to handle your family affairs. Family and yourself are priority, one. We will be here when you return. Sending prayers.🙏🏿 💐♥️

[@dyeuhrad]

Please take care of yourself and know that everything your feeling and saying is valid. We will always be here and we will always support you! Wishing the best for you and your family ❤️‍🩹

[@authenticallyapril]

Jemima girl true Jems know you're a daddy's girl. Take all the time you need to reset. We will be here when you return no matter how long it takes. You come first. ❤❤❤

[@astoldbyasha]

I never comment but always watch but you showing up for us is you showing up for yourself. Give yourself grace to feel your feels and be there for your family but MOST importantly, be there for you. Fill your cup. Prayers and hugs to you and family!! 💜💜💜

[@LavenderAdefolalu]

This was really brave and vulnerable of you. I so wish you weren't hurting. I remember going back and forth between school and home when my father was sick. Not for the faint of heart. Praying for you, prioritize loving on yourself so you can be present for what really matters. We gon sop up whatever you put out, girl. Love you ❤

[@kekedazzledupbeautyyou2.044]

Praying for you and your father and family. I personally know what it’s like to have to change your life to care for a parent. My heart is with you. I’m asking God to cover you all during this journey. Sending love, hugs and kisses from Detroit

[@jovonhysantos4946]

Sending you a ton of love and light during this difficult time Jemima. Please take some time as hard as it may be to take care of yourself as well. Love you girl, you got this!! ❤🙏🏾💫

[@flyfiftytwo]

Praying for your dad. I could tell in that vlog that you spoke of and one recent that you were going through something. God will give you all the strength you need. Be as strong as you can for your dad. ❤❤❤❣

[@thekeishahustle]

Love you Jemima. I am praying for you and your father. Take the time you need. Post whatever you feel like. I’m here because I am supportive of black women creators. You have been a LIGHT for some of my darkest days. You owe us no excuse. I will be here if you return. I’ll be praying for you during these times.

[@AllThingsNella]

❤ Got here quickly!!! Oh no, I hope that everything works out well. Many prayers for your dad, and balancing your career.❤

[@giovannaj1981]

I think all content creators should tread lightly with sharing their personal life. Especially if you take comments seriously. You are still able to create but keep what is sensitive too you to yourself. As a viewer of don’t mind not being in the know of all someone business. People are just nosey. . I hope you find your way. Real Fans going to support you regardless.

[@Itsmekendra529]

I don’t think I’ve ever commented before now. Life is short and very precious. Go take care of your Dad and do life with him for as long as God grants you. You can use your platform to be a diary or just a platform to help you get some heavy ish off your chest to make sure your mental health is being looked after too. Don’t get on here and fake the funk and bottle up your emotions because that won’t be healthy for you. And as much as you might not want to be this vulnerable with us Gems, I’m sure there are others out here possibly going through a similar situation as you. I think I was given maybe three weeks when my father’s health took a turn for the worse. I was in such denial and spiraled for years. So get your feelings out and try to heal even while he’s living. Your cross country vlogs and life in the A can resume later. Sending you much love!

[@chenesehenderson5194]

Jemima when we get older it's our responsibility to take care of our parents my prayers are with you and your family sending much love

[@tmoni7839]

Jemina I am rooting for you and your family and I hope your father gets better and that you can transition back home 🏠 smoothly. Take it one day at a time and just be you as always because care of parents can be a challenge however, your dad will be thankful that you were by his side 🩷🩷🙏🏼🙏🏼 virtual hugs 🫂 and we are praying for you. 🩷🩷🩷

[@ladyindeed]

Seeing the title, I knew it was about your Father! Praying for your Strength and Endurance during this time. Be near your Dad and love up on him as much as you can! Your real followers will always enjoy anything that you choose to share! We Love You, Sweetie, for being YOU!!! xoxoxo

[@pizzachick6884]

Hello. Please take care of your father. As we are their children to do so. Remember our parents took care of us. God says so, its the loving thing to do. You will have no regrets. ❤❤❤

[@latoyacalhoun6105]

God will bless you for the sacrifice you make to take care of your Dad. Your latter will be greater! Take care of your Dad and God will take care of you.

[@childcarechick]

Jemima… please be sure to film your dad for you! In the beginning, it may seem intrusive to him, but you’ll treasure them later. Trust me…I said goodbye to my Dad in 2008 and I still miss him every day! He was my rock and I am grateful for every memory.

[@kelz0974]

Sending prayers for you and your family. ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾 We love you, I'm in support of whatever you need to do for you and your family.

[@ALIMARIE76]

As a daddy's girl who lost her father less than 2 years ago...PLEASE follow your heart, and go back home to daddy. We'll still be here to support you wherever you are. Sending love and light!! ❤

[@shawnyaarthur5981]

Do what you must for you and your family. Those who are really in your corner will remain there. Some may be there in different ways. As a caregiver for my dad I understand totally. Prayer to you , your dad and your family!

[@GuadalupeBernabe5902]

I will keep you in my prayers as you take care of your dad. Also don’t forget to take care of yourself too. I do agree with @childcarechick who said to record moments with your dad for you.

[@2sweet408]

❤ 🙏🏾 hugs Jemima. Much respect to you. May God continue to bless you.

[@chikpea47]

I did the same thing moved to GA to care for my Dad quit my job packed my stuff. It was an honor to care for him and I would do it all over again. We love u Jemina you can do this. We Jems!!!!

[@bellerodriguez8979]

Queen, your not alone mama. I had to leave my home and country to take care my father's too. Depression and anxiety etc took a toll but even though the storm I'm trying to protect that lil bit of mental health. You're a human too mami. I'm going to pray for you and your fam. We love you! We want to see you good and happy and your fam too.

[@shanaecarter9850]

I support you dealing with what you need to deal with however you need to deal with it. I'm praying for you and your family, keep your head up ❤

[@deblove8539]

As you stated, you are human. You are living the life and everyday is not rainbows and sunshine. Take care of your father. We like see all parts of you not just the fun girl that we kee kee and haha with. Sending prayers for your strength while you navigate through this time. Be encouraged ❤

[@louisecurrie7419]

I am so so sorry you get nothing but love over here sis take care of yourself